Overdosing on Petty TikTok’s - REACTION

[@AccidentallyOnPurpose]

Massive respect to that woman for not only recognizing it wasn't the bride but also helping her get her venue back. If I were the bride I'd slip her an extra 100 when I pick up the dress.

[@2sday.sGone13]

She always has the craziest wedding stories and she is so unbelievably helpful Everytime. She genuinely csres

[@HalfNHalf.]

I'm giving her a $500 tip and an invite to my wedding lol

[@agavictoria]

Seriously, she has her clients' backs. Very wholesome.

[@Buchpiratin]

Tbh this woman with the dress shop has too many of those extremely shocking stories. And too often she's the hero in it. Just saying...

[@amybaker3551]

@@BuchpiratinYou ever worked in the service industry? People are cray.

[@robsgirl7778]

The fact that someone would cancel a wedding reservation off of just a call is ridiculous. I'm a wedding photographer, and I require 3 forms of contact for cancellation and changes. Text, email and call. I then verify that the numbers and emails match with what is on file. I then call both contacts on the contract ( this is typically the bride and groom) and get a verbal confirmation from both and explain the fees for canceling before I officially cancel.

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

As it should be! Glad you ensure you and your clients are covered!

[@jessislistless]

This is such an intelligent contingency plan. It protects all parties well

[@The_momur]

This is the way! Families cheese slid right off their crackers.

[@kelst75]

Absolutely. It shouldn't be that easy to just cancel something for such an important event. The fact that the dad was trying to avoid the sister being held accountable for that speaks volumes, too.

[@atiyarahman3089]

Maybe that wedding venue just wanted 3 times money at that point, they don't care about anything 🤷

[@Heathersama]

I was wearing one of your 'Petty' merch hats on a plane ride to Florida to visit my family last week, there was a woman who sat next to me and she immediately recognized the hat. We talked about how much we loved your videos and it was such a nice interaction. To the woman who sat next to me, I hope time with your family went well! Charlotte you are the best. xoxo

[@odoyalrules757]

❤I love this so much❤ #WholesomeAF 😅🎉

[@CriticallyMe]

This is too amazing!! ❤

[@al-ub2yl]

I've used Charlotte as an icebreaker a couple of times 😂😂. Always makes for a nice conversation.

[@penelopeanne79]

That's hilarious 😂😂😂

[@ashleya8532]

I can't believe the wedding venue wanted to charge her 3x the amount for a mistake THEY made. Bullsh**. I'd be PISSED hahahaaha. I can't believe a family member would do that to someone :O

[@garybonz]

BELIEVE IT !

[@grettagiesbrecht5772]

It’s true. The more coveted months cost more because people WILL pay it!!

[@sarahkelley9045]

She had originally booked two years before. When sis cancelled it the venue wanted the current price. They probably thought the bride was making it up. I have Never heard of someone doing something like that with someone's wedding. The venue wasn't prepared for sabotage. How could they be? It's not their fault.

[@Sunflowerheadofficial]

@@sarahkelley9045it’s mainly because there was no verification to cancel the venue

[@WhereIsMyHappy]

I’m glad you have family like that. I wouldn’t trust mine with even knowing I was getting married at all. 👀

[@mflyn801]

That bridal shop owner is awesome! She went above and beyond. She is really smart too

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

Absolutely! That was genius!! She seems like a genuinely amazing person and a great business owner. I've seen only a handful of her stories because I don't have social media but every one I have heard, has been better than the last! Good on her!! Glad she saved the day for her client!

[@robinkholmes7127]

People who work in the wedding industry go above and beyond and should, to make people's days.

[@christineelasabijon]

I think Charlotte reacted to another one of her stories as well and yep, it’s a good one too!

[@kellykountouris7193]

She's so great! I follow her on Instagram and Tik Tok and her stories are so engaging and she truly cares about her clients and loves what she does. ❤

[@heatherlowe7330]

She was that poor bride's angel 😇

[@JDChavez713]

9:31 The bride can definitely sue her step sister and the venue for negligence of ID authentication.

[@gaillynn1280]

Should have had to give the last 4 digits of the credit card that was used for deposit. If the person cannot come up with the 4 digits...no modifying nor canceling anything!!!!

[@melissaherrera940]

@@gaillynn1280if the step sister knew to check her sister’s wallet, she could’ve stolen the credit card to get those numbers. Either way, it’s weird the venue didn’t require the bride to appear in person to sign some sort of contract for the cancellation or something. Why let go of a paying customer that easily? Did they already have someone else to replace her for that date?

[@tiffany_greeneyes4901]

I’m not gonna lie, the step sister needs help or needs to go to jail. Like, there is NO reason to do something like this.

[@asassyghostnamedcassie]

But her dad didnt want her to charge :/ He was willing to sell his car to protect this girl like what??? >:0 Poor bride, having family like that :3

[@damontcs]

I've heard enough reddit stories about wedding cancellations to know that you ALWAYS set a "password" with any vendors that you do not share with anyone.

[@lilycollegemythbusters5532]

My dad had a code word for us kids and said NEVER go home with anyone who says your dad sent me to pick up UNLESS they knew the code word. We all need code words as a security!

[@TheAncientGeekoRoman]

Came here to say the EXACT same thing - definitely set up a code word!

[@evalozano2942]

That is an amazing idea I would never have thought of that

[@michellerobin5461]

@@lilycollegemythbusters5532 I did the same with my girls! They’re adults now but we still laugh at the word we had chosen 😅

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

Oh yikes! Now she has to double check on the catering, florist, photographer, cake.... literally EVERYTHING! How sad is it that a password would even be necessary!? 😢

[@Newylife]

I've spent over 10yrs as an event manager and exhibition coordinator, and you'd be surprised how often people try to sabotage other people's weddings and events. I've had a company deliberately screw up a company's exhibition panelling because they hated the company on a personal level. I've had mother of the bride and mother in-laws try and change reception centrepieces, going against everything the bride and groom wanted and paid for. I can't speak for every event manager, venue, bridal shop etc, but I always had two-step verification before ANY changes were made. These people don't realise just how much time the bride has spent with the people putting her wedding together, which is why it's so frequent. I've made a lot of friends through my bridal services, and get a lot of job offers when I'm dealing with corporate clients. Social media needs to spread these stories like wildfire, so even the evil mother in-law finds out she can't get away with it

[@morganbertolino]

As an Aquarius I ALWAYS pay my bills. But I also have no friends

[@sarahkelley9045]

​@@morganbertolino😂😂

[@tiffany_greeneyes4901]

Yeah all our venues required me and my husband to sign off on things. We didn’t have any drama, I thought it was a little strange that they needed two numbers two email addresses, etc, but hearing these stories is horrifying!

[@vibesbynae4860]

Wow we need More stories!!!! Served with the DETAILS I’m so here for it 😂

[@mbourque]

Wedding planning tip: make a password for vendors and have it in the contract that if they cancel without receiving the password, they have to pay the cost of finding another vendor to replace them.... They will not talk to ANYONE without that password. The good vendors will already do this...

[@yvettejones5323]

Exactly! Or a reservation numbers. People should have to give their reservation number, or a password, to ask any questions or make any changes at all.

[@sarahkinsey5434]

@@yvettejones5323 I just work retail and when someone picks up their order they have to provide the order number or their ID has to match the name on the pick up. So other people who are picking up need to be added or have the order number. I can't imagine not confirming it especially something as important and expensive as wedding vendors

[@areneesouder]

There should be a "confirmation number" for each and every thing ordered for a wedding, where no one could cancel anything without the number. My sister sabotaged my life, over and over and over again, costing me so much more than this bride went through. People can really suck.

[@pandapies6703]

My older sis and i were no contact duringg my wedding. She STILL tried to cancel my venue through my planner.... But she gott the venue and info all wrong. My planner and i laughed over wine at my wedding when other family members informed us she had asked them and they all gave the wrong venue, bridal shop and flower shop.

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

That makes me sad. I cannot ever imagine doing something like that to anyone. Let alone my siblings....hopefully in the end everything worked out for you! Best wishes to you and yours!!💖

[@Nekogal21]

The only problem with this is that anyone helping you with the wedding can slip the order number etc in a conversation with said people and could use that to legit cancel

[@debracoulter1250]

Kudos to the shop owner that backed up the bride about her step sister attempting to cancel her dress! We love her! ❤😊

[@maisanascimento5441]

It's amazing how the venue wants her to prove she didn't cancel when they had no proof she was actually canceling it herself!

[@MultiNotAnti]

I love how Charlotte always says "stick around to the end... only IF you want to" lol it's simultaneously the most Canadian and cutest thing. Like girl! OF COURSE I will ALWAYS stay to the end!

[@CharlotteDobre]

🥹❤️

[@njjovifan46]

The girl with the ivory/champagne dress has the BEST stories

[@562samuel]

Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays. I’m always watching and busting up during my lunch so, thank you. By the way, always make yourself a priority over work! It’s healthy!

[@RowanEBR]

Yes we support a queen ensuring she has a work life balance!! Continue to take care of your mental health, Charlotte. It's the best thing you can do for yourself and your channel!

[@oleksandrakosenko]

100% yes. But I still wish she would post every day 😄 just love her videos Work life balance is important though of course 💕

[@lauramcniel3305]

Every other day is a good idea.

[@Zinnia-bs8tt]

I'm in favor of work life balance too. I rarely get to watch Charlotte's (or anyone else's videos) the day their posted. I binge when I have time. So I vote for whatever works best for the creator.

[@RowanEBR]

@@Zinnia-bs8tt exactly!

[@SimplyNani7]

I want to know why the venue canceled the date without proof that it was the bride. But they're requiring the bride to provide proof that it wasn't her. That's some backwards logic

[@globalwarmhugs7741]

Sadly, the burden of proof often lies with the victim. It's why SA survivors usually don't come forward. The system needs to change.

[@heatherlowe7330]

Seriously!

[@ramblingbb7182]

They knew they fucked up and tried to cover their asses

[@marzipanmouse]

Seriously. Make it Make Sense!

[@alonabeck713]

Honestly, if someone is cancelling their wedding, chances are something really bad happened. Maybe these vendors just are trying to not pry and not make things even worse in a difficult time 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@HollieAndApollo]

If a single person has a problem with you needing to take time for yourself and especially your mental health I swear I will fight them for you lol you deserve it! We will all still be here no matter how much time you take. I’d prefer to see you every other day and happy rather than every day and stressed out. ❤ Much love and light to you as always! Keep shining gorgeous! 🧿

[@jltdqw]

I will help with the fight, also I will bring empanadas let me know what meat you like the most.

[@JESSASARUS_RYX]

Count me in too. Nobody is allowed to get mad for Charlotte taking a break! As much as I love seeing her everyday. People need breaks. I can't believe she worked every single days for Yeats straight. She's definitely committed and love her people!

[@tanyasains6500]

Sign me up for the lady fight❤ @charlotte your mental health and self care is top priority & I hope you get the much needed break you need. As for posting, mamasita I’m here for the ride always, our fearless petty leader!

[@shinymommy]

Just tell me where to roll up! We ride at dawn!!! 😂😂😂

[@lindapatton4478]

I'm right there with you. Our Potato Queen deserves to have time off to decompress and work on other projects she wants to do.

[@MielieWoo]

That one hair on Charlotte has all my love and attention.

[@shanadjokotoe1549]

Me too 😂 I thought only I saw it!

[@MielieWoo]

@@shanadjokotoe1549 I'm just waiting for to smooth it down but she keeps missing it!!😂

[@abbygraf9275]

I cant look away from it I swear 😂

[@lottieew135]

I was watching it too! But idk, we don't have to be on point all the time 🤷‍♀️

[@antoniovasquez9996]

I’m finding it somewhat distracting.

[@MelindaLee]

Oh Charlotte! It's all about taking care of ourselves first and foremost. What day is best? Every Day is Charlotte Day! Are you kidding me, I am here daily for you, gurl. Take care of yourself!!!!

[@heidileigh7023]

Same, I'm so glad she's taking time she needs! I've always wondered how in the hell she pulled off daily uploads without being stressed to the max. Answer: she didn't haha I've seen a lot of similar positive support for her in that regard, too, and it melts me. We all love the petty potato queen and are just happy to be here ❤

[@stacylee8429]

You do you Charlotte! No one else will take care of our mental health for us. 3 times a week IS enough.

[@TheNinnyfee]

The Thornton girl is a priceless angel. ❤ And the father that didn't want to report the sister to police is for the trash.

[@Star_R666]

Love this wedding lady - she tells the best/worst stories.

[@delaineparker6648]

What is her name please?

[@Star_R666]

@@delaineparker6648 I'm sorry but I don't know - she's featured in Charlotte's videos several times.

[@JessicaLaska]

I’m good with any day - and happy you’re taking care of yourself ❤

[@jduffy7196]

And by worst you mean the best, for us..

[@denmalayanus8084]

​@@delaineparker6648 bridalinfluencerkasia, its on the bottom right of the screen while she speaks 😊

[@Ray07Sunshine]

Oh dear thoughtful Charlotte! I’m not going to lie having your daily videos was always the highlight of my day and really got me through some dark times. As much as we all loved seeing you daily that kind of schedule is incredibly rough! I’m surprised you were able to do it as long as you did! I’m so happy to hear you’ve been enjoying having time between videos that’s WONDERFUL! I have no preference on days because my own work schedule is completely chaotic so I’m not very helpful there but I will say no matter what I’ll be watching every single video you put out! I freaking love you girl!!

[@Dadsfavjanetlee]

This!!!! I'll say for me personally..selfish me wants a video every single day 😂 but human hard working me knows that we're so so lucky to get to have your videos AT ALL! so as many or less as you can manage while making time for your actual life!! I'll take and be happy about it. BUT PLEASE JUST LET US KNOW LOL if that's possible. Bc I won't be stalking KZbin 😂

[@corissadenna124]

Yes!!! Exactly!!!;❤

[@StrangeStella]

Completely agree with this!

[@SilverMichi]

What I think, as purely an observer who has little say in your life, is that you are a person first and foremost. You don't owe us your time and many don't realize the work that goes into making videos. Especially, every single day. I'm glad that youre starting to get more relaxed days. You deserve it.

[@WickedLovely121]

Absolutely love Kasia (Bridal store owner). She tells the best stories. She is always looking out the brides or bridesmaids.

[@TomatoGatcha]

I hope the step sister in the second story had some repercussions for her actions, thats such gross behavior

[@blackghostart308]

The amount of stories like this makes me want to set up passwords and safeguards if I ever get married.

[@geezee8710]

If the dad is covering for step sister after all that, she probably didn't have any consequences.

[@inglepinks]

​@geezee8710 my thoughts exactly. The dad is not letting the stepsister have consequences and she probably never has which is why she has the audacity to cancel someone else's wedding! She should call the cops. Give her consequences!

[@Sleipnirseight]

Right?! I need more background story!!!!

[@pascaleelliott63]

We need updates from the bride to know if stepsis got any karma from this nasty stunt. Also, the dad is either biased towards the stepsis, or he lets himself be walked over likely by both stepsis and stepsis's mum/his wife

[@TheOfficialPatriarchy]

"It has been so nice to not have to wake up every single morning to do my back end" Are you telling us you only wash your bum every other day now? Every day, Charlotte. We wash our bums every single day.

[@janinebrown9773]

😂😂I’m dying

[@CharlotteDobre]

Walked right into that one 🤣 backend means SEO/tags/description

[@daniellecailly5448]

Too funny 😂

[@StillARose]

I can't believe you're still doing this yourself babe! You need help, no wonder you're burned out! ​@@CharlotteDobre

[@SabrinaCollum]

Charlotte you should post Monday, Wednesday and Friday then take the weekend off!

[@Shayera01]

That lady's bride stories be WILD. As for your uploads, I think Monday, Wednesday, Friday. Monday to kickstart the week (for many people), Wednesday to get through hump day, and Friday to end the week on a fun note! Have the weekend off to rest and do other stuff.

[@morgiana111]

I’m seconding M, W and F uploads. 🤘🏻

[@WhatTheWHAT524]

Yep, I agree! But will be happy with whatever works out! But that was my thoughts exactly!!

[@tfrisk8166]

I totally agree with M,W,F 😊 we all love you,but you need to take care of your health both physically and mentally. Hopefully by doing this you will be stronger then ever and ready to take on the world! We will be here right by your side!❤

[@bookfaerie]

This was my exact thought as well. It's perfect spacing throughout the week.

[@amoreodiare]

Every time I hear these stories about a bachelorette trip from hell it makes me so unbelievably grateful for my bridesmaids. We combined a bachelor/bachelorette weekend getaway with me, my hubby, my 3 bridesmaids and their partners, the groomsmen and my sister-in-laws. It went so smoothly. Everyone pitched in and we had a great time away in the woods for 3 days.

[@Mishsunshine_7]

Can you imagine your own step sister., evil

[@malorifloyd4152]

Someone cut me off in traffic, almost hitting my car trying to beat me to the Starbucks drive thru line. I laughed because She had to wait in the long line, while I walked my happy self inside to grab my mobile order. I was driving away when noticed that she hadn’t even made it to the speaker yet. Rusty ass RAV4 😂😂

[@AffectionatePart1588]

😂😂😂

[@niamphdollieofficial]

Nah not her doing all that for Starbucks 😭😭

[@Sarahhedger]

I think everyone should have to work in retail or with the general public, the amount of audacity people have is unreal. The worst was when I had a teen spit at me because I wouldn’t sell him cigarettes without ID, you best believe I jumped over the counter and chased him out the shop. It was worth the reprimanding I got. 😂

[@nicolegroves6880]

I agree, it should be like a right of passage. Same with restaurants, people who have never worked in a restaurant (most times) just don't understand how ridiculously difficult it can be sometimes. I haven't waited tables in at least seven years and I STILL have literal nightmares about it!!

[@Sarahhedger]

@@nicolegroves6880 oh lord I worked in a restaurant when I was 16 and it was soul destroying, I’m pretty much disabled now so wouldn’t be able to but it is an awful job. People are so entitled and rude, it’s the only job I cried at 😂 I had a really rude customer who was a presenter on ITV weather, I wish we had social media back then cause I would’ve blasted her ass all over it.

[@pascaleelliott63]

Did you hear about the woman at a fastfood joint who got physical with the manager of the place over an order, who was then put in court where the judge said pretty much "Eh betch. Choice is yours. Either go to jail for months, or go put on an apron at that fastfood joint for about a year, see how you handle working there!"

[@LauraFromMarkerQuest]

I work in retail. This 1000%.

[@lindseycrittendon7883]

This right here is why I eat the wrong food if I get the wrong food at a restaurant and properly refold/rehang everything I look at/try on in a clothing store.

[@aleslipeash5252]

I don't usually leave comments. So first let me say this, you always look really really good. But...I just have to say.... that outfit, those colors, that hair....YOU LOOK ABSOLUTELY GORGEOUS! WOW!

[@alexisdouglas4832]

9:16 bless that woman for having the bride’s back!!! ❤😍

[@landsealifestyle3403]

Your mental and physical health are way more important than that uploading every day!!! LOVES YOU!!!

[@hawkthorn33]

Long post, horrible wedding story. (stepsister story made me recall) When I lived in the Bay Area, a radio station would allow the listeners to do pranks. I.E. call Jeff and tell him his kid is expelled for chewing gum ect. Then come clean and say it was all a joke and frank set you up. So the get a set up, Karen says call my bestie Jill, and tell her the venue for her wedding this weekend is double booked, and she cant have it. So the call Jill, and Jill says "I canceled that a month ago, do not call me! Why would you do that?!" and hangs up. Well now we have Tea. They call Jill back and, identify as radio station and ask what happened. Seems her fiancé ran off with another woman, and her wedding would have been coming up. "Well Karen called to set up this prank.." "THAT BITCH!! She was the woman he ran off with!" Shortly thereafter they stopped doing prank calls.

[@silververnallbells191]

wow

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Daaaamn!!

[@elliottmcleandeboer]

I feel like the absolute minimum for a cancellation should be like a quick email from the business to the client saying "this is confirming cancellation of your order per conversation today" etc. Etc. That would ensure that if the client wasn't the one who cancelled, they can fix the situation as soon as they see that email - and also, surely it's a risk for the business if everything's only been said on the phone? What if the wedding day comes and someone who cancelled verbally claims they never cancelled and why haven't they provided x,y,z, and they get sued or get in trouble with management?

[@phaedrapage4217]

Excellent idea. They could even give a 24 hour window where they'll hold the reservation in case the client changes their mind again.

[@Jellybeansatdusk]

Literally I can’t even log into my Netflix without like 4 verification steps, how can people just cancel your entire wedding venue??

[@sarahrice1242]

It's not important to me which day(s) you decide to upload on, nor whether it's everyday, every other day, or whatever frequency YOU choose. What IS important to me is that you take care of your own needs before ours. You've created a space here that makes a ton of folks happy. (myself included, obv) It wouldn't be such a joy if I knew it was causing you stress. Cherish yourself, queen Charlotte! We already do!

[@blackcreators]

Family can be the worst. I haven't spoken to my brother in years because of something he did. My sister's, for years, always thought I was the AH for not wanting anything to do with him. They figured it out when my mom passed. My sister was the executor of her will so she was in charge of what went where. She went over to my mom's house to start inventorying everything and when she walks in the door she finds my brother, his wife and half of her family going through everything in the house. A ton of stuff was already loaded into the U-hall truck they had rented and they refused to return anything. Sis blocked in their truck and got the cops involved. The police forced him to return everything. It took years but he finally showed his true face to both my sisters.

[@pmccray551]

I'm so sorry. I'm at a no contact with my mom and sister. Unfortunately, the pain of betrayal is most times brought about by those you break bread with. 😢

[@mitsuomits9077]

Oufff that was a horrible thing to do. It's almost as if he didn't even respected your mom's wishes. Your sister acted cleverly and quickly. I'm sorry that you lost your mom🙏🏽 I hope that the relation with your sisters is healthy now.

[@blackcreators]

@@mitsuomits9077 the story actually gets way worse, it was a really crappy month

[@MLLambert]

That first story was delightful, and her eye makeup was flawless!!!

[@what_equals_42]

Omfg, absolutely. I screenshotted her makeup. It was so on point.

[@redeye1016]

I thought it was horrible 😂 hey different strokes for different folks!! But I loved her story haha

[@nicolegroves6880]

@redeye1016 I don't think it was "horrible" but it's definitely not as great as they're making it out to be!

[@emisthem6562]

Being a shiftworker, the M, W, F and Su uploading achedule feels like the right way to go. Start off a week, get to the middle of the week, and even end a week with a dose of Petty ❤

[@kecopenh]

Yeah, I like that schedule too. It's predictable and you know when to look forward to the new video.

[@Blessyourheart.]

Yesss 🙌🏼I came to the comments for this! I NEED my video come Monday 😆

[@kyrincognito]

I need the Monday ones for sure

[@sarahlovee1865]

7:35 My dad told me not to get the cops involved a few times with my brother and it always really pissed me off because the only times I wanted to he was doing some really really irrationally fucked up

[@small_and_dangerous2068]

18:54 Pay it back chains in my experience have luckily always been positive. I worked at a McDonald’s and we had a two lane drive thru. Sometimes in weird cases lane 1’s order would come through first but lane 2 car would pull forward first due to how long it took for lane 1 car to pull up. It was a thing that just happened, that was why at the pay window we always confirmed the order. A lady pulls up and I read my next screen order and she says “Oh no, that’s not mine.” And I say “Oh, okay!You’re probably the very next one then. I think this is the car behind you!” She looks at me as she gives me her card and says “Oh my goodness, did I cut in front of the car in the other lane?” I swipe her card and say “Oh um… not really? I mean sometimes cars criss cross and this thing happens.” Despite my insistence that she didn’t do anything wrong, she still felt bad and as if she had cut off the person in line. So she told me to pay for their order too. Idk, just a good story about a good faith human! :)

[@rorqiynaranjo-rivera4485]

This is a beautiful story, thank you.🥹

[@navtunez]

"Who double parks in NYC" 😂😂😂 girl as a New Yorker the answer is EVERYONE!

[@mapatterson173]

Growing up there, I just thought it was another way to park. (I was too young to drive when we moved.)

[@jpbaley2016]

Try Philadelphia. They park in the middle of the road. I sat through 2 lights to make a left turn waiting in what I thought was a line of cars waiting to turn left. I finally figured out I was waiting behind a line of parked cars. This was on Broad Street, a major street in Philly.

[@Wolfington359]

And her thinking he could get a "stat" tow was also kinda laughable. The process of dealing with 311 and then the cops is a nightmare. The only way to do it quickly is to pay it yourself. Ugh.

[@Ciborium]

My response exactly.

[@susannairisastarte5192]

I never drove when I lived there.

[@Kalena0982]

Every other day sounds good. Or every 2 days. Whatever helps your mental, that’s what is more important ❤

[@williams1718]

I miss having you everyday I can’t lie to you. But mental health is a lot more important then making us silly people laugh. Post videos when you can and when you want to. Don’t let us dictate what you’re doing with your life. We love you charlotte.

[@colourfulsouls]

Right, I’ll watch them whichever days

[@williams1718]

@@colourfulsouls it honestly gives me excitement now when I see the notification for her new videos. I’m like yaaaas girl yaaaaas give me some good times. As long as she doesn’t leave us I’ll be one happy girl 🤣

[@justynas1167]

For the “is it petty if they deserve it” question I’d say that’s why it’s petty, cuz if they don’t deserve it then the first person is just an AH. And that’s why Judge Charlotte’s ruling of pettiness is spot on bc it is basically justice delivered 👏👏

[@loriweese3970]

Take care of you girl. You are loved and appreciated so so much.

[@truesavings1988]

I love this bridal lady! She’s a real hero!!!

[@karenjohnson1523]

"You've got to make sure, that the people on your bachelorette trip are you very very very good friends". Word girl!!!!!!

[@MayaLove777]

I don't hwve friends people disappoint me

[@TheForeverEndeavor]

Usually I hoard my Charlotte videos until the Sunday evening blues roll around. And that knocks me right into gear for the petty week ahead 😊

[@cozettapierce8239]

Charlotte, you take care of yourself first! Do not let this make you feel overwhelmed. This is the same advice i would give my daughter who is around your age. If you get overwhelmed with something you love to do,it will become a burden, and you will lose your passion for it. So, as i said earlier, do what is best for you because we love your passion in your posts.

[@sarahsaurus156]

Keep on living your best life Charlotte! We'll watch you whenever you post! Personally, I'm a weekday kind of gal so I can watch you while I do my chores around the house! I'd literally watch yih any day, any time though. I'm always here for my dose of Charlotte!

[@kween-kira]

gurl! Take the time you neeeed! We are here supporting when you are around 🥰 3 times a week has been good, I just space out when I watch now instead. It's like a little treat on those days!

[@monicarose7]

As much as I miss your daily uploads ( literally my day feels better whenever I can watch your video ) I am also very happy you are taking care of your mental health, so upload whenever it's good for you and I am sure we all will be here for this!

[@TreatPeopleWithRespect]

Let’s be honest, whatever day you upload is the day I will stop what I am doing to make some afternoon tea, coffee, or a glass of wine to watch your videos with my dog 😂 and if you don’t do it as often, then I get to go back and rewatch old videos because me and my dog have been watching you since your IO days babe lol. We are real potatoes in this house!!

[@Veebaby_2052]

Same, I've been rewatching so many of her old videos, and love them still!!

[@emybalaka9556]

I've been doing the same, rewatch your old videos. Take your time to rest. We need your videos for a long time so don't get burnt out k. Take care and love you!! ❤❤❤

[@AKaDuaTufUrBiu]

In regards to your video schedule: I'm all for whatever makes you feel most at ease to do. I was in jobs where my stress levels were so high, I could barely function my simple tasks at home; it was like, "I don't want to think anymore about anything. I cannot process anything else." My mental health was a nuclear landscape. So, maybe try different days here & there & see which one works best for you & your mental health. Really do appreciate the work you & your editors put into each video. Thank you!

[@mysticseraph2213]

That wedding dress lady is just awesome and has the best stories to share; she's just the most wonderful, caring and supportive bridal gown supplier ever! As to which days are good to watch your videos: any day you choose! Whenever a new video from you pops up it's a good day, and if it isn't today then I know it will be tomorrow or the next day! So pick a schedule that works for YOU and YOUR mental and physical health 🥰

[@mbourque]

3:17 There have been many times I've had to calm down a worker on their first day when they start freaking out. I even help walk them through serving me or other customers and they seem more confident when I leave. I understand and remember my first days at new jobs, so I try to help instead of jumping on them. It helps that I raised 5 kids. I have lots of patience.

[@diannedigirolamo7961]

Being a momma myself has given me all the patience in the world!! I agree with your thought process 😊✨💯

[@MrNorker77]

Moms make the best mentors in my experience ❤

[@deerelad62]

Listening to the second story, the one about the pink dress, I’m thinking brides and the various businesses they contract with need to have a code word, or PIN, to verify their identities.

[@jeremypack7022]

Charlotte, first and foremost... Take care of you, and your physical and mental health! ❤️ We will always be here to watch you any time you want to, or, are able to post! ❤️

[@SaintLeeclops]

I was so sad because i was sure it was gonna be one day a week and to learn it's every other day makes me so damn happy, you have been therapy for losing 4 friends of over a decade. Thank you for all you do Charlotte ❤

[@shawnycoffman]

Bride / laptop debacle: Honey, why are you doing any of this? Can Sloppy Joanna not take care of her own business? 'Return to sender' was the only rational decision in that whole mess.

[@LunarisArts]

"Sloppy Joanna", the lesser known sister of "Dirty Diana"

[@agavictoria]

I was soooo glad to hear she had the laptop sent back. What a spoiled brat that girl who lost her laptop. I feel like I've been in situations like this before when I did something for people, got out of my way and then they showed no gratitude whatsoever and basically ignored me later. So I'm glad she did it. I hate such people.

[@Laura-mi3nv]

Oh no, I would have arranged to pick it up myself from UPS and then would have held it hostage for at least double the price of shipping.

[@dinasilva9263]

The first girl is so funny😂❤ I Love the way she tells her stories.

[@lotstodo]

Why does she paint the tip of her nose brown?

[@CleoVonGem]

​@@lotstodo I have to guess it's a contour thing, but she makes it look damn good. I thought she was absolutely beautiful, I wish I could do my eyeshadow like that.

[@lotstodo]

@CleoVonGem she is beautiful. I've noticed that women are painting the tip of their noses and it looks odd to me.

[@odulcina]

i am just amazed at how fun it is to listen to your videos! Stories are good but you are very good at entertaining us through it all with sounds, weird faces, comments … you are good!

[@The_Tumbler_Witch]

You need to be able to have a life outside of your work. You need to be able to care for yourself and your home life. You do what you need to do babe!!❤❤ We're going to be here no matter what!! We adore you!! Much love and many blessings!!❤❤

[@jessicamunslow7993]

Me screaming at my phone 'ITS NOT THE BRIDE' 😅😂

[@awandendlovu77]

Hie I’m not the blidddeeeeee ifykyk 😭😭😭💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@ginabell694]

I was thinking it was the mother of the bride.

[@Qwertytink]

Me too! 🎉

[@robinkholmes7127]

This is why you get passwords for everything

[@cherwilkes4564]

"It's good for my Mental Health" - We love that for you!

[@sourgir-wh6xd]

❤❤❤ I was a bridesmaid once and the bride was so horrible that from then until now, I have turned down 7 other ladies asking me to be in their weddings. I refuse to bare anymore trauma from these crazy brides. When it was my turn to get married, I had my mom as my maid of honor, my husband's dad as his best man, and my stepdaughter as the flower girl and that's it lol. We're still married after 30 years bc we figured out that a stressful wedding and stressful plans leading up to the wedding, was Not what makes a happy/successful marriage❤ Plus we have nice pics from our special day, and still have all our friendships in tact to this day. Screw spending all that money and becoming a bridezilla and losing friends for just one day. Bc it's all the wonderful days that have followed, that is what's more important❤

[@hadesbaby2180]

Charlotte you upload on a schedule that suits your needs best! be it every other day, or only a few days a week. I watch your videos the most on weekdays, when I need a good laugh the most (monday, wedsnday and friday)

[@andreaturner7207]

I still find myself saying "Morning Charlotte," and sometimes waving after all these years when her video starts up 🥔👑

[@katarenahall2942]

Me too!!!!!

[@underthesea3900]

Idk why I find that sweet😊

[@loisphelps517]

Same, I say hey girl! I also catch myself saying to people in public. Period babe or as you should. Lol

[@anneg2572]

I do too lol

[@Kenzie3551]

Same here!!

[@cherishhighvibes4283]

That story about the messy drunk bridesmaid and her forgotten laptop, why tf was it the sister of the bride's problem? I would have given her the contact info for the Airbnb and let her figure it out herself. AITA?😂😂😂😜🤣

[@katemarr1984]

Nope!

[@TerriParkinson]

No, you're not

[@mimi8352]

No you have good boundaries. 🎉

[@what_equals_42]

The stepsister one SHOULD be impossible, but I know exactly what kind of stepsister she's dealing with. If I were still in contact with my stepsister and was getting married, either she would do that or her mother would. I'd bet the bride was in a similar situation to the one I grew up in- with a stepsister who constantly compares herself to you, bullies you incessantly for anything she thinks she is better at, and throws a tantrum every time she comes off the less-favoured. Mine was always angry at the fact that I was the smart one, and always bullied me for my weight and being younger than her. My stepsister got married a while back, not long after I cut contact. I had no desire to mess with her wedding, even though she was posting all the details online. I didn't have to, really- she was mean to everyone, so she had very few people and no friends at her wedding, and had to use the groom's sisters for her entire bridal party. Also, she's never known how to dress for her shape or what fits her, so her wedding dress was badly cut and baggy. My grandma showed me a picture, and I hadn't laughed so hard in years.

[@phaedrapage4217]

I ❤ karma!

[@FoxyMumHS]

Thank you Charlotte for your amazing content. Mental health is WAAY more important than views. We’ll happily binge watch whenever we feel the need for petty 😊

[@Shaza6666]

The cookie cake story, She should have told the Karen "Oh how the cookie crumbles" before shutting the window 😂😂😂

[@kuroshitsujiz]

4:24 Great editing love the tiny Among Us in the eyes! hahaha

[@ArtemisPhanes]

Love the shirt, Charlotte! Looking great! I'm really glad that you are taking breaks and not working yourself to the bone. Monday, Wednesday, Friday, and Sunday are the days I prefer, but honestly, whichever days work best for you are fine. You do more than enough already. That wedding dress lady is always so wholesome. She clearly cares about her job, and I just love to see it. I think any bride should be happy to have her be the person they get their wedding dress from.

[@aaronsand]

In response to your question of “Is it petty if they deserve it?” I call it “giving karma a helping hand.” I’ve noticed that the universe has a tendency to reward the bad guys and punish the good guys, so I like to take matters into my own hands and give karma a helping hand by playing dirty to give the bad guys what they deserve, and boost the good guys up.

[@shadowdroid776]

If you're being petty to stick it to the assholes of the world, as long as you're extra nice to the good people out there then I'd say you're doing good with helping that karmatic balance. It's always good to make someone's day a little better when they truly deserve it. :) Honestly, I just kind of talk to people and usually the mean ones end up being really stressed out or scared about something, and they calm down after a while. Then again I work in healthcare so the 'bad' patients normally are just freaked out/nervous about stuff and don't know what to do. I've only met a handful of truly awful people.

[@aaronsand]

@@shadowdroid776 I go way further than just being petty... but I only get that way with those who truly deserve it (terrorist supporters, communist supporters, narcissistic abusers, bullies, etc,) As for the good people... I have a tendency to be way too nice and giving, to the point where I've really had to work on myself over the past few years to be less giving and nice, because people were taking advantage. I'm nice up until I'm disrespected basically. I can either be the best thing to happen to someone, or the worst... it's up to that person to choose their fate, as I treat people accordingly.

[@EmnM2010]

I'm glad our Char-Char is making space to care for herself. I've heard a lot of discourse where content creators feel beholden to and even owned by their audience, and I'm happy she isn't letting herself fall into that trap.

[@moniquevapnik3005]

Weekdays in general I like having your videos uploaded. Weekends I tend to not watch until Monday (although having multiple videos ready for me on Monday is AWESOME!!!)

[@wandaandrew6584]

Miss Charlotte..you do what you need to do for you and your employees. We don't want you to get too tired or burn out. Take care of yourself. Love your channel, I watch it every single day. God Bless you 🙏

[@anakaliaeastwood]

"You don't know how to do your job on your first day?!" "Um...nooooo."

[@Buddahmonk]

Amen to at least Mondays, nothing like a Charlotte video to get through the roughest day of the week

[@celiacsister2713]

Happy to hear you are making yourself a priority Charlotte!! Taking care of your body and mind is so important. A Monday, Wednesday, Friday schedule would make me so happy!! Gotta have my Charlotte when I’m doing my chores!! ❤️

[@Deedoof]

Step-sister probably wanted to get married first, or hates any happiness for the bride. Planning and executing the ruin of a wedding is narcissist/sociopathic behavior, and daddy paying for step-sis's mistakes is telling.

[@vertebrae9204]

that's just ahole behaviour, no need to use ableist word vomit.

[@123itisnotme]

Charlotte you don’t know this, but I am your favourite “uncle” (and fellow Torontonian) that you have not met yet😂 My wife and I delight in your videos. I am a therapist and I am so glad that you are changing your production schedule and taking care of you. You obviously make millions of people laugh, which truly is a mental health booster so take care of YOU!

[@Estivation]

It’s actually wild how people can be shocked that family members can be horrible, it really shows you haven’t ever dealt with it. Honestly, in a way, it’s a form of naïveté, people need to learn ANYONE can do something bad.

[@Ash_Carnelian]

Right? I grew up with a really shitty mom. And some people get offended on her behalf when I say I hate her. I get a lot of "But that's your mom 🥺" No, she was a woman who happened to give birth to me. She never acted like a mom.

[@Luni-ew9qw]

I too am surprised. Even if you have great parents i'd think one would atleast hear of other people having bad ones. Just listen how they treat children, especialy girls, in some other countries. Honor killings of daughters for being raped or divorcing abusive husbands, forced marriage, keeping child abuse a secret for "family honor", because not protecting your child is so honorable, just like killing your daughter and not the rapist or abuser. The list goes on.

[@Nanubaby3385]

@@Ash_Carnelianclassic case of clueless unaware ppl who have no idea what goes on behind closed doors in your day to day life if your mother was a terrible person BEFORE you were born & left unchecked of course she isn’t going to stop being horrible just because she had a kid typically ppl like that will be the ones to treat you WORSE I hope you’ve cut contact or @ the very least have low contact I can relate as I can’t really stand my father & as someone who kind of understands what you’re going through I’m gonna share something with you I would advise not wasting your hatred on her she’s just a person like you who will have to answer for all her misdeeds just like the rest of us forget her & stay away if it’s better for your mental & emotional health you can’t change who or what she is but you can limit her power over you by rebuking her BELIEVE me the buffer does WONDERS for you & as for ppl telling you “but it’s your mom blah blah” just roll your eyes a scoff as some of us aren’t lucky enough to be blessed with great parents sorry for the rant just felt like I could relate BIG time

[@StubbyandShifu]

My family was boring. 😂

[@Estivation]

@@StubbyandShifu Totally understand! My family used to be totally boring (and traumatized lol) but when I reached being a teen I got close to my oldest sister and ever since she brought up how it’s kinda toxic, everything got worse from there (we got each other tho, lol)

[@saraflomin7670]

Charlotte, I know you posted this video 9 months ago, but, I only discovered your channel about 3 months ago, so I have been binge-watching your videos! Anyway, I absolutely LOVE how you didn't edit out your sneeze at 12:31 it's adorable, and I must've gone back at LEAST 4 times, just to hear it! Bless you! Thank you for keeping your videos so real! ❤

[@bethanyhanna9464]

As much as I LOVE watching your videos, and I watch them whenever they are posted... I love that you are finding a balance that works best for YOU. You're amazing at what you so. And you deserve to enjoy your life just as much as you provide entertainment for your fans.

[@breyersfurever3352]

Charlotte idk what it is but lately your hair and makeup has just been absolutely perfect? Like did you change something idk it’s standing out to me as amazing! (It’s obvi always amazing but recently even better!)

[@kimjohnson5400]

She’s been a bit more radiant, no?

[@hamstergal643]

She's had the brows done...she had video where she got permanent lipstick as well. She gets her lashes done usually

[@greatauntlizbethg9137]

That little sticky out bit she missed drove me nuts

[@avantikabhardwaj7598]

She uses a beauty light

[@donnadavis3275]

My daughter and I catch you every time you download .. We look everyday because we look forward to watching. So, if not every day, any day is a good day Charlotte just take care of yourself it shows.❤

[@jessicad1583]

HI MOM! ❤😂 Charlotte I wrote about us before lol. So, what she said! Take care dear!

[@kimberlydyle269]

That's why in situations like this. Someone planning their wedding to avoid situations of somebody trying to cancel your order behind your back. You have a security question just like you would online. And if they can't answer that security question then do not follow through with whatever whoever is asking about.

[@Mona2Lisa]

So happy you’re taking care of yourself. I’ll watch whatever you put up because you and your team do an EXCELLENT job with the content. It’s worth waiting for.

[@MisterNotlob]

Calling a tow truck would be a much better petty solution than the coffee. That way you’re not committing a potential crime. Protect yourself 😊

[@shilohamandakoreen5964]

Not everyone can afford a tow truck

[@MisterNotlob]

@@shilohamandakoreen5964 The person whose car is being towed has to pay when they get it from impound.

[@shilohamandakoreen5964]

@@MisterNotlob not in my experience!

[@MisterNotlob]

@@shilohamandakoreen5964 Oh I see. That’s how it works where I live. You only have to pay to tow your own car.

[@Wolfington359]

@@MisterNotlob It occurred in NYC, where getting it towed requires calling the city to report it. Then waiting for the police to eventually show up and ticket it, and THEN getting a tow request made. That's the only way to NOT pay it yourself - going through legal channels. Otherwise, it would have cost him a private tow where they just move it down the street.

[@caratanwenshuensacss2516]

the petty queen strikes again. I swear her Hey Everybody always makes my day better

[@paperkrayne]

Honestly girl I love all of your videos so I think that I speak for a lot of us when I say whatever is best for your schedule and your mental health I'm sure we're all still going to show up and love and enjoy watching your videos no matter what day they're on! Sending all the love!

[@tiffanylemmons4842]

I am happy to hear that this schedule is helping your mental/physical health. As far as days go, most upload the start of the week, so I like either a Wednesday and/or Thursday vid as well as one weekend. However, it is totally up to you. You do so much as it is and are always asking for imput from us. I really appreciate it! Thank you

[@Jazzrathore5]

We love u Charlotte..pls choose whatever days u prefer for uploads.. u make our day wth ur videos..so u, a 100% deserve, all d mental peace n happiness..you do u girl ❤

[@jennyholly3793]

I noticed videos were every other day. While I miss every day, I applaud you! Family/Work balance is essential! I support you taking time for yourself!

[@wakesmom3445]

Years ago when I was pregnant with my second child, my husband and I went to the mall and were looking for a maternity parking space. We actually saw a MAN take the only available maternity spot. Just so happened that he left his window cracked. Just so happened I’d just changed a poopy diaper. Somehow that diaper found its way through the crack in his window. Oops!

[@stevewothers4209]

It's amazing how many people are ignorant about treating the people who make your food like crap

[@dinasilva9263]

First of all Charlotte looks so gorgeous❤ The editing of these vídeos is amazing, congratulations to her team. And of course, thank you Charlotte for all the laughs. This Channel means a lot to me❤