Cheating culture in Japan

[@takashiifromjapan]

Just uploaded full video of these interviews!

[@Nabee_H]

Why release the shorts so early? Doesn't seem good if you wanna gain traction should release the shorts at the same time.

[@loyalty3881]

@@Nabee_Hcope

[@Nabee_H]

@@loyalty3881 wdym? I love this guys videos just wanna see him get the best reach he can.

[@user-ir5jq7qz6h]

Can you asked the same question to Japanese men?

[@TheAllison3331]

Did you ask Japense men what they think about women and random sex "as long as it's not a prostitute " it should be ok, right??

[@williansnobre]

"Are you okay, honey? You barely hired any prostitutes this month."

[@omnientertainment5852]

💀💀💀💀

[@marcodragneel8035]

"should we go to the brothel and get Megumi to cheer you up? She's your go to right?"

[@factro2403]

​@@marcodragneel8035☠️

[@mariuschirita187]

"First I fire you then get a new girl." Like car, trade them in when they start making weird noises. 😂😉

[@mariuschirita187]

@marcodragneel8035... "actually our neighbour is my favourite and it's free, but you can just imagine that I pay her." 😂😉

[@andrzejkopalnia]

That's a culture shock right there 😅

[@donsq4306]

More like mental ilness this is not normal. Society destroyed their hormones.

[@Sage16226]

Yea this was a wild one

[@kravenkilleryt1083]

More like the very reason why japan's birth rate is declining...

[@Sage16226]

@@kravenkilleryt1083 lmao, all the potential children are going to waste at a whorehouse

[@fuwafuwashironeko649]

Same here! 😮

[@xlaowsozown9372]

5 years in Japan and none of girls I met had this opinion.

[@nickfowler547]

Mostly a Tokyo thing fr

[@freddiesimmons1394]

Unlucky you

[@xlaowsozown9372]

@@nickfowler547 I was in Tokyo

[@xlaowsozown9372]

@@freddiesimmons1394 or not.. ? why would I want my girl to cheat

[@freddiesimmons1394]

@@xlaowsozown9372 because you should want your partner to be as happy as possible? Why are you happily and actively imposing a worse life on your partner

[@user-76mpdgjt2]

as a Japanese woman, they're just pretending to be okey.

[@freddiesimmons1394]

Or, maybe, stop pretending that you know what other people think. Sorry if theyre more emotionally mature than you're used to

[@Wevar.Lavender]

​@@freddiesimmons1394 Sorry if you were dumped by your ex because your weiner can't stay in place if it detects a woman's presence from 2 kilometers.

[@user-is3yn7xr4c]

​@@freddiesimmons1394 Actions speak louder than words. Japanese people are literally among the highest suicide rates, because of severe depression and repressing emotions that they do practice in their daily lives.

[@yahirsanchez-silva2127]

Stop projecting, you don’t know what other people think and feel.

[@freddiesimmons1394]

@@yahirsanchez-silva2127 it is fascinating to watch people deal with ideas that they dont have the capacity to understand. OP 100% would have burned witches back in the day

[@alproductionhouse9225]

That's not a culture shock. That a whole thunderstrike😂

[@al-sz6ry]

its not uncommon for women to be asked “how much?” 😅

[@kenyad223]

DUUUDE... RIGHT!

[@808kie3]

They need guidance

[@sandrabaumgardner2151]

I’m going to Japan 😂😂

[@alyonaf1054]

​@@sandrabaumgardner2151you can find prostitutes at your country, dude.:))

[@Clexi]

“Japan is famous for its prostitution” is not a quote I thought I’d ever hear.

[@Akoalawithshades]

the first thing you'll hear in Tokoyo

[@Hydrograd57]

​@@Akoalawithshades Like, at the airport over the intercom or something? "Welcome to Japan, where we are famous for our prostitution, anime, and tentacle porn"

[@dwrussell96]

Look up "soapies". Now I know why everyone in the US Navy begs to stay in Japan.

[@syamri82]

I thought its thailand though

[@wykydytron]

Why? It is famous for that. When I was in Japan few years ago I did visit great brothels(it's usually registered as hostel or motel) where prostitutes were just housewife's living in close proximity. It's service unlike anything in any other country. You go to brothel, you pick room to suit your kink (great choice)and the rooms are super nicely done. You literally brows catalogue of prostitutes with photos, kinks, what they do and what they dont, some are on spot let's call them professionals but there is this section in catalogue with housewifes, students etc just normal women that need extra money. If you opt for them then you have to wait because they need to call her and ask if she wants white guy (it's hard to get to such brothel as non japanese person but if you know some locals or pay extra they let you in) then she says sure or not and you have to choose another, but shel make it in hour or two, so what do you do? You can order food like in 4* restaurant that will be delivered to your room, you watch tv etc while you wait. Who also gets such good service in brothel, only in Japan. And don't even get me started on massage parlors etc. So yeah Japan is great for such Turismo but be warned you have to know some locals or pay extra like very extra or they will not let you in and even then many places will refuse foreigner do font be surprised or disappointed it's how it is.

[@thedrummergordo]

Cheating is not really part of Japanese culture but a trend in some groups of young people. If you ask people in Kabukicho then you will get answers very different from the rest of the population. In my experience living in Japan 90% of people are adamantly against cheating but the remaining 10% speak the loudest and create the most rumours.

[@williamdante7470]

Kind of like here in the West about most topics

[@StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY]

10%is a lot of people ,the cheating rate is higher i believe more than 50%japanese men cheating

[@TRUMPisOPPA]

I agree. Also westernization has a say in this. I’m all for intercultural exchange, just not the immoral type.

[@StephenChowKINGOFCOMEDY]

Cheating is part of Japanese culture, that's the truth.

[@TheJCMlove]

So *Geishas* weren't a symbol of the western imagination.... It's usually those outwardly demure and conservative cultures that are often times the most sexually deviant behind the outward presentation.

[@kazutoasai2487]

I am a Japanese male. In Japan recently, the lifetime unmarried rate has been rising, and the media has also picked up on the trend of young people moving away from love and relationships. The frequency of sexual intercourse among married and unmarried couples is also quite low on a global scale. What is happening? For your information, I am 28 years old and have not had a girlfriend for 10 years. I have been invited to partake in the services of the sex industry throughout my life, but I have almost always declined. I feel discomfort with acts devoid of love, yet I cannot find love in reality. The worship of looks and the contentization of sexual love are likely to continue accelerating in the future.

[@linked3]

that is so sad. I mean we got hook up culture in the west, but cheating and disloyalty is even worse.

[@leprechauncute]

In My country, prostitution has been and wil always be cheating. Not to mention, in here, it's illegal too!

[@abdallah2713]

I invite you to islam brother

[@IndigoVagrant]

@@Cjoybellclovescake Anime is mostly made for a younger audience, so yea it's nothing like reality.

[@daunpandan8601]

Hope you get hidayah, light, the right way from Allah (God). Aamiin

[@littlekingtrashmouth9219]

“Our budget is out of control. We have to cut back on some things.” “Okay, honey. Only TWO prostitutes this month.”

[@pleasuretokill]

In the words of Eric Cartman "youre breakin my balls here, ma'am....breakin' em"

[@JasmineUtd]

😂😂

[@WildflowerJedi]

I know I can't believe this😂!? I'm like no no no, omg, goodness. I know it's a cultural differences but dang it's hard to take in what these woman are saying 😅

[@Wahyuvisual]

LMAO

[@evantan6]

Really? Only TWO?! You’re the best. That’s why I married you, Darling.

[@aeos2387]

Think we just found the biggest cultural difference 😂

[@DevineFN]

Well realistically I get it. To most it genuinely doesn't feel like their partner is cheating since those prostitution services are legal and were made specifically for married men, so I'd expect if most women are cool with it and most of them shown here are older women. Ofc there's preference but Japan is a weird place.

[@curtisalex456]

There are more differences. Look into the Lolita "phenomenon" in Japan.

[@AIIIAKS-vn4co]

Don't forget this was taken in downtown Tokyo. It's like asking a question about sex on a red light district in Holland. If you ask such a question to young ladies who are always having fun, it is only natural that you will get impure answers. Their opinions are not representative of the Japanese people as a whole.

[@DevineFN]

@@AIIIAKS-vn4co these are older women tho.

[@seekeroftruth45]

​@@AIIIAKS-vn4coNot the same but i agree to an extent.

[@sniperwaffle7581]

Props to that one girl who said it was wrong. Takes guts to say especially if it's common (so it seems?).

[@freddiesimmons1394]

Why would it be wrong, serious question

[@sniperwaffle7581]

@freddiesimmons1394 a bite-sized version of the answer would just be that it's not committing to your real lover. Sex is supposed to be very spiritual. It's two people conjoining to each other. Practically, you see this when people try to get back together. People have had sex and so they can't go on without them. The more sex the more desire to run back to so many people.

[@freddiesimmons1394]

@@sniperwaffle7581 i have to ask, where do you get the idea that sex is "supposed" to be anything? Also I'm really not aware of how people became convinced that "committed" means "sexually exclusive". Especially since we've known since the 60s popularly that sex is certainly something that some friends do and isn't the sole domain of the romantically involved

[@sniperwaffle7581]

@freddiesimmons1394 sure, Christianity.

[@freddiesimmons1394]

@@sniperwaffle7581 1) christianity sure seems like a bad example considering how many of its dominant and favored figures had multiple wives 2) why should anyone give a damn about christianity

[@gabrielcruz9147]

アホに聞いたらアホな答えになる笑笑

[@jmgonzales7701]

I thought it was just cultural

[@gabrielcruz9147]

@@jmgonzales7701 No these people don’t represent the majority at all, that’s why these videos are so misleading

[@LuzesPiscam]

@@gabrielcruz9147ce é brasileiro ou japonês ou quer ser japonês

[@shanebrady7647]

訳さずにコメントが全部分かります😂

[@user-pp1nh5zj8n]

ウィーアブー(日本を異常に信仰してる外国人)に向けたチャンネルだと思う

[@soniyayasmin7957]

Women supporting other women's business on another level 💀

[@mariavitsou4016]

Lol💀

[@stardewhillbully]

Support local!

[@luctisonae]

@@stardewhillbullyu wild for that line 😭😭

[@NapoleonVelascoCarrillo]

Feminism right there

[@LaNguyenBTong]

​@@NapoleonVelascoCarrilloand only Western modern "feminists" will b*tch about it.

[@plow9719]

Honey, Im not in the mood, you can order out tonight.

[@muzankibutsuji7603]

Underrated comment frl

[@HondaMom]

mm hmm Sushi is on the menu

[@downunderfulla6001]

😂😂

[@forgetfulpocket4734]

LOOOOOOL

[@CarolinaBassHunter]

😂😂😂😂

[@blckknight117]

I remember watching Sora the Troll's channel. He mentioned that, depending on where you interview people (Osaka, Tokyo, Kyoto etc) you can get wildly different answers. So take this with a grain of salt.

[@lycanlube7484]

Yeah I heard it's more of a Tokyo thing

[@hikageniko]

besides he's interviewing nightlife bimbos

[@AMOUREDD]

Tokyo for the holes

[@Tainami_]

I’ve been trying to tell people this for a long time! My fiancé’s family is from Kusatsu, they prioritise family and family time. Her friends have very similar if not the same, mindsets

[@hugenerretho9151]

As a Japanese, this is a cultureshock to me as well

[@user-pp1nh5zj8n]

なんか地域によって違うみたいやで 私もカルチャーショックや でもまあそういう考えもありかもなと思ったり

[@CYB3R2K]

​@@user-pp1nh5zj8nI have no clue of wtf are you saying but I agree my ninja

[@karenboy1005]

The longest and loudest "HUH?!" I've ever let out

[@gabiocampos]

Fr

[@supersexysadie]

It boggles my mind how people forget we are animals. The vast majority of animals do not practice monogamy. It’s not natural. Spreading one’s seed is an ingrained instinct and yet people’s emotions want to make it personal. I have been in the same relationship for 10 years and have even given my partner permission to cheat (because I want to since one person gets boring no matter who you are), but I somehow ended up with one of the last truly loyal guys on earth. He won’t cheat (and so I can’t either because I know he’d get pissed, and he’s not smart enough to understand my biological instinct argument).

[@errollleggo447]

Not the loudest, but I did the "Huh?" too.

[@RobotShark21]

Bro what are you doing here? I usually see you in the isle vids comment section 🤣

[@fresasmoothie4954]

Fr bro

[@simonsalinas1]

"HOW COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME" "Don't worry babe, I paid her" "Oh, okay then"

[@susannabonke8552]

So funny.😂

[@thunderboltpenetrator8498]

Doesnt sound like Japanese honor… Then again they are hard with misogyny 😳 Weakness

[@user-cs8ur6qb6k]

hahaha😂

[@DanielSampalloDeGuzman]

Lmfao 😂😂😂

[@TheLeviathanZero]

I wish more people like you would speak up.

[@ridwanosman5644]

🤗Hey folks, it’s crucial to remember that on social media, some folks prioritize promoting ideas just to make money, stirring up controversy, and spreading misinformation or exaggerated content over being accurate and honest. They might not even tell you if they have a conflict of interest. So, it’s important for all of us to think carefully about the information we see online and check different sources to get a more balanced view. Good day ✌️

[@vixposer]

Concordo. Bem provável do proprietário do vídeo ter cortado as opiniões contrárias e também obviamente ele fez as entrevistas num local onde a prostituição é comum, tipo um bairro onde há muita prostituição.

[@NuyoricanJoseph]

This comment needs to be pinned to the top of every comment section 😮‍💨

[@dcyberc4g]

Thank you

[@glaeli1184]

Definitely the case here and this comment should be pinned in YT frontpage

[@joeculpepper1677]

Where I'm from, cheating is cheating. I've never thought of stepping out of any relationship I'm in. I was taught to be loyal,and faithful to the one I'm with that's why I'm single,was treated poorly in my last relationship

[@jmgonzales7701]

Well that is where u are from. The world is diverse of opinions and different perspectives. Also thisbis asia ur talking about😅😅😅

[@lackingagenda]

Cheating being cheating isn;t a line... Personally cheating is defined by the relationship itself, and differs. But also trust and communication are the two biggest foundations of a relationship, and what is said in the video aligns as they say as long as the guy is honest about it. I agree, if it makes someone happy go for it, I support them being happy.

[@user-xe6zc5nk3s]

I don’t think I’ve had a greater cultural shock my entire life

[@feedcount]

X2 Insane 😂

[@Goldunicorn233]

Absolutely!

[@krissydoll8213]

No kidding! Sheesh....

[@sunshinegirl4660]

😂 me too! This is nuts

[@THBbon]

Clutching pearls intensifies 😅

[@basedjj2585]

"Babe what's wrong?" "My prostitute dumped me😭😭"

[@RansomMemoryAccess]

A prostitute would dump someone over money...and so would a wife ^^

[@chimaopara8740]

Did you at least get your money back?

[@CHMichael]

having the right to refuse business to anyone..... " you're fired "

[@SebastianHernandez-gy7wf]

Bro!😂😂😂

[@HankTheHippy710]

@@RansomMemoryAccess Go marry a dude then if you think a wife is so bad 💀

[@JohnJohnson-ds2gd]

Wife, "Have a great time hun. I'll be out shopping spending your other money."

[@user-zm1do8kn7d]

I'm Japanese, but I've never met a woman with this opinion.

[@Akkvvvol]

いやいや、 沢山いるよ？😅😅

[@user-zm1do8kn7d]

​@@Akkvvvolいねーよw

[@user-pp1nh5zj8n]

@@Akkvvvol んーまあ人によるんじゃない？ あとその顔文字はやめた方がいい

[@cass9102]

this is the biggest culture shock to me and i’m japanese myself 😭

[@strife2746]

What about your friends? Family? Do you know what they think about it? I honestly couldn't believe so many Japanese women thought it was okay. I wonder if it's a majority opinion.

[@BellicV]

Might be a Toyko thing

[@chenanigans]

And all the women of color have been shouting this and no one believed us. This is why US men want Japanese and foreign women so badly because they know that they're so docile to the point where they've been brainwashed to think that prostitution and cheating is just normal and to be accepted. Yet let a woman cheat on one of them and they go shoot up a bar and kill multiple people like that one cop did in California last month.

[@gorditostyle]

Bruh lol

[@soleil7259]

​@@BellicVVery likely. Most capital cities are very weird these days. I am from Berlin, Germany and people here are straight up crazy but not in a good way and people from other german cities have confirmed that too 😂

[@julianadams3710]

First girl really said "Not like they love those hoes, who cares?" That's cold as hell.

[@patgerrygee6799]

Just realized after my 233rd comment read, that this Comment section is a girl's commentary.😂

[@roro-si3wy]

But he also doesn’t love her if he needs other girls for pleasure ?

[@ice_pls]

​@@roro-si3wy not really? If it's so normalized he's paying other girls for sx not love.

[@lesliedenise96]

@@ice_plssex is a soul tie regardless what any sex driven maniac says.

[@daethe]

​@@lesliedenise96no it isnt rofl

[@TranNguyen-sw7wu]

Some Vietnamese men and women think just like this. Some Vietnamese men even think it’s ok to have affairs as long as they don’t abandon their families. It’s an older way of thinking though.

[@cs6993]

I dont understand how sleeping with someone one else for companionship is a decent recent when your partner is suppose to be your companion. I also dont understand when he added 'like your boss' as an example.

[@Justanotherlurker69]

Business men are apparently expected to go with their boss to karaoke w/ prostitutes. If you say no, then your chance of getting promoted goes down

[@Clemingtime]

It means if your boss takes you on an outing, you both drink a lot, and the boss wants to go to a soapland [brothel] or whatever, that just going along with it in order to suck up to him is okay.

[@stigcc]

It was a bad translation

[@philipschifflin8546]

As an American man engaged to an American woman, “It’s not cheating, I paid her for it,” would absolutely end with me on an episode of dateline lmao

[@basugunja]

PROSTITUTION DOES AMOUNT TO CHEATING, AND I AM A WOMAN AS WELL FROM INDIA, THE FAMOUS SOUTH ASIAN COUNTRY; ONLY SHAMELESS AND PERVERT GIRLS AND WOMEN THINK PROSTITUTION IS GOOD.

[@Autonomous_17]

Why would you be on dateline? Unless the girls you would want to cheat with are underage.

[@basugunja]

@@Autonomous_17 No one should respect a prostitute.

[@freddiesimmons1394]

​@@basugunjajudgy much? Grow up please

[@basugunja]

@@freddiesimmons1394 I am a woman in my early 30s and so I am pretty much grown up, and being judgmental is nothing wrong.

[@softerhaze]

"Japan is such a reserved and polite country" vs "Japan is famous for its prostitution"

[@freddiesimmons1394]

Not a contradiction

[@freddiesimmons1394]

​@@Babycake.Please try your vewwy best to explain how prostitution and politeness are contradicting one another

[@softerhaze]

@@freddiesimmons1394 if you get a prostitute while also having a girlfriend, how is that polite to the girl?

[@freddiesimmons1394]

@@softerhaze the same way getting ice cream is polite to that girl. The problem is that the girl is having an unreasonable expectation and emotional response to the "ice cream". What is her rationale for wanting me to be sexually exclusive? Forcing your partner to deprive themselves for you sounds "impolite" to me.

[@softerhaze]

@@freddiesimmons1394 how is getting ice cream in any way comparable to having sex w another girl while in a relationship?? A romantic relationship automatically implies sexual exclusivity, that's literally the bare minimum.. unless you agreed upon polyamory. And wtf u mean by deprive themself, if sex is that important for u then perhaps you should t be in a relationship in the first place

[@bigmike1850]

It’s a sick world.

[@freddiesimmons1394]

Yeah, who would have guessed that telling your partner how to live would get to be so common

[@anuragpotter3691]

​@@freddiesimmons1394why are you hardcore defending this ideology? These woman arnt just considerate half of them admitted in some video that they cheat with a prostitute as well. It ain't a one way street.

[@divineflu34567]

​​@@freddiesimmons1394guess what people want to experience love oh that's might sound strange to your fuckbody World and no taking accountability for honering a relationship.

[@Cloudyy9900]

True!

[@Yarlification]

Based on your ideas of monogamy and relationships maybe. Mine too, but Japan is not my culture and if both parties are truly fine with it and that's communicated, who gives a fuck?

[@anitaford4138]

WOW!!! I never knew that!! I love the answers and attitudes of those who say "go ahead" because they really do have great points about it. I love learning this stuff. Thank you! 😊❤

[@carmacattack3712]

"Japan is famous for its prostitution" First time I heard about that.

[@raspberrypimilitant2242]

I feel like I must of heard at at some point to some degree from the show MASH that Japan was this

[@zero9112]

They have a huge red light district industry. Just about any sexual act between consenting adults with the exception of vaginal penetration is legal and monetized. Even illegal prostitution is swept under the rug.

[@kuzakani4297]

@@zero9112 NOO dude, Amsterdam is famouse for its prostitution, prostitution is very regulated at japan, it's even forbbiden openly.

[@eto-eb7fd]

They literally have pride within Geisha tradition...

[@Zone3champion]

As a service member who has spent time in Japan, prostitution is huge there and they love to go after military

[@Dragonofshame]

All of the harems in anime suddenly make sense

[@bgrego88]

Lol why

[@AntiZer0]

Because theres no feelings involved, just plot.

[@bgrego88]

@@AntiZer0 yea I follow this overpowered idiot because of circumstances it's not like I like you or anything baka

[@brenertungano5999]

​@bgrego88 bc is Japanese culture duh

[@bgrego88]

@@brenertungano5999 dying population, youths not coupling, they are famous for prostitution and cartoon porn, yes quite centered indeed

[@zunedude91]

Does it work backwards for women? Like as long as it's prostitution? Is that okay? I know parts of the culture, but this is a question I've always had. Is it alright for a woman to satisfy her needs. As long as it isn't love, does the same rule apply?

[@TRUTHx247]

Some other random YT dude did similar interviews back in the day but he chose random chicks off the streets without even asking first if they were in relationships. I feel that it’s important who they ask and interview because their answers vary depending on whether they’re single or not. Most Japanese women from Japan are single and do not care.

[@exoticbutters2781]

They are all so chill about it. That was a shocker.

[@elderjose9662]

just a diferent culture they are more liberal than us

[@drewgrows7765]

I wonder if Japanese woman tend to be withholding in the bedroom?

[@slvyc]

It makes sense. And i agree with it lol

[@lindseytchappi1329]

@@slvycu wouldn’t mind if ur partner slept with prostitutes?

[@dahlionn2119]

I think to them it's all about if feelings are involved or not

[@davestorm8819]

The fact that this is just so widely accepted in other cultures is wild.

[@wabalaka1565]

Nope on my culture

[@tisbutascratch2045]

I honestly think it's because the women also cheat even though they won't admit it, so it's fair.

[@trotic708]

I'm assuming in most atheist countries it is. I guess people just lose a lot of morals.

[@kavehz9670]

I think it has to do something with their history with "comfort girls" which was an accepted concept in their society.

[@drdirk2]

I'm in Japan quite often and it's too bad none of the husband's of my Japanese clients feel the same way about gigolos. Lol I'd bet those women interviewed would be hurt, furious and worried if they actually found out their husband was seeing prostitutes. STDS

[@niko4911]

I think this guy clipped scenes with people who said that prostitution is okay. I'm a Japanese woman but can't believe this video is true. I have never heard women around me and in the internet say like people in this video. I think prostitution is big betrayal.

[@Delta5x7]

"Japan is famous for its prostitution" The Netherlands: "Allow me to introduce myself"

[@impartialthrone2097]

For companionship? Girl you are his companion wtf? 😭

[@macurvello]

That was mistranslated actually. They meant when you are accompanying someone, like your boss going to the brothel and inviting you.

[@bUrRiEdaLiVe6]

​@@macurvellothank you, I didn't really get what she meant with the translation

[@johnkingston1337]

@@macurvello Ah makes sense. Still f*cked tho

[@jbboyne]

Yeah, going with your boss to a brothel was just a whole more shocking level to it for me.

[@thegreatjedi309]

@@jbboyne It's like going for drinks after work. Social gatherings which employees can't get out of because of the work culture. Except in this case what's normalised isn't the booze but the hookers.

[@taygray6424]

This is the first time I’ve actually been shocked by Japanese culture

[@carlschultz3970]

Take it you're oblivious to lolis and panties in a vending machine? 🤨

[@apocalypse2519]

@@carlschultz3970in San Francisco you can buy Meth from a vending machine

[@amer6706]

Me too

[@laclochard]

Japan is a very patriarchal country. Not so long ago in the US, Europe and so on this was also the normal situation. Prostitution has always been an institution to make women's bodies available to men without being considered rape (which it actually is). There has to be women available for men. Marrying for love in a somewhat equal relationship is very new. Marriage has always been an institution where men could have women as property and have legally recognized children that are their property too. Wives have been forced to look the other way when their husbands would go to prostitutes and with other women in general... Japan is still like that. And sex exploitation there is a very harsh reality, and if people don't care about it in the West you can see there how much they care in Japan, who is known for being a submissive society who doesn't question the way things are...

[@Dan-F5050]

@@laclochardprostitution is not rape. Prostitutes with pimps coercing them is rape. Don’t let your snowflake feelings muddy the facts.

[@deusg369]

The motivation I was looking for while studying Japanese ありがとうございます

[@liinofficial501]

Asked the wrong people lmfao

[@kenziedicken9512]

if a prositute isn’t a random girl then i don’t know what is…

[@mirandawalewska4841]

I think they rationalize it as long there is payment then it no longer becomes about it "being a random girl" but when there is service involved then its okay for some reason....

[@lotusdedart]

A hired professional

[@thaddeusmarcuscheeleyjr.786]

@@mirandawalewska4841They're straight up gaslighting themselves in order to justify why their spouse or significant other doesn't want to spend time with or confide in them. That's some super copium, if you as me. Like, just because they paid money doesn't expunge the fact that they hired a whore to cheer them up or sleep with them when they have a wife or girlfriend; either they need to get better wives/girlfriends, or really take some time to analyze the social flaws in their relationship. But then again, when your wife is doing mental gymnastics to trick herself into believing it's fine for you sleep with whores cause you paid for them, maybe you're good.

[@xamazingxethanx]

Gotta find the barcode stamped on em somewhere

[@robstuart1385]

Americans always want to be the moral police for other culture. You untraveled, uncultured bych.

[@effortlesslytalented]

My heart is too fragile for Japanese dating culture 😭😭

[@jinnzel9071]

You ain't lying..... Mines too😢💔😞

[@malialutualofi7857]

Same as me 😢

[@karlhans6678]

are you all women?

[@nuclearpotato251]

Yep agreed

[@yeaesthetics3195]

Oh God 😅 with the fact that im single here, there i would be single as a rock

[@nevan009]

no, its unacceptable

[@eterna1379]

From what I understand they don't see sex as cheating but rather the feelings

[@MsBrunoVarela]

I absolutely did not see this coming

[@johangambleputty7658]

That's what she said! Ba dum psshh... 😂

[@gamingwarrixr]

Said by every japanese (in 1945).

[@halo-halo9244]

​@@gamingwarrixrthat got dark all of a sudden😅

[@lightarmy.888]

I did. They marry for money, not love.

[@Marisa2604]

Agree I absolutely did not either.

[@HeisenbergFam]

"told my bf go to a prostitute if you wanna cheat" is such a crazy thing to say to your partner, Japan's cheating is wild

[@88Somi]

Girls who said that going to prostitute is not cheating are prostitutes lol BIG L for Japan

[@dubwilly7134]

It's hella wild

[@p3nglin]

Not wild. These women are smart af to understand their (probably high earning) providing husbands are just horndogs and they trust them not to cheat emotionally. It’s more like 4D chess for marriage.

[@awarem8739]

@@p3nglin yes it is wild. That is why japans society is declining

[@p3nglin]

@@awarem8739 That is the result of industrialism all over the world not just Japan. Most couples cannot live like this but to say it’s wild is being naive.

[@benimaruu]

Dudes elsewhere preparing flights to Japan rn

[@anaidherrera]

Am I the only one who finds this kind of disgusting!!!??

[@NishkamTheGeneral]

Plot twist: this is a conversation about makeup and someone made up all the subtitles to get you to move to Japan 😂

[@vkak1]

I know you're joking but no, that's exactly what's they're saying.

[@kx8960]

LOL

[@kx8960]

@@vkak1 You speak fluent Japanese?

[@itsjustakia2256]

Yeah I can confirm, love me some yujo and joro. Or kuruwa geisha ❤❤

[@GhettoWxzrd]

i'm already on the plane, damn..

[@drea94]

That woman that was like "well if he sleeps with other women at least make him pay for it" 😹

[@Riyaanreality]

You know…she has a point. He might be degrading your relationship but at least his pocket is getting degraded in the process.

[@ARandomPerson--]

​@@Riyaanreality I just don't get how that's any different from a normal relationship 🫤. Is the girl paying for all the dates and bills otherwise?

[@Eusouquemeusou8]

Japanese is not selfish, most make their husband a slave, they love expense things. So if some one have to smell his sake breath better be paid the poor women

[@ralphlaurore4294]

@@ARandomPerson-- I think what they are saying is if it's with a h00ker than it's just transactional and there's no feelings involved, but if it's a new girl he's talking to he might want her for more than sex and loose feelings for her (gf).

[@solar0wind]

@@ARandomPerson-- No, ideally they're sharing the cost in one way or another. Only traditional and theoretically progressive but hypocritical people _want_ relationships where only the man pays. As a feminist, I believe that neither men nor women nor anyone in general are responsible to pay everything for their partner. I believe in equality. If you're in relationships where you always have to pay, look for an actually progressive woman. She won't want you to pay for everything, but on the other hand you'll have to treat her as an equal and as a human being.

[@emonihaggins5615]

My brain is confused 😂😂

[@nessie6260]

In latin world: you're hella ded if u do this with your wifey/gf

[@iLikeCrabrangoons]

*on Japan vacation* “No honey, it’s cool. This is a part of the culture here”

[@kameeI]

💀

[@RobertTapia]

I'm going to Japan and telling the women there "it's okay, it's not cheating if you just pay Me!"

[@danielgloyd4529]

​@@RobertTapiaGod speed!

[@vinzetti22]

Hahahaha

[@Johndoho]

When in rome 🎉

[@KierrasWorld]

“don’t cheat with random girls , cheat with a prostitute”. IVE NEVER BEEN MORE CONFUSED IN MY LIFE. 😮

[@cabun_copy]

Like the prostitute isn't a random girl😂

[@rossbob4215]

@@cabun_copy unless it’s like-that random prostitute will soon become a regular visit, shedding the title of “random girl”💀💀

[@tiablue9106]

if it's a random girl there's likely smth more going on than sex. if it's a prostitute it's just abt money for her and sex for the guy, (edit: could also be abt sex for her but ehh semantics, ultimately it's for money) they're not gonna date or w'ever. I'm sure that's what she meant

[@AdamDawson1984]

It's a paradox.

[@4536647674]

You're confused about the simplest things?

[@JoeJ-8282]

What is this world coming to, my God!?! No wonder so many guys are just choosing to remain single nowadays, LOL! No such thing as commitment, faithfulness, morals, values, or standards anymore, it's literally just a free for all $#!+ show! It's just totally disgusting, deplorable, ridiculous, AND sad! 🙄

[@Prismalpink]

It’s probably bc they go to host bars too😂

[@dillyboi2084]

As someone who lives in Arkansas most women would skin you alive and feed you to the deer if you hooked up with a prostitute while with them, huge culture shock

[@prankgirl9112]

How would the men of Arkansas react to their gf/wife going to male prostitute?

[@RandoManFPV]

​@@prankgirl9112pretty much exactly the same as AR dude jus described

[@prankgirl9112]

@RandoManFPV Well I'll be sure to never see a male prostitute if dating a guy from Arkansas lol. Or anyone else, that is just gross to me.

[@falloutwp258]

@@prankgirl9112you definitely don’t want them Arkansas boys, you can find better in other states. Just poking fun at the Arkansas guys. They’re not all bad.

[@olympia5758]

Imagine being from Arkansas…

[@gregorssamsa]

“I would get upset, but it’s still acceptable” she says with a smile. Unreal

[@h.s.5995]

Different cultures. Meanwhile in the west is ok to have polyamory relationships

[@DanAndHoe]

​@@h.s.5995Poly relationships are quite uncommon in most western countries though.

[@junyaiwase]

@@h.s.5995you mean relationships where they are all consenting? And this is coming from someone who thinks they are dumb asf

[@angelinaa.5260]

​@@h.s.5995 in which culture is this OK??? It's only ok for some people, wtf

[@batman3490]

haha... looks like these days ppl enjoying grp s..x more . it will be normalized oneday too haha. @@angelinaa.5260

[@Kiev-en-3-jours]

99.999% of the Japanese people watching this are shocked. This is BS. The guy selected these 6 answers from the 250 normal answers he got 😅

[@MrZythFx]

And then Ip Man comes to mind and everyone puts their face in their palm

[@miamoos6566]

i’ve never felt culture shock like this 😅

[@emilywebb6678]

@@untitledmisoumost Americans think that’s wack

[@kelechi_77]

@@untitledmisouyou are acting like that is the dominant culture of the US

[@untitledmisou]

@@kelechi_77 course it isn't never said it was. personally i think both are a bit strange but idc what others wanna do

[@colt-_-jonson1743]

​@@untitledmisouthat's not cultural American nor normal maybe Jewish

[@paritoshjha28]

You really thought anime is reality 😂 that's far away from reality

[@YourMomNDad]

“It’s not considered cheating. We have to support local industry.”

[@renialatrice]

Support small businesses

[@miguelheat]

Ahah😂😂

[@anti-classist]

Workers rights! Lol

[@sakshiyadav8534]

😂😂😂

[@lostsoul4317]

Oral for local

[@meenasalve9146]

The women in green jacket ,at end of video said japan is famous for its prostitution is saying while laughing very casually..was unexpected😢

[@ISellEBT]

Are they okay??

[@noone6787]

Instead of saying “it’s ok honey she’s just a friend” you can now say “it’s ok honey she’s just a prostitute” 😅

[@JasmineUtd]

😂😂😂

[@Musse2009]

xD

[@Clexi]

LOOOOL

[@queenj.8i895]

Wow. 666 likes. Says something… 👿👿👿👿

[@bigpotato7804]

People who chose to determine what is right/ wrong by themselves will always make mistakes. I’d encourage you (the person reading my comment) to at least read the Bible once. God makes good and evil much more obvious and helps us from falling into sin that will only hurt us in the end.

[@user-vj6il6bj5l]

As a Japanese woman, I never want be dating with a man who “buys” women. (Sorry if my broken English is not appropriate😅)

[@666Tomato666]

don't worry, It is completely understandable

[@callmebuay4]

At last a normal women is still around mind those bastard dogs find the one trully to you and both

[@paulfeist]

You're not buying the woman, you're just paying for a service... but, I respect your choice.

[@rlorenz77]

Rent is the more appropriate word, and I agree. However, it does seem to be part of the culture, as well as women cheating on their man

[@andrewjacks2716]

Yeah, to an American like me (from admittedly a prudish culture), the opinions of the women interviewed in the clip are shocking.

[@24HourDesign]

"Boys, Pack your bags"

[@silversin_66]

it's not like you'd even find a girlfriend to cheat on in the first place

[@24HourDesign]

@silversin_66 I'm surprised you knew how to even google the term let alone tell a joke 🤣

[@silversin_66]

@@24HourDesign unfunny

[@think_again82]

These japanese women are wholesome so open minded in this kind of situation😊

[@bernhard254]

The more I learn about Japan the more crazy it gets.

[@cedrictheveneau9141]

Behind all the sparkles and everything we love, there’s always some dark stuff It’s part of the charm of any country, they all have darker sides

[@juancontreras2711]

Them two nukes really hit hard

[@trevorsizzle3705]

@@juancontreras2711 I don't know if I should be ashamed for laughing at this.

[@chocolateiguess1613]

​@@juancontreras2711💀i shouldn't have laughed

[@142vids]

The more you realise you have a prudish culture.

[@classtilton871]

"Sorry im late honey, was just at the prostitutes again, how was your day?" 😂😂 mind blowing

[@Binnievidivici]

I can imagine their daily conversations like this 😂😂😂

[@celianeher7637]

Not only his mind that's been ' blowed '.

[@classtilton871]

@@celianeher7637 🤣🤣😅😅

[@jennifersalinas716]

😂😂

[@Shinycelebi]

​@celianeher7637 All 2 inches baby! 😂😂😂

[@gatacalifas]

and that's the society you get when God is not involved.

[@Ariadwyn]

That is wild... While men are less likely to associate sex with attachment than women, it is still an intimate act.

[@zhuzhuu3059]

The fact they say it’s okay with a smiling face gets me the most 😭

[@laserbean00001]

I'm pretty sure Japanese people always smile to be polite.

[@strangerdaysss]

They'd be angry and upset and wanna kill yet still smile and giggle

[@millym9240]

smiles and giggles don't always come from joy and happiness, but often from awkwardness and being uncomfortable and wanting to conceal negative emotions

[@WellActualllyyy]

prostitutes save marriages with open and honest communication. plenty of marriages where the lady doesn’t want sex anymore or wants it once in a blue moon

[@tariumm]

No fr the first girl said she’s rather her bf do that then go to random girls… like they are random girls.. not to mention the STDs your bf can bring back to you

[@takimush7135]

“As long as he is honest” was the key part to that entire question.

[@jmeds94]

Honesty, sure. But if you aren’t doing it much with your wife and you ARE going to the Prost BECAUSE it’s ok. That’s going to cause a problem.

[@juventinos81]

nope.its as long he stills loves me and doesnt have feelings for other girl i dont have problem doing sex just for pleasure.

[@viktorkakuk7009]

Bruh, she would be saying a whooole different opinion if it was the man that was the prostitute

[@rusne4331]

@@NeonForceGetsuga i found the guy with no b!tches. point and laugh

[@fatimamahmood7752]

But he can bring the STDs with him yk. It's not something that only impacts him

[@rocknmetalultima]

Now, i wonder if that's a double standard. Can women do the same, and men just be ok with it? I highly doubt it.

[@mattsaab4903]

Bruh lmao I really respect the ones who are not happy about it ❤

[@freddiesimmons1394]

Why would that make them more respectable than the women who have the emotional maturity to not flip out

[@MGnKntkY]

This is genuinely the most shocking thing I've heard in a while.

[@sarkro1337]

Bro it should always be like that i mean thats our natural habit

[@MGnKntkY]

@@sarkro1337 I think most of the world would disagree with that.

[@TheLegggend27]

​@@MGnKntkYonly the west

[@MGnKntkY]

@@TheLegggend27 Parts of the Middle East kill adulterers.

[@number-uz1es]

@@MGnKntkYif your married it’s fine even to multiple wives - but straight up prostitution no 😂.

[@charu2774]

I wanna hear what the men say about their female partners cheating.

[@thomasrussell4674]

Yeah where's the balancing opinion?

[@jamesbuchanan3145]

It's obviously going to be a double standard...which I'm fine with. Men and women are different, there should be different standards.

[@themajorskoodlers1997]

​@@jamesbuchanan3145if men are allowed to cheat women should be allowed to harem build

[@alissaa2809]

​@@jamesbuchanan3145men and women are not as different as you think, women where raised different. You just don't like the thought that some some may be a loooot like men, wich is threatening

[@jamesbuchanan3145]

@@alissaa2809 It isn't threatening. Women in the modern world have simply become destructive to society itself. Men and women are meant to be complimentary, halves of a whole. We have broken homes, crime, addiction, lack of morality, and weak men, and weaker women.

[@riverotters]

It's not just that this is their opinion, but that they are taken aback by the question itself

[@operatorsteff663]

“Freedom is the ability to say 2 + 2 = 4. If that is allowed all else follows.”

[@chrisb8698]

This is interesting. Love how the dishonesty would hurt them more than the transactional sex.

[@BasedMarysMemoirs]

This video should be titled "Women in Japan statistically too low-IQ to know Soul Ties exist"

[@kittycat8222]

It’s sad so sad.

[@chiefdenis]

That was most women before modern feminism, as long as their security and their children's was assured, it was only just irritating and maybe annoying

[@FluffyBunny9002]

It makes sense in a way. I knew a swinger couple that was happy banging other people until the wife decided to keep one of her boy toys secret (I think because she developed feelings for him). The lie was the deal breaker in their marriage, and they divorced.

[@caz5624]

Isn’t that obvious?

[@matt.moniz_]

the amount that were okay with it is just 🤯😅

[@awarem8739]

This is one of the reasons why Japan has a failed declining population. Japan is going to become Dubai 2.0 very soon in the near future in terms of population makeup

[@Lili_q]

@@awarem8739what do you mean can u explain more

[@EIPepe305]

​@@Lili_q Japanese birth rates are some of the lowest in the world.

[@Pseyechonaut]

For real!! I was mindblown. It's so interesting how different cultures can have vastly different views on things

[@l4kr]

Americans are okay with domestic abuse and onlyfans

[@hilarypardi7330]

Men decide culture norms and women believe them.

[@Daniel.Belas1]

I'm gonna assume this might be a Tokyo city area, specifically red light district area

[@MaxAndSnooki]

Now could you please ask all the men the same question

[@nigerianprince5374]

Half these men think a saigon whore is the only way their gonna experience love. Oh how sad 😂👍.

[@icebear394]

this here, i bet the answers will be the total opposite

[@tomwhone9804]

You know nothing of their culture. If you did you would know why your question is ridiculous.

[@MadaraUchiha-.._]

All the men: “Yeah that hoe better not use another man’s body”

[@user-us7fr5jp8x]

⁠@@tomwhone9804日本は男女平等にもならないしLGBTも受け入れない、だがそれでいい。

[@InterstellarCloudd]

For such a “modest” country, Japan really does some outta pocket shit. *Exhibit A:*

[@robdiesel1579]

Seriously

[@vespernight4236]

It could be argued that this is a result of such a modest culture. Swing far one way and the pendulum swings far in the other

[@oohh_no_my_back_its_broken9552]

Fr though..... exhibit B: Dating services(rent a boyfriend/girlfriend)

[@NoYoutubeName1]

Tentacle pron too 😳

[@yyhn7168]

Who said they were "modest"?

[@timwong1645]

As a man, I love Japan

[@k.m.w1140]

What city is this? Asking for a friend

[@PublicRestroom88]

As an American this was crazy to hear, you won’t hear any of these western women saying that😂

[@vanlegend5339]

But still they cheat lmao

[@PeaceAndLove4Ever3]

Prostitution is illegal though unless it's Las Vegas. The government set this norm that it was a bad thing yet a victimless crime. Differentiating from sex trafficking of course. As long as the prostitute is doing it of free will and no coercion or threat then it is a victimless crime and really is nothing bad. It's one of the oldest professions in the world.

[@freefoyah2992]

Nahhh its worst on America. Theres about 95% bitches on all every women on that country. Just think how they dress compare to japanese women.

[@talkslop417]

I’m American and I’ve been saying this for years

[@InanisNihil]

As an American I hear tons of women saying similar things.. and cheating is irrelevant to holding these views or against these views… ggs with the anecdotal evidence and narrative.. btw according to studies men cheat slightly more and FOR LESS.. 💀 so stop lying.. tons of American women AND MEN hold similar views.. Lao either ur lying and don’t live in America or ur pushing a false narrative u’ve convinced urself is true… guess Pew Research is wrong and ur right huh.. entire fields of extensive universities and science institutions doing social sciences are mistaken huh? 52% of Americas across all political spectrums support decriminalizing sex work.. literally 50% with lots of dogmatic religious views are against open relationships.. 33 for it .. the rest no opinion/don’t care one way or another .. so ur objectively false.. 😂 like stop lying.. how u feel and think ppl think is wrong.. majority don’t hold that view.. also according to the research .. because half the country are relitards lot of ppl don’t openly share or want p to think they accept certain things.. this is American.. political divide is insane that most ppl are comfortable sharing their views especially on sex and sexuality.. it’s taboo.. it’s the same reason for decades ppl who where gay where in heterosexual relationships.. we also know main reasons open relationships fail is literally cause of “monogamous” ppl.. majority of fail poly relationships are reported by those ppl the hate and shaming from friends family an coworkers was too much they ended their open or poly relationships for mono ones to avoid the shaming… ONLY HALF the country is against these things.. 😂 I’ll give u benefit of doubt and assume u just by chance live around ppl who dude to relitard societal aspects don’t ring it up.. in y expirence which reflects the data half the ppl DO say these things half don’t… wut rock you live under 💀

[@a1tung]

Passport bros renewing their passports like it’s Black Friday

[@jeffclarkofclarklesparkle3103]

Sadly most foreigners are not allowed on the rides because they are too big 😂😅

[@ikechicoreralation]

Lol

[@hydroid72]

You got the Philippines as a Plan B 👍

[@jupiter_star3740]

😂😂😂

[@randomlyentertaining8287]

Not really.

[@dylantrinder1571]

Japanese women are very attractive, why would anyone cheat on them?

[@anarosario8237]

Well, i will be ok too if my husband have to give me his whole paycheck 😅😂

[@williamgregory1848]

“Hey honey, I’m going to spend time with some prostitutes.” “Okay, be back before dinner.”

[@urbanurban7825]

😂

[@19Pyrus70]

She only says that because after she's sure you're gone, "THAT MAN" shows up to "pay her a visit!"😏

[@YSEternal_]

​@@19Pyrus70as long as dinner is ready by time I get back it's all good 😊

[@19Pyrus70]

@@YSEternal_ 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pimpin' yo' Jap wife ta pay fo' side ho' services?

[@owoman]

This crazy how they just accept It like IT is normal😢

[@Surgelax]

Imagine in the West: your wife confronting you about cheating and then you respond with «it’s okay honey, I paid for it!» 😂

[@yanava]

I can imagine no atomic explosion greater than a western wife reacting to that line

[@jimmyjon9970]

Start putting out and we'll stop looking elsewhere. How fucking hard is that to understand? Put. In. Work.

[@TheBigGangBang]

@@jimmyjon9970yikes buddy. You ok?

[@jeonskookiee8366]

​@@jimmyjon9970Tf? 💀💀

[@BF_Brix]

@@jimmyjon9970oof, bad take dude. You could always just spank the monkey or buy a sex toy, or you know… communicate with your partner/go to couples counseling? Cheating is not the solution to a dead bedroom.

[@ericwood2548]

Baby. They might cut the electricity off if you don’t get busy. Your replacement isn’t cheap you know!😂