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[@lovleylady7]

This is my exact story/feelings on life as I’m turning 25. I’m Caribbean, and it’s the same thing. I also don’t talk to my dad, and most of my family. Growing up and basically raising myself has made me a strong ass woman. I’ve put myself through college, left home at 17 because of the abuse, and toughened up. I had to learn how to survive, and it’s only God. This talk was too real because I can relate 100%. Anyone reading this and dealing with the same thing, just know you’re a stronger than you think. God got your back, and ALWAYS do what’s best for you. You will fall on your ass sometimes, but know it will all work out. Thank you Susie!

[@ohemmabri3551]

There was so much truth spoken in this video. Great video ! I definitely agree with the stress that comes with living in African households.

[@Taharababe]

I love that you talked about these things. It's very encouraging. Thank you sugar ❤️ God Bless you 🙏🏽

[@taneishaevans25]

After watching this video.... I'm speechless 😭 thank you so much 💪👍

[@mariamk1653]

This is so relatable! I grew up in a African house hold (Sierra Leonian)and you told no lies. I hate to say it but the African community can be the most toxic people. I have a few “aunts”and “uncles” that talk so reckless and it’s crazy they get a pass because they’re elderly. I’ve been keeping my distance from a lot of family gatherings just to avoid the negativity. It seems like everyone has an opinion on your life but no one wants to actually help smh.

[@mariamk1653]

I can really relate to letting people take advantage of me. It’s something I really want to change. I had something really traumatic happen to me a few months ago and now I’ve just been really closed. I really appreciate your wisdom. Keep shining 💕💕💕

[@toofavvv]

@@mariamk1653 .. Whatever you went through sis; sincerely!! What don't break you will build you and shape you..

[@mariamk1653]

I know! Thank you!

[@gotamekanicole]

Jamaicans too!

[@QueenChioma]

Bitch I'm not even an emotional person, but you're hitting a nerve with this one. SO relatable sis! Love you 😍

[@Prettisusu]

Love you more sis!!!!!

[@happilycauleyvlog6722]

SusieLae I love you! You’re talking real stuff

[@London.marieee]

Honestly, I relate to this so much. People look at me like how could I be so harsh to my family and cut them off but those be the ones that hurt you the most. I’m glad I got to this mindset at 19. I did kind of hurt me at once but god blessed me with amazing supportive friends.

[@SaintlyIconicSoul]

Most African families in general have a way of making people feel like they are not enough. I am 28 now and it wasn’t until I was 23 that I realized they will never be pleased and you have to live your life for you and no one else.

[@estheradao]

Saintly Iconic Soul yeah I’m 18 but I feel like I’ve raised myself completely

[@rawreflectionswithsteph]

I know the feeling. I had to learn to keep a toxic person at difference. Even if it means my mom. Some people just assume they can say or talk to you disrespectfully. Like you aren’t a child anymore.

[@SimoneChanel]

It's so crazy that you're talking about this because, yes, SAMEEEEEEE! ughhhh "Fck em! Do you boo. Period."

[@adeikotey9860]

Guurrl as a Ghanaian born in America I can totally relate! I have the same problem rn because I care too much. I have learned to not let things bother me and now I have "changed". I am too young to make big move but sis trust once I have enough I am out of this negative bubble I live in.

[@princessnjoku1803]

Love your energy. You live for you and your happiness and I never see a lot of Nigerian adults doing that. It’s like we live and die for our parents satisfaction. Granted we should want the people that sacrificed a lot for us to be pleased with us but at the end of the day when they pass, we will still have to move on, live, and be happy. So make choices YOU can live with. Great vid!

[@antoniawilliams2627]

Girl this is so true. U gotta just be ur best self. At the end of the day people are always gonna judge u and that’s just life. Self love is the best love nobody can love you like you can. If that makes sense

[@kaylesarussell6516]

I watched this video for 1 minute and said if she doesn't say a major downfall of parents is them COMPARING their child to other people she's not 100! there you go 11:05 you hit the parental nail on the head!

[@fante_oh3ma]

It’s sad you can’t even be yourself around your own family! You have to be a certain way so they don’t judge you or make you feel less than.

[@SimoneChanel]

I feel like it's more than being African baby. I think that issue is prominent in the black community in itself.

[@aarianaxx]

She said that. And not to start beef but she's talking from her perspective where she IS African, Nigerian to be specific. I'm AA and saying "black community itself" and that condescending "baby" sounds like you're trying disregard all of that.

[@SimoneChanel]

aariana dixon you sound like you need a hug.

[@bkchic413]

It’s a cultural thing in the black community overall. Prominent is an understatement man ... that behavior is embedded in the DNA of African Americans.... wheww Chile, generational curses/cycles at its finest

[@aarianaxx]

Simone Chanel Oh no, baby. Thanks anyway though.

[@estheradao]

True

[@TutuAdams]

Being Nigerian is amazing but we have so many issues we need to work through in our community especially with the older generation, I got to this point from the age of 15 - I have been the 'black sheep' of the family because I refuse to put my internal happiness at stake just to conform. It gets lonely but I am happy and I am enough for myself!

[@JudyNeedsJamba]

Tutu Adams Yoruba speak the truth.

[@zionsouff4600]

(My essay) I am Haitian and as many know there is a lot of poverty there. Haitian parents from the countryside work very hard to send their kids to school; you know those countries you pay out of pocket for everything. So they grew this mentality that you need to be the best. You need to be a doctor. You need to be a lawyer. And because the villages are so small and close everyone knows your business. So parents become ashamed of certain things there children do or do not do. They want to be seen in a good light. And it hurts when parent put so much on their children and compare them. Since I could remember my mother was always talking about other people's kids and why couldnt I do this, or that. And from a young age I let them know how much that hurt. I never felt the love I was looking for from my parents. Mostly my father and it made me turn to men for love. The environment I grew up in made me love the wrong people. I too was hurt and taken advantage of. There are a lot of hurt, ignorant, broken people in this world who become bullies. And we have to teach our kids they ARE good enough. No matter what people say and you dont have to have this or that to be valued. We need to speak to our kids about reality a lot more and show them the love they need. Because not everyone loves the same. Im glad I found you. You little baddie. I found you from your BBL story and I've been watching a couple videos today. Good job beauty. Im getting BBL one day, Im literally built like an upside down triangle. Big boobs. No ass/hips. Been that way since birth. No amount of gym will help, been there, done that. Have a good day gorgeous.

[@jes3234]

Read this and broke in tears i feel like God wanted to show me this video and this comment (I’m haitian too) my mom literally broke me down this week i feel So depressed. As a mother myself i now Know how to be better than the family i come from.

[@jamaicanbeauty3362]

Girrrrl, you're dropping a ton of jewels in this GRWM...stay strong, stay passionate and stay blessed mama.

[@creativebabe7184]

Watching this again for the 20th time after a bad week with my toxic family :( Trying to focus on myself

[@blessingwembi8530]

I know this video old & you might not see this but I literally love this story ❤️ I totally can relate & understand your story . Since the age of 12 and coming from a Congolese/African household I had to always had “please everybody” and it would get annoying . Me and my mom had are own issues because she had always been judgmental about my looks, life and things I do. Everything I do my mom has something NEGATIVE to say. Family members would continuously say “she’s your mom listen to her” but mothers don’t downgrade there kids . She would also compare me with other friends/ cousins . I got into it with other family members because I didn’t tolerate there disrespect it and they would call me disrespectful because I didn’t tolerate the rude things they said about me. They like to act like they know me and act like they think they everything about me by saying I’m not doing enough like whole time I am. uncles and aunts physically touched me and my mom will still find a way to blame it on me. I have to apologize because I’m the “child” when they were in the wrong also. Everybody hates me and now I’m like idrc to please anyone I could care less . Honestly when I get 18 I’m going be very very distant when it comes to my family. They always big to say “we’re family” but it doesn’t feel like family it feels like toxic & judgmental crowd of people. I’m literally so inspired by you and been following for 3 or 4 years now . This story made me be inspired more by you and your life .

[@KIARA-ku4yr]

I love this! This is motivational. I’m 20 and been trying to please everyone for a long time now. Its exhausting. But I’m working on it .Thanks for this real video. 👌🎀❤️and yes please do more like this

[@LoLo-sj7tr]

I just love you for this video!!! I related with everything you said 100000%, as a young nigerian female I relate to everything you said about putting myself first and dealing with toxic family. It is SOOO hard. But hearing a bit of your story and your mindset, I know I am not in this alone!! I just want to say I support you and have supported your channel from day 1! You keep it 100% and you stay true to yourself, a dope woman with so much to offer. You inspire me to keep doing me and say fck the haters. Even when the haters are your own damn family. THANK YOU FOR MAKING THIS VIDEO BOO!!!

[@Prettisusu]

Lo Lo you’re never alone boo! I share my story to help out in whatever way I can cause I know growing up I didn’t have anybody to relate to and grateful that I can be a outlet❤️

[@sincerelylatasha]

This is soooo true. I’ve experienced this, and find it to be a common experience for a lot of young people as they become adults, especially in black communities. I really appreciate you for speaking on this topic as it helps me not feel alone in this experience. You have such a beautiful light!

[@judibortier7352]

Omggggg speaaak they always compare each other and it's sad.

[@tchristinaj1114]

Yes! Yes! YES!! “I AM ENOUGH” scream it from the rooftops boo cause you winning. You straight fire and the realest. I relate to this so hard cause boy!! Growing up African is no joke!

[@lovelyonyeka]

THEY DON''T HEAR YOU THOUGH SIS! Keep talking your shit I'm here it

[@Prettisusu]

Lovely Onyeka thank you mama!!!!

[@ashleyongweso]

Randomly watching your old videos, and I needed to hear this chit chat! Growing up in an African household (even African American) can be so toxic. I’m a makeup artist and inspiring hairstylist and my father puts me down about what I want to do 24/7. It reached a point where I said fuck it and gave up because I started to believe everything he said. My family use to always tell me I need to go to school and do this and that to make my parents happy, but doing those things weren’t going to make me happy. Just recently I started believing in myself and focusing on what I want for ME. You’re one of my favorite beauty influencers because I feel like I can relate to you in so many ways! Keep growing and flourishing bbygirl💕

[@BybaTee]

yes! more emotionally intelligent videos please! this was a nice one, you spoke some hard truths and I appreciate you for it.

[@k0k01]

GENERATIONAL CURSES parents usually treat you the way they were treated. Even when they know it hurts, they just don’t know anything else.

[@adoremeleyla]

People fail to realize people been getting their bodies done for years, its just popular now and people can afford it and its more affordable!! Fuck that.. they mad cause they can't afford it and want others to be miserable just like they are smh. Its your money.

[@55honiepie55]

I can assure you this does not apply to Africans alone.... I was raised in the Caribbean by Caribbean parents and giirrrrlll!! I could listen to this every day just for the encouragement because I'm a lot older than you are and I needed to hear every word of this! You are an inspiration.

[@lenathelegend3636]

I really really appreciate this video. I'm currently going through with my parents and as the oldest I guess my mom can't let go but she's doing it in a complete negative way. I'm 20 and currently in a serious relationship and BC of that my mom hounds me and through church in to justify and try to make it seem that I'm living life horrible. And I relate to the love part, didn't really feel loved (other than my sibling) until my fiance so again I thank you for making this video. The story between my mom and I goes deeper than that so it's just kind of bad right now

[@rubyempressruby2953]

Yes... thats how I feel im Haitain 27 ladies still living with my parents they never get along etc. And ruling my life On top of that they want to know every detail in my life dont get me started with my school....work...love life....and if I want to step out and have a lil fun omgg so much stories how I take ishh from them plus more im at the point where I have finish school I graduate next month I to pass my state braods and save up and leave my love life was exactly like that i always bend over backwards for ppl men i really need to worry abt my self just when you are raised up to respect your perents in that typa way you start to act like that smh ready to move out im in the middle of finding apartments cuz i realized im wayyyy too old to being traeted like that smh I CAN RELATE!!!! Thank you for making this video "saving this under my fav put it on" REPLAY! For Motivation!

[@toofavvv]

Ugh yes sis!! It's not what they say but how they state it. It's an argumentative tone and mannerism. It's like if they would speak in a more assuring voice.. I would probably 90 percent receive what they're saying.. but do you think that our Haitian culture parents; our trying to instill a standard or lifestyle that they did not live out for themselves!!?!

[@nokukhanyashezi9666]

Hi Susu I recently discovered your channel and I have not been able to put my phone down. I love your milinial talks your chit chats, I've grown mentally just hearing what you have to say like damn.... I just want to say I love you thankx for bieng authentic. P.S. Nokukhanya from South Africa

[@PrettiBrownEyesMisha]

💯facts spoken right here

[@CarasPlace]

You’re so blunt, transparent, and raw! ✨💛 I love your content. Keep going!

[@BANKSEMPIRES]

God is the perfect God that love imperfection. You couldn’t have said that any better

[@connielawson8519]

Hey girl!!! I love your chit chats and your videos in general!!!! You are speaking some real facts!!! I have been through a lot of what you're talking about,and I know what you're talking about I got to a point where I don't care what people think or say about me!!!! Keep em coming!!! Love you!

[@Prettisusu]

Connie Lawson love you more mama!

[@phindym233]

This video is really changing my life right now! Period!! Preach sister 🗣🗣!

[@happilycauleyvlog6722]

Your nose is so nice

[@chinadolltay8134]

omg its so good to know that I'm not the only person that has and is going through ! and tbh I had to just tell myself that I am who I am and f what other people say. not being able to feel like I'm good enough for my parents, and sometimes I feel like I'm alone also. I had to realize that you hav to do for yourself because nobody got you like you got youself. and I turned to god all the time. thank you for sharing this because I relate to everything you said 100% because I'm so glad that I didn't loose it and become depressed.

[@okeziehelen1337]

Growing up in a Nigerian home can be hard...this talk is soul food Thank you

[@zimzia359]

Bruhhh I needed this video

[@TEMILONDON]

Makeup tho😍😍😍

[@123megamix5]

Girl I was doing some studying while watching lol. I agree with your point on people needing to stop people pleasing! Its really sickening to see people doing that! I suggest you continue your relationship w/God so that He can make you stronger and guide you on things your parents never guided you on. I like how real you are! Nice video Susie 💜✨

[@glory.b661]

Thank you for this video, I can relate to EVERYTHING you said, I'm from Ghana.... seriously I needed to hear this! Im so happy I found your channel, love everything you stand for.

[@ginab464]

Lol I wanna be look like Queen susie when I get older. Sheesh😍

[@ijeomaa618]

This hit home because I’m Nigerian and I related to every single thing

[@queen_ntumba3761]

amen sis you said it all❤

[@adoremeleyla]

People fail to realize people been getting their bodies done for years, its just popular now and people can afford it and its more affordable!! Fuck that.. they mad cause they can't afford it and want others to be miserable just like they are smh. Its your money.

[@amaalbotan1774]

FACTS FACTS FACTS FACTSSSS💯💯 this is soooooo relateable. Like when I say every word is relateable I mean it!!!! I am so mf proud of my self too. I have tried and tried and now idgaf. I just had to cut off my family. God got me. Always.

[@fatimarahim9495]

I honestly just subscribed to your channel cause I loved your vibe after binging some of your vlogs. And omg. This video brought me to tears. I’m Sierra Leonean and I felt this so much. African parents feel as if comparison and talking shit will force you to do what they want not knowing they’re killing your self-esteem and pushing you away twwww smh. Love your content and personality

[@justadryen]

😩😩😩😩😩 I don't comment on many people's videos at all but omg I just love that you just embrace who you are and are unapologetic about it! My heart is so warm. Please don't ever stop being who you are and don't ever silence your voice. I am inspired and I know so many other people are inspired by you just loving yourself! I wish you the greatest success and a huge platform to break chains off of people so they can walk in true happiness and love of self. I know you will attain that success girl.

[@justadryen]

I also hope and pray that your situation with your family changes at some point

[@domonicoletv4177]

You are now my favorite youtuber. We relate on everything. I wish I would've been found you!

[@iamohannab1532]

I needed this sis I love you ! Thank you

[@chinab444]

I Fuck with this so hard babe , felt this shit 😌

[@chiagozieukadike425]

I saw your husband today at a traditional wedding taking pictures

[@arleyahnicole1109]

I love this message! You really provided the fire here for me. ❤️

[@flossy5012]

You’re fucking awesome 👏

[@summerwalker3356]

I love you so fucking muchhhhhhhhhh❤️❤️❤️🖤

[@BANKSEMPIRES]

Yo this video got me crying

[@faizaadib8738]

Looking georgous 😍

[@kdpink]

Where is the hair from

[@maliyah6712]

It’s in the bio

[@jasminemobetta7404]

This makeup look thoooooo 😍

[@sandykesewaa6473]

Preach On sis this is called Selflove❤️

[@chiagozieukadike425]

That was my first time seeing a "youtuber" in real life

[@rorosarfo4501]

Where are u from

[@Prettisusu]

Nigeria

[@rorosarfo4501]

Thanks

[@happilycauleyvlog6722]

SusieLae How are you doing?

[@Nozipho.Mhlanga]

I am really relating to this chat!

[@missp7631]

You are literally speaking how my life experiences have been. Like you speaking the realist shit!!! Felt on so many levels. I pray for more blessings cause I needed this boss talk. 💖💖💖

[@ahlamjuhar6331]

this video was INCREDIBLY helpful i don’t want to get into detail on how similar our situations are but just know i appreciate you for this & you inspire me ❤️

[@kdifai]

I know this video is a year old but I love watching your chit chats and millennial talks because they bring such a valuable lesson to others and shows your vulnerability and growth as a person. This video specifically has shown me that I need to put myself first and trust in God because nobody can interfere with our relationship. At the end of day, I decide what affects my mind and well being, therefore that change will start with me. Thank you for being such an inspiration to me and teaching me that I cannot be perfect and my imperfections are perfections to God as he continues to watch over me everyday. You truly have a wonderful spirit and strong head on your shoulders. May many blessings continue to come your way on your journey to a successful future! ❤️

[@iamhanna.K]

Lmfao you’re fukin me !!!! I love you girl New subbie ❤️ keep doing your thang ma

[@vionite1]

Why are you detailing and narrating my life so perfectly To the T! Susu! I’m crying right now!!! 😭 this is deep I feel it!

[@Emelbelle2]

the realest

[@britanyalee5042]

I love your grwms!!! Liked before watching ❤️❤️

[@cynsbeauty1619]

You don’t know how bad I needed this❤️❤️ being Nigerian and growing up in the environment I know exactly what your talking about. Btw where did you get your nose ring ?

[@violetneptune61]

8:58 "I don't want to go to the gym shawty, whatchu mean?!' LMAO I had to subscribe bc MOOD

[@deejahlovee8048]

This was very helpful i could relate to majority of what your saying and keep it up cuz i can already tell by your determination and attitude you gon really be something big

[@JayKahlid]

Girl you made me cry, i feel every word you spoke. Amen. I'll forever be a supporter after this. Love YOU!!

[@yoreagba]

Thank you for this video, I so relate to trying to please everybody as a fellow Nigerian.

[@TheDeeex92]

Girl! You were talking straight facts! Keep doing your thing sis!💕

[@alexisanyway5445]

Thank you for speaking on this! I’d love more videos like this. 💕 speak that truth sis!

[@chandrapreston3847]

##'IM CRYING NOW## SAY IT ## LISTING ## NEW SUBBIE💕💕💕CAN YOU GO LIVE?😊😊

[@Sasichansz]

This is by far my fav look Susie, you're so pretty and I really can relate to the topic but thanks to God, he help me a lot .

[@briareese960]

Beautiful spirit and you have a great head on your shoulders please don’t ever change . I really look up to you .

[@chibuzorokpala6717]

You are too real for this world!!! I pray you live long..... 😇

[@oceansapart2249]

Sweetheart I want to go back to my childhood and grow up like you.

[@jordanwilliams9984]

This video really helped me today. I appreciate you so much.

[@portiadenae5570]

This was encouraging. I'm dealing with similar issues. Keep doing what you're doing girl.

[@virginiao139]

So many points you made really touched me, but from 20:13 to 21:16 was a real eye opener ❤️

[@virginiao139]

Jesus Christ! This is a very powerful message! 🥺❤️

[@Stephaniethealchemist]

You are a blessing to me❤️... thank you for this ❤️

[@chasitydocteur6710]

Thank you so much for this! I really needed to hear this.

[@sophieibrahim4941]

Subscribed ! New fav youtuber no cap

[@DymondEmpress1]

Hello. Whats your go to foundation and color @susielae

[@kristleskeete6023]

Love this videos cause im going thought that right now just love it

[@sierrawhitfield4314]

Good, empowerment girl talk sis, well needed.

[@plushbarbie2389]

Your videos are 🙌🏾. Love them👍🏾

[@simijadee5079]

This is literally me right now. I needed this video wow

[@FoxiGoddess]

A great way to start to start my morning. ❤ this video.