HOW TO BE THE KIND OF WOMAN A MAN CAN'T GET OFF HIS MIND

[@janellamurphy5665]

We women have to have class in how we speak, behave and especially know who she is in Christ🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥!!!!

[@fazeelafazal8615]

Love your accent. I smiled when you said how to be the kind of woman a man can't get off his mind. He can't get his work done:) I 've been thinking of you

[@ak-47intelligence75]

BE A CHALLENGE. Thank you for saying it out LOUD and CLEAR at the very beginning of the video. This is true. Only the men that you shouldn't be with in the first want a woman who is easy and requires no effort into attaining her. Often times, in the long run, these men can turn out to be dangerous. Not what we want.

[@MathyLisikaMinsende]

Yes, so true. Gotta read those profiles carefully when they say. I don't want any Drama, or stress- free relationship.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Exactly! There's also being a Challenge and playing too many Games and too long. A Woman can easily be a Challenge while still being inviting and approachable.

[@UnexpectedWonder]

@@MathyLisikaMinsende Absolutely!

[@CandaceLeAnne]

Yes … and the men who whine about a “black” woman who argues and is stressful, are usually the cause of the argument and the stress in these women’s lives. Any woman who will not address actual problems in a relationship is battling with her own self esteem or is simply toying with a man until she is tired of using him for his sexual benefits. Neither should a real man want.

[@marienmocka8397]

It hit me when you said: to be humble is to recognize my need as a woman, to be loved and cherished from a man. In being high value, some times knowing this need inside seemed for me weakness, now I understand it is ok to have that need as a woman. We are designed like that. Thank you Chengi. By the way, I love you how you speak and describe all of that, because I feel you are authentic. You have been there, that is why you know all this.

[@beeaboutabbabusiness8738]

What I have concluded from this video let the man persue you, show appreciation for gestures he does towards you. This can be shown in , sentimental non expensive gifts. Have a life outside, of persuing ,or being in a relationship men value a bit if mystery , to a woman and what they have to work for.

[@NisiJ28]

Darling, you are the sister I’ve been praying for!! I mean accent and all! (I actually fake one from time to time…shhh! Lol!) Thank you SO much for sharing!!!

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Hahaha ❤️❤️🌸🦋

[@vickysnache2776]

How to be the kind of woman that a man can not get of his mind. Simple! Know God and have a good character.

[@janellamurphy5665]

AMEN!!!!!

[@EudoraPrice]

Amen!

[@submissionoverload]

Chenji... I've been watching you for nearly 4 years. Thank you for opening my eyes once again to where I'm going wrong in my dating life. I'm that girl who talks like a man, swearing and behaving unlady like. You're so right.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

I’m so glad I have been able to help you sweetheart ❤️

[@inside_the_waiting_room]

THIS video is SO good! And I just realized I’ve been trying to date wrong. I’m embarrassed that I admitted to being single for 4 years and sucking at dating, I wrote this on my dating profile!!!🤦🏼‍♀️😳 I have NOT been sophisticated.

[@bellakim9404]

It was more than Nothing. It was a Sentiment of Appreciation from Your Heart & it was Priceless.

[@Charlotte-br1cs]

I am subscribed to about 20 channels like this now and you are definitely the most eloquent speaker and bring up the best points. So glad I found this 🙏🏻💗

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Oh thank you 🙏🏾 ❤️

[@vale.m15]

I found you from Pastor R.C Blake's channel. I learn a lot from Pastor and I knew you're a real deal too. Looking forward in tuning to your channel. 😊

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Welcome and thank you ❤️🌸

[@m.s9146]

Hello! You’ve got it down! What you’re saying is exactly what my fiancé has described to me as his experiences before we met. I actually was in another relationship and he broke us up. He was relentless and would not take no fur an answer. That was 11 years ago and I’ve learned a lot from him about being loved by a masculine man.

[@omerivictoria2011]

[phone]

[@fashiondina]

Really needed to hear this ugh I wish I wasn't so desperate!! I must be driving these guys insane

[@donnaanderson5041]

What a beautiful woman inside and out

[@MathyLisikaMinsende]

*Yes, be memorable. Really enjoyed this Chengi.😉😘*

[@ngendoangaine8114]

So on point. I listened to the advise given to all women that will listen to this. I must say, this is really good. There is so much to learn. Thank you Chengi

[@nurtured-channel2953]

It is interesting to hear this particular message... because today I found myself meditating on Queen Esther 's meekness ...

[@missjonz]

Girl, I needed to hear this message.

[@ddodograce4516]

Wow I love the content. Your so intelligent. Your subscribing , commenting, and liking.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Thank you x

[@counsellor3474]

Some very great positive points.

[@Lesah_]

Extremely helpful thank you so much. I think this was the missing key for me.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

❤️

[@ojlove4210]

I'm blessed to hear you and learn. You are amazing.! Thank you so much for your time and sharing. God Bless you. 🙏❤️😘

[@unbelaneablebeautyy]

I just realized something about myself. When I get comfortable I seriously do talk like one of the guys 😂😂😂 I have to calm down with that.

[@missgoodenergy]

small gesture gifts.... duly noted! 🙌🏾💕✨

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Only when he is good 😌

[@beckytull8505]

I’m nothing rare because I love with my whole heart. I’m now tired, bitter and jaded so I suppose I’ve become rare because I refuse to date guys since it always turns out bad. The person who loves the least has all the power in the relationship

[@frankieroberson3398]

Amor Siempre, Chengi!!!

[@aq7317]

You have great points and with that the sweetest suggestions and advice! Thank you 💙

[@virtuouswomanthelordfirst538]

This is so powerful! 🙌🏾💯🙏🏾

[@Denisebemmett]

Amen. Good advice. You are absolutely correct about the word Thank you. This one word from a woman to a man will get her so much respect. 🙏🤗

[@gloriamondragon105]

I literally love watching & getting tips from you’re videos... Thank you for being a inspiration to us women !! ♥️🙏🏻

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

You’re welcome 💕🙏🏾

[@amberrosefitt]

BEST advice everrrr!

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@Davienne2010]

Wow! Just wow! Nailed it!!

[@RoyallyMade]

Thank you GODDESS

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

You are so 🤗

[@constanceandoh2869]

Beautiful message. Thanks 😊🙏

[@elenabilchinski6865]

Love your stuff 💖

[@katrynamcintyre5687]

June 20, 2021: Thanks for the good advice! Blessings, Katryna

[@ryerye5697]

Perfect video for my dating life rn!!!

[@mathehanyane6246]

Very very helpful 👍

[@claudiashalaby2305]

I so wish I would have found your channel earlier,you are amazing👍👏👏

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@auntyshafo]

New subbie here.. learning so much. Been doing it all wrong

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Welcome!! xx

[@janellamurphy5665]

Not to forget to mention, how we dress!!! Men are visual anyways

[@halah.2073]

I love this! Thank you for the tips.

[@silentdreams2415]

Beautiful!❤

[@2B-Steele]

This was so good. Thank you Chengi

[@vivienchamington5420]

Wonderful! you nailed it :D

[@Victoria-hd4ke]

Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏼

[@anniewatts1879]

Thank you for your wisdom 🙏🏽❤️😊

[@immamusicug9191]

Just amazing

[@alicesantos4410]

Really loved yr words

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

❤️

[@queencharles3527]

yes! Yes! And Yes!!

[@GirleystarGauises-n9b]

Super❤❤❤🎉

[@counsellor3474]

Even GREATER is the JESUS analogy.

[@counsellor3474]

Thanks, friends, for liking etc.

[@ndyndy2785]

Wow create space,true

[@omerivictoria2011]

Wh'tsapp him

[@omerivictoria2011]

[phone]

[@ruthkaunda3343]

Learning 🙌

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Glad to hear hun. Feel free to check our resources to help you further on blackswanrelationshipacademy.com/discover/discovery-call/

[@pn91]

Hello Chengi I hope all is well. I enjoy your videos and teaching points. I am in the United States. How do I set up coaching sessions with you. I look forward to hearing from you soon. Thanks

[@sejalnansi2757]

Amazing 😍

[@annastasiamusenge2132]

awesome

[@originalgoldengoddess]

Good thing for me i currently have no interest in any guy and currently no guy has interest in me... so no need to be impressing anyone lol ❤❤❤

[@000loii4]

I love u chengi!

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

❤️❤️❤️

[@nhl4264]

Your content is great💗 I have learnt a lot from it and you look too beautiful too. I wish your delivery could be a bit toned down, it comes musculine at times, throwing hands when talking and generally shouting in between and tensed energy.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

When I am teaching I am in masculine energy yes. Well observed and this shall remain the case as teaching requires masculine energy. I hope you continue to learn and grow to understand when a woman needs to be in masculine energy and when she should power down. Well done for a good observation

[@demetriaphillips4110]

Hello!

[@lovetotheworld2522]

We woman must remember the charm of being a girl.💖 Education and money is masculine and don't discuss it. Nor is it to a Alpha male.

[@neekag7244]

Do you consider 2 months or 5 months space, or a week?

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

If he is gone for over 8weeks he is gone for good

[@NimeetaA]

Imma be honest, the thumbnail pic kinda scared me. The smile gives me the Joker vibes. 😭 Then I clicked on the video gosh you're the embodiment of divine embodiment. Please keep shining ma'am ❤️❤️ I subscribed too

[@phoenixfire4640]

Is a man high-value if he says when time has been put into the relationship that he wants it to be 50-50 and he wants the women to pay for things? I’m assuming he is not high value then because that’s not up to my standards anyways

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

No, not high value ❤️

[@2B-Steele]

🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@marianas3268]

I can’t watch your video 😭😭

[@NajlaaHeerah]

@06:43 - the bueurghhh 🤣

[@debbiefoucha2679]

Truth

[@MarifatHarris93]

💖💖💖

[@KINGTHEYORKIE]

Now i understand why women are so dramatic when a men proposed.

[@rw2382]

Steal my wallet. Trust me, I'll remember.

[@AkireMaru]

😂 lol… I see you have quite a “rare” sense of humor 😂

[@deborahr.7696]

Do you have a man with all this advice?

[@xmama1891]

This woman is amazing and make a lot of sense, I came to her channel because of RC Blake Jr. I am sorry to say this I love her accent but her voice, some of her explanations, trying to be funny is annoying. I am sorry, great words..

[@briannelineback1636]

Why am I having problems trying to view this episode?? SOOOO disappointing....

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Sorry lovely 🤗

[@shanteltracey5408]

Great video. Thank you for these great tips. May I have your instagram

[@katherinequintero8782]

You are AMAZING GOD BLESS YOU. 💃🏾💪💃😇

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

❤️❤️❤️🙏🏾