I prefer this kind of charisma to the 'cool guy', it makes people around you feel better about themselves and it's just a more positive vibe.
@IsaacJoshi3 жыл бұрын
Yeah definitely play your personality strengths if you are a warm person he warm. If you are chill be chill :)
@TakeBackYourMind9973 жыл бұрын
@@IsaacJoshi Totally agree. I think too many people try to force the wrong style for them
@disciplinado21903 жыл бұрын
Save the Uygur people. Byctt China! who is kllng them. Byctt France who banned religious freedom.
@Sifar_Secure3 жыл бұрын
@@disciplinado2190 I'm happy to donate some vowels if you're running short.
@disciplinado21903 жыл бұрын
@@Sifar_Secure I'm happy to share some knowledge if you'll benefit.
@johnnyprogress74983 жыл бұрын
1) Speak through a smile; 2) Own the space around you; 3) Use the push-pull method; and 4) Be willing to laugh at yourself.
@FireJach3 жыл бұрын
you copied the list from the description
@uneekuh3 жыл бұрын
@@FireJach they summarized the video so people don’t have to sit thru lmao
@All_you_need_is_love20183 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@NeilCWCampbell3 жыл бұрын
Ty dude these talks ramble with no decent summation
@raredreamfootage3 жыл бұрын
And star in an all-time, record breaking, blockbuster movie.
@fillpereira3 жыл бұрын
As someone that used to be obese and recently got into the best shape of my life. Being comfortable in your own body is HUGE. It's a heck of a lot easier to "own the space around you" when you're not self-conscious about how you look or if your love handles are hanging out in a weird way.. Being in great shape boosts your confidence automatically. Once you do that, a lot of the tips being discussed here simply come naturally. That's my personal experience anyway.
@buffoonlagoon2 жыл бұрын
Good insight, thank you.
@jacobstevens66332 жыл бұрын
100% truth
@Lessk692 жыл бұрын
When you go from fat to fit and you see women looking at you that never would have before it's incredibly motivating and inspires a lot of confidence. That confidence just amplifies your attractiveness.
@k.54252 жыл бұрын
Agreed. Was also overweight. Haven't gotten to my goal yet but I see the difference.
@brago1997 Жыл бұрын
what if you're short?
@simranbansal93033 жыл бұрын
1) Speak through a smile. smile through your eyes and be charming. laugh at your own words. do not smile 24/7 like, starting a story, start serious and it gets to the funnier part, you can start smiling and then start laughing. keep the smile genuine. try to guide the conversation to things that actually make you laugh. 2) own the space around you. use your hands when you speak, use gestures. and even when you're not speaking, you can take up space when you laugh. put yoir head back, pur your hand on their shoulder or knee. this way you can slowly make people more comfortable to your touch and so if you're interested in them, you will easily be able to kiss them. also, another way to know if they're really interested or not. take up the space around you. ALSO, do not laugh at everything the other person says, it's cringy 3. Bounce between a) teasing lightly b) complimenting kindly bounce back and forth between this. this is called as the push-pull technique. this makes you less predictable and makes gou moe interesting. they wanna know what you'll say. more likely to work on people who are used to JUST good compliments. they're more likely to be attracted to this. don't just tease and be a jerk or give compliments and be out in the friendzone. 4. don't hide your flaws. own the mistakes that you did. if they jab at you, take it and laugh at it. if you're scared, admit it. Admit being scared, embarrassed. be willing to laugh at your own mistakes and be willing to own them. this shows you're not afraid to be judged. the thing that would bother other people, you're comfortable with it.
@antalyalyaync14233 жыл бұрын
where is 5th i cant find in this fckng video
@damiansaucedo99513 жыл бұрын
@@antalyalyaync1423 is be yourself (:
@All_you_need_is_love20183 жыл бұрын
The 5th is to sign-up and pay for the course they’re offering.
@yaublediesa44483 жыл бұрын
Goat
@pranjaldangwal14252 жыл бұрын
Tbh, You deserve more likes..........
@papajupri10703 жыл бұрын
I was smiling the whole time while watching this. Chris Evans' smile is contagious for sure.
@Heywood.Jablome3 жыл бұрын
Jeez. He's a 10. Of course he's perfect. Therefore not a good role model for the 90%
@neerajbaranwal72943 жыл бұрын
Oops noticed after reading this
@AhmetKaan3 жыл бұрын
*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”* *―C. S. Lewis*
@christopherbucher70173 жыл бұрын
My favorite author :) :) :)
@RealWolfmanDan3 жыл бұрын
I liked this and wanted to share it, when I looked it up apparently there is no record of Mr. Lewis ever saying it, but there is a very similar quote from author James Sherman: "You can’t go back and make a new start, but you can start right now and make a brand new ending.”
@StreetHierarchy3 жыл бұрын
I thought that was Annie Wilkes...🤔
@ReasonAboveEverything3 жыл бұрын
@@TheCpj1976 Yeah the first guy who said it lived 6000bc in Mesopotamia.
@beasthaven15712 жыл бұрын
@@ReasonAboveEverything know first guys name?
@TheRealSpicke3 жыл бұрын
I think Gordon Ramsey could be a very interesting person to be analysed on this channel.
@light58913 жыл бұрын
No you donut
@kalpeshrawat4183 жыл бұрын
Also that missing lamb sauce
@strawberrymilk23033 жыл бұрын
@@kalpeshrawat418 He found the lamb sauce
@LDarlong3 жыл бұрын
His Charisma is like Gandhi’s Flip Flops
@tonyoramos13 жыл бұрын
For being a bad person?
@noelnunez13723 жыл бұрын
Please Do a video of “how to talk to someone that we haven’t spoken or seen since the pandemic started?” I love your videos, great job
@SnowyTaco3 жыл бұрын
What a great idea!!!
@AnneGoggansQHHT3 жыл бұрын
Give them an F-ing hug. 😁
@melonie_peppers3 жыл бұрын
That's so specific lol
@FireJach3 жыл бұрын
dude, i need it
@biffit90603 жыл бұрын
Be better than you were before, physically, mentally, socially. It will be SUPER noticible!
@anthonycooper64413 жыл бұрын
Video suggestion: how to never run out of social battery
@TreblePvP3 жыл бұрын
PLEASE. I can't tell you how much this is needed as an introvert
@watema33813 жыл бұрын
People are exhausting. We could use this.
@whodatboi25673 жыл бұрын
I imagine you just have to not overextend yourself in social situations.
@vision48603 жыл бұрын
Impossible.
@Endershock16783 жыл бұрын
I'm extroverted, but because I'm the very high energy animated kind of extrovert, people exhaust me after a while, so this would help a lot.
@pinkclouds53883 жыл бұрын
You can be confident and do almost anything and people won't question it
@Bilbus73 жыл бұрын
This is true.
@MissteriousLucy3 жыл бұрын
This is so true lol
@sanasafeena24163 жыл бұрын
Him: the first tip is to smile Me in the middle of a pandemic: 😷😷😷 am I charming enough yet?
@sirkmar97563 жыл бұрын
Smile through your eyes. And oyeah listen with you ears
@fzfzfzfz4993 жыл бұрын
Indian?
@sanasafeena24163 жыл бұрын
@@fzfzfzfz499 yeah
@TheGreektrojan3 жыл бұрын
As someone who works in retail, its trivially easy to smile through the mask.
@fzfzfzfz4993 жыл бұрын
@@sanasafeena2416 yeah feels terrible
@velvetsteele3 жыл бұрын
Simple: just be a movie star. Works every time.
@riadheddine18383 жыл бұрын
At the end of the day this the rule number one 😂
@AxxLAfriku3 жыл бұрын
I have a big... BIG... BIIIIGGGGG... muscles!!! HAHAHA!!! What did you think I was going for? That's so DIRTY of you! GAGAGAGA!!! I am the funniest KZbinr ever! Maybe that's the reason why I have TWO (!!!) HOT (!) GIRLFRIENDS. Thanks for being alive, dear val
@KorpusV63 жыл бұрын
@@AxxLAfriku big appetite, ego, head, nose
@WeAreAllOneNature3 жыл бұрын
Charisma on Command - ''The way to fake a genuine smile is to ....''
@twilamcintosh60323 жыл бұрын
Well I mean there is Brie Larson... 😳
@ClarenceEwing3 жыл бұрын
Seems like a warning is appropriate: be VERY careful when touching other people in public, especially people you don't know. The two Chrises can do it because they're obviously friends and enjoy being around each other. But for those of us who aren't gorgeous Hollywood stars, it can be very easy to invade someone's physical space in an unpleasant way without meaning to. Read the room, always.
@epiloguemetalogue3 жыл бұрын
Don't forget to be physically gorgeous while you apply these techniques.
@connorbetancourt56053 жыл бұрын
Oh I almost frogot ( Changes face shape)
@forgetfulstranger3 жыл бұрын
@@connorbetancourt5605 perfection.
@connorbetancourt56053 жыл бұрын
@@forgetfulstranger thank you😂😂😂
@trainerrrss3 жыл бұрын
Ofc
@cerenyldz27543 жыл бұрын
Wow genius who would have thought that
@Ak1996feb3 жыл бұрын
Chris is naturally a cool, charming guy.
@unchained84913 жыл бұрын
Yes, Chris
@GarderN953 жыл бұрын
Its easy to be charming when you're comfortable with the people around you, and you're already respected like Chris here. If you can be like Chris in a room with strangers and you're not a celebrity, then that's impressive.
@starRushi3 жыл бұрын
Another thing to do is laugh at the jokes they really care about. It makes them feel like you understand them, and often promotes a feeling of empathy
@prepperjonpnw64823 жыл бұрын
You need to come back and edit your comment please
@starRushi3 жыл бұрын
@@prepperjonpnw6482 Haha, good catch, thank you
@LivingALifeOfAbundance3 жыл бұрын
the more you get rejected.. the less you care about it ....the less fear you have for it.... the better you perform
@randomdude794043 жыл бұрын
I see you on every video bro 😂
@drewp21703 жыл бұрын
I don't necessarily agree with that. You want to be successful, if you get rejected or fail that means you main a mental mistake or error, which is going against a competitive work environment that shuns errors. You want to feel confident and have a long history of successful experiences to draw from. If you keep getting rejected, you get numb and slowly turn into a loser.
@Confidenceiatry3 жыл бұрын
Confident people love sharing a smile. It makes other people feel comfortable.
@Scorbutics3 жыл бұрын
The important thing is self-awareness. With it you can realize what's funny in the current situation you are. You can start to see yourself as someone else and therefore distantiate your feelings from your thinking. That obviously requires some energy / attention span in each of your conversations.
@wge6213 жыл бұрын
Push pull is hard to pull off if you're socially awkward and especially with the opposite gender. I've seen so many clips of guys on dating shows who think it's cool to talk down to their date or constantly tease her, but then say the odd nice thing. I think if you are doing it, the ratio has to be 80/90% nice and 10-20% tease. Because humans trend to overestimate the mean comments so much more
@toddjohnson75723 жыл бұрын
Push-pull requires you to do it with a friend of yours who is good at it, when in front of a girl. Takes two to tango. If he certainly isn't (he doesn't have to be great) -- it won't get you anywhere, and if you continue to keep trying, you'll look annoying to him as it'll make him more closed in. Trying to do that with a girl is only going to work if she's very sociable herself + banters well with you. It's something to employ with a girl After you get things rolling with her in some banter, to test out -- and to really roll with if it clicks with her.
@Frankie5Angels1503 жыл бұрын
None of this works unless you are naturally charismatic to begin with. These people are movie stars because they had charisma to begin with. They did not learn it afterwards.
@wge6213 жыл бұрын
@@Frankie5Angels150 that's not true. Look at his video of the rock. Charisma is absolutely a skill you can develop, it's just that most people don't put the effort into learning and practicing
@garyglaser49983 жыл бұрын
Plus, it always helps to be unbelievably fit and handsome.
@iwasanMBTInerd3 жыл бұрын
One thing this channel taught me about charisma is that there is no one size fits all and you should not try to be someone you are not. For my personality, I have found something akin to Chris Evan's charm to be most natural to incorporating into my own social interactions.
@randomman97522 жыл бұрын
Yeah 👍
@anpatman3 жыл бұрын
I am a simple straight Woman, i see Chris Evans - i click
@cindylou37082 жыл бұрын
When I taught piano one thing I really loved about my Chinese students is how they would laugh at themselves when they messed something up (in one of their piano pieces) during the lesson. It was so charming and made things fun.
@armannstraughter3296Ай бұрын
Interesting.
@AdityaPrasad0073 жыл бұрын
This channel is basically game without the toxic parts of red pill. Love the work you do!
@barbarossa95912 жыл бұрын
I think toxic parts just come from the people who have problems in past
@karaokeforyou43 жыл бұрын
FINALLY a Chris evans Breakdown
@nikaivanisevic88873 жыл бұрын
i love the video, can you make a video how to react in negative situations because most of these actors you cover are usually in a nice group of people and the energy is always lifted. how about a situation where you really feel uncomfortable? love your channel
@alw28393 жыл бұрын
He has
@connorbetancourt56053 жыл бұрын
@@alw2839 is their a link? Whats the title?
@alw28393 жыл бұрын
@@connorbetancourt5605 Go to his profile and scroll through them. Apologies I don't have any links.
@connorbetancourt56053 жыл бұрын
@@alw2839 oh your fine
@DeansLists3 жыл бұрын
Check out his How To Command Respect During Conflict
@prisonmike49913 жыл бұрын
I Don't know man but watching Chris Evans laugh everytime I couldn't be able to stop my laugh either.
@lunarcat6323 жыл бұрын
No one can replicate the perfection of that man 😰
@pythonxz3 жыл бұрын
This channel is the most legit channel of this kind.
@zoeydeutch67683 жыл бұрын
I hate myself because I’m nervous in every conversation and in the middle of a sentence I forget what I’m talking about.
@DocPegLegRed3 жыл бұрын
You got this, Zoey! Keep putting yourself out there and tell yourself the truth, which is you don’t have to be anyone but yourself. Have fun
@OMGSHEENA3 жыл бұрын
Have you considered that you may have adhd? I do and one of the symptoms is that I forget what I'm talking about while I'm talking about it. This doesn't mean you can't go into the conversation with confidence though. Remind yourself that no matter how the convo goes, you'll be ok. Because you will. Then remember that if you mess up or forget you can laugh it off knowing you're human, we all make mistakes, and you will be ok. You've got this! 👍
@zoeydeutch67683 жыл бұрын
@@OMGSHEENA Thanks for the comment! :) yeah, I thought of that. I know that I have social phobia but I don't know if it's the cause or consequence of something else, maybe adhd. I'm still looking for the courage to go to therapy. Because of the communication problems I'm very afraid of it.
@katietremaine63593 жыл бұрын
Don't worry hun! I have this problem too and it gets embarrassing at times but you have to just let it go and understand that you're only human 👍🏻😁
@OMGSHEENA3 жыл бұрын
@@zoeydeutch6768 @Zoey Deutch Don't be afraid of therapy. A good therapist that is the right fit for you will listen to you and offer tools to cope with and/or overcome the obstacles that your brain is creating. Try online therapy if it's easier a lot of health insurance companies are starting to cover online therapy now. Your brain, like mine, may work differently from some, but that doesn't make it broken or bad. As simple as it sounds breathing is the best tool I've found for almost every issue I have and I have so many issues I offer subscriptions. But seriously, feeling anxious? Take a deep breath and let it out slowly counting backwards from ten. (Also if you have someone you trust near by, hold their hand. Skin to skin contact releases dopamine and other "feel good" hormones) Feeling angry? Take a deep breath, close your eyes, remember something that makes you feel calm (think of something ahead of time to be your go to so that you'll remember it when upset), smile and let the breath out slowly. Got the hiccups? Take a quick deep breath that expands your chest pulling shoulders back and hold it for 5 seconds and release slowly (gasping when scared or holding breath expands diaphragm which is what really helps hiccups), Can't stop crying, having IBS issues or experiencing pain? You guessed it .. slow deep breaths in, slow puckered breaths out (like you're blowing out candles slowly) Rapid short breaths when in pain or otherwise can cause hyperventilation so slow breathing can be vital. I had a boss that used to ask every new trainee what the number one rule in a knife fight is. Most would say bring a gun or don't forget the knife etc but the answer is to "remain calm" and I've found this to be true of almost any situation. The best way to remain calm, or atleast appear calm is to take slow deep breaths, in my experience. Even if someone is verbally attacking you, arguing etc just tune them out, hum if you have to (it helps tune out inner or outer noise, and take deep slow breaths until you're ready to continue. Obviously if you're in physical danger remove yourself from the situation if you can, breathing can't stop a knife or a fist or bullets but it can help you to think clearly and calm your body and mind. Also you'd be surprised how much standing with good posture, chin up, shoulders back etc., will influence your ability to feel confident. Good luck!
@concernedcitizen65773 жыл бұрын
My notes on this video... Step 1: Look like a Hollywood stud Step 2:
@AmbitionIsaMust1153 жыл бұрын
Mission completed
@cltnthecultist3 жыл бұрын
Have a giant member, too. I’m sure that helps in the confidence department
@BoissonMedia3 жыл бұрын
Step 3: Profit
@artetconscience3 жыл бұрын
@@cltnthecultist No I'm afraid it doesn't.
@Jesusisyhwh3 жыл бұрын
Step 2: be incredibly rich.
@beasthaven15712 жыл бұрын
A mentor is what sounds amazing
@tsherman3933 жыл бұрын
Competence and confidence, along with good looks and charisma. Good luck
@chocolate25143 жыл бұрын
Yes finally, I've been wanting a video on him! I'm personally inspired by the loving character he portrays as Captain America.
@tameratupou42173 жыл бұрын
I would love to see how these techniques work for an average looking non celebrity.
@loe31753 жыл бұрын
So many parts of communication can be very different for women than for men. Could you do more female focused breakdowns?
@midnightsun20853 жыл бұрын
I'm a simple man. I see Chris Evans I click.
@j-l69133 жыл бұрын
MAKE A VIDEO ON PATRICE O NEAL ASAP. This cannot be a charisma channel without analyzing THE GOAT OF CHARM PATRICE.
@pascalscherr52063 жыл бұрын
I think he's too controversial for a big channel like this to risk it haha but I hope they do
@bbains9633 жыл бұрын
There is a reason why i love Chris Evans so much
@EvilWhiteMale633 жыл бұрын
Okay there's no way I can remember all the things you've discussed all over I do appreciate it.
@pabooklas46283 жыл бұрын
there is nothing like this anywhere. I never paid for any of their stuff but free stuff alone helped me a lot!!!
@oftankoftan3 жыл бұрын
I think this channel is doing great things for people with social phobia and people on the autism spectrum.
@atthecore45603 жыл бұрын
People shouldn't worry about how they're perceived when they interact with someone they're attracted to. When you put on a mask to increase you ability to be perceived as attractive, you'll only gain the attention of those who are attracted to the act you create, not the true, inner you. It's campy and it's corny, but never underestimate the power of just being yourself. Being sexy means that you believe in yourself. Best of luck to you all as you discover this. Just remember; if you can't love yourself, how can you expect to love anyone else?
@youemayare3 жыл бұрын
Video suggestion: do a breakdown of the character "Jimmy McGill" from the show Better Call Saul.
@PinupSticknerd9 ай бұрын
Pre preamble: Eyes glint 👀 - Push/pull Strength introducing: pull - speak through smile and eyes Appreciate you fame 👊✊ 😊 - it happens(name and claim)
@anaelpatty173 жыл бұрын
I've been waiting for a Chris Evans video from this channel for years. I have never clicked so fast!
@williamseric76913 жыл бұрын
Reason why everyone should have a profitable investment.people need money
@michaeljohn33283 жыл бұрын
You're right Investment is the key to surviving during times like this when the government decided to mess with people.
@ruthfrank98733 жыл бұрын
Yeah what type of Investment y'all are into .the stock market has been crashing lately.
@zackyo3703 жыл бұрын
Bitcoin investment is the best when you're on a profit based platform especially with the current rise.
@Veronica-kp6sd3 жыл бұрын
Investing in cryptocurrency and gold which is better?
@jameswalk79583 жыл бұрын
I must say I haven't seen a relatable investment, my wife pushed me to start looking into stock and crypto some time before the pandemic because we were looking for other sources of
@yMeMoo3 жыл бұрын
Wish I had these video guides in the 2000's so I wasn't this socially awkward kid that got picked on. Learning to laugh at myself along with others taught me to accept my flaws and has changed me to the extrovert adult I am today.
@TheGuitologist3 жыл бұрын
If these celebrities see themselves picked apart on these videos, I bet they come away with a serious complex.
@CaspianMidnight3 жыл бұрын
Just discovered your videos yesterday and I'm super excited to start testing all these tricks. Thanks for doing what you do to provide non-toxic advice.
@casedogLTD3 жыл бұрын
0:00 - Intro. 0:30 - #1: Speak through a smile. 2:21 - #2: Own the space around you. 5:25 - #3: Use the push-pull method. 7:30 - #4: Be willing to laugh at yourself.
@atefifa77693 жыл бұрын
Be who you are.
@Alpha-Andromeda Жыл бұрын
Just as with Emilia Clarke, and notice this with charming charismatic people around you, it’s a WHOLE BODY thing. You mention owning the space around you which is important, but it’s also that the laughter comes from the entire body, not just the face. The whole body reels backwards and then towards the person they are speaking to. THE WHOLE ENTIRE PERSON IS LAUGHING. I think people should practice laughing with their whole bodies. Laughter is much more natural that way and hence, more engaging.
@LivingALifeOfAbundance3 жыл бұрын
Things About Women I Wish I Knew In My 20’s 1. Rejection is a part of life never, take it seriously. When one bus leaves another comes in 5 minutes. Abundance mindset 2. Never play the nice guy buddy buddy role with women. When a women friend zones you, she’s rejecting you. But she still wants you around so she could use you for free attention. 3. Never Chase A Women After Being dumper or FriendZone 4. Quiet/Shy Nerdy girls are the BEST girls to date. 5. Female Hypergamy Does not care about you. 6. Never make a women your whole life. A women should only be complimentary to your life 7. Men at the age of 18-25 will have the most difficult time dating 8. A woman can never love you, she only loves you on how you make her feel 9. Women at the ages 18-25 are not looking to settle down they just want TO have fun 10. Never let a women walk all over you or manipulate you just because she’s pretty always stand your ground & follow your principles as a man.
@Aaronarea523 жыл бұрын
Do you have a successful relationship with a woman now that you have learned all this? Or are you still drifting..
@b3a3n3a3n3a3s3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you believe some of these things
@b3a3n3a3n3a3s3 жыл бұрын
@@Aaronarea52 he seems to believe number 8 is true so probably not
@Aaronarea523 жыл бұрын
@@b3a3n3a3n3a3s Right so sad that he believes number 8. I think that my girlfriend loves me, and I love her as well. and I don't always make her feel amazing. My mom loves my dad and it is not because he makes her feel a certain way all the time. Perhaps he has been around women who are insecure and don't have the ability to love because they have too many walls. I think it takes a secure person to love, as they have to have the courage to take their walls down and be open to giving and recieving love. So in my estimation this man has not been with women who are secure. This is unfortunate
@hipnhappenin3 жыл бұрын
This is amazing! I remember when CoC was not even 1 million. Now you're close to 5 million subscribers!
@philippkarbaum3 жыл бұрын
Gotta love Chris, such a likeable guy!
@cptmactavish33103 жыл бұрын
These videos really helping us dudes who grew up without dads
@jaegerkarina3 жыл бұрын
been waiting for a chris evans character study from this channel for years but this isnt what i expected. maybe something around the lines of how to get around public speaking anxiety which evans has repeatedly admitted to having and seeing how he's grown out of it would be nice!
@searchfortruth68893 жыл бұрын
Com'on!! If someone is good looking and attractive, he automatically behaves in a manner which has a pullimg effect, ur body language during conversation comes from confidence, if someone is attractive he will not be looking much for approvals, so wat matters mostly is ur looks. If u r gifted with outstanding looks y would u feel insecure?? and it results in build up of comfidence.
@TeamJesusGo3 жыл бұрын
Im just here to watch Chris Evans being chsrming 🥰
@wendywendy81573 жыл бұрын
So what about adding some more examples with women to your videos? I'd recommend looking at the cast of Ocean's 8 - those ladies are so fun to watch, their chemistry with each other is pulpable and each one of them has great sense of humour.
@DiceNinja3 жыл бұрын
Quick question: throwing my head back and laughing like that is something I really WANT to do, but I feel like as a girl it gives off a different impression than when a guy does it. Is that just a false perception on my part or is there something else I should do instead?
@peckishcloud3 жыл бұрын
Just because it gives a different impression, doesn't mean it gives a bad impression. Some people will like it and other's won't, so it's a great way to differentiate between people you should spend your time around. But like they always say, do callibrate it to the people and the situation. A general rule is to just keep your energy at 1 level above everyone else (in group settings.)
@D00Rb3LL3 жыл бұрын
@@peckishcloud My problem is that leaning back and laughing is just so unnatural to me. I’m worried it’s going to come across as fake or excessive. I am a man btw.
@peckishcloud3 жыл бұрын
@@D00Rb3LL That kind of excessive laughter isn't a necessary thing, but just like any skill you have to develop it. Most situations don't call for it, so I would focus more on laughing deep in the belly, making it feel more natural, and training your mind to focus on the funny to make laughter more common. These things take time, but making it habitual is what will make it feel natural.
@CarlosFernandez-df7mi3 жыл бұрын
Some charming girls I’ve met move their head sideways and use hand/arm expressions when laughing. It’s more subtle but it might be easier for you to adapt yourself and personalize it if you feel like leaning is too much.
@RusticVisuals3 жыл бұрын
Late to this question but my girlfriend has a really drastic laugh when i tell a good one. Head back and a very loud HA that quiets down into more normal hahahas, but I always just go "yeah! I really got her that time" its what I always thought since the beginning
@maemagnolia3 жыл бұрын
I love this channel 🤟🏽 it’s helped so much with my social anxiety
@tristanhenry66893 жыл бұрын
Love the breakdown. I know that it’s been proposed in a video before that Tony Stark and Robert Downey Jr. are "cooler" than Steve Rogers and Chris Evans respectively because of the former’s sarcastic personalities, but I feel like Rogers and Evans don’t need sarcasm to be charismatic because they’re kind and kindness *is* cool.
@applethunderspice30722 жыл бұрын
Be yourself. This is #1. But also like who you are. If that means tweaking a few things be open to that
@whereismypozolewithchile22283 жыл бұрын
I saw a comment that suggested how to never run out social battery and I totally support that idea
@annamarczuk20303 жыл бұрын
I'd love to hear more about push-pull method because it didn't understand it entirely.
@davidportej3 жыл бұрын
as a drummer I can confirm, the push pull technique is really effective.
@Mexican_Jedi2 жыл бұрын
Chris Evans has a contagious laugh.
@joepesci22693 жыл бұрын
thank you very much! i watched this video and now im just as charming as this ultrahandsome popular celebrity!! WOW works like magic!!
@brokenwideopen2 жыл бұрын
These videos are great at analyzing the actual behaviors that constitute charisma but IMO there’s no way to just do these things by memorizing these methods. You have to have the personal foundation that will allow for you to behave this way naturally-mainly being very, very secure in yourself-which means being very honest with yourself about your faults and loving yourself while fully acknowledging your shortcomings. Also, a deep belief that no matter what happens in your life or what people think of you, everything will be OK. The general lack of concern for what people think of you will follow, which will free you to be yourself. Being unburdened by insecurity and a genuine feeling of everything will always be fine, you’ll likely just naturally have good humor and be funny. It doesn’t hurt to also be doing what you love for a living. Developing these characteristics is the real work that has to happen. And as others have mentioned, it’s hard won for folks who aren’t wealthy, handsome, and who don’t have the outward approval of millions of people. I still think it can be done. It’s just a heck of a lot more work for the average Joe to do these things than for celebrities.
@denisostomo3 жыл бұрын
Please do a video on how to be charming in online interactions (if you haven’t already). Love your videos!
@Matt_Nor3 жыл бұрын
It's been a long time Charisma, where have you guys been?
@sobhan77853 жыл бұрын
so basically just be yourself thats the ultimate method
@Milestonemonger3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is No. 1
@LexyMe1233 жыл бұрын
He’s just perfect 😩❤️❤️❤️
@yanguskhan85133 жыл бұрын
i miss craig ferguson. his late night show was one of my favorites.
@AHFootball-v5z3 жыл бұрын
What i think people expect from watching those kind of videos, is that they over night be more into what those videos try to learn you. But.. no. U have to get some life experiences, to talk to people, talk to girls and also from those experiences get some self esteem. In order to get these things right u have to be aware that not every time it will work. U find different kinds of personalities that will react differently to what u say and how u act. In other words, live your life… :))
@CaseyBurnsInvesting3 жыл бұрын
Answering the questions you gave too much pride to ask.
@nathanherren67083 жыл бұрын
The funny thing is when you have a whole bunch of money, these things just come naturally
@timo40223 жыл бұрын
How come
@my_family_journal3 жыл бұрын
Mark Zuckerberg looking like a lizard: 🤐
@Jack_Mehoff3 жыл бұрын
Cap
@spiritgaming14423 жыл бұрын
Its more of the opposite effect, these traits are what make people successful, for actors and celebrities charisma is what gets them to success as an actor. Entrepreneurs like mark Zuckerberg, Elon Musk, Steve Jobs don't need as much charisma because their strength lies within there respective work, though the ability of public speaking is extremely helpful for big company owners.
@misterspino96463 жыл бұрын
nah
@hamzathementalist252 жыл бұрын
In my opinion " just be you" that's the best way to be better person
@MajorKoenig3 жыл бұрын
Oh yes, and don't forget to look like Chris as well!
@griddark3 жыл бұрын
Real way to get women to obsess over you, be obscenely good looking, have a great personality, have insane career. Chances improve if you're married, get that "can't have him" vibe going too.
@VincereVelMori19873 жыл бұрын
Me watching this during covid: 😷 = 😁 Owning the space around me = "HEY, SOCIAL DISTANCE! WATCH IT!"
@user-sw7pi8cy5c3 жыл бұрын
Make a video on Draco Malfoy (Harry Potter-movie version). He is a really interesting character but what makes such a huge number of people like him ???!!!!
@hiworld60113 жыл бұрын
I feel like Chris is the exact opposite of toxic masculinity
@shathaan17633 жыл бұрын
Habit number 1, being handsome Habit number 2, having money Habit number 3, using your look, money or both to boost your confidence Habit number 4, profit
@piqqeh3 жыл бұрын
Number 1 and only one: excuses. How do you think he got rich, how do you think he got confident, how do you think he made money? He did something unstead of giving into the superstition of luck
@ExposureNinja3 жыл бұрын
Confidence is key!
@gageearle94773 жыл бұрын
Hey I hope you see this comment, I think you should study Daniel Cormier. He’s one of the most charming people in mma and everyone seems to be his friend. I’d love to see a video on him !
@anthonysanville28413 жыл бұрын
This is a good video the only flaw is that your examples are all based off of someone that is already center of attention. That already gives you the confidence and social power over others
@Clara-in1fu3 жыл бұрын
I would reeeally dig a video on Anya Taylor-Joy (Queen's Gambit) charisma
@GHIBaal3 жыл бұрын
4:40 i might try this one 😂💯🔥
@godkinggokinggodking3 жыл бұрын
Kind, funny and humble... just not when on twitter.
@ryfreedman3 жыл бұрын
This gave me a few things to think about.
@encinoman9033 жыл бұрын
Life is a journey. No one is perfect. We are all works in progress. Even baby steps will get you moving. Everything you could ever want is on the other side of fear.
@AD-ui6sk3 жыл бұрын
Oh yeah I hate when people start teasing me about less enjoyed MOVIES I starred in 😂
@datboidominican3 жыл бұрын
I like the touch of the success stories towards the end. Very interesting and empowering resource. Thank you for this video. Very encouraging.
@taliesinhalliday24833 жыл бұрын
How to be charming. Build confidence because youre rich and good looking.