4 Habits For Nice Guys To Be More Attractive

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Charisma on Command

Charisma on Command

Күн бұрын

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@TakeBackYourMind997
@TakeBackYourMind997 3 жыл бұрын
I prefer this kind of charisma to the 'cool guy', it makes people around you feel better about themselves and it's just a more positive vibe.
@IsaacJoshi
@IsaacJoshi 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah definitely play your personality strengths if you are a warm person he warm. If you are chill be chill :)
@TakeBackYourMind997
@TakeBackYourMind997 3 жыл бұрын
@@IsaacJoshi Totally agree. I think too many people try to force the wrong style for them
@disciplinado2190
@disciplinado2190 3 жыл бұрын
Save the Uygur people. Byctt China! who is kllng them. Byctt France who banned religious freedom.
@Sifar_Secure
@Sifar_Secure 3 жыл бұрын
@@disciplinado2190 I'm happy to donate some vowels if you're running short.
@disciplinado2190
@disciplinado2190 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sifar_Secure I'm happy to share some knowledge if you'll benefit.
@johnnyprogress7498
@johnnyprogress7498 3 жыл бұрын
1) Speak through a smile; 2) Own the space around you; 3) Use the push-pull method; and 4) Be willing to laugh at yourself.
@FireJach
@FireJach 3 жыл бұрын
you copied the list from the description
@uneekuh
@uneekuh 3 жыл бұрын
@@FireJach they summarized the video so people don’t have to sit thru lmao
@All_you_need_is_love2018
@All_you_need_is_love2018 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@NeilCWCampbell
@NeilCWCampbell 3 жыл бұрын
Ty dude these talks ramble with no decent summation
@raredreamfootage
@raredreamfootage 3 жыл бұрын
And star in an all-time, record breaking, blockbuster movie.
@fillpereira
@fillpereira 3 жыл бұрын
As someone that used to be obese and recently got into the best shape of my life. Being comfortable in your own body is HUGE. It's a heck of a lot easier to "own the space around you" when you're not self-conscious about how you look or if your love handles are hanging out in a weird way.. Being in great shape boosts your confidence automatically. Once you do that, a lot of the tips being discussed here simply come naturally. That's my personal experience anyway.
@buffoonlagoon
@buffoonlagoon 2 жыл бұрын
Good insight, thank you.
@jacobstevens6633
@jacobstevens6633 2 жыл бұрын
100% truth
@Lessk69
@Lessk69 2 жыл бұрын
When you go from fat to fit and you see women looking at you that never would have before it's incredibly motivating and inspires a lot of confidence. That confidence just amplifies your attractiveness.
@k.5425
@k.5425 2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Was also overweight. Haven't gotten to my goal yet but I see the difference.
@brago1997
@brago1997 Жыл бұрын
what if you're short?
@simranbansal9303
@simranbansal9303 3 жыл бұрын
1) Speak through a smile. smile through your eyes and be charming. laugh at your own words. do not smile 24/7 like, starting a story, start serious and it gets to the funnier part, you can start smiling and then start laughing. keep the smile genuine. try to guide the conversation to things that actually make you laugh. 2) own the space around you. use your hands when you speak, use gestures. and even when you're not speaking, you can take up space when you laugh. put yoir head back, pur your hand on their shoulder or knee. this way you can slowly make people more comfortable to your touch and so if you're interested in them, you will easily be able to kiss them. also, another way to know if they're really interested or not. take up the space around you. ALSO, do not laugh at everything the other person says, it's cringy 3. Bounce between a) teasing lightly b) complimenting kindly bounce back and forth between this. this is called as the push-pull technique. this makes you less predictable and makes gou moe interesting. they wanna know what you'll say. more likely to work on people who are used to JUST good compliments. they're more likely to be attracted to this. don't just tease and be a jerk or give compliments and be out in the friendzone. 4. don't hide your flaws. own the mistakes that you did. if they jab at you, take it and laugh at it. if you're scared, admit it. Admit being scared, embarrassed. be willing to laugh at your own mistakes and be willing to own them. this shows you're not afraid to be judged. the thing that would bother other people, you're comfortable with it.
@antalyalyaync1423
@antalyalyaync1423 3 жыл бұрын
where is 5th i cant find in this fckng video
@damiansaucedo9951
@damiansaucedo9951 3 жыл бұрын
@@antalyalyaync1423 is be yourself (:
@All_you_need_is_love2018
@All_you_need_is_love2018 3 жыл бұрын
The 5th is to sign-up and pay for the course they’re offering.
@yaublediesa4448
@yaublediesa4448 3 жыл бұрын
Goat
@pranjaldangwal1425
@pranjaldangwal1425 2 жыл бұрын
Tbh, You deserve more likes..........
@papajupri1070
@papajupri1070 3 жыл бұрын
I was smiling the whole time while watching this. Chris Evans' smile is contagious for sure.
@Heywood.Jablome
@Heywood.Jablome 3 жыл бұрын
Jeez. He's a 10. Of course he's perfect. Therefore not a good role model for the 90%
@neerajbaranwal7294
@neerajbaranwal7294 3 жыл бұрын
Oops noticed after reading this
@AhmetKaan
@AhmetKaan 3 жыл бұрын
*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”* *―C. S. Lewis*
@christopherbucher7017
@christopherbucher7017 3 жыл бұрын
My favorite author :) :) :)
@RealWolfmanDan
@RealWolfmanDan 3 жыл бұрын
I liked this and wanted to share it, when I looked it up apparently there is no record of Mr. Lewis ever saying it, but there is a very similar quote from author James Sherman: "You can’t go back and make a new start, but you can start right now and make a brand new ending.”
@StreetHierarchy
@StreetHierarchy 3 жыл бұрын
I thought that was Annie Wilkes...🤔
@ReasonAboveEverything
@ReasonAboveEverything 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheCpj1976 Yeah the first guy who said it lived 6000bc in Mesopotamia.
@beasthaven1571
@beasthaven1571 2 жыл бұрын
@@ReasonAboveEverything know first guys name?
@TheRealSpicke
@TheRealSpicke 3 жыл бұрын
I think Gordon Ramsey could be a very interesting person to be analysed on this channel.
@light5891
@light5891 3 жыл бұрын
No you donut
@kalpeshrawat418
@kalpeshrawat418 3 жыл бұрын
Also that missing lamb sauce
@strawberrymilk2303
@strawberrymilk2303 3 жыл бұрын
@@kalpeshrawat418 He found the lamb sauce
@LDarlong
@LDarlong 3 жыл бұрын
His Charisma is like Gandhi’s Flip Flops
@tonyoramos1
@tonyoramos1 3 жыл бұрын
For being a bad person?
@noelnunez1372
@noelnunez1372 3 жыл бұрын
Please Do a video of “how to talk to someone that we haven’t spoken or seen since the pandemic started?” I love your videos, great job
@SnowyTaco
@SnowyTaco 3 жыл бұрын
What a great idea!!!
@AnneGoggansQHHT
@AnneGoggansQHHT 3 жыл бұрын
Give them an F-ing hug. 😁
@melonie_peppers
@melonie_peppers 3 жыл бұрын
That's so specific lol
@FireJach
@FireJach 3 жыл бұрын
dude, i need it
@biffit9060
@biffit9060 3 жыл бұрын
Be better than you were before, physically, mentally, socially. It will be SUPER noticible!
@anthonycooper6441
@anthonycooper6441 3 жыл бұрын
Video suggestion: how to never run out of social battery
@TreblePvP
@TreblePvP 3 жыл бұрын
PLEASE. I can't tell you how much this is needed as an introvert
@watema3381
@watema3381 3 жыл бұрын
People are exhausting. We could use this.
@whodatboi2567
@whodatboi2567 3 жыл бұрын
I imagine you just have to not overextend yourself in social situations.
@vision4860
@vision4860 3 жыл бұрын
Impossible.
@Endershock1678
@Endershock1678 3 жыл бұрын
I'm extroverted, but because I'm the very high energy animated kind of extrovert, people exhaust me after a while, so this would help a lot.
@pinkclouds5388
@pinkclouds5388 3 жыл бұрын
You can be confident and do almost anything and people won't question it
@Bilbus7
@Bilbus7 3 жыл бұрын
This is true.
@MissteriousLucy
@MissteriousLucy 3 жыл бұрын
This is so true lol
@sanasafeena2416
@sanasafeena2416 3 жыл бұрын
Him: the first tip is to smile Me in the middle of a pandemic: 😷😷😷 am I charming enough yet?
@sirkmar9756
@sirkmar9756 3 жыл бұрын
Smile through your eyes. And oyeah listen with you ears
@fzfzfzfz499
@fzfzfzfz499 3 жыл бұрын
Indian?
@sanasafeena2416
@sanasafeena2416 3 жыл бұрын
@@fzfzfzfz499 yeah
@TheGreektrojan
@TheGreektrojan 3 жыл бұрын
As someone who works in retail, its trivially easy to smile through the mask.
@fzfzfzfz499
@fzfzfzfz499 3 жыл бұрын
@@sanasafeena2416 yeah feels terrible
@velvetsteele
@velvetsteele 3 жыл бұрын
Simple: just be a movie star. Works every time.
@riadheddine1838
@riadheddine1838 3 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day this the rule number one 😂
@AxxLAfriku
@AxxLAfriku 3 жыл бұрын
I have a big... BIG... BIIIIGGGGG... muscles!!! HAHAHA!!! What did you think I was going for? That's so DIRTY of you! GAGAGAGA!!! I am the funniest KZbinr ever! Maybe that's the reason why I have TWO (!!!) HOT (!) GIRLFRIENDS. Thanks for being alive, dear val
@KorpusV6
@KorpusV6 3 жыл бұрын
@@AxxLAfriku big appetite, ego, head, nose
@WeAreAllOneNature
@WeAreAllOneNature 3 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command - ''The way to fake a genuine smile is to ....''
@twilamcintosh6032
@twilamcintosh6032 3 жыл бұрын
Well I mean there is Brie Larson... 😳
@ClarenceEwing
@ClarenceEwing 3 жыл бұрын
Seems like a warning is appropriate: be VERY careful when touching other people in public, especially people you don't know. The two Chrises can do it because they're obviously friends and enjoy being around each other. But for those of us who aren't gorgeous Hollywood stars, it can be very easy to invade someone's physical space in an unpleasant way without meaning to. Read the room, always.
@epiloguemetalogue
@epiloguemetalogue 3 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to be physically gorgeous while you apply these techniques.
@connorbetancourt5605
@connorbetancourt5605 3 жыл бұрын
Oh I almost frogot ( Changes face shape)
@forgetfulstranger
@forgetfulstranger 3 жыл бұрын
@@connorbetancourt5605 perfection.
@connorbetancourt5605
@connorbetancourt5605 3 жыл бұрын
@@forgetfulstranger thank you😂😂😂
@trainerrrss
@trainerrrss 3 жыл бұрын
Ofc
@cerenyldz2754
@cerenyldz2754 3 жыл бұрын
Wow genius who would have thought that
@Ak1996feb
@Ak1996feb 3 жыл бұрын
Chris is naturally a cool, charming guy.
@unchained8491
@unchained8491 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, Chris
@GarderN95
@GarderN95 3 жыл бұрын
Its easy to be charming when you're comfortable with the people around you, and you're already respected like Chris here. If you can be like Chris in a room with strangers and you're not a celebrity, then that's impressive.
@starRushi
@starRushi 3 жыл бұрын
Another thing to do is laugh at the jokes they really care about. It makes them feel like you understand them, and often promotes a feeling of empathy
@prepperjonpnw6482
@prepperjonpnw6482 3 жыл бұрын
You need to come back and edit your comment please
@starRushi
@starRushi 3 жыл бұрын
@@prepperjonpnw6482 Haha, good catch, thank you
@LivingALifeOfAbundance
@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын
the more you get rejected.. the less you care about it ....the less fear you have for it.... the better you perform
@randomdude79404
@randomdude79404 3 жыл бұрын
I see you on every video bro 😂
@drewp2170
@drewp2170 3 жыл бұрын
I don't necessarily agree with that. You want to be successful, if you get rejected or fail that means you main a mental mistake or error, which is going against a competitive work environment that shuns errors. You want to feel confident and have a long history of successful experiences to draw from. If you keep getting rejected, you get numb and slowly turn into a loser.
@Confidenceiatry
@Confidenceiatry 3 жыл бұрын
Confident people love sharing a smile. It makes other people feel comfortable.
@Scorbutics
@Scorbutics 3 жыл бұрын
The important thing is self-awareness. With it you can realize what's funny in the current situation you are. You can start to see yourself as someone else and therefore distantiate your feelings from your thinking. That obviously requires some energy / attention span in each of your conversations.
@wge621
@wge621 3 жыл бұрын
Push pull is hard to pull off if you're socially awkward and especially with the opposite gender. I've seen so many clips of guys on dating shows who think it's cool to talk down to their date or constantly tease her, but then say the odd nice thing. I think if you are doing it, the ratio has to be 80/90% nice and 10-20% tease. Because humans trend to overestimate the mean comments so much more
@toddjohnson7572
@toddjohnson7572 3 жыл бұрын
Push-pull requires you to do it with a friend of yours who is good at it, when in front of a girl. Takes two to tango. If he certainly isn't (he doesn't have to be great) -- it won't get you anywhere, and if you continue to keep trying, you'll look annoying to him as it'll make him more closed in. Trying to do that with a girl is only going to work if she's very sociable herself + banters well with you. It's something to employ with a girl After you get things rolling with her in some banter, to test out -- and to really roll with if it clicks with her.
@Frankie5Angels150
@Frankie5Angels150 3 жыл бұрын
None of this works unless you are naturally charismatic to begin with. These people are movie stars because they had charisma to begin with. They did not learn it afterwards.
@wge621
@wge621 3 жыл бұрын
@@Frankie5Angels150 that's not true. Look at his video of the rock. Charisma is absolutely a skill you can develop, it's just that most people don't put the effort into learning and practicing
@garyglaser4998
@garyglaser4998 3 жыл бұрын
Plus, it always helps to be unbelievably fit and handsome.
@iwasanMBTInerd
@iwasanMBTInerd 3 жыл бұрын
One thing this channel taught me about charisma is that there is no one size fits all and you should not try to be someone you are not. For my personality, I have found something akin to Chris Evan's charm to be most natural to incorporating into my own social interactions.
@randomman9752
@randomman9752 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah 👍
@anpatman
@anpatman 3 жыл бұрын
I am a simple straight Woman, i see Chris Evans - i click
@cindylou3708
@cindylou3708 2 жыл бұрын
When I taught piano one thing I really loved about my Chinese students is how they would laugh at themselves when they messed something up (in one of their piano pieces) during the lesson. It was so charming and made things fun.
@armannstraughter3296
@armannstraughter3296 Ай бұрын
Interesting.
@AdityaPrasad007
@AdityaPrasad007 3 жыл бұрын
This channel is basically game without the toxic parts of red pill. Love the work you do!
@barbarossa9591
@barbarossa9591 2 жыл бұрын
I think toxic parts just come from the people who have problems in past
@karaokeforyou4
@karaokeforyou4 3 жыл бұрын
FINALLY a Chris evans Breakdown
@nikaivanisevic8887
@nikaivanisevic8887 3 жыл бұрын
i love the video, can you make a video how to react in negative situations because most of these actors you cover are usually in a nice group of people and the energy is always lifted. how about a situation where you really feel uncomfortable? love your channel
@alw2839
@alw2839 3 жыл бұрын
He has
@connorbetancourt5605
@connorbetancourt5605 3 жыл бұрын
@@alw2839 is their a link? Whats the title?
@alw2839
@alw2839 3 жыл бұрын
@@connorbetancourt5605 Go to his profile and scroll through them. Apologies I don't have any links.
@connorbetancourt5605
@connorbetancourt5605 3 жыл бұрын
@@alw2839 oh your fine
@DeansLists
@DeansLists 3 жыл бұрын
Check out his How To Command Respect During Conflict
@prisonmike4991
@prisonmike4991 3 жыл бұрын
I Don't know man but watching Chris Evans laugh everytime I couldn't be able to stop my laugh either.
@lunarcat632
@lunarcat632 3 жыл бұрын
No one can replicate the perfection of that man 😰
@pythonxz
@pythonxz 3 жыл бұрын
This channel is the most legit channel of this kind.
@zoeydeutch6768
@zoeydeutch6768 3 жыл бұрын
I hate myself because I’m nervous in every conversation and in the middle of a sentence I forget what I’m talking about.
@DocPegLegRed
@DocPegLegRed 3 жыл бұрын
You got this, Zoey! Keep putting yourself out there and tell yourself the truth, which is you don’t have to be anyone but yourself. Have fun
@OMGSHEENA
@OMGSHEENA 3 жыл бұрын
Have you considered that you may have adhd? I do and one of the symptoms is that I forget what I'm talking about while I'm talking about it. This doesn't mean you can't go into the conversation with confidence though. Remind yourself that no matter how the convo goes, you'll be ok. Because you will. Then remember that if you mess up or forget you can laugh it off knowing you're human, we all make mistakes, and you will be ok. You've got this! 👍
@zoeydeutch6768
@zoeydeutch6768 3 жыл бұрын
@@OMGSHEENA Thanks for the comment! :) yeah, I thought of that. I know that I have social phobia but I don't know if it's the cause or consequence of something else, maybe adhd. I'm still looking for the courage to go to therapy. Because of the communication problems I'm very afraid of it.
@katietremaine6359
@katietremaine6359 3 жыл бұрын
Don't worry hun! I have this problem too and it gets embarrassing at times but you have to just let it go and understand that you're only human 👍🏻😁
@OMGSHEENA
@OMGSHEENA 3 жыл бұрын
@@zoeydeutch6768 @Zoey Deutch Don't be afraid of therapy. A good therapist that is the right fit for you will listen to you and offer tools to cope with and/or overcome the obstacles that your brain is creating. Try online therapy if it's easier a lot of health insurance companies are starting to cover online therapy now. Your brain, like mine, may work differently from some, but that doesn't make it broken or bad. As simple as it sounds breathing is the best tool I've found for almost every issue I have and I have so many issues I offer subscriptions. But seriously, feeling anxious? Take a deep breath and let it out slowly counting backwards from ten. (Also if you have someone you trust near by, hold their hand. Skin to skin contact releases dopamine and other "feel good" hormones) Feeling angry? Take a deep breath, close your eyes, remember something that makes you feel calm (think of something ahead of time to be your go to so that you'll remember it when upset), smile and let the breath out slowly. Got the hiccups? Take a quick deep breath that expands your chest pulling shoulders back and hold it for 5 seconds and release slowly (gasping when scared or holding breath expands diaphragm which is what really helps hiccups), Can't stop crying, having IBS issues or experiencing pain? You guessed it .. slow deep breaths in, slow puckered breaths out (like you're blowing out candles slowly) Rapid short breaths when in pain or otherwise can cause hyperventilation so slow breathing can be vital. I had a boss that used to ask every new trainee what the number one rule in a knife fight is. Most would say bring a gun or don't forget the knife etc but the answer is to "remain calm" and I've found this to be true of almost any situation. The best way to remain calm, or atleast appear calm is to take slow deep breaths, in my experience. Even if someone is verbally attacking you, arguing etc just tune them out, hum if you have to (it helps tune out inner or outer noise, and take deep slow breaths until you're ready to continue. Obviously if you're in physical danger remove yourself from the situation if you can, breathing can't stop a knife or a fist or bullets but it can help you to think clearly and calm your body and mind. Also you'd be surprised how much standing with good posture, chin up, shoulders back etc., will influence your ability to feel confident. Good luck!
@concernedcitizen6577
@concernedcitizen6577 3 жыл бұрын
My notes on this video... Step 1: Look like a Hollywood stud Step 2:
@AmbitionIsaMust115
@AmbitionIsaMust115 3 жыл бұрын
Mission completed
@cltnthecultist
@cltnthecultist 3 жыл бұрын
Have a giant member, too. I’m sure that helps in the confidence department
@BoissonMedia
@BoissonMedia 3 жыл бұрын
Step 3: Profit
@artetconscience
@artetconscience 3 жыл бұрын
@@cltnthecultist No I'm afraid it doesn't.
@Jesusisyhwh
@Jesusisyhwh 3 жыл бұрын
Step 2: be incredibly rich.
@beasthaven1571
@beasthaven1571 2 жыл бұрын
A mentor is what sounds amazing
@tsherman393
@tsherman393 3 жыл бұрын
Competence and confidence, along with good looks and charisma. Good luck
@chocolate2514
@chocolate2514 3 жыл бұрын
Yes finally, I've been wanting a video on him! I'm personally inspired by the loving character he portrays as Captain America.
@tameratupou4217
@tameratupou4217 3 жыл бұрын
I would love to see how these techniques work for an average looking non celebrity.
@loe3175
@loe3175 3 жыл бұрын
So many parts of communication can be very different for women than for men. Could you do more female focused breakdowns?
@midnightsun2085
@midnightsun2085 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a simple man. I see Chris Evans I click.
@j-l6913
@j-l6913 3 жыл бұрын
MAKE A VIDEO ON PATRICE O NEAL ASAP. This cannot be a charisma channel without analyzing THE GOAT OF CHARM PATRICE.
@pascalscherr5206
@pascalscherr5206 3 жыл бұрын
I think he's too controversial for a big channel like this to risk it haha but I hope they do
@bbains963
@bbains963 3 жыл бұрын
There is a reason why i love Chris Evans so much
@EvilWhiteMale63
@EvilWhiteMale63 3 жыл бұрын
Okay there's no way I can remember all the things you've discussed all over I do appreciate it.
@pabooklas4628
@pabooklas4628 3 жыл бұрын
there is nothing like this anywhere. I never paid for any of their stuff but free stuff alone helped me a lot!!!
@oftankoftan
@oftankoftan 3 жыл бұрын
I think this channel is doing great things for people with social phobia and people on the autism spectrum.
@atthecore4560
@atthecore4560 3 жыл бұрын
People shouldn't worry about how they're perceived when they interact with someone they're attracted to. When you put on a mask to increase you ability to be perceived as attractive, you'll only gain the attention of those who are attracted to the act you create, not the true, inner you. It's campy and it's corny, but never underestimate the power of just being yourself. Being sexy means that you believe in yourself. Best of luck to you all as you discover this. Just remember; if you can't love yourself, how can you expect to love anyone else?
@youemayare
@youemayare 3 жыл бұрын
Video suggestion: do a breakdown of the character "Jimmy McGill" from the show Better Call Saul.
@PinupSticknerd
@PinupSticknerd 9 ай бұрын
Pre preamble: Eyes glint 👀 - Push/pull Strength introducing: pull - speak through smile and eyes Appreciate you fame 👊✊ 😊 - it happens(name and claim)
@anaelpatty17
@anaelpatty17 3 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for a Chris Evans video from this channel for years. I have never clicked so fast!
@williamseric7691
@williamseric7691 3 жыл бұрын
Reason why everyone should have a profitable investment.people need money
@michaeljohn3328
@michaeljohn3328 3 жыл бұрын
You're right Investment is the key to surviving during times like this when the government decided to mess with people.
@ruthfrank9873
@ruthfrank9873 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah what type of Investment y'all are into .the stock market has been crashing lately.
@zackyo370
@zackyo370 3 жыл бұрын
Bitcoin investment is the best when you're on a profit based platform especially with the current rise.
@Veronica-kp6sd
@Veronica-kp6sd 3 жыл бұрын
Investing in cryptocurrency and gold which is better?
@jameswalk7958
@jameswalk7958 3 жыл бұрын
I must say I haven't seen a relatable investment, my wife pushed me to start looking into stock and crypto some time before the pandemic because we were looking for other sources of
@yMeMoo
@yMeMoo 3 жыл бұрын
Wish I had these video guides in the 2000's so I wasn't this socially awkward kid that got picked on. Learning to laugh at myself along with others taught me to accept my flaws and has changed me to the extrovert adult I am today.
@TheGuitologist
@TheGuitologist 3 жыл бұрын
If these celebrities see themselves picked apart on these videos, I bet they come away with a serious complex.
@CaspianMidnight
@CaspianMidnight 3 жыл бұрын
Just discovered your videos yesterday and I'm super excited to start testing all these tricks. Thanks for doing what you do to provide non-toxic advice.
@casedogLTD
@casedogLTD 3 жыл бұрын
0:00 - Intro. 0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile. 2:21 - #2: Own the space around you. 5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method. 7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.
@atefifa7769
@atefifa7769 3 жыл бұрын
Be who you are.
@Alpha-Andromeda
@Alpha-Andromeda Жыл бұрын
Just as with Emilia Clarke, and notice this with charming charismatic people around you, it’s a WHOLE BODY thing. You mention owning the space around you which is important, but it’s also that the laughter comes from the entire body, not just the face. The whole body reels backwards and then towards the person they are speaking to. THE WHOLE ENTIRE PERSON IS LAUGHING. I think people should practice laughing with their whole bodies. Laughter is much more natural that way and hence, more engaging.
@LivingALifeOfAbundance
@LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 жыл бұрын
Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s 1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset 2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention. 3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone 4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date. 5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you. 6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life 7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating 8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel 9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun 10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.
@Aaronarea52
@Aaronarea52 3 жыл бұрын
Do you have a successful relationship with a woman now that you have learned all this? Or are you still drifting..
@b3a3n3a3n3a3s
@b3a3n3a3n3a3s 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you believe some of these things
@b3a3n3a3n3a3s
@b3a3n3a3n3a3s 3 жыл бұрын
@@Aaronarea52 he seems to believe number 8 is true so probably not
@Aaronarea52
@Aaronarea52 3 жыл бұрын
@@b3a3n3a3n3a3s Right so sad that he believes number 8. I think that my girlfriend loves me, and I love her as well. and I don't always make her feel amazing. My mom loves my dad and it is not because he makes her feel a certain way all the time. Perhaps he has been around women who are insecure and don't have the ability to love because they have too many walls. I think it takes a secure person to love, as they have to have the courage to take their walls down and be open to giving and recieving love. So in my estimation this man has not been with women who are secure. This is unfortunate
@hipnhappenin
@hipnhappenin 3 жыл бұрын
This is amazing! I remember when CoC was not even 1 million. Now you're close to 5 million subscribers!
@philippkarbaum
@philippkarbaum 3 жыл бұрын
Gotta love Chris, such a likeable guy!
@cptmactavish3310
@cptmactavish3310 3 жыл бұрын
These videos really helping us dudes who grew up without dads
@jaegerkarina
@jaegerkarina 3 жыл бұрын
been waiting for a chris evans character study from this channel for years but this isnt what i expected. maybe something around the lines of how to get around public speaking anxiety which evans has repeatedly admitted to having and seeing how he's grown out of it would be nice!
@searchfortruth6889
@searchfortruth6889 3 жыл бұрын
Com'on!! If someone is good looking and attractive, he automatically behaves in a manner which has a pullimg effect, ur body language during conversation comes from confidence, if someone is attractive he will not be looking much for approvals, so wat matters mostly is ur looks. If u r gifted with outstanding looks y would u feel insecure?? and it results in build up of comfidence.
@TeamJesusGo
@TeamJesusGo 3 жыл бұрын
Im just here to watch Chris Evans being chsrming 🥰
@wendywendy8157
@wendywendy8157 3 жыл бұрын
So what about adding some more examples with women to your videos? I'd recommend looking at the cast of Ocean's 8 - those ladies are so fun to watch, their chemistry with each other is pulpable and each one of them has great sense of humour.
@DiceNinja
@DiceNinja 3 жыл бұрын
Quick question: throwing my head back and laughing like that is something I really WANT to do, but I feel like as a girl it gives off a different impression than when a guy does it. Is that just a false perception on my part or is there something else I should do instead?
@peckishcloud
@peckishcloud 3 жыл бұрын
Just because it gives a different impression, doesn't mean it gives a bad impression. Some people will like it and other's won't, so it's a great way to differentiate between people you should spend your time around. But like they always say, do callibrate it to the people and the situation. A general rule is to just keep your energy at 1 level above everyone else (in group settings.)
@D00Rb3LL
@D00Rb3LL 3 жыл бұрын
@@peckishcloud My problem is that leaning back and laughing is just so unnatural to me. I’m worried it’s going to come across as fake or excessive. I am a man btw.
@peckishcloud
@peckishcloud 3 жыл бұрын
@@D00Rb3LL That kind of excessive laughter isn't a necessary thing, but just like any skill you have to develop it. Most situations don't call for it, so I would focus more on laughing deep in the belly, making it feel more natural, and training your mind to focus on the funny to make laughter more common. These things take time, but making it habitual is what will make it feel natural.
@CarlosFernandez-df7mi
@CarlosFernandez-df7mi 3 жыл бұрын
Some charming girls I’ve met move their head sideways and use hand/arm expressions when laughing. It’s more subtle but it might be easier for you to adapt yourself and personalize it if you feel like leaning is too much.
@RusticVisuals
@RusticVisuals 3 жыл бұрын
Late to this question but my girlfriend has a really drastic laugh when i tell a good one. Head back and a very loud HA that quiets down into more normal hahahas, but I always just go "yeah! I really got her that time" its what I always thought since the beginning
@maemagnolia
@maemagnolia 3 жыл бұрын
I love this channel 🤟🏽 it’s helped so much with my social anxiety
@tristanhenry6689
@tristanhenry6689 3 жыл бұрын
Love the breakdown. I know that it’s been proposed in a video before that Tony Stark and Robert Downey Jr. are "cooler" than Steve Rogers and Chris Evans respectively because of the former’s sarcastic personalities, but I feel like Rogers and Evans don’t need sarcasm to be charismatic because they’re kind and kindness *is* cool.
@applethunderspice3072
@applethunderspice3072 2 жыл бұрын
Be yourself. This is #1. But also like who you are. If that means tweaking a few things be open to that
@whereismypozolewithchile2228
@whereismypozolewithchile2228 3 жыл бұрын
I saw a comment that suggested how to never run out social battery and I totally support that idea
@annamarczuk2030
@annamarczuk2030 3 жыл бұрын
I'd love to hear more about push-pull method because it didn't understand it entirely.
@davidportej
@davidportej 3 жыл бұрын
as a drummer I can confirm, the push pull technique is really effective.
@Mexican_Jedi
@Mexican_Jedi 2 жыл бұрын
Chris Evans has a contagious laugh.
@joepesci2269
@joepesci2269 3 жыл бұрын
thank you very much! i watched this video and now im just as charming as this ultrahandsome popular celebrity!! WOW works like magic!!
@brokenwideopen
@brokenwideopen 2 жыл бұрын
These videos are great at analyzing the actual behaviors that constitute charisma but IMO there’s no way to just do these things by memorizing these methods. You have to have the personal foundation that will allow for you to behave this way naturally-mainly being very, very secure in yourself-which means being very honest with yourself about your faults and loving yourself while fully acknowledging your shortcomings. Also, a deep belief that no matter what happens in your life or what people think of you, everything will be OK. The general lack of concern for what people think of you will follow, which will free you to be yourself. Being unburdened by insecurity and a genuine feeling of everything will always be fine, you’ll likely just naturally have good humor and be funny. It doesn’t hurt to also be doing what you love for a living. Developing these characteristics is the real work that has to happen. And as others have mentioned, it’s hard won for folks who aren’t wealthy, handsome, and who don’t have the outward approval of millions of people. I still think it can be done. It’s just a heck of a lot more work for the average Joe to do these things than for celebrities.
@denisostomo
@denisostomo 3 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on how to be charming in online interactions (if you haven’t already). Love your videos!
@Matt_Nor
@Matt_Nor 3 жыл бұрын
It's been a long time Charisma, where have you guys been?
@sobhan7785
@sobhan7785 3 жыл бұрын
so basically just be yourself thats the ultimate method
@Milestonemonger
@Milestonemonger 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is No. 1
@LexyMe123
@LexyMe123 3 жыл бұрын
He’s just perfect 😩❤️❤️❤️
@yanguskhan8513
@yanguskhan8513 3 жыл бұрын
i miss craig ferguson. his late night show was one of my favorites.
@AHFootball-v5z
@AHFootball-v5z 3 жыл бұрын
What i think people expect from watching those kind of videos, is that they over night be more into what those videos try to learn you. But.. no. U have to get some life experiences, to talk to people, talk to girls and also from those experiences get some self esteem. In order to get these things right u have to be aware that not every time it will work. U find different kinds of personalities that will react differently to what u say and how u act. In other words, live your life… :))
@CaseyBurnsInvesting
@CaseyBurnsInvesting 3 жыл бұрын
Answering the questions you gave too much pride to ask.
@nathanherren6708
@nathanherren6708 3 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is when you have a whole bunch of money, these things just come naturally
@timo4022
@timo4022 3 жыл бұрын
How come
@my_family_journal
@my_family_journal 3 жыл бұрын
Mark Zuckerberg looking like a lizard: 🤐
@Jack_Mehoff
@Jack_Mehoff 3 жыл бұрын
Cap
@spiritgaming1442
@spiritgaming1442 3 жыл бұрын
Its more of the opposite effect, these traits are what make people successful, for actors and celebrities charisma is what gets them to success as an actor. Entrepreneurs like mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs don't need as much charisma because their strength lies within there respective work, though the ability of public speaking is extremely helpful for big company owners.
@misterspino9646
@misterspino9646 3 жыл бұрын
nah
@hamzathementalist25
@hamzathementalist25 2 жыл бұрын
In my opinion " just be you" that's the best way to be better person
@MajorKoenig
@MajorKoenig 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, and don't forget to look like Chris as well!
@griddark
@griddark 3 жыл бұрын
Real way to get women to obsess over you, be obscenely good looking, have a great personality, have insane career. Chances improve if you're married, get that "can't have him" vibe going too.
@VincereVelMori1987
@VincereVelMori1987 3 жыл бұрын
Me watching this during covid: 😷 = 😁 Owning the space around me = "HEY, SOCIAL DISTANCE! WATCH IT!"
@user-sw7pi8cy5c
@user-sw7pi8cy5c 3 жыл бұрын
Make a video on Draco Malfoy (Harry Potter-movie version). He is a really interesting character but what makes such a huge number of people like him ???!!!!
@hiworld6011
@hiworld6011 3 жыл бұрын
I feel like Chris is the exact opposite of toxic masculinity
@shathaan1763
@shathaan1763 3 жыл бұрын
Habit number 1, being handsome Habit number 2, having money Habit number 3, using your look, money or both to boost your confidence Habit number 4, profit
@piqqeh
@piqqeh 3 жыл бұрын
Number 1 and only one: excuses. How do you think he got rich, how do you think he got confident, how do you think he made money? He did something unstead of giving into the superstition of luck
@ExposureNinja
@ExposureNinja 3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is key!
@gageearle9477
@gageearle9477 3 жыл бұрын
Hey I hope you see this comment, I think you should study Daniel Cormier. He’s one of the most charming people in mma and everyone seems to be his friend. I’d love to see a video on him !
@anthonysanville2841
@anthonysanville2841 3 жыл бұрын
This is a good video the only flaw is that your examples are all based off of someone that is already center of attention. That already gives you the confidence and social power over others
@Clara-in1fu
@Clara-in1fu 3 жыл бұрын
I would reeeally dig a video on Anya Taylor-Joy (Queen's Gambit) charisma
@GHIBaal
@GHIBaal 3 жыл бұрын
4:40 i might try this one 😂💯🔥
@godkinggokinggodking
@godkinggokinggodking 3 жыл бұрын
Kind, funny and humble... just not when on twitter.
@ryfreedman
@ryfreedman 3 жыл бұрын
This gave me a few things to think about.
@encinoman903
@encinoman903 3 жыл бұрын
Life is a journey. No one is perfect. We are all works in progress. Even baby steps will get you moving. Everything you could ever want is on the other side of fear.
@AD-ui6sk
@AD-ui6sk 3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah I hate when people start teasing me about less enjoyed MOVIES I starred in 😂
@datboidominican
@datboidominican 3 жыл бұрын
I like the touch of the success stories towards the end. Very interesting and empowering resource. Thank you for this video. Very encouraging.
@taliesinhalliday2483
@taliesinhalliday2483 3 жыл бұрын
How to be charming. Build confidence because youre rich and good looking.
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