CHAPTER 7 ME MY MINE The Mental Games Narcissists Play

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

I think the worst part of being with a narcissist is coming to the realization that the whole time they were playing with you.

[@kayfleming5180]

That’s the hardest part to conceptualize. The ability to deceive a person on such a level is demonic. To keep up a facade for years or even decades is beyond inhumane.

[@pattaylor8757]

Exactly I agree. It actually hurts. But it teaches you that Mental Illness is real. The narcissist is really weak emotionally they just disguise it.

[@jessicascreenwritingservices]

@@kayfleming5180 I know right! In my case it was only 3 months but the amount of damage was a lot to heal from. I can only imagine how people who have been with a narc for decades or married and had children with one are hurting.

[@jvonnebrown4748]

You are exactly right! They are very deceptive & deceitful! It hurts when you look back like this person being lying and never cared for me the entire time!!!

[@samanthasingh49]

It pains me cause i am going through the process of accepting i have been decieved we have 3 children and i now know about the narc i feel as though i can stop think bout the things he did pass a decade Sometimes i can not think clearly. That has damage me in every way and i am trying to find myself cause i lost it somewhere. Thank Yah i am still here finding knowledge.

[@BStressless]

Worst situation is to have children with a narcissist

[@ConfidentNotConceited]

Now you tell me😭

[@kimberly0717]

Sadly counting down to 18…

[@bonitasmith6064]

I couldn't imagine having a child with a demon in the flesh.

[@queenchica6623]

4 more years and our son will be 18🎉🎉🎉

[@nvaldez2000]

Thank God that didn't happen 🙏

[@Cupid_]

Once you deal with one you will be able to tell any narcissist that enters your life. They behave exactly the same way.

[@akeishaharris]

The lesson is to heal and not attract another one.

[@brandilocs4657]

Right their brains are so small so their tactics are very limited. Yawn!

[@delaw2xoxo269]

Completely the same way.

[@1111spiritualone]

I been with two. The second was really good so no I was fooled, there not all the same. Some are so good you won’t know for a few years.

[@KingdomWoman333]

I believe she means once you come to the realization that you were dealing with a narcissist you began to discover narcissists qualities and can discern other narcissist. I dealt with three before I discovered narcissism and now I can definitely discern one, not necessarily easily but when the Lords Spirit is within you you will know by their fruits. And if you love God you won’t be deceived because you’ll be so focused on His law and righteous path amen.

[@ministerwwoods]

Narcissists are definitely demons

[@bettykhuboni8758]

Absolutely...they have dark hearts 🖤

[@chrissemenko628]

​@@bettykhuboni8758They're possessed. And they'll pass their hateful demons onto us if we're not VERY careful.

[@77sunflowers]

The devil is the original Narcissist! Narcissistic people have his spirit in them.

[@nicholecornes1915]

Oh yes

[@anabautista8071]

Confusing others. *They would declare their love for you and will never follow up with action. *They treat you like they hate you. *They will humiliate you. *They apologize profusely but nothing ever changes. *When you begin to pull away, they make you feel guilty and accuse you of abandoning them. *

[@missmarymack3457]

Spot on

[@alonatomina7773]

Script of my last crazyship story 😂

[@charissemason8704]

Yes

[@dreaanas]

Bingo!!

[@doityourselfqueen]

I've never seen anyone who can talk themselves out of accountability like a narcissist. By the time you finish talking to them, you'll be done forgot what you were upset about. They'll make themselves the victim. Sad to know there are so many manipulative people are in the world hurting people 😢.

[@shahneezyswayyy8689]

Agree fully

[@Giftis2sing]

That’s what blows me away is how many narcissistic people are in the world 🌍 today. It makes it really hard and scary for single men and women like myself. 🙁😑

[@MikaJackson-ht8vv]

He telling the truth because I have experience once and never again!

[@lisadrayton2491]

@@shahneezyswayyy8689 EXACTLY!!!

[@shahneezyswayyy8689]

Like huh? Wtf just happened? Soooo because you're hurt I'm supposed to be hurt with you? What?! You blaming me because of blazey mf skip! When can i mf skip too. I'm hurt as well from my past but also working on ME!

[@TIGRESSA73]

Narcissist don't love themselves, which is why they keep jumping from one person to another, leaching off of everyone to feel complete. They use us as host's! They know they are lacking many things, but they are proud of how well they can manipulate so many women. It's a thrill to them. Stay away, get out, focus on healing yourself, and leave them alone!!

[@iamyolandamoore]

True

[@ms.j6989]

Well said! They will destroy anyone in their path to destruction. They hate themselves and take it out on you.

[@blaquebuttafly8149]

My God. The term “host” is fitting. Wow!

[@GodsGirl85]

Agreed. The leaching part. And there’s absolutely zero consistency or loyalty, whether there are children involved, marriage, etc. it doesn’t matter. When they’re ready to go, no one gets considered but them.

[@TIGRESSA73]

@Jade S. yes!! My sister's husband is a narcissist! He's horrible! He fuses all the time like a woman! Nags about everything. He doesn't like waiting in line. He blows off the handle about the slightest inconvenience. He only thinks about himself and his needs! My sister is stressed, overworked, overwhelmed, anxious, depressed and it's all because of that man!! Something happens to women that don't put their foot down. She's now a shell of who she used to be. He governs everything! She used to have a good job as a surgical tech, but he removed her, claiming they were making too much money and made her quit!!! She got breast implants to HIS liking, rushed her to make a decision about them too. She got really sick with covid, and we were all super worried, would you believe he got upset at her because by being sick, they were behind on their product, they have a business. She slept in the living room and not once did he check up on her to see how she was doing. She would call me telling me how scared she was because her oxygen levels were going down and she felt that her lungs and heart were getting weak. He thought she was just being dramatic!!! Fucking bastard I can't stand him! No one in our family liked him! He manipulates her. Buys her things and when he gets mad, he destroys them! Calls her all kinds of names when he gets mad. It's my sister's fault for putting up with him.. I'm tired of telling her to leave him. She complains about him alllll the time, from day 1 and it's been 14 years!!! I no longer entertain her bs. She has to feel the lack of support in order to really come to.

[@anabella4296]

When they are done with you ; you just fell drained 🥺

[@trinajohns6345]

When does that happen? I’ve been divorced 6 years and cannot get rid of him for more than a few months at a time and he’s back ( trying to be back anyway)🙄

[@anabella4296]

@Cle mentina Good morning beloved‼️ 🙏🙌 I was married for 15years and is a widow. I was not married to a narcissist. I was only speaking for a professional point of view. # MENTAL HEALTH NURSE # SUBSTANCE ABUSE REHABILITATION NURSE. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOURS .IJMN 🙌🙏

[@missmarymack3457]

@@trinajohns6345 stop entertaining him

[@nicholecornes1915]

Big time

[@trinajohns6345]

I was married to a narcissist 8 years . Divorced. . Never knew him . Like being married they’re present but you’re very much alone . He was extremely generous tho .. other than that .. horrible/ empty / liar / cheater… his eyes would be black most times

[@pat4502]

Sounds like my ex-husband

[@hs-qk9qf]

Yup, the black eyes...just null and void.

[@kimberly0717]

He was probably generous during the love bomb phase and when he was trying to stay in your good graces..also to look good to others.

[@ladybugbrack2834]

​@@kimberly0717 💯

[@1010QUEEN7]

The eyes told me what I needed to know

[@brandilocs4657]

I'm proud to be a narcissist's nightmare! Ain't nobody breaking my brain.

[@haveninvestre9474]

Can you elaborate on this?

[@pinnakal1]

And no one believes the victim. They think we’re bitter or delusional.

[@oppsdoll3891]

It has been an extremely hard time. I have two children with a man who is a Narcissist. He took me through hell for 21 years until I woke up and realized what he is. Please Pray for me

[@SunnnySkies]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😮

[@msrochellaqueen]

If the children are still underage do the best you can to avoid the NARC, they will manipulate and poison any relationship connected you. Just ghost them If that NARC Anit bothering you don’t ever bother them period….

[@delaw2xoxo269]

You will get better. I know it's hard but you must keep moving forward in tears. I also have two children and I put up with him for 30 years. and looking back I'm glad he left me when my kids were young because I was able to raise our two beautiful children that are truly good young adults.

[@lydiapraise3904]

Same here

[@lauriemorgan4373]

🙏 🙏 🙏

[@bonitasmith6064]

I spent ten months with a narcissist in 2020, and I still get the chills. It was the most horrific and confusing situation I had ever encountered in a relationship. I would never ever go through this again, because I was schooled well and that being said I thank God for allowing me to go through this relationship, because I am wiser and definitely know the signs and the demon that comes with the narcissist. We are different, but I truly can't understand how someone can be with a narcissist for a long period of time. If you are in a close relationship with God I believe you won't be because the Holy Spirit is going to set you free if you are living a life in Christ. If you are practicing fornication and that person is a narcissist Satan is a happy camper, because he has you where he wants you. Please leave ASAP, it will only get worse.

[@tmichele8922]

Real talk

[@Mantras-and-Mystics]

Sooo glad you got out of this situation. ❤️ Sending love and hugs. XX

[@blaquebuttafly8149]

Yes, it will get worse.

[@JudionSmith]

Your post sounded like I wrote it. I spend 10 months with a narcissist also. I was out of there before the 1 year mark. I loved the guy but couldn't put myself through it anymore. The signs were clear. He had some deep rooted issues that had nothing to do with me. I love me too much to keep in my space such level of toxicity and disruptive state. It was a lesson well learnt. I am stronger and more resilient. My pain wasn't wasted. Cheers to our freedom. x

[@bonitasmith6064]

@@JudionSmith Hallelujah and Amen 🙏🏽 Thanks for sharing.

[@annaa6259]

28:30- love bomb is an intentional process of creating emotional addiction. This is so spot on - love bomb its a trap

[@Ann-pn9or]

I was married to one for 33 years. He had the preacher fooled, the 15 counselors we went to over the years..everyone in the community thought he was such a good man, and I was the crazy one! I finally left and now he's sick all the time, seeking a doctor to give him a pill to make him young again. He called me every name in the book. I knew he had a problem because he couldnt look in the mirror, but I didnt know what it was. Now I know. Thank you!

[@kimberly0717]

Sounds like at that time, the counselors weren’t aware of this personality disorder as many are now. Thank God for advancements in the mental health field. I’m sure a few may have thought back and had realizations..you know your truth. That’s what I had to realize eventually.

[@diamondgold5277]

​@@kimberly0717 Right because at time us Females were conditioned to stay quiet and put up with mess some women was, but this Nation Wide Internet platform, we learned that all Females of All Races are Suffering from Men at the hands of Narrissist Abuse. At the same time it's Female Narcissist Also they act no different than Men it's some Ruthless Female's out there, so Good Men are being treated Bad by Narrissist Females and Us Good Women are being treated Bad by Narrissist Men. It's a weird rollercoaster of deception

[@CoachTinaRane]

I was married to one for 2 years tooooo long. Yes, he had the pastor fooled to and other members of the church.

[@kimberly0717]

@@CoachTinaRane many of them go into church and try to obtain “status”. Anything to “give the good guy” impression from people. Behind closed doors is where WE see the truth…

[@casperinsight3524]

I learned the hard way ~ don't delay your stay Checkout time is today

[@annaa6259]

This ! 👏 Confusing others is nothing but the entertainment of the narcissist. Demonic spirit of confusion. My last lesson! People if you feel confused about anything with anyone- you are being played. Red flag- run for exit!

[@Mimakeyboard]

I feel confused. So I just go, access is denied.

[@missmarymack3457]

So true! God is NOT the author of confusion

[@JustinaOnugbo]

​@@missmarymack3457absolutely

[@QueenOfSheba_]

They put you down, and then try to lift you up... You can't be happy without their approval.

[@ButterCookie1984]

Yes. They want to be your everything, your God.

[@queenkeesh8660]

That’s exactly what I felt like I had a migraine headache dealing with narcissistic and I felt confused

[@Giftis2sing]

Wow this is so spot on!! When U said, they start to treat U like they hate U. So true! I remember telling my EX one time that he treated me like I was his enemy. It was so crazy! Back them I just couldn’t figure out what was going on with him and why he would treat me that way when I was nothing but good to him.

[@ButterCookie1984]

I flat out asked my ex once "Damn, do you HATE me??"

[@shirleyguinyard8183]

I told my Narcissist Husband the same thing he treats me like I'm the Enemy and he hate women he never stayed in a relationship with anyone he loves being around men

[@ButterCookie1984]

@@shirleyguinyard8183 Yep. They really hate women. And that MGTOW / Red Pill movement encourages men to consider being with each other, in a slick way.

[@77sunflowers]

Or they compete with you... I mean what the heck.. we are meant to be in a partnership, supporting and helping each other not competing with each other!!

[@1111spiritualone]

Yea I went thru all that.

[@marydaniels8991]

PRAY FIRST!! THEN RUN RUN RUN!! ❤ LOVE YOURSELF!!

[@charissemason8704]

❤ thank you

[@kelleyware6939]

I was with a narcissist for 7 years but I didn’t know that’s what he was until I was reading something about narcissists and realized he had ever characteristics listed. It was then I planned my exit. I am so free and grateful to God for giving me strength to get away from his tactics evilness.

[@takeshawalbrook8798]

Bishop Blakes, thank you. God sent me to your channel at a turning point in my life. Your wisdom and guidance have reminded me of who I truly am and empowered me. I am God's daughter.

[@zandrasaahir8916]

The Narcissist is an extremely dangerous person with the control, manipulation, devaluing, discrediting tactics. I was with one and didn't realize it until I started hearing about this behavior and discovered his sickness was causing me poor health.

[@tennillewhite9509]

On a hamster wheel.. Will literally bring out the worst in you! So glad i left... Been very peaceful since🙌

[@annaa6259]

19:12 when the smoke of love bomb clears the reality of bondage and entrapment appears !!! First emotional addiction and then withdrawal

[@telesialoyd8084]

Who teaches these men to do this….all the above was done to me….I’m still trying to HEAL!!!!

[@Rev311]

Heard of The 48 Laws of Power? That's what they're after: power and control. It's a spiritual battle. (Eph 6:12). 2 Tim 3:1-5 v5 tells us to turn away from these. Our Father has a protective love for His children.

[@candicenoel5082]

Some women are narcs too, not just men. Happy healing ❤️‍🩹

[@ruthkaunda3343]

Word on time 🙌🏾🙌🏾😭😭😭

[@beautyshines2124]

You're right Ptr. Blake that their words never match their actions. They are hot and cold. They make you confused because they played mind games. They are energy suckers and stalkers... All you said are true.👍 I'm so grateful that GOD is my PROTECTOR that these evil people cannot manipulate my life. I believed that they will reap all their wrong deeds soon because God will do the avenge.🙏

[@cynthiatramil461]

They are takers

[@iamyolandamoore]

I experienced this first hand and this is the truth!! It's THE ABSOLUTE WORST THING you can experience

[@iamyolandamoore]

@Cle mentina your criticism is indicative of a person who is either a narcissist OR you have been COMPLETELY brainwashed by one. I will NEVER take responsibility for another person's behavior or treatment of me. Once I saw what was happening I got out....BUT under no circumstances will I STOP calling a narcissist what it is A WHOLE ENTIRE DEMON SENT FROM THE PIT OF HELL! Enjoy your day

[@missmarymack3457]

The mind games are horrendous

[@sg2895]

​@clementina33You need to stop victim blaming.

[@aurorarene9909]

One of the best videos i have seen on youtube about narcissists. Thank you Mr. Blakes.

[@sonyasew2]

Treat you like they hate you😮

[@sweetpea2839]

His words and actions showed me he hated me thought I was so weak and stupid sending me flowers would win me back.

[@tammyfitzgerald5336]

Some people are loosing everything this is an extreme issue feel so badly for people’s 😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@nicholecornes1915]

Yes alot of us are hurt alot

[@carmimoultrie1448]

Profound statement: nobody can beat a narcissist when it comes to apologizing. 💯💯💯

[@dindaroelovesyou]

"It can be Puzzling"..true Indeed....."consumed in the confusion"...true Indeed.."their entertainment is your confusion" true Indeed. Take your time before you just want someone because they are giving you attention. You should give yourself the attention you feel you need so a narcissists attention won't impress you.💌

[@queenofthesouth4205]

The Narcs definitely likes to keep you confused and puzzled🤮🤮

[@casperinsight3524]

You're invested, mind, body & spirit and they're playing make believe Once you see its all a game its easier to finally leave

[@scrillscrill1099]

In 13 yrs this dude has NEVER apologized to me for anything. He has caused so much upset and pain but never admits wrong doing.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Not 1 apology in yrs. 😢

[@malessiaweatherby3893]

Yep...so true!😢

[@ΑνώνυμηΠαναγιώτα]

They afraid apology like a demon the holy water

[@latashaperry783]

I was in a mental/emotional relationship something I don't wish on anyone. The narcissist that I was involved with for almost 5 years blamed me for everything he never took accountability for anything. He never apologized for his actions he would only see my REACTIONS that was caused by his ACTIONS turnaround and block me, not speak to me for days sometimes week(ghosting). He never apologized for his behaviors. I felt he hated me. Then the humiliation and embarassament eventually started. It got so bad I no longer shared things with my family and friends. I realized it was a lustful and manipulative relationship. I am still trying to heal and move on. Everything Bishop said is correct the gaslighting, manipulation, etc. God bless all.

[@missmarymack3457]

I know your pain.

[@alialialis3059]

Going through the EXACT SAME THING FOR 3 YEARS- I ACTED OUT BECAUSE HIS LACK OF CARE AND ACCOUNTABILITY. NO EFFORT OR RECIPROCATION yet he asked for small favors and I wasn't getting anything out of it- I'm trying to leave him and forget but it feels overwhelming and my heart breaks anytime I think about him I keep blocking him then unblocking 😢

[@Highclass-l3m]

Me too healing God bless❤

[@lonnasingletary6289]

Wow, wow, wow !!!! This could not have been said any better. Thank you very much for this.

[@Jacuzzijuiceered]

I so appreciate your kind gentle and straight forward words. If it weren’t for you I would still be wrapped up in the games played by the narcissist I was involved in. You speak directly to me and I appreciate you! Love and blessings to you and Lisa!

[@terrijoyce8362]

This was meant for me at this time. Got one in my life now and I have been thinking all day I need to just walk away. Confirmation!

[@sharkaracouncil8812]

Me as well I'm tired 😫

[@TsholofeloBusakwe]

I walked away yesterday.

[@BrendaBaBoom]

DON’T ALLOW YOURSELF to be fooled and flattered by love bombing. Date and collect data on this individual before becoming emotionally engaged.🧐

[@onitawatson2276]

Mr. Blake’s this man had me in spiritual counseling for three months we will go to church every Sunday. We would pray every Morning. This man was a Sunday school teacher in prison he often will preach the word of God he claim to be holy than thou. The whole time in spiritual counseling, he was cheating with several women. I nearly lost my mind, but I have God on my side. He still continues to think that he can manipulate me. He’s out to destroy me because I’m the one who pulled the mass off.

[@angiebrown6524]

Turn up apologising with flowers and wine😂

[@mzfemininity9195]

Exactly 💯 😂😂😂

[@Mandooze]

Yea my entire family is narcissists. Just hide ur gifts until its ur time then leave. Just leave.

[@cynthiatramil461]

You are telling the truth-

[@missevie432]

When does a narcissistic person ever apologize? 🤔 I've not known these to ever say I'm sorry or I apologize Can someone please tell me what would this look like...

[@chereeB-hummingbird]

14months out Thank the Lord ✨️🙏🏾🕊 We have to get this message out into the world 🌎 Thank you Brother Rc Blakes✨️💙

[@yes_i_said_it_]

Yeah if he hadn't confused me he would've been boring, I guess. The whole thing is such a stupid waste of time. This creep was in my life for 11 years. SMH

[@LindaVanGalder-jt6yf]

Yes you will never know where you stand with a narcissist. Regardless. I have cut off my sister and I noticed I started soaring and flourishing afterwards. Whenever she would be in my life I felt my power leaving me and felt confused. Now I am free. I still love her. But to be me I had to leave this relationship. If I cannot be me without offending someone that person has to go. She sent a bday card to my son today and I said thanks I love you and I'm praying for you. Nothing back from her. You see unless she can control me she doesn't want me. There is no authenticity. She has some narcissistic traits and I am in therapy. She refuses therapy. I cannot help her but I will not let her pull me down and drown me to save her life. No no no. I have a right to a happy drama free life with those who love me and I can love them back. Love shouldn't hurt like that.

[@annaa6259]

ending - You are on top and going higher- I love this man! Healings and love to all

[@Giftis2sing]

I love when he says that at the end of the video! I always say it with him. Makes me feel empowered to go higher!! 🙌🏾🥰

[@annaa6259]

@@Giftis2sing yes! His energy is magical ❣️

[@thechristinemarieshow]

This is heavy pastor and also very scary. My mother tried to warn me of these types of people and I thought she was crazy. I’m so thankful for this video and I had to call my mother and thank her for her prayers and concern. This a serious mental illness and I’m not qualified to deal with this, so I’m going to continue to stay away from this person.

[@joyful-e320]

Thank you for this. I so appreciate your gift to the Body.

[@rockingmygray]

He’s the truth and he’s speaking truth…💯% real truth ⛪️😇👍🏾😀👍🏾

[@KKP20111]

So real and true message! 💯

[@hs-qk9qf]

They are real life vampires.

[@blazeme5389]

I thank God for helping me get out of a relationship with a narcissist! I am just learning this type of person exists. What an awful way to be!

[@user-ud2qx5ci1j]

You have outlined my life in the past 5 years. This was confirmation. Thank you for the continued life lessons.

[@susanwheatley3326]

That's why we need a CLOSE RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD💯‼️🤲🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾👏🏾☝🏾🕊️🌹💪🏾👑💝✌🏾🤞🏾🙄😅😁☺️😌YESSSSSS,TY,BISHOP,GOD, JESUS HOLY NAME AMEN HALLELUJAH GLORY TO GOD BLESS YOU ALLLLL🌍🌎🌏

[@rosalynjolly2565]

Yes

[@ladyvirgo013]

I'm living this hurtful mess right now,I've been married to this Evil one for 12 years. Devastating. He discarded me 3 weeks ago, even his eyes looked dark

[@theresanatiemumba9962]

Bishop you are unveiling us, everyday making us better. Always know that your messages are not in vein.

[@casperinsight3524]

When they make you feel bad you've been had.

[@Micha63857]

Met one years ago, evil charm, hurt and abuse you with a smile. All about him and what he can get from you. One word to describe him: hollow and truly empty inside. I ran after 1 year.

[@ccandice78]

They are really something else who knows knows. Don’t get feelings involved with them

[@blaquebuttafly8149]

Thank you God for using Bishop Blake as a vessel to spread this much needed message. What’s mind blowing is the scriptures that coincide with the behavior of narcissism and gaslighting. I can not thank you enough. 👏🏾🙏🏾

[@jacquelinelee7522]

Being with narcissist has been, THEE WORST REALTIONSHIP I" VE EVER BEEN IN,,, NOW LEARNING HOW & WHAT TO DO TO GET OUT OF THE MARRIAGE

[@Cellia836]

When I first met mine he claimed to love me so much and then he slowly started behaving like he completely hated me. He had my all there for a while, until I started seeing the truth of what he really is. It took me a long time to break away and get away from him. Anymore if we do talk anymore he runs me into the ground anymore and I just can't take it anymore. I know damn well I'm not a bad person at all. I have been trying to stay away from him and stay in no contact. I have no interest at all to talk to him at all. He makes me feel depressed and like shit these days. I can't stand him at all. I'm at the point where I completely hate him anymore.

[@dragonmom495]

My ex is a textbook covert narcissist. It's been a long learning road.

[@aurorarene9909]

They are the hardest to spot. I now realize after ten years I have a narcissistic relative. You just know something is off and you can't have any kind of give and take with these people.

[@mariasewell3825]

I was married to one for 11 years and I never knew what I was in until I divorced him is when I realized I was in a toxic relationship so the word is empty words when they speak to you. It means nothing he would say all I have is my word, but that was all he had.

[@1010QUEEN7]

He lied to me every day all day for 38 years all lies he's a real demon 👹😈👺

[@1010QUEEN7]

0+0=0 for 38 long years smh

[@sarala1jan]

Sir, good lighting, camera has nice focus on your face/blured background, perfect camera setup. All these setup are important for successful vlog.

[@Wisdomisfruitfulness5457]

Everything Pastor spoke of I’ve been through with my ex husband, and I try to tell my children to study this kinda spiritual warfare, so they can spot red flags 🚩 immediately!

[@bruna8663]

I went through all of that and more, came into my life like a knight in a shining Armour and little did I know….

[@Neanksecond2none6905]

Thank you God for Pastor,Father RC Blake's I'm so woke I could never be the old version again ❤

[@RepentTimeIsAtHand]

Yes! Right on point!! Grateful to you for this teaching. My daughter is malicious narcisssist and has taken my grandson from my husband and myself My grandson is 7 yrs old, I have had him daily since his birth. He only has spent the night with my daughter or gone to a function for her to take a photo op. She will not even let him speak to us. I pray Heavenly Father bring my daughter to humility swiftly! My grandson loves the Lord and my daughter tells him..."There is no God" Dangerous ground for my daughter to be on with God Almighty I have heard through children that have around my grandson that he is mourning me as I am mourning. My daughter slanders me , I am not afraid of her. No weapon formed against me shall prosper. I am praying for her soul. Pray for my grandson. I am asking for my grandson to come back to us. Give me strength Lord. May the will of our Heavenly Father be done in Jesus name by the shed blood of Lord Jesus, through the power of the Holy Spirit.

[@nicolataylor536]

Thank You...Mr. Blakes

[@mariono244]

How do you get closure with a narcissist? I know speaking to them will never help

[@plumlocs]

All Facts!!!!

[@terrimehring2137]

Thank you ,🌞

[@weinighebreindriase7698]

The devil is defeated by heavenly king.What ever the devil try he will fall.God doesn’t sent his warriors to test with out give them the answer ❤

[@Rose-ld9cm]

Amen🙏🏽 Lets Talk About It! In The Name Of Jesus.

[@vanessamendoza6908]

I have been in a 2 year relationship. I love him. We were seeing each other and communicateing regularly but now it's only when he wants, he use to make an effort now it's only texts messages usually emojis only. I pull back, but he leans in. Occasionally, he will do these things for me: help me financially, give me money, help me around the house like mow the grass put together a bunkbed. Then he will disappear and not communicate but only when he wants. He has never been abusive not in speech or action but refuses to make plans, or keep plans, or voice call or make any effort in the relationship, but says he cares about me and misses me. He says he's going through hardships, is damaged and he can't communicate regularly, he says he just doesn't operate that way. I am exhausted. What am I dealing with?

[@BethanyNes77]

Spot on biblical truth I’ve had experienced with a Christian man with narcissistic personality disorders particularly high educated. I pray 🙏 GOD to show me that man wow this teaching explains it all. Women you got to pray 🙏 for GOD to show you that man and brother you too got to pray the same.

[@leagueG5]

Great message Pastor Blakes! So grateful for your channel. ❤

[@Chenaiandchenea01]

All my childhood then went straight into a 9 year relationship/marriage as well same dynamic going thru divorce now feeling better than ever😭😭😬

[@inspireMeLoriLee]

ive been married two years to an individual that YOU DESCRIBE PERFECTLY: I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS, and YOUR TRUTH. Thank you . its very comforting to me, to listen to your wisdom. You are a GOD SENT. thank you

[@sljcsu]

What if the person who is a narcissist is a parent? Where do you place them in your life, and still honor thy mother and father?

[@Adoseof_Ri]

I would say Honor them by not speaking bad on them,Pray for them and love them from a distance. Forgive them as well. Set boundaries ❤

[@tonihunter3853]

Everything he says is truth.. lord

[@teshamia4258]

I wish I knew & or was taught years ago this should be focused on in school without a doubt ty RC

[@cozymelodiccorner]

Thanks very much for this Wonderful Message 🙏🏽

[@lolachlih3136]

Im so thankful for your videos that have helped me along my journey being with a narcissist was pure hell nothing but horrific and very confusing.

[@1010QUEEN7]

I already know 38 years of pure hell from that demon

[@lolachlih3136]

@@1010QUEEN7 it definitely takes a toll on a person and wow 38 years? I was with mine for only 8 years and had two kids with him,left that demon now for almost 3 years one of my best decisions I've made!

[@missstarrynight7736]

I was raised by narcissistic grandparents and narcissistic parents. I suffer from C-PTSD in a result. As an adult I immediately fell a victim to a narcissistic employer and narc. boyfriend. I lost my health and my hope for better life. I know God can do everything, but I really wonder if I could be genuinely loved by someone. I'm a deeply hurt, broken person. I can't work due to my health issues. I'm in my early 40s and... yeah.... It's hard to believe that the best is yet to come. Please, pray for me. I desperately need physical and emotional healing. And I need to learn what does it mean to be loved, also loved by God.

[@Proppacarmel]

😢 I understand what you mean. May God continue to bless you.

[@tiffanycalloway5299]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@ministerwwoods]

Blessings Bishop and family 🙏🏾

[@gc2137]

Passive Aggression

[@jeanetteadams5095]

Thanks you for sharing this information I will pass it on 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@be-you-tea-is-full9207]

Oh im waiting for that EXIT STRATEGY ❤

[@weinighebreindriase7698]

Genesis 3:1-5 after they ate the fruit they disconnected with God and they lose their abundance.Every thing who connected with them come to nothing.🙏🙏🙏