The WORST Cheating Bridezilla Of All Time *UPDATE* - REACTION

[@CharlotteDobre]

HERE IS THE UPDATE AS PROMISED! If you've seen the first part, be sure to check out the description for a time stamp!

[@kristinmary4025]

Oh yes now I see💗

[@davidguidry657]

No way! I’m popping 🍿, brewing some 🍵, and settling in to get caught up! Yay!

[@jasmingovers4403]

Yaaas

[@azure5273]

Thank you so much. This had all archetypes of a hateful person: Karen, Bridezilla, Racist, Toxic Mom, Cheater, Sh!t stirrer, just name it...

[@Lilith_Di_Vil]

Thank you for always following up I know everybody really appreciates it! It’s super frustrating when a creator doesn’t and they just leave you hanging. But you literally have never done that and it’s hugely appreciated. 💗

[@ashalindrose6055]

At first this was all funny, but the longer it went on, the more horrified I became. I was seriously relieved when it turned out that "Beth" was only joking about abandoning her children on the side of the road. At least the kids are with people who actually want them and will love them now.

[@gregbrown8881]

That was one of the points where I had to stop the video because I was just absolutely shocked. After hearing everything else that was going on with "Beth" I just assumed that she was telling the truth, but was trying to convince myself that it was a joke.

[@TraceyBoyland]

Yes I started fast forwarding.

[@Vikkilatterman]

Yes. It definitely took a bad turn at some point and it’s almost relieving that OP was in Beth’s life to just ask the simple question if she liked her kids or being a mom. Those kids deserved love and clearly she wasn’t going to give it to her. People who have been hurt continue to hurt others. It’s a sad cycle but one day Beth will grow up and have a real relationship with her children. PPD is a huge setback for a lot of moms and being honest with yourself has to be the number one action to take to get better. Say what you want about Beth and her choices with everything else. This one and only choice she made was the most selfless and crucial act of all. I think it was the beginning of her becoming another person. Like the parents in Matilda giving her up to Ms. Honey.

[@sgil3244]

The seed was planted in her head though -- it was a matter of time before she had a bad night and tried it--

[@Surftouka]

Considering what we had heard prior to that... I think most of us believed she was capable of doing it. I'm glad it's not true, but truth be I wouldn't put it past her. Thankfully those children are with parents who really want them and will love them, unlike "Beth".

[@AerynKDesigns]

honestly I'm glad she gave up the kids. I've known people like this, and people that used their kids as weapons to get money from the fathers, and take them to court constantly, and they always *always* hated the children. The kids were nothing to them and neglected like crazy. Raising a mentally well child is hard enough, but it's impossible when you give 0 shits about them. I'm not a fan of children, but no one deserves to be raised by someone that clearly hates them or sees them as nothing but a burden. I hope those kids recover and get to enjoy the new families they're in.

[@Coira2]

I'm glad, too. My nephew's mother is similar to this, except she was only interested in the attention she got from being pregnant and having a baby. Once the kid started to form a personality or she didn't get as much attention, she'd be pregnant again and the kid would be ignored. Luckily all of her kids were taken away, and are thriving with the family members of their respective fathers.

[@izzywolflover]

Back when I was in foster care there was a woman who kept getting pregnant for the financial aid. Each baby was immediately taken and put to the system after birth and this crazy woman would go right back out and get pregnant by someone random man again. She didn’t care about the kids, just the money (like my foster parents) last I heard she was on her tenth pregnancy

[@charlottesometimes1278]

@@Coira2 I know so many cases of that

[@suemetzger5302]

@@izzywolflover that's a damn shame ,can we still call her a human ?

[@izzywolflover]

@@suemetzger5302 I sure don’t

[@ittybittyADHDcommittee]

Adam sounds like a great dad, and a pretty good dude.

[@Rhaenarys]

As messed up as it sounds, honestly, giving up her kids is the best decision she could make for them. And honestly, OP would be a hero for making her realize she needs to give them up. Just asking those two questions literally could save those kids lives. Good job, OP. And if there's anything good to take from this, it's def the mom deciding to give up the kids. If she follows through, that is. Not done with the video yet lol.

[@rivertam7827]

OP 100% saved those kids lives.

[@meganroberts8721]

Yup, some get to the angry resentful part and do bad things. Just look at the kid from California State case for "Gabriel" mom and her boyfriend starved, beat, and tourchered the kid to death. Had she just left him with his grandmother where he was he would be alive and well today

[@Hummingbirdbudgets-t5i]

I agree if OP didn’t ask that question her kids would not be in a good situation to grow up strong and healthy and wondering why their mother hates them, I’m glad that Adam took his daughter because he knew he could care for her better than what her mother could, it’s sad to know that there are women out there like this and it sucks that women like my self can’t have kids but hear things like this makes my blood boil to the point of wanting to hurt the women who wants nothing to do with her kids

[@toprap88]

Its far from messed up, If you cant give your kid a happy life you should give them away to someone in a position to do that. I grew up in a violent home and it completely destroyed my life, I`m 35 now and I`m still struggling with my past. This is no joke for children, Mental abuse is the same as being beaten physically not exactly but it can also destroy life, You wont succeed in life with a weak mind

[@toprap88]

@@Hummingbirdbudgets-t5i Well this is the parents fault, Its your job to look after your kid. They clearly didn`t, A mother would never be hostile against their children unless they have been treated the same as kid, its not that she dont like her kids, She just have too much hate to her family that she cant take it.This is exactly why I never gotten kids yet cause I grew up in a violent home, I know I wont be bad to my kids but you cant have responsibility over someone else lives if you have underlaying issues, Deep down she knows that, Thats why she gave them up. In this age its the parents who are fucked up not the kids, People should keep that in mind and dont blame them. There`s a reason we have so many single mothers now, Its because they haven`t been raised right. I know the feeling she has, I hated the world for 20yrs because of my father and became extremely violent towards people, Even looking at me was a bad idea So I understand her. Most people have no idea how much this will hurt a kid mentally

[@hannahshearman1602]

I’m so RELIEVED that all those poor kids ended up with parents who loved them and wanted to take care of them.

[@stillfangirlingtoday1468]

Life isn't a book with a definite ending until you're dead. I'm glad she gave up her children, but it would be better to put them for adoption through the system instead (except baby A), why? Because she will have contact with the woman she gave up her baby to, which means she could come back years later to try to become part of the children's life or demand money from them "because she is their real mother". I can just see it.

[@LanceCorporalKitty]

I just hope babies A, B and C are able to get to know each other and have a good relationship.

[@AuntLoopy123]

Me, too! Giving them to those people, SPECIFICALLY to those people, was the BEST thing she could ever do, as a mother. She probably wanted to give them away, for years, but didn't because she would be viewed as selfish and bad. It was BRAVE to give them up. And it was for their own good. As much as she hated being a mother, she KNEW people would judge her harshly for giving them up, so she kept them as a shield against that judgement. When you're a bad mother, you can't win. Keep them, and you're a bad mother. Give them up, and ... you're a bad mother. Except that, if you ARE a bad mother, giving them up IS THE BEST THING YOU COULD EVER DO FOR YOUR CHILDREN! Giving your children up for adoption IS the loving option. I truly hope that the new parents teach their children that their mother gave them up OUT OF LOVE for them. She didn't like being a mother, true. But she CHOSE to PROTECT them from her future self, putting them in SAFE places before she lost control and hurt them, as she inevitably would, if she kept them any longer. She'd grow to resent and hat them. She might even grow to ENJOY the abuse. I hope they teach their children that THEY ARE LOVED, and to never feel bad about being given up by their birth mother.

[@shanellecaptain1229]

😊😅😊😊😊​@@LanceCorporalKitty

[@RainbowAnimeCupcake]

I imagine beth and chad won’t last long with the baby gone to a new home but I honestly am so happy she got a new doctor who gave her BC. The fact that she was denied it when she was a teen mother is INSANE to me. I’m also glad she realized she doesnt want to be a mother and will probably put more effort towards not getting pregnant again and I’m glad baby A is with her loving father and B and C have a new family that love them and B can still see his grandparents. Beth may be mentally unstable and not a very nice person but I see this as the best ending we couldve gotten to this shit show. I hope she eventually gets help

[@RosesSpindle]

It isn't the worst thing Beth has done, but the part that sticks out to me the most is her wanting to basically steal Christmas from her children so she can make the holiday all about herself instead. Like just about every other commenter has said, thank God those kids are being raised by people who actually care about them now.

[@ZieSpiralOut]

100% She’s the type of mom who would end up with an ahole who abused her kids and she would not care one bit. Or she’d snap one day and start hitting them or worse. They are very very lucky they aren’t being raised by her anymore.

[@kahla3363]

I call bullshit on the Xmas situation anyways. I've never heard of a courthouse that's even OPEN on xmas day. Am I crazy?

[@aimeewaldron383]

You're not crazy, they're definitely not open on Christmas. But it was never said she got married that day, just that she tried to (not sure why Chad didn't think of that and tell her?) during a live stream and got pissed that it was closed. Then scared baby with her yelling and called baby a c***. ​@@kahla3363

[@kiram.3619]

That's all a clusterfck, but can we address how that first DOCTOR LIED to her about pills and pregnancy prevention?! She didn't want to get pregnant anymore and it could have stopped this whole mess from getting so problematic. That doctor is horrible and definitely should get the brunt of the blame.

[@kiram.3619]

@@steph8030593 He is a professional! Listening to the mother is exactly the problem. Wtf is he doing?! And she already had children if I remember correctly, so if that was the mothers "reason" she is far gone. As i said, this situation is full of horrible decisions/people, but a professional shouldn't let themselves be controlled by (more or less random) people. It is unacceptable to lie to patients. It is unacceptable to jeopardise their health and life just so family members can control what happens to her body and her life. He ain't professional. He is disgusting.

[@frickfrack7075]

@@kiram.3619 100% agree!!!

[@booperdooper9762]

@@steph8030593 By her second pregnancy, I assume she became a legal adult, to which, her mother has no right in her medical choices. The family friend doctor was refusing medication that could've helped Beth simply because they're biased.

[@booperdooper9762]

That doctor should have their license revoked.

[@MamaMOB]

Well if she was breast-feeding then the doctor didn’t lie to her. You do know that if you’re breast-feeding your child you can’t take hormonal birth control because it’ll affect the baby right? If a breast-feeding mother takes estrogen so does her baby. No one wants a baby on estrogen.

[@allygatorrampage]

She just couldn’t stop destroying herself, and in her pain tried to bring others down with her. It’s sad and reprehensible.

[@thedragodile545]

"I didn't go on her Facebook page until the evening because I didn't want to deal with drama first thing in the morning." We are not the same. I'm gonna need Beth's socials.

[@ZariaTudor1]

Very this

[@robynescott2291]

Same! In fact, I'd love that FB page so I can keep up with Beth's "journey". Seriously, I want that page.

[@juym4256]

@@robynescott2291 so have found the account yet? Plssss let me know 😂😁

[@LonaSzink]

@@juym4256 saaaame please haha

[@tialee9334]

Update if you find Beth's socials pls 😂

[@emirom2]

Everything that “Beth” has done is insane and horrifying, and thank god those kids ended up in loving homes. Yet, for my curiosity’s sake I’m dying to know if anyone actually attended her wedding and gave in to her crazy demands!?

[@Coops1985]

did the wedding even happen? chad was doing the right thing but she gave up the kid...

[@EPalsson]

No, they eloped so probably no one attended.

[@rachelsato7953]

I’m curious too - cause Chad was cheating on her, so did they even have a wedding? Or did Chad find someone else to run off with?

[@Tasha9315]

@@Coops1985 I'm curious too. I can't see why they would give up Baby C if the wedding happened and they were still together. Either way, apparently even Chad is lousy father who didn't step up for his kid. Only Adam of the 3 dads seems to care for his child. Maybe she should just stuck with baby daddy #1 Adam and not have cheated.

[@mandagray7320]

I would have printed all the kids photos that she had on social media and made a scrap book and sent it to her for a wedding gift.

[@Elithrae]

Oh I *like* the way you think.

[@chiefelephanttuskbong8081]

Love that idea 👍

[@mariondesousa7718]

I doubt there would be many photos of the children.

[@Necromancer0225]

I bet Satan's a fan of you 😅😂

[@richardjones4662]

@@Necromancer0225 , I'll bet Satan is a fan of Beth (and Beths parents).

[@azure5273]

Beth is the epitome of a problematic person and seriously needs to seek professional help ASAP... I'm shocked that there were people on that thread who took her side. at first it was funny but now I'm genuinely upset. It is a serious condition when you don't feel remorse and aren't self aware. I was not surprised to find that her whole family (even people involved with her like BF B and C) are the same material... My heart broke for those children...

[@AndyStarzs1]

Wdym same material? BF A was actually a good person. He was actually in love with her and wanted to marry her. But she went on cheated on him and got pregnant.

[@azure5273]

@@AndyStarzs1 oh yeah I forgot about that bit. Should I edit my comment? Ooh yeah he was the responsible parent in this situation

[@AndyStarzs1]

@@azure5273 lol. Yea. He even got their kid taken away from her cause she’s crazy. He was the first one to take his kid back and he was paying child support and for everything involving his baby while she just sat there.

[@InteriorDesignStudent]

Seems obvious her parents really stunted her development. They told her counseling is for "crazy" people and birth control is for sluts. When she needed them most, they kicked her out.

[@amylynnsgraphics]

Her cheating on Adam and constantly rejecting him was her biggest mistake, he genuinely loved and cared about her, not to mention he wanted to do the right thing by her, but bfs B and C I think used her and probably had an equal hand in messing her up even if she should 100% take responsibility for her actions. I'm glad her other kids are being raised by people who actually want them and love them. Women like her do not deserve to be mothers.

[@annmoore321]

You know… my favorite part of this story is how “Beth’s” three kids got to live with parents who actually love, and care for them. I genuinely hope “Beth” never got pregnant again because no child deserves to live in that sort of environment.

[@rivertam7827]

Beth needed her tubes tied.

[@Sunshine4]

Good thing she is in Canada and hopefully will make the right decision and terminate the pregnancy or better get her TUBES TIED!!

[@bhart3321]

Oh I'm sure she will. Short of a legal order forcing her to get her tubes tied she'll forget or go off her bc when a new guy comes along that gives her the tingles.

[@jenniferd264]

Sadly I think 2 things are a given. Her getting pregnant again and Chad cheating on her, again. OP is a Hero, imo!

[@duckeh1952]

@@bhart3321 yeah she'll drop bc first time new guys come and "it will be different this time"

[@Breathefreemylove]

The whole situation is honestly heartbreaking, Beth is clearly such a broken person

[@Batgirl4117]

That talk at the clinic was definitely the saddest part and spoke volumes. “Do you even want your kids? Do you even want to be a mom?” “…No” I feel like Beth needed that talk, and I don’t blame her for giving up her kids. She gave them to people who wanted them and can give them a better life more ever than she or the system could. She’s delusional, and sadly bitter and closed minded because of it, but she went through trauma and never got the right treatment nor coping she needed, even if she had some help to keep her afloat. She didn’t have “real” friends that stayed by her side through and through it seems like, her family wasn’t supportive, and the only form of love she got was toxic and thought marriage and kids and a family would fix all that… I hope one day she can truly leave Chad, focus on herself, and get the help she needs …

[@Batgirl4117]

@@TvTrollByIvy I can understand that. She’s at an age where she is finally held responsible for her own actions and consequences, and no one including myself can ask for anything different really. However I do hope she gets some further awakening and gets help to become a better person, mostly for herself, and people can see she’s changed, because I feel like at this point she needs to change for herself, not others, and that may be selfish, but sometimes you go too far in life, but the only really you need to change is because everyone else already sees no hope in you and you used to think it was everyone else’s fault, but now you realizes you can make a change and in reality something’s in your life sucked ass and it made you not such a great person in the end…

[@Katfall2012]

I know a woman like this... or she dated my bf and my ex, she had 5 kids in like 4 years and gave 3 of them to her 2nd baby dad's ex step mom (all 5 have different dads) and my bf said she'd just let them do whatever they wanted and refused to teach them or anything. Thankfully they're with good people now but no clue what happened to her last 2, just that she doesn't have them

[@adamwestervelt730]

Honestly, I truly feel the worst for Adam. That poor man just wanted to marry the woman he loved and take care of their child. I wonder how much better her life might have been if she had accepted his proposal.

[@yesthatmousyiris4887]

He's better off without Beth, she is very problematic and not mentally stable. Not marriage material. Adam dodge a bullet.

[@jaccat4336]

True but his life would have been a lot worse 😅. Probably for the best that he move on with his daughter. Maybe one day he’ll find someone nice who can be a positive partner/ mother figure.

[@alonasnnab4098]

Wait r u Adam?😮

[@justso4509]

@@alonasnnab4098 * A l l n a m e s w e r e f a k e n a m e s * 6:39

[@Katfall2012]

She would've walked all over him and left him further traumatized

[@Marshmelanoma]

My grandmother left my Mom on the side of the road when she was 8-10. She's psychotic and hasn't apologized to anyone for her actions.

[@iHeartAmySue]

Omg I’m sorry

[@Marshmelanoma]

@@iHeartAmySue thanks, she's almost dead now anyway so it's hard for us to care

[@richardjones4662]

My sister-in-law left her 9 year old in front of his dads house (late at night) with a small box of clothes) and didn't even walk her son up to the door. Note: she only raised 1 (of 3) sons herself. Her ex-raised one. Her parents raised the other. All 3 have different fathers.

[@AntivenomAdams]

I knew a guy whose mother abandoned him at a gas station when he was 10. She was a nurse.

[@heathermcgrath22]

Lol

[@IBAmyB]

Dang. I feel so sorry for the poor kiddos who were caught in this mess. I am glad Baby A is with Adam. It sounds like he really cares for his daughter and despite becoming a dad at a young age really stood up and took his responsibility seriously. I am also glad Babies B & C are with a couple who want them and will let Baby B get to see her biological grandparents as well.

[@CaroleJ.V]

Especially with how much money and supplies he sent for her. I hope he has a good life and maybe finds a soulmate one day

[@Reira_Newgate]

I feel so bad for the kids! Imagine them growing up and finding out about all that went down inlcuding their mother's mistreatment towards them that is officially forever online and her publicly giving up on them. I hope they never get to a point where this makes them feel unloved...

[@persatheo8817]

This is the craziest thing I have heard. That bride is a total narcissist with zero empathy, lack of boundary recognition and a sense of entitlement among so many other toxic behaviors! But I am all for this drama!!! Thank you Charlotte for finding this sh@# storm of a story and following up with a part 2.

[@WeAllLiveInTheTwilightZone]

I'm going to assume she has histrionic personality disorder as well. The constant ranting and raving on social media for attention, the demands, the cheating and attention she craves from men, etc. I'm going to also assume there is an underlying depression and fear of abandonment.

[@nutelloza]

I mean a lot of this is her parents fault

[@teegee9428]

@@nutelloza no its not... She made her decisions. The parents were wrong to kick her out cz of child A but that girl made her decisions & they can't be blamed on anyone else

[@nutelloza]

@@teegee9428 just because someone is an adult who makes choices doesn’t mean we can’t see and acknowledge the role other people play in their lives. In this case her parents played quite a large one.

[@angela7014]

@@nutelloza oh please, was it her parents who told her to go and have unprotected s*x ??!! It would have been understandable if it were one mistake but doing it THRICE?!! That's what we call stupidity 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Canthus13]

Beth sounds like one of my exes if she'd made all the wrong choices. She tried like hell to keep her kid and be a good mom, but she realized she hated being a mom. She gave up parental rights to her ex and his new wife, got her tubes tied so she'd never have to worry about it again... She also had a lot of mental health issues and went on to get into a couple of more abusive relationships before finally getting her mental health under control and finding a career that makes her happy. I'm very proud of her. Hopefully Beth gets to a place like that eventually.

[@AmethystEyes]

Wait where did it say she got her tubes tied?

[@Canthus13]

@@AmethystEyes nowhere. I was referencing an ex of mine.

[@ofthedarknessthemoonlight5412]

I'm really glad to hear that your ex got some help. Sometimes we just aren't equipped to do the things we think we want to do. I'm also really glad that she was able to place her child in a more supportive living environment. I'm sure that must have been a very tough realization to have, and kudos to her for doing the right thing by her kid. And to you for recognizing that and being proud of her!

[@shinumi85]

There's 3 horrible issues in this story: The fact that she became a teen mom was her own mothers fault, I'm pretty sure the family's doctor refusal to give her contraception was her mother's doing. Her personal trauma is part of the reason why she doesn't want to go to therapy, from what I gathered, from the type of family she has, going to therapy is admitting you're the problem. Giving up her children was the only healthy thing about this whole story as she's been taking out her frustration, trauma and hatred on them. Taking into account that she's displaying really aggressive behaviour she needs help, which she won't accept because she's obviously been brought up in such an unhealthy manner than asking for help is accepting defeat, this will only escalate, I truly feel sorry for her crazy ass.

[@piiinkDeluxe]

this

[@franksnbeans7413]

Yeah I just feel bad for her to be honest. Having people judge you from just what they see on Facebook when your mental health is suffering and then condescendingly asking you where your kids are and then acting like all they care about if your mental health even though they've been straight up gossiping about you. Everyone sucks here.

[@shinumi85]

@Nicky L the person who narrated this said she had asked her Dr for birth control but because the Dr was the GM (or is it MG?) For her mom and sister he refused her request every time (we can blame her for not searching for another doctor). If what you mean is the use of condoms that's not up to her, we can agree she's at fault for agreeing to have unsafe sex, but she's not the one who uses the condom.

[@alexiswilliamsinc]

@@shinumi85 Beth’s mom (parents??) sounds like she did much worse than just keep contraception from her.

[@GamerNerdess]

Her getting pregnant as a teen was her fault. Her mother didn't force her to have unprotected sex. Stop.

[@alphawolf2157]

Honestly, I kind of feel sorry for Beth. Considering how her parents acted with her, I can only guess that she had a rough childhood. Then she became pregnant, got post-partum depression (most likely), and never got out of it because no one was there for her. No one was teaching her. And then she just spiraled. I hope that she will get better

[@jalenc1997]

Honestly same.. and that bit towards the end about being denied birth control screams red flags to me... she didn't want to be a mom and going through all that.. no wonder she lost her God dammed mind

[@StimParavane]

Women are ALWAYS victims no matter wat they do...

[@TryMyMartini]

Don't feel sorry for Beth, or anyone in the story. Everything on these Reddit subs are just fictional stories, or slightly true but embellished to the point of ridiculousness.

[@Kaastengels]

​@@TryMyMartini just because your life is boring doesnt mean others' are

[@dkrucker88]

I read the update and she’s not really better. She’s now a feminist who believes in women’s reproductive rights while Chad is a sexist who believes women should be forced to have babies. They did marry but are miserable. Chad has a mistress but Beth doesn’t care. OP saw her post was read by Charlotte Dobre and was nervous that Beth would find out but turns out Beth has asked 15 other women to be MOH and 8 other women were in OP’s position. Beth got therapy but the bridge between her and OP has been burned. Beth’s sister came out gay and her parents kicked her out but the relationship between Beth and her sister still hasn’t healed. OP is doing pretty well for her self. But as for Beth until she realizes that Chad is a scumbag she will forever be stuck in her personal hell unless she divorces him and moves on.

[@Mombie4]

😲 and Adam sounds like such a nice guy and good dad. She probably could have had a pretty good life with him. 🤦🏽‍♀️ So glad the kids are being taken care of. Those poor babies.

[@RayRayP2001]

The fact that you do both sides of the dating and cheating spectrum gives me so much respect for your channel. Keep being you for real.

[@msmiseree1981]

As crazy as everything was in this story, the silver lining is that she realized she really did not want to be a mom and the kids are all now with loving people who will take care of them. As unhinged as she sounded through a lot of that, I don't think it would have taken much to completely set her off and somehow hurt them, even if it was "unintentional" in her mind. She really does sound like she needs therapy, even if it is just to talk about everything that has happened in just 5 years. Therapy doesn't have to be because you are "crazy". Sometimes it's just nice to be able to unload all your thoughts and feelings to a 3rd party who won't judge you for it.

[@3terna_tea]

Lots of people don't realize that you don't have to have anything "wrong" to talk to someone. While I agree that Beth is a walking red flag, we have to consider the type of environment she was brought up in from being kicked out of the house at such a vulnerable age, being denied contraception or birth control, her own family sabotaging her, etc. Her refusing to go to therapy pretty much tells us everything 'cause of how stigmatized it is, & it's absolutely messed up. If anything, as awful as she went about it, the only thing she did right was give up her children, and it worked out, 'cause they're in loving & healthier environments.

[@jennpzc4925]

I have soooo many mixed feelings about this story. I'm just happy that none of the kids are with Beth - horrible horrible person! I do believe she suffers from post-maternal depression and more things, given that her parents kicked her out. Just crazy crazy story, thank you Charlotte for this update... only you could do this in a funny way! As always, you lift up my mornings with your videos! 🦈🦈🦈

[@davidsmnje]

Bipolar disorder is a strong possibility, she seems to be suffering from Manic episodes.

[@louisejohnson6057]

I think postpartum psychosis is what would be more likely. My best friend suffered greatly, with this after the birth of her second child.

[@davidsmnje]

@@louisejohnson6057 postpartum can be classified as: 1. Postpartum Blues: totally normal said person just had a baby it's OK to feel overwhelmed. Baby is NOT in any danger, can last upto 2 weeks. 2. Postpartum Depression: postpartum blues lasting over 2 weeks is considered depression, can last for months, symptoms and signs of depression present, NO thoughts of harming the baby are present. 3. Postpartum Psychosis: this is a medical emergency thoughts of self harm/ harming the baby are present. It is a psychotic break can include auditory/visual hallucinations, delusions and many other symptoms. Requires immediate medical treatment. What causes it? No one knows. But people with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder are at a higher risk of experiencing postpartum psychosis. Since she gave the kids up knowing she didn't want them and it was better for them, psychosis doesn't fit, postpartum psychosis is extremely dangerous, if she would have left the kids on that road or tried to harm them then that diagnosis would be a better fit! Postpartum checkups are extremely important, don't miss them and never be afraid or ashamed about how you're feeling post birth, let those who love you know how you're feeling, it's OK!

[@ellingtonfeint13]

@@davidsmnje At the end of the day it is impossible to diagnose somebody through a Reddit post, written by another person, who got a lot of information via Facebook, but thanks for the general info!

[@louisejohnson6057]

@@davidsmnje , I'm a 60 yr old woman. No worries about postpartum anything with me, thank Goddess.

[@not_you_i_dont_even_know_you]

Honestly I'm glad she had that moment of self awareness about not wanting to be a mom. Better those kids grow up with people who love them.

[@dawnf.1703]

I’m completely exhausted after that story! I am so glad she gave up custody of her kids. They deserve better

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Me too. Those babies still have a chance to grow up in a loving home.

[@user-nk1rk2uo8p]

So does she! I mean she was 19 she was a kid herself

[@KimmietheAunt]

You know, I was one of the people who asked for the rest of the story.... I wish I had not. Beth has so many problems, including destructive narcissism; she needs serious help but is so deeply invested in believing in her self victimization and, frankly, she is addicted to her own negativity. The only thing outsiders can hope for is that those children are removed from her influence so that they might have a chance to grow better than they ever could with her raising them. Such a shame that OP had to endure a slur before cutting Beth out of her life. We all need a cleanse after that story

[@mariagarcia-pb8rw]

I definitely need a cleanse after this those kinds of people make me sick.

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Yeah. I'm kinda sorry now that asked also! I need sage, prayer and a huge bottle of red wine now!

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

@@mariagarcia-pb8rw same here

[@aliioana8586]

As a PhD student my first real moment of holy crap concern was the part where Brad is having an affair with his TA. That’s a massive Title IX violation at best and could actually be much worse depending on the specifics. Now I must know what happened with/to the TA. Assuming she’s a graduate TA she is going to land herself in a LOT of trouble and my curious ass is worried about that ultimately irrelevant detail to this whole shiteshow of a situation😭😭

[@Blue_Star_Child]

Maybe, I was a TA while I was an undergrad because it was a job the university offered each semester. You had to have done well in the class and be in that major though.

[@bm-ww8kb]

@@Blue_Star_Child lol theyre literally getting their doctorate.. they know how TA's work. they even hold your hand for that fact in the comment youre replying to.

[@lendag861]

As awful as social media is, if "Beth" hadn't posted the entire history of her life and OP hadn't witnessed it she wouldn't have had that conversation that made Beth realize she wanted to give up custody of those children. Likewise, there wouldn't have been documented proof of her neglect for "Adam" to gain custody at all. It's sickening to think people like this exist who then traumatize their own children, and give single moms/moms with kids from multiple partners a bad reputation.

[@PierreMiniggio]

yup, OP truly did one of the, if not the best, things she could do to help her and her children.

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Facts!

[@moonsaces2122]

Sometimes, when my life feels crappy, I’ll come back and watch this. It’s a nice reminder that as bad as I feel it could be so much worse.

[@haramichiyo]

As an expectant mother, I was horrified reading about the treatment of those children. I couldn't even dream of doing anything like that to my future child/children. I'm so so glad they are somewhere safer now

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Me too. As an aspiring mother myself, this is one of my biggest pet peeves, garbage people popping out dozens of kids when they shouldn't have even had one. Having children and not being able to take care of them.

[@kadygirlforever]

Hope motherhood is treating you well ❤

[@mmmmmmolly]

I "like" how the parents kept kicking Beth out like they had no say whatsoever about how their daughter was raised, and judged her like she wasn't literally their daughter who you're supposed to teach and guide to be a decent human

[@PyrokineticFire1]

tbf they may have tried for years. at some point, they have to realize they're atleast partially responsible for how she's currently acting. if they haven't taught and guided her yet, it would be arrogant to think that they'd be able to in the future (especially now, as an "adult" she doesn't need to listen to them). sadly they're part of the problem and maybe they gave up too soon... but that's better than enabling her, which is probably what they did her entire childhood.

[@princessbunny80085]

@@PyrokineticFire1 they also kicked her out as soon as she got pregnant I think if they had supported and given her more guidance and she could get a better education she probably would’ve learned to be more responsible and not have anymore babies for a while after the first one, but that’s only if they were good parents lol

[@StimParavane]

Women are ALWAYS victims no matter what they do...

[@bm-ww8kb]

@@PyrokineticFire1 she was 15 when she got pregnant. sorry. youre not done raising your child... you dont get to abandon her when youre sick of it. clearly that had an affect on her

[@solarisjade2292]

Yeah this, like, they kicked her out during the first pregnancy, i cannot imagine how painful that was. Ive been disowned by my dad (but not my mother) but i cant imagine being pregnant and not knowing what to do

[@makaylabyron972]

As a mom of 2, I will always support and try to help my kids. Even if they made horrible decisions like Beth. Sometimes all you can do is be there for them.

[@hitomireiki7298]

I'm so worried about the kids for the first years "Beth" had custody. The eldest was 4yrs old and hearing their own mother saying curse words, being surrounded by a toxic situation and being neglected that much would have a lot of struggles mentally after that. Kudos to "Adam" who fought for his child and to the other guardians of this story because they were saved before anything worse can happen to them. "Beth" needed to be in therapy because she is so destructive. That needy personality is too much for anyone even "Chad" at this point since she was the reason that divided the family.

[@AuntLoopy123]

I'm not surprised he cheated on her. 1) He's already an established cheater. 2) She is cray-cray, and he needed some RELIEF, and decided to look for it in the arms of another woman. I just hope the other woman isn't just as cray-cray as Beth. Also, I DO hope Beth gets that help she needs. No shade on people with mental health disorders. We need to STOP STIGMATIZING people in need of mental health help, and ENCOURAGE people to get the help, not discourage or shame them for it. I also hope that CHAD gets some mental health help, because something attracts him to at least one woman like that, and keeps him with her ("It's the right thing to do" is PART of it, but only part), and obviously, he has some ISSUES that need to be addressed. Some people are addicted to drama.

[@MamaMOB]

@@AuntLoopy123 as a person with a mental illness yes we do need to destigmatize getting help for mental health issues however we don’t need to make these things excuses for bad behavior which is exactly what we’re doing. I am responsible for my behavior whether or not I’m in a bipolar episode. It is 100% my responsibility. Just like her behavior is 100% her responsibility whether or not she has a mental health issue. Her having a mental health issue doesn’t make her behavior towards her children any better. Doesn’t make her behavior towards her family any better. Doesn’t make her behavior towards police and therapists and social workers and complete strangers any better. Even if she does get the help she needs she’s going to have a huge apology tour to go on because she is responsible for her own behavior. That is a part of any good doctors mental health routine. Taking responsibility for your own actions. So stop excusing behavior because of mental health issues it’s not helping anyone.

[@sandyjamison5929]

This exemplifies why no one should be forced to have an unwanted child. Thankfully, this time, it worked out for the children. Far too often, this isn't the case because hypocrites believe they have the right to dictate other people's lives. I truly hope "Beth" gets whatever help she needs & the birth control she requested. Every woman isn't fit for or wants motherhood.

[@michelebrown9923]

Really? I missed the part where Beth tried to get an abortion and couldn't. It's legal in Canada.

[@luniARTic]

@@michelebrown9923 I think it's a comment on what's happening in the USA right now. Also she did say that her first doctor didn't want to give her any back then.

[@RedCharlie1000]

I agree. Not every woman makes a mother. Not every child is wanted. Whatever reason. Abortion is NOT birth control. But I agree it should be available for those choosing that option. Making a woman have/keep a child she doesn’t want is a setup for disaster for both people. Nothing good will come from forcing a person to raise an unwanted child. Just perpetuating an already terrible predicament to continue

[@fonjadidi]

@@michelebrown9923 we wouldn't know anyways, not many people would openly talk about it.

[@michelebrown6143]

@@luniARTic no s Sherlock. Just saying no one forced her to get pregnant or give birth. She does have choices. And she can buy condoms. And she repeated her mistake. Twice. I'm all for sterilizing her.

[@staceygrahame2504]

Honestly - Charlotte’s variety of slightly unhinged faces being superimposed in the most rudimentary way onto everyone and everything that appears in a graphic, is truly genius and just makes me lol so much. It’s such a simple thing but it’s SO effective, especially coupled with the timing of the appearance of the pictures! 😂😂😂😂❤

[@PoochieCollins]

Your makeup and hair in your DP look really good. And yes, Charlotte's reactions in these videos are really good XD

[@ALBION4510]

An FBI advisory board later found that roughly 40 percent of officers who filled out questionnaires in a number of different settings admitted to being physically violent with their spouse in the previous six months. The general population data for self-reported abuse is closer to 4 percent when people are asked to report on the last 12 months.

[@ChewieIsMyLover]

I am reminded of a couple I went to high school with who got married immediately after graduation. The social media chaos through the disintegration of their relationship and the nastiest divorce I’ve ever seen was horrifying to watch, especially since a child was involved, but HOLY MOLY was it entertaining as hell.

[@kaylahface]

Lmfao! I keep warning my baby’s father to get the fuck away from his psychotic girlfriend who was married and he cheated on me with! Or else this is what’s going to end up happening to him! Except she doesn’t dare show her face on Facebook anymore because she knows she’d get it!

[@annawimpey5307]

I too am shocked at how easily people will air their dirty laundry on social media as if it were a flag to be saluted. Post actual bald faced lies.

[@Coops1985]

i worked with 2 ppl that got married, popped out 3 kids and then had a very acrimonious divorce with too many details shared on facebook (and i was friends with both of them).

[@jessicaclark7130]

As some who has HAD 3 kids in four years (albeit from the same dad… and we are married) it is difficult. But I am *DISGUSTED* that she would neglect her kids while they are crying and yell at them just for being kids. There’s a lot of pent up shame that she imposes on her children. I hope Adam can keep his daughter. He obviously loves her dearly

[@alanarama]

It's wild cause her frontal lobe hadn't even finished developing and she had 3 kids can't imagine how hard it was and I hope she did give them up but started contact when she got herself better. Poor kids

[@alexia3552]

18:26 "you just made a joke about child abandonment, you're not being serious enough" dude. That was honestly so healing to me. If they can arbitrarily state "you're being too serious" then I can arbitrarily state that they're not being serious enough. Who says their word is better than mine? Them, probably, lmao. So nope. Now I know what my energy to "lighten up it's a joke" is gonna be.

[@martivanneste]

Hey Charlotte, I wanted you to know that you have helped me through some dark days. I found your channel by accident about a year ago. You have helped me find laughter again. I have Bipolar Disorder type 1 and lupus. I was majorly depressed and wanted to die. Then I saw your videos. I went back and watched all of them. My emotional support animal, Sophie has been along for the ride. Now whenever she hears your voice she runs and jumps up beside me. She knows how much I love your channel and how much I love you. Thank you for everything.

[@AuntLoopy123]

I am about to have surgery and will be unable to DO THINGS for a full three months, and all I will be able to do is watch videos. For three months. I'm going to go mad. BUT! I have a lot of Charlotte Dobre to look forward to, and that helps me think I can get through this. Just watching her makes me smile, and she picks those clips and stories that make me think, "Even at my worst, my life is better than that! Yaaay! Silver linings!" Seriously, if you ever suffer from bad self-esteem, watch a Charlotte Dobre video, and you'll feel better about yourself, in comparison... Unless you ARE ON the video! Haha!

[@MsCartoon23]

The only good thing I can say about Beth is her decision to give up her kids. She may have done it because she didn’t want them. She may not have acknowledged that she was a bad mom. But at least she didn’t insist on keeping them, at least she didn’t force them to live with a mother that doesn’t love them. We’ve all heard the stories of kids being raised by narcissists or neglectful parents who don’t love them, the abuse and neglect that they can experience is heartbreaking. So I’m glad those kids are living with people who will love them and hopefully be good parents.

[@LinWarai]

my heart dropped when beth joked about abandoning her kids on the side of the road really shows what kind of person she is when a joke like that sounds so believable… yikes

[@AeriaGl0ris]

All right, so the healthiest parts about this are a) Beth giving up her kids so they can go to homes where they will be loved and cared for as ought to be, and b) the OP saying "Nope, I'm done here" and cutting Beth off for good. Well, I wanted an update. Somehow it didn't occur to me that it would be an update that made ME feel like I needed therapy afterwards. This was...a fucking hellish ride.

[@Shawn-rq4py]

I would bet the girl was dealing with very bad postpartum depression. When new mothers neglect, harm or hate their kids etc PPD is most likely the culprit. Especially w her going through all that trauma I’m almost positive that’s what happened. I’m glad she didn’t hurt them like so many new moms do. My wife had bad PPD after our daughter and a miscarriage, multiple deaths in the immediate family and more. Luckily we got her help quickly. From reading all this she definitely needs to see someone. When she heals from all this and her mind is clear again I’m sure she’ll regret giving her kids away. It’s so sad really

[@dalpz205]

1/500 experience postpartum psychosis. It's common but barely acknowledged in the medical world. I think that's what "Beth" is dealing with. Glad things worked out well for you! PPD is no joke either.

[@OrontesRM]

mandatory: "I'm not a doctor" - but it looks more like paranoia to me; 'beth' is constantly writing as if everybody is against her, or everybody is plotting against her; one simple comment makes her send you to hell... IDK but I wouldn't be surprised if she started with trust issues (beacause of what her parents did, those irresponsible people) and ended up full blown paranoid.

[@ladytimeoin]

@@dalpz205 my PPP was picked up really quickly as I was considered high risk. But, I didn't bond with my eldest because I had a delusional belief that the nurses has given me the wrong baby (they hadn't). I started to resent him more with every feed because I believed he wasn't my kid. Thankfully I didn't have any urge to hurt him and it took some work for me to make that connection. But, I really don't know where we'd be without treatment (I needed medication, I had to stop BF, and therapy).

[@dalpz205]

@@ladytimeoin Oh I'm so glad it was recognized and you got help. Honestly had no idea it was as common as it is. I would imagine it's difficult to diagnose esp for the patient. Glad it turned out well for you!

[@missmojojojo]

You're soo funny... I must say my reactions were all aligned with you through out the video. Thanks for the laughs..🤣🤣

[@maligaya5981]

I have a close friend who married 'an Adam' of this story, 3 years after he took custody of the kid and it's totally wacked situation to be involved even now. I hope Beth get help.

[@Nyledam89]

Are the kids ok?

[@InteriorDesignStudent]

AN Adam or THIS Adam?

[@suemetzger5302]

@@InteriorDesignStudent she used quotes "the Adam " then the words of this story. Want to take a guess at answering your own question?

[@NarYan2904]

Oh wow! Tell me he and his child are finally happy and have nothing to do with Beth anymore.

[@maligaya5981]

@@NarYan2904 they are okay, my friend husband move them out of town (far from the bio mother & her family)

[@LauraFromMarkerQuest]

What a ride! Adding my voice to those that are glad the kids got away, and I’m also really happy that the new parents of the younger two have welcomed baby B’s grandparents into their family. That’s lovely. I hope someday Adam’s daughter can know her siblings too.

[@ArchiesMom518]

I just found your channel and I've been binging everything. You are hilarious

[@sarahhunter1114]

Pregnant teens parents: Let's kick our underage vulnerable daughter out on the streets for sinning. Also pregnant teens parents: We just don't understand how our daughter is making such bad decisions. Well, I could give you a few reasons.

[@slsthewriter1299]

Reason #1: Where were you for the discussion on birth control and safe-sex?

[@mermer3168]

Reason #2: Being narcissistic.

[@monicadunn7785]

Reason #3: shaming and guilting instead of being compassionate and loving

[@sarahhunter1114]

Beautifully said y’all

[@A.gamer_]

I have a feeling that even understanding from the parents wouldn't have saved this one. As far as I can tell she had enough chances and help offered to turn it around, but she chose not to take them. There is only so much blame you can put on the parents. Not saying that they shouldn't have at least tried.

[@Trancos1202]

This by far must be THE MOST crazy-sh*t-story I have EVER watched Charlotte talking about. And I have been watching her since she was in IO.

[@MrDoenyon]

"If they'll cheat with you, they'll cheat on you" Truer words have never been spoken.

[@larry9910]

I love how you just breezed past the fact that she said that a '911 dispatcher' is a 'steady job where they live'

[@AerynKDesigns]

because it is. pretty much everywhere. working for dispatch, while mentally taxing, is a reasonably secure job with benefits in an industry that will not collapse.

[@CollecTortoise]

@@AerynKDesigns Being as it may, you gotta admit that it sounds a wee bit dystopian

[@jengsci8268]

That does say something about where they live, doesn't it? I don't know whether to laugh or cry. My sister works in a hospital and she calls one specific time of year "chain saw season." It's located in a lower populated northern US area, But definitely different than "trailer trash."

[@rivertam7827]

I'm more worried that someone as mentally unstable as Beth is working as an emergency dispatcher.

[@holdyourfire74]

It's not that dystopian. She mentioned the city they lived in was around 400,000 people. I imagine 911 would be pretty busy with city that size. That's not just crime, it's medical, fire, accidents, etc.

[@CatLoverX74]

I’m glad the children are with parents that love them and care for them. Hopefully she stays on birth control she doesn’t need to have kids EVER! She definitely needs professional help but doesn’t sound like that’ll happen any time soon 😬 I think Adam dodged a bullet 😂 Love your videos Charlotte! So happy you showed up on my FB feed and I found your KZbin channel 😊

[@wafflkitty5001]

Adam dodged a goddamn nuke, honey

[@LazyIRanch]

Those babies going to loving homes is the only good part of this fiasco! I doubt that she will stay on birth control. That's her preferred method of "man-trapping" and grabbing attention on social media. She's learned she has no responsibility to the babies she births, she can just give them away. It will happen again.

[@lillia2479]

I think she needs to get her tubes tied, period. Cuz birth control can fail as well as if she decides it's too much work to keep taking it and just doesn't take it anymore...

[@tiniowien57401]

My highschool had all seniors go thru the class with the fake babies that cry.. you get a baby, or 2 babies (was random who got multiples) for a weekend, usually long weekend. The dolls have sensors that log when you feed, diaper, sooth the doll. Or if you neglect it.

[@TFFgeek]

Beth screams narcissism: Can't take responsibility, always the victim, unreasonable demands, everyone is against her, stupid life choices, probably lying about many things to come out as the victim... But she needs to be complimented and encouraged for her behaviour. You are not gonna change these people. Dump them and be happy you lost them.

[@Zivvie]

I write plays, and as wild as my imagination can be, I could't come up with something as completely bananas as this Beth character, let alone the whole "Beth and her overpowering libido and massive sense of entitlement and complete divorce from reality" storyline.

[@excelself]

Umm 🤔 that’s normal tho. There are a lot of Beth’s out there.

[@sds6303]

Clinically it sounds to me like she could have borderline personality disorder. A lot of the classic characteristics are there. I could also see some narcissistic traits as well. I wonder what her upbringing was like. Her parents might have physically been there but clearly there was emotional neglect to some extent. Hence why she goes after people who are unavailable then proceeds to “trap” them by getting pregnant so they won’t abandon her. She definitely has a huge fear of abandonment.

[@jessicamusica]

Yes, I think there is some undiagnosed mental illness in this situation.

[@loki6821]

Please don't throw out diagnoses, it gives a bad image to people who actually have BPD and don't do any of this sh*t

[@irenemaiden3204]

That part about being kicked out and rejected by family for a pregnancy hit a little too close to home. I wasn't greeted with congratulations and hugs I was greeted with "Is too late for an abortion (which I would never have chosen)?" when they found it was it switched to "Have you considered adoption?" and "Would you be willing to give custody to so and so?" I know how shitty that feels but I also know that it's not any child's place to be used as an excuse for laziness and failure.

[@NarYan2904]

I hope that you know you are a good person and even better parent. You should also know that you are appreciated and admired by a complete stranger for choosing the hard way.

[@Floraa152]

Same, sister, same. 26 years later I have an amazing daughter that I love more than anything on this planet...but to this day, it in some ways still affects me. She is my only child and the judgment, not from friends, but my immediate family was horrible. I have come to accept it and forgive them, but it will always be in a dark corner of my mind. ❤️

[@franksnbeans7413]

Especially when they are the ones blocking your access to birth control. Her parents are awful human people. I never understood how some people think kicking a teenage girl out for being pregnant is the right thing to do. I thought the whole point of being a parent was doing the best you could to set your children up for success and to be well functioning adults

[@aliioana8586]

Have they considered the fact that the decision making is up to absolutely nobody other than you?

[@Sharki_V]

My experience was the same as yours when i found out. Only my friends congratulated me, my adoptive family wanted me to either abort or give up for adoption. But i put my foot down, and now have my amazing 7 year old twin daughters.

[@123shortkarma___9]

Honestly..... Along with Beth's decisions, I blame the parents for making Beth this way. 100% I bet they have a lot of things to do with what Beth is going through and why she chose those decisions.

[@larissaokorocha7002]

I agree

[@montananerd8244]

Kinda glad that, after graduation, I never talked again to the young mom I tutored. I had lots of empathy, but getting drawn in to those family & social circles can take over your life! It takes a village… but sometimes it’s ok to pick and choose which village to join…

[@michalajrgensen7165]

You really inspire me to look at the funny things in life, everyday🥰

[@ari_valentine]

I’m so glad she let those kids go to people who care about them. My mom has been a foster parent for almost 20 years, and we’ve seen things like this and worse. As invested as I was in this story, I’m glad the OP decided to distance herself from that woman who clearly is suffering from a mental illness, if not more than one. The trauma of being rejected by family added to the postpartum depression just made things worse for her. I hope she eventually gets the help she needs.

[@SteveK139]

Not sure which I love more, your content, your delivery or your sense of humor. You are fantastic!

[@Digitalhunny]

If the man in this story named "Adam" _ever_ reads this, _please_ keep a dated & _very_ detailed journal of every, single, thing that "Beth" says & does concerning your daughter. If there are witnesses (get signed statements), videos, phone calls, texts & letters. As well as any missed or cancelled appointments, school days, extra curricular activities, PTA & counsellor meetings keep & bring to court ALL copies of these. This, in the legal world, is what we call ammo, oops sorry I mean _evidence._ The more you can actually _prove_ vs. just say, the better for your side of the case & your daughter. Remember, the child/children IS thee most important thing in _every_ custody case. Their health, safety, education, wellness & over all happiness _are_ what really matters.🍀💕

[@davidguidry657]

I second this!! I also want to share that it may not be enough in the wrong jurisdiction. I had a stack of visitation violation reports (every other week for a year and a half) screenshots of text conversations concerning narcotics taking place in the phones of my children, photos of black eyes/bruises on my son, and audio recordings of harassment and defamation of my character through outright lies by my ex and her mom and I STILL was not awarded custody or even given an increase in visitation. 🥺😭

[@gl15col]

@@davidguidry657 There are still a lot of people who don't believe a man can be a good single parent. I'm so sorry you got messed over...

[@davidguidry657]

@@gl15col thank you. It all starts with awareness and acceptance. From there we can move to advocacy. I have high hopes. Especially since my now 21-year old (oldest) just took me up in my offer to stay with me as she begins her new job.

[@fairyspunfibers9098]

David, I am so glad for you! That's awesome! 👍😊

[@davidguidry657]

@@fairyspunfibers9098 thank you! I’m so excited!!! 🤗

[@shewho333]

On a serious note, imagine how different things might have been if this girl had supportive parents in the first place.

[@gw1627]

OR. Hear me out. Didn’t get pregnant. Then none of it ever would have happened. It’s pretty easy to not get pregnant.

[@Freya778]

@@gw1627 Actually you can do everything right, take hormonale birth control correctly and still get pregnant. There is no 100% guaranteed way to not get pregnant.

[@jyotidas3565]

@@gw1627 That’s… not how that works, friend.

[@ghost_anna_reads787]

Or, imagine if she had been born with a brain that processed thought and a heart that loved someone other than herself.

[@ghost_anna_reads787]

@@Freya778 a combination of condoms and hormonal birth control (if stored properly and not left in a hot car for several days) is 99% effective. How add a female condom too and you’ll have 99.99% effective. Yes, you can wear a normal condom and a female condom at the same time. There are also lubricants that contain a spermicide. The list is huge and endless. It’s more likely this gal just didn’t care about birth control and just though “oh poor me, whatever. “

[@janai5074]

Your look in this video is so light, yet glamorous...like simplistic old Hollywood. Gorgeous 😍 I've been sick with sick kids, binging your videos all weekend...its the only thing I've had enough strength to do 🤦🏼‍♀️ LoL. But, I've seen a ton of your makeup looks, and this one is my favorite, so far 🥰

[@KatastrophyYT]

Really love watching these vids, keep it up Charlotte!

[@nikki_angel5133]

Wow as a mom of 5 I can't imagine joking about leaving my kids anywhere. I believe that there are people in this world that should NOT be allowed to have children. This woman being one. It is also surprising that Chad is still in the picture. Beth needs serious mental health care. The fact that no one else besides the poster has realized this just shows how not cared for Beth is. I really hope Beth never has another child and gets the help she needs.

[@angelagreen3642]

This was absolutely insane. Those poor babies. I'm glad they are with people who love them. How totally narcissist "Beth" is and how cruel. Sheesh.

[@turtleena3280]

It's people like Beth that make my blood boil. As a woman who unexpectedly lost her fertility a little over a year ago to endometrial cancer & was devastated to know I lost my chance at having kids of my own, it sends me over the edge when I see/hear people who quite frankly NEVER should have been able to have kids (yet seem to be able to pop them out left and right) just cast them aside like they are nothing or blame them for ruining their lives when they are the innocent ones in the equation.

[@Tasha9315]

I'm sorry you had to go through that. And I get where you're coming from. I've been told that I likely have fertility issues and I also get mad when I hear of these kinds of stories because I can't help but feel it's unfair that many women who don't want children (or aren't ready) easily get pregnant while women who yearn for children have fertility issues. I'm not sure if I'm being rational or fair in having these thoughts but I can't help but feel it.

[@elizabethhogan473]

My husbands ex should of never had kids, she treats them as pawns! I’m sorry to hear this about what happened to you 🙏🏻❤️

[@sarahperkins2340]

Omg and I thought that my family was crazy lol thank you Charlotte for the update. I now feel less crazy. But I am glad that "Beth" was woman enough to make the choice to let her children go to someone who would love them and care for them in a way that she just couldn't. That is the biggest expression of love that a Mother can do. I'm also glad that her Dr finally put her on birth control, since I would of called her Mertile as in Fertile Mertile, lol. I hope that she someday realizes that she has had a lot of trauma in her life and that there is no shame in getting help with that and seeks therapy or counseling. The fact that this is a true story and someone's actual life makes me sad for them. Unfortunately, I know that there are many more parents that don't enjoy being a parent and take it out on their children. I have to admired the bravery and strength of this young woman had giving her children a chance of happiness that she didn't have herself.

[@MsJstanley24]

this came up just now because, someone may or may not have been binge watching Charlotte's videos due to insomnia (couldn't be me), I need a nap after that. What a roller coaster. All i cared about was the kiddos getting somewhere safe, and loved. What an insane story.

[@tracey7241]

I'm in Canada and even if it wasn't Christmas day, you can't actually just show up at the courthouse and get married. So many people want a simple ceremony that there's a waitlist of many months. I'm in a major city though.

[@irishcountrygirl78]

This 👍, it's the same every where, you book in and you take your turn. Same in Ireland.

[@melissablackwood]

Where I live, the couple also has to apply for a marriage license well in advance. So people can't just randomly show up to get married unless they already have their license in order.

[@DaisyA-04]

I should have made popcorn for that one! Very relieved her babies are all in safe homes where they are wanted and cared for. What kind of doctor refuses to prescribe birth control? And even if that happened, condoms can be found in lots of places without a prescription. Thanks for doing the update Charlotte, I have to say this one stuck with me and I had been wondering what happened next. 🙂

[@Necromancer0225]

You know Charlotte, the background music used reminded me of a restaurant or cafe setting, so it was like you were telling us this story over a coffee or meal. Beautiful

[@ramachandra776]

Beth :- I don't like children . I made three mistakes . Beth's mother :- I made just one .

[@Rhaenarys]

Tbf to Beth, growing up in a conservative family who will kick you out for getting pregnant can't be easy. Beth was her mom's mistake, but not in the same way Beth looks at it. Her mom failed her, which in turn caused her to fail her own kids.

[@sylverscale]

Maybe if her mom would have given Beth to a loving family none of this would have happened. She definitely didn't raise her right.

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

Beth's mother is just as if not worse than her. Beth is a product of environment, the mother and sh*t family is that environment. I hope they get everything that comes to them as well

[@awesomekoga7848]

Wow! This was a bit much to fathom! I’m pleasantly surprised that Beth actually did something that benefitted her children. I figured her as one of those parents who use their offspring as income to support her immature lifestyle. I hope she tries to better herself and stops getting pregnant. She is still young and can make so much more of her life. It’s not too late to start a better life. I wish her the best. I wish her children the best, too.

[@PrincessQ-fj9ly]

Me too. I have more sympathy for the babies too.

[@gl1txhyy438]

I have a family member like this, she broke up my Aunts marriages twice and had most of her kids taken away from her. She even had her oldest daughter taken away and the family just lost contact with her again. It's quite sad tbh.

[@floraposteschild4184]

Reminds me of an endless bus trip where I was sitting opposite two girls, complaining about the many and from what I could tell self-inflicted shenanigans both had been involved in, similar to Beth's. One girl then turned to the other, and said "life is drama, man." Silence.

[@Kristen_Cook]

What can you say except WOW! As a mother of 2 boys its so hard for me to believe anyone could feel this way about their own childern! I would starve in order for mine to eat, I'd die to protect them! One of the worst things as a parent is for your child to be sick or hurt and there's nothing you can do to stop it it literally will break your heart into not to mention the mini heart attacks you have when you see your child fall or go too close to the road! Mine are older teens now (18 & 16) but I still get those mini heat attacks if I think something is serious with them so I'll never understand people like this or ones how abuse & mistreat or worse. I'm so happy they are away from her now. But what's that say about the man she's getting ready to marry? He's seen all this and still wants to marry her? And wasn't the last baby he's? They both are trash IMO

[@davidguidry657]

As a dad, I applaud Adam for doing what he had to do and taking the risk to “kidnap” his own child. I also completely relate to your “mini heart attacks” description. Very apt! Thanks for being a good mom! Greetings from San Antonio TX USA.

[@C3C3.B3LLA]

Right there with you as a mother of two boys (6&3) I get anxiety every time I hear a cry or scream thinking who hurt what an how bad but boys will be boys an by the time I see what actually happen they'll both be laughing or moved on to something else 🤦🏼‍♀️ I sware being a boy mom is going to turn me Gray earlier then I should ( I'm early 30s now) but seeing mothers even fathers legit able to give away a child or neglect a child with no remorse hurts my heart an if I had a big enough home or the money I'd be in every adoption agency possible fostering hundreds of neglected kids to atleast give them a sense of home until there forever home, I'd prolly even be that woman with a buncha kids from adopting them because I couldn't let them leave once I grew attached 🤣 But I'm glad "beths" kids are with someone who will love an care about them. - Godbless xx

[@davidguidry657]

@@C3C3.B3LLA the world needs more people like you!

[@C3C3.B3LLA]

@@davidguidry657 awee thank you. I guess I was just raised right. I was adopted away from a pretty bad situation myself ( only 3 wks old ) Tg I wasn't older to endure anything worse then what I did, but my mother who raised me is my everything an tought me everything I know in life, an I am lucky to have had a second chance that some don't have an unfortunately it shows with their upbringing :( But sorry for rambling lol. Thank you again. Hope you have a good day.

[@davidguidry657]

@@C3C3.B3LLA good mothers are definitely a blessing and their influence shapes the world!

[@bryannacloutier4018]

I’m gonna be honest, when she said she doesn’t like her kids, my mind immediately went to ppd. She didn’t have a lot of support. I definitely think therapy could’ve helped her.

[@Metta_with_a_long_e]

I'm glad that she signed over her kids to a cousin who obviously wants and loves them. I honestly feared for the children's safety.

[@siobhantomilson4364]

Thank you SO much for the update!! Info is best when coming from Charlotte!!!

[@deaniewinchester]

Charlotte! I'm literally addicted to your videos! I'd like to watch something else but you seriously won't let me! It's ridiculous I'm sitting here watching one video after another! I can't stop! I may have to join a group to get over my addiction to you. I'm too old for this to be a problem (I'm 61) you are so funny I absolutely love you! You are beautiful too! You are so entertaining! I love how humble you are. Allot of ladies who are as beautiful as you are are stuck up and don't have a sense of humor. My children are all about your age I should feel guilty for enjoying your videos so much but I don't! Thank you so much for making all these funny videos.

[@meshiawashington5852]

What a great ending to a complete S show! I’m glad the person that was giving updates decided that this was enough. Thank you so much Charlotte for the great update! I love your channel!

[@MashuTora]

I love that Beth's reaction to anyone being concerned for her is wrath, slurs, and curses. If you asked me, I would tell you that she's a self-centered narcissist. She is one of those people who MUST have the spotlight, and if she doesn't, she will cause hell over it. She's also the type of person that thinks she is fine, but doesn't really understand the damage being done to her mentally, and potentially physically. Finally, she seems like the type to think that any sort of mental health facilities are a scam and a waste of time. Fact is, she will never be okay. She will continue to be broken and beyond help because she refuses to change her ways and get help, refuses to acknowledge she's made any mistakes. Which is gonna make the day she gets her reality check, her revelation where she realizes she was in the wrong, that much worse. I wonder if she would even be able to handle it?

[@elan825]

I think her realizing her errors, no matter how painful is the best case scenario, as it would allow for change. Personally, I wouldn't hold my breath. Personality disorders are notoriously hard to treat, and her extreme lack of insight or remorse and disdain for perceived weakness (like going to therapy) makes her an almost impossible case unless she undergoes huge changes.

[@Liz-A-G]

Holly crap, those poor kids having "Beth" as a mom. It's so horrible when the mom is the bad parent because Moms are supposed to naturally want to protect their kids. Not yell at them, scare them, call them names and make them feel neglected and unsafe. So happy the kids are with better people now, hopefully they recovered from all they trauma.

[@Jezebel066]

As someone who made a lot of bad decisions, & married a man who was married when we started dating (he had lied & told me the divorce was final they only needed to go to court, didn’t find out differently until he left us & said I deserved it bc I slept w a married man) Sometimes when you grow up abused & in a toxic environment, you’re just super naive & bad at making good choices. Until you heal yourself. I worry for “Beth”, but mostly these poor little babies. This is how the cycle continues. But also, can we plz have her real name. She sounds like the best movie this year lol

[@yesthatmousyiris4887]

I was thinking this is a case of generational trauma and abuse.

[@ocphantom]

Wow. I felt bad for her because she had zero direction in her life but after a while, she actively made it worse for herself. Plus, this is why we need top notch sexual education everywhere.

[@twoblink]

I'm so glad I got to finish the story; as invested as I was..

[@erikarussell1142]

I really needed that complete story. Those poor men and those poor children!!! She's been victimized by her own actions... and where I know what that feels like, I've never done anything close to all this. Makes me kinda feel bad for her too. She isn't even self aware at this point.

[@davidguidry657]

Yeah, it sounds like she’s been traumatized herself. I’m not excusing her actions by any means! Just acknowledging what are clear signs of trauma responses on her part. Everyone in this story needs help. Everyone reading this story needs help now too. 😉

[@erikarussell1142]

@@davidguidry657 lol no doubt.

[@kimberleywilliams7802]

I only feel sorry for one man and that's Adam, the rest can choke, especially Chad.

[@dawnchesbro4189]

Oooooo the tea is good in this story and I’m here for it! This is the largest train wreck I’ve heard about on your channel. Thank you for bringing part 2

[@tiffany6744]

So funny. You have two videos with the same story!!! I watch your videos everyday. But I also rewatch them often. I have noticed multiple times where you read the same stories. I'm just surprised you don't remember reading them over and over lol. But I still love you and will never stop watching. I think your beautiful and amazing.

[@justhearmeout3959]

I still want to hear the whole thing again just to be sure I didn't miss anything

[@azure5273]

If I knew someone like that, I would run the hell away. I've seen situations like this where it basically turns into a forest fire and messes up even innocent people just because they've been in the vicinity... What the OP is going through would be a really stressful situation for me.