Chef Way Old Tweets & Colorism

[@KingofReads]

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[@abby-a]

Thank you for always speaking up for darkskinned women Justin I really appreciate it 🙏🏾 and we love you Justin

[@BePatientSeeLove]

Can we have a Convo about black gay dark skinned

[@pink-tulip317]

Justin, I always appreciate you talking on the subject of colorism. It's another subject, like racism, that people want to act like it's no big deal, or doesn't exist.

[@deej5608]

He did this to young black teenage girls. Not just grown woman but girls. HE'S DISGUSTING

[@lovelyk2647]

Didn’t your home girl Cardi call Black women burnt roaches but you never said anything about that.

[@StellarAvenger]

He can go to hell. Black men who date outside their race, STOP MAKING HATING BLACK WOMEN YOUR WHOLE PERSONALITY!

[@ree3762]

Heck even men who date black women make hating black women their whole personality

[@BePatientSeeLove]

Period

[@kitejohnson515]

Give them consequences

[@natashabrooks4188]

This!

[@isharamsi2595]

THIS! Listen i dont care what a person prefers and i know its controversial to think so but i think everyone is entitled to like what they like HOWEVER i do not understand the logic behind having a preference and at the same time being OBSESSED with the people you do not like. Why not focus on your own life and the women you like instead of ACTIVELY bullying and degrading the people who do not suit your "preference". Its pathetic and sad. Then those same men create biracial kids who they then force onto black women to literally RAISE in order to keep "black culture".

[@ASprinkleofAnime]

Im never surprised to see a colorist black man, I expect it at this point. As a darkskinned woman I go where im celebrated and don't sit in the company of colorist people. Im glad colorism is being called, things are changing

[@opharahanglin9624]

When I see more than four. I leave the floor. Don't care. When I'm in a room and the ratio of men is 50% or more. I leave. Don't forget these men influence other men. Trust me. Sad 😔. I stopped drinking in public. 💯. On God.

[@SharronDenice]

@@opharahanglin9624thats a good philosophy

[@opharahanglin9624]

@@SharronDenice yes ma'am. This is real for me. 💯 No one needs to know why you leave. With a smile of course.

[@crystalgee7885]

It’s so shameful and more shameful because most of these colorist men have dark skin mommas,aunties, sisters, grannies, and cousins and most of them are birthed from a dark skin momma!! 🤦‍♀️ 😔

[@isharamsi2595]

Its funny though because those same men will then push their biracial kids into black spaces and onto black women

[@haute2death]

All his cases involving black women need to be examined. This man is a D.A. There's no way he spewed that hatred online and it didn't manifest at work. This is disgusting.

[@witchsistah]

I said the same on Twitter.

[@NkNk-vg8fc]

Get him fired then

[@aprildanielle]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@calinoire]

I heard he was disbarred

[@Mimi-ze2ye]

@@calinoire not true. The district attorney (a white woman) is giving him a second chance.

[@ambasd733]

As a lawyer he can be recommended to the Ethics Committee ... and could LOSE his license to practice law ... like Rudy clown Giuliani 🤡

[@Nerdylady]

I love this for him. What a piece of garbage.

[@maryanneowen7955]

I think I read somewhere he was under investigation which is why he got into cooking. His ass was about to get cooked by the legal system!

[@I_LOverObloX_03945]

He’s an ADA and this situation made it to his local news, they addressed the tweets, but will not be firing him. He did lose some collaborations with Tastemade and another culinary entity.

[@kindred42]

@MaryAnne Owen Most of the time I see lawyers switching careers to become internet famous, etc.... It's cause their license is under question or inactive for some reason, so it makes sense.

[@TheEblenRealestateTeam]

Ill donate to the go fund me account for the legal cost against him

[@peacefreedom4930]

As a dark skinned black woman I’m not hurt and I don’t need his apology. I want to make sure he isn’t able to harm black women in real life by railroading them in the justice system due to his personal bias.

[@godsentjesustosetusallfree9859]

100%

[@restrainingorder7301]

I'm actually going through this EXACT same scenario right now which is exactly why I'm going to court....A man can keep it trucking if he has a underlying issue with my SKIN COLOR however ass soon as you start lying on my name, stealing from me and pretty much trying to attack everything I do so that your FAVE can look vindicated over something I didn't do as if saying I'm GUILTY for something I didn't do is the day EVERYBODY and their momma and Poppa is getting YANKED in court 💯

[@cinnamonstar808]

***** Breonna Taylor ****** failed to get JUSTICE. because of another " CHEF WAY type" I WILL DEMAND EVERY CASE HE WORKED ON. be pulled for review

[@blueorgin]

Leave google reviews under the Harris county DAs office too this helps get more attention to the matter.

[@mishawilliams4319]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💃💃🎉💯😊😁

[@getreal4real169]

He’s only apologizing because people are calling him out on his dirty deeds. If this hadn’t happened, he would have been silent. There is no way he’s changed his opinion of BW that quickly. That hatred runs too deep. He’s an idiot. He’s also lost some sponsorships. Sooooo.

[@tenwaystowearit]

He made fun of Sandra Bland. Smh.

[@cupcake2009ist]

That’s what he gets CANCEL ALL THAT ISH!! B

[@cupcake2009ist]

@@tenwaystowearit WTFH THAT’S JUST PURE EVIL AND DISGUSTING THOSE BRANDS ARE’NT TOUCHING HIM AT ALL.

[@Nerdylady]

if i were ling ling I would run, not walk away from from this slimeball.

[@annt.7785]

We need to continue to call out white supremacist in black bodies.

[@shartierrawalson4652]

I ain’t know who he was until this video but not surprising another man not liking dark skinned women. Smh moving on.

[@tenwaystowearit]

Black man. Another Black man.

[@almondkissed3794]

Doesn’t even bother me . Why focus on the ones who don’t instead of the millions that do

[@EA-cn7xl]

🙌🏾 I googled him and oh lawd!

[@montice8538]

Agree with every last one of y’all

[@chocolateladycap2773]

Me neither and agreed

[@lauren6509]

The way black people came together to cancel chrisette Michele They need to do the same to the chef. I don't care how old he was what he said was demonic. I want him in the poorhouse.

[@cookee888]

This!

[@ladybug3380]

She needs to be uncanceled imo

[@cookee888]

@@ladybug3380 we need to apologize to her first. Personally I wouldn't trust us after wat shes been thru but I want her to know we see where we went wrong. And wen I say we I mean as a collective of women cause I personally wasnt involved. 💜💜💜💜💜 She deserves a PSA.

[@macygray5984]

Yea she should’ve never been cancelled, but weak ass black people…

[@shaani7978]

@@ladybug3380 Agreed because she didn’t do anything wrong

[@LadyLexxx]

Cooking saved me. It changed me. One day while I was using pepper, I was like "what's wrong with me?" Why is it that I can love this black azz pepper, but not black azz bit... I mean black women?

[@SophisticatedFlow]

AAAAAAAAAHHHH 😫😂

[@gabbycakes98]

🤣🤣🤣🥲😭😂

[@tenwaystowearit]

Right! This n***a. 😅😅😅

[@samanthadarlene1140]

😂

[@iluvjuj07]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Stamara2011]

What is more disgusting the women he made fun of were minors at the time. So basically he was an adult bullying a young dark skinned girls. This man is pathetic and unfortunately there are many like him

[@ichellexcel]

Exactly!

[@islandgirl8067]

🤬🤬🤬🤬

[@kimerietate8372]

That’s so sick.

[@mmxw2294]

To many I started paying close attention to what’s coming out of these folks mouth

[@tashibalampkin8555]

"The best dish he served was colorism." -King of Reads

[@tiffanyjlowe]

You ain’t lying. It did a number on us.

[@mellod5615]

Prime example of the prejudiced impact a lawyer can have is Daniel Cameron, the Kentucky AG who refused to hold the cops accountable for killing Breonna Taylor.

[@reneedennis2011]

Yup.

[@islandgirl8067]

Another one with a nonBW for a wife.

[@wantitwrite]

BM are show themselves to be the true white supremacists

[@veronicajohnson9344]

@@islandgirl8067 ...Kentucky is a strange state when comes to race and how black ppl think from there...West Virginia too.

[@rockswapna]

@@veronicajohnson9344 How so?

[@t.j.4414]

He's ONLY apologizing because he needs and want our support. That's it! That's all!!

[@natashabrooks4188]

💯 and he won't get it

[@t.j.4414]

@@natashabrooks4188 EXACTLY!!!

[@sheree1994sa]

@Omar Bain you're absolutely right

[@yanna1993]

@Omar Bain I know mammies are already fastening their capes around their necks for him

[@thecosmicchild8947]

@Omar Bain Correction: Black Male Worshippers will still support him. The same way they still support Chris Brown and Cardi B.

[@purpledynasty1442]

His legal cases need to be investigated that involved Black women.

[@NinaSimone3]

🗣️🗣️🗣️That part 💯

[@bobby12348]

Yes

[@babygirla5717]

Yes 👏🏽💯

[@theorderofthebees7308]

Absolutely

[@thegworlsarefighting]

It’s sad when you have to face racism but then also face the same thing from your own kind.

[@staceymoore5727]

THAT PART HELLO

[@tatlifelover]

The only racism I've experienced is from black males regarding my skin tone. I try to stay away from them.

[@thecosmicchild8947]

@@tatlifelover LETS SEGREGATE FROM BLACK MEN. I’ve been saying this to BW now. I want us to start building a city where black men are not allowed🚫

[@Latrise]

I faced a lot of featurism from the men in the community and it sucks. To be called ugly your whole life by black men has stuck with me to the point where I believe it now. I used to wish I was light skinned and pretty because I never felt like i was enough.

[@reneedennis2011]

Yup.

[@kennosen1]

The scary part is that he's a DA attorney.

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

Very scary

[@Nerdylady]

ngl i contacted the harris county DA's office about Mr. Wesley and I'm sure I'm not the only one.

[@annt.7785]

People need to destroy his ass, or the universe will do it. People like him need to be gone. PERIOD!

[@I_LOverObloX_03945]

@@Nerdylady they already addressed it as of right now he is not being terminated

[@easiersaidwithmeg]

@@I_LOverObloX_03945 of course

[@LyfeofNikkiLee]

I'm glad he's getting called out. They need to look in this man's background working as a lawyer for the DA too. With him displaying such despicable behavior towards bw, he surely can't be trusted to have logical reasoning.

[@reesewash1913]

Right! This is a prime example of why representation can only get us so far in these various systems that has historically been dangerous to Black women.

[@lmusima3275]

He’s lost business deals because of his toxic behaviour. No more 💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰💰 for him

[@Mimi-ze2ye]

The district attorney (a white woman) is giving him a second chance. They posted him on the news with a statements from her: "Mr. Wesley had explained these posts came during a period in which he was struggling with serious personal issues, including alcohol addiction...I am a believer of second chances "

[@brittanyr1456]

@@Mimi-ze2ye 🙄.. if it was a bw, she would be gone already

[@Mimi-ze2ye]

@@brittanyr1456 Yall cannot give undying support just because he is Black and male. These black dudes talk like white supremacist. And their racism is only towards black women.

[@shesosweet2781]

LMAO when I saw the pictures of his fiancée, all of those disgusting tweets made sense. Imagine his mom is a Black woman!

[@tenwaystowearit]

His mother even condemned what he was saying on Twitter at the time. She basically commented that she didn’t raise him to be like that.

[@kindred42]

@Ten Ways To Wear It I hate to say this. But that's what many of mothers and fam members say. I'm very happy she is calling out his misery and tomfoolery. However, that type of deep-seated hatred towards people who look like your mom is rooted somewhere. Not blaming her, but I grew up seeing many people invalidate colorism and look the other way when people called out its harm. If he felt that comfortable speaking that way... It's cause he had a safe space to do so no matter how she thought she raised him.

[@thecrimsoncure8201]

@@kindred42...Don't blame is mother. She might not have raised him this way. I believe her. This is a part of BM culture. BM are greatly influenced by OTHER BM. Most BW don't raise their sons to be thugs and go to prison either. They learn that mess from other BM. BM have a greater influence on boys then even their own mother's. Especially, older BM.

[@Lisette121]

@@thecrimsoncure8201 exactly

[@Hintedbymarina]

@@thecrimsoncure8201 facts!

[@TM-nb9zf]

As a dark-skinned black woman, man I have stories about these kinda men in real life. Dating back to KINDERGARTEN. I remember the names of MOST of those boys that would say the meanest things. It's funny how they add you on social media years later and "always had a crush on you" 🤣

[@jojosstan4257]

Nah fr😒

[@bklynbutters13]

Girl, don't fall for it. They're just looking for a nurse with a purse or for someone to be their come up or fall back queen. Leave them to their dusty dwellings.

[@islandgirl8067]

Wow, the nerve! 😮

[@ubiquitousseymone]

This!!!!! Facts

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

I remember I had a friend in highschool she was darkskinned and she had the biggest crush on this lightskinned popular football player he wouldn't give her the time of the day. Years later he went to jail did time and what happened they end up getting together I'm like seriously. He didn't want her when he was young and in his prime now he want her when he is a washed-up jailbird.

[@BooDotBoo]

I don't even know who this Chef Way guy is, and I'm happy I don't considering this video. It's just kind of sad/pathetic how many straight black men are like this. He can keep the apology. They do all this; don't actually issue apologies to the women or group, they make some kind of excuse, then go on their merry way. No thank you!

[@tenwaystowearit]

He can choke on that apology and a chicken wing.

[@cutie2914]

@@tenwaystowearit YESS 😭

[@tatlifelover]

Funny you specified "straight". It's generally all of them, regardless of sexuality.

[@babygirla5717]

@@tatlifelover Facts

[@BooDotBoo]

@@tatlifelover I’m so sorry. Let me correct myself for you. ALL black men.

[@shalindaplanks181]

This man is a district attorney first. I can’t imagine all the dark skin women who were unfairly prosecuted or ignored as victims. This is really scary.

[@lkpeace911]

I went out on a few dates with this former NFL player a couple of years back, and he literally told me when he was in the league he would’ve never even looked my way because I was too dark. He’s older now and thinking he probably wants a live-in nurse or something but I definitely am not the one that’s gonna sign up for that.🤣

[@lmusima3275]

The same ones will whine and cry 😢 if they see dark skinned black women married to non black men. They can’t have it both ways. I’ve had the same challenges. Black men clowning me out for being African, unambiguously black, hair and nose features. Now I’m dating out. I’m not prioritising them

[@lifeis2171]

I hope you left. You better than that.

[@lifeis2171]

@@lmusima3275 yess!!! Date out.

[@ladonna1902]

@@lmusima3275 I never understood that either. Why are they so concerned about who black women, that they say they're not attracted to or interested in, are dating? If us black women are too dark, to loud, too combative, then why are you worried about who we're dating? You should be glad that non black men are taking us off of your hands. It's hypocritical of black men to call black women a 🛏 🔧 if they're laying next to Becky themselves. If you're going to be against interracial relationships, then be against it in all shapes and forms. But black men need us to be the nurses and clean up women after Becky and Ming Lee kick them to the curb. That's why they don't want us to date out.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

The fact he is a former NFL player and he had the nerve to disrespect you making that statement like he is prize. These BM are beyond pathetic and delusional.

[@Nerdylady]

He out here with his hamburger helper thinking he's a chef.

[@bobby12348]

🤣😂

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Rite I went on his page that food look like pure trash.

[@babyshea321]

@@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302 😅🤣😂

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

@@babyshea321 got the nerve to posting oxtail Pasta seriously. I can always tell the chefs who are with non BW compared the ones with BW.

[@maym7809]

😆

[@KMarie33]

These dudes never cease to amaze me. This is exactly why I will never talk to a black guy who has a history of dating non black women. I don’t care if it was in the 1st grade. I get judged for that all the time, but idc . I don’t think any black women should date those types. There is no exception to the rule in my eyes

[@kyrathedestroyer_]

I THOUGHT I WAS ALONE IN THIS. the moment i find you a black man has dated out i immediately ignore him. they’re always weird or hate black women !

[@lifeis2171]

I don't talk to them AT ALL!!! I BEEN DIVESTED.

[@lifeis2171]

After years of dating black men I just couldn't deal with the self hate

[@enjolique367]

Agree

[@kyrathedestroyer_]

@@lifeis2171 you don’t escape anti blackness by dating out. all groups of men have ingrained anti blackness. i just wanna make sure that we’re not parroting that divestor myth that non black men are saints and saviors from black men.

[@daniellevaughn4598]

So you don't think the scientifically tested and 100% proven healing powers of oxtails cured his colorism and misogyny?

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

🤣🤣🤣

[@islandgirl8067]

😂😂😂😂

[@moniqueloomis9772]

😅

[@beauphomasterpiece3795]

I love oxtails but nah sis 😂😂

[@denea4418]

Again, Black women stop marching and rioting for Black men. Let their preference fight for them. Their troubles ain’t none of our business

[@peggy1707]

I'm not even sexually attracted to them.. They are a lost cause.

[@ShayMoisture1776]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@Blackmalechrissie]

Shut up

[@futelafutaldo4709]

That part

[@sexychocolateable]

Amen. I only march for black women.

[@damselinadress2069]

As a dark skinned black woman. I experience the vitriol and hatred. It permeates all races and cultures as well. My Filipino and Latin sister friends deal with it too. I'm looking at you Kevin Hart.

[@Alissandre_Iskander]

They all need to be called out. Enough of this bullcrap. We're not taking it anymore.

[@delphineblue]

I already couldn’t stand Kevin hart, but after reading his colorist filth again Black women I REALLY can’t stand the sight of that ashy gnome, pygmy ass naker.

[@nataliekhanyola5669]

What did he do?

[@tuesdayjanae3676]

HE NEEDS TO LOSE HIS LICENSE TO PRACTICE LAW, HE IS CLEARLY BIASED

[@msyemisi7930]

💯

[@xandra_LK]

The apology itself has me gagging💀 “I was sick😢 hurt people hurt people😔 cooking saved me!😩🙌 you’ve been watching a healed man cook on TikTok☺️👨‍🍳 thanks for joining me on this journey of culinary colorism🥰✊✊🏻✊🏼✊🏽✊🏾✊🏿”

[@thatgirlkells5505]

🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴

[@ryanyoung9202]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@islandgirl8067]

🎻🎻🎻🎻

[@koobea4859]

He enjoyed his hateful talk just a little too much for that half-assed “sorry” to do the trick. Sick? He was gleefully cruel.

[@j.symone]

I have many stories that I had to endure colorism in my life even texturism. When I wore my real hair one day ( would wear plaits, braids, kinky twists in high school), I had a big puff ball ponytail. It was always black boys asking if my hair was real or made fun of my hair saying it look like a brittle pad. Had a crush on this boy and told my light skin girlfriends at the time which was suppose to be a secret but they told him. He came up to me an said I was ugly and he only F with light skin girls anyways. That kept me from not telling anyone who I had a crush on and that incident was in middle school. In high school I just remained quiet an never made it look like I liked a boy. Man the stories smh.

[@j.symone]

@@veronicajata3121 wow I’m sorry you had to experience this. I started seeing how many of us dark skin girls have so much in common with this. It’s a shame how our pain is dismissive from others. I don’t think they realize why some or most of us try to stay away from darker skin boys or lighter skin women. They seem to perpetuate most of this.

[@BooDotBoo]

I hate to say it, but your light skin girl friends did that on purpose. They knew.

[@cosmicbeauty5682]

At this point I no longer care for an apology from anybody. They wouldn't mean it and if they do it's only because things surrounding them in their life has crumbled right before them. Why is it so difficult to be good citizens and kind to one another... But I rather they continue expose themselves so I know who to support and who not to. Plus i had no idea who this was until now. Thank you for the heads up 😊

[@honeybeedavis7939]

Being a dark skin woman I have never let anyone make me feel inferior because of my chocolate skin I LOVE ❤️ it. My melanin is valued more than gold by about $450 per gram, so get educated, I am a HIGH-VALUED WOMAN.🎊 you better celebrate my darkness!

[@brandydanielle6212]

I'm a dark skin woman... For the ones that's confused on what colorism is- ONE example is when my own ppl say comments to me like "you are pretty to be a dark skin girl" or "it's not too many dark skin girls out here that's pretty Brandy." OR- " You got some good hair to be dark skin"...And it's not a compliment - it's hurtful!! Why can't I be an attractive woman without mentioning my color???? I've battled this a lot being the only dark one in my family to where I thought being lighter was better as a child. Light skin women... It's not colorism that y'all go thru with dark skin women. It's bullying.. that's a difference. No it isn't right, however history from the house n!gga vs the field n!gga, to the mulattos, til now with lighter skin still being more acceptable in society,movie, music etc -- it causes us to be divided. But y'all do NOT GO THRU COLORISM. Colorism plays in the faces of darker women's jobs, achievements, and the way society views and respects them including their beauty vs a lighter or white woman.

[@bklynbutters13]

I hate that you and other dark skinned black women have to explain your humanity and dignity to other black people, ESPECIALLY to other black women. I'm thoroughly embarrassed. 😔 I lift you up, sis.

[@ZayS2020]

This here, I've gotten the same comments even got " I forget your not light skin so you do be texting back fast" like why can't I just be chillin on my phone

[@bklynbutters13]

@@ZayS2020 Wtfffffffffffffff! I hope you've blocked every person who's ever said this to you. The sheer abusiveness to imply you're seemingly unbooked and available because you're dark skinned??? That's verbal and emotional violence. Block these ppl. They'll never have to worry about your "open availability" again.

[@ZayS2020]

@@bklynbutters13 oh I don't even associate with them even had a guy say if I wasn't black he would be in 100% on dating me but was 50/50 and couldn't get pass that I wasn't any other race

[@bklynbutters13]

@@ZayS2020 Girllllllllllllllll, what????!!! Hell naw! 😲 Y'all be fighting in the trenches trying to date these black males. Whew chile! No ma'am.

[@TheEblenRealestateTeam]

This guy is a lawyer in Houston... I am surprised no one has filed a complaint against that law license what action has he done behind the seen to disadvantages woman of color.

[@19GENESE13]

He should just become a personal chef for passport bros. After a certain point, apologizing just seems foolish. Go live his full truth with his true audience. That's what I want in 2023.

[@blakefamily1348]

Miss ma’am , don’t be out here giving this man re-re-grand re-opening ideas! LOL ❤️❤️

[@jerri3285]

A lawyer that moonlights as a chef that spews anti black rants on KZbin…why is this little child out here on his own without supervision

[@moniqueloomis9772]

Child? 😅 He's a whole grown a-hole.

[@natalieshepp641]

May he never be able to boil water in public ever again!! 🤬

[@wontonsoup3718]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Crystalbella1999]

Light/ lighter skin-toned people do have a privilege over darker individuals. It isn't colorism they are facing, it's either privilege guilt or privilege envy. When actual colorism victims say anything or try to correct others they are insulted, belittled, and made to feel less than a human which colorism already does to its victims. Colorism only happens to dark skin people and shouldn't be a thing, to begin with.

[@pink-tulip317]

Exactly! Some of them see something like being called "light bright", or something like that as colorism🙄They're usually being called that, jokingly, by someone that desires them, but think that it's playful. It's a totally different ball game than being humiliated, joked on, and picked on for being DS, especially a DS woman. Those terms used against DS people are usually meant to be vile, or as a put down, or to discriminate against them. They know that they have privileges, but many don't want to admit to the truth.

[@tommygreene7448]

This statement is false…You can’t pick and choose what colorism is…I’m light skinned and I hate being called high yellow light bright and pretty nigga…Colorism is colorism…I don’t find that funny coming from darker skinned people…It goes both ways…People just need to shut up and stop being offensive to others..whether you’re light skinned or dark skinned

[@pink-tulip317]

@@tommygreene7448 so would you consider being called "light bright" or "high yellow pretty boy" oppressive, as in being called "burnt" or "ugly, nappy headed, Black a🤬 n'a or 'b' word? Being called that may hurt, but it most likely won't keep you from being picked before a DS person, in many different ways and avenues. That's what you call colorism. It's especially worse for women, and DS women tend to have it the hardest. So it's not "reversed" anything. Otherwise, that would mean that the reasons behind it, and the outcomes, would be the same on both ends. Unfortunately, colorism does exist, and the topic is uncomfortable. Instead of trying to minimize it, like some people do with racism, it needs to be addressed truthfully, or it's going to keep going on for even more generations to come.

[@JESSKISS19]

@@pink-tulip317 how much do you weight

[@j.symone]

@@tommygreene7448 I get it and there are some things that may be painful to lighter skin people. The jokes or comments about light skin doesn’t have the degrading context. I’ve never seen a black man say light skin is ugly or dirty. Never seen or heard a black man say I’m dating white women cause I don’t do light skins. This is also not just about men we go through this in multiple industries. Have to work way more harder to get that promotion, or the moment we attempt to defend ourselves we get called the angry black woman. Look at the reality tv shows all you see is light skin and mixed women fighting yet we see people say those “black women” are ratchet when those women are not black. We still get the repercussions of what they do.

[@cupcake2009ist]

He’s absolutely disgusting he’s turned off all of his comments.

[@samylynch5185]

Black women experience 5 things. Colorism, Racism and Sexism, texturism and Featurism Mainly by our community. 😭It’s so hard being a black women in our community than in other communities.

[@brandonbarard1648]

And also a black man

[@User2477de]

@@brandonbarard1648 in which world does a black man experience colorism in his own community or sexism in his own community or texturism in his own community? I would love to know.The only thing most black men experience is racism,and its not in their own community even.

[@brandonbarard1648]

@@User2477de but they deal with Stereotypes of cheaters, abusers, not being there for their kids, thinking we're all pookie and ray rays but that's not true. Everyone has different experiences but saying the only thing bm experiences is racism is so dumb

[@lachell257]

It isn't mainly from our community. It is mainly from white supremacy. It called microaggression.

[@shaytaylormade5244]

Facts

[@TriniB91]

It’s pathetic when these dude talk like this about black women. I’ve always wondered why they think they’re so special to degrade black women in these ways. It’s wack! They want to be able to date interracially and talk crap about black women, but then get mad when black women do the same (dating outside). Make it make sense!

[@tlc8165]

I don’t even want apology from men like him ! It’s not an honest apology.

[@scorpionoir4952]

I love the topics that deal with colorism and anti-blackness. There is a girl on youtube with a small following, most of her content is dedicated to this topic and she's definitely on point with her discussions just as you are. If you get a chance check out some of her content. She goes by "Mayowa's World."

[@shaani7978]

Yes! She has some great content and makes great points regarding colorism.

[@peterssister421]

Thank you for this!! ❤️

[@thatgirlkells5505]

I love her!!!!

[@islandgirl8067]

I’ve seen her videos, I love her! ❤

[@moniqueloomis9772]

She's great. I've been subscribed to Mayowa for a while.

[@LadyMocha]

This is why it's so important to have self love, because this world will you a thousand reasons not to....smdh.

[@Livvdaone]

I’m tryna understand what he cooks that cured violent self hate and colorism 🤨

[@lovelyday3979]

THANKYOU FOR SPEAKING ON THIS!!! It brought tears to my eyes to see a black man speaking truth about this topic and truly understand the depths of this... and take some accountability. I have never seen a black man really be transparent on this topic. Thankyou so much. It touched my heart so much you don't know.

[@kindred42]

It's rare... extremely rare.

[@rickihosein]

@@kindred42 ...and most times, it's a gay BM that speaks the truth and aren't afraid to hold BM accountable

[@benjis1465]

It was the “cooking saved me” that took me out 😂😂😂

[@ARTofSound908]

What I love is the fact that somebody somewhere was in the cut WAIT ING on this very moment!!! And let it be known that he was a grown a** man when he wrote those tweets and he's still that same grown a** man that feels the same way he felt back then. He's not sorry y'all!

[@reginayfavors]

People mean what they say. They are intentional. You have to think about that stupid remark you're about to make before you make it. There is a lot of contemplation. That's why when people say, "I didn't mean to say that," they are lying. They meant to say it, but I think when their ears hear their own words, their minds are shocked. But they still meant to say it.

[@elaineford39]

Ladies, you've got work to do! Spring cleaning!

[@berniceb1918]

Now black men think they got some sort of victory because his employer said they will be keeping him employed, whole time them appeals of black womens cases finna get to rolling in and defense teams will be calling him out in the courtroom for his actions to instill doubt, its just the beginning lmfao.

[@berniceb1918]

And his license is on the line.

[@notyet2345]

All his cases involving dark skinned women need to be investigated.

[@flighter7713]

😂time will tell

[@Blackmalechrissie]

He don’t need to be fired , people have said worse than him

[@tigerlilly9038]

Let the appeals begin baby, rolling like a river!!!

[@newlife9830]

Good point about him being in a position of power and more likely catering to other races. I could definitely see him doing that.

[@natalieshepp641]

Thank you for continuing to defend black women. It's rough out here! 🥺

[@Rewindwithrekenya]

I’m so glad you covered this. I was on Twitter watching his responses. He was trying to be nice on there but deleting folks on TikTok. Just don’t know what his sickness was that made him a colorist and that angry.

[@lmayson88]

He can keep his apology. He’s been dragged and lost his brand deal. He can rot

[@kelsilulu]

I’ve never seen someone get cancelled so fast 🤣even his mom doesn’t get down with him

[@annt.7785]

😂😂😂

[@kindred42]

Smart mom, if that's true. Someone has to have some dignity cause her son sure dont. I would be so embarrassed if he were my son. Like what a waste of an egg and hours of pushing. I feel sorry for her.

[@dwilliams2553]

So true. She tweeted that she doesn't condone what he said and she didn't raise him like that.

[@ogeeche]

Watch him comeback trying to rebrand himself as the Christian chef that prays over his recipes and dishes. 😂

[@msyemisi7930]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Kira_Kadaver]

He probably didn’t say it because he really doesn’t care and still feels the same way. He just wants the backlash to die down so he can move on.

[@kimberlynicole4626]

This is a great video, thank you for this discussion. How did we get here? I will never get used to or understand the hatred that some Black men have for Black women.

[@chandrawilliams2289]

I’m so glad you all are exposing him. He needs to feel everything.

[@trinaewatkins2804]

Spoken well.... Over the years, I have tried to rise above it......But as a dark skin Black woman, I will have to speak about how it is not easy to rise above at times. This is because unfortunately, it’s embedded in the culture and when you bring it up, people deny it or blame the victim.

[@lmusima3275]

I logged into my twitter account and looked at his page 📄 my goodness me, there are countless backlashing comments against him from both BM and BW. His excuse for his bullying behaviour and colourist clowning is simply unacceptable. He’s a rubbish cook and lawyer with a half hearted apology. He’s disabled any further comments on Twitter, so cunning

[@islandgirl8067]

💯💯💯💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I don’t have twitter but am glad he’s getting roasted!

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

I went to his IG page he deleted all the pics of him and his fiancee. That trash apology he turned off the comments like a true coward.

[@lmusima3275]

He knew what he was doing

[@RafaelRoden2025]

The point about the dark skinned baby mommas and the white and light skinned wives was SHARP.

[@mheerawisrael5447]

These colorist blk men do not see or understand who usually support them. I enjoyed your commentary thanks for the truth and kind words in support of dark skinned women.

[@Lacavadoe]

As a black woman in my late 20’s I remember back in like 2010-2014 how they use to say the most derange things against black women. So it doesn’t surprise me when I see a black man dis black women. I honestly and about an inch from just thinking whenever I see a black man I just label them a colorist on the spot.

[@RECHARON]

I’ve NOT EVER heard of him. Also, how does cooking save someone from being colorist?! 😕

[@melissawelch-mosley]

Everyone has a preference; I question the woman who allow him to put down a woman based on how dark her skin is...

[@ichellexcel]

Right! I’m sure he she’s like him and or he’s degraded BW to her.

[@BooDotBoo]

@@ichellexcel That’s usually the case. If they’re with a light skinned/mixed woman, she thinks she’s better than dark skinned women and agrees with him. If she’s nonblack, she hates black women period. It’s rarely not the case. I’ve had a few nonblack women, who date or married black men, trying to be friends with me. I tried it once. This woman was ALWAYS telling me about all the sweet things he did for her and all this crap. I’m like, are we trying to be friends or are you selling him to me? What’s going on? I think many of them feel superior to black women if they caught a black man. Which isn’t hard because so many black men hate themselves and hate black woman, so they’ll do anything to be with a nonblack woman. It’s weird af, but I realize they’re just as loony as these black men.

[@Juicyjamm]

Pretty much gaslighting because why tf am i being forced on this journey 😮

[@Jade-rg1ib]

Thank you for the work you do, honestly 💖💖💖

[@ajokeemmanuel4649]

I will never understand black men degrading their own, its unconscionable.

[@ceenichole6866]

Love to see black men hold other black men accountable and call out their colorism and misogyny 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@pryncecharming2133]

Not just somewhere in Texas. He is a district attorney in the 4th largest city in the nation, Houston. That scares me because he is an actual DA. What if a dark skinned black woman was falsely accused and he is the da on the case? How fair and impartial could he possibly be???

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

Colorism is definitely real. I was out a few weeks ago celebrating my cousin bday. This black guy at the bar was talking to her so he asked her did she want a shot and ask everybody else when it got to me he calls me meanie and ask do I want something to drink. Need I remind you I haven't said anything to this man just shook his hand spoke to him and went back into my own vibe. I told him no thank-you shortly after this light skinned woman came over and cursed him out he didn't say anything to her. I told my cousin I can count on both hands how many BM have called me mean because I am dark skinned, quite and mind my business. She is lighter skinned I explained she will never understand what darker skinned women deal with being stereotype and bullied from both non black people and your own race of people.

[@tiffcooper2617]

That's exactly why I avoid black spaces because of BM

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

@@tiffcooper2617 I agree 💯 . The place we attended was a diverse crowd I already know if BM attending those type of events they are going to irk me because they are always extra and attention seeking.That is why I was staying quite when he was talking to my cousin. I really think he felt some type of way because I wasn't trying to be all up in him and cousin face talking. I kept looking at my phone and just vibing to the music.

[@UrbanAlchemystic]

He expected you to be thirsty or jealous of your light skin cousin because you was minding your own business he wanted to elicit some type of reaction from you. He's nothing but a colorist energy vampire. It's like they want you to be pressed

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

@@UrbanAlchemystic exactly 💯❤️. When you explain to people they think you are crazy or delusional.

[@shawndramccoggle3953]

Yes, Justin! You are a 100% especially about light skin black people being able to move differently. It’s the truth.

[@Exquisitely-A]

As a dark-skinned woman I don't need or want his apology, it does nothing for me

[@staciamj1]

If self hatred was a person.

[@darkdream1469]

Tbh, those people ending up with people outside the race is a blessing. Beeing with someone soo self-hating isn't a win at all 🤢🤢

[@bossytweed6664]

But Meghan James wants to get in our faces saying colorism isnt real🙄

[@theunicornishere]

It's the same apologies over and over. The only way people will ever see the error of their ways is by hitting them in the pocket.

[@jojob2242]

Appreciate your content 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@reneedennis2011]

I'm glad that he's getting called out. Thank you for this video.

[@Assata111]

Watching this all play out on Twitter was so crazy 😭 I’ve never hear of him before this but I saw the oxtail pasta and I was like “oooo 🫳🏾” then everyone called him a colorist with proof and I was like “ew 😬”. It’s likely that he has the same mindset because those strong feelings of hate for black women don’t just disappear, he just know not to post those trash ass options now that he’s a little chef influencer.

[@islandgirl8067]

Oxtail pasta? 🤢🤢

[@mscardioqueen]

His non apology was trash! He's a lawyer so he does what lawyers do best - spin it.

[@tamaracharese]

Dude is an ADA!!! They need to investigate those cases!

[@higherrealms5309]

My son is very light-skinned. While he was growing up, he “couldn’t do no wrong.” The world just gave him a pass on so many things just bcuz he was light-skin and “cute.” My daughter, born 13yrs later, is dark-skinned. The world treats her harshly and it’s painful. They assume she’s bad, just bcuz she’s dark. No one babies her. No one gives her a pass. She has to go above and beyond to get approval. Funny thing is, we only experience this with BLACK ppl. White ppl treat my daughter as any other 4yr old little girl. They show her way more love than her own ppl. It’s sad.

[@FightsRightsAlways]

"Cooking saved me" It's stronger then the blood of Jesus It's better than exercise And cured my hatred towards black, especially dark skin black women. Please understand where I'm coming from and continue to support me. Thanks. That's what I got from this. He's only sorry that he got caught.

[@moniqueloomis9772]

🏆

[@morena1022]

Good morning everyone. Peace and blessings. So I just wanted to give everyone a heads up, if you Google the Harris DA's office, their number will come up, and when you call, there is a girl who will pick up and give you the email address to submit complaints to. She informed me of this information and that apparently they've been swamped with emails and calls. Which I'm so proud that people are taking action. I stand on my word and actually sent them an email about 5 minutes ago. Thanks everyone.

[@xiatlan]

I read a news article today and District Attorney Kim Ogg (a white woman) said she supports him that and that he has always been professional. You can look at that old, sour, wrinkled hag and tell that she hates BW. Her and Waymond probably enjoy degrading BW together. BM and their preferences share that one thing in common.

[@morena1022]

@@xiatlan yeah I saw that, because their local news covered it. And she is supporting him. But the girl that picked up when I called, said that the switchboards has been going crazy... and they have now designated a special email address for people to file complaints. She suggested that folks complain in writing, because they are collecting the info. So maybe that lady is going to back pedal, who knows? Even in my email I kept it classy, but I did mention that it's very disparaging, that the DA is backing him up. And some more tea that I heard, is that Walmart is now potentially going to pull out on their deal with him too. He already lost one endorsement and he's probably going to lose them too.

[@ichellexcel]

@@morena1022 👏 👏

[@islandgirl8067]

@@morena1022 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@aco420]

The way my TL is just filled with QTs of his receipts. Even one with his mama defending herself. The Twitter algorithm isn't letting it go. I didn't know about the guy, but lawdy did they bring the receipts on oxtail pasta guy. It's beautiful. Karma's gonna knock you out.

[@TiaNichole17]

Did he said he trying to heal from his colorist comments?! The audacity on Beyoncé good internet 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@brandirichardson1491]

This shit is so played out at this point ! I'm tired of dark skinned black women being torn apart like this! I'm tired!

[@ayanaquinn]

You’re past will always catch up to you

[@astridediva]

Thank you king of reads ❤. Any man staying silent is silently supporting c*olorism

[@zee608]

What makes this even more deplorable is the fact that beautiful dark skin girl was in high school at the time so I have absolutely no sympathy for him. Social media is a blessing and a curse because your past can come back to haunt you.

[@BellaNoir3]

@king of reads I'm here in Houston and here finally resigned yesterday!!!

[@shopece8807]

His legal and chef career is what needs to be COOKED. See if his preference sticks beside him then. Ohhhh better late than never I am glad these men are getting exposed.

[@virginiabonita2881]

Omg, we watch this video in my Sociology of Media class yesterday (1/19/2023). A student submitted and the teacher played it in class. Amazing!!❤ Georgia Southern University.

[@lynnesalovettbey1126]

HE DON'T LIKE HIMSELF...EVERYTIME HE LOOK IN THE MIRROR 🪞 HE HATE HIS MOTHER SISTER AUNT AND COUSINS

[@1hinita]

That written apology was empty, and tha fact that It was a tiny paragraph shows how unapologetic he was. He needs to take a discourse, write a dissertation and have a conversation with black women in video form and apologize publicly since he went ant publicly shamed and hated on random black women. It need to be SEEN that he understand what harm he cause and the hate narrative he pushed like so many other others! Folks don't give af about a written apology. Anybody can do that. All that lil paragraph told me was that he wasn't sorry, it shows how he really feel and that the audience he wants forgivness from arnt worth apologizing too. 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@simonesanaa5331]

It’s crazy because I remember seeing those tweets as a teenager. And seeing that it’s this dude I’m looking like 🙄😬 not surprised.