CHILDHOOD CHORES The chores that shape life skills, how when and why to implement them.

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[@rebeccadickerson5389]

Girl, you are driven . If only this world had even 2% like you it would be a wonderful place. And you said you had an 8th grade education. You are smarter than college professors in the ways of real life…kudos!

[@mrswray]

This is part of the reason the United States is turning out the way it has; as stated in the beginning of the video ALOT of people don’t give their kids chores and responsibilities. I was one of those kids and once I married and started my family I realized how far behind I was because I didn’t know how to clean or have the self discipline to do things I didn’t want to do. I still struggle with consistency but I’m trying to teach my kids differently. Thank you for this video!

[@Ruthannzimm]

Self dicipline is the key to so many things in the adult life.

[@tonyapenelton7178]

I’m just watching this video now - and I 100% agree with you regarding chores and honestly - it’s 100% what’s wrong with this country! Too many people coddle their kids these days. Most don’t know where their food comes from or understand that in order for the lawn to get mowed or the driveway to get shoveled SOMEONE HAS TO DO IT. It’s part of my disgust with the “everyone gets a participation trophy” so NO ONE feels left out. BOLOGNA. Those that work hard recoup the benefits!! And that’s what this country needs to get back to - to teach our children that they need to work for and earn everything in life! I commend you for the chores for the children!! God bless!

[@cbak1819]

It's never to late to learn..

[@earlinebarrow5672]

I agree with you!

[@katie7748]

Yes and *multiple* generations of parents are guilty of this. They've also been failing to teach their children how to be parents. "Children are a map of their parents," regardless of age.

[@spoolsandbobbins]

We adopted 5 children. We let the oldest 2 go to school 6 months after they arrived. They lasted 5 months. We were appalled at what they were learning and the sudden changes in public schools with regard to gender identity. We took them out, sold our beautiful property, moved to an old, run down homestead and started growing all our food with 0 experience. They LOVE it. They get up before me and see to the chickens, rabbits, sheep and pigs. They love responsibility and the privilege of all that God has given them. They have their challenging days too but overall they are very happy kids, 3 years in!

[@rebeccabodmer5498]

What a great teacher/parent you are! You are raising children who will make excellent spouses and excellent employees!

[@Ruthannzimm]

Thank you so much!

[@LawandaFinch]

Amen

[@chevypreps6417]

I admire how your are raising your children. In my opinion you are doing it correctly.

[@imninstar]

Yes! Momma you are a rockstar! So thankful there are people like you in this world ♡ Bravo

[@nancyphillips7558]

My mother was raised in the mountains of Va. she was born in 1918 and was a hard worker. I followed her around when I was a preschooler watching what she did and how she did things, and later when I was 6 began to help with the laundry on a wringer washer with her supervision doing what I could at my size. When I got to about 10 I did all the laundry for her including hanging out the clothes on the line, bringing them in and folding them and putting them away.. As a teenager she never had to ask me to help, I would see her starting a chore and would just jump in and help without her asking me to. As a married young lady if I went to visit her it was the same, we would visit while we did her work if that was what she was doing at the time. The only thing she wanted no help with was cooking, that was her thing and I knew she wanted peace and quiet and no help with that, however, I would clear the table and help with clean up after we ate. When I was 10 momma went to the hospital for 21 days. Mom always said she came home to a clean house with even the laundry all done when she was dismissed from the hospital. There were no chores to be done when she came home that day. Mom talked about how well I had done until she passed away. I feel good about the way I helped and it was all because I had learned the routine of what needed to be done by watching what was needed when I was very small. I never had assigned chores because she knew that I was one of those kids who would see what needed doing and just do it right then. I feed the chickens and gathered the eggs, watered the cows, fed the dog and cat without even being assigned those chores. At seven I just knew that was the things I could do that would save momma time around the house. It did not hurt me to help and now at 72 I can look back and feel good about making moms life a bit easier. Later when I became a nurse I did the same just doing what was need whether it was "my job" or not.

[@enaid54]

Children have to learn to work just like they learn to read, write, and every other learned skill! If you start early they will never know the difference and it will run smoothly! Work with your child and set a good example! This is the best advice ever!

[@francesrehnquist8846]

Ruthann, I watched this video in amazement! I agree with you spot on. I am 78 and had many chores to do mainly when weekends came my sis and I had to clean house and do laundry, ie hang out laundry using clothes lines and clothes pins. Then take down and fold or iron laundry. All chores had to be done BEFORE we could go out Saturday night, etc. No problem, we did our chores so we could go have fun. NO ARGUING EVER! Wonderful time to grow up!!

[@farmwife6926]

You are spot on with your advice - your wisdom has been sadly lost in today's culture. Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❣️

[@Beyondthisveil]

Awesome to see a young mother so invested in her family and in particular her children. I can’t believe someone would question or declare that a child will do his or her chores on their own. This cannot be a parent or one with any understanding. Your children will believe they belong and will also be invested in your family unit. Sweet!

[@dianegriffin526]

I appreciate yours and Elvins style of parenting. Everyone in a family has a responsibility to do their part to help a family function. Children raised in this manner make better partners, and workers in society. They build self confidence and self esteem because they are engaged in life and learning life skills that will aid them through out life. Thank you for your diligence in training your children.

[@cheyennemckoy2160]

You are a really wonderful mother and human. I appreciate your presence in this space and really value the content you share. Thank you!

[@caseycockerham448]

I completely agree with your words. You said this perfectly.

[@kimmieb2u]

If a child can drop a toy he can pick it up. If he can dress himself, he can bring clothing to the laundry room and put it away. You are correct in your approach. I raised my children in the city. They had chores and kept doing them and we traded them around on a quarterly basis so you weren't stuck with something you hated for more than a 3 month stretch. I found that taking the time when they were young, made my life easier when they became older. I had a checklist in the kitchen and bathroom on what needed to be done to be acceptably clean. Every child did every chore on rotation. They are awesomely well respected and functioning adults now raising my grandchildren. They have told me they're glad they were raised the way they were because the skills and ability to.push through has helped them succeed in life. I'm glad you wrote the book!

[@RamosHome]

What I’ve noticed implementing chores with my children are they actually enjoy being a part of taking care of the home because when it’s all done we get to sit back and enjoy our work. They may balk at first, but I turn on some wholesome Pandora music on the TV and we light candles and we all clean together. I’m also usually cooking something yummy on the stove so we get to enjoy eating it in our clean home. It’s truly amazing how kids will engage when the parents show it as a blessing instead of as a chore that’s no fun. Payment isn’t even expected when we make it an experience like this. They actually want to do it.

[@ErinsTastyHeritage]

We need this kind of parenting! Thankful for your willingness to be an amazing example of unconditional love!

[@ceegee6625]

I couldn't agree more!

[@iylalacoste3463]

our oldest is 2 so although he can't do chores on his own we still teach him ways to help out around the house. He will bring me things that I need if I ask and we have also taught him how to let the dog outside so now when he sees the dog standing at the back door he will go open it to let her out without even being asked. 2 year olds can seem helpless but I think society doesn't give them enough credit or allow them the opportunity to help. Great tips!

[@pennygreenler4351]

young children are far from helpless! and have a huge capacity to learn.

[@lisatakeitorleaveit]

I’m am new to your channel and I couldn’t agree more. I’m a New York mom and I raised all three of my sons the same way and they are all successful adults. I always told myself I’m not raising little boys I’m raising future men. I took a lot of heat from parents around me who felt I was too harsh, but my children will tell you I have never raised my voice to them and I have never had to severely punish them. Natural consequences is a wonderful teacher.

[@susanarnold731]

I couldn't agree more. My husband's philosophy was you don't start rising children when they are teenagers you start when they are toddlers. As the lady above said she wasn't raising little boys she was raising future men.

[@mollydavis200]

Great video! Children are part of the family unit and should be “pulling their weight” and helping out. Parents who don’t teach their children this likely have adult children who are selfish and won’t help their spouse out.

[@yerneedsry]

or even be successfiul..

[@lilaholland5764]

Absolutely! Though not Amish or Minnonite I was raised on a small family farm. We had a dairy where we hand milked +/- 6-8 cows morning & night, there were also horses, hogs, & 50-60 head of beef cattle to be fed. We raise marketable produce like tobacco, potatoes, & green beans, There was also hay & silage to put up, & we grew cane to make molasses. I'm so thankful that I was taught responsibility, accountability, & common sense. It has stood me in good stead.

[@nancygraham5689]

I've just started following this channel for a week. I'm amazed at your brilliance. I'm retired and old and not in the game anymore, still cooking, making everything from scratch, canning and gardening etc, but you have me amazed at your natural brilliance

[@caseycockerham448]

Isn't she amazing? I swear this woman lowers my blood pressure. LOL

[@le1003ann]

I one hundred percent agree!, I have done my share of gardening housekeeping, bringing up my two children but this woman is amazing and runs circles around me. I wish I knew half of the skills that she does, and how well adjusted her children are.❤

[@villagesolutions1739]

Don't know why someone would call you uneducated. You are one of the most educated persons I know. Just because you didn't sit in a school classroom for x number of years means nothing. You share more knowledge than most individuals will ever have about real life. Thank you for your casual and real approach to teaching. You do a fantastic job!!!

[@marcellacruser951]

I was raised up on a small homestead with a big garden plus a few acres of olives, and was doing chores at my parents' knees as soon as I could hold a tool or pick up a bucket. I was taught to feed and care for that which feeds us bf we feed ourselves, bc that is showing gratitude for what they will give us and it makes them joyful. Ever see a hen find fresh pumpkin guts in the feed pan or a duck find his baby pool freshened in the morning? It's a party! It was interesting to discuss our chore/business report over breakfast. My dad always asked when I thought a rabbit was going to litter or which hen was setting a brood and how was she looking (animal husbandry lessons over oatmeal), how many dozen eggs we'd have available to sell that day. Did I think some early turnips and beets could be thinned for dinner tonight? He was very attentive to my opinions and consequently, I was very invested in what came to the table and what we could make a profit off/save by not having to buy from others. If I didn't know something, it went on my list of stuff he could show me the next morning... quality father/daughter learning time that was a real pleasure. If he didn't have an answer to a question, we'd learn it together and figure out how to implement that. Consequences came in the form of tending my little sister (a difficult dispositioned, angelic looking absolute little terrorist) so my mom had more time for her own chores and projects, unfettered. I learned to keep my attitude in check and that it's more enjoyable to be uncomplaining than it was to get a chronically grumpy baby/toddler to cooperate. LOL!

[@70foolio]

Chores always gave me a sense of value as a kid. I think most kids should have daily chores. Good job kids.

[@californiadreamer2580]

I love this approach. It isn't about "forcing" or "punishment", it is about learning, skill building, curiousity, cooperation, accountability, responsibility, and self-discipline according to the child's age and, a child's previous learning.

[@chobensa]

Children only doing chores when they want or choose on their own? Would be *never* at my house! Love your insights and wisdom. Even we grandparents can learn new ways to teach “new dogs” new tricks!! 😊 🐶

[@ldliles]

I was raised doing chores before catching the bus in the morning and doing chores after school. Our animal's had to be fed and watered before we went to school. That was normal way of life. Now day's kids don't know what chores are. I'm so proud growing up the way my brother's and myself grew up. So me personally am proud of how you raise your children. Keep up the good work mom..

[@kokomieko]

My parents' way of giving us chores was to write weekly chores on paper and for every chore we did, we were told to put a hash mark by our name. At the end of the month, my father would give a dollar for every hash mark. We were never shown how to do the chores, were yelled at when we did a task incorrectly (and still were not shown or guided), and yet, when the hash marks were counted and someone did hardly anything, we were not disciplined until our lack of experience showed and then we were discouraged, belittled and hit. There was so much consistency, fear, misdirected expectation, and acute lack of guidance. Much of the time, in the event we were asked to do something, we learned thay my mom would just do it for us and then lie and said we did it, because then we could avoid the possible belittlement and pain. Now, at 30, coping with general life is extremely difficult for me. It is embarrassing, frightening...and watching your videos, RuthAnn, is like finally having a parent figure in my life who can guide, correct, and demonstrated unconditional love. Thank you.

[@Julie-si3hi]

As a single mother my children also had chores and were involved with cooking with me...yes Ruth it's life skills ! Self discipline and for a us as family to take care of the home we all live in x it worked well, my children are now adults and keep a good,organised home. Your chore reports are genius x

[@marjorieroche5490]

I am from the islands and kids are expected to have chores, I thank God every day for that and now living in this country raising three of them and I definitely bringing them up the same.

[@janakain5354]

You're going by example, whilst kind, patient and understanding, true role model. True loving parent💕

[@brendataylor7524]

I feel children need structure and life skills. I fully agree with you, Ruth. I was raised with doing chores and learning life skills. It is so very important in a child's life for survival. And disapline is another thing that kids need to learn so that they are unruly. You and your husband are doing a marvelous job. Just like my parents did with us kids. My mother started teaching all four of us kids how to keep our dresser drawers neat. She did have a problem with Leslie, Kenneth , Keith was a problem, and me , the baby. Mom would dumb is drawers on the floor, and Keith would pick things up, but instead, he would get a large garage bag, and dump all his junck into the large garage bag and then take it down the woods and bury it and then dig it up when he needed something. My mother had a time with him. And he still is a slop to at 68 years old. I think you have a good handle handle on your kids.

[@kathdavis8059]

It's lovely to see a family working as a family team, it's how I grew up in a large family in Wales 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 Uk, in our modern fast moving gadget reliant world, it's no longer the norm for children to learn n to become self reliant, my parent's taught us to cook, clean, look after animals, help our older family members, neighbours & friends. My own four now adult children all had chores growing up & are all now confident, self reliant & teaching my Grandchildren the same values they were. It's a difficult world for parents now especially when the children start school because they are influenced by so many distractions from a more real type of nurturing, so many parents are absent working to fill their homes with unnecessary items or achieve status financially. Nobody ever said the wished they'd spent more time at work, childhood is such a small but important part of a persons long life, it's not to be missed.

[@genaday2393]

More kids at home should have chores and they might not tell the parents what to do. They would know the value of life. Not handing them everything. You are doing a great job! Keep it up!

[@WillowsGarden]

You are definitely right. We where raised doing chores and we carried water from the spring also. Saturday was laundry day and we carried water all day, but my mama washed our clothes. We where raised to respect and taught manners. I raised my children doing the same as I was was raised. I worked in the gardens when I was little and I loved it while I was learning. I’m in my 60’s and still garden and tend my flowers. I loved my childhood and I’m so glad I was raised like that. Have a blessed day!

[@beadwright]

It works for teachers too! I had to practice how we handle fire drills, greeting visitors, setting up the desks for different activities, etc... When it wasn't done we had an opportunity to practice again. (One class had 50 minutes worth of fire drill practice before they learned the proper way, but they learned.) You are correct, consistency is the key.

[@michellerose6721]

Wish I saw this when I was raising my boys. I was trying to develop MY skill set instead of their's. To this day, I struggle with procrastination and motivation. My mother was a stay at home mom who was very motivated and organized. Our home ran like a well oiled machine. We did have Saturday chores but I never learned the most important skill of self-discipline. This video is priceless!

[@joycegillett5985]

To the person who said you sound uneducated, you are more educated than most degreed people I know. Most people couldn’t do 1/8 of all you do & all you do is so important. Wish I had had the advice you give on kids when I had young kids. I love watching & LEARNING from you & im 78 yo

[@pamswafford9994]

You are a wonderful teacher. So many adults these days don’t have any life skills. It’s shocking to me how little parenting is utilized in this world today. Praise God you got saved❤❤❤ All children need a sense of purpose and belonging. A good work ethic is learned from parents.

[@pennygreenler4351]

this is so similar to the Montessori teaching philosophy that I have used in 30+ years of teaching. Chores are very grounding, center the child, teaches them life skills, develops a sense of community and a sense of responsibility. Kudos!!

[@Ago2904]

I was thinking the same thing! Also setting very young children up for success by entrusting them to „help“ or do things themselves!

[@rebeccadavis6812]

Such good wisdom in this. I agree with the other commenter, these things have been so lost in today's society/culture and need to be restored. The chore report is really quite smart, getting them to think through and talking it through by asking them questions so that they can internalize what they are doing. "You're training for a lifetimes worth of work ethic and success!" Also, "that sounds like you need more practice..." Really good! Thank you for making and sharing this video!

[@Ruthannzimm]

Thanks for this feedback!!!

[@arthuurwong49]

Great ideas on how to handle kids!!!😊

[@staceymatheny3075]

This is was the way of life that built our nation...past generations were taught to work for what was wanted or needed...that's what made America strong and resilient. We've lost that drive and the present generation now expects things to be handed to them...that's why you see millennials posting videos in outrage of having to be at work on time or even go to work at all! It's really sad to see the disintegration of our country and I'm so glad to see families like yours continuing to raise their children to appreciate hard work and respect for their parents. Thank you!

[@erinwarne4439]

I'm just now staring my homesteading journey at 43. My children are teen - adult age and while I have always given them chores, I have also not given them enough and I am struggling to get either of my boys to be responsible. I wish I had found this earlier in my life. This is such a value for any parent.

[@Strattiffy]

Chore reports, "growth not perfection": all good stuff!

[@agwilt9523]

Ruthann… you are amazing. Please raise all of America’s children! 😂😂

[@juliapearce4380]

Ruthanne, you are truly amazing as a mother and teacher. Sure this video will light the fire under some parents on how to teach your children… GOD bless you always.

[@psalm2129]

EXCELLENT video!! EVERY family in America should live like this.

[@nancywhitaker5096]

I really laughed when you said," I think you need more practice" Sounded just like my mom!!! She had that same way of teaching.

[@janicew6222]

You are a very wise mama!! Our children had chores without being 'paid' and learned to work together, have satisfaction of a job well done and gained many skills. Children that work together will grow up to be great adults. My sons are now in their 40's, both have a servant's heart and are very helpful to me since my husband died. I don't have to ask, they just anticipate. They are a true blessing.

[@gladysshirey8672]

I find it hilarious that people think kids will do chores when they are ready. that does NOT happen. I was raised on a small family farm and we did the same thing, not to your level, however. We always thought that we fed the animals because they can't feed themselves. We chose them, they did not choose us. I think it's wonderful what you are teaching your children, all of it! It is a different life if you live in the city and don't have animals to take care of, are not raising their own food (gardening), what they get is in the stores. People have no idea how much work is involved in the "production" of food. Well, I look forward to your youtube videos and continue to learn. Thank you.

[@rapunzelz5520]

If you weren't running a homestead, you could be an excellent elementary school teacher.😊

[@phyllisgovia4253]

Your a rock star of a mom and your children are blessed to have you teaching them. I raised 2 boys who we adopted and then their father passed when they where young. They told their friends my mom is a slave driver, chores everyday. How ever now grown,they have thank me for their disciplined childhood and say there kids out there are rotten and how grateful for the way I raised them as a single mom.

[@stacyrobbins2378]

Your teaching them live skills. I had chores from 4yrs to now at 62. It’s life. People coddle their children too much these days that’s why there’s no respect they don’t know how to work and I blame it on the parents if everybody was a bit harder on their kids instead of trying to be their best friend but be their parents in the place and that we wouldn’t have the mess we have now work ethic is no more is not taught anymore in our kids

[@marigoldlancs8937]

Thank you so much. What a wonderful world it would be if more parents took the time to teach their children. But they have to get their faces out of their phones. Love from England.

[@bionails1]

Hallo vanuit Nederland, mijn man en ik zijn christen, en wij zijn opgegroeid op een boerderij en fruitbedrijf. Zoals jullie je kinderen opvoeden met het helpen van klusjes, zo zijn wij opgegroeid en dat hebben wij ook zo gedaan met onze 4 kinderen. Wij hebben een melkveebedrijf en er is werk genoeg. Ze hebben geleerd te werken. Wij zijn bevoorrecht dat we ze op deze manier kunnen opvoeden. Daar zijn wij erg dankbaar voor. Ik kijk graag naar je videos. Groet

[@yerneedsry]

OK

[@brendafrisby6340]

I’m so thankful to have found your videos. I have learned so much and wish I would have known all this over 20+ years ago! You are such and inspirational wise woman! Thank you for sharing your heritage and your family’s life with us! God truly is good and you are so valuable❣️

[@Famcke]

Start at a young age 2yrs old by letting them pick up their toys. T Pick up their dropped food and cookies. That's how they learn. Clean up a spill even if they're not doing a good job and you have to do it again afterwards. Greatly video!!! 💐

[@suesmyder]

Even 2 and especially 3 years are very capable to set the table . How hard is that to do? It even teaches counting and feeling like part of a family. Lazy parenting is all that is.

[@royway6993]

Thank you for fulfilling your calling. You and your family will be amazed at your rewards in Heaven. Your whole channel is incredible and this particular episode is life changing! Blessings!!!

[@denisewilson8367]

Chores are great teachers for kids. My kids learned young & were complimented often by other adults. They were proud of themselves when this happened. As adults they have wonderful work ethics. And taught theses same things to their children. Now those grandchildren are getting jobs & their employor is very happy to have them & give them more resposibility & of course more pay than their "friends".

[@marlenehahn5678]

I grew up doing chores on a farm and household chores. It's great teaching and self discipline. It instill not only skills but a work ethic that employers look for.

[@dianalittle7323]

I WAS RAISED TO WORK, IT MAKES YOU A RESPONSIBLE WORKER WHEN THEY GROW UP.... :) I HAVE PICTURES OF MY CHILDREN COVERED IN FLOUR AS EARLY AS TWO-YEARS OLD. THEY ARE EXCELENT COOKS TODAY!!! GOD BLESS YOU!!!! :)

[@wisedove7]

Through all the explanations of your wise and thoughtful techniques, what I see you teaching and demonstrating best is LOVE. You are a treasure. Thank you.

[@MacMeadowsFarm]

What wonderful ideas! I have been struggling with my younger children because I was raised where children were to be neither seen nor heard, so I would shoo my younger ones off to play while I did chores. As they got older, I wondered why it was so hard to get them to help out, but I had squashed that early desire to help! We are doing things differently now with the younger ones, but I LOVE the idea of "chore reports" instead of asking them each thing. So much wonderful wisdom! Thank you!! ❤

[@mamabenzing5872]

I love the chore reports idea 🥰 I never thought of doing something like that. I'm raising independent thinkers and not ones that'll do whatever they are told to do and not think on their own.

[@cynthiafisher9907]

It’s good to have a balance in that. While it’s not good to raise robots that never have a voice or thought, but also it’s not good to go to the opposite extreme where they only think for themselves and don’t listen to the wisdom and guidance of the parents. Children have parents because they need to be cared for and taught and trained to be productive adults.

[@Tia-vj9ox]

My granddaughter begged to do dishes when she could barely reach the sink. Kids usually Want to help. Good for you for teaching your children life skills!

[@Tia-vj9ox]

That reporting strategy is Brilliant!

[@emilyboller7588]

I appreciate your statement about mothers tending to underestimate their own children's abilities. I've definitely seen this in my own life where another adult has asked my child to do something that I'm sure they're not able to do. I'm always surprised by watching my child rise to the occasion and complete the job that I just knew they weren't able to do. It's a constant pendulum swing between wanting my children to grow and learn new responsibilities but also wanting them to stay babies (or not wanting to admit they're no longer babies).

[@1951kvk]

My brother and I were taught various skills at home through doing chores and we are both very grateful to our Mom.

[@sheliagage2227]

I love quilting because I get to be creative and also it takes me away from other problems and I can just focus on my sewing.

[@lorettaanderson8216]

You are a terrific mom , I wish someone would make this mandatory to be a parent, to watch your video, I am a bus driver and I know what kids get this training and which ones don't, parents now didn't get this training and neither did theirs, I was fortunate to have parents that wanted us to have this training, my dad got a couple cows and chickens ducks and 4 pigs so I would learn how to milk by hand and clean the barn and learn where our food came from. , By the time my little sister came along that life was over so she didn't learn and is not responsible for herself. Doesn't try to be family and help others without something in return. This stuff should be taught in schools. I just recently found your videos and I love them, you have a beautiful family. I wish I lived closer so I could learn hands on. Thank you. God Bless.

[@katherinewhittenberg8919]

Its funny, my children are grown now, but they remember the chores so much differently than I do. To them it was a time of struggle, but a good time. I remember them as a headache waiting to happen. They remember accomplishment on their part and a memorable experience. I am happy to say they have grown to be adults that I am happy to know.

[@Prezlsc]

I rewarded myself with this video on this dreary, rainy day. I have been saving it because I knew it would make so much sense! I was raised in the Midwest by parents who were raised on farms and lived through the depression. my mom and grandma were the hardest-working ladies I know, but you may have topped them 👏 we also, were required to work alongside them, when there was work to do. I am so thankful, now, because I learned so many useful skills! We have 4 children who KNOW how to work hard; a commodity in society today! Thank you for such valuable content! I have only been subscribed for a short time but have watched almost all of your content. Your approach is SO kind and joyful; it draws a person to you 🥰 And your following has nearly DOUBLED since I found your channel! Congratulations 👍🏻

[@user-xp2du8jj2f]

One of your best ever videos. So thankful you have the courage and willingness to share your ways with everyone. It's a blessing.

[@lindaparrish4515]

Sounds like good parenting to me . I would tell my kids that if they needed something to do I would find something for them . They learned fast to get their chores done then find things to keep themselves busy .

[@msdebbiep]

Years ago, I facilitated parenting programs and I based the programs on the concept of what you want your kids to be like at Age 16 - everything you do prior to that is teaching them the skills to develop those abilities and practices. Fantastic video.

[@jenniferpackard6558]

Such a great video and teaching!!! Practical and also you explain the reasoning behind your methods. I am a grandma and empty nester and I would recommend these methods to anyone!

[@rolandadesrosiers-lewis744]

What great parents! We need more like you in the world today.

[@jonnaborosky8836]

I used to say that training children is not only for this life...on earth, but also for training up children to be the best people they can be, have a good heart, loving characters, etc. These are the traits they will take into the next life. There is no finer work than to raise up children for the kingdom of God! I love your whole philosophy and practice around rearing, teaching and training up children. It's not just children who feign incompetence. I've worked with adults who do the same. If I'm not their boss, it isn't my business. When I am the boss, we had some more training.

[@Prepping_mimi]

“Gained incompetence “ is at the top of my 7 year old grandsons list 😂😂😂 Mimi doesn’t fall for it

[@meghauff9824]

I wasnt raised on a farm , but still did chorse. I worked full time babysitting by 10.Its smart to teach your kids how to help themselves.

[@jayniecharlton4882]

What a fabulous lesson you have taught me. We are helping our daughter (she has mental health issues) to raise our grandson. He is nearly 11 and he is sssooooo lazy. I will be implementing your chore skills from today.....Thank you so much Ruth Ann.....wish I had seen this video long time ago....

[@sandyfox1632]

Ruth Ann, I've enjoyed all the videos that I've watched. This one on chores is really good. I'm 74 and grew up on a farm. Being the youngest, I had the chance to learn one on one with mom and dad. I remember at supper time, that mom washed, I stood on a chair and rinsed then dad dried and put away. A side note: my youngest sister was 13 when I was born so I got A LOT of practice with chores inside and out. I've been very blessed to learn to work consistently and to do the job well. It has served me very well through my life. Thanks for the tips for parents raising children yet. Ready for the next video.

[@janiceyoder621]

I love the chore report idea. We have a 12 year old who still hasn't learned to complete his chores properly. Which is doing the chickens.

[@claudiaatkinson1279]

Brilliant! I wish I could have a parenting do over 😅

[@BinfordMJ]

You are spot on! When I was growing up my parents had paper routes and got up at 1:30 AM every day for years and years. Us kids would get up and go with them every Thursday and Sunday as those were large paper days because of the ads. All four of us have great work ethics and understand the importance of pitching in to get the job done. Mrswray (commented below) is right! The people who don't teach their kids the value of work is the reason this country is in the shape it is in today. I thank the Lord there are people like you & Mr. Z who teach your children the valuable lessons they WILL need in life. They are for sure the better for it! We need a world with more people like you and your family in it! May God bless you and your family. And THANK YOU for every video you share!

[@littleme3597]

Being productive is self esteem building. A sense of accomplishment.

[@wendyrudder5809]

You are a wonderful role model for your children. They will grow up with discipline and pass those lessons onto their own children. Great way to enforce life skills

[@meremadswyant8835]

Wish I would have had this info when we raised our daughters. Such brilliant ideas and simple! Great for developing responsible adults. Gonna buy your ebook and maybe someday I will use with grandchildren or gift to our daughters for their children. Thank you!

[@Ruthannzimm]

Thank you!!!!

[@Veromac100]

Me too!! I wished I had this knowledge when my kids were younger!! They are now all young adults. I think that these are brilliant ideas. Thanks for sharing!

[@Jamiek485]

I loved chores growing up, and would volunteer because it gave me a sense of accomplishment to complete something for the family.

[@TheFrontAcre]

This was such a blessing and encouragement. Thank you. I've learned some places I need to work on. Cannot wait to get your book. Your wisdom always inspires me to growth, and I love that it is all rooted in scripture, not man's wisdom. Thank you a hundred times!

[@annescarrow7090]

Appreciate your consistency and care in helping your children grow into being successful adults! Blessings

[@elizabethbordeaux2741]

Wow! This is the best (not one of the best, but the best) childhood rearing lessons I have ever encountered. My gratitude and thankfulness to you.

[@sabrinadaisybess]

That 1st comment by Someone who watched this video , to let children do chores when they feel like it made me laugh out loud! Whose flesh Ever wants to work Instead of play as a child?!?!? You go girl, I just love your videos with them!!!

[@barbarajameson1739]

Oh my goodness…I love how you’re raising your children!!!!

[@Joe-ew5rt]

If you only start with chores when the kids are ready to do chores you are encouraging idleness. It's important for them to realize that it requires work to run a household. My boys were given small chores from an early age and as Ruthanne suggests they were age appropriate chores. Now that my son's are grown I'm proud to say they're well trained men. They can cook, clean, do laundry and be responsible for their own actions. My husband and I must have done something right.

[@virginiamesko6369]

I always felt proud of my ability to perform chores.

[@ritasnider2998]

I love your attitude, this is how God expect us to be. I am not of your religious faith, but I believe in Jesus Christ as my savior. I love how your life shows your faith inof God

[@psuchic06m22]

So true... chores teach you life! A good parent trains/teaches up a child... Enjoy every video I've watched, since stumbling onto your page! Other thing ... so many families.live in a development or urban situation... i used to.think that would be great, now i want nothing more than to be back on the farm... chores keep animals happy & healthy...and they give you eggs & milk...

[@SCook49]

I am 75 now and remember before we went to school, we had chores to do. We didn’t live on a farm but started washing, washed dishes, vacuuming, cleaning bathroom, dusting and other such things. Even though my mother was a stay at home mother, we still had responsibilities. When we each married, we all knew how to do things kids now days have no clue in doing. I agree, this is what is wrong with our country now, parents let the kids dictate what the family does, and it is usually the parents that do the chores and wait on the children. What changed? When did the children become so privileged to be in charge at such immature ages?

[@AZJH8374]

Since I'm new, I'm binge watching you today. Love your channel. God Bless you and your family. Nurse Judi in Scottsdale AZ and Eucharistic Minister ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@nancyt364]

You are an amazing teacher and Mother. If more women were like you, we would have more productive and capable adults. Bravo

[@charlenegoddard7390]

You and your husband are giving the children a most valuable lesson of life. I admire your approaches.