Van Life Wisdom Don't Crash & Burn

[@wytchwoodhomesteadandkenne5036]

People don't always have any choice whatsoever. None. But a lot of us with no choices, are survivors and that's what matters. I live in a partially converted Skoolie (2000 International) on $791 a month with 4 kitties, my service dog and a rescue Chihuahua. By the time I pay obligations like phone, insurance, storage, etc, I have about $300. Before diesel, before gas, before pet needs. My needs don't matter. Do I have an emergency fund? Nope. I buy what I can, as I can and do it myself. I poop in a bucket, go without showers, fill the bus with fuel once a month and that means I can go roughly 400 miles a month. I drive 150 miles or so, spend 2 weeks in a national park, drive another 150 miles, rinse repeat. When my tires were rags, I stopped at small town school districts (bus barns) and asked if they had ANY used tires they'd sell me cheap. Wonderful Muleshoe Texas GAVE me two tires free. Amazing people. I have two steer tires on the back of my bus and no spare but I am filthy rich compared to where I was when I pulled in, steel belts showing. There are miracles everywhere you look; you just have to look and don't expect everything to be given to you. I have faith that no matter what happens, someone or something will happen that will allow me to work through it. I've been sitting in Albuquerque for two weeks now, trying to sell a few things to head on towards Winslow and can't, thanks to Facebook, but I'm not whining. I'm sitting in a truckstop, reading my Kindle and waiting patiently. I don't need much food after my surgery so there's a blessing. Would I much prefer to have a nice big fancy rig, travel every day, shower every day, put my rig in the shop for regular maintenance, have solar? Absolutely. But I don't and I have nothing in this world but my pets, my bus, me and what I was able to shove in it. So no matter how stupid you may think me for not using my head and not being realistic, I am surviving, I WILL survive and I had no choice but to survive or give up and I don't give up. I had major abdominal surgery in February and 3 days later I was taking care of myself and my pets. I have no running water; I use jugs. I've no solar; I use a generator and pray like hell it holds together. I learned to take care of it. I budget for gas and diesel and pet needs and do without the rest. Now tell me; what other choice do I have? At least I'm out here, living my life.

[@trishhannah2701]

Bob, I haven’t commented before, I’m kind of a lurker, but I wanted to tell you that I think this is your most valuable video to date.

[@gregordonnach7970]

Ditto on the lurking. Ditto on the value and appropriateness of this particular message. I've been doing this for the past three years. Two in Hawaii, one in the Sonoran and Mohave. Listen to this video newbies.😄

[@elizabethclark4722]

Dedicated lurker here…love this guys heart, mind and spirit!

[@pringles8462]

Totally agree

[@CharlieM-l2h]

Bob tells things as they are . No secrets . I really appreciate his videos , I had things pretty well thought out , but Bob sure taught me some things !! 😃👍😃👍 Thank's again to Bob .

[@mythicalnomadadventure969]

The bottom line to this is: keep saving into a massive emergency fund, be thoughtful and quiet and let the universe smile on you. And remember: You need at least monthly income of some sort cause everything has its hand out. 👍 Rock on 🙂.

[@Mexicobeanpole]

Bobs just reminding us of life lessons we were always told but we sometimes forget 1) don’t try to keep up with the Jones’s And live below your means 2) save for a rainy day 3)attitude is everything 4)be grateful for what you do have 5)a Boy Scout or Girl Scout is always prepared

[@troys286]

Excellent video sir. I've lived on the road as a trucker for 23yrs. My retirement plan is to transition to nomadic living. Seeing how I'm use to the life I can't wait to start living and stop slaving. You are spot on, it's all about expectations and a change in mindset. I spend the majority of my time living and working in about 50 sq ft. It's plenty of room and makes your life very simple. Living small requires smart thinking and it really gives you piece of mind. No rent or house payment, no utilities, no property tax among other things. I do own a house that when I retire I won't be able to afford to stay in. In the truck I have all the essentials. fridge, toaster oven, coffee maker, electric cooking devices and so on. There's many ways to see to your needs on the road. As a trucker I've been everywhere, but I never have the time to enjoy places I like. The upside is I know where to go when and where not to. I've got a huge list of destinations and we have and like motorcycles so I'm very excited to go nomad permanently. Take care Bob.

[@annmariesikorski]

From one trucker to another, an OO that ran most North America. I loved the lifestyle and was serious about it. I had become a widow and I was a landscape architect, I wanted to see America and get over my grief. I went to a good tech College got my CDL. Was still wet behind the ears bought myself a good used truck and I was hired by a company bright orange trailer! You probably know who that was. Anyway years went by I bought newer and bigger trucks and went on the hauling special equipment and extra hazardous materials. My truck is my home. 😊

[@jacij742]

" I'm just a guy that lives in a Van and poops in a bucket"! 🤣 Love your down to earth thinking even though I believe your a Van Life Guru! Keep it coming. ✌️

[@Captain-Max]

Well said Bob. I aim for 60/40. 40% Goes in the bank and stays there. Every time I reach for my wallet I ask myself is this a need or a want. And If it is a need, I ask myself do I need it now. Last week $1000 worth of new tires on my Van became a need About 4 months earlier than I expected. Expensive problems will come up, that is Guaranteed.

[@sanautin]

Fantastic video, and a much needed wake up call. I'm a single woman who's traveled to 14 countries alone, lived in 3 countries other than the US, lived out of a back pack for 10 years, and then a couple of years ago bought some land and built a tiny house (with the help of friends!) where I now live. While I'm totally fearless in most circumstances, I have a terrifying fear of traveling alone in my own country. Yet, that is exactly what I want to do when I retire in 7 years. How will I do this? Planning, saving, learning, facing the fears by going out on excursions alone in my car for now...AND by watching Bob videos!

[@robertstanley3253]

best of luck to you

[@sassysarina9718]

That's what I'm doing every weekend in my van. Short trips. I need to know what I don't need or know. It helps.

[@melodyjennings7782]

My mom was a can do gal who lived by the motto, "Can't be that hard!" You sound like a can do gal too! Your intuition will keep you safe if you pay attention!

[@janejones5362]

I do my own repairs. Since my 30s 😊. Bob, you started hopeless. It can be done. Ive done it in a car before. A person just has to have Plans A, B and C. Be able to think on your feet, be creative, be willing to ask for help, be willing to defend yourself.

[@lenkaiser]

Exactly why we went with a van instead of an RV. We both are on disability and we make a little less than $1700 a month. We felt that an RV of any size would be too costly in repairs, maintenance and god forbid if anything went wrong. On some rigs a new set of tires can be over a thousand dollars! We choose an extended van to be able to live comfortably on what we make and not have to take on any other ways of making income if we did not want to. Thanks Bob for the vid!

[@catherinemcmartin8275]

smart! Blessings to you!

[@dianeibsen5994]

How are you doing and your extended van Len. Stolmy exploratory phase of Van life single woman I applied for disability and waiting to see where that goes. Did you mean you make 1700 combined? you didn't specify. Thank you, Diane Seattle Wa.

[@lenkaiser]

@@dianeibsen5994 Yes my sister & I make around that together. I make $818 a month. Which living by yourself in an apartment is not just gonna happen on that amount of money. It takes a while to get disability usually around 3-5 years. For my sister luckily it only took her about a year in a half. She had two strokes in one day at 37. But for me I had to hire a lawyer and it took 3 and a half years to get it. Just so you know they ALWAYS deny you at first, you HAVE to appeal in order to actually get it. As for the van we still have it, but sadly we are not living in it yet. We had some mechanical problems out of the starting gate. So we will probably move into it at the beginning of winter when its cooler.

[@travelamma2779]

Still Relevant! Timeless advice. Thanks, Bob. I'm about 4 weeks out from "going live in a van." While I have considered all the things you mentioned, I hadn't organized them in my brain cohesively to address them all. I believe you just saved me some emotional pain and probably one panic attack! (ha ha)

[@monicawolf1592]

I'm just a man that lives in a van and poops in a bucket. The brutal honesty from a man who sounds like he wants the best for people without dissolution.

[@2busysecretary]

I'm not a nomad because I have two disabled grandsons that live with me and I must have a house for them... However I am fascinated by the subject and people who do live the nomad life. You have just shared amazing insight for anyone no matter where they are, and where they plan to go -- always live below your means, always have faith, and always be open to change.

[@maryolson3677]

It's so helpful to rewatch your videos. I started out thinking I had to have a van, since then I've decided to start with my reliable car while I save for a van.

[@HectorPlasmic]

The older I get, the more I realize the old cliche' is the truest thing there is: Attitude is the key to happiness.

[@goneretired7030]

Thanks for pointing out the reality of life. This would be an excellent topic for the RTR - "The realities of the nomadic life". You can't run away from your life.

[@vasttravels8840]

It is a good discussion for people from "all walks" of life. Peoples living in sticks & bricks, those struggling with many aspects of their lives. Live within your means, be grateful for what you have & be responsible for your decisions. Life can throw us curves, but no one is responsible for fixing it but you. We are so very blessed to have so many choices, opportunities & sometimes others willing to help us. Thank you for all u share & do Bob & ur group. 🤗

[@yoso585]

Gone Retired I think Bob’s trying to keep the hopeless from showing up to begin with. It’s a good thing.

[@mosheedy9862]

This advice is good for nomadic it nonnomadic.

[@SindyJ37]

@@yoso585 good point. these hopeless types want to find anyone possible to transfer their problems and blame to

[@richardbonfiglio1765]

@@yoso585 You go for it Bob! Keep the Devils Spawn at bay.

[@haroldfitz5146]

Mr Bob, this was your most important video ever. Some people are not cut out for this lifestyle and they need help to realize that. An emergency fund of at least 3 months expenses is essential, as is a special fund of 2-3 grand to handle an engine or transmission overhaul. If one is underfunded, life on the road can be more stressful than staying put in a sticks and bricks. Good video!

[@jaimhaas5170]

Harold I also think this info could help about 90% of our country. They need to stop living a materialistic existence. Most of the WWII generation knew this.

[@haroldfitz5146]

jaim haas - I agree with you 100%

[@occipitalneuralgia2339]

Harold Fitz Bob said that amount is NOT ENOUGH. He said having around $10 grand was a good emergency expense fund. I agree.

[@patriciaalexander9751]

If your on ss. Why would you need 3 mo. Living expenses saved up? I do have a maintence fund of 7k. This is not what he was preaching a year ago

[@occipitalneuralgia2339]

patricia alexander wow, how fortunate YOU are! Many of us are not.

[@brettmackenzie4576]

Thank you Bob, I feel like I am a part of a large community that loves & respects you very much . Your attitude & life experiences that you selflessly share with us is a reflection of the kind soul you are . I want you to know that you have & continue to help & guide me in a positive direction. Again, thank you Bob , I hope to meet you one day my friend 🙂

[@AdventureNomadforNature]

Excellent Video Bob - My mum used to love saying this "All you really need, is food in your stomach, clothes on your back and a roof over your head." I spent my life being frugal (my family was frugal, but they did it with style and class) and I've been happy living out of a vehicle now for over 13-years, and since I got my van it has been a whole lot more comfortable (even bordering on too comfortable at times, LOL). People often point out RV's to me, but I personally feel that just the expense of a small vehicle is enough for me at this point in my life, and far easier to park and explore narrow, dirt, back roads. I did ad solar, but I keep it minimal. The less we own the less problems (to a point of course) and the less expense and worry. Living simply and minimalistic is (in my opinion) is the way to go to experience freedom and fewer worries. Money in the bank is far preferable to owning a lot of stuff, living below your means is excellent advice, and it's not nearly as hard as one might think. Lowering ones expectations doesn't have to mean lowering ones standard of living, a person can still have a great life on $500 a month and be clean and presentable and even stylish. My budget is $500 a month, and I travel for six or seven months all over the country and see a lot of places on it, then work for five or six months (no, I'm not retired). How? I just do without a lot of things that aren't necessary, and I stay away from cities and towns as much as possible, they tend to have a way of draining the bank account. Thanks for this Bob, I will send people to this one in particular.

[@lisachafin4101]

💗I love you Bob!💗 ... and I mean that in a respectful, friendly way. I've been watching you videos for weeks now, doing my homework, making notes, accessing my "needs" and coming to some wonderful, exciting conclusions ... all with your help. Truly amazing. THIS was a much needed video! And just a I mentally prepared myself for pure hell in USMC bootcamp (which I graduated with honors & series high shooter) ... I thrived in the environment! Now I'm preparing for life on the road as a nomadic disabled vet. I know that my medical & financial "needs" will be met. The beauty of the VA is you can be seen at any VA medical facility in the country with just a phone call! Ok ... I won't go on & on about everything. I was just so happy to know I'm doing the right things in order to not "crash & burn". Thank you so much for all you do ... for others 💗

[@nancylanderson8012]

This was excellent advice whether you are a nomad or not. You are a good mentor with a no nonsense approach. I'm a camper but not a nomad and learn from you every time I listen to a video. Thank you Bob.

[@takwaakiwa]

Treat the Earth and all that dwell thereon with respect. Remain close to the Great Spirit. Show great respect for your fellow beings. Work together for the benefit of all Mankind. Give assistance and kindness wherever needed. Do what you know to be right. Look after the well being of mind and body. Dedicate a share of your efforts to the greater good. Be truthful and honest at all times. Take full responsibility for your actions.

[@denisefoster6865]

Bob, I know this video was done a few years ago, however, the monetary info is still very valuable, even when adjusting for inflation. Thank you.

[@coolcatcarolena4951]

This is such a hugely important video. Most people don't realize that our problems don't go away when move into our vehicles and hit the road. Yes, some do go away, but they're replaced by others. That's just life. The most important thing you said was that we must shift our internal message to ourselves. And I would ad that it is once we take personal responsibility for our lives that we truly become free and happy. Thank you Bob!

[@marknathanks7592]

Carolena, well said: accepting personal responsibility.

[@IraQNid]

Holding yourself accountable applies equally as well to any lifestyle. Be it on the road, on or under the water, in the sky, on or under the land.

[@michaeltichonuk2176]

Didn't see this posted before..I must have been without signal... I enjoyed this one. It made me fully aware that I do what I do before its all gone. (Nature, National Parks, ..in fact I missed RMNP because it began burning when I arrived in CO. ..Gone) And addressing materialism...my weakness which I'm slowly bringing into reality... Thank you!

[@callencantrell5663]

This is one of Bob's best.

[@Frugal_fitchic]

I needed to hear every minute of this!

[@marshallbaldwin851]

Yes Bob is back to being real again. That's the dialogue that got us all watching in the beginning !

[@patriciaalexander9751]

Watch without bounds. Like two different people.

[@Peakview2]

Hey I grew up on a farm and we didn't even have indoor plumbing until I was in high school, so a bucket isn't bad. You're right, attitude can make a huge difference.

[@bobham919]

we had a outside toilet till i was about 6. but we was high class we had the well on the back porch and you could draw water even in the rain and snow.

[@tierneycreates]

Bob that was some awesome truth! "Wherever you go, there you are"! I admit I originally got hooked on watching your videos as I thought van life would be the fantasy escape to what was going on in my life, it is not. Now that I worked stuff out in my life, truthfully I am no longer interested in van living, but I still enjoy watching your videos as they have great tidbits for living the best life as well as fun RV and van tours!

[@martinhays6811]

Hey bob its me martin ky. I started in a tent and went to a old 60yr old camper it was a bumpy road to success it took time planning and work my jeep needed upgrades its 17yrs so i worked on both at the same time what ever needed to be done at the time one fire at a time one month at a time i had to save to get there allways gauged my funds every mo. To get what i needed and did it myself to save for the next step have to be patiant and wait till the funds are there and the weather was good read and plan gather parts i keep it simple i dont want it to be a job once done just maintain camping is hard enough to keep repairing over and over just a simple life cheep living free in open spaces!

[@lyraann2502]

I can’t imagine the kind of emails you get Bob. Your video sounds like what everyone around me thought when I wanted to live in my van. The mistakes I was making then were listening to all those who said I couldn’t. I am a nomad and nature lover at heart and always have been. I told folks over and over again that my struggles were going to be the same but I would be happy and I was right !!! Like I said, I can’t imagine the emails you receive and I am sure there are folks who needed to hear this. At the same time, folks who don’t have can just as easily crash and burn in sticks n bricks. My first day on the road I had a tire blow out. A new tire on a vehicle that was checked before I left. So it proves, you never know what will happen but I made it just fine. Stayed centered and grounded and did what was needed just as if I was a stick n bricker. So stay cool folks when stuff does happen, you get through it just the same when you are a nomad. Great advice on living by below ones wants. I don’t have the things even Bob says a nomad should before hitting the road and I am still not running out to buy them. If I end up so cold at some time, chances are real high, I can find a Walmart then and get a buddy but right now, money goes towards savings. One thing many think they need is good cell plan. I want to add to Bobs tips here that that is hogwash. I have the smallest Verizon plan and guess what, I am fine. I can even watch crvl, lol. Sure my data runs out in a day but it just bumps me down to 2G. 😲 The need for fast isn’t real and if you need to save, trust me, you will likely survive slow internet. I have visited some friends who can’t stand waiting for my phone to load a webpage but I have had zero issues. Still works. No need for an expensive plan and I save quite a bit each month this way.

[@thesilverenchantment9227]

Good for you!

[@lifeafterstrokewithtom4804]

The universe is friendly. This is good Bob.

[@jamespazera3038]

Better choices😊❤😂

[@rainmaker1346]

I bought a real nice 2000 low miles rv. First year every thing broke. Fridge, heater, hot water heater, tires, door luck, and many others. Spent over 6000 bucks first year. It is a nice RV now, ha ha ha...….I have every survival tool in the world but the most important one is ,MONEY, when you are on the road and every thing you own is in your rig.

[@bobhale8325]

5 years later and watching this again. What a great message.

[@dawna4185]

great words of wisdom for EVERYBODY, house dwellers and otherwise!!! thanks, Bob! it's really all about an attitude shift! xo

[@bustershaw9230]

Howdy Bob This is the second time I watched this video. It's a great reminder to help a person get ready for the nomad life. A good reality check.

[@dalekundtz4603]

Thank you Bob for telling it like it is. Your advice about how to not crash and burn is just an honest assessment of real life. Most of us in sticks and bricks have never lived within our means. Most of us have lived with luxuries until we are forced to live without. We have to be honest with ourselves and make realistic decisions to make things work. Keep making the great videos!

[@jimbear8888]

Expect the best and prepare for the worst.. Wise, wise words Bob. Thanks again for your honesty and for caring 🏜️ enough to put this out there.

[@bathens4971]

I appreciate your ability to recognize people who've made an endless string of bad decisions and now come begging for a handout. I hope your new organization is able to vet your recipients properly. Your heart is in the right place

[@jaimhaas5170]

Great point B....socialism is good.....to a degree.

[@Fmblogger04]

The TRUTH!

[@gd613]

'Taint socialism if aid is freely given, not stolen and given to others.

[@bathens4971]

@@gd613 thank you! I help out my family, friends, neighbors when they need it, and I believe that's more the definition of charity rather than socialism. Since we lived in caves, humans have helped each other, for food, shelter, protection, for the good of the family, the community, the species. Long before we had anything called socialism, we've been helping each other out. It's who we are.

[@dona62851]

B Athens Exactly! If we can't look to eachother for help, support, companionship then what is the point of the caravans? Why the focus on tribes? Thi video has done nothing but confuse and discourage me in my preparations for a Nomadi life. Poverty makes me feel unwelcome in conventional society. Will it be the same as a nomad? I can only do my best and hope I don't "crash and burn". But I point to all the people working in the upcoming van build. 40+ people volunteering to help others. THOSE are the people I hope to find on the road.

[@jaimhaas5170]

One of the most valuable lessons to teach kids at the formative years : "Wants" vs "Needs". My experiences tell me many people have never even thought about this.

[@pete614]

I would rent an RV and try out the lifestyle and then make the jump. If one doesn't like it, just stay in a house and rent an RV sometimes :)

[@DebbieGring]

Bob, Great video! I can add a case in point. I have an older motor home. Less then 20K miles on it. Traveled west. Both roof top AC units died. 1 tire went flat. Needed Oil Change and got the dashboard AC fixed. Fortunately I had the means to do the repairs However, it was tight going home! I have been camping for over 60 years. I've camped in tents. pop ups, motor homes and trailers. RV's will not nickel and dime you. It's 100 here 500 there, or worse 1k here, 2k there....Do what you can with what you have!

[@rebeccatreeseed410]

I initially thought a Class C would be a luxe home... but as I watched videos, they started looking like a money pit. I think I would go with a van, but they are pricey. My Tacoma would be hard, a little camper top would make it enough to sleep in.

[@TRS80is1337]

This is why I watch your channel. You ask the tough questions in your interviews and you show the reality of RV life, not the sugar coated hollywood version other youtube channels like to portray. You also get to cold hard numbers of how much this stuff costs. Again, something other channels fail to do. If anyone gets the impression from this channel that this life is easy or anyone can do it and be happy, they never paid attention. That said, you give equal representation to the joys and freedom RV life can provide. Very well done!

[@hopeonthetrail6984]

Don't know if you see posts on an older video that you've put out but I'm watching this during the pandemic in Aug of 2020. I'd love to be out there with all of you but have obligations at home with job ( maybe back to it soon) and a 89 year old Mother. At this point in my life I can't make any physical plans for my retirement which may be next year if possible but I sure have itchy feet to be out on the road exploring. Thanks so much for all the great info to help those of us that may one day have the opportunity to do the same as you. I'm a planner so watching your videos which I've just started doing has given me lots to contemplate and continue saving toward. Living within and below your means is a much needed way of life that each of us should be doing anyway. Blessings to you Bob, Teri

[@hpshifter7783]

Good luck to anybody leaving town in a $3,000 RV that wants to travel full time. As my Grandmother once said, " Common sense isn't so common." I agree with Bob. If you have a solid car, roll in that car and live out of that. It can be done, and is being done right now.

[@craigmurdock1944]

Damn thing will blow up first trip! BOOM! $5500. rebuild needed! Leave the bomb on the side of the road and take a bus home...lol..

[@next20yrs]

This is very good advice for those who are financially limited and see living on wheels as a viable alternative when they have limited funds. This lifestyle is far more expensive than people think, especially in the beginning before you learn the ropes and double especially if you can't do your own repairs. I am fortunate to have no financial worries, but I will say it still hurts to constantly put $$'s into my older Class B. I am now 2.5 weeks into living in my van by choice, and your second category of crashers and burners would apply to my situation. I have been close to crashing and burning since I set out. I thought I'd be fine in such a small space and without modern facilities; well, thinking (imagining) and doing are two different beasts. It has been quite hard for me to adjust to such a small living space (tripping over my dog and cat constantly, having to pull out five things to get one, etc) plus my comfort level is greatly compromised and that too is hard for me. My inner need and motivation for trying this lifestyle was the freedom and the hope that I would find camaraderie among like-minded nomads. Only 2 1/2 weeks in, I have found neither but I keep pushing on. The one piece of advice I would offer anyone who is about to start living in a vehicle is keep the possessions to a bare minimum. I took way too much and there's gonna be a large pile of my stuff on the RTR give-away tarp. : )

[@timhardman4764]

Hang in there. You are going through the uncomfortable initial transition and learning that "less is more". The camaraderie and meeting like minded nomads will happen but give it time...at least 6 - 12 months before coming to any conclusions about that part of nomad life.

[@angelaonthego]

The first weeks/months are the hardest. It’s a big adjustment, you havent figured out how to be comfortable yet, what you need/don’t need…it gets better

[@caroldodson8258]

This was a great video Bob! Stressing on how important a good vehicle is needs to be a whole video! We fixed up our vintage travel trailer and headed to the RTR this past January and got as far as Tucumcari New Mexico before realizing we weren't going to make it because our Jeep was no match for those steep hills and mountains! I cried all the way home. We kinda lost our direction for a while but we are now refocused and saving for a really good truck. We have decided on a two year plan to get us off the sidewalks. So if you are thinking about this kind of lifestyle you really need to be prepared and don't jump the gun especially if you aren't prepared.

[@caroldodson8258]

@@mandosandradios Well we didn't want to burn our transmission up so heading back to Arkansas was the best decision. I wasn't about to be stuck without a vehicle. Lesson learned! Be prepared.

[@johnnyk7304]

Good call Carol we can be our own worst enemy at times. You chose to delay your dream to help in making it feasible. You"ll make it! Good luck and be strong!

[@lizzy2shoes557]

I did the same thing...Took off for Washington state last spring, But the Colorado Rockies proved too much for my old truck(& vintage camper).. Limped home forlorn, but having LEARNED a vital lesson..Started saving for a newer truck also...Good luck🍀👍

[@caroldodson8258]

@@lizzy2shoes557 Good luck to you also! The timing just wasn't right even though I wanted it to be. Just keep your dream in mind and don't give up! Maybe we'll see each other down the road some day! Just keep your eye out for a vintage orange and white Shasta trailer!

[@Randylj1]

Excellent example and reminder. I've had to rethink my older Jeep as to towing a small teardrop trailer!

[@johnm1585]

Yes this is an important video essay on Van life. It needs to be linked in every Van Life channel I think. Always liked that old saying, wherever you go, there you are.

[@joncraun7966]

Thanks for the reality check! That was great advice whether you live in a mansion or a Prius! And to the haters - shut up!

[@caileach1]

I have friends in low places and I just added you Bob. I found your sincerity refreshing and honesty; with your “are just a guy who lives in a van and poops in a bucket” you are so cute!

[@sallind1]

Wonderful video, Bob! Going nomad within a fantasy is bound to fail! Thanks so much for all of your hard work and very necessary videos that you always post.

[@alexa_explores]

Excellent words. I’m a therapist and couldn’t have said it better myself.

[@danielgrosscup5663]

Hello Bob. Well done. People who think this life is all fun and games need to watch this before they venture outside their safe bubble. This is my second time out on full-time RVing. The first was in the mid 90s to early 2000. My expectations are about the same. I know I'll need to have extra money for breakdowns. Luckily I have the skills to do my own repairs. I'm currently rebuilding a 31 year old Class A with all new parts and updating it to 2018 standards and equipment.. I wish everybody who ventures outside all the luck they can handle. Be safe in your journeys and bye for now.

[@barbarataylor4382]

Bob I started watching this little video today and this is May 30th. I have a list of things I need to outfit my car with a bed and things that I need to take with me. Video of don't crash and burn I was very curious about. What are my expectations. Am I doing things right. I have watch this video now 2 times. To make sure that everything that I have been doing has been right. I have a home that is paid for and I have an SUV that is paid for. My car is a 2008 Pontiac Torrent SUV. And over the years I have made sure that I took very good care of my car. I live on $800 a month and it has just been too expensive to live in my home. I made up my mind that I could live on $500 a month and set $300 aside in case I needed it. I know there can be bad people out there I truly believe that most people are good. After watching your video I said here and started laughing. Because I am doing everything right. Or at least I'm doing everything that you have mentioned and that I had thought of to make my life better. To be around other people to talk to them and enjoy their company. Thank you Bob you have made my day and I have left out loud because I feel really happy right now.P.S. I have asked no one to help me to buy what I need and I'm not going to start now. I had to make up my mind. I'm going to make this life workout right I have to provide for myself. And I'm going to do that

[@willb5571]

x👏👏👏🤝☮️

[@cynforrest]

Wise words and so true. Daily I remind myself: “The only thing I have control of is my Attitude! A reasonable attitude results in better life decisions”. Thanks for all your helpful videos. Hope to see you at RTR 2019.

[@dianacryder7523]

Do you really believe you control your attitude? How sure are you? Does the evidence support that idea? Have you questioned that thought diligently? The more we want to believe something, the more skeptical we should be about it. I've go news for you. You don't even have control of that much. Control is an illusion, a trick our minds play on us. The only thing we control is the information we absorb, if that. The better our information, the better decisions we'll make. But even that is mostly an illusion. The first 5 years are what formulate us and none of that was in our control. We need to stop judging and help each other better.

[@cynforrest]

Diana Cryder Wow! Some direct and harsh words. You’re certainly entitled to your own opinions - for that is what your statement is - an opinion. And that’s fine, but it’s not fact. Meanwhile I’ll enjoy my day, appreciate what I have, and be glad and grateful to be alive. I’ll do the best I can with what I have; I’ll work diligently to maintain a positive attitude.

[@dianacryder7523]

@@cynforrest I am direct and I only share *informed* opinions. But you'll learn from the school of hard knocks if knowledge offends you.

[@samaralaliaabzu2837]

Saved this in my library. Shared on FB. Applies to all walks of life. Folks, these adjustments are not hard to do. If you need therapy, do it now, before you go on the road. Look into DBT - shortest distance between two points is a straight line and this form of help does just that.

[@rlavery3607]

It’s simple. LESS IS MORE!!!!

[@candybrown3785]

It's about living simply when you decide to do this journey. Enjoying the things out in nature that is free. You don't even need a refrigeration system or ice cooler or a two-burner propane stove to cook with in order to eat well. There is can goods that are healthy beans vegetables can Meats or tuna pouches. There is dry goods such as nuts and seeds. There is fresh fruit that will last a long time. None of these foods needs to be heated up or refrigerated. Save your money and save space especially if you live in a car. If there's one luxury that you like for instance like coffee get a very inexpensive way to heat up water and use the pour over method to make it. If you have about $1,200 a month you could easily live on 400 for gas and food and pocket 800 a month for savings to have in case you have car repairs or to save for a bigger vehicle in the future if you're needing more room for comfort. If you live in a car just pack one suitcase with your Essentials you don't need tons of clothes ...a week's worth of clothes that's it wash them and repeat. Make it a fun experience like a goal or challenge to see how less of things can you live without and it will be like a great achievement and you'll realize how less we really do need in this life to live on. And then the rest will be just experiencing life freedom from having to go to work each day to pay the high rent an apartment or a mortgage. You have the freedom now to go and see all the things you wanted to do in life without all the restrictions of not being able to travel cuz you have to go to a job each day. I see so many people who appear on the outside with the fancy cars, big homes, toys, etc so miserable because they have to work 40+ hours a week to pay for those things. Freedom is PRICELESS!!!

[@lillypatience]

I always learn something from you Bob. Even though I have no desire to go to the RTR or be part of a tribe, I always learn something applicable to my life from your videos and from the people you interview. For that reason only, you will be the first and only tuber I will donate to.

[@mosheedy9862]

What a terrific talk! TED talk! This is for everyone..in it out of RV! You rock Bob!

[@DavidJames-uv7yc]

Yo Bob, good solid advice. I do, however, recall watching many, many videos the last few years where you glorified this life style and people living on 6-hundred to a 1000 dollars per month. although you have always pointed out to live within your means. I'm not being critical only pointing out what I have heard on your many video. You do a great job. Please keep those vids coming.

[@Cinderdiane]

David James He has changed for some reason.

[@lonelyprepperhomestead911]

David ... You’re spot on buddy. I’ve watched his videos for a long time and observed the ‘dream’ promoted more than the ‘reality’. There’s been a shift in the wind with more channels pointing to the realities of RV/Van life. Perhaps this is a bit of damage control. Having more years under my belt as a nomad than Bob, it’s been very frustrating at times watching the videos. I don’t full time any longer but starting to get itchy feet again. :)

[@ragbrairider5120]

Well, I have always thought the pioneers in Van dwelling tended to be capable in mechnical skills. Seems lately there are more rving folks that do not have self-help skills. Remember, 60 per cent of the homesteaders heading west in US, in the 1800s, failed!

[@jwillyb870]

@@lonelyprepperhomestead911 well that's because of the wrath and the toll that it takes on people and the backlash and sympathy seekers he receives probably on a daily basis. People putting him up on a pedestal and expecting him to be a prophet or Messiah. He's only human, after all. ;) It's just like he said in the video, "I don't have all the answers, I'm simply just a guy living in a van that poops in a bucket."

[@jwillyb870]

@@lonelyprepperhomestead911 well it's also the fact that people are really over glorifying the whole #vanlife thing. He's just keeping it real and giving some truth and guidance and advice, is that a crime!? Man, people are strange.

[@johntaylor1947]

Very well said and thought out. I have owned five motor homes and they all needed regular repair. Motor homes just are not built very well, if they were built rely well to hold up to constant living in them they would weigh to much and they are quite heavy any way. Road vibration just slowly shakes them apart. A van is simpler lighter and better and it will go more and fit more places .

[@clarklindquist8137]

This video is amazing. It brings forth many key things in life. Thank you so very much. We've just started our journey. We are learning every day what's really important. It really is a day by day learning process. I think fear is our worst enemy. And the perception some have of us. But when we explain everything, step by step, they come round. One cool benefit has been not having to write that rent or electric bill check. How cool is that.....

[@wandacraig8286]

Exactly what my nephew told me when I was thinking about going on the road! He watches your videos too, but not sure if he has seen this one. I'll ask though, because everything you covered here, he said to me. So I've decided to start small, as I have a mini van and can go camping on BLM land with friends here locally. This was priceless Bob. Thank you!

[@diannerodriguez1387]

What amazing advice! I know I will have to dip my toe in to the NOMAD life before jumping off the deep end. Doing test runs have always sounded like a good idea. Don’t give everything you have away before you know if you can do the life. My travel trailer has always been my plan B. My kids aren’t crazy about the idea of me traveling out there alone but I feel like any fear I may have are valid fears and not the sky is falling type of fears. I have never needed or wanted a lot of stuff. I look around my home and think these things have brought me joy but my life won’t be any less without them. I look forward to the time I can take the plunge. And I hope I get to see you on the road sometime.

[@charlescrompton2009]

Hi Bob thank you for everything you do for everyone. You are a wonderful lovely caring Man. Best wishes Richard Crompton kent England

[@louisemissouri4410]

I've practiced in my driveway. I've always been one of those researching people so I looked up videos that told the negative side of vandwelling as well as how good it can be. Just waiting to fix my 4 runner and then find a job as a campground host to get enough to make up the difference I need for emergencies. I think it really depends on you... If you do your research and do test runs in places around you on the weekends and keep a journal of what happens and then make sure you are truthful to yourself about the experience you will grow into it with open eyes.

[@mariodroguett6329]

Louise Florida /Missouri ro

[@louisemissouri4410]

@@paulallison6689 I lived in the wilderness of the Evverglades for over 50 years, believe me its more dangerous in my driveway here in Missouri. I've dealt with snakes and rats and it wasn't the wilderness that scared me it was living in a tight space but I've camped in the back of a pick up in the NC mountains and it was hot. Now if I can handle the cold with reflective mats and wool and polyester clothes I can handle the cooking and such. I'm pretty confident now with the survival skills I have and its just a matter of getting the vehicle road ready and comfortable, then the emergency fund. I have no problem solving problems, I don't get angry, I get creative. Thanks for your concern. I am journaling thru every scenario.

[@louisemissouri4410]

@@paulallison6689 LOL Yeah I guess I should have. I could be happy anywhere there aren't hurricanes and tornados. I raised a daughter without help on 8 to 10 dollars an hour. I'm a pretty resourceful woman. I just have had my share of people lying, cheating and stealing. It doesn't seem to happen in the tribe. I'm hungry to see the scenes I've watched on videos. Hoping my wanderlust won't push me to spend more money on gas than food. :)

[@louisemissouri4410]

@@SuperDeut4 Thanks, hope to meet you too one day. Take care

[@louisemissouri4410]

@@shamrockgirl6595 I don't believe in going blind into anything so serious. I've never been called stupid and don't want to start now. Thank you for your comment. Louise

[@paulericson6871]

this is wonderful. could not be said better. no fear, live below your means, everywhere u go there u are..and just be a good person.. Learn as u go to and give yourself room to fail. Learn and go on... have no fixed preconceptions and one can learn to find happiness as u go

[@monnaprovost7294]

I’m glad u put this out there bc I was worrying about the longevity of ur nonprofit if ppl think they can just come out there with no resources to fall back on if their vehicle breaks down and they don’t have emergency funds but they think the nonprofit will bail them out.

[@Fmblogger04]

Yes, that has always been my issue with freely helping people is weeding out the willfully helpless.

[@roadhog4948]

Bob, I believe this is your best video yet. Somebody had to say it. Thank you for your honesty.

[@PG-lm6go]

Very good video Bob. I'm making plans to get out there soon. I'm reading some of these comments and wondering why some people are blaming you for their choices. I watch several RVer channels. I consider their opinions and experiences but in the end I'm a grown adult. I should be able to weigh the cost of my decisions and based on everything I've learned I know if this is a lifestyle I want, do I have sustainable funds, do I have emergency funds, do I want to poop in a bucket or in a toilet on an RV. It's no one's fault but your own if you can't think and weigh things out. Not Bob's fault, not anybody's. So, with that said, Bob you do a great job giving us info from what you've experienced and now it's up to me to do what I want with my life. Thank you so much and safe travels.

[@wynnepettaway8428]

PREACH! 🙌 Nicely and correctly said! Loved every word!!

[@brucehalleran1149]

I bet you generally vote Republican, too. Some people will never accept that they alone are responsible for their choices, their direction or lack of one. Rush: "If you choose not to decide, you still have made a choice." And nobody else made you do it. Bob may have made this video in self defense but it is a most important bit of wisdom in a career of sharing experiences.

[@charlesparker2700]

On time and true to " life". Thanks Bob.

[@Wanna.Wander]

We are preparing eighth now, yes. Can’t wait to get back on the road! T was a change for the better! I’ve become a true minimalist and continue trying to become even more so. But it’s freeing and humbling💜

[@soniadorrottie9619]

Bob, you have changed my life. I can’t wait to meet you at RTR. Wherever you go, there you are. My fave.

[@gilbertarzner8830]

I wonder how many people are saying "Now you tell me".

[@lonelyprepperhomestead911]

Too bad we can’t vote on which comment to pin at the top. 👍

[@Milesco]

@@robinlillian9471 : Well, I think the problem is that in many videos Bob talks about people living happily on $800 a month, $600 a month, etc. *_Now_* he's saying that you need $1,500 to $2,000 a month.

[@serena15221]

if you want an RV, he's saying.

[@marieb8502]

He always told us with the videos. All we had to do was watch and listen to the reasons why a person was living in their car with only $800 a month. One doesn't just do that because we see someone else doing it. I would always ask myself if I could do that--well yes if I had to do it, and happily because I would have no other choice. My choice would be a class c with all creature comforts and no issues, lol.

[@davidlane1248]

@Kamper Ken I've never been under the impression that those videos were an indicator that it was a good idea to shoot that low with finances... Only that it could be done and is being done by some people No video like that is a substitute for independent thinking or realistic expectations. I just fail to see how those videos imply that Bob is encouraging people to think unrealistically

[@whatsananna]

I know you won't be comfortable with this but you really are just so good: a nice man, a thoughtful man, and a caring man. Awesome video, thank you.

[@kw2756]

You’ve got such a great heart matched by a grand attitude. Thx for being you.

[@Grambo1946]

Then do it.

[@Beast9894]

What an honest way of putting things. You probably saved many people from ruining themselves and their lives (for a while)

[@kuraqueen6593]

Excellent video, Bob. I have come across quite a number of people who lived beyond their means in houses, then brought that mindset to van life, and consequently, remained in financial trouble.

[@jwillyb870]

VERY GOOD ADVICE! One of my favorite sayings ever "wherever you go, there you are"... You can't run away from yourself. So many people ignore and avoid all of their problems because they don't wanna think about it and try to run away from their problems instead of facing them and confronting them head-on. I learned all this the hard way on a trip across this country and ended up homeless in New Mexico stranded in the desert burning up and freezing cold with a broke down car that I had to scrap off to the salvage yard for chump change because I couldn't afford to fix it. So now I'm up shit's creek without a paddle/vehicle. Planning is EVERYTHING, and so is timing. The preparation for the journey is just as important as the journey itself. You can't control time or timing but you can control all the variables to make sure u got a backup plan when it does fail. Murphy's Law: if it can go wrong it WILL. and it will. So be prepared for it.

[@gladystoukie]

Good thoughts Bob!!! My dad used to say that, live below your means and I have!! That said, rv life not for me!!! I like amenities like a daily shower and a toilet💕👍

[@catherinemcmartin8275]

Fantastic video! "Wherever you are there you are!" Thank you so much...

[@naknaksdadn572]

"Expect nothing and you will never be disappointed"

[@bobhale8325]

4 years later and this is still a powerful message with a lot of meaning for me and I am not currently thinking of becoming a nomad.

[@BobtheTraveler-WD8NVN]

Spot on !! Without money you are stuck no matter what......

[@mwilliams4545]

The Universe is space, it gives me nothing. everything I have I get from the Creator of the Universe.God bless you my brother. Thank you for sharing your knowledge with others.

[@diannedonato1584]

A really great video bob. To the point. We always lived Our Lives Mind Over Matter I don't mind and it don't matter. You can be happy wherever you go and it's all about your attitude towards it. I for one don't have any problems with hitting things head on make the best out of what you have and the best out of life and you'll have a pretty good life. Negativity breeds negativity happiness breeds happiness

[@ontheheap]

This is absolutely supberb. Truly a lifetimes worth of wisdom and truth in this video. Thank you for making this.

[@pillarhomecaremalaysia4616]

Bob is one amazing guy.

[@jamesmoore3346]

I've got 64 years of lifes realities under my belt, including a life changing bout with lung cancer. Beat the cancer but the treatment beat me, lol. I'm still kickin and enjoying life with my family and friends....life has a way of putting little obstacles in your way, its how you handle these obstacles that define you......

[@infamousgerald]

You have good advice there bob. Four instance I get people who have various engine problems in the vehicle most of those engine problems come from not changing the fluid people dont have that kind of experience and mindset to take care of their vehicle. So please take care of your car

[@infamousgerald]

Grambo check transmission, steering fluids and brake fluids regularly in addition to your engine oil. Check with your vehicles owner’s manual

[@rudyvonnelopez9733]

Thank you, Bob. Excellent video. Glass half-full/half-empty. Bad needs to be left behind. It's a new life, no negative baggage or unnecessary expectations required. There's no law that says I have to want and have everything. That was the old life. Thank you again!

[@stansigstadable]

Mostly in the past I've done stealth camping which sucks big time and a hard way to go. Since then I've driven a semi over the road and conducted tons of research of the many places to stop and will only boondock from nowe on. The last time though I lived in an rv I would love from town to town and get jobs in each town. Typically employers refuse to hire homeless or even people living in an rv so I got a ups mailbox which gives me what looks like a home address. I didn't have then but do now a van to pull behind my 30' motorhome so I can park the motorhome and drive the van to work with no one being the wiser

[@thesilverenchantment9227]

Things have advanced since then.Amazon hires in the fall October to December, provides parking for your RV and pays you!😄

[@gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042]

Inspiring and REAL. Bob... I more than once herd it put like this: want eat you get, not get what you want, and your heart will be content!

[@gailasgreatdanesandmanes1042]

#want what you get...

[@jillom6648]

Expectations are planned resentments. You take you with you wherever you go. Einstein-you cannot change things with the same level of consciousness that created them. Blessings🧚🏻‍♀️

[@danieldoherty7920]

Bob you are awesome, I say this because I know you can relate to this. You have learned to be a nobody, and a nomad at the same time. I have learned to be a nobody and am going in to the nomad life. The universe brings us things all the time. And as we be the Love in our every moment, we are giving back to every one. God Bless you and everything you are. Raise The Roof.

[@SindyJ37]

These are straight up words of wisdom

[@vanessaboman8143]

Inside change is key to living a good life where ever you are... Keeping the soul in check..guarding your heart and mind from fears... Keeping hope alive... Defeating Internal negative self talk... Looking inside yourself for strength instead of relying on others mostly is key to living up not down.. The way we think effects the way we react to life.. Love this video Bob... You are much no set with words than me lol!

[@havenonwheels5158]

I feel like watching and learning from you and the rest of the tribe have given us the tools to make a go of it! Thank you for all you share and the encouragement you give!

[@cjdcjd4165]

For those who've been there a video Whole Earth Catalog. Keep on trucken

[@putGodfirst_1]

"Where ever you go, there you are." Bob, that is one of the best quotes out there. Thank you. I pray people understand what that means.