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Charisma on Command

Charisma on Command

Күн бұрын

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@Wil_Dasovich
@Wil_Dasovich 4 жыл бұрын
This was helpful, I forgot how to socialize after 2020
@Gabbbmnl
@Gabbbmnl 4 жыл бұрын
Wil Dasovich what u doin here wil lol
@afrothunder142
@afrothunder142 4 жыл бұрын
Way to reiterate the top comment.
@DivineBia
@DivineBia 4 жыл бұрын
@@afrothunder142 freeman my boyyyyy!!! You’re an og
@DelphinMusquet
@DelphinMusquet 4 жыл бұрын
Facts 🤣
@afrothunder142
@afrothunder142 3 жыл бұрын
@@DivineBia wassup gangsta
@henrytheninja1163
@henrytheninja1163 4 жыл бұрын
Him: how old are you Her: I’m 22 Him: why?
@robindunkel9834
@robindunkel9834 4 жыл бұрын
Her: Thank you...
@zxnnyxz03
@zxnnyxz03 4 жыл бұрын
lmao
@PatrickWalkerDrums
@PatrickWalkerDrums 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@hueyandmo
@hueyandmo 4 жыл бұрын
This is why you should never ask a woman her age...
@dpsenpai
@dpsenpai 4 жыл бұрын
Damn u... U made me lmao!!
@QuestionEverythingButWHY
@QuestionEverythingButWHY 4 жыл бұрын
“Talk to someone about themselves and they'll listen for hours.” ― Dale Carnegie
@AxxLAfriku
@AxxLAfriku 4 жыл бұрын
im famous
@rrrealqueen
@rrrealqueen 4 жыл бұрын
I'm FBI open up
@thuylevan195
@thuylevan195 4 жыл бұрын
I find it not correct in many cases
@captlanc
@captlanc 4 жыл бұрын
Unless they are uncomfortable with it. Quotes just sound cool. Easily refutable.
@orakatokansek
@orakatokansek 4 жыл бұрын
@@captlanc well, since its work to majority, why you care to the minority?
@winstonzeb2842
@winstonzeb2842 Жыл бұрын
The more confident you are the less you worry about awkward moments. If theres a pause in a conversation, just let it ride out and chill in the silence. You don’t have to feel awkward about it, its not your job to defend all awkward moments from happening, instead just refuse to acknowledge that its “awkward “
@angelapileggi6031
@angelapileggi6031 Жыл бұрын
I agree with that completely, the first step to something becoming awkward is giving it any focus. That scene in Pulp Fiction between John Travolta and Uma Thurman comes to mind regarding how to handle the breaks of silence, lol.
@SierraHanna-qv4bm
@SierraHanna-qv4bm Жыл бұрын
But what to do in that silence? When you both are sitting together and eun out of things to say and you have nothing else to do, what to do? I start fiddling with my hands and look around
@fang.clarkec7584
@fang.clarkec7584 Жыл бұрын
I wish I thought that on my last date
@maxpayne4129
@maxpayne4129 Жыл бұрын
​@@SierraHanna-qv4bmPick up a guitar
@ithought09
@ithought09 Жыл бұрын
@@maxpayne4129HOLY REALLL
@averagedan4
@averagedan4 4 жыл бұрын
Me re-learning social skills after spending a year inside
@KayJayFusion
@KayJayFusion 4 жыл бұрын
Forreal
@SoulKingBK
@SoulKingBK 4 жыл бұрын
Highly accurate... I’m literally taking notes
@BigR62
@BigR62 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like a social vegetable y’all 😂
@Theboy1008-y8s
@Theboy1008-y8s 4 жыл бұрын
deadass tho
@jeffg9499
@jeffg9499 4 жыл бұрын
Same
@LBYINCHINA
@LBYINCHINA 3 жыл бұрын
1. Grease the wheel early with a compliment. 2. Transition between topics using "reminds me of" thinking. 3. Ping for topics of mutual interest. 4. Get other people excited about the conversation. 5. Create a connection with people while listening.
@SmeeGuitar
@SmeeGuitar 3 жыл бұрын
6. Mention DMT and the snake goddess
@bhe8336
@bhe8336 3 жыл бұрын
Too much work.
@mugiwaryanoaden2429
@mugiwaryanoaden2429 3 жыл бұрын
Everything time I come to the comments and find someone who summarizes the video in to something very is to take in, i just smile with my whole body. thanks man ur awesome !
@furyberserk
@furyberserk 3 жыл бұрын
@@bhe8336 Ask interesting why questions of their choice.
@OriginalKingRichTv
@OriginalKingRichTv 2 жыл бұрын
@@furyberserk that made no sense
@Jibba
@Jibba 3 жыл бұрын
In the middle of a conversation *Pulls out note cards*
@YogawithAliBeale
@YogawithAliBeale 3 жыл бұрын
🤣!
@Frank074
@Frank074 3 жыл бұрын
* pause * DMT!
@deathisnotwhatseems
@deathisnotwhatseems 3 жыл бұрын
I would pulled out a kit-Kat and crunch on it 😆 0:08
@gary7846
@gary7846 3 жыл бұрын
@@Frank074 Hahaha, would totally pull out the dmt card when I'm stuck
@chrisdavid7087
@chrisdavid7087 3 жыл бұрын
@@Frank074 is
@jacktupp4358
@jacktupp4358 2 жыл бұрын
The power of language and expression is incredible. I wish I'd have realized when I was younger how much I absolutely love the dynamic of communication, both verbal and non-verbal and all of the various nuance related to each. It's one of the first things people noticed as we shifted towards more written communication (Email, Text, Comments) that there's no real, for example, sarcasm font. Compared to verbal communication, with tone, inflection, and accompanying mannerisms like a smirk or tilt of the head, written communication is just flat.
@MARS72JJ
@MARS72JJ 4 жыл бұрын
1. Grease the wheels early with a compliment. Good energy or a platonic physical compliment. Don't dwell on the compliment or it will seem fake. Make it a genuine one, something you actually think. 2. Reminds me of thinking. Use lateral thinking to transition to something else you both can talk about. Don't know anything about baseball - talk about the atmosphere of a stadium. 3. Pings for topics of mutual interest. 4. Get other people excited about the conversation. Peel the onion. Absorb what is important to them from the innocuous questions. Ask questions that are fun to answer: "What do you?", followed by "Do you like it? 5. Create a connection. Laugh easily. Don't fake it but don't restrict it. Watch something funny before you meet people. 6. Mirroring. Makes them feel heard. Builds rapport. Stay true to yourself ultimately but repeating someone's final words at the end tells them you are listening initially.
@startasticalart6138
@startasticalart6138 4 жыл бұрын
Please make a video with Daniel Radcliffe!!!
@KryssN1
@KryssN1 4 жыл бұрын
@Vontez Just don't do it often, will make people ignore your opinion
@joshyjosh8817
@joshyjosh8817 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for saving me 11 minutes
@DerMoerpler
@DerMoerpler 4 жыл бұрын
@Vontez What Krystian Nowak said, but I'll add that you also shouldn't use self-deprication about something you're actually insecure about. People usually notice and it displays a lack of confidence.
@MrEysox
@MrEysox 4 жыл бұрын
Her : My father diead yesterday Him : Oh your father died yesterday ? Her : Yes Him : Did you like it ?
@The-Seventies
@The-Seventies 3 жыл бұрын
I used to feel uncomfortable and insecure when I had to small talk. But one day I realized it’s not completely my job to keep the conversation going. It’s just 50/50, cause the other person has to make small talk to. Since then, I don’t feel uncomfortable when there’s is a silence in the conversation. It helped me to relax more and when you’re relaxed, small talk becomes way easier.
@amberslahlize7961
@amberslahlize7961 3 жыл бұрын
It does, but it's different when it's a talk show...or when it's one of your friends/relatives that it turns more into a monolog...or especially when you don't care about having small talk with this person...it becomes very awkward then..I don't know how these people pretend to care, or..maybe they do.
@moonlightfitz
@moonlightfitz 3 жыл бұрын
Yep.
@ryandavison1637
@ryandavison1637 3 жыл бұрын
Silence in a public and social setting is inevitable, if it's perceived as awkward it is. I don't find silence as awkward anymore
@98MTBiker
@98MTBiker 3 жыл бұрын
Seriously this is why I hate tinder. I'm happy with the matches I get but when I strike a conversation I try to say something that invokes a reply that isn't just yes or no but women find a way to always answer in a way that I'm left with the responsibility of keeping the conversation going. And honestly I don't care enough to do so. If it's a test to see if I'm funny or something like that I won't even bother passing those kinds of tests because to me it just shows they aren't willing to put any effort into it and I'm supposed to try to win them over I don't think that's how it works in the real life.
@amberslahlize7961
@amberslahlize7961 3 жыл бұрын
@@98MTBiker Yeah, in real life, there are stakes. On the internet, there are no real stakes.
@CaseyBurnsInvesting
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 4 жыл бұрын
We all want to feel funny, valued, and loved.
@startasticalart6138
@startasticalart6138 4 жыл бұрын
Please make a video with Daniel Radcliffe!!!
@vanessagalun8284
@vanessagalun8284 4 жыл бұрын
Kurt Look7 p
@vanessagalun8284
@vanessagalun8284 4 жыл бұрын
I’m on
@georgiusharry9464
@georgiusharry9464 4 жыл бұрын
@Kurt Look7 o
@MF-111
@MF-111 4 жыл бұрын
Simp
@frankstared
@frankstared 2 жыл бұрын
'What does this remind me of?' is an excellent authentic approach to continuing a conversation with others you may not have much in common with. That being said, it is also important to drop the conversation when it gets stale or if you hit awkward or unwelcome territory.
@ricardocortes7088
@ricardocortes7088 8 ай бұрын
You bail out of every conversation as soon as it gets stale? lol silence is okay sometimes. You gotta be comfortable with yourself, no conversation is going to be 100% perfect every time
@kamiw5864
@kamiw5864 6 ай бұрын
Ok but he's going to wonder why I up and left in the middle of dinner...
@aryankarcii1157
@aryankarcii1157 3 жыл бұрын
One of the most fulfilling things in life is a solid conversation. You feel like you accomplished something. And you have.
@sarahg2653
@sarahg2653 3 жыл бұрын
Ive never considered this. You're right. I do feel great after a successful conversation with a stranger. All my endorphins start flooding my brain and makes me feel good about myself. I struggle with speaking to people.
@KaRaMaNisKaRaMan
@KaRaMaNisKaRaMan 3 жыл бұрын
Is it always to both people fullfilling?
@bhe8336
@bhe8336 3 жыл бұрын
It's only fulfilling because it strokes your ego. Oh someone paid attention to me look at how important I am.
@KaRaMaNisKaRaMan
@KaRaMaNisKaRaMan 3 жыл бұрын
@@bhe8336 when it's fullfilling for both sides is when it's been a good conversation. I think.
@zbinford
@zbinford 3 жыл бұрын
@@bhe8336 Clearly never had a good conversation with anyone 😂👌🏽
@gezzapk
@gezzapk 4 жыл бұрын
Her: Hi Him: Hi, nice hair. Her Thanks Him: My back hair reminds me of Khabib Nurmagomedov. Her: Anyway, have a nice day.
@csosev
@csosev 4 жыл бұрын
Did you smesh?
@amir-bz2he
@amir-bz2he 4 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO
@lukaswhughes
@lukaswhughes 4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Every time I read this it gets funnier
@JaredSingerExtravaganza
@JaredSingerExtravaganza 4 жыл бұрын
Im dead
@llMavenll
@llMavenll 4 жыл бұрын
Becky, lemme
@greveeen
@greveeen 4 жыл бұрын
Joe: How old are you? Guest: 35 Joe: I first did DMT when I was 35
@davyddocarmocabral2989
@davyddocarmocabral2989 3 жыл бұрын
35? No really, that's the number of alkaloids in my favorite cannabis strain
@yasinruhulla372
@yasinruhulla372 3 жыл бұрын
Great convo starter if your really think about it LMAO
@Florafauna564
@Florafauna564 3 жыл бұрын
😂
@Sanozucke
@Sanozucke 3 жыл бұрын
@@davyddocarmocabral2989 Cannabis, what a great plant, isn't it? Actually you can make cloth with it.
@MrChrisdavonbrown
@MrChrisdavonbrown 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Budsport_TV
@Budsport_TV 2 жыл бұрын
A huge part of small talk is being genuinely interested in the conversation, with whomever it may be.
@Reality-Distortion
@Reality-Distortion 5 ай бұрын
What would you do if you usually lacked any interest?
@torincapri
@torincapri 5 ай бұрын
@@Reality-Distortion get good at faking charisma. the you'll naturally build it
@tiphotisted
@tiphotisted 2 ай бұрын
@@Reality-Distortion Either fake it till you make it, or do the more productive thing which is to convince your local legislature to legalize brothels/prostitution.
@Reality-Distortion
@Reality-Distortion 2 ай бұрын
@@tiphotisted Doing the first, results are okayish I guess. Prostitution here is already legal though it's gray area with no taxes, insurances etc. Pimping is illegal which shouldn't change in my opinion so pass on the brothel part.
@KastaRules
@KastaRules 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be awkward around strangers. 10 years as a butcher made me the KING of small talk though. I could entertain everyone and their grandmother. They call me the BUTCHER CLOWN now.
@phoneguy3409
@phoneguy3409 4 жыл бұрын
Should I be calling the cops?
@stevetheiii477
@stevetheiii477 4 жыл бұрын
i don't know how to interpret this comment....
@leonflorence118
@leonflorence118 4 жыл бұрын
That sounds straight out of a horror movie
@thairinkhudr4259
@thairinkhudr4259 4 жыл бұрын
That must mean you're interesting and funny even when you were introverted, it was just because you didn't connect with people much at the time. Inspirational!
@justinfernandez9876
@justinfernandez9876 4 жыл бұрын
that's a great serial killer name congrats bro
@reuniteireland
@reuniteireland 3 жыл бұрын
You make a lot of good points and Joe is excellent at keeping a conversation going. The biggest advantage Joe has is that all of his guests have agreed ahead of time to spend hours of a day and likely travelled to be there just to talk with him. This changes the whole dynamic in that they are already invested heavily prior to the conversation starting.
@reemaalhamdan1
@reemaalhamdan1 3 жыл бұрын
I think you’re focusing too much on the end result of his success. Joe has real talent, maybe he started with people who were willing to spend 2h but now people want to spend the 2h.
@jacksonzheng3103
@jacksonzheng3103 3 жыл бұрын
Ur right, it does help but it's not like you have to be an interviewer to talk to someone.
@the22game
@the22game 3 жыл бұрын
@@jacksonzheng3103 think the dude is saying the man's over here obsessed with Joe is not using the best example. Its a podcast/interview both parties were looking forward to. The best thing to take from here and some points on how to compliment properly to make people be more comfortable with you
@orgANGmo
@orgANGmo 3 жыл бұрын
Normally the guests don't even realize it's been 3 hours. He keeps them talking and interested. He is the best at what he does.
@ElvenMans
@ElvenMans 3 жыл бұрын
Just like on a date with a girl, or with anyone.
@bundescoach3528
@bundescoach3528 4 жыл бұрын
me at the bar after watchin this video: "so, where are you from?" "Melbourne." "Why?"
@mario4725
@mario4725 4 жыл бұрын
Hahahahaha
@blvck_truffl3756
@blvck_truffl3756 4 жыл бұрын
Melbourne wow... have you tried DMT?
@dunkuzi5695
@dunkuzi5695 4 жыл бұрын
@@blvck_truffl3756 LMAO
@kda9456
@kda9456 4 жыл бұрын
Ahh a fellow melbournian
@0kojack0
@0kojack0 4 жыл бұрын
@@blvck_truffl3756 😂😂😂😂
@Tr1Hard777
@Tr1Hard777 3 жыл бұрын
Something I've found as well is if I'm talking to someone and feel awkward it's often them not being good with small talk and you end up feeling like you did something wrong.
@mnm-1910
@mnm-1910 4 жыл бұрын
This video just explained why people on weed r so nice to talk to, they laugh all the time, make crazy question and make a lot of conections between subjects.
@corywestfi910
@corywestfi910 3 жыл бұрын
Similar effect from alcohol.
@Cr33p_Inn_Diss_Guys
@Cr33p_Inn_Diss_Guys 3 жыл бұрын
I made a connection between the grocery store and a casino how with no windows it looks the same no matter what time of day it is. I made this statement to a coworker and she was just like ... ok
@AM-vk2yq
@AM-vk2yq 3 жыл бұрын
Weed makes me awkward af around people
@ZYX884
@ZYX884 3 жыл бұрын
Talking to people on weed is sooo annoying, they make up nonsense that I really can't be bothered with. Waste of time
@HungUpOnADream1122
@HungUpOnADream1122 3 жыл бұрын
Me with ADHD not being able to sit on a single topic for more than 45 seconds lol
@shewbtoob
@shewbtoob 3 жыл бұрын
Watching this realizing I do all of this while I’m drunk but am a step away from a brick wall when I’m sober
@tjblackmore3247
@tjblackmore3247 3 жыл бұрын
This is spot on 🤣🤣🤣
@seanbuckley924
@seanbuckley924 3 жыл бұрын
This couldn’t be more accurate^^^
@Adriiell
@Adriiell 3 жыл бұрын
This is how alcoholics are born 💁🏻‍♂️
@tjblackmore3247
@tjblackmore3247 3 жыл бұрын
@@Adriiell I bet you’re really fun at parties
@mthotdog
@mthotdog 3 жыл бұрын
I mean this nicely, sounds like you need to get more confidence
@S..527
@S..527 4 жыл бұрын
There is a reason why the JRE podcast is the number 1.
@Brenden-H
@Brenden-H 4 жыл бұрын
DMT
@imfineimokay3434
@imfineimokay3434 4 жыл бұрын
I feel greatly aggravated by your pfp
@BenHall289
@BenHall289 4 жыл бұрын
Americans are easily pleased.
@googleisevil1041
@googleisevil1041 4 жыл бұрын
Ben Hall number one podcast “worldwide”
@BenHall289
@BenHall289 4 жыл бұрын
Google Isevil Fair enough. People in general are easily pleased/entertained
@Leoppassion
@Leoppassion Жыл бұрын
This is literally all what I do during my part time as an english speaking teacher in korea. "Why" can be powerful, but don't abuse it. It can become a bit interrogative. Creating a scenario is a good one. Ask "what if" questions. It gives a framework for both parties to create something together.
@Zomby
@Zomby 4 жыл бұрын
I just realized my social anxiety is so bad that I willfully watched a video on how to talk to other people.
@johnwirk
@johnwirk 3 жыл бұрын
It may not be your situation but I realized that my lack of "personality" and social anxiety came from growing up in a quiet, awkward home that never really rewarded open, charismatic behavior. I would go over to a friend's house who was very social with random strangers and his home was a talk and laugh fest. Looking back now I realize that I'm not anti-social or naturally an "introvert". It is something I learned to be through a soft oppression in my home.
@YogawithAliBeale
@YogawithAliBeale 3 жыл бұрын
Try to find comfort in you are not alone. I think more people than not feel this way. This content is so binge worthy not just to learn about yourself but also understand other or make them feel more comfortable.
@dariomladenovski7047
@dariomladenovski7047 3 жыл бұрын
it's ok some people have a personality like me that don't want to talk that much but like to listen and think more and personally I don't want to be around someone who is going to talk my ear off
@chrisb2038
@chrisb2038 3 жыл бұрын
@@johnwirk wow man im in the exact same boat as you? are we just permanently boring now?
@ant_six
@ant_six 3 жыл бұрын
@@chrisb2038 you’re not as boring as you think you are. Drop that mindset and you will see results! Some people just have a much richer inner world than their peers.
@terrybogard8734
@terrybogard8734 3 жыл бұрын
me on a date at a restaurant: so, you like food? her: um yeah lol me: are you a foodie? her: not really? me: a fancy word for "foodie" is "epicure" which comes from the ancient Greek philosopher Epicurus...*proceeds to ramble about ancient Greek philosophy and literature for an hour* *notices she's gone; keeps going*
@blobbykins7281
@blobbykins7281 3 жыл бұрын
Edit: notices she’s gone and keeps going on about it to the whole band class
@sjuvanet
@sjuvanet 3 жыл бұрын
@@blobbykins7281 please do not associate philosophy with autism. the reason why you shouldn't is because they are the same thing.
@blobbykins7281
@blobbykins7281 3 жыл бұрын
@@sjuvanet I mean but arent band kids the ones who would be getting into Ancient Greek philosophy. Or is it Ancient Greek mythology they’d be getting into
@josuearagon8768
@josuearagon8768 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@sjuvanet
@sjuvanet 3 жыл бұрын
@@blobbykins7281 probably no philosophical school of thought with true virtue. and they'd definitely go for mythology over philosophy, absent of the stories' archetypal messages.
@-.._.-_...-_.._-..__..._.-.-.-
@-.._.-_...-_.._-..__..._.-.-.- 4 жыл бұрын
This channel should be called "How to be More Like Joe Rogan."
@pootisspencer5492
@pootisspencer5492 4 жыл бұрын
seriously. i think ive seen like 4 vids from them and every one talks about joe to some extent. it makes sense though, hes definitely charismatic and a great conversationalist
@diesal_one
@diesal_one 4 жыл бұрын
And Craig Ferguson
@piotralanp
@piotralanp 4 жыл бұрын
You could argue that Joe is one of the best at talking with people in the world, maybe thats why:d
@adonisng157
@adonisng157 4 жыл бұрын
Cant say that the things Joe says aren’t problematic because they often are. He’s downplayed covid, and often comes off saying his opinion without doing all the research. With so many people who listen to him and follow him, the misinformation is problematic in my opinion. For example, in this video he says he hates fake car engine noises, but oftentimes cars have fake engine noises to warn pedestrians of incoming cars and it’s been documented that cars that are too quiet pose a risk to pedestrians...he’s still a good talker, i just wish there was some disclaimer on these videos that tell you “Joe Rogan isn’t perfect, but...”
@ericbell217
@ericbell217 4 жыл бұрын
@@adonisng157you don't need a disclaimer to know he's not an expert at those things. I don't need moderation or disclaimers for individuals that take everything too seriously.
@swagdonor2357
@swagdonor2357 2 жыл бұрын
The best think I found is that everyone is interesting in their own way. You can literally talk to just about anyone. All you have to do is listen. That’s it. If you can learn to listen and comprehend which IS a skill. You’re golden
@aggressiveworshiper3155
@aggressiveworshiper3155 3 жыл бұрын
Solid points, especially the mirroring. Making the person feel heard and generally continuing the conversation.
@GhostSamaritan
@GhostSamaritan 3 жыл бұрын
Yup, continuing the conversation... You know, that reminds me of nothing at all because my mind is blank.
@xillyworld
@xillyworld 3 жыл бұрын
W
@eattheroom8383
@eattheroom8383 4 жыл бұрын
Tell people you can't do small talk. They often agree that they can't either and dive right into interesting stuff.
@eXebeno
@eXebeno 4 жыл бұрын
@AggrievedCommenter huh?
@e_t_t9553
@e_t_t9553 4 жыл бұрын
cameron martin look at his username 😂.
@Hx3ney
@Hx3ney 4 жыл бұрын
And if they dont agree they go away .. win win
@eattheroom8383
@eattheroom8383 4 жыл бұрын
@@Hx3ney haha true. Although if they're shy then better to switch to any option in this video to make them feel at ease. At least for a while anyway 😅
@lindita7745
@lindita7745 4 жыл бұрын
I personally love small talk, it allows you to ease into all the “interesting stuff”. I like to take my time opening up, and I need to gauge the other person before I do just that. So I rather not skip the small talk. It’s like foreplay, but for good conversations lol
@josuenunez5353
@josuenunez5353 4 жыл бұрын
Me: Dude I hate Mondays. Stranger: What's the most you ever lost on a coin toss?
@raunchymangos7468
@raunchymangos7468 4 жыл бұрын
Everything
@mikeyabercrombie2855
@mikeyabercrombie2855 4 жыл бұрын
Hahaha great movie
@raunchymangos7468
@raunchymangos7468 4 жыл бұрын
@@mikeyabercrombie2855 if you liked that movie I recommend Cormick McCarthy's books
@alexwhite5355
@alexwhite5355 3 жыл бұрын
@@raunchymangos7468 Thanos
@MrSpartanspud
@MrSpartanspud 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah man I hate Mondays too. What's the worst thing that's ever happened to you on a Monday?
@gpheonix1
@gpheonix1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for providing me the tools on how to make a conversation awkward for others and keep it that way.
@bw8476
@bw8476 Жыл бұрын
😄 there's definitely some people that this can be applied to in reverse to counter overreaching liberties.
@GeorgeFistoot
@GeorgeFistoot Жыл бұрын
This is normal socializing . Just make sure you do active listening . People are all interesting and have a treasure chest experience . Just listening and respond appropriately
@davidsdinero
@davidsdinero 4 жыл бұрын
Social and financial skills are such important skills to have and will be helpful to get you the most out of life!
@jimmyjab190
@jimmyjab190 4 жыл бұрын
I was just googling how to not be awkward in a coversation and then I get the notification for this video right after, amazing thank you!
@AxxLAfriku
@AxxLAfriku 4 жыл бұрын
AAAAAAHHHHH!!!! PAAAAAIIIINNNN!!!!!! I broke my hand yesterday because of the hate comments I get on my amazing videos. I was so angry that I punched a hole in my computer. Please don't comment anything mean on my wonderful videos, dear jim
@alaskawoolf3737
@alaskawoolf3737 4 жыл бұрын
Big brother is watching you dude
@justinfernandez9876
@justinfernandez9876 4 жыл бұрын
The fbi guy assigned to your computer came in clutch
@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075
@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 3 жыл бұрын
wow that was lucky then :)
@drrab
@drrab 4 жыл бұрын
"Where do you live?" "Bla bla-" "Why do you live?"
@KingOz.
@KingOz. 4 жыл бұрын
“What do you like to eat” “Why do you like to eat”
@dayhills629
@dayhills629 3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@sucramsucram3558
@sucramsucram3558 3 жыл бұрын
🤣 Under-rated comment
@tinas1845
@tinas1845 3 жыл бұрын
I can’t lmfaooooooooo
@Johnhasa1
@Johnhasa1 3 жыл бұрын
W h y
@XxSomeDooshxX
@XxSomeDooshxX 2 жыл бұрын
"Joe asks questions which are fun to answer, for example-" *Ad starts* "Wanna watch meerkats without interruptions?" This is single handedly the most useful episode I've watched, thanks guys
@thec0untess
@thec0untess Жыл бұрын
I got "AI will end you"
@Nettori
@Nettori 6 ай бұрын
You too 😂
@ogluster8873
@ogluster8873 3 жыл бұрын
“How to appear human” would also be an appropriate role.
@ogluster8873
@ogluster8873 3 жыл бұрын
why did i write role?
@SniPeMaSSacUre
@SniPeMaSSacUre 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah I feel like I naturally do these things. I didn’t get much out of this video
@santosgil9123
@santosgil9123 3 жыл бұрын
We have the same Exact name 😮
@ogluster8873
@ogluster8873 3 жыл бұрын
@@santosgil9123 woah dude
@Walter-mr5hd
@Walter-mr5hd 3 жыл бұрын
Zuckerberg: "Write that down, write that down"
@502opz346
@502opz346 3 жыл бұрын
There is one BIG note - he knows everything about his guest and he has studied everything about them.He simply knows that he likes cars or wrestling.
@chibidib
@chibidib 3 жыл бұрын
Then on podcast with Elon it turns out he never saw Falcon 9 landing 😂
@nvmffs
@nvmffs 3 жыл бұрын
So why does he need these empty questions then?
@abstractlogik4040
@abstractlogik4040 3 жыл бұрын
@@nvmffs "everything" was an overstatement
@tahitiantreatskeetjuice23
@tahitiantreatskeetjuice23 3 жыл бұрын
exactly. this stuff doesnt always help when youre meeting new people, but it CAN help.
@tomcarling1146
@tomcarling1146 2 жыл бұрын
So stalk people and get to know everything about them before engaging in small talk, got it.
@dollyri1995
@dollyri1995 3 жыл бұрын
Not to mention Joe does something I absolutely love and wish every person did which is they act like they've known you forever and are super warm, friendly, joyful toward you right when they meet you, and it doesn't feel like there's an invisible awkward wall between the two of you. I try and do that but man social anxiety doesn't make it easy.
@davebowden4010
@davebowden4010 2 жыл бұрын
Such a good instructional vid. Im a big fan of listening too. So many people start a subject then interject because they're really more desperate to tell you about their experience not actually hear yours . Nobody listens anymore. Joe nails both aspects of conversing and listening. Love the guy.
@jaytonbennett9722
@jaytonbennett9722 3 жыл бұрын
As a barber who small talks for a living, this was cool to see someone else described those little things i see in small talk. Great video!
@coreydiculous
@coreydiculous 3 жыл бұрын
I've been mirroring people all wrong. I've been waiting for people to come into bathrooms, and when they do, I smile, make eye contact through the mirror, and say "WHAT BRINGS YOU HERE?!"
@Woahlookitthemoon
@Woahlookitthemoon 3 жыл бұрын
Next time hand them a towl and wait for a tip
@Louganda
@Louganda 3 жыл бұрын
What business haveth you in this bathroom brethren
@Madchris8828
@Madchris8828 3 жыл бұрын
😂 come on that has to work great!
@sswafflez4281
@sswafflez4281 3 жыл бұрын
Imagining this in real life just cracks me up. I want to try this now.
@banzaiib
@banzaiib 3 жыл бұрын
i bet you're fun at parties
@SamMartinPeakPerformance
@SamMartinPeakPerformance 4 жыл бұрын
asking "Why?" questions gets everyone to open up
@zorienx
@zorienx 4 жыл бұрын
"Why are you feeling sad?" "I don't know, google it up."
@SamMartinPeakPerformance
@SamMartinPeakPerformance 4 жыл бұрын
@Biff Malibu it only becomes judgemental basdd on the tone in which it is used
@zohnhadley5217
@zohnhadley5217 4 жыл бұрын
Why do you think it does?
@bluetickbeagles116
@bluetickbeagles116 4 жыл бұрын
My only question to the, “why” is, wouldn’t it come across as nosey or prying?
@SamMartinPeakPerformance
@SamMartinPeakPerformance 4 жыл бұрын
@@bluetickbeagles116 depends on the context - obviously you wouldn't go asking why why why to anyone and everyone ha
@ImCerealSuperDuperCereal
@ImCerealSuperDuperCereal Жыл бұрын
I now watch your channel to relearn social skills after years of bipolar depression and isolation. Thank you for making these.
@comedy8219
@comedy8219 4 жыл бұрын
In the beginning of the conversation, 1. Grease the wheels by giving them a compliment of either their Work, Energy, Or Physical Appearance. Do not make it too sexual, and think of a genuine compliment to those who may be complimented a lot. 2. Use reminds me of thinking. When you are in a conversation think to yourself what does this most remind me of, could be an object, a movie, an actor, or a funny appearance, and use lateral transition to something the both of you could enjoy talking about. 3. Ping things to other topics of interest, create a web of ideas and thinking that stems from whatever was mentioned. until you find mutual common interests. 4. get people to become excited about the conversation once they are speaking. Peel back the onion and ask deeper why questions. For them to tell you why and what is important to them. 5. Create a connection/ let them make you laugh. Allow yourself to laugh when they talk, don't fake laughter let it be genuine. 6. Mirroring, repeating the last 1 - 3 words to make them feel heard. Do not do it too often stay true to yourself and don't copy every sentence. It is a way to interrupt while allowing them to feel heard and to build rapport.
@simeon3D
@simeon3D 4 жыл бұрын
Great summary!
@raymondqiu8202
@raymondqiu8202 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much dude ❤️❤️. You saving ppl hella time to write a summary by doing this
@DESTRAKON
@DESTRAKON 4 жыл бұрын
As "the quiet guy" that speaks when spoken to, this helps alot, thanks
@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075
@professorbaxtercarelessdre1075 3 жыл бұрын
i'm super quiet too, hopefully we can both get some use out of this :)
@flipgirl3479
@flipgirl3479 3 жыл бұрын
Same bro I have NPC energy
@DESTRAKON
@DESTRAKON 3 жыл бұрын
@@flipgirl3479 sounds mad creepy when you put it like that
@slClaw
@slClaw 3 жыл бұрын
I DON'T KNOW WHY THIS WAS IN MY RECOMMENDED BUT THIS ADVICE IS EXACTLY WHAT I NEED AFTER BEING ANTI-SOCIAL FOR A YEAR NOW. THANK YOU!!!
@7justin34
@7justin34 2 жыл бұрын
Things I learned from this video: 1.) Asking why might be annoying, but is the best way to get the root of the subject and have an interesting conversation. 2.) Laughing is the best way to lighten the mood and take the awkwardness out of the picture. 3.) Compliments are the best way to start a conversation.
@claudrebille178
@claudrebille178 Жыл бұрын
Problem is the guy is trying to sell his programme
@onebridge7231
@onebridge7231 3 жыл бұрын
Joe is highly underrated as a communicator. He comes off as crude to some, but he is highly intelligent and will methodically work you into a corner if you’re spitting B.S. and then masterly backs off and redirects once he tore you down, but before you get too combative. It’s a roller coaster to watch him play with some people!
@kanisbdg
@kanisbdg 3 жыл бұрын
@Peyton Pendley no, these are subconscious techniques that come off natural because they're natural based on experience and wisdom
@beasthaven1571
@beasthaven1571 3 жыл бұрын
Where can you learn this skill…
@tarico4436
@tarico4436 2 жыл бұрын
Yes. I have seen Joe do that to some of his guests. Joe's sure he's more correct about some issue, he'll push it for a bit, but then back off into a more agreeable two-way conversation.
@robertjohnson8250
@robertjohnson8250 2 жыл бұрын
@Pepe Pupu wait, so you mean a successful podcast host who interviews people, guiding long conversations for a living is manipulative? Will someone nominate this man for a Nobel Peace Price; what a revelation!
@NASkeywest
@NASkeywest Жыл бұрын
Ex fyfyEd and cm😢e Dr. Red Dr. Red
@johngunther744
@johngunther744 3 жыл бұрын
I forgot how to act with people when my dad started putting me down treating me like s*** and having no sense of worth so forth so thank you for this
@Whaddle31
@Whaddle31 3 жыл бұрын
Kewl
@jamiewainwright2150
@jamiewainwright2150 4 жыл бұрын
small talks actually really easy if you don't care what other people think about you and just have enough confidence in yourself
@XenoTravis
@XenoTravis Жыл бұрын
After watching hours and hours and hours of podcast I could tell my conversational skills are better. People have said I am fun and not boring to talk to. I like having super long conversations now.
@carterbozovich9669
@carterbozovich9669 3 жыл бұрын
Summary of this Video, hope it helps. 1. Start with a compliment about their work, energy or physical. mistakes possibly -to Sexual -Make it genuine 2.Transition with "this reminds me of (blank)" If you don't like a new topic then remind or compare it to something you like. 3. Look for topics of sharing interest. 4.Get others to be excited about the topic by asking whys questions. Ask the first question like where do you live? then why? Ask questions that are fun and unrealistic. 5. Create a connection by laughing. The more you laugh the easier it becomes. Mirror others by repeating last 3 words to make this feel heard. Stay true to yourself and not pick your words so slowly.
@DanielMiranda-lu2bn
@DanielMiranda-lu2bn 4 жыл бұрын
CBD was a blessing in my life, since Ive been taking It daily small talk is so natural and I feel I always control the conversation
@HealthyKaden
@HealthyKaden 3 жыл бұрын
I grew up super extroverted but realized as i became an adult that i have horrible conversational skills. You are a life saver
@samyscars
@samyscars 2 жыл бұрын
why?
@HealthyKaden
@HealthyKaden 2 жыл бұрын
@@samyscars cus ive taken way too many psychedelics and my brain go brrr sometimes
@Leyuhm
@Leyuhm 2 жыл бұрын
@@HealthyKaden BRUH FEELS LMAO
@asadfalconsfan1851
@asadfalconsfan1851 2 жыл бұрын
@@HealthyKaden same man
@theephantommenace
@theephantommenace Жыл бұрын
@@HealthyKaden I feel I fried my brain off psychedelics too 🤣
@kylequintana
@kylequintana 2 жыл бұрын
My wife is a master at small talk and I just never understood how she did it. She can keep a conversation going for hours with people. Maybe that’s just most women 🤔 . This is helpful for me because I’m an introvert, I avoid parties or places where I’d have to small talk with strangers because it’s so exhausting to me.
@0xsergy
@0xsergy 2 жыл бұрын
Women get a lot of practice keep in mind, lots of men in the courting phase gonna small chat them up so they do get the opportunity to practice those skills. Vs men have to go out of their way to chat up women(generally, unless you're Brad Pitt)
@gregorycora8302
@gregorycora8302 3 жыл бұрын
this just makes me appreciate joe more. he does it so naturally.
@Sakaki98
@Sakaki98 4 жыл бұрын
How socially anxious people make small talk: “How are you?” “I’m good.” “...Nice talking to you(man, I’m such a legend!)”
@startasticalart6138
@startasticalart6138 4 жыл бұрын
Please make a video with Daniel Radcliffe!!!
@wirly-
@wirly- 4 жыл бұрын
Socially anxious people after watching this video: How are you? Im good Reminds me of that time when i was good. you were good. Why? Hahahha
@yasenemad9693
@yasenemad9693 4 жыл бұрын
So why did you pick this video to watch?....sorry just practicing😂
@maisetas
@maisetas 4 жыл бұрын
dmt
@isaiahhiggins
@isaiahhiggins 3 жыл бұрын
Stop calling me out 😂
@cazzio3754
@cazzio3754 3 жыл бұрын
There was a time in 2020 that for around 8 months I only socialized with the food delivery guy and I once forgot how to talk to them
@BaronVonAuslese
@BaronVonAuslese Ай бұрын
"Ask fun questions like...(ad interruption)..."Why is Ramen bad for you?"...! LOL What great timing!
@Dunwich93
@Dunwich93 4 жыл бұрын
"Hi how are you?" "High, how are you?"
@nightrider1996
@nightrider1996 4 жыл бұрын
how high are you?
@Dunwich93
@Dunwich93 4 жыл бұрын
@@nightrider1996 Sober actually :/
@matej2268
@matej2268 4 жыл бұрын
@@nightrider1996 im sooo high, tolko da pišem na drugom jeziku
@Greatwealthgentleman
@Greatwealthgentleman 4 жыл бұрын
Why high are you?
@EmperorsNewWardrobe
@EmperorsNewWardrobe 3 жыл бұрын
Top punnery
@kaylamcme2432
@kaylamcme2432 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this channel! I have honestly seen a HUGE improvement in my social life, confidence, and even self image! I finally feel like I can talk to anyone I want. I used to feel like I was socially awkward, but not anymore!!!
@highconsciousness240
@highconsciousness240 4 жыл бұрын
the bets way to connect with anyone is laugh genuinely -watch something funny before going out
@NabDabs
@NabDabs Жыл бұрын
1. when you first meet, compliment them. examples are thank you so much for being here; I love being around people like you, you are going for sht all the time and it’s amazing because you give out so much energy; nice to meet you; congrats on the engagement. Compliments to avoid: sexual, making a compliment we don’t mean, Don't dwell on compliments; it means when conversation focuses more on the compliment than the actual topic. Especially with high-status people who oftem receive compliments, they might not value them much. It's better to swiftly shift from the compliment to the main conversation topic. 2. Smoothly transition to new topics: employ the "reminds me of" technique. When asked a question, use your answer as a way to steer the conversation to a new topic in relation to the previous topic. This is done by mentally asking yourself, "What does this remind me of?" Dont just answer the question, elaborate. if you were asked a question about a topic that you’re not interested in, use lateral thinking to transition to something else. an example of this would be: Interviewer: “are you a fan of baseball crowd noise?” Interviewee: “No I’m not a fan of the noise. I hated when cars do that. They…” 3. mentioned topics that you think you both have interest: Talk about topics that you like and if the other looks excited, then keep it going. don’t talk about stuff if you don’t think the other is going to like. 4. getting other people excited about the conversation: don’t ask yes-no questions. instead, ask “why” question to get someone talking about what they value. Ex: where do you live? Why do you live there? Ex: what do you do for work? Why did you decide to do that? This way, you can hear what’s important to them and you can center the topic around that. 5. Ask questions that are fun to answer like what-ifs, if you, hypothetical, favorite, would you rather, personal stories, 6. create a connection with people while talking: allow yourself to laugh, but don’t think laugh. Laugh when you find something funny. 7. make the other feel heard by mirroring. it’s when you repeat the last few words that the other person said. Its a way to interrupt it without ignoring the other person.
@theDarkness558
@theDarkness558 4 жыл бұрын
It's amazing how entertaining Joe can make a small talk with practically anyone of anyfield
@jackguerra9729
@jackguerra9729 3 жыл бұрын
I have to thank you for this video because I am an ESL teacher and a Russian student of mine is self conscious of her inability to small talk. I've been going over the basics but this is where I'll be going next 👍
@heithwatkins
@heithwatkins 4 жыл бұрын
I guess I have already learned this through a lifetime of experience. Being yourself and not worrying about what others think makes conversation easy and genuine. If you understand that you are speaking with another person created in God's image, with infinite value. And realize that their opinion really matters. Going through the entire conversation with love, gratitude and respect. Then its always easy.
@Xianne027
@Xianne027 Ай бұрын
I relocated overseas a couple of decades ago. At gatherings new acquaintances often ask an uncomfortable question, "Why did you move to this country?" As I teach in my intercultural awareness courses, it's best to AVOID that question! No foreigner wants to have to explain - or even remember - the difficult circumstances that they were dealing with that led to the hard decision to move to another country. Sure maybe a teeny, tiny minority moved due to their job or a marriage, but more often due to difficult circumstances. No matter what, keep in mind that these are PERSONAL matters, often painful and no one wants to justify what happened decades ago. Better to ask, "What is it that you LIKE about this country/city/state?" That gives an impetus toward a more positive conversation, which may bring new insights.
@Youtuber__
@Youtuber__ 3 жыл бұрын
Watching this as a social person, I literally learned about things I do naturally but never knew why I was doing them.
@quddusermias1690
@quddusermias1690 3 жыл бұрын
whoa
@Fortheloveoforthodoxing
@Fortheloveoforthodoxing 3 жыл бұрын
Lol my partner is the same. He’s made so many friends + opportunities just being naturally himself (a confident socializer) I watch him flow effortlessly into conversations with random strangers so often. As someone who is social but not as outgoing, meaning I rarely strike up whole conversations with absolute strangers, usually just small talk that ends quickly. Sometimes there are people whoare just easy to click with but it surely takes a skillful flow to navigate convo with just anyone at anytime. Lucky you haha
@tylerzondervan7628
@tylerzondervan7628 2 жыл бұрын
Same Dude when i saw this Dale i was like ... he just said what i was thinking :D
@JasonEmerson711
@JasonEmerson711 2 жыл бұрын
Spot on. Was thinking the exact same thing. I do some of these things without even knowing I did them.
@0xsergy
@0xsergy 2 жыл бұрын
@@Fortheloveoforthodoxing I think that's like 99.9% upbringing. Whenever i was a kid and went out with my dad that's what he did, random jokes and conversations with ppl so now when i go out I do similar. Pretty sure your partner just had a(n) outgoing parent(s).
@BillStreeter
@BillStreeter 2 жыл бұрын
I disagree with asking people "why" questions. It's subtly confrontational. People tend to have a visceral reaction to "why" as if they're being accused of something--it's very deep and goes back to childhood when parents would ask things like "why did you do that?!" This is not to say you can't ask that kind of question, just avoid the word "why." So change it up by asking "what made you decide to ..." or "what led you to ..."
@davidguy209
@davidguy209 Жыл бұрын
I watched many of your videos, but I'm a new subscriber. I'm nearly 57 years old, and have always been/ felt a pariah. I have to admit, your observations and advice are eye-opening, even for someone my age. If only I'd had a resource like this when I was younger...
@randomdaveUK
@randomdaveUK 2 жыл бұрын
Running a podcast like his that's built this massive reputation ain't easy. It's great to take this deep dive. Joe isn't winging all this
@queenslander954
@queenslander954 Жыл бұрын
Maybe not , but siding with whack-job MAGA’s theory’s on Dem’s stitching up January 06 attack has scraped the barrel.
@marlono8755
@marlono8755 3 жыл бұрын
I have never found a video that breaks down small tall this well! Definitely saving it!
@chilkootsailor492
@chilkootsailor492 Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your videos. As someone with mild Asperger's its frustrating recognizing how awkward a conversation is and not having the means to fix it. I'm really, really thankful for this.
@JackOAT_
@JackOAT_ 3 жыл бұрын
its weird after youve been in a relationship for a long time you forget how to make small talk without being repetitive this is definitely going to help
@user-mv3cg7hi7g
@user-mv3cg7hi7g 2 жыл бұрын
This video is a masterful presentation on charisma and conversations. It does a great job of showing which aspects make Joe so successful as a host. Great video!
@stephanrobert5593
@stephanrobert5593 3 жыл бұрын
"How old are you?" "I'm 25" "Why are you 25" "uhm..." *fecc mission failed, we'll get 'em next time*
@immts6475
@immts6475 3 жыл бұрын
Where are you 25?
@hashslinger2734
@hashslinger2734 3 жыл бұрын
Why are you gae?
@igorthelight
@igorthelight 3 жыл бұрын
@@hashslinger2734 Who says I'm gae?
@hashslinger2734
@hashslinger2734 3 жыл бұрын
@@igorthelight u are gae
@igorthelight
@igorthelight 3 жыл бұрын
@@hashslinger2734 What shows that I'm gae?
@caioaugusto6819
@caioaugusto6819 3 жыл бұрын
This was really helpful. I struggle with socializing since a child, and even though I've picked up on a few of these concepts on personal experience, I never actually thought about it and tried to piece it all together. Thank you.
@miselneral
@miselneral 3 жыл бұрын
Joe is making "small talk" with people that can be searched up online and see what talking points can be good so the conversations dont just halt. When you meet someone for the first time you just have to figure it out.
@rvh4034
@rvh4034 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah imagine meeting someone for the first time and not knowing anything about them and then state "I love being around people like you" hahaha Fcking AWKWARD
@cleansocks3460
@cleansocks3460 3 жыл бұрын
i mean that guys beard was pretty easy to notice. you can also use that energy card slightly down the line after maybe you ask them a couple personal questions that would reveal some things about their character
@El1as--
@El1as-- 3 жыл бұрын
The video literally explained how to do it with anybody
@rvh4034
@rvh4034 3 жыл бұрын
@@El1as-- make a vid of you doing it please. Show us that it works.
@kremin234
@kremin234 3 жыл бұрын
So just... figure it out.
@JasonTylerRicci
@JasonTylerRicci 3 жыл бұрын
The reason I LOVE Joe as a Podcaster, is his conversations and interviews seems so authentic and they flow so naturally.
@Jtorrrs209
@Jtorrrs209 4 жыл бұрын
Joe laughs at everything because he’s high.
@lennon_richardson
@lennon_richardson 4 жыл бұрын
I laughed at that and I’m not even high.
@wadecarefully
@wadecarefully 4 жыл бұрын
@@lennon_richardson I laughed at that and I am high
@ferguson1376
@ferguson1376 4 жыл бұрын
@@wadecarefully I laughed at this thread and I am low
@emr1d341
@emr1d341 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe. But he also has a natural sense of humor. Joe's done standup, and standup is about finding humor in the mundane.
@Likexner
@Likexner 4 жыл бұрын
It doesnt work like that.
@extremerunner
@extremerunner 3 жыл бұрын
So just talk about things you’re interested in, be curious, and be genuine.
@wormman1772
@wormman1772 3 жыл бұрын
if you can, try to be interested in about anything. the more you know, the better
@ewngzedward6182
@ewngzedward6182 3 жыл бұрын
@@wormman1772 or just be genuinely uninterested in a lot of things.
@wormman1772
@wormman1772 3 жыл бұрын
@@ewngzedward6182 that works too
@dguyiop8
@dguyiop8 3 жыл бұрын
Pretending to be genuine works. I agree.
@4lifejeph
@4lifejeph Жыл бұрын
I watched the bunch of these conversation videos tonight, and this one is by far the best of the bunch. He gives good clear examples to make his point.
@bgurley1998
@bgurley1998 4 жыл бұрын
I have to do a lot of small talk for my job and sometimes it’s so awkward💀I’ve gotten better at small talk but I can really do much better. I like how this was actionable advice!
@declanryan6540
@declanryan6540 Жыл бұрын
A head injury solved all my previous social weirdness, literally felt like a new man. Interesting videos bud. 👍👍
@drewdorris7563
@drewdorris7563 Жыл бұрын
I was an already very outgoing , talkative and charismatic person. I was still a little awkward sometimes when meeting someone new. I recently have gotten my first job as a waiter. I have been doing this for about 6 months and I undoubtedly feel more confident (then I already was) talking to new people and being able to communicate in a nice polite way that makes people have an enjoyable energy when I am speaking with them. PARENTS 1000% recommend pushing something in service industry as a first job for kids like me to grow and become independent when communicating with people. I find myself when with my parents introduce me to new people I instantly make a good impression and leave a good thought of myself to them. Great for networking and building VALUABLE communication skills with people
@ComplexSoch
@ComplexSoch 7 ай бұрын
So the list is 1. Compliment with positive vibe. eg. on work, energy, platonic physical genuine compliment(beard, etc) now to not to be overly complimenting 2. Transition between topics using “reminds me of” thinking. than to give any experience or any reminders to another stuff, than to other reminders in recurring. if you said "no", say why of no and get things to new topics. 3. Ping for topics of mutual interest. Immediate connections. deeper connections 4. Make people exited for stuffs ;- a. where do live? why ?OR what you work ? why? deeper understandings. not any interesting in conversations b. Fun to answer questions = you had magic wand? you are king of the world? to the answers that are "no" 5. a. Laughs easily on other persons stuff... b. mirroring words = make them heard by last 3 words, and for rapport to take control of conversation. BUT dont be a copycat. Be Authentic true to yourself.
@Micah__
@Micah__ 4 жыл бұрын
Waitress: Enjoy your food! Me: You too! 🤦🏻‍♂️
@user-im3gj6cl4x
@user-im3gj6cl4x 4 жыл бұрын
All the time 😂
@jacklambert2607
@jacklambert2607 3 жыл бұрын
Always when checking in bags at the airport: Counter: Have a nice flight. Me: Thanks. You too.
@johnwirk
@johnwirk 3 жыл бұрын
Cashier: Bye thanks. Me: Have a good tonight.
@VRTimmeeh
@VRTimmeeh 3 жыл бұрын
Lool 😂
@brandonellis8111
@brandonellis8111 3 жыл бұрын
My boy Lenarr Young got stomped because he said you too after saying thank you 🤕
@anklebracelet2071
@anklebracelet2071 3 жыл бұрын
Step one: immediately start telling somebody top ten most convincing conspiracy theories.
@cleansocks3460
@cleansocks3460 3 жыл бұрын
this is my only step
@letsprayandfasttogether9618
@letsprayandfasttogether9618 3 жыл бұрын
This would be a fun conversation
@anklebracelet2071
@anklebracelet2071 3 жыл бұрын
@@roberthay6422 lmaoo
@nvmffs
@nvmffs 3 жыл бұрын
Well everybody believes at least one cospiracy so...
@trillrifaxegrindor4411
@trillrifaxegrindor4411 3 жыл бұрын
then they run or think you are insane(or you have a friend for life)
@johnmichael_
@johnmichael_ 4 жыл бұрын
"I dont know what to talk about" Joe Rogan- "Jamie, pull some topics up" 😂😂😂
@osama2135
@osama2135 3 жыл бұрын
Underrated comment 🤣
@Waiting4Him111
@Waiting4Him111 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad this popped up in my feed. I have been making an effort to be more social, but i don't have great social skills. Obviously, it's not something you're born with; it's something you learn. Joe seems to have a genuine interest in others. That's the first thing i have to grind into my brain. People like it when you seem to genuinely care about them.
@annelouise3379
@annelouise3379 3 жыл бұрын
One of my go to ‘fun questions’ when talking to a sports fan goes along the lines of, “if you were the manager of x team what trades would you make?”
@SuspiciousTumbleweed
@SuspiciousTumbleweed Жыл бұрын
I cant afford the program but I love your videos, they've helped me identify what kind of person i am at a basic level and how to capitalize off that type. Im not the most energetic out there person so I always felt like I'd always fade into the background no matter what. Thanks a lot guys!
@BabyCEQ
@BabyCEQ Жыл бұрын
You can find parts of the course leaked in the internet. You can see it unfair to people who paid for it but there are always people who can't afford it with money. So pay with the effort searching it.
@SuspiciousTumbleweed
@SuspiciousTumbleweed Жыл бұрын
@@BabyCEQ i never said it was unfair, i was just thanking the uploader for the videos.
@ShahabSheikhzadeh
@ShahabSheikhzadeh Жыл бұрын
His program isn't that great. You can find copies floating around and there several versions as a result of the content floating around. His KZbin material is far better than the program, the program just provides structure. What's super frustrating is he uses people that you probably would not want to associate with.
@ShahabSheikhzadeh
@ShahabSheikhzadeh Жыл бұрын
@@BabyCEQ these days with everyone and their mother creating content so they can get you to "buy my course!", I'm glad the content gets leaked. It forces the creator to evolve the material until they can't anymore. You can see it with this channel and how KZbin is far more put together and much tighter knit content than the program. No one wants to pay for the program to just be structured KZbin videos though.
@SuspiciousTumbleweed
@SuspiciousTumbleweed Жыл бұрын
@@ShahabSheikhzadeh what do you mean by uses people you might not want to associate with?
@isabellarose9737
@isabellarose9737 4 жыл бұрын
You know they’re charismatic when every video smoothly transitions into CU and reinforces why you should enroll 😉
@David-hl1wo
@David-hl1wo Жыл бұрын
Its crazy how I've been doing some of these things subconsciously, interesting to see how people analyze these things
@zakking5654
@zakking5654 2 жыл бұрын
It’s kind of crazy how when I was a kid I use to be so terrible at talking in general, especially to women I was interested in. But as I grew older it just sort of came naturally and what I see in this video is exactly with a few more things I never new about. So I’m interested to see how much of an improvement my conversations are with this current girl I’ve just started talking to
@0xsergy
@0xsergy 2 жыл бұрын
It's practice. I bet you went out and failed at conversations a bunch, right? Then got better? I doubt any basement dweller got better by avoiding social interactions(like me :D).
@EGIwords
@EGIwords 4 жыл бұрын
"where were you born?" "California" "Why?"
@jairdamian9245
@jairdamian9245 4 жыл бұрын
'Cause I'm hella cool, That's why! 😎
@ericgol7
@ericgol7 4 жыл бұрын
Prepare for a depressing answer if you ask that
@alrivers2297
@alrivers2297 4 жыл бұрын
@@ericgol7 what state are you from?
@JesusMedina-ty6pi
@JesusMedina-ty6pi 2 жыл бұрын
I work as a valet in a casino. And small talk is a big part of it. As someone who’s always been an introvert this has been a huge challenge for me
@bread3288
@bread3288 2 жыл бұрын
We all know why we are here - we all hate small talks but feel the compelling need to learn them anyways in the most direct and step by step manner
@blondemario
@blondemario Жыл бұрын
I do not know why I am here. I suppose with all this "it's the "DUH-HUH Left" "it's the "DUH-HUH Left"" nonsense I was just looking to get a few things off my chest. Now I am her e I do not know what
@MindNow
@MindNow 4 жыл бұрын
*Just Care about them and don’t be too much in ur head* 🙏
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