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[@dcraexon]

Denzel !!!

[@dcraexon]

Laugh tracks

[@MrNncon]

Yeah its called canadian

[@ben2808]

Jesus Christ loves you

[@jameskipp66]

There is an art to ... being able to take, what appears to be on the face of it, two random and seemingly disparate items, but you assist the listener, to make the connection on their own. Another way is to turn a double entendre, back on the other person, as it their mind that's "in the gutter" when you were leading them the entire time. Cerebral gymnastics are a hoot

[@s.h.1639]

The key to being able to think of something quickly is to think of something quickly wow thanks

[@heyyou9137]

Its also practice, some people are just talking more than others, so they got through different dialogues to understand what to say

[@dragonshieldzie-1853]

He said practice

[@erickane8163]

You're wicked smart man, yeah that's exactly what he said, has nothing to do with repetition and practicing so that over time you get better at it, have you ever gotten good at anything or are you just a condescending spoon all the time?

[@ENikolaev]

I’ve always preferred to just say an obscure fruit. It always gets a good laugh and if you know additional facts about the fruit people are naturally curious to hear more!

[@RedRad1990]

get gud

[@Anonymous_Eyeballs]

"How to be funny: be funny"

[@no-dm9of]

How to be funny: i forgor

[@lullsbaby9321]

How to work at a skill: not do it

[@NLtakesTheHedgehog]

Step 2: Don’t be unfunny

[@silkroad1201]

*Be Ryan Reynolds

[@Ab-yq1hy]

How to be funny : Be Ryan Reynolds

[@jacksonmasco]

“we wish we could think of something but our mind goes blank” “you have to think quickly and on the spot to do this”

[@dolphinman9253]

ah the floor is made out of floor

[@awesomesause]

@@dolphinman9253 No its made of lava, think fast, It's not that hard if you take away your thought to mouth filter.

[@davidsprott3216]

this short is literally just, "are you unfunny? ok then, be funny."

[@thelightisdarkness9457]

If your homless. ....just buy a house 🏠

[@awesomesause]

@@thelightisdarkness9457 Right though? Instead they are out there buying avocado toast. Biggest scourge to our society according to dads....

[@Alpharelic]

I'll never forget the time Ryan described how tight the Deadpool suit was by saying he could 'taste his own genitals"

[@angelaerrington4423]

😂😂😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@lorimiller4301]

That's funny 😁

[@ramonmaier6488]

Hahahahah...

[@cynthiaholland13]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅

[@ShanesUnicorn]

😂

[@alyzu4755]

"How to be funny: Be Ryan Reynolds" Got it.

[@erynlotter5278]

This deserves more likes honestly I laughed so hard

[@alyzu4755]

@@erynlotter5278 Thank you!!!!!!! ☺️

[@jahpetemo]

you get 10x funnier when you more attractive

[@ngndnd]

@@jahpetemo i think its the opposite tbh. Usually overweight and below average looking people are funnier since you arent so focused on their looks

[@jahpetemo]

@@ngndnd they are funnier in the way that they are not taken seriously and their appearance adds to their humor

[@MandNsvideos665]

"To be funny, you have to be funny" - ChArIsMa oN cOmmAnD

[@lenny3861]

1k likes no comment.. lemme fix that👍

[@MandNsvideos665]

@@lenny3861 thank you my good man

[@Ally-rv2pg]

@@lenny3861 wait for meeee

[@extrm161]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bmncgpuhbNCXbKc 👆 !

[@sawney3963]

I literally just spit on my screen of laugh

[@OnlyRoke]

I really never would've guessed that being witty on the spot is a way to make people like you. Bless

[@JSGaming0327]

Hahaha I know right. 😂😂😂😂

[@KillerManta1996]

I hope you’re not serious

[@Billmull8622]

Lol being funny is likable

[@ishko108]

That's an awesome burn bro. Stylish.

[@Mygg_Jeager]

That sarcasm lmao

[@Dargonhuman]

This advice has the same energy as "to beat depression, just be happy!" Like, yea, but that's going from A to D without explaining what B and C are.

[@EMMYK1916]

Ah you're overthinking it.

[@synergyrevolution2332]

Seriously? So you didn't get how him explaining that Ryan replaced generic phrases with things that conjure funny visuals makes the process of learning to be funny less abstract and gives you a clearer idea of what to go for? Why can't people accept that social skills are SKILLS? As in stuff that you'll inevitably suck at in the beginning, regardless of whatever advice you get, and that you'll have to practice and fail repeatedly before you can be good at it. Just because a piece of advice won't make you instantly funnier doesn't mean it's bad advice. If you think it is then you just don't understand how skills work.

[@hibana364]

You learn by training. Anything.

[@Ron-Ayres]

perzackly.

[@Reggie-zw8rm]

This won't work for normal people irl anyway. You'll come off as cringe, annoying and tryhard. Nobody in everyday social situations wants to hear someone acting like they're trying out weak stand up material. There is a reason nobody talks like this. It works because RR is already a rich celebrity. You are all missing the part where he has established clout so people will play along with his jokes no matter what.

[@mrchickinman9984]

“the secret to getting enough sleep at night is to go to sleep” holy shit man this guy’s a genius

[@TechGalaxyy]

haha your funny as you edit: ok ik I tried me best

[@1ronmad1n]

Put the phone down Think nice thoughts. Then say your prayers, you’ll be asleep before you know it.

[@immanuelrodjan1851]

​@@1ronmad1n Dear God, I hope my brother very politely burns in a house fire, but keep him alive so I can laugh at him. In a nice way of course.

[@lamb6549]

This Is basically one of those drawing tutorials "don't draw bad, draw good". No shit, my friend

[@Idk-yeehaw]

Ye people just say "just draw better,like it's not that hard"

[@a-10warthog23]

I dunno, I found it kinda helpful. It's about storytelling, specifically.

[@lamb6549]

@@a-10warthog23 it's literally saying "You don't know how to be charming? Just be charming" of course being descriptive Is a good way to entertain people, but this video says nothing about how to do it

[@lamb6549]

@@a-10warthog23 of course drawing good art Is a good way to produce good art, but those videos i mentioned say nothing about how to do It. That's why they're the same thing

[@kingouref903]

😂😂

[@tanyarobinson2098]

Ryan is very self deprecating. It’s part of his charm. ❤

[@miaallen6161]

“If you’re depressed, be happy.”

[@monty4336]

And dont worry.

[@deathbycheese850]

Or "what have you got to be depressed about?" Or "you need some context.".

[@turolretar]

Ever notice how only well fed people are depressed ?

[@rhinovirus2225]

Tried it. Failed.

[@definitelyrealskeleton]

​​@@turolretar uh, tell that to depressed people who are either living in poverty or homeless. they certainly arent well fed.

[@serwinzzalot9989]

he's confident in himself. self-deprecating humor takes confidence but it also deflects attention if you are shy. this is how I use jokes that take pressure off myself and the audience. I hate awkward silences.

[@Nefylym]

.....

[@jameshicks1367]

Self-confidence is key. I have always been a very self-confident over the top type person and it showed up when I walked into an FM radio station with zero experience and told them I was going to be there next afternoon drive this jockey. Immediately got the job they called before I even made it back to my house. Course it was '80s there were no cell phones. I learned to be quick with it and funny by honing my skills on air.

[@savageclasher1014]

What if they’re silent at your jokes

[@mrspams3489]

​@@savageclasher1014then your not the type of person to be doing these things. Not even one can or should be.

[@VeganGoat96]

It is so weird you say that, because I make self deprecating jokes all the time, but the reason I do it is because I think very little of myself. Of course, I don't tell anyone this, so it may still come off as confident?

[@MikahTheMan]

the secret to fixing world hunger: "Just Eat"

[@sygnetshorts]

The secret to fixing homelessness "Just buy a home"

[@4NDTRY]

the key feature of people below the poverty line is that they are poor

[@marcthebarber239]

The secret to recovering from my hand surgery "Just go to physical therapy"

[@ajaytomar2965]

Need more these type of sarcastic Q&A, do you have more, or any video or something

[@Fede0779]

Lol, oh my , I wish it were that easy for any other major issue on planet earth too

[@alexsantana5743]

He is so adorable in his way of being. His charisma. He is so down to earth. He makes you laugh and feel relaxed around his presence.

[@notgonnalie1846]

So next time my mind goes blank, I just say something that's funny and clever, right? Man, why didnt I think of this

[@mikemiester9726]

Now you’re getting it!

[@Thawhid]

Frfr. "Ohh guys look the wall is white hahahaa"

[@NorthAmericanJoko]

@@Thawhid no

[@markhamilton5652]

Or just be Ryan Reynolds

[@imsorryyoutube6774]

Exactly. People who have to have this explained to them aren't capable of thinking of anything funny on the spot anyway

[@darkdragon2940]

'To confuse your enemy, you must confuse yourself' Sun Tzu, The art of war

[@aberamagold7509]

I always thought Alfred E. Newman said that 😉

[@Kitty_moo_moo]

No you just cover yourself in butter and tip toe through the battle field silly. 😆

[@andypancini2130]

​@@aberamagold7509that was Garfield

[@8all8at8once8]

😂😂

[@chamonix2602]

Now, THAT'S funny !

[@tyrellleach1846]

"If you wanna be funny, just think of funny stuff on the spot" Best advice ever

[@Haffun]

Find humor in everything. Life's miseries are funny. That's the tip.

[@prato-to7mx]

@@Haffun Not everyone life is funny!

[@Haffun]

@@prato-to7mx I agree.❤️ Let's use humor to deal with life whenever it is not offensive to do so.

[@MissiFull]

@@prato-to7mx thats funny

[@mohamed-on6zb]

​@@Haffun haha dead children

[@7dime]

The spits and insults took me out😂😂

[@Baresi_moi]

Fr....or you're just donating laughs

[@anjna2315]

"In Africa, every 60 seconds, a minute passes."

[@Servant_of_The_Merciful]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@reptileman1094]

Bruh I just came from watching that video 🤣

[@yeanogaming1193]

Together we can stop this

[@Narumi_Nokami]

LMAO

[@Sledg0matic]

RIP, minutes.

[@matchington1148]

Sad thing is, I’m super good at this around my close friends/family, but any time I’m in a group I’m not 100% comfortable with, I can never think of something funny to say until after.

[@spaceninjasteve3356]

Fellow introvert

[@yjkader]

Most people are like this, you’re not alone. Don’t focus on the whole group, break down the group into a couple of people at a time in your mind and switch those people in your mind with the other people in the group every so often, this worked for me

[@MIent1313]

I like coming up with retorts but if idk the groups overall sense of humor I'll second guess most times and not say anything

[@Demention94]

It's harder to capture a whole group unless you're loud and obnoxious. You have to connect with each individual and have an open mind

[@Mint_River11]

Everyone think i am funny until they ask me to stand up a comedy show in class.... I blank....

[@JonDarkly]

"If you don't know what to say, just say something"

[@693gamefreak]

That's basically what talkshow hosts do. But it gets repetitive and they look like a hack.

[@frenchfriedbagel7035]

But say it with confidence.

[@ace-dj1dm]

say nothing

[@TechGalaxyy]

"what is that thing"

[@madeinussr7551]

We ll look like Chandler from friends lol always saying stupid stuff. Qiuld you like gum? That would be perfection.perfection??!!

[@b.0.z.nightcore519]

Being witty on the spot makes you pretty charismatic… no wonder I’m not very charismatic 😂

[@synergyrevolution2332]

Its a skill that you can develop, the same way you can learn to drive or ride a bike.

[@b.0.z.nightcore519]

@@synergyrevolution2332 yeah if only it were that easy

[@synergyrevolution2332]

@@b.0.z.nightcore519 It is. You've just had more practice driving and you're probably irrationally more afraid of failure when it comes to social skills, even though mistakes in driving have far worse consequences.

[@stevendalloesingh1214]

Next video: "how to fly" "IT MAY SOUND DIFFICULT, BUT YOU CAN DO IT WITH A LITTLE PRACTICE..."

[@victorlima224]

Here’s what you have to do. The main thing that flying requires is the ability to throw yourself at the ground and miss. You must throw yourself forward with all your weight and the willingness not to mind that it's going to hurt, however it will surely hurt if you fail to miss the ground. The difficulty is in missing the ground, and doing so accidentally, as deliberately intending to miss the ground does not work.

[@victorlima224]

It is also advisable not to listen to what others may say, as they could say something such as: "Good God, man, you can't possibly be flying!". It is vitally important not to believe them or they will suddenly be right, and you will find yourself failing to miss the ground once again.

[@hellohowareyou8396]

@@victorlima224 where have you gained this knowledge

[@preach_6940]

Just think like a pigeon. It's that easy.

[@victorlima224]

@@hellohowareyou8396 From the teachings of the Great Douglas of Cambridge from the house of Adams.

[@ruinedjason3648]

“To be funny you must be funny” Ah yes the floor here is made out of floor

[@sharkawakaorb9220]

This actually helped me so I guess not everything works for everybody

[@kundaliniairport]

@@sharkawakaorb9220 how did it help .. are you now funny when you need to be funny .. ;)))

[@sharkawakaorb9220]

@@kundaliniairport Yeah shawtyyy ;) Little by bit 🤮

[@sebastianb4sh]

And I thought it was made of lava since I was 5

[@redmist6630]

classic comment. still funny af

[@andreachilton6037]

His ability to do this while engaging with others is probably the number one reason everyone loves Ryan Reynolds.

[@AngelPerez-ul3ni]

Not everyone.

[@CorbinB-Rax]

​@@AngelPerez-ul3ni name another beyond looks or his philanthropic mobile network movement

[@BradyIsAfagInHeat]

I thought this was Ben Affleck off HGH and Test

[@mrspams3489]

Yea hes awsome.

[@peternorton5648]

@@AngelPerez-ul3nihis humor isn’t for everyone but he is incredibly popular. And his wit makes him an engaging conversationalist.

[@caitzs]

He's not trying to paint an absurd image. He's using self deprecation.

[@ramonmaier6488]

Yeah man. Thanks.

[@Ludifant]

Which in his case..... He is Ryan Reynolds, self deprecation from him by now IS an absurd image.

[@ronthebeast5]

Forgot who said it but there is a saying that goes like, " If you can't dazzle them with brilliance, baffle them with bullshit!" 😂

[@RustOnWheels]

Elon Musk, probably 😂

[@roza1139]

😂

[@triumphaladarkshadow4388]

To me it sounds like Phoenix Wright.

[@cherrydragon3120]

I do that all the time, and i'm now one of the funnier guys at my work. 😅 Either that or people laugh at me being a complete fuck up~ Either way, they laugh and i got no beef with people~ win-win.

[@AnthonyMLT]

Shit bro that has been my lifetime motto.

[@quagmire8924]

"To make someone laugh you need to be funny " - A funny person

[@thunderzagario7215]

Lmao -Mahatma Gandhi

[@vulkar9754]

@@thunderzagario7215 stop laughing - Nelson Mandela

[@Teropha]

@@vulkar9754 why should he -somebody famous

[@funnyguy6097]

True story - funny guy

[@Ste_Gildea_Young]

Ryan Reynolds is naturally witty. You're either born with that, you learn it as coping mechanism, or it's just not your personality or how you communicate at all. But it takes all kinds of people to make the world interesting

[@geoffvpettit]

His humor is annoying. It’s like Jim Carey light.

[@Liam-ky9qj]

I think he's ace , a good positive energy which we need more of in the state of the world sometimes 👊

[@branjosnow6244]

​@@geoffvpettitSteady on Geoff, no ones that bad.

[@DameDeadpool]

Wit is learned through adlibs and tears. See it ain't that hard. Love self-depreciating humor!

[@PakuZero]

You really think someone who at one point isnt funny can never become funny?

[@ts9881]

Luv da way Ryan's quick wit shows how down to earth he is 💯

[@hahajenkins]

“Think of something funny, then say it” thanks dude. Practice what you preach.

[@excisionsstepserum8336]

It's not that hard to be funny

[@hahajenkins]

@@excisionsstepserum8336 YOU made me hard. Now, that’s funny.

[@itsez1129]

@@excisionsstepserum8336 nothing is hard if you are skilled at it

[@excisionsstepserum8336]

@@itsez1129 how do you become skilled?

[@sygnetshorts]

@@excisionsstepserum8336 I'd say it's pretty hard because you have to think fast and make a good delivery of the joke, otherwise you're probably going to look cringey

[@josemondragon8920]

It's called wit. Some have it and some don't

[@mattmahoney890]

Ha i was gonna say what you said, but not as good as you did

[@heyyou9137]

Its also practice, some people are just talking more than others, so they got through different dialogues to understand what to say

[@joel.ha.]

Nah, wit is a skill, not a talent. People think of way too many skills as talents, and therefore give up under the assumption of "I wasn't born with it"

[@AnxiousJack]

@@joel.ha. it’s easier if you are naturally outgoing and witty, if you’re naturally annoying and not funny, which many people are, it’s hard to improve

[@carpathianhermit7228]

Indeed why force shit it's disingenuous

[@vapor-sings]

"Your mind goes blank? Well, just think!"

[@timothymathewson8094]

Didn't get it until I read the comments.

[@robruitenberg4064]

Wel I can give you one answer Look outwards not inwards cause that’s where the “ blankness “ is my padawan.

[@Alex-HHP]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@williamcolon9280]

Lol

[@klarasmetana3136]

This is such a good example. Laughter instantly puts ppl at ease so they're more open to hear what you have to say.

[@IrideLastMtb]

Man that was so true and helpful. A year ago, whenever i was expected to tell a joke, i would just cry for hours, but now, i say "so i ripped my denzel curry poster off the wall!" and then everyone applauds me! Men *AND* women swoon uncontrollably (once they stop laughing, that is) and now my life is great! Thanks charisma on command!!

[@c.odubhlaoich2948]

Wait why are you guys saying Denzel Curry lol

[@jamesmason8436]

@@postmail2260 *knock knock*

[@qwq-7860]

@@postmail2260 I actually laughed while reading this, TEACH ME YOUR WAYS

[@BossOfAllTrades]

You will never accomplish anything in life with that mindset have fun being depressed

[@IrideLastMtb]

@@BossOfAllTrades i'll never accomplish anything making super funny jokes 😥 ? But the guy in the video said it was the way to go?

[@living_corpse168]

"To become funnier, just be funny" You don't say?

[@ImUni5689]

Yeah, he didn’t say

[@antikovt]

Yeah, he didn't say

[@ginalin7115]

Always loved Ryan's sense of humor.

[@ryanhiggins8869]

Aw, thanks! That means a lot coming from you, stranger!

[@angelaerrington4423]

​@@ryanhiggins8869 😂😂😂😂

[@Nicholas-ts3xc]

"I'm not talking to you. I'm talking to them." Perfect choice for Deadpool if you've ever read the comics.

[@jamiepissed]

Happy Baby!

[@RIP_Greedo]

Describing something is now called “the minds eye method” lmao

[@frickfrack7075]

Not what I'm actually seeing method lmao

[@jasonours6957]

That’s just called lying

[@jammyy22]

"When your mind goes blank, be funnier!"

[@xqlusivo166]

Hahahahahaha

[@embelished_meister500]

Get ya funny up.

[@CellarPhantom]

"When your mind goes blank, conjure up an absurd new story on the spot"

[@highbrow2373]

"its unrewarding to be generic" so smart

[@BreadLord98]

This is exactly how I try to extend my reports in assignments

[@DeezneyMinusNg]

"These jokes makes you instantly likeable" Also them (without telling said jokes): "Try to be funny"

[@joeroganpodfantasy42]

To be funny you need to be yourself

[@interimmayorofcoolsville3661]

Unless of course youre not funny. If that's the case just be a funnier person. If that doesnt work just try practice. Dont practice anything in particular, . . . Just... ya know.. practice? *Rips Denzel Washington poster off trailer wall*

[@extrm161]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/bmncgpuhbNCXbKc 👆 !!!! .

[@P2thaR]

It's not just about your words, you need to have delivery and timing. Not everyone can do it.

[@TachiKawaHafu]

Ok thanks. That’s inspiring. I’ll work on that shit.

[@melonachii]

​@@TachiKawaHafudont know if this is sarcasm

[@spellbinder7036]

Anyone can do it lol it's called practice

[@P2thaR]

@spellbinder7036 Anyone can be funny and have great timing? You must not know very many people.

[@Dawnatello]

Truth. I know a guy who thinks he’s funny but he’s not. He always looks at me to laugh at his jokes but I don’t. Another guy says something funny & I bust up laughing. Unfunny guy asks why I laugh at the other guy & not him? The other guy says it’s all in the timing bro. I’m like that’s it. Timing & a good sense of humor is everything.

[@MCM_Savage]

Indeed. Work on your wit. It works!!! When you can talk/joke your way out of a confrontation... You have mastered it! 😄🤟

[@Lintahlo]

“Don’t recommend this channel.” That one just came to mind after wasting my time on this video.

[@Sammy-S]

You and me both, it seems

[@BossOfAllTrades]

Skill learning is hard if you don't like hard things, give up be a loser like you always wanted to be Hes not going to promise you an easy ticket like all these other fake channels, the biggest takeaway from the video was being able to come up with scenarios and how they add to comedy.

[@comedyforge4703]

@@BossOfAllTrades which has no value and needs to be removed from the public consciousness

[@interimmayorofcoolsville3661]

@@BossOfAllTrades yea for sure! Now whenever I cant think of something funny to say in a timely manner I just scream "I GET PAID IN SPITS AND INSULTS!" and proceed to rip my Denzel Washington poster off my wall..

[@barbaryn7899]

@@interimmayorofcoolsville3661 made me laugh more reading it than hearing it from Ryan Reynolds, must work

[@OliverHartvigMusic]

Ryan: "paid in spit and insults" Also Ryan: *second highest paid actor of all time*

[@hugo-ig7kl]

He's not even close to second highest paid actor

[@hxdi_.._smxle4668]

@@hugo-ig7kl well he was the second highest paid actor of 2020 but yeah not of all time

[@hugo-ig7kl]

@@hxdi_.._smxle4668 wild how big a difference there is between one year and 100 years of cinema

[@kozmo7]

If you want to be paid in spit and insults too, go make an onlyfans account and get to work

[@rafaelll.vieira]

@@kozmo7 and if it's an OnlyFans account, don't forget to put your clothes off. 🤔 😂 😂 😂

[@dsrree]

"Want to people to find you likeable and funny? be likeable and funny." Great content 👍

[@AndySaenz924]

Ryan’s comedic timing is perfect! He’s a smart man because he thinks fast. 😂

[@bruh5608]

"To be funny, be funny" No shit, Sherlock.

[@CaptainJacksIsland]

I can't see the dislikes, but that ain't gonna stope me from clickin' it

[@HearMeLearn]

My man

[@Silver4Hire]

Same

[@frozenstorm158]

Same brother

[@viktorhardindyrvold4234]

@@HearMeLearn someone with the youtube dislike plugin tell us what they're at 👇

[@chieee6609]

Same.. we are together in this cause😌🤝

[@chrispl557]

Just be yourself! If they don't appreciate you, forget’em.

[@jingle1833]

You,i like you

[@AutismLanguageTranslator-dt2fo]

Basically..

[@liamsanchezgoestovegas]

Right? Thank you sir. You just saved me from having to write this shit.

[@nevill1947]

instructions unclear, currently being transported to insane asylum

[@twanto1139]

I forgot a lot of people I met

[@stevenmillikin558]

Wow. That explains everything.

[@shantanunikam6045]

My man just convinced all the disabled people to walk. A true legend.

[@cherrydragon3120]

I wish i was smart and influential enough to tell a legless or paralyzed person to get up their feet and start making life worth living. But alas, all i get is a deathstare and threats of killing me. Talk about kicking a man while he is down... IF they could do the kicking to begin with that is 😅

[@zachsuedmeyer2526]

Luckily, with my crippling anxiety, I have months of material stored up before I have to speak with an actual human being in real time.

[@PiXie232]

For real lol

[@MissRoux]

Zach, your comment is *so* relatable.

[@shahaffiq5860]

You have a problem that needs to be fixed.

[@salus1231]

This dude is *this* close to a Nobel Prize

[@yomigonzalez9870]

My husband does this so often it amazes me. Its like he has all these cue cards in his brain. He pulls out these witty comments at the perfect moments on a whim. I love it!

[@RobRuffMusic]

My sons the same way... Been witty and cracking jokes since he was 3. People like that are just born with it... Makes me jealous.

[@Rutoast1]

I love that your response is celebrating someone you love with this quality, that’s amazing! I think appreciation for the qualities of other people is a quality that makes just about everyone really likable too!

[@yomigonzalez9870]

@@Rutoast1 aw, thank you 😊 💓

[@burtonholmes2096]

Does he work in sales? Very effective at reducing tension and making the customer comfortable to buy & less likely to closely examine every verbal detail.

[@yomigonzalez9870]

@@burtonholmes2096 No. He's a kitchen manager, but I'm sure he would be a great salesman!

[@T.C]

This is the equivalent of "to be rich first you have to be rich"

[@TurboTechBlast]

The key here is instead of answering questions directly and dryly, make your responses into stories. This can draw out conversations and keep the small talk to an absolute minimum. But remember to not make everything about yourself. Context of a situation matters.

[@skepticusmaximus184]

But don't forget when making your responses into stories, to avoid the Abe Simpson effect... "We can't bust heads like we used to. But we have our ways. One trick is to tell stories that don't go anywhere. Like the time I caught the ferry to Shelbyville. I needed a new heel for m'shoe. So I decided to go to Morganville, which is what they called Shelbyville in those days. So I tied an onion to my belt, which was the style at the time. Now, to take the ferry cost a nickel, and in those days, nickels had pictures of bumblebees on 'em. 'Gimme five bees for a quarter,' you'd say. Now where were we...oh yeah. The important thing was that I had an onion on my belt, which was the style at the time. They didn't have white onions, because of the war. The only thing you could get was those big yellow ones..."

[@RAFAKAUST]

RIP ABE

[@TurboTechBlast]

​@Keep300 Yeah, it's about delivery really, you can keep things from getting long-winded (because nobody likes people who talk too much), but making sure to give people enough rope to keep the conversation and interesting. But honestly, if you're good at asking questions and focusing on the person instead of yourself, that would probably help more than telling stories imo. It's a balance ig

[@Ted_II]

This comment was more helpful than the actual video

[@Nefylym]

@@skepticusmaximus184 "Oh... oh no... oh no no no... you're doing it again... he's doing it again, he's telling ... telling one of his stories! Well I won't be a party to it, no sir, good day!"

[@TheMediaMachine]

The reason these actors can respond quick and witty is because these same questions are asked over and over, and over again by people they meet.

[@MoliminousTheater]

wait did this tutorial tell me the secret to being funny is to think of something funny quickly?

[@movedaccountscyayalls7119]

apparently.

[@jamesmason8436]

Yes. Practice practice practice

[@jhinabloomingflower807]

@@jamesmason8436 ah yes practice to know the practice without knowing how to practice

[@upsidedownshagswag51]

@@jhinabloomingflower807 the words in your sentence are less than repeated 4 times which sucks

[@kupkate04]

@@upsidedownshagswag51 that was the joke lmao

[@mmcs4973]

Ryan is pretty humble and self deprecating, but he's a quick thinker and naturally amusing. Also cute, don't forget cute 😊

[@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed]

AND YET HE SEEMS SO CONFIDENT WHEN HE IS BEING SELF DEPRICATING!!❤

[@mmcs4973]

@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed yes, but only self-confident people can truly be self-deprecating, otherwise it's just insecurity 😅😅

[@bobaSmokey]

​@@mmcs4973people sometimes confuse self awarness and noticing your not good at certain things as self deprecating. Its not though big society issue rn is using words that are only half correct. Self deprecating you literally dont like yourself. " i suck at etc etc " " im not smart in etc etc " Or a big one " im fat " if you are fat or not smart in a certain subject, point it out then change to improve in that subject its just being realistic with yourself. This comment confused that topic. Cheers hope you learned something.

[@mmcs4973]

@user-lg6xw6cz8n look up condescending, yeah that's you.

[@Ramtamtama]

@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed he's Canadian

[@deansmith230]

I love this mode of witty humour, it certainly improves on bombastic insults that conjures up ill will ( negative issues) Laughter is the golden elixir of life.

[@jackripper9283]

Great advice. next time I wanna say something funny and my mind goes blank I’ll just say something funny

[@destroyerdog]

I could imagine how long it took for Ryan Reynolds to learn how to be funny. After a long time of practicing it was totally worth it.

[@KimberlyArmstrong-on3ed]

I used to chill with Ryan in my late teens and early twenties. He is the most down to earth person I have ever met. This is rare in people who posess such intelligence and wit.

[@srbaruchi]

One of the keys to success and popularity, I think, is to have the "intelligence" to treat others as equals, each valuable in their own way -- and to "level that playing field" with wit and humor.

[@genevabuerer1702]

​@@srbaruchiabsolutely!!!

[@asiruserif3238]

Ryan is natural at being funny, he can even make laugh without even saying anything

[@fridsrikenileri1268]

I wonder if Ryan cries himself to sleep after binging on how to be serious videos, or giggling like Heaths Joker & going "why so serious"

[@ruthie_rosario]

It REALLY helps that they are almost always given the questions that will be asked during recording before hand. That’s why so many of them seem so well-spoken on the spot. I’m not saying he may not be naturally that way, but I’m saying that’s how interviews usually seem to transition to the next topic so easily.

[@ramonmaier6488]

... NO! MY LIFE IS... Thanks.

[@Superskeet420]

Lol yea there is a script but I’m glad you noticed your smarter than 98% of the humans population xD

[@IWantOffThisRideNow]

​@@Superskeet420*you're smarter than 😜

[@AlbertMonkey]

It’s like if they tell a story about a certain situation of them as a kid at the beach then a photo of them at the beach as a kid appears on the screen

[@thomaslupo-y8u]

I remember back in the day I was in a bad ass band

[@Beckie167]

Love Ryan Reynolds! Such a charming character of personality. I can only imagine how fun he was as a kid.

[@sharoncraig6911]

I think some people are naturally born with quick wit. I have a three year old granddaughter that can come up with witty comebacks at her age. I told her to stop running around like a chicken with its head cut off (she’s wild). Her response” cock a doodle do”.

[@ukenjam2960]

😂😂😂

[@kakugoel4832]

😂😂😂😂

[@a_very_burnt_steak]

Daym girl

[@sittingtreeva927]

That is some SASS

[@free_spirit2100]

Seriously, the kid is a Gem, take care of her.

[@Krypto1201]

I can confirm. I was once the class clown. Now I'm a clown

[@kiyoshi7875]

not suprised

[@yumnugget]

Whenever there is an awkward silence, I like to say "Pretty loud in here huh?"

[@erikirl01]

That’s called sarcasm and being annoying not witty

[@mikehawklong1599]

@@erikirl01 annoying like you?

[@yumnugget]

@@erikirl01 Well you're in a good mood huh?

[@lullsbaby9321]

My go-to (after a bad joke) is to wait a beat, then say "Now let me explain why that's funny." That gets me bigger laughs than the joke SHOULD have gotten (in my head). Use sparingly.

[@majinjason]

I understand and do that sometimes too. But I have to say that when you're on the otherside it's annoying as hell. You give an awkward laugh and slip back into silence. But, like I said, I do it to especially if I'm nervous. I also mentally slap my self afterwards.

[@1IBInternationalBusiness]

Small talk can be awkward but makes the difference. Thanks for the great tips.

[@quibble9003]

gotta admit calling it "the mind's eye method" rather than "being descriptive" or some other "generic" thing made this joke of a video way funnier.

[@Dragoneer]

He’s basically saying, “when you can’t think of something funny to say, just say something funny…” Lmao what…

[@antikovt]

That's literally not what he's saying though

[@Dragoneer]

@@antikovt Yes he is, indirectly. I never said literally…

[@antikovt]

@@Dragoneer the advice the video gave is quite straightforward though. There's no hidden meaning and I don't get why anyone would interpret it like that

[@Dragoneer]

@@antikovt The advice you’re talking about was exactly what I said in other words lol Idk why you’re disputing that

[@antikovt]

@@Dragoneer it's not in any way and I'm really sorry if you don't get it

[@gimmiedashasha]

Whenever I want to make someone laugh I just open up my wallet.

[@spicehub.402]

My mind doesn't go blank it just doesn't want to offend someone and make a enemy out of every one.

[@spicehub.402]

@scrubhd6530 I do crack jokes but my humour is always a little too dark for them to swallow but I still do it sometimes it works with mu buddies but when I do it in some family function things take quite a turn for me😂

[@hollywoodbb]

The key to this is to be more social. More social experiences give you the knowledge pool/database to pull from.

[@nightfighter7452]

Just make sure you don't get outcasted for your lack of social skills before you develop enough💀

[@Kynk]

I'll save you the time watching this: "Git Gud bro"

[@Leanzazzy]

Wow, this video helped me so much I actually managed to think quickly on the spot! "Don't recommend videos from this channel"

[@harleykennedy1264]

I tried to think quick on the spot and said something to this milf that turned out to not be funny at all :(

[@hafsa.90]

🤣🤣🤣

[@TachiKawaHafu]

There is an aptitude in being clever in the timing and sensitivity. Right brained or left brained would certainly factor into an ability to be on point in burning someone while still making them laugh. I was a Creative Producer in Media and Events and maybe this helped in my delivery and content. A Bio-Chemist or a Certified Public Accountant might lack the timing and ability to pull such things off. Or it may be so awkward that it’s hilarious.

[@faithgrapes7550]

What’s funny is every time I get a good joke across this is what I do. Yet I had no idea!

[@andyr6648]

Hes a celebrity in an interview, he could say anything he wants and get a laugh

[@MlKOL]

“Better to be a smart fella than a fart smella” is my go to funny joke

[@maximumeffort78]

Sage advice!

[@notverypog]

Thank you Mikol

[@itskieannab]

I always do that, but I don’t do it because I want to be likable, I do it because it’s a habit and it keeps things from getting awkward or boring and it’s simply just fun.

[@PancakeSerenade]

Yeah, same. I think if you do it for the sake of being perceived as funny, you'll never be in the right mind space to even grasp what you're attempting to crudely emulate.

[@itskieannab]

@@PancakeSerenadeagreed!

[@tahsina.c]

I do this because being straightforward is just daunting

[@elisebernadettepalmario5324]

Same until someone told me I was trying to be main character... I got super conscious after that.

[@itskieannab]

@@elisebernadettepalmario5324 im so sorry.. don’t allow people to put your down! either way YOU ARE the main character because this is YOUR life. 💕

[@eliannequintero4720]

This comes naturally to him, he doesn’t even think about it.

[@efipx]

this kind of overthinking is exactly how u get into this situation in the first place 😭

[@silkroad1201]

How to be funny: Be Ryan Reynolds Next up: "How to be attractive" (also featuring Ryan Reynolds)

[@Dratini266]

It also helps to have a huge sign that says “APPLAUSE” with a studio audience to go with it

[@mistypedhi]

I'm convinced he improv'ed most of his Deadpool lines because he doesn't seem any different than himself in those movies.

[@ST0IC]

I cannot think of something to say in general "Funny" is a whole new level that is unreachable

[@raphaelultimo1425]

Wanna hear a bad joke? Dad: Hey son, I'll teach you about the delicacy called "Hotdog" Son: Yaaay Daddy! I want me some Hotdog right now! Dad: Now listen carefully son, you see that Rotwheiler over there? Son: Yeah, that's our neighbors dog! Dad: Well here's what I'm gonna do...Imma go over there with my machete, kill the Dog, and roast it. Son: so that's how Hotdogs are made?! Dad: Yes, and then once it's done cooking, grab the buffalo wing sauce in the fridge, son. And then we have ourselves some nice hotdog! Son: But won't the neighbor be mad daddy? Dad: Nah. Nothing a little lie can't fix. Son: Ok Daddy! I believe in you!

[@magicknight13]

This comment made me laugh tho so you are funny!

[@TaxingIsThieving]

Literally though.

[@TALKINGtac0]

I find that ridiculous unexpected honesty can also get you a few chuckles. For example, I was at work the other day in a public setting, and my back was hurting. I tried to sneak to the back for a quick break but my boss was there, and I simply said "Listen i'd love to make up an important excuse for why i'm back here but you and I both know i'm trying to sneak a break." He laughed and gave me 5 minutes to sit down.

[@dontbemean]

I've been called witty, but it definitely has a down side. Making a bunch of people crack up is great, but in the past I was known to be verbally abusive and a bully. I've been in and out of therapy for over 20 years, and witty remarks are a coping mechanism for me. Now, I have a career in entertainment where I can use language creatively, but I'm still learning to bite my tongue. All I'm saying is... if you learn to be witty, things might fly out of your mouth before you realize it. And while busting up a room feels nice, don't let it be at the expense of someone else even if they're not in the room. I still carry so much shame from hurtful things I've said.

[@teresakerr1010]

Witty is kind of fun and playful to where the conversation bounces back and forth. If you were so mean & aggressive It could have been due to a lot of reasons. Props to you for getting help. Don’t be so hard on yourself!

[@dontbemean]

@@teresakerr1010 Thanks 🙂

[@TachiKawaHafu]

I’ve lost my filter before. Someone is being a Douche and you burn them. To make a joke on an idiot has sparked a few fights. Good thing I can fight like a brave. In a corporate environment being clever works and can ease tension. Smart-Ass or clever? There’s a fine line. If my clever smart ass comment is abusive it was meant to be. Typically In retaliation for some racist shit.

[@fridsrikenileri1268]

Yeah, their longer video about Ryan (removing ones inner filter etc), while thinking less can makes jokes better, it can also make em hell a lot worse.

[@theoriginalkyttyn7724]

Ryan is a genius of quick wit.

[@RepostCollection]

They laugh because he's a celebrity And because there is a big sign that reads "applause" when you should laugh and/or clap

[@antikovt]

> They're funny because they're a comedian > They're smart because they're a professor

[@phatchimichanga3288]

Me: finally thought of something funny to say 1 week later

[@izgoy26]

You see? It works! Keep on trying!

[@FlygonFactory]

This sure did tell me the one joke that makes me instantly likable

[@skepticusmaximus184]

The one one click bait title, that makes your video instantly clickable.

[@medallo143]

It's definitely just his delivery.

[@shudeepta]

Here is the actual secret: Have a charisma potion on you at all times