Common Habits That Make People Like You Less

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Sometimes we know for sure we’ve done something to make people dislike us. But other times it’s less obvious and the slap isn’t the only thing that is causing Will to receive such backlash - there were several more common mistakes that turned people against him.
That’s why in this video we’ll cover 3 of the more subtle things Will did so you can avoid these mistakes in your own life. We will also get into the real reason why Will Smith hit Chris Rock, something I have not seen anyone else talk about yet.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:24 - Mistake #1: Triangulating yourself into your significant other's relationships
1:40 - Mistake #2: Dodging ownership of bad behavior
3:12 - Mistake #3: Carrying emotional baggage to your interactions
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[@NicholasLolin]

This is legitimately the best and most productive Will Smith based content I've seen post slap. Kudos to you Charlie

[@Cekatu]

Agreed 💯

[@badjoj015]

There was another one about Will which is "Jada is a narcissist..." here on youtube. That one definitely makes you understand Will and Jada more about relationships in general, not really about Will and Jada so to speak

[@kernzyp]

At the same time, I agree. My dad was an alcoholic gypsy psychopath. Ruined all our lives, then blamed us. Home wreckers should die.

[@KCreep]

Normally I'd agree... but the dude legit advocated for the conscious use of psychedelics without any back up or evidence. As far as I know Charlie isn't a doctor, I don't think it's really ethetical to plant those ideas into the minds of people dealing with trauma to use drugs, because a percentage of those people are going to be inclined to be addicts. I"m not saying what he said is wrong.... what I'm saying is it's more responsible to add a ton of caveates and addendums to a statement like that.

[@frommyshelfbookstore]

I agree

[@rasmusn.e.m1064]

So glad you mentioned that Jada is her own person. It isn't Will's responsibility to protect her pride by acting on her behalf.

[@roidjones]

You're right but women simply refuse to see it this way, if a woman is offended the man MUST charge in on her behalf.

[@rasmusn.e.m1064]

@@roidjones Luckily, not where I live.

[@rafatsiddikey4102]

@@rasmusn.e.m1064 Which planet you live in? One more thing. When people get married, they promise to stand for each other. Smith did the right job.

[@kevinthiago413]

@@rafatsiddikey4102 no

[@akashajones6079]

@@roidjones Don't speak for every women on the planet mate. That's just ridiculous.

[@theactualcanadian8300]

Can we appreciate that we get this content completely free? These videos are phenomenal.

[@reyannemustafa7098]

AGREED!!!!!!

[@blesd4success]

Agreed!

[@barbaralachance5836]

Nothing is ever free my friend 😊 but this is great content for not much I agree 😊

[@karlharland2857]

What we appreciate is that people that say or start of saying "can we appreciate", or "who's watching this in 2022"..we believe them to work for KZbin. Okay.

[@theactualcanadian8300]

@@karlharland2857 you can believe whatever you want. Only the YT comments could take a nice comment and flip it. Ugh.

[@jaym3566]

It all makes sense when you break it down like this and look at Will's childhood trauma. He has carried the guilt from not being able to protect his mother his whole life. What he needs to realize is that it was never his job to protect his mother. She and his father were supposed to protect him. What Will needs is to feel protected more than to protect others. I wish him peace and healing. Sad the way things happened but I think he and everyone need our compassion more than our judgement. Everyone has trauma and breaking points.

[@kenzelukabarphukan200]

Lol funny how Will has a problem what comes out of Chris's mouth however he doesn't have any problem what cums/comes in jade's mouth .

[@Cekatu]

Jay M such a lovely, loving, compassionate comment! This world needs more empathy, sympathy, compassion and love.

[@BikerJim74]

oh boo hoo

[@cadedog3]

@@BikerJim74 down bad 💀

[@SongSupply]

Bruh

[@Pancakegr8]

Thank you for both acknowledging that what Will Smith did was wrong, but also that he is still a human with trauma like the rest of us. I feel like a lot of people only recognize the former.

[@TheErlend87]

Absolutely. Of course he was wrong, but it does not make him a monster.

[@Cekatu]

Both of you are on point! ✔️ So many people got up unto their high horses so that they could look down and judge him. This is such a balanced and fair commentary by the youtuber.

[@mrkwrbl]

it was just a slap, people too bored

[@Pancakegr8]

@@Cekatu I agree! Best commentary I've seen by far considering we can actually take something useful away from it.

[@rinaticson390]

Exactly, I have been going back and forth with people on his trauma, but everyone wants to tear him down. That is not what he needs, I hope and pray that he gets the proper treatment for his past trauma.

[@RacingSnails64]

This is actually a really good video. This really puts what Will did in context and makes it understandable. Trying to prevent the past by over-correcting in the present... I think I do that as well, more often than I probably realize. I wanna research more on that!

[@johnbravo1034]

I think that can be said of most of us.

[@cherieg-johns1650]

Absolutely agree. This analysis made total sense. And it made me like the narrator & all the people who put the together even more :)

[@Antwannnn]

So how do they sit? And are they D cups or we talking bigger?

[@protestthisyouloser1093]

We’ve all done it

[@jamesmcinnis208]

"actually"

[@JayneNicoletti]

"Judgement of anyone often serves to bolster our own egos." This.

[@jessicadrew5531]

I grew up poor and with an abusive dad. I always thought I was pretty self aware, but I didn't realize that my "hardworking" mentality is fueled by financial anxiety even though I'm in a good place but I constantly make myself miserable at jobs for no reason. I think about it constantly. I remember watching my mother cry because she was embarrassed her card got declined because my dad spent the money. A stranger hugged her and paid for the groceries. We didn't talk about it when we got in the car and I have never spoken about it once. However, I think about it a lot. Now I have that random fear and check my bank account all the time when there is no reason outside of identity theft, that the money won't be there. Crazy how I never thought about any of this. Because my dad's moods were everywhere from laughing and joking non stop to rage at the drop of a hat, I get worried when my boyfriend seems off like he's gonna explode or be cruel (he never does). I'm aware that can be an insecure/annoying trait so I avoid letting him know that I'm worried about it and try to just internalize it but it effects me more than I'd ever like to admit to him. I'm gonna work on these. Maybe start by verbalizing to him or a friend that I'm kinda anxious and weird about money. I feel like I'll feel better when I finally say it to someone I know and love.

[@diamondgarcia9409]

It's good you recognize it now. That way you can process it fully and move on from it. I recently realized that the reason I can't let go of this huge chip I have on my shoulder is because I think if I do then I will stop being so hardworking. The truth is that I would probably only gain clarity and peace. Just in case it comes up for you, you don't have to hold onto it to be hardworking.

[@sander2723]

Very well said. Good luck in your journey!

[@omerkeidar95]

Understanding these behaviors is a major step forward, I can honestly not recommend enough going to therapy so you could find a way to cope in a healthy way.

[@Octoschizare]

Tell your boyfriend these stories. It will help both of you.

[@lostandfound5145]

Hi Jessica, your story made me tear up. I know what that is like. I’m 39 now and I’ve come a long way, and I can tell you that you’re very probably dealing with some complex post traumatic responses and understanding more about that will help you so much. Survivors always tell ourselves that things could have been worse, we’re fine, we’re tough and we soldier on. We minimize the pain and then usually don’t fully understand how truly horrible the experiences really were. We have trouble validating that, feeling safe, and feeling worthy of love. And you probably have no idea how much of that is going on within you. If it’s possible for you to afford therapy there are online programs you could try. Therapy can be absolutely life changing. There are also some PTSD workbooks and dialectical behavioral therapy workbooks and some stuff like that you can get on Amazon or other bookstores and try doing a couple pages a day in the evenings. It can’t hurt. It can only help. From one daughter of an abusive man to another- you never deserved that. I’m sorry your mom didnt feel strong enough to save you from that. She probably had no idea how sick she was from what she was experiencing. I will be praying for you tonight! Don’t be afraid to try some of those books or therapy video-conference services. I can tell you, they truly changed my life

[@paleobc65]

5:30 I’m glad he addressed how the past can affect how we act in the present day. Too many people dismiss others by saying “let go of the past” and it’s just not that simple

[@Cekatu]

Telling people to "let go of the past" or "time to move on" is an extremely wicked and cruel thing to do.

[@breadyegg]

It is that simple. It just isn't easy. And even then you can say it is that easy, but the ego doesn't allow it to be easy

[@breadyegg]

@Grace Kelly Hi. Thanks for sharing your experience! I mean, "on paper" it is that simple. Of course, the human experience of dealing with it is never that easy to endure and live with. It sounds like you, like me, are doing the right things to work on the reality of dealing with whatever particular issue is you are dealing with. I wish you all the best with that and a happy life. I am making progress (slowly) and I hope you are too.

[@Enigma_408]

@Grace Kelly most people dont meditate and understand the science of what it does to your brainwaves , u literally just focused on the present moment

[@Enigma_408]

@Grace Kelly yea just getting started is the hard part once u in that zone its worth it and life changing

[@TheGoldenboyo]

Finally. This is the first video I’ve seen since the Oscar’s incident that directly links Will’s childhood trauma of his abusive father beating his mother to him slapping Chris Rock. Every other commentary somehow cites Jada’s past infidelity as the root of Will’s issues rather than another symptom of a deeper cause. When I first heard about Will’s alcoholic father and childhood trauma, I’ve been disappointed so few people have connected the dots. This breakdown is both insightful and sobering in showing how easy it is for the best of us to suppress our traumas through adulthood and, if we don’t deal with them, let them rise up in ugly public moments that could tarnish our reputation permanently. I had such an incident where my own primal and angry reaction to something very innocuous truly surprised me. I had the same initial reaction of pride and shame (similar to Will during his acceptance speech) due to my conflicting emotions. It was only after years of therapy I was able to face my outbursts and truly begin to own my behaviour. That has been a huge help in me dealing with my own childhood traumas. I truly hope Will Smith sees this video and gets the help he needs.

[@lenaxox4167]

i was hoping he'd see it too, though there are so many videos like this i doubt he will, but this is the best one. the past really does affect the way you behave and im so glad charlie explained this. i think this would really help will if he saw it, and allow people bashing him to understand him more.

[@ms.e195]

Very well stated.

[@fabrizioruizdiaz8950]

I have been watching your videos for about 4 years now, they've helped me a LOT, but i have never felt so touched on a personal level as when you said that recreating the past and making amends is not healing you, embracing the truth will, I am 22 years old, and I still feel like I need to grow so much. I really do apreciate your content but rarely coment, hope you have a great day and continue with the channel.

[@JustTheFlecks]

Survivors of trauma act that trauma out all the time. They also spend a lot of energy trying to be validated and loved. I suspect very few successful actors come from stable homes.

[@losasakarosa9050]

@@JustTheFlecks so true

[@Markone99]

Hey Charlie! Great stuff, especially the "the traumatized parts of your psyche never grew up, so they try to recreate the past and somehow try to fix it" My god, that hit differently! And nostalgia for me is a huge thing that works the same

[@TD2995]

If you liked that quote, you should definitely read or listen to “The Body Keeps the Score”

[@Markone99]

@@TD2995 what's that? I genuinely hate reading, but if it could be found as a youtube vid, I'd love to hear it read!

[@RcsN505]

That's Freud. His entire theory of psychotherapy is based on childhood experiences and how those reflect on our coping mechanisms (though he called those different things).

[@Mr_Case_Time]

Very interesting first point. Jada isn’t just Will’s wife, she’s an adult that has the capacity to stand up for herself and settle her own disputes.

[@Lepidopray]

Nah, a woman is a man's property. It's his job to protect his property. /s

[@frankmuscular]

Trauma : No

[@dkvitaleme]

An immediate rewatch...that perspective of telling Jada to speak with Chris about the joke was honestly great.

[@amberlaird]

I love how this channel has evolved from tips on how to charm others into elevating our consciousness around other people's wounds and our own. To heal and to be more compassionate. This is excellent.

[@FragmentJack]

I was tired of hearing about the situation, but I’m glad you covered it by making an example out of it.

[@tayzonday]

You must watch a tremendous amount of film and television to know all these references to edit together.

[@twiceshy9773]

I think he has a team

[@alikhaled844]

this guy is basically a walking encyclopedia

[@marnieorr9143]

So helpful and insightful. Brilliant interpretation of Will Smith's lesson that nobody has even remotely managed to pinpoint. This area of social knowledge is not yet understood in popular vernacular, so its very articulate.

[@roidjones]

Then getting on stage and proclaiming yourself as a vessel for love

[@TD2995]

So good to have you back Charlie. And I can tell you’ve learned even more since your old videos. These new ones are on a different level!

[@SirJohann]

Wow…tbh, I smile even at moments where I shouldn’t be smiling. People around me always think I’m taking it as a joke when it happens, but I couldn’t explain why I do it after all these years. After watching this video, it’s clear to me I use it as a coping mechanism. I’m really mind blown right now. 🤯

[@diamondgarcia9409]

Congrats

[@SirJohann]

@@diamondgarcia9409 thank you so much!

[@smcd6101]

This was such a good analysis IMO. Will’s apology wasn’t so much of an “I’m sorry I did this”, but rather “I’m sorry that I HAD to do this,” which seems to reflect his prior trauma.

[@b61atharvadhore43]

This video and the message conveyed in it, is so good man....i really appreciate the efforts put in the making of this video😄

[@reyannemustafa7098]

Ohhhhhhhkayyyyyyy.. W O W !!! 😱 Charlie and team, I think this is hands down one of THE best Charisma on Command videos.🙌 I think what made this one stand out the most compared to the others (and the others are absolutely phenomenal so that is saying something) is the blend with inner shadow work in the dialog. Love the tie with past trauma and childhood triggers. Would love to see a blend of more in the future. Well done fam! 👏🧡

[@BienvenidoAlHoloceno]

Excellent video, this is the deepest analysis I've seen of the incident.

[@TheFanDubFan]

Great video! I especially appreciate how you don't exploit the "shocking" situation and fuel anger, but instead you turn it into a very meaningful lesson

[@GhostOfSparta305]

Thank you for bringing up Will’s baggage of “needing to protect women/keep them happy” from his book. It’s disappointing to see so many focus on Jada apparently “manipulating” Will, while pretty much no one is talking about Will’s own demons that still need sorting out.

[@jennted]

It's probably both. His trauma as a kid is leaving him open to abuse from Jada. "Protecting" women isn't the same as letting them do whatever they want to you. He obviously has just so much piling on, he really needs a therapist to help deal with it all.

[@michaeljeacock]

Yes. These are not two separate things. Using Will's issues is how she manipulates him.

[@r.lamont8120]

I agree with the other replies to your comment, Will has over corrected to not being an abuser like his father to the one being abused. It will be interesting to see the types of relationships his kids will have.

[@_ChristinaLauren_]

Still doesn't justify what he did. In his efforts to love and protect his wife because of his traumatic past, he's become her doormat. Watch the red table interview where she literally blames him for her affairs. His wife is a raging narcissist who uses every little bit of trauma to humiliate him for daring to be more famous and loved than her. Will has the means to better himself, she won't be an excuse forever.

[@L.I.T.H.I.U.M]

1. Don't be in an open relationship. 2. Don't slap a comedian on stage. 3. Don't cry and say you're a victim after slapping a comedian. 4. Do NOT be in an open relationship.

[@True38]

5. Always be the strongest link in any relationship, never the weakest.

[@mathieul4303]

@@True38 Not easy

[@mathieul4303]

6. Help the person who made theses mistakes instead of canceling him

[@marcusmiles4234]

What’s wrong with open relationships?

[@kenzelukabarphukan200]

@@True38 Especially as a man it's impossible . Sperms chases the egg not the other way around. W0mn chose men , men gets chosen

[@carlosmeganag]

Hey, Charlie. I've been watching your channel for a long time. One of the most satisfying things now is to follow along as your thinking has grown deeper and more mature. You keep the charm and fun, but you're adding levels of insight. Kudos. Good on you.

[@KatlynMoss]

The way you describe this is the best that ive heard about this slap thing

[@garybynoe]

This is genuinely wholesome, helpful, insightful and amazing content that bypasses any form of slander or biased critique to offer, very clearly, effective solutions after a very easy to understand analysis. Thank you for this.

[@madhatter2744]

this might be the best CC video i’ve ever seen. truly groundbreaking work.

[@forcastfascistfuture]

Damn you really snuck a hard-hitting lesson in there. I was not expecting to be doing this kind of self-reflection right now but I am glad you made me do it. Amazing content as always!

[@bradhuygens]

Probably the most insightful and articulated take I’ve seen on the matter. Fantastic advice. Reminds me of Dr. Gabor Mate’s message on trauma

[@jessmith7324]

Honestly this paired with their take on smith's positive traits just makes him more nuanced human being. even tho hitting rock was wrong

[@GustavoSilva-ny8jc]

1:33 This first part was absolutely PERFECT!!!! You nailed it!!!

[@YvesBelliveau]

Best video in a long long time. Well done, and needed to be said. Thanks, guys!

[@TheShubLub]

Hey Charlie, I wanted to say thanks, I've been watching your videos for years and they always helped me polish up my social skills.

[@kemsolid]

Not just the breakdown of Will's dysfunctional behavior, but how you applied the lessons to learning more about our psyche's really connected with me. Great upload!

[@CarolineBearoline]

Awesome! Thanks for the upload ❤️

[@NelsonGast]

Regardless of how many views this gets, this is one of Charisma on Command’s greatest videos to date! Seriously, hats off to the whole team.

[@JD..........]

Definitely the smartest take I've seen, Bravo. That was fun and informative.

[@nk4j272]

Great video, it's great that this moment can be used to learn a lesson instead of critiquing

[@ash_alk_fan1]

Amazing video, Charlie. Thank you!

[@cristobaloyarzzun412]

Brilliant video, one of your best ones.

[@dragamboazulinqiacupuntura122]

Wow this is a very well done analysis. We should be hearing more of this.

[@matthallett4126]

Solid insight man. Well footnoted from the interview with Opera, and others from his past.

[@The_Woof_Pack]

Loved all the movie clips you used. Can't wait to see more!

[@blessingmutandwa6692]

I was so waiting for this. Thank you Charlie😍😯

[@sphakamisozondi]

This dissection is spot on.

[@achaudhary2857]

LOVED this video, such a great breakdown of childhood trauma and how to recognise your behaviour. I think many ppl will need to watch and learn….

[@Angell_Lee]

Wow I love so much the turn of your video for introspection. Thank you so much xo

[@divineikegod920]

Dude! Great job man👌

[@badjoj015]

Right. All comes down to childhood, trauma, subconscious, and psychology. People should learn about these stuff. This is what makes a person who they are today. Who you are today. Your past doesn't define you but it has built you and molded you who you are right now in time. Check yourself, reflect and do something about it before you steer your own life to the wrong path

[@Paradise-on-Earth]

This is an amazing piece of clearing this slap-thing up, in great respect for all involved parties, and leading our judgmental pointing fingers back to ourselves. BRAVO!

[@ThunderApache1604V]

Welcome back, god to hear your voice.

[@ramseshassan9861]

Hey I’ve been taking your advice and it’s been incredibly helpful!! Thank you!!

[@Danny-xm1pe]

It is interesting how Will Smith has gone from being an example of someone that you want to be like to an example of someone that you don't want to be like.

[@thereisnonegoodbutgodjohn363]

Repent & Believe today in Jesus for forgiveness of sins

[@mrbushido56]

please talk about how chris handled himself after the slap

[@francis_n]

YEAH so true. His reaction and professionalism was pure charisma

[@odedsayar4345]

The most compassionate take I've seen out on the interwaves, thank you

[@kleindavis550]

very interesting! Live the info and channel!

[@giorgiodechambre6798]

I can never dislike Will Smith, I constantly think about if he passed away people would forget the slap, and the world would probably be in mourning for the day, and remember how wonderful of a person he is!! And all the great moments he gave us... WILL SMITH IN MY HEART FOREVER!!

[@c3vzn]

That’s true. Overall he’s done more net good than bad and that’s what people will remember. But the incident is fresh.

[@syren4731]

I love your take, Charlie

[@princearthur4946]

Excellent presentation!

[@SmearOnStandby]

Great video, Charlie! Great to see you back :))))))

[@nemerem.A]

Every other person on this topic went on a merry go round. This came with an analysis and solutions... Thumbs up I will say this to anybody that cares enough to listen you can't save everybody

[@rubenssiomusic]

I'm so glad Charlie is back. I stopped watching Charisma on Command when Ben started narrating the videos. I think Ben knows and understands a lot about Charisma, but somehow doesn't narrate in a way to engage me. When Ben makes the videos, it seems very mathematical, e.g. "Just do this and you'll get this result"... but when Charlie makes the video, it seems very organic... this is just my honest feedback exclusively about the way Ben and Charlie are narrating. Thanks for the video! It's been a while since I felt that I got a lot of value from one of Charisma on Command's videos. Keep up the good work, guys!

[@tshego6172]

From what I know, Charlie wants to step back from production as much as possible. The lads want a business which could operate without them, a sentiment rooted in their appreciation for the 4HWH's philosophy.

[@rubenssiomusic]

@@tshego6172 Yeah, I know... still... Charlie can delegate script writing, editing videos, managing stuff.... all I want is to hear his voice

[@rubenssiomusic]

I just thought of something - maybe one day he will replace his voice with an AI voice which will be indistinguishable from his own voice?

[@tshego6172]

@@rubenssiomusic yeah I like his voice too. I like Ben, but his voice is a little nasal. And you might be right, maybe A.I for the outsourced win 🏆.

[@ANaturalAllure]

Excellently explained, very thorough.

[@elisemiller13]

Hey Charisma on Command You have de The single most wonderful video I've come across about this whole subject of misplaced traumatic reaction & too the incident which so many have oversimplified with judgements Thank you!

[@jessicadrew5531]

I feel for Will and I'm glad someone said it too. He's always been great actor and person from what I've seen, but those videos of his wife filming him in his own home...of course he's cracking. That's exhausting.

[@josephmorgan3396]

What a master piece this is quality content

[@hollyfourbarrel1882]

thanks for analysis

[@ka3716]

The video is great for us to apply the tips in our lives. Best content!

[@sakuranovaryan9261]

I love how charlie isn't biased at all. He just explains things as is. That make's it easy to listen to his advice.🌼

[@elonmuskvideos2648]

"When I was 15 my gf cheated on me. So I decided to become the biggest movie star so no one would cheat on me again." - Will smith 2015🤣 Now he's forced to be in an open marriage

[@jtmma6951]

Damn 😆

[@PassportGaming]

@6:25 I predicted that he did that to win his wife's approval when he saw her roll her eyes at the joke🤣

[@teambennett3060]

He's a simp

[@sunhawk1751]

Whereas most men are forced to be in a closed marriage.

[@akashajones6079]

@@sunhawk1751 'Forced'

[@ExcelsiorTech]

Wow! Best video you have made so far. I literally clapped out loud when you directed the self-reflection back to me the viewer. Bravo… dead on right. What this world needs more of.

[@jennifersignsoflife1375]

I truly love this channel & I'm so glad you're recycling some of your previous topics bc they're becoming more and more relevant today. My biggest complaint is that YT is on a censorship/shadow-banning free-for-all & the viewers of this channels have got some of best ideas and are some of most compassionate ppl on the internet. It's such a disheartening thing that we used to have great "conversations" in the comment sections, but now when I click on the "View 10 replies" under an original post, sometimes even not one will show up. I hope YT doesn't delete this comment. They're completely random & not adhering to their own TOS. Anyway, "Charisma on Command", the one thing I wanted to add on topic is that it seems younger ppl aren't willing to work out their differences with older generations. I often hear only blaming & a one-sided "dialog", which focuses solely on all the mistakes made by their mothers & fathers and older extended family. I have no doubt that this is the case in some situations; however, without the risk of being amendable to just have a real discussion with their families & NOT have it be a verbal diarrhea of all sins committed since they were born drudged up & dumped on everyone's lap without reciprocation or allowances made for redress (& NOT the "sorry, not sorry", or any of the techniques that Will used here, but clear, concise explanations, told from an adult's perspective~bc children do NOT see everything that's going on), there seems to chance at true healing. No way to bring families together. And whilst these young adults may say they're fine with that; they've moved on & "made their own new families". Nothing in this world can replace your family of origin. Separating & breaking apart families is the FIRST thing that Communists/Fascists/Marxists do when they take over a nation. That's why it's scary it's happening here. Mao famously had his Youth Groups report on their parents, so did HitIer & StaIin. Maybe Charisma on Command could do a video aimed specifically on that? Thanks so much for reading this far. Have a Blessed Day

[@empath3133]

Truth! It’s also funny to me that a lot of the people reacting and judging will, jada and Chris are “unlikeable” themselves. We all can work on ourselves and have more empathy

[@Cekatu]

Thank you!!! 💯%✔️

[@Theodora937]

i love hearing your videos charlie, i hope they spark your creativness and joy

[@SunnyDallasRealtor]

I love hearing the wonderful reviews! That makes me very happy.

[@Sunny-qo2lt]

1. NEVER SMACK chris rock

[@cringegod5415]

2. Never forget rule number 1

[@sazxz.5985]

@@cringegod5415 3. accept that rule number 2 is very irrelevant, and make sure you remember rule number 1.

[@morningglory3644]

I've seen the hate comments Will has been getting and personally I don't believe he should be cancelled because of this incident which I agree was wrong. He has worked long and hard to build this legacy he created for almost 30 years, and to lose all this is devastating. I really believe that person that walked up on that stage was not the real Will. I believe he did snap and was triggered. It was an overreaction, but this is someone who is in pain and deeply hurting. He has had a clean image as a public figure for 3 decades...no DUIs, no arrests, no criminal offense...and this happens. I believe he lost control because of all the emotional stress he has bottled up and it manifested into rage. I believe he is capable of redeeming himself and doing the work to salvage his image.

[@deeznutzzzzzzzz]

very informative video!!

[@FightingDepartment]

Best video I’ve ever seen. Amazing video

[@elh4089]

Best video I’ve seen so far on this whole Will and Chris thing, the world would be better if more people thought this way

[@imatthewryan4076]

"im being called on to love people" by hurting others lol

[@roidjones]

And he got a standing ovation too lol

[@stevenirby5576]

This is probably one of your very best videos. Well done.

[@quiquemejiatejeda5254]

Great video

[@NathalieLazo]

The more we work on our own selves, the more our circumstances and overall lives change. The more we grow and invest into ourselves, the more we will see a transformation, especially how we better communicate with others. You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, and your future! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

[@AxxLAfriku]

My haters throw rocks at me and IT hurts. I hope they don't throw The Rock at me because I like him as an actor. GAGAGAGAGA!!! I am funny!!! I am the funniest KZbinr EVAH! Please agree, dear nate

[@rociomh1467]

Thank you for making this analysis. I felt so bad for him because people are so cruel on social media and forget that everyone can be triggered somehow and make mistakes. I didn't know about his mom, is clear that at the moment we are only able to see the surface. You presented evidence and a a good reminder of why we need to work on empathy.

[@ihatemyenemys]

It’s great to hear your voice in a charisma breakdown again, Charlie!

[@nathaliaclother3306]

Amazing analysis! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@blesd4success]

Wow. Thank you for this. I really looked up to Will Smith and though I realize he is a human being with limitations and problems like everyone else, I NEEDED to have this conversation. I just couldn’t make sense of what happened with that incident with Chris. THANK YOU for this fuller, more balanced perspective that ALSO focuses on self. I would love to hear your thoughts on Chris’s reaction to having been hit. Was it a good example and healthy response, was it not? How can we learn and grow personally through this? Your thoughts, Charlie?

[@Samus419]

I used to think about all the other people that could use whatever message I was hearing (most often at church lol). But started improving once I listened for myself. However, I can sometimes still think of people who need to consider stuff for themselves: I'm tempted to send this to my dad, but I don't think he can hear it...

[@jomo7387]

Fantastic content, one of the few channels I actually follow and most everyone can learn at least a little something from this video.

[@hassanalinoo]

This is the best analysis I have seen on this subject.

[@Jeskers18]

Good points but I honestly still think Jada is toxic and he deserves better. How she can call an affair an "entanglement" and totally downplay the situation is so toxic and a textbook example of gaslighting. If the roles were reversed and Will was the one to sleep with someone the same age as their children he would be demonized to no end and I'm POSITIVE Jada would have used that to her advantage.

[@ShaniTheBurningTree]

He did boo.

[@django3422]

Excellent video, great points all round. Really think this is something a lot of guys need to be taking on board. Particularly agree about how it's not his place to protect Jada like that over a joke. I think it was wrong for Chris Rock to make that joke, in that place at that time. It's the Oscars, not a roast. She clearly didn't like it and was well within her rights if she wanted to call him out, then or later. But that's her choice, whether she wants to turn the joke into an event, a headline. That's what Will did by getting up there and smacking him, he's taking control of the situation away from her. Now everyone's talking about the joke and what he did. Then he gives the kind of excuse you might get from a domestic abuser... Bad form, Will.

[@loralee7544]

very insightful and compassionate. thankyou for your considerate contribution

[@miroslavcibula6867]

very well explained!

[@tiberiius]

Rock makes joke. Will laughs. Jada does not. Something prompts Will to go slap Rock. Rock makes joke about the situation. Jada LAUGHS. Will yells at Rock to keep his wife's name out of his mouth. The timeline is really weird on this.