A bad injury but work can't stop - Chateau Life 🏰 EP 280

[@maggievh8844]

I sense there’s a lot more going on in your world right now than you’re telling us, and and that’s OK. My mom used to always say to me “one day at a time” sweetheart one day at a time. If the Lord gives you a day you take that day and enjoy it, sometimes easier said than done. You’re doing an amazing job. You’re an amazing young man and I wish you the very best and all the happiness in the world. Remember one day at a time. ❤

[@effie924]

perfectly said :)

[@normamurray4450]

AMEN!

[@janicedelp2775]

Phil, I think you are an amazing man! We all have times when we just don't feel perky and bouncy for a thousand reasons. We have to tell ourselves it won't always be that way. Before you know it, something will happen to make you feel better about things. There is only so much a person can do. Take time to do something that you really enjoy doing. That usually brings you back and center's you. I care about you, all the way from Arkansas USA!

[@rubyandrenaetheminiatureda6988]

It’s okay to not be okay. Phil you have a wonderful group of friends, family and many loyal followers- take care my good man, and thank you for sharing this video.

[@shlurpmedia4369]

Mate, been watching you hobble around all week, keeping yourself busy is a good thing, having a brew with mates is great, you know the kettle is always on here, thanks for addressing the things that millions of people are going through right now, I think your viewers don’t know how much you’re loved here in France, and how much you put in to your friends to show them how important they are to you, I just wanted to say to the people who watch you channel that the guy in front of the camera is the same guy when the camera isn’t on, a warm, generous, caring fella, who would always go the extra mile, don’t quote this to me next time we meet, I’ll deny it 😂😂😂😂

[@apavelka]

Phil I see your suffering. If you could see yourself from the outside, from our viewpoint, you would never doubt yourself or feel less than. You are an important light in the world! Your compassion and genuineness are amazing. Take care of you!! ❤

[@antoniacepo3047]

❤ I totally agree 😊

[@jorunnchristophersen9797]

Me too 💕💕

[@Randy8923]

I have had fame and fortune in my life. I have bought and sold beautiful historic mansions and even owned a convent like our friend Billy. I have owned a fleet of cars and boats but I always felt outside of myself. I didnt know who I was until I was 50 years old , I craved a simple life, A life to smell the roses as they say. I was always too driven and too ambitious and never could fully enjoy what I had. I now live simply in a small country cottage with my youngest son and I love it, Love it. Yes I still dream of a move to France and restoring a huge chateau but the dream alone makes me happy. Enjoy what you have and take the time to do as in this video, Sit and soak it in, Be happy with what you are blessed to have. That is why I suggested to you not to buy that other chateau and maybe not to even build the missing wing back on your chateau, Get out there and enjoy that beautiful patio. God bless you.

[@carolelee9238]

Such a kind man ☺️🌺

[@kathywillis7459]

Phil you’re such a wonderful and heartfelt person. So many people need to hear your words today. Have a fantastic time,❤

[@normamurray4450]

I fully agree with your thoughts!

[@marifgold1]

To the man who sheds a tear over squirrels and drives to Poland to help refugees: Holiday times like Easter or Christmas are a difficult season for many of us. It stirs up many emotions and memories some which may be happy and some that may involve loss and pain. It’s okay. They are part of all of us. Feelings don’t make us good or bad people. They are feelings. Acting on them, as you pointed out may lead us down a dangerous path and then it’s time to get help. Please, Phil stop “shoulding” on yourself. I suspect you like many of us are struggling many of life’s “slings and arrows”. Yes, you have a beautiful home, but more that that you have wonderful friends. You an amazing person. You are bright and incredibly sensitive. Be kind to yourself. You deserve no less.

[@mellodecember6654]

So, I just want to say that I have had 3 days of tears. No reason why, I just cry when I am by myself. I am 49, married with a wonderful caring and hardworking husband. 2 beautiful but often challenging college students, and I myself am a returned college student to get my degree. But this week my heart is heavy and I just want to cry. I take time for myself daily and go on long 3-4 mile walks to just soak up the sun, hear the birds and unwind. Your words helped me to know that I am not alone. We all have these moments and it is natural, and we will work through them. Thank you for your honesty and sincerity. I appreciate it, as I know that others do too. Like is not always rainbows and sunshine. Occasionally we get some clouds but eventually they blow over. Have a fabulous weekend, and heal your back and mind.

[@ludovica8221]

I've been stuck in one room for many years now, with mobility and other health issues. I want to say how much I appreciate your candour about your issues and seriously we all have these feelings if we are in a palace or in a caravan. because we are all human and we all have unique circumstances. I try not to be envious of others because given my health issues I wouldn't fit into a chateau however nice that would be. Its a lovely dream but it can only ever be a dream. I have all of the internet to offer me glimpses into other lives and although I can only live vicariously through the experiences of others I am glad for them and they fill my days -and I follow along, watching them work and work and work . At the end of the day we are all like mayflies in the global context, we have our brief moment and then we are gone. Nothing matters so much that we should make ourselves more unhappy than we need to be. It would be nice if people were more kind and helpful I agree, but there is precious little of that in the world. You may feel like you aren't doing enough in the world but you are lighting up the lives of others you will never know and your sensitivity and self reflection is so admirable You are one of the good ones Phil. I see the goodness of heart in you :) PS I think you would get along very well with Brooke from @LivingintheLoire

[@dianalewis8548]

I feel the same. I live through their exciting lives. I am not so spry in my old age😊

[@Marilinaa]

❤

[@jezabellum]

Thank you, Phil. This is a message I needed very much to hear right now. You might not know it but, you saved the day for someone out here on the other side of your screen. More power to you, sir. I hope things improve for you moving forward and I hope the same for me. Thank you, again.

[@maryannspicher]

I was going to say the same thing!

[@gordonulrickson3626]

You put my thoughts into words I was struggling to find tonight.

[@JustinBellingerTV]

I don't know you, and, perhaps, never will, but I feel, just a little bit, as a hetrosexual male, that I love you, because you are us, you are we, you are me, then take heart that, whatever you have achieved, or whatever you have not achieved really is kind of not important to the fact you are an inspiration and a guide for many who are yet to do or believe they can do what you can. Be safe and happy in the knowledge that, regardless of how you feel this very minute, which is personal and outside of your hands, there are a whole bunch of folk, me included, who feel pretty privileged that we know you via this channel and that you represent us, our weaknesses, our foibles, our strengths, etc. Whatever happens in life, you will never be alone, and, thanks to you, nor shall we. For that I thank you.

[@damealeta3541]

I sincerely hope you're feeling better now. There are times when we all get down. I certainly do. I find helping other people brings me great joy. A cousin of mine lost her brother recently. It was an aggressive cancer. She lives in the next state over so I just can't pick up and visit. So I did the next best thing: I mailed her a care package. She owns a horse so know she does a lot outside. I included a couple of bandanas, a tube of hand cream, some lip balm, and little back of candy. I also included a metal plaque with a girl riding fast on a horse with the words: Anything will kill you, make it something fun! I got a reply from her that it meant the world to her and was the nicest thing anyone had ever done for her! I cried tears of joy. This is what I'm all about. Sending you virtual hugs for giving me something beautiful to look at in your chateau and grounds. Hope your doggo is staying away from those swimming rat-gophers! 🤣🤗💚

[@Rain-Peters]

I’ve had years of living with anxiety. I was raised in a very abuse filled and toxic home. They believed in totally breaking down a child’s spirit starting at birth. I send you a big hug Phil.

[@lbuffc]

Feel better Phil! I know you are doing so much on your own as well as helping others. You are appreciated!!

[@tracey4474]

It’s ok to rebrand Phil. There is clearly a lot going on - things end, lives move on. You will find a new you. You clearly have great friends supporting you through this. This too will pass

[@jerrygodwin9084]

Thank you for the encouraging words

[@damiendoyle9948]

You have taken a positive step resolve your issue and have shown great strength in speaking publicly about it. I’m sure all your subscribers are right behind you. You Sir are on the right road, good luck.

[@charlenemartin3212]

Phil, you are always so considerate of how others feel and to encourage people to be better people. Praying for you! Happy Easter!⛪🐇

[@chrismarcotte4241]

No apologies ! I think there is more to this with Angelina missing from your vids for a long time and no mention of her.. Thankful you have a good support network when you need it! Who we are in a social setting isn't necessarily who we are when we are alone! Good message today. Wishing you the very best going forward.

[@nancylaponzina8272]

I just posted a question about this very same thing? Phil could be soothed and helped by Angelina, but I don't have any idea where she's at?

[@supremlyfoxylass]

Philly has said several times that Angelina is in England running their other business and he has done videos him traveling there to see her . Why look for trouble where there isn’t any? They bother work incredibly hard and lost a lot of revenue because of Covid. So he works their pub and she is tending to their other businesses in England . I’m sure he misses her greatly .

[@1lavishone]

What a beautiful message included today. You are so right about helping people who need a lift. Sending smiles from sunny Southern California! 🌞

[@violetcottage1499]

A little something I say to myself, “In this moment, stop, pause, breathe & just be.💕Be kind & gentle to self & continue to take little nibbles at this thing called life. And before you know it, your appetite will return to the now.”💕You are much Loved & Your Not Alone.💕Warm Easter Blessings to you Phil.💕 x Del x🙏💕

[@ashlynntaylor6045]

Thank you Phil for your thoughts and words of encouragement. Today I had planned to do some more things outside, but ended up sitting outside with the birds and squirrels we feed. My health is declining and there is so much to look after when you live in an old property, but then I realized much of my plans won’t matter to others when I’m gone, so I just sat and enjoyed the sunshine, and furry friends. I feel there are private issues you are struggling with, but here you are encouraging others. You are really a wonderful person. ❤ Hugs from rural Nova Scotia. P.S. I saw that scrap heap Billy bought. You have your work cut out for you there!🤦🏼‍♀

[@drjamesw]

It’s ok, to not be ok. None of us are robots and we all have feelings. Never let pride get in the way of talking to a friend 👍

[@normamurray4450]

Well said Phil.....I couldn't add any more than that to your wonderful, heartfelt message. You are a wonderful young man.

[@belindabrustolin4958]

It takes a big man to be prepared to share emotions to the level you have in this video, thank you for sharing your vulnerability and being a role model to other men. I wish you well on your self discovery and life journey. Each day I think 'Today is the first day of the rest of my life, what do you want that to look like?' This thought opens up so many possibilities for renewal, adventure, discovery. Yes, being mindful in nature provides grounding and is a great healer. As a mother of 4 adult sons, I send hugs to you and please take care of yourself.

[@janbentley444]

Phil, I have recently retired from an amazing job as a Police Victim Services worker and there is a saying (by an amazing man) that has been a kind of mantra for me and kept me grounded (and sane) throughout the years. “Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter." - Rev. Martin Luther King Jr. Just a thought, please continue to look up to the sun. 🇨🇦✌️

[@nilo70]

My Psychiatrist said “ YOU SHOULD NEVER SHOULD ON YOURSELF “ and she is a very smart Lady indeed. Cheers From California 😊

[@chappellroseholt5740]

Good Saturday afternoon from the SF Bay Area. Dearest Phil, it takes a lot of courage to open ones self the way you did today. It is fairly plain to those of us who follow you that stress and strain have been your companions. Every time you are with the Pethericks your whole demeanor changes and the real you comes out. Thank goodness you have those friends and supportive group. With your self awareness and positive attitude you will make it through this difficult time. From the other comments below I see we all share our affection and care for your well being. Transmitting love is instantaneous, 9,000 miles are no obstacle to sending it. Be well, enjoy the birds and your magical place.

[@pamelavans5116]

Hi Phil, believe it or not, this is the first video of your's that I've ever watched, came here from Ryan's channel. Maybe it was meant to be, because I can fully emphasize with you. I have MS and can't really walk anymore, am basically bed bound, but still try to do what I can. As my disease progressed, I started getting anxiety. My doctor told me that I live too much in my head, and he informed me that "stupid people never get anxiety ". He explained that intelligent and especially creative people suffer the most , and the best thing to do is get out of your head, and feelings. Put on your favorite music, or go listen to the birdsong, or play with your doggo.. As for the other challenges you're facing... Nutrinos/ beavers make awesome hats and slippers, muskrat make great sweaters, bamboo ( cut down) is brilliant for building things for the gardens, and makes the softest clothes and linens. If the sheep are that close to the cottage, teach them to make their own cheese! Maybe the cottage could be set up as a mini store, selling local products? Anyway, thanks for being so open and honest, mental health is vitally important and I commend your bravery. Best wishes from Vancouver Island Canada 🇨🇦 Pamela

[@truckerbrat7005]

It's ok to get deep. We all feel down from time to time, sending friendly hugs.

[@mandyedgar4663]

Happy Easter Phil...You do a great job all will come good ...Thankyou for being so honest I think we all do alot of plate spinning in life and we should all stop for a moment ...I get the feeling your on your own now and if so you are doing a great job ...Quick recovery for your back all the best

[@maryschlotter108]

Phil, you are a good and decent person.Your message to others while you deal with your own health is a perfect example. I’m sure you can see by all these lovely comments how much help you give people and encouragement. It takes a very special person to sit down and share a positive message while they are going through their own bumps in the road. I love when you reference the birds and the sun shining. There is nothing more uplifting then nature. So we must be kind and uplift each other in this world. As a teacher I had said once “ the world needs beauty “. Thank you for sharing the beauty of your chateauverse 🕊

[@shirpaten]

Phil, your "philosophising"is genuine, insightful and a delightful addition to any of your videos. Carry on!

[@Lolliegoth]

Phil - your comments resonated so well with me. I own a small house with a small garden and work full time. I sometimes just sit in summer in the back garden and read a book. Sometimes for one person the small things become big and I wonder if I do enough - not just the home but life in general. Sometimes just taking a breath and re-evaluating is the most important thing you can do - for yourself.

[@jillychandler]

Thank you lovely man. I am alone with just my dog, and can go days sometimes not talking to another human being. I know what it is like to feel lonely, and it is not nice, no one should have to feel this way, but life circumstances can make it happen. I would rather be on my own with my dog, than be with someone who I did not get on with, so this is the price I pay. But I do watch these You tubes, which help me live a life through you guys, and enjoy seeing you enjoying your lives. xxx

[@kathyl3918]

I hear you. A hug from me Jilly.

[@coletteretif6316]

I have quite a few days where it seems it might be nice to live only with my dog.❤️

[@jillychandler]

@@coletteretif6316 Yes, I feel that it is better this way, than living a life with others that may be very stressful and unhappy. I hope that you can get some you time Colette, as it seems you very much need some. xxx

[@jillychandler]

@@kathyl3918 Thank you for your support, it means a lot to me. xxx

[@jillychandler]

@@jaspearce Thank you for your support, it means a lot to me. xxx

[@Jennifer_A17]

Thank you for the raw honesty. I’m sure it’s hard to find a balance of giving so much to us and yet not too much. Thank you!!!

[@lisarobertson7011]

you got this Phil! One day at a time. Community is everything - you are so right.

[@gloriagavaneli9862]

Phil I think you are such a kind compassionate considerate human being. I can see you have been going through a bàd patch lately and yet you still take the time to give councilling to others that might be suffering. You have the right attitude you will get through whatever it is. Hope your back and leg heal soon. Keep above the line Phil. We love your vlogs and the type of person you are. ❤

[@amandalevy1227]

Thank you Phil. Really appreciate your candor at the end of the video. And you sure 'walk your talk' as they say this side of the pond! It's more than 'camaraderie' you chateau owners share. It's real time love and real time support from members of your own 'tribe' so you speak. We Brits have long lived by the principle of having to keep a 'stiff upper lip'. You've demonstrated in very practical terms that that alone is not enough! At our low points we need to 'reach out' to ask for help.... Or 'step up' to offer that support.❤ Well said young man.... And thank you!

[@kathypeterson1050]

I feel lost too - don’t we all after Covid, working, juggling family, illness and money woes. But your vlog, friendship with Billy, Sean be bring a bright spot to my day. Not to forget your puppy! I wish people wouldn’t try to analyze everything. Your right to take a time out to remind us all to have grace and gratitude.

[@dianeallan5622]

Phil, at the moment you are needing to dig deep and we are seeing it, cheering you on and supporting you from afar and saying one day at a time. Your words are so important particularly being Easter and time will be your friend eventually. Take care of yourself, because you are important to us. 🐇🐣♥🙏

[@catherinefromchristchurchn6508]

Phil, I watch you and others because when I am not at work I am alone 99 % of the time. You have no idea how much I value when you talk honestly and deeply about the things that concern you. Please know that who you are is not measured by what you do. I'm glad you have a group of good friends. Look after your injury and rebuild carefully. Blessings.

[@cathyhatfield5340]

Phil you are absolutely correct!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@amysboxachocolates4069]

Phil it looks like to me that you are feeling very much alone right now. I've been there. Im still there frequently. You're doing the right things though, keeping busy, surrounding yourself with good friends. As others have said in these comments, one day at a time. One foot in front of the other. Faith and Prayer will lift you up! Thank you for keeping it real with us. There's an awful lot of us who can relate to what you're feeling!

[@purpleshoespurp3462]

What a sweetheart. 💜

[@carolinejobe9346]

really appreciate you....cheers

[@lynnmahoney6283]

Phil, I can feel your grief, surprised some others don’t. The injury gave you more time to sit and feel your loss. I thought you were going to talk about that. We can’t enjoy our surroundings, no matter how lovely when we feel depressed and lonely for a loved one. I’m happy you can reflect and enjoy today. Great talk❤

[@kimgaivin9208]

Brilliant message that people can’t hear enough. You can have all the beauty and blessing around you and sometimes feel utterly alone, lost and overwhelmed. Thank you for choosing to be honest and real. That hard to find on social media.

[@lornasimmons5499]

Phil you are a kind ,generous, compassionate person. Its obvious by the comments here that everyone thinks so....and thats from those of us who don't know you personally! You're doing great things...sending hugs 🤗 ❤

[@rolo4945]

Be encouraged ❤ take one day at a time, keep focused on what you have achieved already ❤️

[@susannahwhitaker994]

Phil you are a very special person and Thankyou for being concerned for others, Just be yourself and I hope you get all you dreams fulfilled. The best things in life are free 🤗

[@robynoutram1698]

What lovely words Phil. Know that what you do with your vlogs gives pleasure to so many around the world. Take care of you too and get better soon 😊

[@ellaaltman2137]

IF for WHATEVER reason you're feeling a little stuck or weighed down, PHIL has words just for YOU in this Vlog. Whether living in palace or humble abode, there is NOT ONE person that at one time or another hasn't struggled to make sense of it all, to feel at a loss. BUT regardless of how someone is feeling at THIS moment, it IS a beautiful world, filled with wonder and promise. Thank you PHIL for your candor. FYI new subscriber here.

[@coletteretif6316]

My Poppy was a Fire Captain (they hear a lot) and when people used to be jealous of the rich folk on the hill he said “ you don’t know what goes on behind those brick walls”.😢 Suffering can happen to anyone, anywhere. It takes different forms. Some “rich” people have had quite a bit of suffering and they go through it alone because “what can you have to complain about”….❤

[@donnamurdoch8949]

Beautiful message Phil, take one day at a time and find joy in the small things, at least that's what I do and find it calming. You have a great weekend too. Thanks for the uplifting chat.

[@lhmcd5538]

No apologies needed. You are talking about things that needed saying. I suffer with many forms of mental illnesses. It’s from abuse and my genetics. I will say that we have to remember when we are feeling the lowest of the low that what you are feeling will pass. I’m going to be 59 in a few days and I’m looking forward to it because it means I’m still here. I volunteer too. It picks me up as I feel better about helping, well anyone or any other living being. Thank you. May you all please take care and stay safe. 👏👏👏❤❤❤🤩🤩🤩

[@paulinedixon3490]

Phil I’m sending you a big hug. That’s if you don’t mind. You’re a lovely young man and do so much to help others. Stay happy pet You so deserve to be. ❤

[@priscillajones623]

Your words have obviously touched your followers in a profound way I was reading through them and discovered quite a few of them are isolated by no choice of there own and you are bringing something meaningful to them. So keep on keeping on. You wouldn’t believe how many people don’t ever think or want to help other people like you do. Think of the Ukrainian people you gave aide and comfort to. So one of the things you are is a giver. Thanks for that. No matter what valley you are in you will come out of it. ❤

[@samanthabloggins1775]

Feel better Phil ! I always enjoy your comments and content! Thankyou!

[@icandivideos5743]

Phil, thank you for your message, you make a difference! Deep bow of appreciation. ❤

[@carolinestagg6807]

This florida grandmother appreciates your candid conversation. Love your posts -- no chateaux to speak of here! Blessings.

[@patriciapallett8377]

You are lovely Phil, keep your hopes up you have lots of supporters ❤

[@dianegriffith3006]

Thank you for your transparency Phil-I’ve always enjoyed your videos in particular because you are for real-your trips to help those in the Ukraine gave testimony to this. Keep on doing what you’re doing. You do you! 👍

[@markstephens4202]

Happy Easter Phil, stay strong, you have a great number of people out here wishing you success in your endeavors.

[@cremebrulee4759]

You're such a kind and caring man.❤. Thank you.

[@sammcturk8898]

I've always found pressure washing to be a little cathartic and pleasurable, Happy Easter to you and yours. You are just perfect just the way you are we all have ruff times this to shall pass luv. P.S. I lost my husband of more than 40 years in December and can barely get out of bed most days just when I think I can crack on something or someone kicks me down again but we all have the rezilluns to get up again it just might take a few minutes sometimes. You and Billy have been invaluable to keeping me getting up and carrying on Never underestimate how valuable you are to some and try to be like a duck ( let it roll off your back) with the rest of the fools. Thank you for your time and the joy and courage you give me.

[@mrspeabody3128]

No matter how strong we think we are it proves a few mis-spoken words can cut so deep that we doubt ourselves and all we do.Please don't take those throwaway remarks to heart. You have proven time and again that you are more than worthy as a person to your friends and all you have done in the community both locally and elsewhere.Take a deep breath and hold your face up to the sun, soak it in because you have achieved so much

[@Gtagmonk]

aww bless you. I suffer from occasional bought of anxiety. Recently had a heated discussion with the builders that are renovating my neighbours house, rubble left on our roof, gutters blocked that get rain water off our roof. My neighbours have been nothing but supportive. The builder, however, hasn't been. It's all brought that anxiety back to point I can't enjoy my rather lovely garden when they are working. It's something very small, but, I feel horrible about it. I had to vent to my sister .... it's always good to vent, get any upset, anger or rage out of your system. I do hope you find the peace you are struggling to find soon x

[@donnalewis4895]

Yes everyone needs help. Demons are hard to shake. Great words. Rambling that makes sense. Hugs

[@johnwest219]

Phil, more to you meets the eye. I know exactly where you are with your life. I served 25 years in the armed forces (1966/1990) managed 2 rock and roll bands, amature family historian, 4 grandchildren. At the age of 73 I still suffer the same way. It's good to talk to someone you trust preferably outside the family who willing to lend an ear. My Mum used to say a problem shared is a problem halved. Take care

[@toddj9794]

Thanks Phil. You're appreciated my friend

[@CynthiaBerry713]

Our mental health is the key to life any more. Some of us can tell there is an underlying sadness about you, and sharing the ups and downs, talking it out,...whether it be to a camera lens and the thousands who are watching, or with those closest to you...is the lock that your key fits in, so good on you! I'm glad you're feeling better, it's always a pleasure to see you enjoying your life and the friends who surround you. Easter blessings to you!

[@johnje4285]

Thank you. I too am in very lucky place but sometimes I feel lost. I also have wonderful friends but the feelings we experience are valid. I don't know you but I consider you are friend I haven't met

[@marysutherland8570]

Phil, thank you so very much for your brave ( and very successful) attempt at bringing into perspective some of life's harsher moments! I'm sure there's so much that you are not saying, and that's ok. Some of us have had to pull through some very rough stuff, stuff that our own strength is not able to endure. But I must say that there is strength beyond our own when we reach out to God who loves us so much and has promised to give us the strength we need, just for the asking. I pray that this rough patch of your road will smooth out soon, and just want to thank you for reaching out to others and encourage them to keep on going, listen to the birds, smell the flowers, feel the warmth of the sun! Big long distance hug from WallaWalla, Washington USA.

[@joyceloudon368]

Thank you Mary for saying this so well.

[@davidorcharlottehermansen5839]

Thanks for your refreshing honesty Phil - I think you are on the right track (we all have our bad days & need to take a break & just re-group/take some time)❤ What you have achieved with fixing up the chateau in the short time you have been there has been amazing - it would have taken us at least a decade (it took my dad who was an architect to finish our family home 30 years!)

[@shannonstone2690]

Beautiful way to take something disappointing and turn it around Phil. There are always blessings to be found if you look carefully. I love your spirit and kindness, and your empathy for others. You’re a solid human being and deserve all of the happiness in the world. Oh and I hope your back heals ASAP!

[@tracypelton3089]

The world needs more people like you in it. Don't stop being you.

[@clairedaigle5199]

Phil, it's so important for men to speak their truth and it takes a lot of courage to say that out loud to "strangers". We support you and everyone should reach out to the men in their lives to make sure they're doing OK when they seem a bit off. Thank you!

[@lynnsereta6958]

I appreciate your sharing. All is so true. People who care are "wired" differently. That is a beautiful thing which comes with great empathy and true understanding . God has blessed you!

[@lindadaum9408]

Phil. You are warm, loving, talented person. We all have times in our life where we have a hard time coping. I’m not sure you are telling us everything and that’s ok. And telling us you are having a hard time is a first step. Help is only a phone call away. You have so much going on. Ask for help. I did. Just know we love you and know that you are maybe overwhelmed. Life has its moments. Take care of yourself first. Day at a time. And this is from an old lady that loves your videos and worries about you. Happy Easter! God loves you too. Amen. I’m done now. 😂

[@KeithWiggins-xc1sf]

I know one thing Billy will always put a smile on your face he would be a fabulous friend to have around . Hugs on to u , chin up u still young and still have your hole life ahead of u and thats what ever u are doing .

[@valerierosling3968]

I believe if someone questions whether they are the best they can be, it means they are a very good person, full of all the good characteristics a human needs to be a peace with themselves and the world.

[@shilohwoods4516]

What a beautiful message and very timely for many people. Happy Easter to those who celebrate.

[@julieknowles7063]

Phil that was a wonderful thing to do. We all need to step back and smell the roses at times, and remind ourselves we need to look out for ourselves, and be there for those that need us. Be a good listener, or just be there, for others. ❤

[@stevencurtis7295]

Phil, you make our day. Wishing you all the best. Take care.

[@shirleyw8531]

Phil, we all have times like this and that's okay. It is ok to not be ok and having a good support network around you is important but it's also good to have a little time on your own surrounded by nature and just be. I too am struggling with my back at the moment on top of my " normal " mobility/ disability issues but I made myself go out into the greenhouse sit on a stool and pot out a few seedlings, not much but I feel better for my few minutes with nature. Take care and remember we are all here for you just as much as you are there for us

[@maire4283]

Thank you, Phil, for expressing your thoughts so vulnerably as you shared today. It says everything about the man you are, that in the midst of your own struggles, you have genuine compassion and concern for others who are hurting/in need and take time to offer help and words of encouragement to them. Truly inspiring. You are on our hearts and in our prayers.

[@iamdawt]

Well, gosh, I had to unexpectedly grab a tissue. I appreciate your candor, which I believe has touched many hearts. Your personal and honest video only adds to an already admired channel. Take care of yourself and know that there are thousands of us out here cheering you on.

[@gloriahelstrip3627]

Hi Phil.What you said was from your ❤️.You are amazing in what you do and how talented you are. I feel like you some days.Dont know why , you feel your not doing enough or being brave enough,I have a good life,iv just been given the all clear from cancer. Lost my husband a long time ago to Cancer,iv been give a chance again. Tomorrow is another day,grab it. I do hope you get your strength back,you have come this far.Your loved and admired by so many. Just take stock,give your self some me time, stroke Lightening. He will feel your anxiety and be by your side. Love from an avid watcher. God bless Phil, Gloria 😊

[@jantaylor8526]

Well said. I am a support worker for a number of people here in Australia, it's a fun but very frustrating job and I have to remind myself a lot to realise that everyone has issues both large or small that to them are very important and overwhelming. They might not seem to bad to me, but it's not my place to judge. Life can throw up some absolute stinkers to you, but there are people around who can help, sometimes just a helping hand, a shoulder to cry on etc. Enough of my ramblings, hate to see you sad or unsure of things, but, life is sometimes a challenge, sit, reflect and appreciate, we are all lucky to still be alive

[@janelord6461]

That was a message straight from the heart Phil. You truly are a wonderful, warm, kind hearted person who is always there to help his friends and family. You also try to help us, the people you do not know personally by speaking out about mental health. If your message has helped just one person then you have done a great job. Hope the back is feeling better now and you have a great Easter weekend. Take good care of yourself.

[@carolineostler4984]

So glad to hear a man being open about his emotions. Well done! Thank you!

[@lindaanderson7507]

I said so before and I will say it again, when life sends you a change you didn't expect, keep going. I have been experiencing that this year. I send you good wishes.

[@treehuggingmusician595]

Back injuries are very debilitating. I've been there. Keep listening to the birds. They are healing.

[@lindabellile5738]

Just makes you human, guy. We all get down especially when dealing with pain. Happy Easter.

[@gordonulrickson3626]

Phil thank you for opening up emotionaly what you shared not only got emotions out for you it helped others. I have had a rather crappy day taking care of my partner who has major mobility and health issues and was feeling very what's the point. You turned me around and motivated me to do a couple tasks before bed and start the day tomorrow with a better outlook. Thank you and I hope you are feeling better.

[@annettesharrock1236]

Dont change Phil the words you spoke about is truly from the heart. Just carry on being YOU😊. Yes I have seen whet you had to do for Billy 🎉 happy easter 🐣 💓

[@heathernielsen2618]

Phil, thank you for not only being so honest with your own wellbeing… but for having the strength and courage to remind us all to look after others as well as ourselves. Your heartfelt concern and offers of help to those less fortunate is truly an inspiration. Please know that this works both ways… if you are in need, don’t hesitate to reach out.

[@ritacarlson9522]

Was moved by your thought and heart felt talk...since my being widowed 7 years ago the days months and years of being alone have taken their toll...but for some reason Phil...your video helped me. Thank you and on this Easter I wish joy to reenter your life...you deserve it Phil.

[@donitahess3179]

Wonderful message, Phil. Hoping that you feel better very soon. We’ve all hit bumps along our journey and they are uncomfortable and usually temporary. Today was that day for me. Too many things on my to-do list creating too much stress when I should be enjoying my projects in retirement. I was overwhelmed and decided to step back. It was very difficult to say no, but I had to in order to stay physically and mentally healthy. Decided to cut back my to-dos and begin each day saying thank you for my blessings and returning to daily head clearing, fresh air walks. Feel better soon. We’ve all been there.

[@alexh327]

Wow! Amazing video, it made me cry. Thank you and take care!