This channel is so valuable for people who struggle with being around others. My daughter is super socially awkward and watches these and has really come out of her shell a lot.
@lemonwater71694 жыл бұрын
The Amazing Bacon aww that’s super nice 😊
@joWorld6644 жыл бұрын
I can totally relate. I feel like these videos help because they people to think of charisma like a science, rather than an intrinsic characteristic. If it's a characteristic it feels like something I can't control and it makes me nervous.
@homad95314 жыл бұрын
Good to hear dude, hope she overcomes her social awkwardness
@AmazingBacon4 жыл бұрын
@@homad9531 she's 13, so im sure that's part of it as well. Watching these with her though, I've seen her confidence grow a lot because she's a very analytical type person. Like the person above said, these videos make it more of a problem to overcome and not as much an emotional barrier to face.
@homad95314 жыл бұрын
@@AmazingBacon wish I can be as her,I watch these vids I gain confidence and boom back to normal lol, good for her
@user-bz1wh6xe4m4 жыл бұрын
0:43 - #1: Set a playful tone from the start. 2:45 - #2: Use a self burn with no heat. 4:23 - #3: Tell present tense stories with a variety of voices. 6:00 - #4: Use a "cliffhanger" pause. 7:50 - #5: Be a likeable listener.
@siljanen15544 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@LaLaBlahBlahh4 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!
@WT_Neptune4 жыл бұрын
Thanks, 'that guy'
@allarkuus76613 жыл бұрын
And now add the context also :)
@Handmadeluxory3 жыл бұрын
I love when people do that I don’t have to watch the full video
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate28624 жыл бұрын
Silent confidence will take you along way. Showing your confident without saying a word is an extremely powerful tool.
@raspberrymist4 жыл бұрын
But first you have to be confident.
@miklosernoehazy86784 жыл бұрын
... realizing this is the first step in mastering the "The Quiet Swagger"...
@kzkzlzkzlz73374 жыл бұрын
@@miklosernoehazy8678 hhh
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate28624 жыл бұрын
@@miklosernoehazy8678 that's right!
@user-lb5ph5ke7d4 жыл бұрын
How to be that?
@earnieboy543 жыл бұрын
Funny enough, I learned some of this in a communications class in college. The professor was a failed comedian and joked about it. The class loved him for his lessons on life and honesty in communication. At the end of the semester I asked about his style of teaching and comedy. He replied: “use FUNNY, not damaging, self deprecating humor to get the audience on your side.” I’ve also heard Kurtis Conner say this too on his channel as well.
@justonegoodvideo3 жыл бұрын
That's a good point. I just found it quite to apply it practically though, but O guess you gotta start slow
@greg_2163 жыл бұрын
If it's something you would tell your closest friend without shame, then let it rip. It absolutely helps if you're not a piece-of-crap person who harms or abuses others (not damaging material). As an old fart, I have to say that life is short, and beating around the bush or trying to hide imperfections is a silly exercise. The sooner you get over that, and the more honestly you can interact with your world, the more you'll attract genuine people.
@aaronsmith48063 жыл бұрын
I get that but I have made comments that are jabs at my weaknesses but I can tell it came off as being insecure or self esteem being low. I never utilize it well. I feel I know what I’m very good at and know where I’m weak and unfortunately a lot of things I am weak in are things I need to do daily at work but I balance it with also being able to showcase where I bring value
@Romon1112 жыл бұрын
How to differentiate between funny and self deprecating humour?
@imhere6532 жыл бұрын
@@Romon111 Ask yourself this: Would you make the comment/joke you have in mind about another person to that same person's face? If the answer is "No way!"-don't use it. You'll find you're hyper-diligent about potentially hurtful comments when it comes to other people. The self policing is built in with this exercise.
@QuestionEverythingButWHY4 жыл бұрын
“Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.” ― Dale Carnegie
@SNinjaQK4 жыл бұрын
how to win friends
@SourceExclusive4 жыл бұрын
@@SNinjaQK True, but don't let that create the dynamic or else the conversations will only center around them and they won't be interested in your situation
@skcrd68164 жыл бұрын
How to win friends and influence people, my fav book of all time.
@SNinjaQK4 жыл бұрын
@@skcrd6816 I didn't apply any of it's information cos I don't even like people
@skcrd68164 жыл бұрын
@@SNinjaQK I don't think you don't like people ,I think you're just scared of connecting with them which in this case we're on the same side of life.
@peter-paulkutschlojenga73363 жыл бұрын
What helped me a lot when telling a story to people is telling the story not just in events that happened but also what was going through my mind. Like instead of saying something like ''I jumped over the fence, saw a guard dog and started running'' which would be what happened, you say ''So I jump over this fence, not thinking much of it, you know easy done this since primary school, I land and I hear something. In my mind I was thinking about all the possibilities of what it could've been, then I see a dog walking towards me, and in my mind this the biggest more scary looking dog I've ever seen, So I have a quick second of realization and then I start running like my life depends on it'' Same story through events, but one is so much better to listen to because it makes you feel like you're there because the listener knows the emotions that were going on throughout the story.
@aaronsmith48063 жыл бұрын
That was a great explanation. I think I need to use this more with story telling.
@CJ-xe2wi2 жыл бұрын
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@southpark6452 жыл бұрын
That can work but my father does that a lot and I often get irritated with him pretty quickly lol
@LiveHappy762 жыл бұрын
Thank you for taking the time to make and share this fantastic, practical example!
@CJ-xe2wi2 жыл бұрын
And people think I give too much detail!
@CaseyBurnsInvesting4 жыл бұрын
This channel gives you the answers to questions you’re too afraid to ask.
@sheepgray084 жыл бұрын
Dude I see you commenting everywhere hahaha Had to say something.
@CaseyBurnsInvesting4 жыл бұрын
sheepgray08 omnipresence 👁
@animationboy15654 жыл бұрын
2 MINUTES AGO
@animationboy15654 жыл бұрын
Wow
@migo77414 жыл бұрын
LIKE WHAT
@rafiquipug Жыл бұрын
CAN I ADD ONE? ☺️ look at his eyes and lips. He always speaks with humor in his eyes and a slight smile like he’s holding back laughing. Psychology shows, if someone is holding emotion, it causes the audience to feel the emotion more (most of the time). That’s why comedians hold themselves back. Or seeing someone’s face twitch before crying makes the audience cry. Fox’s eyes have a stare, and the way he positions his mouth, is great for voice and tone for maximum effect. Great video
@pvtrichardsonbr4 жыл бұрын
“No one cares if he has small legs” Gym bros: “SHAAAME
@gabriel_kaam_knr4 жыл бұрын
do you even lift Broooo
@righteousmasculine3 жыл бұрын
@@gabriel_kaam_knr lol ion know but I do lol
@qtommyb3 жыл бұрын
"lift with your legs"
@michaelcraig94492 жыл бұрын
But they would only get on his case, and it would possibly mean something to him, if he was known for lifting, or trying to lift in contests, or be a big time pro in some sports, or something. If he was known for something totally different it would not matter
@shawnd9803 жыл бұрын
One thing about Jamie is that he is a naturally funny guy. He doesnt have to force it like some other people do.
@jobiazgarza95713 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. He is literally a comedian, so his ability to tell captivating stories and hold your attention is very strong.
@SKYSAW593 жыл бұрын
So you know him personally then??
@mgreene3003 жыл бұрын
An incredible comedian, actor, singer, dancer, athlete, super smart, a good looking dude. The list goes on. Most of us don't even have one thing going for us that's anywhere near his level
@alienator46843 жыл бұрын
@@SKYSAW59 How does what they said even remotely imply that? Just stop. 😂
@Fm25duytorsch3 жыл бұрын
That's the thing, if I try emulating any of this, it probably will come out forced and awkward
@thetravelgoods27603 жыл бұрын
My mother was/is a very socially awkward and she used me as her shield…as a result I always walk into rooms with a smile, my presence is immediately known! Once I went to a fb group football party with people I only knew from fb and never met in person! I was so nervous but when I walked through the door I was smiling and I began clapping and stomping my feet saying “ the champ is here” like Muhammad Ali 🤣🤣 that got everyone smiling and laughing and my presence actually got the party started ! Little do people know I’m always terrified when I enter an already filled room!
@LiveHappy762 жыл бұрын
Awesome story! Thank you for the honesty and for sharing :)
@digitalmarketingsupply2 жыл бұрын
Nice🙌🥰
@MyB1AncestorsWantMe2SPELLitOut2 жыл бұрын
👑 🙌🏽❤️ 👑
@llowebb2 жыл бұрын
Many forget or don’t know Jamie Foxx started off as a comedian. This is a result of years hone his skill of storytelling for comedic effect.
@ShubhamBajajOriginals4 жыл бұрын
I've been using these tips, especially the hand gesture ones, in my KZbin videos and I have felt a huge boost in my confidence and energy. It's much more draining to fake energy than being actually active and in the moment.
@lovingmemories89024 жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOOOOVE JAMIE!!! I’ve met him a few times in my lifetime and he’s the most consistent human I’ve ever met!
@hinata1ize4 жыл бұрын
As an introvert, this is the exact opposite of what I want. But I like these videos, so I'll watch.
@bingchilling094 жыл бұрын
Yea but being a better storyteller or being funnier are traits that are useful in life and i think everyone should aim for them
@intj_53984 жыл бұрын
Its so hard to be "normal".
@sosickandtiredofalltheneed5684 жыл бұрын
This is my nightmare.
@cevcena66924 жыл бұрын
You should emulate guys like Keanu Reeves then.
@codyh91554 жыл бұрын
"Introvert" is just a label, almost nobody is completely introverted or completely extroverted, its a spectrum. Too many people use the label "introvert" to put themsleves into a tiny box that they have to exist inside. They use it as an excuse every time the get nervous. Guess what? Extroverts are nervous too, they just force themselves to do it until the skill develops, just like it would for any classic "introvert". If you dont want to be the comedian center of attention like Jamie thats fine, but dont expect to become a charismatic magnetic individual if you cant talk, listen, and tell stories with confidence.
@addictaedtokookie1622 Жыл бұрын
#1: Set a playful tone from the start. (Be louder, more high energy, start by smiling every time you enter a new room) but remember to switch to being genuine and back to playful Great storytelling: #2: Use a self burn with no heat. (Stay away from major insecurities) #3: present tense stories #4: a variety of voices (exaggeration to increase humour helps too!) #5: smile priming (smile with your eyes etc.) #6: punchline pauses #7: Use a "cliffhanger" pause. (Mid sentence) - to not get cut off, have your hand up #8: Be a likeable listener. (“Talk about)
@aubreyyoung46102 жыл бұрын
The snap of the Spanx at 3:37 was when I remember losing it when I originally saw this interview. Jamie is one of the most talented people in the world; stand up comedian, improv comedian, producer, singer, songwriter, Oscar-level actor, and one of the best storytellers I've ever heard. What I like most about him is no matter how big he is, he treats other celebrities like he is a fan of theirs. He never takes himself too seriously and is not afraid to fan-boy in front of his peers whose work he really enjoys.
@alecrodriguez50372 жыл бұрын
I used to be a very naturally charismatic person. I nearly completely forgot about all the slight mannerisms I had, thanks to depression, covid, a lot of hard things that a lot of hard people face. I’ve been going through your videos like pringles haha. But really, good stuff from y’all thank you; I see improvements already!
@camhaw Жыл бұрын
You can get back to your old self, Alec! That's who you truly is, a naturally charismatic person! Remember that!! Live life fully, funny, and beautifully! Be well!
@alecrodriguez5037 Жыл бұрын
@@camhaw aww thank you random person, that’s so sweet! 🥲
@cycy9154 Жыл бұрын
Hard people need not proclaim themselves as such.
@sharebear91654 жыл бұрын
A self burn has no heat. Ahh... I’ve been doing it wrong the whole time.
@AndrewAleSininingFajardo14 жыл бұрын
HAHAHA! Ironic.
@CalculusDaddy4 жыл бұрын
Good example!
@miguelohara95344 жыл бұрын
Yes, me too! Sometimes I'll make a joke like "maybe thats why I'm so lonley/boring/ugly ect" and jokes like that doesn't usually get me huge laughs
@ojalara39373 жыл бұрын
Lmao. But see... your getting it
@thelegacyofgaming29283 жыл бұрын
@@miguelohara9534 Because people can relate to those jokes a bit too well and it doesn't feel good to laugh at themselves.
@amarisabstractmind66354 жыл бұрын
This guys channel is way better than any “self help pickup artist romance guru”
@codemiesterbeats2 жыл бұрын
It is sound advice it seems. I am usually skeptical about 'self help' type gurus but this channel and Coach Corey Wayne are the only ones I really watch
@LaLaBlahBlahh4 жыл бұрын
The burn with no heat thing is interesting... I’ve definitely said things before which have had too much heat and wondered why the convo took a weird turn where people have to say ‘noo that’s not true ’ or something 😅 love these videos
@BlackMarketBaby3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, agreed. If the 'no heat' part wasn't emphasized so much I guarantee that many people (including myself) would have attempted this with a comment that either came across as fishing for a compliment or self-hatred, both of which can make people very uncomfortable instead of at ease.
@ABandCalledStoned2 жыл бұрын
I usually agree. :) Lol
@stevepadilla97293 жыл бұрын
Great Person as well away from the cameras. he offered a passenger or asked for a passenger to get an upgrade like they airlines were going to do for him. He didn't ask for one and he was on his way home from Vegas show. We all were in line and when the crew asked him if he would want to go with them he can have first class, but then for a few minutes when Jamie asked for that request, they ended up, upgrading the both of them. I did hear that he doesn't like to fly and rather have a limo ride for 5-hours to Vegas, it was cool to see him twice on a flight and not screaming: I AM JAMIE FOX. just seems he wants to fit into the crowed for conversations. Great Man, Great Comedian, Great Singer, Great Actor and even a better family man. I am blessed to know in my lifetime people that really care for people. One if them is Jamie Fox. Now if he could just learn to ride a bicycle, maybe I wouldn't mind riding with him. Ha Ha
@keiraadolph4423 жыл бұрын
Hello Steve you can manifest anything,with the help of Dr James, Mr James techniques are the best in Manifesting and blockage of negative energy..
@keiraadolph4423 жыл бұрын
Send him a message on hang out
@keiraadolph4423 жыл бұрын
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@13htorrespr2 жыл бұрын
So as a young boy and well into my early 20s, I used to be shy around new people and would have a difficult time "braking the ice" and starting up a conversation. I would actually become very defensive and would push people away...but the truth was, I wanted to relate to people and be more social...then, one day I decided to just be more spontaneous and use humor as a way to start up a conversation, I also developed the ability to "adjust on the fly" and change my tone or how "serious" I was given a particular scenario. I'd also poke some fun at myself and that was my way to say "hey, it's all good, we probably have more in common than we may think...let's talk." I noticed changes immediate and I now am able to relate to others, I am more confident, etc...little did I know that those "tricks" are actually taught and used by even celebrities. I can totally relate to this video and how Mr. Fox is able to engage others with just his "silliness."
@jalenbenwheat31923 жыл бұрын
I’m watching this and noticing my speaking habits, and how I could change and add things to it from this video. KZbin really got people out here learning
@markwildphotography2 жыл бұрын
Just remember, he’s doing all that naturally, there’s no conscious physiological decisions here, just him being him. We shouldn’t overthink so much ✌🏻
@buzzard7202 жыл бұрын
No, its all planned mate, you totally miss the point.
@tnt75942 жыл бұрын
@@buzzard720 lol agreed and if anything it is simply his thought process behind/about the conversation.
@Brickwilliams2 жыл бұрын
it’s okay to overthink, just make sure you stay rational and logical.
@wisdom-for-all4 жыл бұрын
Good Energy is Contagious. Your energy introduces you before you speak 🖖
@WildMonk3334 жыл бұрын
100%
@VeloOfficialRV2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been so lonely for the past 2 years and I’m tearing up because I think this video has given me hope I’m being able to talk with people again, wish me luck :)
@luisterrust4 жыл бұрын
Radiating gratitude is the strongest force there is ❤️🌟
@izzojoseph23 жыл бұрын
I ALWAYS enter every meeting with ‘Hello Beautiful People!’. All the way up to the owner, they love it and it sets the tone for the day. I’m not a manager but people look to me for guidance. But that’s a whole other story, learning to defer to those with knowledge
@8675-__2 жыл бұрын
You stold that! From "Leave Everything and wander"....Italian couple about to have first baby in Italy.
@izzojoseph22 жыл бұрын
@@8675-__ - no. I don't even know that movie but I assure you, at 55, unless it's a friggin' old movie, they got it from me. I've been doing that for decades, since around 1994 or 5.
@izzojoseph22 жыл бұрын
@@8675-__ I wrote '...at 55...' - meaning I'm 55 and have been doing it since my early 20's
@migo77414 жыл бұрын
By eating a lot of iron and shocking myself I became magnetic
@davecullins16064 жыл бұрын
For like 2 seconds 'cause that's how long you were electrocuted xD
@kyleholland99234 жыл бұрын
Get electric eels to bite you
@annwalker890711 ай бұрын
IS THAT YOU BELUGA?
@imtiazwillems73103 жыл бұрын
As I'm normally the center of attention in parties this is a great place to check myself, reflect on myself, be a more true person, I haven't been listening too much last half year. Thanks for reminding me I should. It's not only for introverts. Extroverts, like me, can check themselves if they want to please other people and have everybody involved in the conversation. Having a good story with some good skills, like me, doesn't make your charismatic imho. Listening, like you just reminded me of, does that more. Being interested is more interesting then trying to be interesting. Thanks for the reminder, humility and what not.
@drgeorgetayloriii42803 жыл бұрын
He also makes immediate eye contact. He never puts his head down unless he is joking or laughing. This puts you at ease right away because it takes away the element of being surprised by your audience through head down and up approaches.
@zzbreezy78143 жыл бұрын
The hand expression technique is genius because I get cut off so frequently so I’m used to the habit of saying less. Now I’m confident enough to hold out my stories and explanations longer, thanks 😎
@kefinbc3 жыл бұрын
For me it’s a balancing act between this and also keeping your points concise and not feel like you’re just rambling.
@tperk2 жыл бұрын
Keep your hand out there so you can reach out and slap the person trying to interrupt you
@abbyd2542 жыл бұрын
@@tperk This made me actually laugh out loud 😂
@HayStellEm Жыл бұрын
@@abbyd254Same 😂
@QuestionEverythingButWHY4 жыл бұрын
"If you talk to a man in a language he understands, that goes to his head. If you talk to him in his language, that goes to his heart." -Nelson Mandela
@darkspeed624 жыл бұрын
Not the best quote really. The second part could be one and the same as the first part.
@darkspeed623 жыл бұрын
@@brrodyy HIS language would surely come under being a language that he understands unless you're willing to admit that a man wouldn't understand HIS language. Therefore, the quote isn't that good.
@tyriqcollier55093 жыл бұрын
@@darkspeed62 people who are eager to complain and argue to prove you're intelligence are ignorant . Just to act smart you make noncritical negative commentary on one of the greatest speakers in modern history and add no bit of anything
@wordsculpt3 жыл бұрын
@@darkspeed62 Nuancé is not your strong point, is it? There is a significant difference. Think about it!
@Speedster1892 жыл бұрын
I speak three languages all fluently so I don't understand the quote.
@gizznajet12 жыл бұрын
Jamie Foxx is a walking genius that is humble. Here's a guy that's got so much talent that you could be intimidated and he makes you feel like you're at home in this house in his presence. Freaking amazing
@TakeBackYourMind9973 жыл бұрын
Instead of asking things like "did that feel good?" Ask "how did that feel?" Open ended questions about people's feelings on certain things, especially positive things, will bring a lot more interest and emotion to your conversations.
@C_The_Guy3 жыл бұрын
dont be afraid to spice up your questions by injecting your opinion or observation. say for instance, if you were to say “thats crazy! that must have felt good right?” you give the person the impression that you are actively listening and in tune with the mood of the story, and that you are engaged in the conversation. and one of the easiest ways to build this reflex as a listener and engage people effortlessly is by putting yourself in the person’s shoe’s within the story, and it will automatically begin to trigger your own reaction to the situation. like, if a person is telling a story about being late for work, try to imagine yourself in their position, also being late for work, and you’ll be more in tune with the story as its told, giving more engaging responses. there is right time to do this, and a right time to leave responses and questions more open ended, and knowing the right times just comes from experiencez
@ABandCalledStoned2 жыл бұрын
If you have to ask...know that you failed. ;)
@gmccabe69153 жыл бұрын
Eye contact and listening. Really listening. For example, if someone at work mentioned their dog's health, ask again later down the road how their dog is doing? Like be present to people, be engaged. Treat everything like their life is important to you as well. Being non judgemental is also a good way to connect with people. Be well friendos.
@energiovanni4322 жыл бұрын
Great breakdown, now let’s see who’s gonna apply this information irl. Gonna be some serious script planning for what Jamie and many others do naturally. You get good at what ever you’re focused on most of the time. Jamie is focused on friendships and good vibes in social experiences. That’s where charisma begins. It’s not forced, it’s genuine.
@isaaccarnellkingiv26242 жыл бұрын
1. Set a Playful tone 2. Use self Burns (but nothing that can hurt you feelings) 3. Tell stories with different voices (Don't forget to use a story gap first.) 4. Use Cliffhanger Pauses (in the middle of the sentence, and leave your hand up to let them know you're not done.) 5. Be a likeable listener, (ask Talk About Questions, Mirror)
@FloJoBurger4 жыл бұрын
Jamie Foxx was a sponsor for my overseas (american) football team. He gave us the greatest pep talk before our playoff game. Really awesome guy and i think you have his public persona down to a T
@truthseeker8814 жыл бұрын
Did you win the game ?
@FloJoBurger4 жыл бұрын
@@truthseeker881 yes but not the final :(
@bogdanalindaragiu13142 жыл бұрын
it's funny how being an introvert I managed to develop all these things and are instictive now just because I paid attention to reactions and facial expressions. I always had to overcome my anxiety and in time it got to a point now where it is instinctive. Reading a lot of books helped as well, not for their knowledge per se, but the multitude of words that stuck in my brain help a lot towards expressing myself better.
@PeteNice293 жыл бұрын
Power pauses and making people talk about themselves is key. Also, that slightly self-deprecating humor is disarming to others, allows the slightest dash of humblebrag without being overt, and makes others feel confident. Win-win.
@tamaadam2 жыл бұрын
Is Jamie watching this? Cuz this is so true. I always wondered why I liked him so much without him being a Dave Chappelle or Bruno Mars or Denzel Washington, but just ever so close competition to all of them. Just amazing
@gajananpatwardhan70233 жыл бұрын
I love Jamie Foxx, love to watch him talk, he is extremely charismatic and his interviews show he is amazingly talented
@yogeshdharya38573 жыл бұрын
7:18 Dude that raising the palm gesture for giving the listeners a hint that the pause doesn't mean that m done speaking, its such a hack!.Amazing that is definitely coming in handy
@serenahilton14283 жыл бұрын
Remember he was a comedian first on In Living Color so this all comes naturally to him. Mega talented man
@brianmoore30632 жыл бұрын
Man i just found this channel and this is DOPE! These are the EXACT things I do when I talk to people but I've learned wayyyy more tips that I will implement. Good job fam. 👊🏾
@jefolson69893 жыл бұрын
Once I tried to be the person I want to be, rather than doing what I thought others would respond to, I became much more popular. We can't control others but be can control ourselves. Take thier thoughts, which you don't know anyway, out of the equation. See your life as a series of funny stories, a few bad ones, and life is so much more fun and interesting that " THEY" will be drawn to your energy. But who cared what they think, right? Almost every time I feel bored or frustrated, I ask myself if I am doing this because I want to , or am I people pleasing. Spot checking teaches you how much of your life you life for strangers.
@gotnoname70513 жыл бұрын
If you ask me what's better than Jamie's social kills, id tell you the editing on this video. This is impressive work.
@annneliese4 жыл бұрын
I love your channel! I love learning about psychology, and your channel is so amazing. Helps me a lot in my daily life ♡
@williamfitch14083 жыл бұрын
When you invite people to talk about themselves - carte blanch, they tend to take control and assume thereafter that you're passive. And they will subsequently talk over and interrupt you. You have to become quite assertive to compete with them. I've never found this to be a good tactic.
@dustinfarley4 жыл бұрын
Man I've just came upon your channel in the last few hours and I've went on a binge watch since then. Love your channel and advice !! It definitely helps me and I enjoy watching and hearing your ideas and perspective of how to do things. I can have super bad anxiety traits when it comes to conversation and I find your advice very relieving and enjoyable! Any videos on how to act correctly and charismatic around those you're attracted to? When you have horrible social skills and are anxiety ridden?
@ErinGtruthteller2 жыл бұрын
I also need this. Pretty sure I just messed stuff up with my crush due to this 🤣
@sheldonwright98264 жыл бұрын
Jamie Foxx is an incredible actor. Very profound and inspirational. Shout out from Jamaica.
@niyaakbar10983 жыл бұрын
So I’m a people person and I love meeting new people, talking etc but my entire childhood I was really shy and although I’ve broken out of most of that. I still have moments where I’m not 100% confident when I’m in public settings with others who I may not be close with. These tips might just be my lifesaver into helping me become comfortable faster :)
@anthonyr.15683 жыл бұрын
I love these videos. They're my daily go-to to feel good and hope I can be a stronger person. Thanks for bringing me this feeling 💚
@GenericHandle012 жыл бұрын
you do a really great job of explaining what is on screen. I like it because I can clean or do other daily chores while listening to very clear explanations.
@tressaeleby3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow comedian with a background in sales and giving love presentations, this is all true and good information. I do this naturally but I also studied, and still study comedian’s delivery.
@abelvera54563 жыл бұрын
These tricks definitely work! Don’t need to be a master in every single aspect, but as long as you know how to implement them.
@daulay33223 жыл бұрын
The way Jamie deliver his storytelling reminds me the way B.B. King (RIP) deliver his guitar solo. Super tasteful.... 😊
@xQz003 жыл бұрын
This is beyond charisma. This is a way of life. Love this channel.
@LiveHappy762 жыл бұрын
Love your screen name!
@Virikel Жыл бұрын
A couple years ago my life completely changed and suddenly people began reacting to me differently. Aside from learning to be self-loving and self-confident without being an arrogant person (took me almost 4 decades to learn the difference), I found myself being crazy magnetic to people like never before. I'm almost 40! 😳 But this helps me to understand what I was doing right. I thought I was just learning to really love myself and other people. But I still believe that's a main foundational factor. But understanding what is that play helps me a lot.
@winstonwilkins4 жыл бұрын
Could you do a charisma breakdown of Ali Plumb of BBC1? He is always commended by the celebrities he interviews and his conversations are always fun to watch.
@philipcoleman97602 жыл бұрын
Typically comedians are great storytellers. I love Jamie and I have him on the top of my list for a lot of things.
@shakurlife24 жыл бұрын
i've always liked jamie foxx but he really does seem like a charismatic genius here
@Senju__4 жыл бұрын
Seriously agreed
@paulwitmer46113 жыл бұрын
I think this is more important today because our young people have submerged conversational skills I guess due to texting and emailing?
@TheLegendA513 жыл бұрын
@@paulwitmer4611 this...
@TheLegendA513 жыл бұрын
how are young people going to improve their social skills if they don't put themselves out there?
@LuluCumulus3 жыл бұрын
One very important thing which isn't even mentioned: Jamie is totally in the experience -> meaning his gestures are like being in this experience. What for oneself may seem a bit 'overacting' in that very second of telling a story is actually very helpful.
@rajdeep50734 жыл бұрын
You do the best personality analysis down there bro.
@x--WarHawk--x3 жыл бұрын
Poking fun about yourself shows your target listener(s) that you are human and that you are at the very least relatable. That for me tells people that we have more in common than they expected.
@Peaslepuff4 жыл бұрын
I love your videos! For someone who has struggled with social anxiety from childhood, your advice is invaluable. I do wish you used more examples from charismatic women. Please consider looking into that.
@McLeod20222 жыл бұрын
I know this is Charlie's' channel but it sounded (almost, vocally) and felt like a Sean Evans (First we Feast) masterclass... as Sean blows away his guests, even ones who KNOW his MO, by his ability to lead his guests into places not often spoken about but fun... not drab or difficult spots... great listeners mostly keep quiet, make eye contact... and then feed off the story and in moments when the "guest" gives a pause... can play off of what what just said with a genuine excitement/appreciation for the reveal. I do think "comedian first" and improvisational actors have a still that is partly natural and definitely also honed. Also, I used to lose people until I did hard, mid sentence pauses and used my hands and gestures... helps keep interest stoked in a longer story. Nice vid!
@illtones_2 жыл бұрын
Bruh how Jamie not have a prime time nightly talk show. He’d easily be the best since early Conan.
@lorianderson72052 жыл бұрын
Love Jamie 💓
@bogdanalindaragiu13142 жыл бұрын
they never push forward someone that is too good, because it puts others into a mediocre light.
@kathifuller53322 жыл бұрын
@@bogdanalindaragiu1314 That makes no sense. The networks will push anyone they think will drive ratings, which Jamie certainly would. But why would he walk away from a profitable, multi-million-dollar career as a movie star, singer, and comedian to become a nightly talk show host? The pay and prestige would be significantly lower. It would be career suicide for someone like Jamie.
@buzzard7202 жыл бұрын
@@kathifuller5332... Take a few mins to reach the realisation... no rush..,.
@bogdanalindaragiu13142 жыл бұрын
@@kathifuller5332 you would think it makes no sense, but on the bigger picture it does. It's like all stores have one type of snickers and one of them decides to add multiple types to his store and only he has a provider for it. Others would be getting angry for lack of clientele.
@DubSun333 жыл бұрын
People really warm to someone who is genuine, so if you can fake that you'll make a big impression.
@jowells16012 жыл бұрын
One thing I haven't heard you mention and I will share it. First, however, I thank you for all these super videos. Am learning new tips and understanding that I, also, have charisma! My secret charm comes from just LOVING everyone I encounter, first and foremost. I know they are feeling it, without even realizing it!!
@BigWillTheMill2 жыл бұрын
This was a great analysis. Though to be honest, Fox has more talent than 5 talented individuals melded together, also alot of these skills have been built up from his various gigs as a musician, stand-up comedian, and acting.
@zacharymaneja12072 жыл бұрын
I think it's a great idea you included that commented problem about applying what you talk about but also going over success stories
@MindNow4 жыл бұрын
*Having the conviction, being kind and committing to ur authenticity with the intention of caring 😊* 🙏
@coreygavin91343 жыл бұрын
Bingo!! Being authentic is the key even if you're a sociopath, which would be really astonishing...Phonies are the worst because they are constantly trying to scam others in one way or another and that is the biggest problem we have in our social relationships.
@JohnWickPotter9 ай бұрын
The Ted Lasso changed my life. I catered my new positive approach completely off of how positive and charismatic Ted Lasso is. It’s helped a lot.
@DarkIxis3 жыл бұрын
These points are exactly on point. I'm extremely charismatic, and these points work time and time again. Excellent video!
@MsDancer50003 жыл бұрын
Saying "I'm extremely charismatic" is the exact opposite of being charismatic 🤮 Or is it irony? 😂
@Nutrition4DMind Жыл бұрын
This was a GREAT VIDEO!!! Highly Inspiring and Magnetic. Thanks For Sharing.
@trippstephens69344 жыл бұрын
It seems as if most of these tactics require a decent ability to “read a room” upon entering. Like the “Talk about” questions... you are going to have to be able sit back for a few mins to how people react to a variety of topics....then get them to expand on key points of theirs in a nonchalant way.
@LiveHappy762 жыл бұрын
With Jimmy Kimmel, it looks like he deliberately read up on Kimmel before appearing on his show, unless just by chance through generic news, he got that personal information....
@digitalmarketingsupply2 жыл бұрын
I wasn’t looking for this type of video but I loved it! I have many of these behaviors already but I could fine tune them. Thank you for this🙌💞
@lisa.kennedy3 жыл бұрын
I think these videos are fab. Thank you so much for helping people understand that we all have the power, somewhere or other, and we are more confident than we think. I would like to see a few more examples using ladies as there is still, unfortunately, a slight difference in our approaches to confidence and the expectation of our audiences. Aside from this, well done and thank you again, positivity is the best medicine.
@LiveHappy762 жыл бұрын
Marry me, Lisa! Lol...aw, just trying to use a fun way to say that you made and shared a great comment. Thank you!
@clementekpo7606 Жыл бұрын
The value you guys give is crazy
@billopad96254 жыл бұрын
Nailed the humorous self deprecation today at work with a couple of colleagues... 1st colleague commented about a skinny colleague 2 (jokily) saying “Don’t you just hate these skinny girls!” Colleague 2 replied “I’m not skinny!” Looking at me to back her up! To which I replied, “girl! I could eat your body weight!” For the win!
@marshallvalesquez22243 жыл бұрын
I never met someone like me..........until I met Jammie fox..I've been following this guy 4 ever. He remind me of me...I'm a bodybuilder, funny as hell..and very good looking...I look EXTREMLY YOUNG....I'M STUCK IN MY EARLY 30S. NO ONE HAVE EVER GUESS MY AGE????? THAT PART...JIMMIE LOVE YOU MAN...BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER! ..ALAHH BLESS YOU 4 EVER..4 EVER.EVER. YEAH 4 EVER EVER..LOL. MY MANNNN!
@rashawnevans30393 жыл бұрын
Jamie got such a great spirit,and energy.
@vladkarmakov5980 Жыл бұрын
It's awesome channel. Every time I watch these videos I'm inspired and charged to try all these things. Thank you for your work!
@nedaari13 жыл бұрын
OK. I've watched the video and am now ready to be as effortlessly charming as Jamie.
@eliaspittman3 жыл бұрын
If you want to get better at talking to people you go and talk to more people. A fun example is going to a grocery store and finding something that’s on sale and you fill up your shopping cart with whatever it is and then go around the store talking to people about the sale. It’s so much fun😃 swap meets are great, just concentrate on the vendors first and then work your way up to the other customers around you. If you get nervous or scared to talk to anyone just remember to remind yourself that they’re just like you, another human, and enjoy the conversation. I talk to everyone I see it’s quite amazing to be honest it’s amazing the people I’ve met and their amazing life stories!!! Please go out and have some conversations with complete strangers, anywhere, everywhere, and you’ll see what I mean.
@Thebest-wc3ow3 жыл бұрын
When people ask me to tell a joke, I always say I don’t have any. And they I say on an unrelated note, what’s the best thing about Switzerland. It takes them away from the joke they wanted to hear, and make them think seriously. This is how it often goes: “ what’s the best thing about Switzerland?” “ I don’t know, what’s the best part?” (Alternatively they say a couple of positive things and then look at you for the right answer, wathever they say I always answer with this) “I don’t know, but the flag is a big plus”
@wendyngala90252 жыл бұрын
you guys chose great clips to showcase his personality, all of a sudden i want to get up and walk around and get the people going !
@Pervy4 жыл бұрын
I bet you Jamie will watch this video and be like....."Oh, I do that? Cool!"
@plzzz2 жыл бұрын
I grew up watching him and he deserve more shine as Will did. And dude can sing.
@kathrynkij59793 жыл бұрын
I do the cliffhanger thing all the time in conversations purposely for dramatic effect, but I find people start acting like “spit it out girl!” 😂 I think it’s different if you are an influencer.
@joshuabryan74512 жыл бұрын
Maybe it's the timing and frequency.
@Leo_de_janeiro2 жыл бұрын
its a classic manipulation tool, but its tricky, it doesnt works "invisible"... there are other tools i would prefer.
@BiggTruckDriving2 жыл бұрын
I'm going to say it! Just be yourself, don't over or under do it! Let people like you for you, your not paid to entertain nor should you hold that expectation for yourself. Practing a nice smile, learning a joke, making fun of your quirks, and trying not to make people feel uneasy are things everyone should aspire to. Learn to love you and others and enjoy life the rest will fall into place.
@BugMoneyCo4 жыл бұрын
I need to say this again... this podcast is gold.
@myearshurtnoone13673 жыл бұрын
dude i love Jamie Fox so much it can make me cry just because he is so genuine, honest and innocent, not to say he is naive but pure of heart
@orangus_83023 жыл бұрын
smiling when you enter a room helps so much. if you won’t do anything else, do this
@aaronsmith48063 жыл бұрын
I think I struggle a lot with either not knowing when to give a longer response, more than a couple words or when to stop talking. Sometimes I am glad I have something to share with the topic or discussion and then feel I’m over sharing. I feel I read too much into any changes in facial expressions if in a professional setting too and then get self conscious and shut down quickly if I view it as negative. I don’t like telling people I have aspergers because I deal with people a lot and am considered an authority figure to some people at work and feel it would cause judgement. It’s hard not knowing if it’s better they think I’m just socially anxious or if there’s more of an underlying explanation
@rh15072 жыл бұрын
I so agree with this video. Never really thought about it but I've been practicing some of the things spoken about in this video for many years.
@raphaeldouglas93612 жыл бұрын
Successful people don't become that way overnight. What most people see at a glance-wealth, a great career, purpose-is the result of hard work and hustle over time.
@tianalucas81472 жыл бұрын
Yeah! I agree with you sir.If you want to be successful have the mindset of the rich, spend less and invest More. Don't give up your dreams.
@juliagoncalves40822 жыл бұрын
@@tianalucas8147 People come here with the aim of chasing money more than knowledge and that will damage your progress, trust me. Chase knowledge first and I promise! The money will follow you just like it's following some of us now.
@sabrinaslime44932 жыл бұрын
@@juliagoncalves4082 That's very correct And that is why most of them end up losing they money don't be in a haste to invest. Know what and who you are investing to and be sure that the person will deliver before I n v e s t I n g. Learn and get the knowledge first before investing..
@sabrinaslime44932 жыл бұрын
People wants to do what the 99% does but wants to get results that are fit for the 1%, but it doesn't work that way
@JuanVillegas.2 жыл бұрын
@@sabrinaslime4493 Investment is the quickest path to financial freedom, the rich stays rich by spending like the poor yet investing! While the poor stays poor by spending like the rich yet not investing.