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[@patticampana9458]

Tiff, you're not boring. You ever need to vent, this is where to do it. We're here for ya!

[@lceec7012]

Empty Nester here! My one and only baby left for college 13 hours from home at 18 and never moved back.. I can’t complain she is a good girl. She is in an Ivy League doctoral program now. I’m a proud mom. You have done a great job! Your kids are strong enough to make their way in this world. It’s so tough being a mom! It’s tougher watching them spread their wings and fly away. Focus on you for a change! Prayers for your peace during this time!

[@nannybug1118]

My granddaughter turned 17 yesterday too. Hang in there mama. My son went in USAF at 19 he retired 5 years ago. It was a great career. Give him to God to protect. ❤️

[@CupcakeFairy777]

Amen 🙏 thank your son for his service GOD bless

[@michaellillman6609]

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[@vernoniadavis1757]

I had twin girls at 18 and another daughter at 22 and OMG the girls were fun at times, but the teenage years did get difficult at times. Hang in there, you only have one daughter you got this Tiffany!

[@everythingmarmie8471]

Completely went through all of your emotions! Three grown daughters. It’s hard. Especially since you invest every ounce of being into them and then poof! You are not important anymore (even though you are but it’s different- they have lives, partners, babies, careers…). Blessings and hugs- please do more of these chats! I really think they help and encourage others!🙏💕

[@tinacoffey2566]

My heart is hurting for you right now! You are having perfectly normal grieving, over your boys not being home. I have an 18 year old son who has just started the process of joining the Air Force. I am soooo proud of him, but I can't even think about him being gone from home. I dread it. We are 5 hours from San Antonio and you will love it! The Air Force graduation ceremony is very emotional and so cool! Thankfully the Air Force is not usually the first on the ground in times of war. Enjoy Texas! Congratulations on your son serving for his country.

[@JamesWaters-h3b]

Take a deep breath! Time heals! It’s ok to cry it out mom! Girl, your awesome! Your kids are awesome! You are the best MOM ever!!! Tiffany, your going to be just fine. They will always come back home. Your mama, they adore you! Love and Huggies

[@jackieribordy999]

I have a senior in high school this year and he will be headed to college next year. I find myself so emotional and he is still here in my home. My heart goes out to you, you are just an amazing mom ❤️

[@ByThePound214]

My son is 34 and I still remember when my son moved out like it was yesterday. It’s so hard but at the same time you have to be proud of them and yourself that they want to be independent. What a roller coaster of emotions! I get it girl!

[@jeanmariep5497]

Tiffany, I adore you. You are a fantastic mom!!!!! This video spoke to me as a mom. I get it! Please know your videos have cheered me up more than you know for the last 4 years. I look forward to your videos every day. Thank you!!!!!

[@jessicashockley7322]

I totally understand!! I’m 42 and single and I have one son who is 20 he is ready to spread his wings and I want him to but it is hard for me as his mom. My identity it’s being his mom when he moves on what will my purpose me then??? It’s so nice to see another single mom in the same time of life I am, there are not many I feel like I can relate to! Thank you for sharing your journey!

[@melissaveldt8198]

My youngest is 32 and I still have empty nest syndrome at times especially around the holidays or special occasions that they can’t make it back home. It is really hard but I know they have their own lives live and tell myself that I raised them the best I could and taught them right from wrong.

[@tammyt6193]

Totally agree, I go through the same. Mine are 31 and 38, and I have times I can't believe the years rolled by so fast. I've been by myself since August 2014 and it's still hard, especially at the holidays when we live so far apart. Hugs to you! 💜

[@ceciliaquinn7547]

Tiffany,you have done a great job as a Mom! We hope to raise our children so they can go out in the world,and be good people! And you should be proud of yourself 💕💕💕

[@MoMoney0617]

And I love it when you do these chat videos cause sometimes I just need somebody to chat with too

[@dianethompson6351]

Sweet Tiffany….I have 5 grown kids. 4 boys and 1 girl. That girl has been the roughest but I love her to death. Not to make you feel worse I am on antidepressants. I miss being a “mommy”. I find myself sitting on the end of my brown couch. I am trying to come up with a hobby but to no avail. Girls are a challenge give yourself so grace. I wish I could give you a big hug. Thanks for being here I feel better just chatting. HUGS

[@sharonpugh5929]

Hi😊...do you craft ?

[@jackiifortner6659]

When them babies grow up that's when mommas really hit their knees

[@wendybrown3502]

I folded laundry with you Tiffany!❤ I can totally relate. Our 21 year old son got his own apartment in July. He's the last one. I was a wreck in July and August. It's a little better now, but I still worry like crazy! Plus 2 weeks ago he had to have an emergency appendectomy! Scary! We went to lunch and grocery shopping together today, so that was nice! Hugs sweet mama!❤😊

[@SoniaVogel-p9d]

Hey Tiffany, I want you to know that God is with you and your family. I know that you have been their for your children. May God bless you always. Sonia in FL.

[@lucyloo7457]

❤ Don’t be hard on yourself Tiffany. You will get through this. We are all here praying for you. Fold those towels girl! We all love you!!

[@zombiekittyification]

Girl I really needed to see this. As a single mom myself with a daughter that is 12 going on 30 it is real over here and it's so hard not to b hard on ourselves as mother's but yes she tests my patience daily. I thought I had a few more years before the teen angst set in and I was wrong.

[@judithmitchell4667]

Tiffany - I can totally relate to much of what you were saying. We will get through this together. Much love and grace and smiles and hugs from Michigan. Blessings - Judith 🎵🎭

[@annetter.3992]

Tiffany - I haven’t even completed half of your video. But as a 51 year old woman, I cannot tell you how GREAT of a mother you are. I did not have a good relationship with my mother. She was absent in my life. I can’t imagine how different my life would be had I had a mother like you. You are a strong, loving, take charge lady. Be proud of who you are and everything you’ve accomplished and done not only as a mother but in all aspects of life

[@saraphillips1038]

When you’re raising your kids, it’s all encompassing. It’s so hard to let go when they get older. Hang in there, Tiffany… You’re a good mom you have so much to be proud of! Praying for you!

[@sharondavis7236]

Hey Tiffany, my husband and I raised a boy and girl . Now they are married with children of their own. It's hard when they leave home. I cried so many tears, but I look back now and thank God for the bond we had back then and what we have now. A beautiful family with precious grand children. (4) and what a blessing. Life comes in chapters and as you go through those chapters in your life, you will feel so rewarded for what you accomplished in life and you have done just that. A beautiful mom that has so much more in store for her! You have done a fantastic job raising your children and you will be rewarded for many many more years to come! Stay Strong In Christ and he will lead your way!❤

[@teresarobertson9121]

Your a special kind of mom. It's all gonna work out. God bless you and your family with Grace and peace 🙏 Love ya Tiffany 🤗

[@sharonsardeson7992]

Hang in there...I raised a girl and a boy and I agree it's different with each. Girls are definitely a challenge. But there is light at the end of the tunnel....the kids turn out well, they learn to deal with their own issues and as long as they know you are there for moral support they will be fine. You gave them all a good home life and taught them to be caring people....just take it a day at a time and you will get thru it. Sending you hugs and wishing the best as you go thru this time of change. Thanks for sharing.❤

[@joyceadair3003]

Tiffany, I get exactly what you’re going through in a different way. My mom lives with me and we both deal with health issues at times. It’s hard for two women to be in the same home after we once had our own lives. Stay positive and keep busy and I know you’ll be fine. Praying for you. Thanks for sharing.😊

[@Sakinalee143]

I have two young boys and No Personal Life😂 so I too can stay on top of whats going on in my home, especially since their always talking about "when I grow up" stuff. 🙄 Tiffany, you are an example to be followed when it comes to single parenting. Much love and respect from Wyoming.

[@victoriacassani]

Hi Tiffany! I’m not a mom yet, but I’m my mid 30s and I felt every part of this video- my fiancé and I have been having issues, and I have always suffered through anxiety / depression, so this video is so relatable! I’m one of three, one boy and two girls. And my mom says a million times always, she swears she wished she had 3 boys 😂😂🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️. We girls put her through the ringer! You’re not alone, always keep that in mind, love. Take care of you!! ❤️ always.

[@annieg1977]

I’m a single mom of 2 daughters, 20 and 17. My oldest is in her 3rd year of college and lives 3 hours away . I can relate to the adjustment you are going through and the struggles with raising teenage girls. Hang in there. You are doing an amazing job!

[@Tia-vj9ox]

Big hugs! You are doing a great job! Speaking of challenges. Feel free to challenge her to wash and fold her own dang towels. Just cuz you work from home, that doesn’t mean you have to do all the house chores. If she is about to be an adult. She can start practicing adult living which includes laundry ❤🙂

[@Tia-vj9ox]

Daughter and moms is a tough dynamic but remember you are the Mom not her friend. You need to teach her how to be a good person and that includes how she treats you. Every time you donate or volunteer you set an example. I encourage you to include her when you do your good works so she doesn’t take your generosity for granted. She is Not entitled to the things you give her . She is lucky to have you! Feel the love from all of us with launched kids or kids at home❤❤❤

[@jonelledavenport8701]

The days are long and the years are short. I have been where you are and I met my husband during my last son's senior year. Fast forward and now have 4 grandsons. They are with us every weekend. Letting them go is a process and I feel ya.

[@sharonb3887]

Hi Tiffany, yes it’s hard when they leave. You will have lots of challenges with your daughter. She’s will to try your last nerve. 😂 Pull back when necessary, but lay down the rules when you have to. Remember to take care of yourself. ❤❤

[@nancyadams146]

You have done a fantastic job. I was a teen mom and raised one girl. We grew up together. She is 42 with a family of her own now. She is a high school teacher/ administrator. It’s been a while since I went thru what you are going through. Girls get easier ad they get older. When my daughter met the man she was going to marry we became best friends again. Just like when she was little. They tear me so good I can’t tell you how blessed I am. I will say a prayer that you transition thru this part of your life smoothly. Trust me they never really are to far from home. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@Teresa-and]

I made pumpkin bars while watching. Yes grace! Decluttering is very therapeutic for me. You'll find your balance again Tiffany.

[@shelliclarke5563]

I definitely folded laundry right along with you. My dog has been such a comfort to me during the empty nest season of my life.

[@skittycats]

Omg fella was listening to your every word and the look in his eyes was precious.

[@JamieMarieKY]

I'm not going what you are going through but I am going through something really hard. When you said just to focus on things that you can control that really hit me. I need to focus on that too and not the bad things that are going on. Hugs and prayers for you girl! I enjoy these types of videos!

[@amyl3607]

You seem like such a good Mom and person! You’ll get through this Tiffany. Sending a big hug your way!

[@nancyimbleau2023]

My Son is 21 and lives with me helps me out a lot is works and is saving money to move out one day. Love him he is so good I praise God for him

[@cindywiemers9149]

Thanks for this video Tiffany! Thanks for being so real!! Sounds like a decluttering series is needed! I would love that💗! Thanks, love ya, Cindy 💗🌻

[@katievaldez2133]

Tiffany, yes as a Mom it is so bittersweet to see your kids spread their wings and fly. That is a Mom’s job. Yes give yourself grace and laugh. Find those friends that make you laugh. Fella and Bella so cute!🌸🌸🌸

[@GlittzznGlammMedia]

You're honestly like the coolest girl, Thrifty Tiffany, so glad you shared how hard it's been but super admirable how gracefully you've been handling it And even though my son is ONLY turning 5... I have been feeling some kinda ways too. Body aches, and all you've been expressing... tears, emotions, and so much more...I love that you redirected onto shppping, chores and staying productive. I am doing my best to keep myself in check. It is waaay harder than you make it seem. You made me go to Dollar Tree and it wasn't even a cool store here in Toronto. I even asked them if all the stuff I pick3d up was $1.25. They looked at me like girl everything is a $1.50 CAD. Lol

[@NatalieTurner-k3b]

First, I have to say that you are such a precious individual. I’m not one to ever comment on social media, but I’ve been watching your videos for a while and I can tell that your heart is hurting, so I just wanted to reach out:) It’s such a catch-22, we’re so proud of our children and want them to succeed and have their own life, but at the same time, we want them home;) It’s so true that our time with them is so short! I’ve been able to watch a few videos when your children were with you and it’s evident how much they love and respect their mama! You’ve done an amazing job, single-handedly raising them! I’m recently an empty nester and I have to say that I still struggle with it. My husband and I do enjoy ourselves, but it’s so different from the full house we had for so many years! We raised 4, three boys and the baby is a girl. So when you spoke about the difference in raising boys vs girls, I understood exactly what you were saying! There’s something about a mama & son relationship. Boys love their mamas. Don’t get me wrong, I know our daughter loves me, but the dynamic is so different from how my boys show their love for me. My husband and I look at each other so often and say how truly blessed we are with our four babies and now with our beautiful daughter in law AND precious granddaughter;) From the way you speak, I assume you are a woman of faith, so continue to pray and giving yourself grace. You will make it through this journey, just like you’ve overcome ever other obstacle that came your way. Keep your sweet chin up!

[@gingerduke3625]

Hi Tiffany! I’m excited for you to come to San Antonio. There is lots to see here. Be sure to tour the Alamo while you are here. Hang in there Sweet Mama! You are a wonderful Mom. Just look back at what a great job you’ve accomplished so far. God is with you!! We are here for you any time!! Sending lots of love from San Antonio, Texas.

[@rubicox521]

I agree with you sister🥰! My son was smooth sailing as well! But girls are way tuff! I would encourage you to pray and ask the good Lord for encouragement, wisdom, direction and His peace🙏! You are right it is always easier to say than to walk it out! God bless you🙏

[@simplysharon8136]

Thank you being so raw and honest! I appreciate that ❤ you will get through it Tiffany your amazing!!! 🫶 your an amazing momma ❤

[@terirachelsims8928]

You're right that you sometimes need to take some time to do whatever you feel you need. Life changes aren't easy but I know from experience that it's best to take time to adjust and "do what you need to do". Learning to pay more attention to your own needs is very important, and if you can somehow meet people to share doing something, that's great. And by the way, I admire you for being so honest on KZbin!

[@virginiamesko6369]

Tiffany, this is the perfect time to become involved in a church family. When we are learning to let go, it's such a comfort to have a close relationship with Jesus. I am not a fanatic or Bible thumper but I have walked in your shoes and know of what I speak. Boys are so much easier than girls! Oh my word. Bless you, Darlin'. This is just a season in life and you are a great mama.

[@whitelightwhiskey]

I love that you did this kind of video. When I first started it and realized what it was, I stopped so I could give it extra special attention. I got my laundry to fold and a tea and it was such a gift to sit with you even if I am not right there. I have been watching your videos for so long, And it's always been clear from the first video how much you love your kids. You are the cream that rises to the top, you are an amazing mom and a phenomenal person. I respect everything about you. I am sending you love, prayers, and good energy while you work through this. Thank you for being authentic and sharing. 💚💚💚

[@annerusso8835]

Hi Tiffany, first of all you look so nice and comfortable folding all your towels!! My sister had 2 boys and 1 girl. She always told me 'be glad you had boys' and we would laugh. Now I have 2 granddaughters and I now know what she was talking about!! Keep that great relationship you have with your daughter, you just have to keep being the good Mom you are !! So very happy you will be seeing Cayman soon and you got to talk to him. Hang in there girl you got this!! Enjoy.

[@christyhancock7387]

Tiffany I loveeee these chats, I do! I mean I love all your different videos but these chit chats are some of my fav. Raised a son and he was easy, but being a girl myself Lordt the hard yrs my Mama had with me wooo!! No bad stuff like bad stuff but the hormones!!! About the "process" my Mama & Granny handled difficult or sad "processes" different. My Mama was the stay busy at every second & I do mean every second (think that was her way of numbing 🤷🏼‍♀️). My Granny's was allow yourself to FEEL it, cry, be angry, depressed, anxious, all you need to feel but don't STAY in it. Feel it, let it move through you but don't let it take up house in you. So I find that I pull a little of both of their ways to process, somewhere in the middle. Love you girl 😘

[@lesaseil565]

Always enjoy your videos! My heart felt for you watching this one! Even though I may be a little bit older, I totally understand and remember those days! I had two boys and one went into the Marine Corps and my other was already out of the house - plus being a single mom was the hardest part of my life - so I get it. Always will listen, we all have those days were we just need to talk! Love listening to your southern twang :) Hope your day was letting you feel a bit better after just releasing what you needed to get off your chest! Hugs!!!

[@marvalous727]

Tiffany - I love love your channel. Love your hauls. You are a great Mom! Keep doing what you’re doing. Give it to God and keep loving your daughter. We are here for you.❤

[@Jackie1111]

Hi Tiffany. I relate so much. My daughter is 16 and we are very close but its tough at this age we just got over an argument but it hurt. You are a great mom. Im sending you a hug and blessings for you and all of your children 💗 🙏

[@bernadettechute7998]

Sending love. Appreciate your openness. You are a great mom - great human being. So happy to have found your channel and “ become part of the family” as you say.

[@KimMiller-ty6cy]

You got this mama, I’m a mama of five 2 older children and 3 younger girls. Our older girl went to college this year and it about killed me. I completely understand

[@jjjljuls2237]

We are going thru the same stuff at the same time. Thank you for sharing your depressed it helped me realize that's probably what is happening to me. I hand washed dishes while listening to ya. Thanks for opening up. Feels like grief 😢. The part of the missing the kids playing and all the noise and laughter OMG same 😢

[@sharonellison8857]

You are a wonderful lady! I love all of your videos, even the ones where you are folding laundry and chatting. You are such an awesome momma. The place you are at right now is difficult, but it too will pass.

[@tinascheltz6779]

You are doing a great job! Definitely can relate and appreciate these videos saying it’s going to be ok. 😊

[@terrisecord6664]

Loved listening to you chat. I know what it's like to have your kids leave and go on their own but it all works out. Thanks for lifting my mood today. Love , love, love your videos. I'm going to make myself a Cosmo and watch a movie. Enjoy your evening

[@jennifersilva7250]

I'm an empty nester too. I have a boy (24) and girl (27) with 2 grandkids already from my daughter. YES, those girls are something else! They are both Cancer signs, but complete opposites. He was much easier (except he didn't like school). You are the best mom and I'm so happy we had this chat. Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. I miss your boys too, it's always fun seeing your kids with you. You are right - We'll get through this. 🥰 Love you!

[@heathertwedt7412]

I had my kids fairly young, I am 46 now with a 25 year old daughter and a 20 year old son. My son was definitely "easier" compared to my daughter. We have gotten much closer however as the years go on. Being a single parent times were hard occasionally but we do the best we can with what we have. 💜 big hugs to you Tiffany!!

[@sonyamosley4379]

OMG….it hit home when you mentioned parenting your boys seemed much easier than parenting your daughter. I have two boys, 27 and 22. My 22 yro is out of state for college. He has the same birthday as Kaia! My 27 yro joined the Air Force 4 1/2 years ago. He’s stationed in Hawaii. My boys had me thinking I had this parenting thing down, but my daughter who is 18 and started her first year in college this past August has tested ALL of my parenting skills. It has been a different and challenging experience, but one that I am grateful for. With everyone out of house, I now get to rediscover me! It’s sad and takes some time adjusting, but it is also absolutely wonderful!! We talk all the time and I make trips to visit when they can’t come home. You are experiencing a season of change, but you got this!! Know that you are not alone on this journey. You will make it through because you are a loving mom.

[@Bangs463]

Awwww Tiff … big hugs to you! ❤️

[@lisacollins1268]

Mothers put all their eggs in mother baskets! We all do it. This is exactly why there is a Mothers Day. Our kids love us but yes it’s hard. I have four from 24 to 15 and it’s changing. They can be mean. You find yourself thinking “what happened to my sweet babies” God bless all you dedicated mothers! You Got this! 😊

[@janeneilar6865]

You are a great mom! You raised your kids to make a life for themselves and you taught them right and wrong. They will thank you one day! Be patient with your daughter it must be on your mind she’s next. Single parents are strong, but loving!! You’re doing a great job momma! She don’t say it but she appreciate you!!

[@lisaburnett6357]

My kids are all grown I had two girls and a boy it was rough, but now my oldest daughter has a sixteen year old daughter and it is awful, the kids at school are mean, the boys are mean and a pain in the butt. Prayers for you both, and Prayers for the boys. Love ya girl hang in there.

[@dianeshover1465]

Your dear Kia should be folding ALL those towels HERSELF😆.....maybe then she’ll start using a few LESS after that 😭😂🤣🤩🤩

[@katiejoyce9219]

If yall have time to do anything in San Antonio, check out the river walk!

[@amyglinski7908]

I only had boys, 19 and 23 years old now. They were so easy. No drama, just being dufuses usually. But I can't image being a girl now with social media. And I remember being such a b*&^% for no reason due to hormones. I didn't even know why I was mad. So hang in there and give yourself grace. You are doing an amazing job. I know they recognize your commitment to them, you can tell by your interactions with them.

[@angelahaglund2656]

Oh honey you sound exactly like me when my oldest son enlisted in the Army. Once basic was over the Afghanistan war started and of course that was where he was sent. I only have one piece of advice to give that was the only thing that kept me sane. I turned it over to God, it was all in his hands. It was so hard to give that control of making sure that they were safe up. I have 3 sons and 1 daughter, you are absolutely right...girls are 100% more difficult then boys. Keep in mind that she is missing the boys also and her world is changing. You girl, are an amazing Momma❤!

[@michaelsingletary4526]

Burden of being a parent 😂 Carry on Mom. Bob Dylan "Changes" Have a great Hump 🐫 Day everyone, from Tampa Florida. Be Safe and Stay Thrifty

[@irenetalley5843]

It gets lonely especially if you’re by yourself. God intends our children to spread their wings…that’s how it’s supposed to happen. But it is a very sad time of life. I’m by myself and live in California with my sister, while my 3 adult kids and grandkids live in Kentucky and Colorado. I will eventually move to be near them. There is something beautiful to look forward to and that’s Grand-babies. That is the beautiful part of this story. Hang in there pretty mama. It does get easier.❤

[@TheLionsLove2]

Tiff… I LOVE your personality and energy. We’re friends in my head lol. While I can’t completely relate (yet… my babies are still small) I can relate to being a Mom and wanting the best for your children. You’ve raised functional, independent adults and you should be PROUD OF YOURSELF!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤

[@nancyimbleau2023]

Prayers for Caymen hope he is doing good and he will make it through his training he is a Strong Willed Man and is such a determined person and knew what he wanted to do most guys dont really have a clue what they want out of life I know you are a proud Mama of all of your children i see that very much boys are different for sure.

[@joanschwalbach1974]

I can relate what you're saying about being in the military, which I've mentioned that my grandson is also going through basic training in san Antonio ! I have an Airbnb already booked in san Antonio! Maybe I'll see you at the ceremony 😉! Happy birthday to your daughter 🎉 Tiffany and just a note for you! Love that you're venting or chatting with us! Parenting never stops but you're doing a great job as I can see through your videos...hugs. my son was difficult and my daughter was easy ! Heck I'm a widow and I haven't seen my son for 6 years...now there's a story 😢

[@itwasntme3960]

IDK. I'm 58, been married 32 years but we never had kids. No regrets so I don't know how you feel. I can honestly say that. You just keep being the good Mom you are and be there for them, like I know you will. ❤

[@sarahdillon9176]

Yes!!! Raising boys is so different than girls! Both crazy and wonderful in their own ways but so different! Keep hanging in there! My little girl is 16 now and its....an "adventure"! We'll get through this and they'll be our best friends before we know it! 💜 I'm praying for you and your family and especially Cayman and all of our service members and their families! Sending you big hugs, Mama!

[@brendachance9273]

You’re not boring. Just a real down to earth person with real issues. I wanted to mention a really fun movie on Netflix. It’s an oldie but goodie. The Money Pit with a young tom hanks 💗

[@lisanorman1181]

Hang in there, Tiffany, truth be told no matter how old your kids get nothing ever really changes. They always need you and they have kids and they need you. I have two granddaughters in college and I can honestly say motherhood never ends. Lol.

[@christineadkins4058]

If you have time in San Antonio, go to the River Walk and the Alamo. It was great. My son graduated from there a long time ago. He loved the Air Force.

[@nancybaker6011]

My sons are now 49 and almost 54. The oldest joined the Army at 20, turned 21 in basic, went straight to Iraq, served in Germany, got out after three years, finished college and re-enlisted as an officer. He retired right before the pandemic hit with 25 years total served. He’s been all over the world, got his master’s degree and learned Chinese. He’s flown me to many wonderful places, including China! I now live in a house that he bought for me to live in, and he supports me. I was a single mom (divorced)too, and the oldest was fairly easy, the youngest was tough and we are estranged. I did my best at the time, but I have many regrets. My kids were latch-key kids. One handled it well, the other didn’t. I’m so glad you got to be there for your kids. You’re the mom I wish I could have been.

[@Gingersplanscraftsbeauty]

My son was a breeze! If we had had my daughter first I'm not sure we would of had a second child! Lol Once my son and daughter were arguing/fighting..He screamed at me from the other room saying,"WHAT WERE YOU THINKING HAVING A SECOND CHILD, MOM!!" Meaning his younger sister of course. It is such a challenge with girls. But it will totally be worth it someday as my daughter raises her daughter who is just like she was. She totally gets it and understands now. Lol

[@marycanfield9472]

Love you, Tiffany! You're such a great mom!

[@stunningstyle10]

🥺😭 my baby boy will be 3 on New Years and even though he is still little I’m struggling with him getting older. Bless your mama heart I can’t imagine how hard it would be to have them move out and grow up so bittersweet. May god bless you and your heart be stilll knowing good is always protecting them ❤️

[@3401miranda]

Yes! Boys mom is 💯 different from Daughter moms!! I feel that!!

[@CarmelaForbing-ze2pk]

Praying for you sweetie. You can do this with prayer and trusting God He's got this.... TRUST! TRUST!! TRUST!!!!!!!!

[@laurarobertson7259]

Your statement about “giving up your social life to concentrate on your kids tells me what a GREAT Mom you are, you are a special Mom to think that way. You will get through this, being a Mom is one of the greatest jobs but also one of the hardest!

[@vilmaaponte3380]

I can relate…my son is in the Air Force as well. If you need someone to talk to, I’m here. He’s 5 years in. It gets better with time I promise 💕

[@Letsgoshoppingbestie]

I'm a 33yo mom of 4 kids- 8,6,4 and 8 months and this touched me. I feel you- Motherhood is a mother lol but you've done a wonderful job! You have a huge community behind you! As a child who's mom wasn't that supportive stay on Kaia love her though the hard because it is hard and keep being supportive and loving and understanding

[@jessicaroyalty6195]

Tiffany, girl you have done your job! Be proud that your young men are living their lives and are good people, rest in that. It's time for YOU to start making plans for your future and everything you want your life to be. It's your time!

[@magee113]

Hi Tiffany! My only child, my beautiful daughter, is turning 33 in 3 months and we are only now finding out she has ADD and she is on the low end of Autism. Not knowing this as she was growing up, I made a lot of mistakes in raising her. At my age of 61, I thought my life would be so different but I find I still have many more trials and battles ahead of me. Parenting is NEVER easy and we remain "rabid mama bears" until the bitter/sweet end. YOU are an AWESOME mom! Please don't let ANYONE ever tell you otherwise!!! Keep rockin' it Mama Bear!!!! Hugs and love from Florida!!! 😊❤🎉❤😊

[@abbeyp.2856]

Much love to you, Tiffany! ❤️ I’m a mom of two little ones, and I can’t imagine them growing up! The success of your kids is a tribute to you though! I hope you can rest and give yourself the grace you deserve. 🫶

[@pmiller8655]

Hey Tiffany, I am a single mother of a boy and girl and in my experience, you are right, teenage girls are a whole different breed. My son was easy but my daughter, whoa a whole different world, lol. You're absolutely right do not take anything she says or does personally, she loves you more than she ever has, however she isn't the daughter she use to be. Growing pains I guess, and while we as adults went through growing pains at that age experiencing them again with our daughters is tough. My daughter and I were and are very close but during those teen years I felt pushed out and left in the dark. Like you said they are finding their way and aren't as willing to share their lives beyond the surface. She is now a momma of 2 boys and is doing a great job. I'm proud of her. We share our lives like we did before the "teen years", and she tells me all the time I'm her hero. I was scared and worried for her during those years and hoped that she would remember all I taught her about the world which for the most part she did. We had some battles that left me feeling hopeless, sick with worry and sad but hang in there and things get better. Keeping the door open while she is putting a lock on it was tough, but we managed, and you will to. I was like you my kids were and are my life and I put them first even before myself most of the time and that's where I think you are now, who is Tiffany? When you are suddenly by yourself you may find out you're not sure who you are beyond Mom. You have been making life choices about everything with them foremost in your thoughts and now you can decide what does Tiffany want for herself and it's scary. It's odd to be able to come and go or make decisions based only on what you want. It takes time to realize that you have a freedom you haven't had in a very long time. I will keep you and your children in my prayers.

[@lindaturner5868]

So glad you heard from Cayman. & got to chat with him. Exactly but they need to find out on their own..but i kno he likes to come by & see u 2 & shopin the freezer & pantry. Haha. Its hard but u got this girl. We can have our cries & then go only with dojng wht we do...

[@karenk1212]

Great vid, your honesty and everything. Change is always hard at first. So much to deal with for your daughter. I'll tell you that you're 100% blessed with kids. I have none and it's different! ❤

[@persiusk]

Girl, it does come so fast. When you’re in it it doesn’t feel that way, but when they go on, it’s tough no matter what, mothering is the hardest job we do. One thing I did before my son left was to show him how you build your tribe and surround yourself with positive people, doing that really helped me even now because I have those people and more just coming out of the woodwork that chill with me now that I’m by my lonesome. I guess that’s what I’d reccomend the most, bc it helps them see how to gather friends, and helps you gather yours before they go.

[@deloresmendoza7674]

Just always pray over your kiddos!!!! TFS