when you're chugging the delulu lemonade - REACTION

[@jaykyojo]

This first woman wrote a whole fanfiction and you know what I respect her for that

[@yeonjunjeon]

Fr 😂😂😂 She had me so dying

[@AliceNsWonderland]

I couldn't w her... annoying af, imo

[@AliceNsWonderland]

I was thankful for the forward dbl tap on THAT!!!

[@Theonleyluna]

Her love story is also quite interesting 😂

[@Yosefhan4334]

She got me that one..fr

[@Alexisk273]

If you can't be delulu on your own vision board, WHERE CAN YOU

[@analisesalas538]

Hell yeah! My vision board is full of shit that is maybe 99.9% delusional but hey im still getting my Masters 😂

[@YochevedDesigns]

PINTEREST!

[@brendadickson9583]

​@@analisesalas538Awesome I wish some of your delulu come to pass 😂❤❤

[@whoizsupershane21178]

PRECISELY!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@jillm.1108]

The best part of the first girl’s dream sequence was “I don’t want to put words in my man’s mouth.”

[@BrooklynSaunders718]

The first girl is living her best life in her head and I'm soooooo here for it. I needs an invite to this soiree cause it's not an engagement party. 😂😂😂

[@farrinlandmesser]

FACTS ... she had me all in for her imaginary dream proposal😂😂😂

[@BrooklynSaunders718]

@@farrinlandmesser right I want my invite 😅

[@farrinlandmesser]

@@BrooklynSaunders718 yes ma'am got my imaginary gift and everything 🤣🤣🤣

[@kreativekeytv.9661]

I need to be there 😂😂😂

[@TinyTC]

@@BrooklynSaunders718 Keeping my white outfit dry cleaned and ready as we speak, just in case.

[@eliza6971]

That comedian is *diabolical* 😂 His crowd work is beyond next level

[@curtisdrago]

I need to know this guy’s name.

[@TwiggyHetfield27]

"I thought you'd want to engage with me quicker" Girl... 5 years & 2 kids & you REALLY THINK a wedding dress is gonna do something.

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

Guess that didn't go as planned!! Never try to push a man into doing something he doesn't want to do!!

[@rolandhansen812]

@@mariahillenbrand8396 That was going to be my comment as well. Personally, I loved his response. Even if I were about to propose, if my GF did that the proposal would be in indefinite hold.

[@dandotvid]

She wants a wedding not a marriage is my guess. Because, really, they have kids and are living together. For all intents and purposes, they are basically married just without a document saying they are.

[@achocot]

@@mariahillenbrand8396 no, she now knows not to wait and find another another partner regardless of the fact that he is the father of her children.

[@achocot]

@@dandotvid that is not just a document. especially in some countries where being married comes with certain benefits and a certain feel of security for some.

[@NexForemose]

For the wedding dress one, where the dude is laughing at her...Where's Dustin the Flag guy?

[@FukaiKokoro]

True lol. There's a few times he goes overboard but overall like him.

[@lotstodo]

Right?

[@kristyAMF]

or ceilia regina to explain what a shut up ring is

[@StubbyandShifu]

He's so much nicer than most.

[@pineapplegirl8078]

The red flag is the girl who was willing to have two children before getting married and then thought a free wedding dress would manipulate him into proposing.

[@ciecienikolmelendez4886]

First lady was so good at telling her dream proposal that I thought it was real. I was looking at her finger, really nervous and everything like "please tell me you didnt say no, wheres your rinnng? 😩"

[@alisonpendlebury-brown7885]

Me too! 😂

[@YochevedDesigns]

The whole time, I couldn't take my eyes off of her hands!

[@MimosaRose]

If you have been with someone for five years, gave birth to their kids and they STILL have not proposed, IT IS NOT HAPPENING 😢

[@DanciingAvocado]

Exactly what I was thinking. He didn't even try to reassure her that he wanted to propose. Poor girl.

[@nekomon2546]

Exactly. I wouldn't even have kids with the guy until I'm married. Idk why these specific women that WANT to get married, decide to have kids before that and expect the guy to still want to propose. If he didn't after a few years BEFORE having kids, good luck lmao. Or just you know, use maximum protection or just don't open your legs to just anybody. Idk why it's so difficult. If they want something good, they need to be good.

[@daniellepower7758]

I got married at 7 years in and two kids. We have three kids and are together 13 years now.

[@ellenkarlsson9490]

My sister got married the other year. They had been together for 15+ years and had two sons. And some friends of the family got married when their kids were 21 and 16. It's not over till it's over.

[@minagica]

​@@nekomon2546 you talk as though it was ok to take advantage of people and treat relationships and reproduction as some sort of zero sum game. Your attitude enables scammers

[@sylviadonoghue2195]

My now husband and I were going out to dinner on a bitterly cold January night. Suddenly his car started to sputter and he managed to creep into the Oshawa Centre parking lot before it died. It was colder than the surface of Mars as we stood waiting for a tow truck. As we slowly froze to death, he pulled out a little box and proposed to me. That was 36 years ago and I still think that the Oshawa Centre parking lot is the most beautiful place on earth.

[@mage1439]

I'm glad you got out of there before you both turned into engaged popsicles.

[@bekkakay8573]

Such a beautiful expression! Thank you for sharing this.😊❤

[@antcathycraig4303]

❤❤❤

[@sylviadonoghue2195]

@@mage1439 Frozen smiles on our faces!

[@karencotlar2023]

That’s so sweet!!! ❤

[@kitomiaizawa950]

My fiancé and I talked extensively about getting married and engaged before he proposed. I sent him pics of the rings I wanted and he picked from them. He told me we would wait to get actually married until after we save up enough for a wedding, I agreed. He proposed at a time when I didn't know he was going to do so. Talk to each other and have a plan about the future together. Be on the plsame page. Doing this delulu stuff only scares them away

[@erikarussell1142]

@@kitomiaizawa950 truth. I did the exact same thing with my future husband. He not only picked the ring he liked best, he had it custom made with atomic diamonds for me in the band. It glows bright green under black light or pure uv light. I LOVE it. And yes they’re real diamonds. Mined from a meteor impact. Ethically sourced. Oh he knew exactly how to make it special just for me. I’m so spoiled.

[@ashleenicole71]

I agree

[@bekkakay8573]

🤩Allstar suggestion!

[@immabooberry2740]

I sent my husband a link to the ring I wanted lmao 🤣 he surprised me when he proposed but we went to marriage counseling and everything beforehand so we knew we were there for the right reason lol

[@mariahillenbrand8396]

She thought seeing her in a wedding dress would make him propose!! Guess she thought wrong!! 😮

[@joantroutman6409]

Our engagement was not planned and we were both drunk. We were at the dance hall where we met. For some reason we were talking about coffee which at that time I didn’t like. So I looked at my then boyfriend and said, "Don't expect me to ever make your coffee." He said, "That sounds like a proposal to me." He then wrote his proposal on a napkin. I said yes and we'll be celebrating 44 years together in 2 days.

[@lotstodo]

I love this!

[@BrianAndresScott]

Happy anniversary 🎉 ❤

[@maggieb4736]

Love it.❤

[@Samasonss]

Ahhh this gives me faith in true love..happy anniversary to you both!you should write him a card on a napkin and make him a coffee..he’d be so stoked that you remembered his love language..

[@yahainHotPink]

@@joantroutman6409 😂😂😂😭😭😭☕☕☕👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💍💍💍 Beautiful congratulations to you 2. But do you like coffee now??

[@dianabrennan8856]

That first girl proposal story be costing more than what I want to spend on my whole ass wedding 😂😂 I love it tho

[@misernia1]

The first girl must be PROTECTED AT ALL COSTS!!!!!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I LOVE HER!!!

[@sashalanier594]

We need to find her the real one for sure

[@milindamcdougall1862]

I could totally see this happening for her.

[@dandotvid]

@@milindamcdougall1862 lol you're just as crazy as her then

[@lotstodo]

@@misernia1 I hope all her dreams come true.

[@jessicat.x]

same thoughts bro ❤😂

[@torij518]

That first woman has AO3 and WattPad accounts, and you can't convince me otherwise.

[@Anna101shark]

Ah a woman of exquisite taste

[@yahainHotPink]

Was waiting for Erica to pull out the ring, because I too forgot it was imagination. 😂😂💍💍💍 May she get all she wants and deserves

[@LawChatsWithMadeline]

She's been dropping hints for years!

[@phaedrapage4217]

I want to hear the next chapter in her imagination, tell me about the wedding! With a proposal like that, I'm thinking very lavish destination wedding, possibly tropical. She's a very good storyteller, you can see every single detail and that's impressive when they get down to the minutia. So, yeah, I need her to tell me about the wedding. 😂

[@TinyTC]

But does she really call her partner "dada?" Because that gives me the ick (to be clear, this is all imho, and what people want to do in a private roleplay situation is all good; I just don't love things done in social situations that infantilize women more than we already are in the world).

[@sharonbowers9929]

❤❤❤❤😂

[@SpotSpenc]

​@TinyTC When I first heard it, I thought she was just shortening his name--like Kee Kee for Keisha, Dee Dee for Deborah or Ti Ti for Tiana. Now I don't know anymore lol

[@oceanswift]

12:50 my grandma writes our heights on the wall even as adults, she writes boyfriends in pencil because she "wants to be able to remove them quickly" 😂

[@sweetness3441]

We still have the "how tall wall" at my mother's cousins home and that thing is FILLED with lines, names and years😅 its really special to all of us and I noticed there were only a few of mine at a certain age despite always always wanting to be measured😂 they also did the pencil thing to save some space but it's more than fine😢we've got lots people who've long since passed away and I remember once my xboyfriend asked me about it once and I said "I don't care how much you love me, not even spouses go on the wall"🎉😂

[@oceanswift]

​@sweetness3441 That's the way! I love this. My grandma also collects hair from everyone, my partners beard is safe but we have 2 new babies in the family and she's so ready to get that snip 😂

[@sweetness3441]

@@oceanswift my mother has hairclippings too, how sweet ❤

[@IamWanderwoman]

Hahaha

[@lizbecker1677]

That first op with the dream proposal--OMG! So cute. She's actually talking about it in the past tense like it really happened. That just made my day.

[@Lady.Fern.]

I’m not going to put words in his mouth was the cherry on top for me 😅

[@betsiisabella6269]

It did happen...in her head!

[@TheRealSmokahontas]

Watch her manifest the wedding of her dreams❤❤❤

[@RayvenLunaNite]

"I'll buy the dress before I have the ring. He'll want to marry me then" If he didn't do it before, the dress won't make it happen now

[@sarahcallaway9969]

I happened to be watching, Say Yes to the Dress Dubai on discovery+ yesterday and there was a girl that had boyfriend and she CLAIMED they were engaged, but she did not have a ring, but she was buying an extraordinarily expensive dress. Very strange and backward, it seemed to me. 👀🤔 Delulu lemonade anyone?

[@roselover411]

The girl with the wedding dress, girl i could never have POSTED THAT

[@kfer93]

Right? You don't have to post everything

[@roselover411]

@@kfer93 the embarrassment I'd be feeling, not to mention the potential reactions of her followers. I could never 😭 no amount of validation from the internet would be worth everyone seeing the fallout

[@user-or2ql7op1l]

Right! I’m suffering from secondhand embarrassment. Bless her heart.

[@Gna_d54]

Yeah. A lot of people are giving him grief for that but you don't get to that point in the relationship without having conversations. It's clear marriage wasn't on the table for him and she just made herself look sad and crazy but doing that stunt and posting it.

[@roselover411]

@@Gna_d54 I'm not one to blame either of them but if he wasn't already thinking about marriage, seeing you in the dress ready to go wasn't going to end well. If I'm being honest, if marriage is what I wanted I'd have a frank conversation with him and if it didn't seem like he was on the same page, it would be time to consider breaking up and managing dual custody of the kids. I'm not saying she should do that, but if a marriage is what she wants, if that's a deal breaker for her, here it is. That being said, everyone has a different range of what they're comfortable with. Engagement rings and weddings are expensive and I'd hate to be trying to fund that while also raising 3 young children. The money just isn't there. Kids are expensive. The way he reacted doesn't feel like that's his reason, but it COULD be. Doing a stunt with a dress would never have earned her the reaction she wanted. Did she expect him to fall to one knee immediately on seeing her in the wedding dress? It kinda sounded like it. And we don't know this guy, our only evidence is this clip, but from that it seems like it was incredibly unlikely that's what he'd do.

[@QuartzieK]

4:08 this is absolutely hilarious, she’s a great storyteller 🤣

[@michellebrickner9307]

When my husband proposed, he had just poured his heart out to me some things that he was worried about. Out of nowhere, he asks, "Will you marry me?" I asked if he was serious. He said he was. I squealed, "Yes!" and gave him a big hug. Except then I thought about how he sounded when he asked, and it honestly sounded like he was asking for future reference. So now I'm worried that he's gonna feel obligated to marry me because of how I reacted. So I asked, "So, are we fiancees now, or . . .?" I didn't get a chance to finish my sentence because he chuckled, got off the couch, got down on one knee, and asked, "Will you marry me?" again, this time with so much love in his eyes. I cried and said, "Yes," again. Y'ALL! We've been married nine years. Earlier this year, he finally confessed that when he asked me the first time, he in fact had been asking for future reference! But when he saw my reaction, he thought, "Why wait? Let's do this!"

[@lotstodo]

That is beautiful.

[@ashleylynn198]

That’s literally adorable 🥹

[@angierodriguez4729]

This is too cute 🥹♥️

[@JoannaEldridge-hr7ss]

🏁🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇨🇨🇲🇷🇲🇴🇸🇦🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 my emojis had no standard green flag so I just picked a few😅❤

[@LongHairCarolyn]

Awww how sweet ❤

[@AmethystEyes]

I wish more women would believe that they deserve a ring and marriage BEFORE having kids and giving their man wifey treatment. Ladies you are worth it! 😢

[@lotstodo]

I agree. I only lived with my husband after he got me a ring and a house.

[@Anatidaephobikerin]

Well, we got married when our daughter was 11 months old and my husband and I are perfectly happy. It can work well and it's pretty common, where I live.

[@dorothytenute2710]

Yes 100%. That one actually made me feel sad.

[@BrianAndresScott]

💯 agree

[@SaintShion]

​​​@@lotstodo I've been with my hubsnad since HS and still didnt live with him until after uni when my job moved me abroad and we got engaged cause he didnt want me to leave w out him xD. My Obāsan (gma) taught me to cook, clean, pretty much everything, but she said the most important part is to not let a man get comfortable. "They think once you're cooking, cleaning, and paying for half the bills, Oh this is nice! And then they think "why would we need a stupid paper to dictate our marriage!?" And get lazy. You make them wait as long as you need to Shi-chan." 😆 (dear god Im esl and dyslexia)

[@yeonjunjeon]

The laugh with the second one was a laugh meaning "I'm not marrying you"

[@pablodelsegundo9502]

More of a "I'm not getting married" but yeah, same outcome.

[@FukaiKokoro]

Yeah I'd be very very turned off by that. And be a lil upset..

[@danirocket21611]

Or," girl we already got kids, why would I pay for a ring...... you're stuck with me and I'm stuck with you." Was a really sad video. Ouch

[@laughingcorrpseholly4136]

Yeah it was actually really sad to watch her just deflate more and more as he kept laughing at her and calling the dress ugly you can see her just deflate and the happiness leave her 😢 she deserves better

[@XCaptianXChaosX]

​@@laughingcorrpseholly4136 Totally agree. This is a bit heartbreaking.

[@raychwagner3657]

I don’t think y’all understand the amount of heartbroken, dead inside, depressed, and absolutely DONE with that man I would be if he reacted like THAT to me surprising him in a wedding dress… my heart is actually breaking even imagining that scenario while typing… I want to cry, how did she not???

[@SALshaNoma]

We all know once he gets tired of her he will marry the next one in no time.

[@haggisa]

Are you kidding? What she did was incredibly manipulative and not ok. I would feel betrayed, if a woman I was in a relationship pulled a stunt like that on me.

[@leighalunatic]

​@@haggisaI mean he already playing house felt comfortable enough go have kids with her but still hasn't proposed? He needs to leave her alone if he doesn't want to fully commit to being a family.

[@LuluLaura3]

First one… I was there with my drink in hand celebrating my girl!! Love it

[@dearmeecha1310]

Haha! Yes!

[@nyaxjosh]

You was not alone .😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sarahhunter1114]

Haha, I felt like I needed to plan my outfit…🤣

[@adders135035]

@@sarahhunter1114same over here like “Oh what do I have in white… I wanna go that sounds lovely” ❤😂

[@suzykeene9298]

Number 1 needs to be a novelist

[@BlkBrd579]

I was thinking the same 😂

[@UselessShyte]

Number 1 needs to wipe all the shit off her face. WHY are women SO. FAKE?

[@palithaolden8214]

Caitlin should have known after the 1st child, if he didn't want to marry you then, it's probably not happening. He is just going to keep going with the flow because you didn't uphold your own wants.

[@MissMellyDi]

The relationship of convenience for sure

[@greenstarlight0]

and as soon as shes ready to move on he will marry another within the year.

[@debeightonethree6346]

Try not to project your trauma onto other people. It’s not healthy and you sound bitter. Plenty of people got married after having children.

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

You should know marriage is pointless and unnecessary

[@palithaolden8214]

@@debeightonethree6346 I'm not bitter or projecting at all. And I truly don't get how you got that from my statement. 1st of all, I didn't speak in absolutes, I said "probably". 2nd of all I said he will keep going with the flow because based on what she did in her video and her literally stating maybe this is what will make you want to marry me, she clearly has wanted to get married and despite that, they are not, so the going with the flow thing is happening. I would have said that if they had children or not because they are obviously not on the same page based on his reaction. And I am fully aware that people get married after they have children, but again I was just mentioning that because they do and that helps denote the passage of time as well. If you were not trying to diagnose someone and/or looking for an opportunity to just throw around psychological terms, you could see that my comment was a literal perfectly reasonable observation that can be the outcome, that was, again, not saying that that will absolutely happen.

[@rebeccamc2686]

Can we all please appreciate that the first woman truly knows exactly what she wants. YOU GO GIRL ❤🎉

[@CrankyNovelist7335]

The First Lady needs to be an author. I was invested!

[@sammibooger4784]

The second one almost made me cry :( she looks so defeated

[@vicknunes88]

I'm actually more worried about the cat who's obviously hungry but no one's feeding him 😢

[@sammibooger4784]

@@vicknunes88 priorities 😅

[@shewolfinubaka]

You know she turned off those comments because she couldn’t handle the truth

[@HorseLady1109]

I felt for her as well. If this is what it takes to wake you up, so be it.

[@CrickBritt]

What did she expect? As a woman, that's not how you communicate to your partner

[@caljones]

“Are we still together?” *hangs up* 🤣

[@Sleipnirseight]

That stand up set felt like a sleep over filled with prank calls 😂 I appreciate how much they played along with the comedian

[@mrscatlady912]

Wedding dress girl already has a kid with him(kid called him dada). If he wanted to, he would. It's been years you've known him. He would know or not.

[@bottomofastairwell]

Yep. If he wanted to, he would. Clearly he DOESN'T want to

[@loosilu]

Two kids. He ain't never gonna marry her. His face said it all.

[@dandotvid]

And some couples can go their entire lives without getting married and be happy. Commitment is more important than a legal document.

[@sarahhunter1114]

And to be fair, it didn’t fit her right.

[@jesclifford88]

@@sarahhunter1114it was massive on her and made her look huge

[@gracestayner2033]

This is the most chaotic comedian I’ve ever seen. And I’m not mad about it😂

[@erikarussell1142]

@@gracestayner2033 that show would be wild. I took a screenshot of his handle to watch more. Because ooooh my loooooordt… unhinged.

[@queenreg7]

That was absolutely crazy. And messy.

[@argrette]

I wanna know who that was so I can follow him 😂

[@joonicraftsman2136]

Alferd Robles appearantly

[@LaGüera90]

Same!! But how is that girl mad because he loves his ex when she has a whole bf and out with her sneaky link. Neither of them are loyal!!

[@LiathsVibes]

1:55 "Men open the door. . . and then I see my mama" *proceeds to dive bomb to the side like a reverse theatre hook* 😆😂🤣

[@CapricornGirl9]

Second one, they break up and he marries the next girl within 9 months.

[@alieknitzer]

Tale as old as time...

[@ashleygrace7248]

As a former housekeeper and housekeeping supervisor, I can confirm that not everything in your hotel rooms get cleaned properly. Each housekeeper is different and they do miss things! Wash your glasses before you use them. If you’re worried that your sheet haven’t been changed, spill something on them because they have to come change them for you! I have so many stories….

[@XCaptianXChaosX]

Could I please ask you a question? I've heard that a lot of hotels will run ozone generators thru the rooms sometimes. It that a real thing that happens? I can't figure out how that would work Because if all the rooms are connected, how could the gas not seep into the surrounding rooms?

[@BrianAndresScott]

Yeah I believe it

[@stoppit9]

It dissipates quickly through an open window or door, so it shouldn't be a problem. I highly doubt it's common, though. ​@@XCaptianXChaosX

[@XCaptianXChaosX]

@stoppit9 true. Thanks. I was just curious.

[@TinyTC]

That seems like a pretty sweeping generalization. I'm sure that was true in YOUR hotel but can you truly say it's true everywhere? Also: sincere question: There are SO MANY UV/black light videos out there that show bodily fluids in hotel rooms. Have you seen these and, if you, do you have another explanation why this stuff lights up ? (the only other plausible explanation I know of it the bioluminescents that are sometimes in laundry detergents, but that would only show up if the the detergent dried onto the fabric rather than being rinsed out after washing.) What are your thoughts? kzbin.info/www/bejne/qF7coYadgN6DZtE

[@Ater_Draco]

6:55 the toddler is giving "You're fecking delulu, mum," vibes 😂

[@MizMorgue1]

Reminds me of when Rachel, Monica and Phoebe sat around in rented wedding dresses😂😂😂

[@roll3886]

It was the cat for me. Meowing "stop" "stop" in its precious little meows, trying to tell her to just stop and give it up already lol

[@argrette]

@@roll3886I kept getting distracted by the cat because all I wanted to do was pick it up and pet them 😅

[@yana-l2e]

​​@@argrette really? I wanted to pick that woman up and pet her. She seemed so humiliated and defeated in the end.

[@B.Harper7]

@yana-l2e Fr fr 💔 I'm hoping that this is either fake, or that this is a good enough wake up for her to realize that she does not want her kids seeing this as okay. 😭 I just want to hug her, tell her there is somebody responsible out there for her, get her an IUD (holy crap do NOT give this man any more kids) and make cookies with her and the kiddos!💖💖💖

[@TheShayde2000]

In the guys defense, the wedding dress looked horrible on her. NGL I laughed too. She was a beautiful girl, but that dress was not flattering at all.

[@ragnakleinen2109]

It doesn't fit her, thats the problem. It looks free 😂

[@strawberrykatnz]

I agree, it wasn't quite the right cut for her body type. She's gorgeous but she deserves something more flattering. I think the guy could have been a bit nicer and told her she's beautiful but another dress would look prettier on her. He walked into a setup where he was...never going to win. But it's pretty clear he does not want to be engaged atm.

[@El-aitch]

The style and size did. Nothing for her. He was rude though.

[@strawberrykatnz]

@@El-aitch Agreed.

[@caffeinatedkatie4696]

I was hoping for a "oh...oh...I just got the ring last weekend" but I guess I'm a dreamer

[@Nicolee_t18]

I don’t understand begging for a man to want to marry you. After having a man tell me that he never could see himself getting married after being together for years, go find you a man who actually wants a future and a family with you. Speaking all from experience if he wanted to he truly would. I’m so glad I have an amazing man now who cannot wait for our future.

[@LinkOfLegendOfZelda]

This right here, totally agree. There is nothing wrong about she wanting to marry and he doesn't. What is wrong is that they are in a relationship for years and they are not in the same boat about this important topic. Some people really need to learn that talking about your future together in the early stages of your relationship is not always for fun but you also have to be at least a little serious about it sometimes. Otherwise this happens. 🤷 So I guess that 1) they didn't have a serious talk about this beforehand or 2) they did but she didn't believe him not wanting to marry and made herself believe that one day he would change his mind anyway and she would get her wedding ... If he was honest about it, he isn't to blame for this situation. She is desperate ...

[@irina-ty1336]

Not getting married doesn't meant not wanting a future together

[@Nicolee_t18]

@@irina-ty1336 true but if your partner is clearly expressing a desire for it and you have zero regard for it, I do feel like that can interfere with your future together. Not everyone has the desire to get married and that’s their right but they can’t be upset when the other party leaves for someone who wants the same desires as them. Clearly there was a lack of communication when getting together about what their desires were Or if there was there was zero respect for what each of them wanted.

[@Nicolee_t18]

@@LinkOfLegendOfZelda I agree with you whole heartily. Having those tough conversations in the beginning would save both parties a bunch of heartache and time. It’s hard to watch so many women beg for marriage. I’m not saying marriage is the end all be all and that it should be rushed. But I can’t imagine waiting years even decades for a man to decide if this is working or not. I feel like you know if they are the one sooner than most people think, it’s just hard coming to terms with the truth. (whatever way that leans) I’m so glad that my SO was clear of what he wanted from the start. Personally I never wanted to have kids and my SO that I have now told me right off the bat that he wanted to get married and have a family with kid(s). He gave me an out if I wanted it. Looking back I’m so extremely grateful I didn’t take it. He’s the best thing that’s ever come into my life and I feel like the least I can do for him is give him that family that he has always wanted.

[@kaoutermouslimhaliba7145]

They literally have a family... kids, pets and all the jazz.. She just wants a wedding

[@ANNA-g7z]

That 2nd girl, needs to make a decision, either stay unmarried or leave, but nagging him will not help the situation, especially posting it online.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

Yeah, even if she somehow twists his arm to get married, he's so clearly not invested that they may end up divorced soon after.

[@1983simi]

absolutely this. ideally you should make your expectations towards a relationship clear BEFORE starting to have children and living together, but in this case really, if marriage is really really important to her - and to him it doesn't seems to be... or at least not as far as she is concerned... - then she needs to leave or accept things as they are. you do not want a marriage that one person had to get strongarmed into. Meanwhile one of my friends was waiting for ages for her longterm bf to propose - they had been together for 8 years(!!!) when she suddenly learned she was pregnant. Only then he proposed and you know what she said? She said 'no'. She said, I love you, I know you'll be a great dad and we'll continue to live together, but if you didn't feel like marrying me before me being pregnant shouldn't be the deciding factor for you suddenly wanting to marry. She literally stuck to that until after the 2nd child lol and only then - around 5 years later - did she agree to marry him

[@oekmama]

She made a mistake. She gave that man two kids without a ring. Girl, please. Bad life decisions. Reason and logic run away from her. Why, bestie? Why will him seeing you in a dress make him want to marry you, if a positive pregnancy test, a growing belly, or holding his newborn child multiple times didn’t do it?

[@marym9150]

​@@oekmamasome people just don't wanna be married and still be together. My brothers have been with their parents for like 20+ years. Kids etc. Happy, just not married. Their choice. If someone isn't happy then the situation won't last or work.

[@alieknitzer]

I feel so sad for her. She embarrassed herself for that guy?! If He Wanted To, He Would. Straighten your crown and Go Get Better!

[@sylviadonoghue2195]

That first girl deserves EVERY DETAIL of her dream proposal to come true!🤣

[@TinasCrazyLife]

Tbh- the wedding dress was ugly and didnt form to her body. She bombarded him when he opened the door. He hasnt proposed because he doesnt want to. You cant force it.

[@Starryflame]

19:00 cause if she said she was married, she would have been called "paranoid" cause he's "only trying to be nice"

[@heyysimone]

maybe thats why his wife wont let him see his kids 😂

[@jojowynne233]

The first bestie had me picturing her dream right along with her. She was so detailed, descriptive and that singing 🎤🎶 Perfect 😍

[@sunflowerbaby1853]

This girl bought her guy a Hellcat and wasn’t married to him? That’s a marriage gift not a pick me gift.

[@kholdanstaalstorm6881]

She gotta be someone with generational wealth, so such things are somehow normalized. Because if she had earned that money herself, no way she would blow that kind of money on a casual love interest. The dude who she was with at the comedy show was waiting for at least his Hellcat payday...

[@Janary08]

Sounds like she was his sugar mama lol

[@katietheekat]

And she called the other girl a pendeja 😂

[@sarahvincent2305]

The second one, the guy might think it's a joke to get a response for her tic toc veiws, and didn't actually think she was serious. If she does this alot, can't really blame him for not taking it seriously.

[@eggb1962]

if someone is ready to have kids with you but they’re not ready to marry you, that’s a red flag.

[@LaCommentaire]

We have no way of knowing he was ready to have kids. She could've gotten pregnant on purpose because "This will make him marry me!" She seems like that type.

[@eggb1962]

@@LaCommentaire it’s just a blanket statement hon

[@allisoncastle]

@@LaCommentaire okay 🙄🙄🙄

[@MacP2990]

Right

[@TheIndependentLens]

The kids maybe just happened. That’s not specifically that anyone, including her, was exactly READY FOR IT.

[@AngelaMcCrary-j8u]

Oh my goodness! That first one was absolutely adorable. She had me smiling throughout the whole story. I pray she gets her dream proposal.🥰

[@vincentlefur4490]

the one in the comedy club is absolutely SAVAGE! 😂😂

[@srijitabasu7436]

That call recording from the call center is legit how it goes 90% of the time. I used to work at Amazon in abuse prevention and this is like the majority of the calls we had to handle. 😅

[@CyborgArmGun]

Your spine is tungsten my dear. Applecare plus was only sometimes this bad.

[@Indigo_Shard]

omg hearing some stories from or your coworkers would be crazy

[@lisawise4204]

For about a year, I worked as a call center specialist at a housing authority. This is 100% accurate, though in my case it was a lot of people who wanted to blame ME for the fact they were convinced they would die on the streets. Sorry, I’m just answering phones here. The one thing I liked about that job was that, being remote and only on the phone, they could never see the faces I made while getting cussed out.

[@srijitabasu7436]

@@lisawise4204 And the silent curses I gave while on mute 😆

[@lisawise4204]

@@srijitabasu7436 yep. And my poor. Innocent computer screen saw more of my middle fingers than it deserved 😂

[@erikarussell1142]

8:36 clearly he isn’t into marriage. Or wedding dresses. Or cushioning her emotions. I mean she brought it on herself, but after 5 years I don’t think it’s gone happen. Especially when he makes fun of her instead of making her feel good.

[@tuttyfat]

To be fair that was an ugly wedding dress. I would have busted out laughing if my girlfriend was in that exact dress too and I'm a woman. He was making fun of her, he was making fun of the dress.

[@mage1439]

She wasn't looking to feel good, she was looking to be proposed to. Which is fine, but just say it and don't play stupid games about it.

[@pablodelsegundo9502]

Definitely not. He already has a home and 2 kids with her...why bother now?

[@erikarussell1142]

@@tuttyfat ok that is true. I would’ve played along honestly. And yes. That dress was butt ugly. If I were to wear something that ugly to get a reaction it would be hilarity. Because it fit her so badly I would’ve put balloons in my bewbs. Lmao but that’s it. You right lmao I just would’ve been a bit gentler with her emotions, but that’s just me.

[@erikarussell1142]

@@mage1439 😂😂😂 ok you right. I hate when people drop hints and don’t mean what they say and say what they mean. So, touché.

[@floreverschueren9944]

I love how she ended the call with an agressive southern 'God bless you' lmao

[@duchessliz2415]

I worked retail, and I once had a complete stranger come up to me WHILE I was WORKING because he was having a bad day and wanted to talk to someone. Like, okay, but I'm not a therapist. I was taken aback and just didn't say anything and he goes on to explain that he'd just found out his wife was cheating on him with his best friend and she was 6 months pregnant and he didn't even know now if the kid she was carrying was his and then they have two other kids together and now he was worried that THEY weren't his kids, but he loved them both and he wanted custody of them and to keep them away from the mess that was their mother, but did that make him a bad person? Holy hell, it was like being told a soap opera lol. Dude was actually serious too because the crazy soon to be ex-wife calls him and loudly starts telling him that they never ACTUALLY said that they were monogamous. I'm like 'Is this woman serious? Marriage generally implies monogamy'. He then asks me what he should do and all I could tell him is that his wife is extremely toxic and he'd be doing himself a massive favor in divorcing her. Told him I didn't know how she was as a mother but if she was a good mom then no reason to include the kids in the mess. He then proceeded to explain that she always pawned the kids off on others and never really acted as a 'mother' to them. Why women like this can find men to actually marry them, much less have kids with them, I will never understand. But that woman was delusional as hell and clearly never grew up from dumbass teenager stage. I swear you get the weirdest experiences when you work retail. That's the only thing I miss about the job... the sheer drama from both customers and other co-workers. It was tempting to carry a bag of popcorn around and just... watch lol. There was something going on every damn day and the delusional people seemed to just come in droves.

[@sweetness3441]

Daym😢 I feel for that man it's just terrible how good people both men and women end up with trash people that don't really care for them... I know you didn't feel like listening to a stranger but thanks for supporting him, you might have been the only sensible voice he had to confide in

[@joysgirl]

The girl in the wedding dress, when he said it wasn't a very good one, she should have asked him if she should get a better one.

[@CrickBritt]

She's a big red flag, if he isn't marrying you after kid one, how would popping out another help the situation? With how much those kids cost, I would laugh at her too. Oh, you want me to spend 10k+ on a wedding when im already spending 400k+ on these kids for the next 18 years? Suuuuure, lol

[@alicedey4631]

@@CrickBritt And lets be honest, that (actually) beautiful dress doesn't look good on her. Maybe if the cups didn't stick out like mothers bra on a 5yo, it would look better... but a combination of belly and cups sticking out - as if the entire front of the dress was running for its life - it looks just bad. Simply bad. If I had a whole day and this dress designed for huge boobs i'd spend the day trying to stuff it with socks or something. Tho I'd buy a fitting dress in the first place, this siren cut goes great with small boobs (I'm a B so I know xD). But you need the cups to be "filled up"

[@maisanascimento5441]

​@@CrickBritt if he didn't want to have expensive kids, he shouldn't have put them inside her 👍

[@xxkittyxxkatxx-ts8zs]

No absolutely not, do you not understand how manipulative that is? If she wants to be engaged that much propose to him since you want to push for it but do not try and manipulate your man to do it.

[@codywarhawk7099]

The way she mocked the guy at 20:33 and continued for that long was way too damn funny, I cannot stop laughing at the way she imitated him in a mocking manner, lol.

[@BeccaReevesXX]

For YEARS!!!! I've been searching for the KZbinr that brings me as much joy as Jenna Marbles. I have to say even tho it's a different type of video I look forward to Charlotte's videos just as much as I used to Jenna's. Thank you for giving me a video to look forward to. When you post, I know it's gonna be good!!!!

[@JordynC1994]

The first girl is hilariously cute🤣 she definitely hasn't thought much about it

[@AmorDia-GOAT]

Right It was just a passing thought

[@tracyaskew1651]

I am living for the first lady. I need to hang out with her just to hear her tell stories!! LOL!!!

[@SouthernBell-ut9bp]

Video 2: This is why you get married, THEN have kids. I had an old coworker who got engaged to a guy with 3 kids. She raised them like her own and was the only one with a job supporting a family that isn't hers. She got these kids from k-12, THEN he finally married her.

[@Sar-ahG]

At the very least before the second baby!

[@MSANTHR0P3]

Yes

[@alaskapeach]

I think it’s common in some countries for couples to be together and only be married after kids. Idk.

[@pablodelsegundo9502]

He actually married her?! Not the usual outcome, even after 13yrs.

[@FukaiKokoro]

Usually after 13 years they ditch out.. that's surprising to hear lol

[@jess.0J]

17:40 I love their energy I was cracking up. She went right along with it.

[@TheChanelcupcake]

"She's a chinita" I'm glad he called out her racism

[@lotstodo]

What does that mean?

[@nuve9190]

Fr she was so rude

[@Silverwolfpriestess]

She's Chinese ​@@lotstodo

[@TheChanelcupcake]

@@lotstodo chinese girl

[@Rinakami]

@@TheChanelcupcake Thank you for translating for those of us too lazy to type it into google translate

[@AnnieAnnieBuckwheatCakes]

The second one was sad. He will never marry her. Ladies, if you want him to marry you, don't move in (and certainly be 100% diligent about your birth control) unless you've got a ring and a date. That's how you avoid a man who will not marry you.

[@elodieelvira7913]

Definitely move in a d see if he can clean after himself but with you on the no kid before ring

[@Southernbelle4]

Some will give you a ring to get you to move in. Don't move in until married.

[@what.the.whatever]

I agree

[@KS-tp1um]

I disagree on the “don’t move in” bit. Y’all should know if you can even tolerate sharing a home together let alone a room before even considering spending the time, money, and commitment on marriage. There is a big difference between knowing you like to hang out/go on dates and knowing you actually like having permanent residence with another person. You should however be careful to avoid pregnancy and watch for the warning signs of dead beat partners though.

[@what.the.whatever]

@@KS-tp1um I agree with the pregnancy part

[@PrettiePessimistik]

12:12 the most dramatic comedy show ive ever seen.

[@WeeWooRaka]

And if she would've told the guy @18:35 that she was married when he asked if he could sit there he would be offended too XD

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

Exactly, there's no winning with these guys. If you tell the guy you're partnered as soon as he smiles and asks to sit next to you at the bar, it's all "what, you think I was hitting on you? You ugly b*tch?" Always charming to psychopath on a dime. It's never your fault, there's no magical phrase you can use to avoid them blowing up on you.

[@aprilgleason1184]

I love how the first lady got into it so much. She knows what she wants! 😂❤

[@kateiannacone2698]

7:18 Is it bad that when he froze halfway through the doorway to stare at her, my first thought was "Dude, you're gonna let the cat out!" (Ways you know I'm a cat mom, I guess lol)

[@gamingbypix]

7:45 him not liking the dress itself isn't him not liking her BUT his whole reaction shows really how he feels 🫠 WHERE IS THE RED FLAG GUY!

[@KibbyRose]

And the worst part is, he has no idea how much emotional damage he’s inflicting on her while doing this and how long it’s gonna take her to have to recover from it

[@Chez1991]

@Dustinpointer

[@FukaiKokoro]

Yeah it's a tad off. I'd be upset if my partner would laugh at me like that.

[@jydeinden]

Just because you dont want to get married, or doesnt want it right now doesnt mean you dont love the person..

[@sunflowerbaby1853]

To the second woman, if having his two children didn’t inspire him to marry you, you standing in a wedding dress is not going to do it. And if you thought posting this to social media would embarrass him into proposing you are floating down the deloulou river. Red flag. Blaring 🚩 🚩🚩

[@Ciela531]

Ya know that proposal *might* just be a little bit too extra…. Only a little though 😂 3:41

[@j68715]

I'm praying for the man who saves up 6 months for a ring and takes her out to a nice dinner. He sounds great. Say YES! A good man is worth way more than a fancy proposal and wedding!

[@LesleyHayes4]

Did you watch the whole story? LOL

[@Ciela531]

@@LesleyHayes4yeah I was saying that her proposal expectations might be too high 😂

[@LesleyHayes4]

@@Ciela531 oh I gotcha 👍🏻

[@Ciela531]

@@LesleyHayes4 yeah I would edit the comment to clarify, but then Charlotte’s “heart” ❤️ would go away, and it genuinely makes me so happy seeing that, so I’m just gonna leave it be 😂 🥰

[@tupelohoney622]

My gasters are flabbered. I've been married over 40 years and I'm still not buying my hub a vehicle. If I'm buying a Hellcat, I'm driving!!

[@missflowerpower8724]

Absolutely!!! I so want to drive one!

[@PineappleQTpie]

He didnt even give her a consolation kiss just laughed in her face. If he’s already living with you and have a child together it’s not looking good.

[@ajnaeye7616]

Charlotte summed it up: "If we wanted to, he would." Some of these girls just are just not getting it that no commitment means he's still looking. You're not the one. Move along, sisters.

[@aspcia]

That first woman is my people lol. I'm so glad I'm not the only one with a run away imagination. And don't show ppl your vision board! We don't need their negative energy!

[@joyfulsunshine3564]

The way the 2nd guy laughed and kept asking why he had no intention on proposing to her ever

[@lydiahiksan1232]

....and then muni Long started singing "Cause yOu WeRe MaDe FoR mEEEE" Had me laughing out loud. What an intricate engagement party idea, she is creative and off the cuff too, good for her, dream onnnnn.

[@amyduncker4097]

The first girl 😅 with a proposal like that, can a wedding ever top that?

[@maggieb4736]

It sounded fabulous and was funny but I sure hope her real expectations are (much) lower.

[@jenk8385]

the first woman, What a good story teller!!!

[@pbm5903]

Ha! I never got a proposal. My husband and I just decided together, "Yeah, we should get married. How about March?"

[@stephiebella]

Us too. I’ve always been kinda sad that we didn’t have that moment but it fits us. We celebrated 30 years yesterday so I think it worked out. ❤

[@pbm5903]

@@stephiebella 39 years in March. I'm actually very happy that weddings were not the huge production number back then as they are now. 😀

[@maggieb4736]

I didnt get an official proposal either. When after a couple months I brought my guy home to meet my family he was so nervous because "they're going to be my family too." My heart flip-flopped. We moved into together (for practical purposes) and he told me I'd have whatever ring and wedding I wanted. I started to plan and realized I didn't really care about the wedding (for a few reasons) I just wanted to be married to him. Went to the courthouse---happily married 20 years in July.😊❤

[@grannym2880]

Same. We were out eating pizza in a little restaurant and he came out with "do ya think we should get married?" I said "sure, if you want to." , and here we are 44 years later. 😊🩷

[@maggieb4736]

@@grannym2880 , cute 🥰

[@lauriegialone5757]

9:16 girl 5 years qnd 2 kids is not being rushed!! At all

[@leide4688]

Yes, definitely. Also kids are a much bigger commitment.

[@DemonSkunk0408]

I love the first girl's mannerisms. 😂 Shes too cute! ❤

[@valkyritza]

@@DemonSkunk0408 I hope she finds that guy to give her what she is wishing for

[@DemonSkunk0408]

@@valkyritza with everything she was explaining and detailing, I was almost convinced until I realized it was fake 🤣

[@lucialovecraft]

I hope she finds the one! She’s so cute

[@ashleenicole71]

I feel sad for the second girl but at the same time.... if you wanted to get married... that should have been made clear before kids. Men like this baffle me though... they'll have kids with the women but won't marry her..

[@maggieb4736]

Willing to bet the first one was unplanned, they moved in together...it's probably not going to happen.

[@CrickBritt]

I mean yes? Its not entirely his fault, she's trying to get him with a "shut up" ring, which screams manipulation to me

[@itrasheditgood]

Charlotte, you should show us your vision board, whether or not your dreams come true is beside the point. Everyone needs to have dreams, it’s fun to see what other people’s dreams are, ain’t it nice to live in a life filled with hope? I don’t make vision boards but I do make lists, sometimes I get to check mark the big agendas, it’s amazing when I do, and I look back on it and think just how wonderful those experiences I gained from making a list to begin with.

[@Atlasintokyo]

It's so fun to see how much we can genuinely accomplish we have so much potential in life to live out so many tiny and big dreams

[@Xil_Gon_Give_It_To_Ya]

Excuse me Charlotte, while I put up the Dustin Poynter (Red/Green Flag Guy) Symbol in the sky... for that second video... there we go... And now we wait.

[@ashleybuechler860]

Yes! I hope we get to see a red/green flag video for that one!

[@thatonewitch]

Im oddly giddy that there are others making reference to Flag Guy

[@GilbertoGinja]

Yes we need him here

[@Shazzie_Rose]

Where is our flag guy???? Dustin?!!!!!

[@mysticstudios1210]

I found him because of Charlotte! His video came up after one of hers!

[@theoriginalbridgetconnors]

That guy hitting on that last woman? That's why we choose the bear.

[@OldTechNerd]

As a member of the male gender I am embarrassed by that behaviour and don't blame you.

[@oopsthatwasme]

⁠​⁠​⁠​⁠@@OldTechNerd don’t be embarrassed over other people’s poor choices!! that’s a him problem and you’re not that asshole you’re ur own man💗

[@sarahcleary110]

Always choose the bear, the chances of a good outcome are much better. @OldTechNerd, don't be embarrassed by other's behavior. Model respect for the people in your life and teach them to expect that from others, call out bad behavior & explain why it's wrong. Talk to your friends & family about it. Girls & boys should be raised to respect boundaries, not to see or be seen as an object to fulfill a desire or want from another, and to treat each other as equals.

[@sandyv2408]

I don't think the video was real. It seemed really staged. Who brings up foot rubs just like that?

[@chelseaklinge5858]

Dude would have been just as salty if she said she's married with 3 kids when he asked to sit down..😂 ridiculous

[@reallybakedpinball]

The cat in that dress video is like "get me the fuck out of here" 🤣

[@PersieCursie]

The first lady forgot it was a fantasy for a bit there. She went from "So this is how it would be" to "so this is what happened" 🤣

[@revinaque1342]

It's giving maladaptive daydreaming 😅

[@amanda_xo]

1st person is an EXCELLENT story teller

[@7.o.m]

If you have to force the question out of someone, is it even worth it?

[@susannedeininger]

It the cat in that „Engage me!„ Video that does it for me! It gives the Situation a Voice: Meeeeeawwww! 😭

[@roll3886]

The cat was even telling her to stop LOL

[@joannegutteridge3843]

Did the cat go out the door I can hear it meow.poor cat

[@rebeccabrown1951]

Having two kids first, buying a wedding dress to force a proposal. Bless this girl's heart. She has done everything in the wrong order.

[@amandareeves7797]

The way you read the caption to the call center call… the “bless ‘em” part got me 🤣🤣🤣 blessing a person down here isn’t always a good thing… bless his heart… 😂

[@Barbs518]

That second one is like the time I was out to dinner with my boyfriend at the time (now my husband lol) and we were talking about names and I said my first name with his last name and he just goes "hmmm.. I don't like it" and I DIED LAUGHING and our 6th anniversary is coming up in November. 🤣 Can confirm, he likes that name now 😉

[@SocietalNoob]

the husband seems caught off guard cs the dress wasn't it 😂 but im sure she is marriage material

[@loosilu]

@@SocietalNoob He is never gonna marry her. His face said "horrified."

[@Kamarazalmanx]

all i have to say to the woman who wore a wedding dress expecting her partner to ask her for marriage on the pot only for him to laugh at her and say it looks bad at her is.... girl, please love yourself. he ain't it. you deserve better.

[@groovymovie3213]

The second one is actually so heartbreaking. Never EVER give a man kids before he marries you.

[@thisisit2082]

I feel so bad. He knew there was a camera and still did that. That was his answer. I hope a follow up is coming about their uncoupling.

[@toxiczombiewolf5692]

Never get married is bs waste of money that means nothing.

[@shewolfinubaka]

@@toxiczombiewolf5692so you had two Christmases growing up huh? Sucks to suck bro

[@loosilu]

@@toxiczombiewolf5692 It gives you significant legal protections.

[@BigJT246]

​@@thisisit2082i dont feel bad. Shes crazy

[@angiedewolf6512]

I guess his foot rubs weren’t strong enough to save his marriage! lol 😂

[@dinasilva9263]

Being petty and seeing the best roasts from Charlotte to delulu and entitled people always makes my day, even if it was an awful day. Thank God for Charlotte😂❤

[@invisigoth510]

Girl with the wedding dress: that’s so sad but honey if you’ve given birth to his kids & he still hasn’t proposed, he’s never going to

[@cjdragonsplanet3509]

For the young lady surprising her man in a wedding dress, my Mom always said why would a man buy the cow when he can get the milk for free. I am not comparing the young lady to a cow she's quite beautiful but my mom was right, if you act like their wife give them children take care of the house cook dinners wash laundry excetera they don't need to marry you they've already got you.

[@lotstodo]

I have a theory that every time you clean a man's bathroom, you stop him from buying a ring.

[@maggieb4736]

Two people should at least discuss and agree on marriage before having the children. Otherwise, you wind up like this poor woman, wishing and hoping and eventually sad/depressed/angry/resentful. I feel badly for her, but...

[@kathydurow6814]

These days.....why buy the whole pig if all you want is a little sausage.

[@lotstodo]

@kathydurow6814 LOL, I see what you mean. And, you should know how much you're buying before paying.

[@rachelmaddowswife8713]

@@maggieb4736 The first pregnancy was probably an accident. If she's set on keeping the pregnancy, the choice isn't whether or not to have a kid, it's whether or not to continue a relationship with someone who's not invested in you and doesn't share your values. At the point that she told him she was pregnant and he declined marriage, she should have moved out, lawyered up, and come up with a coparenting plan. Then she wouldn't have ended up with a second kid by someone who doesn't want her, she could have been happily married to someone else by now.

[@eveleen18]

9:48 He may have been laughing coz he thought she borrowed it from someone. It's very ambushy 😅

[@MyNewAesthetic]

Vision boards are the real deal! Word of advice tho…. BE VERY SPECIFIC! I had two places on my first board, definitely ended up in one of them and did not enjoy myself living there. Had a townhouse in my second board… got a TH but with a horrific landlord with everything falling apart. Put kind landlord on my third board before moving and the leasing office here has been great at my “new” place for over a year so they work!!

[@SaintShion]

Fr I love vission boards. My brother wanted to go to Norway so bad. I had him do a vision board and almost a couple months later our Uncle invited us to do a Noridic tour with them. Like Amsterdam to Switzerland. I'm moving to Switzerland soon for work so it great to see it first.

[@CrickBritt]

I don't think they're real in the way that some people use them, but vision boards are great for putting what you want, out into the void. Looking at it repetitively will keep that intention at the forefront of your brain. If you don't forget something you want, you are more likely to seek that thing. Just makes sense!

[@SaintShion]

@@CrickBritt I don’t think vision boards do anything ✨magical✨ but my brother’s autistic and having set goals for him to actively see calms him when he does work, and seeing goals in a visual form is more encouraging for people like myself. Also the act of creating them can be meditative or therapeutic.