6 Mindsets That Make You Incredibly Charismatic

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6 Mindsets That Will Make You Magnetic
When it comes to charisma, you can learn a lot of surface level stuff. Body language, eye contact, tonality, all of these things can be tweaked to make you appear more confident, charismatic, and magnetic. But when it comes to making long-lasting change, you need to change the beliefs and mindsets that underpin all your actions. Only when you've done this will your charisma begin to emanate more naturally.
In this video we boil the 12 charismatic convictions (from the book Charisma on Command) down to 6 beliefs. If you can internalize these beliefs, you will find yourself behaving in ways that draw people to you.
Those charismatic beliefs are
1. No matter what, I will be okay
2. I care more about my character than my reputation
3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity
4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything
5. I share my purpose proactively
6. I go there first in humanizing interaction
If you can incorporate those convictions into your life, you will become much more charismatic in all of your interactions and magnetic to the type of people who you want in your life.
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[@LeonLush]

Also, your lack of jump edits really speaks to your ability to be comfortable in front of the camera and get your ideas across in a pleasing manner without a lot of distraction. I'm sure there was plenty of prep that went into it, but it is commendable and I thought I'd point it out.

[@Charismaoncommand]

+Leon Lush Haha, I appreciate that. I'll have to put up another video of all the takes where I just brain fart, trip on my words, and walk off camera ;-)

[@gilbertolopez7387]

I'd never expect to see Leon Lush here

[@dallaswilliams8816]

Charisma on Command .... You're Awesome And Good Work Dude.. I guess guys in the industry giving advice... Dude.... Kill the plain backdrop !!! Go with Still Pics if you dont have A roll or b roll.. Thats all you missing !!! I will subscribe and you keep going!!! Good Luck Dude !! You are helping people and you helped me... Thanks Dude... ✌

[@iloveme8950]

Charisma on Command I see some comments here of people who dont see the importance of what youre doing and why you do it. I think u should make a video about people who find it hard to understand these kind of things, what makes them not understand, what they need to do to understand it, what they need to be aware of, what they need to do, etc you get what i mean.

[@kangaroofoot]

My sentiments exactly. Very impressive doing in on one shot.

[@aminferdous3116]

1) No matter what, I'll be okay. 2) I care more about my character than my reputation. 3) I have impeccable honesty and integrity. 4) I don't need to convince anyone about anything. 5) Put your purpose first. 6) Be the first person to initiate things.

[@vietanhtran6431]

thanks i love all messages of the videos on this channel but he talks too much

[@NoajmIsMyName]

I do all but number 4 I'm struggling with

[@NoajmIsMyName]

If you love his all messages so, you say he talk much but all wisely.

[@vibrationalcurrency]

Viet Anh Tran Hes just soo clear minded.

[@nameless.greyceo]

Amin Ferdous these bullet pionts should be on every video. Ain't nobody got time to listen to this guy go on about common sense.

[@jeremymaxwell4469]

"You build a reputation with yourself" when you lie. That's powerful stuff.

[@markotter2707]

I try to keep this simple rule in mind..."When in doubt, just do the right thing." This helps when you have a difficult decision to make.

[@camilletriboulet-hall4901]

Mark Otter Yep!👊 & another thing that's helped me a TON, (beforehand,) if it's morally questionable, I at least ask myself, just #2 Questions: #1.) What is the most hurtful, realistic result/ending, & #2.) What are my motives behind doing or saying whatever it may be...🐱

[@freeri87]

@@markotter2707 What if you don't know what the right thing to do, is?

[@markotter2707]

@@freeri87 Sometimes you might not, but maybe look at the situation as though it's someone else, not you.

[@thecowboy9698]

You also build a reputation with yourself when you're honest.

[@nothisispatrick1797]

He's so good at speaking, I can't pause or remove the video because I feel like I'm disrespecting him ;-;

[@azeriaknights5743]

Lol glad I'm not the only one XD

[@memorandum740]

Agreed Patrick

[@NO-yx6yl]

Thanks this will help with starting my cult

[@Jc-ul9ff]

Lol wut??

[@spoony01428]

+Nik OBrien gl bro

[@sandersk2605]

+Nik OBrien AHAHa, omfg that made me crack, laughing so badly, HALP

[@jcastrellon11able]

😂😂😂😂😂 Spot on!!!

[@Jagspear]

+Nik OBrien how u gonna name it?

[@MrWilko2000]

1. No matter what, I will be okay 2. I care more about my character than my reputation 3. I have impeccable honesty and integrity 4. I don't need to convince anyone of anything 5. I share my purpose proactively 6. I go there first in humanizing interaction

[@accountglebmsuphys4606]

Gotta go to the top

[@TrangNguyen-cs6wv]

Thanks :))

[@GurdeepSinghDyal]

I don't believe in God, but God bless you mate!!

[@michealbobby9305]

I believe in God cos he blessed me

[@TheFacelessMonkeyOTE]

okay? XD

[@tabokamoalosi1494]

'When you lie sometimes you hurt your ability to speak with conviction ' i felt that.

[@mzjj4285]

A very good friend of mine is an introvert, but she told me the story of a time when she went to this dance. She knew no one there, so she wasn't worried about how she acted because she probably wouldn't see any of them again. She had always wanted to be a bubbly, outgoing girl, so that's what she did. That night she chose to be that fun, bubbly girl that stood out, and she had the *time of her life.* Edit: the difference between an extrovert and an introvert is an introvert's "battery" is charged by having their alone time, while an extrovert will be charged by interacting with people. Both introverts and extroverts can have a great time socially, or a not-so-great time. Introverts just need to be charged beforehand, and extroverts don't. Extroverts sometimes need breaks from people too. And sometimes introverts need interacting

[@mzjj4285]

@Phineas Gage just because she wishes she was outgoing doesn't mean she's not an introvert. I've lived with her my whole life and i know her social battery doesn't last long.

[@mzjj4285]

@Phineas Gage read my edit. Also you don't have to want what makes you uncomfortable. I think it definitely helped her situation since she LOVES dancing

[@yes7855]

@@mzjj4285 how did she learn to dance? :) or is she just very into it maybe that it comes naturally? Really would love to hear what you think! I’m tryna learn to dance xD I do love dancing too but I feel I’m too repetitive and my moves too weird to dance in a party if it’s not crowded and a chance of attention on me lol

[@stevenpalty2027]

I like the fact that this channel includes the concepts of character and integrity rather than just winning.

[@Charismaoncommand]

Appreciate the input, thanks!

[@gopetogle]

OMG definitely!

[@ivelinivanov3414]

You know I watched this video today and I applied this thing immediately. I went to a salsa party but when you come early everyone stays at the entrance and no one goes to the actual dance room. So it was empty up there. They just sit downstairs and chat and postpone the start of the party forever. And everyone feels awkward to go upstairs by themselves. They all have to decide as a group it's time to go. But no one does it. So i remembered your tip from your video. "Be the first to take the awkward action that no one wants to do first" And that's what I did. I went upstairs to the empty dance room by myself. I don't care if you wanna come or not. It's time to start already. And 1 girl followed me, then a few minutes later the others came as well. If I had decided to stay downstairs with them instead of immediately going upstairs by myself we would've just sat there forever. But this way I triggered the start of the salsa party and it was very cool :) I loved it. I love your videos as well. Learning a lot. Thanks for them.

[@Charismaoncommand]

Wow! Nothing makes us happier than hearing people are applying these tools, let alone so quickly ;-)

[@Kinobambino]

👏👏👏👏

[@des6181]

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[@senza4591]

Good for you! Now I don't have an excuse, now that there is a success story.

[@rebeccahill7197]

Ivelin Ivanov way to go!!

[@none377]

"If someone is not treating you the way you'd like to be treated" don't try to convince them or change them, either accept them as they are or remove them from your life. This hits home.

[@chlidera75]

What a great video. I wrote the mindsets down on my personal development notebook and I know I will read them over and over again and more importantly practice them in real life. Thanks for this awesome channel and the great work you're doing for us. Olivier from Paris, France

[@Charismaoncommand]

Happy you found it helpful

[@Darth_Bateman]

You're right. . .But wait, it's the 21st century! XD GET REK'D BEEYOCH!!

[@matec.1773]

+Paris75 This comment is so sweet.

[@realworldhistory266]

😂

[@user-ok7nw3hd4k]

Never met a bigot that wasn't a deep closet case.

[@thesauceman9132]

Master yourself, master all.

[@Brieen]

Harambe Sweet price

[@thesauceman9132]

My child, I am selling nothing

[@mejamesme1]

not about mastering. its about learning to operate your self and whats around you. in the way you want.

[@thesauceman9132]

Is it just me or does this guy look like a serial killer

[@mejamesme1]

Owen Massey well most are casted to be confident. or at lest some. so i guess if thats what you see. but who cares

[@nicjfrancis]

You should do a Tedtalk

[@thedarkmaster4747]

+Nicholas Joseph-Francis yup!

[@danieltucker9118]

+The Dark master yup!

[@reby1583]

He would be amazing

[@kevfit4135]

+Daniel Tucker yup!

[@Baamthe25th]

He's too good for Ted Talks

[@riyagupta3027]

I am revisiting this video after 4 years. This video had a really good and calming impact after my turbulent experience in high school, and helped me be a better person ready for college. Now that I'm done with college, I wanted to come back and thank you from the bottom of my heart, as this video was the corner stone for helping me to be the better version of myself. Thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge here.

[@worldsbeauty5876]

I can be a confident person with strangers but not in front of the people I have known... because they have seen me as an unconfident person...I don't know what kind of psychology is this , which I am going through I just want to come out of it...so please make a video about this...

[@skerion7956]

This is true but the answer is be confident anyway so you can break free and everyone will notice the changes about you

[@astridolin2306]

I feel the exact way!

[@weebwithadream8260]

omg same! I was like that in the past. Let me tell you something that helped me get out of this. Change never comes without pain. Evolution never comes without pain. It will hurt when you suddenly act differently in front of your friends and family who know you. It will hurt when you suddenly take initiatives. It will hurt when you signal your purpose to them. It will hurt, and your body will start shaking when you attempt to go for it. That person, that voice inside you, which makes you feel doubtful. That's not you. That is the sign that you are finally changing. That pain is the seed for change.

[@Corvid]

Gradually start changing your personality to match how you want to be 24/7, it's hard work for sure... Might even be worth a change of scene if your life permits. Expect to tread very carefully if you've got a partner though... some people rely on being in a relationship with someone who they think is less confident, and that type of person could feel very threatened by the prospect of not being the "confident one". Others may do the same, and to be honest, you don't need those people.

[@Annksunamoon666]

It's because of our need for consistency - your friends already saw you when you think you looked less confident that's why you have this subconscious idea of being always like this, be consistent with your behaviour otherwise they might think it's weird or not recognise it as real, or think you're weird (at least that's your fear) . The need of consistency is deeply ingrained in our psyche, it's a social need as people that are inconsistent are not seen as trustworthy.

[@HardcoreMontages]

This guy is the fucking human embodiment of charisma, wtf

[@Charismaoncommand]

Thanks so much - I really appreciate that!

[@kashiyog]

agree

[@suk4honesty]

He seems really sweet but the nature of his job makes him seem scary and neurotic, but again, it's just the job, constantly delving into the microscopic nuances of interacting with people.

[@RYSEproductions]

The best word to describe this channel is "healthy". This has to be the healthiest channel on youtube.

[@Charismaoncommand]

°Will definitely keep going :-)

[@EfoulaMp]

its so attractive when someone is so smart and has self awareness

[@thecowboy9698]

Top 3 things he said I think are: #1: Speak the truth. #2: Stay focused on doing the right thing. #3: No matter what you will be okay.

[@wreccen]

This information is very important and you are giving it away for free. Good on ya mate.

[@tobihq2481]

This is true.. We are forever grateful for these quality videos and the valuable information you share with the world ✨✨✨✨😍

[@stevebrizzle]

Allan Lomas - two words for you: advertising revenue.

[@bluhcrih3127]

He is Still Getting Paid.

[@sherrishah]

You are that intelligent therapist I have been looking for all my life! :)

[@Charismaoncommand]

Thanks so much :-)

[@hxvideo]

question: what about not lying but not telling either?

[@LanaLeon]

intelligent and very handsome

[@paulwebb2078]

@@hxvideo Technically that's called "lying by omission". But if you don't consider them lies, then they don't matter. The point is, you have to trust yourself to tell the truth so that you can be more honest in your interactions without having to think about it.

[@CS-bh4ur]

sherrishah ohhh sweety he’s a sociopath. Half of women reject him and the other half aren’t conscience enough to even know they’re breathing 😂😂😂

[@sososapien4227]

I've made a ton of progress overcoming social anxiety over the past couple years, and whenever I re-watch Charisma on Command videos I'm reminded of how much they inspire me. Whenever I commit to internalizing the advice Charlie and Ben share, I see enormous benefits in my confidence approaching new people, being vulnerable with my friends and family, and expressing what I'm passionate about. Thank you guys so much for your insight and hard work

[@Mar-mx3zi]

I remember talking to my friend about menstruation, then she's like "It's impressive you are talking about that without being shy, most girls will not talk about it because they think it's weird to talk about or they are shy." Me: "Why would they be shy? It's normal, nothing to hide". I have this thing to be confident about these kind of subjects. My friend also told me: "It's nice to be around you because you don't talk about the usual subjects, like "how was your day", you talk about interesting ones." I am very flattered :3

[@smileyourock]

1. You will be ok. 2. Character > reputation 3. Don't lie and believe what you're saying. 4. Don't convince people - just ask. 5. Proactively communicate your purpose. 6. Do it first.

[@user-pp4ks9zp9l]

Can I use you in my class to take notes for me please?

[@smileyourock]

+Abdullah Did you just proactively express your purpose? well done.

[@InfectedSoup]

+smileyourock u da real mvp

[@charliexoxox]

This reminds me of a great book called "7 habits of highly effective people" I highly recommend

[@arifinaslam]

i know that book :)

[@v.c.18]

Btw, the channel 'fightmediocrity' made an animated and voiced over summary video if you don't have time to read that book. :D

[@paola9922]

awesome read

[@KalpanaKumari140203]

Isn't it by Stephen R. Covey? I love that book. I have read it and by implementing it I found myself happier. Seriously recommend it.

[@charliexoxox]

yeah, I agree.

[@shyliearzouan2722]

Your videos are filled with wisdom

[@Charismaoncommand]

Thanks!

[@Username-cs1bi]

I've been binge-watching your video in the recent days, and I'm really thankful to you for creating these contents especially this video. I've been quite a negative person for years, with a dose of self-loathing. Watching your videos helped me a lot, especially the first 3 points because you emphasize on character building, instead of 'how to trick others to like me', I've been trying a lot in being more positive towards life and my own character, and I'm very grateful for your work man. I hope you continue to inspire a lot more people.

[@Andrew-xo3uv]

If only Naruto knew about filtering Sasuke out of his life.

[@FunWithJazak]

Then sasuke blow up leaf village

[@94nolo]

Naruto KZbin is so weird.

[@alissaminina1537]

at the end of the show Sasuke had a battle with Naruto then they became "best friends" and Sasuke helped the leaf village

[@Leo-ef2tc]

Nerd

[@Kinobambino]

What

[@2211gk]

This is the second video of yours I am watching in past 25 minutes (first was the GOT video) and right now I am really glad that I found this channel

[@danielgrigg3426]

+Giorgi Kelbakiani exactly the same here lol

[@Ikiratuki]

+Giorgi Kelbakiani Ditto.

[@GunninRebel55]

Right! This is my 4th and it started with the why Tyrion Lannister can't be killed. Lol

[@ilv1]

+Giorgi Kelbakiani Haha... KZbin recommendations controlling everyone! (Same here.... Tyrion can't be killed and this next) The GOT videos were a very smart idea for some extra exposure but they are great nonetheless.

[@2211gk]

:) Thanks guys for pointing out about Tyrion video, had not noticed it before... Watching it right now

[@fionakylee6261]

Here I am thinking I have enough knowledge in Psychology. I’m taking notes and slowly applying them in my life. You’re so honest and on point!

[@sevenstarred77]

your awesome!! Everything u said is absolutely true. it makes me realize how many people are not Charismatic, but instead are rude, obnoxious and controlling. Thanks for the video

[@dragonfruitkokiri8071]

Where have these vids been all my life??

[@Charismaoncommand]

Love that, thanks!

[@claudiuskube4049]

You make great stuff ...this is what i need/needed in my life but you know i think its to late to change.yeah i say to other people it is never too late but i cant do it i have this huge huge problem with confidence ;( :) Keep up the work its good stuff for the kids

[@MisterGuitarItalia]

So much wisdom in such a young person... amazing

[@nupurmalik9]

I don’t know if it’s through your research or experience or both, but the content and the way you are presenting it is sooo relatable. I recently realised some of these things but find it hard to explain it to people or for that matter to myself. Thank you for these videos! I have huge respect for you guys!

[@ferasusif]

the last tip was definitely the best. it requires bravery, integrity, and self-respect. Thanks for sharing man. Definitely subscribed

[@mellofan2012]

This channel and my therapy complement each other really well

[@HashPackLP]

Rob_gamer34 red dead❤️

[@Kinobambino]

❤

[@KelleyBroussardMackaig]

Finding this channel was seriously like finding a gold mine.... Thanks for doing what you do, Charisma On Command!

[@gleison451]

Probably the best video I’ve ever seen. Mindset is the key! When you learn how to think in the right way, everything else will becomes easier or even unnecessary!

[@Earth098]

One of your best videos so far. Thanks for making

[@erfman1422]

Really like how you don't edit your videos like some of these never ending youtube ramblers. Thumbs up bud

[@Charismaoncommand]

Happy to hear that!

[@MistaTrox7]

until now, I've never found a pointless video from this channel. that's why I've subscribed.

[@nouffahad9365]

Canadian Girl she probably meant up until now.

[@suzywilson]

This is hands down your BEST video for me personally. Thank you very, very much!

[@Mvitoriars]

You're amazing! I found your channel while studying on how to be more charismatic, make friends and get people to like me, because as a socially introverted person, I struggle on making interactions with other people and I want to change it. So, thank you very much for your videos!!

[@bahaanaldo]

My favorite thing about this video, isn't just the information, but it's the fact you chose to present it one on one. With eye contact basically. Most youtube people have a bunch of pics and clips with a voiceover. This was a brave move, but it works. Very nice.

[@mickc4672]

Favourite content on KZbin of my year. Valuable tips. He's gorgeous too!

[@baronlipschutz-perry5089]

I'm considered old, or at least when my grandmother was this age I considered her old. The information you just imparted in this video is probably the best 12 minutes of presentation that I've had in my life. I can't praise you enough for discovering these points and going them to us in a concise and clear presentation. Thank you.

[@marinaalex0510]

This is one of your greatest, most helpful videos, Charlie. Thank you

[@WoodyGoodPecker]

Here's how i think. YOU are in full control and power to create an emotional state in you and thoses around you whenever you want and no one can stop it. This is all in your energy that you give off. Nervous about going on a date? Just create that positve energy/vibe anyways without any reliance on recipropcation. People will either match your vibe or not and if they don't, then maybe question whether that person is someone you should be hanging out with. Positive energy wins always which you have the power to create at anytime without a care what other people think.

[@happycreepersdk]

1:27 "Probably better that you know, rather than using 6 months trying to figure out what signal she is sending" well..... Should have seen this video 3 months ago... D:

[@taydavies9971]

Frederik Bøgelund Me too dude..4 months of wasted time:'/

[@riajali4609]

I wasted a year xD

[@emce3ime_linuxtechaddict936]

Try a year

[@jhonjohnjonjondoe5011]

Damn guys I just talk and when they do a few things that indicate interest then I get there number. Easy then I try to progress things and if she puts 3 road blocks up I move on.

[@danielohana4068]

Such an amazing video! Every word is a pure gold. I really liked when you taked about "little lies" and how eventually they affect us in the worst, unconscious way. It was really powerful. Thank you.

[@lucasantambrogio9739]

had a bad day, now i'm feeling much better by just watching this channel. thank you and cheers from Italy

[@ZuckThat]

Amazing video, Charlie! I really appreciate your mindset and am so happy that you've decided to make these videos. All the best, Andrew

[@alexander_martinez6084]

Did anyone else watch this hoping they'll be like magneto?

[@ultrafly100]

Yes, I thought I'd gain metal bending superpowers.

[@alexander_martinez6084]

+ultrafly100 me to

[@therealjoeyjazz]

I, too, came for mutant powers

[@sexybeast7728]

on 'Charisma on Command' channel? That was quite ambitious.

[@jonyphoenix]

Instructions unclear, dick stuck in toaster.

[@renee6524]

Love the idea of valuing your character over reputation.

[@julien156]

You are truly one of the greatest KZbinrs. Professionalism, skill, and knowledge. It’s always a pleasure and up building watching your content.

[@RiyadhK]

Dude, I Iove your channel! Keep it up. Great content and so accessibly presented :)

[@ZoeyArielle]

You are amazing! I love all of your videos :)

[@thegoldenb7280]

You’re such a good person to share these types of videos for us that don’t get the information elsewhere. Bless you and may you’re biggest dreams come true 🙏🏿. And that goes for the rest of I guys reading this.

[@LisaGemini]

Great points here. Honesty, integrity and your own character are way, way more important than what others think of you, which we cannot control.

[@ThePinkChilli]

This is SUCH a good video. Love it.

[@horizon5677]

hey dude you're awesome

[@Charismaoncommand]

Appreciate that!

[@josetteamboise4018]

Yes, he is! I enjoy watching him speaking and moving! Keep on, you've got a good energy and good advices for us!

[@KTWOW]

1.) No Matter What, I'll Be Okay One time in a class I confided- at the absolute insistence of my teacher- that I had been evicted that same week. The class and teacher then berated me as a group and mentioned a nearby job fair as a solution. I was okay afterward, but I'm not going to volunteer vulnerable information first anymore. I know many say this, but I really have been through too much to do so any more. People have thrown past traumas in my face. Did they get filtered from my life? Of course. Am I 'okay'? Of course. But I still have those emotional scars, from opening up and being locked as a result. Please note that this advice (while incredibly well crafted) is not a catch-all if you have previous trauma and experiences which have caused PTSD and Depression. It's important to note that charisma is a situational trait.

[@maryanny.1611]

Kit Pot dude you sound so smart when you speak

[@wemadethatoneup...1952]

I can see that and I personally do not suffer from PTSD, but from what I have found dealing with other mental health conditions (ADD and rapid mood cycling bipolar), which have themselves led to some situations with regrettable outcomes, CBT can be therapeutic. If you don't know, simply put, CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) is facing your fears. It was suggested to me by my psychiatrist, who is very experienced and professional, to treat my anxiety stemming from traumatic experiences caused by my biological difficulties - the reason why I think it could aid you. I'm no expert and I don't know the specifics of your situation, but maybe you can tackle your PTSD by finding a friend to become close with, enough to have trust in them, and open up to them. In essence, find a safer and more tolerant space to allow yourself to be vulnerable in and let the positive response replace the negative traumatic memories. I recognise that you say you've been through too much and of course it's not imperative to follow this, it just may be worth giving 'Cognitive Behavioural Therapy' a good research and see if you'd want to give it a shot. If you're currently doing well then that's good, but it might help you to open up to another person/other people as it can be healthy. In essence 'No Matter What, I'll Be Okay' I think is meant to be advice as to how you approach a situation, not necessarily that it will always be true regardless. It's still important to assess the severity of what may go wrong as he says in the video, though he does use an extreme example. The mind is subjective so everyone reacts to things at a different degree. Additionally, I believe that it is useful as not only giving yourself confidence to do something, but to also put the response/repercussions of that action in perspective. I hope that something I've said is helpful if you see this message. :)

[@ishapande6607]

I think that's one of the very best videos out there. Put so many things in structure. All the best to this channel.

[@nouveaugrunge]

omg i love this channel

[@umtimo6854]

Wow! That was super insightful and helpful. l like how your ideas are down-to-earth and straight to the point.

[@SuperDogWannabe]

Hey man, just wanted to say thanks. I've started watching these randomly as I work, and today something frustrating happened... I just really needed to hear that doing the right thing can be free of what other people think of you.

[@stellafox]

love your videos - thanks for making them available

[@hansenvspredator7812]

I went by your "No matter what, I will be okay" mindset and now I 'm being hit with multiple sexual harassment lawsuits

[@Juaansi]

Knowing that you genuinely care about the one watching the video makes me appreciate your video even more. World needs more people like you.

[@Charismaoncommand]

Appreciate the kind words

[@TheBtuggle]

This is one of those videos I need to watch over and over till I memorize it! Love every word, thank you for sharing your insights!

[@DownHillSkateTime]

You are wise far beyond your years! Your videos are fantastic, this one in particular! Also, I love how openly self critical you are of yourself when offering comparable situations to your own life.

[@talachedaka2000]

This is brilliant. New follower.

[@damenwhelan3236]

I came here for the magnetic powers..... I was robbed!

[@damenwhelan3236]

JohnQRandom A bit tingley....

[@xw6475]

LOVE LOVE LOVE it!! Thank you so much Charlie!!

[@mexheix]

you are so smooth, no cutting.

[@joshuaprick2596]

This is propably the best channel on youtube.

[@flyaway9086]

No.

[@harshrajkumar923]

I love the energy and probity with which you approach different points in all of your videos.

[@Charismaoncommand]

Appreciate the feedback :-)

[@robertsullivan9232]

You’re the man bro. I really appreciate the depth to this info, identity is truly the only way to make a lasting change

[@TaakeItEasyy]

i agree to those mindsets. and i am pretty glad that you point those out because there are people in this world who need some "tutorials" like that.

[@rhoharane]

I was half expecting manipulative BS. But I'm glad this was all actually not just compatible but is pretty much the same as socially being a good, decent and happy human being. would definitely recommend to anyone.

[@zing-rsa]

Dam, this guy knows his stuff.. Keep it up man, subbed

[@Charismaoncommand]

Welcome to the channel!

[@reenabooth7009]

Thank you for your strength to make all these videos!! I already use these techniques in my day to day life and it is wonderful that you are spreading the word! My motto is treat others as you would like to be treated! We are all in this crazy world together!

[@annemariecarrigan4098]

I think you are one of the best motivational people I have met on KZbin. Keep up on what you are doing.

[@leachatee]

I started to incorporate some of your confidence/ charisma tips in my social life even tho I already felt pretty confident. And I did notice big changes! More and more often I find myself in a group where they all seem invested and interested in what I’m saying and I don’t get overheard anymore (with strangers or friends, it only gets hard in a group where everyone knows everyone else better than they know me, but that’s normal ig). I think i do some of the strategies intuitively but I’m also hyper aware of my and others body language, eye contact etc. to the point of it getting annoying. But I don’t think it’s a bad thing. Someone even told me I’ve got a talent to make people feel special and that really made me happy. I always try my best to really get to know someone and make them feel good about themselves while still having a blast on my own. I think I get closer and closer to where I want to be in terms of personal development. Just looking back a few years, I was like a completely different person back then. It’s amazing to not feel this social pressure anymore and to be free in expressing yourself. Thank you, as always, for your great advice, it really does help!

[@idriss2864]

This video in particular is awesome to build character. I hope you keep on thriving in your social life, thanks for the extra motivation you gave me with your experience.

[@skygroup6166]

This young man is poised and set to take his world by storm. I see a great future for you sir. You belong to same level with great speakers like Tony Robbins, Les Brown, to mention but a few.

[@Charismaoncommand]

Appreciate the "huge" comment my man! Glad you liked the vid :-)

[@jhevaughn]

These videos changed my life. Thank you. 🙏🏾

[@howtotangetic]

Wow, these beliefs changed my way of thinking rapidly. Thank you so much.

[@Iciclus]

I feel sad that I did not discover your channel much earlier! Your video's are amazing, they're helping out a lot :)

[@Charismaoncommand]

Welcome aboard!

[@callum7081]

This kind of advice often comes up if you look into self help but it's so true, the less you care or need people to like you, the more people will.

[@SourceMoukass]

Shared on Source TV!!! Thank you!

[@HumanAki]

Arguably the best video on this channel.

[@ary9514]

i should watch this video once a day. you're so wise!

[@Charismaoncommand]

Thanks for watching!

[@mrcookiemonster4051]

I wish I saw this at an early age, so much great stuff!

[@luv2touchpink]

+MrCookieMonster Well how can you see this @ an early age??... It was published only on March 28, 2016!

[@mrcookiemonster4051]

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[@RithwikSudharsan]

Let's hope he's a troll

[@MattePBG]

he said ''i wish i saw this at an early age'' he said ''wish'' so it doesnt matter when the video came out couse he would still ''wish'' he had seen it at an early age :) ppl should stop be so close minded

[@hilalc.792]

It's NEVER too late :)

[@hannekepeeters]

These are the best tips eveeeeerrrr. Thank you so much for this! I will be brave! I will go out and socialize! I hope everyone who reads this feels the energy and goes out with a smile!

[@Drunkonjohnnywalker]

I can’t express how much value this video provides I love it

[@Summileinchen]

I absolutely love your videos! So glad I found your channel. I don't understand why this channel is not the biggest one on KZbin haha. Really looking forward to all of your new videos and thanks for making me happy while watching them. Greetings from Germany

[@Charismaoncommand]

+VeganEasy °Wow! All the way from Deutschland, so happy to have you!

[@KushagraKalra]

Really great points!

[@Charismaoncommand]

Love that, thanks!

[@carrots7216]

I'm really glad I've found these videos; they're very clear and realistically inspiring. Thank you for making them.

[@nilanjanahazra]

You are my brother across the oceans. I believe in these fundamental points and I make them govern my thoughts and actions. Listening to you is like listening to me speaking out loud. 🙏