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@milkypeach48486 жыл бұрын
This is true.. because my boyfriend is chinese and he’s is so care about me when I’m on my period and when we go out for date he won’t let me pay the bill❤️ we will getting married next year
@DL-ri2ps5 жыл бұрын
This is common sense for Chinese men pay the bill. Normally, the girl only sits and waits for food. We should go around and find the food that she like.
@stepheng27215 жыл бұрын
I don't mind doing this as long as I git money
@inesa10765 жыл бұрын
So cute, I wish you the best !
@Boyd_Watson5 жыл бұрын
I would pay but 我没有钱
@jackie15775 жыл бұрын
Easy girl
@dennisengelen25175 жыл бұрын
PS: You confuse western with American. Here in Europe the mentality differs even in each region of a country 😂
@sugakookies80634 жыл бұрын
Dennis Engelen You must forget that America (USA) is also very different, and everyone differs in the way they do things
@maude91914 жыл бұрын
Ultimately they share the same mindset and similar cultures.
@samshankar94134 жыл бұрын
Is Australian considered western
@samshankar94134 жыл бұрын
If the world is round then isn't every country West of China, including China
@ari_jean4 жыл бұрын
Well, I don't think he does. Western European countries are very similar to the US culturally and specifically what this guy in the video showed was exactly what is considered "western"
ning Yun 直男癌会拼命给你他觉得好的。聪明的男人会多花时间去了解你,然后投其所好。这是智商和情商的问题。
@flufflepuffle6 жыл бұрын
When the siren went off during the period scene, I lost it.
@RedSpiderLily9226 жыл бұрын
lol. Me too.
@user-tc7mv4qr6p5 жыл бұрын
In Chinese culture, girls being on period means twisting ache in the body, and blues. So in this specific time, boy friend gets alerted and takes good care of his babe.
@objective70425 жыл бұрын
Curious, can anyone translate the subtext on top on the foreign boyfriend scene?
@qilu53944 жыл бұрын
Hahahah SAME LOL
@shannonbrewer32804 жыл бұрын
Plus he brought snacks and heating pad. I wish someone would at least bring me a heating pad during my period.
@LexLynn954 жыл бұрын
My fiance is Chinese~ From what I've found (not just from being with him, but observing guys in China in general) is they they are a lot more considerate and caring towards their girlfriends than American guys.
@dodo-eu6ox2 жыл бұрын
That’s because you are white
@minawananami4 жыл бұрын
My crush is Chinese. He really cares for me when I’m on a period, always reminds me to drink hot water, forces me to go to sleep earlier, asks me a dozen of times a day if my belly still hurts etc ☺️
@user-ll4vu1lv5i Жыл бұрын
Hahaha if he says that to his Chinese girlfriend, he might get beaten up🤣
@vronichang63787 жыл бұрын
we don't talk anymore。。。
@user-oe7nb7fz9v5 жыл бұрын
talk your sister
@lanyue24974 жыл бұрын
The last one is so true, chinese parents will buy their children house even if the child have no plan of marriage for at least the next 10 years 😂
@KateeAngel4 жыл бұрын
@Lynn E Xu dumb. For many people an apartment = house, because it is the only way of life they can think of.
@mangatalk92634 жыл бұрын
Lynn E Xu It depends how rich his family is😂... Also depends on where he lives. The money for an apartment in a big city can buy several houses in some other cities lol
when your boyfriend knows more about period than you do
@user-bk1qm2jt3m3 жыл бұрын
hahahahah
@Usakko4 жыл бұрын
I used to date a guy who wouldn't let me pay for anything and it made me so anxious. Please let me pay at least once! He was European but I guess I need someone even more western. 😂
Glad I found this channel! I'm Mandarin learner. Beside the interesting content to watch, this help me a lot to study!! ^^ thank you very much for dual subtitle in Hanzi & English
@zhen51874 жыл бұрын
The talking part is soooooo truuue!!! This drove me crazy when I start dating western guys, making a long and precise description of why how and what speech regarding what makes me feel this way when super angry and upset is generally not required in Chinese relationships. Generally, Chinese guys are less sensitive about feelings and sometimes not comfortable to experience or hear about it, they are more willing to make females feeling less upset by shifting their attention to sth pleasant than understanding why she is upset (the long tiring talk). Personally, I think it is because the Asian culture requires males to endure than express and it may consider weak or feminine if they do so.
@NiallMofo6 жыл бұрын
I think I need a Chinese boyfriend
@nicoleraheem11954 жыл бұрын
If his mother doesn't like you, it's a dub
@user-xw1hv1zt9q4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@Shawn_O4 жыл бұрын
geekygermangirl I’m here for ya ma’am! I’m a Chinese boy speaking fluent English. If you’re interested contact me Fb/twitter: OU Yusiao
@bubu_numnums6 жыл бұрын
Haha it is so true. My boyfriend literally said “Why are you telling me this? Does it hurt?” 😂 And he loves woman has her own career. I saw my boyfriend in this video 😂
Haha I was suprised by this. Apparently my bf is all western except for paying for things and if I'm uncomfortable or sick. He acts like I'm dying lol
@maxverner23414 жыл бұрын
Overbearing is like a common trait in Asia. Overbearing parents who think you're dying when you catch a cold. Overbearing grandparents that scold your parents when they try to discipline you. Overbearing siblings who question you about every decision you make just in case you should stumble. And so when you get into a relationship you become overbearing on your SO. 🤣
The skit is oversimplifying this scenario. Most of your statements are also simplifying things. Spending money does not equate success. Monetary support is not always better than emotional support. And failure is not always a regret. And you would only try if you have any kind of support. Risk exists in every decision. Support also comes in different forms. Someone willing to listen to a girl's dreams and provide suggestions from financial and emotional aspects is more constructive than anything in this skit. And you can only succeed if you have tried in the first place. Failure does not result in just monetary losses; there's time, resources, lost opportunities. But you always learn something from failures and that's what leading to success. You are focusing on the wrong point; it's not about the support being financial or emotional. I think the main point is that breadwinner in the family is not just the guy now in a modern world. Having the guy be the breadwinner is just a traditional way of life. The "lao wai" is supporting the former view; and the "Chinese guy" is supporting the latter view. If girls go for the latter view, they better hope that they chose the right guy; there's nothing worse than depending on the wrong man and you end up have having zero financial independence. I personally support the female having her own financial independence because that gives her control. She can leave him and be okay. But if you have nothing, even if you leave the guy, your life will be very difficult and you may end up sticking with the wrong man.
"I already bought it." HAHAHA, I nearly choked at that one! But yeah, there's a lot truth to it, these are very widely shared mindsets on things. Great to see them in 1 on 1 comparison! Really love the video and hope for more on this topic!
So does the fact that I would never let my gf pay for anything, shower her with care during her period and give her space when she’s mad make me Eastern or can there just be a more universal conception of an ideal boyfriend? 😒
@Kateyangyuqing4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is Lao Australian and his mindset is influenced both by Asian and Australian mindsets. he’s definitely the kind that won’t let me pay for anything, looks after me so well whenever I feel sick!! He also understands me completely. He is also a very kind, honest, and loyal man. I hit the jackpot!! ❤️ I definitely feel like the luckiest woman on earth! I will cherish him forever ❤️
lmao this is funny.. you should do a meet up in shanghai when i go there this summer haha
@Joseph33913997 жыл бұрын
THIS IS SO TRUE OMGOSH 前男友是外國人也是這樣 其實還是各取優點比較好
@ivhuang43666 жыл бұрын
It's just every culture have its own habits. We just have to care and understand our partners no matter where he's come from or what culture does he has 😊 Anyway, I'm Indonesian born Chinese😅
@sophialoves77655 жыл бұрын
I died when Whitney started playing...I died again at that weak marriage proposal 😂😂😂😂
Accurate😂 my Chinese fiancé is also acting like that to me all the time, and too caring also when im having my period😂😂 cute cute good thing his parents like me even if im not chinese🤗
@whoami18245 жыл бұрын
That's right we don't borrow money my parents to move up we just live in their basements until we're Thirty LOL
@mengshudu67707 жыл бұрын
我男票CBC 我一生气就不停问what's wrong? 😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mikealaor89417 жыл бұрын
mengshu du 哈哈哈哈哈,一样啊,基本每天都问whats wrong
@user-dc1bq9oe9d6 жыл бұрын
cbc是哪里的人?一脸懵逼
@mikealaor89416 жыл бұрын
Canada
@user-dc1bq9oe9d6 жыл бұрын
YanLin Wu OK,thanks
@user-xo3zb4zy2p6 жыл бұрын
不是挺可爱的吗😂
@XY-jo4pu4 жыл бұрын
Seems like I'm one of the few people here who by far prefer the western bf... like duh, if there's a problem, talk about it, I want somebody who supports me, not somebody who holds me back, I want somebody who's honest and forthright and who doesn't sacrifice their life for anybody (also not for me), I want an equal relationship, I don't wanna depend on a guy (or anybody for that matter) and I don't think it's a good idea to spend more money than you have... On the period thing I'd prefer the Chinese guy tho - not necessarily cuz I feel so horrible when I'm on my period, but cuz I'm lazy and hate getting up from a comfortable position XD Maybe I'm weird, but I would definitely, by far, pich the wester bf over the chinese one...
@mhmahamhm4 жыл бұрын
You just contradicted yourself😂
@XY-jo4pu4 жыл бұрын
@@mhmahamhm Huh?
@Mr.Smart.5 жыл бұрын
尊重對方的選擇就是對她最好的愛
@oliviap74964 жыл бұрын
😂 I’m not sure if it’s a chinese thing but my husband definitely takes care of me like that during my time of the month