adulting Q&A | buying a house, getting engaged, quitting my job?💍【中文】

[@dr.johnyoo]

holy smokes this vid is loaded with info. covered so many topics in 18 min. petition for a longer podcast going deep dive into the adulting topics. i think you would have a deeply invested audience for financial advice, job satisfaction / passions, and relationships

[@chloeshih]

omg i never responded to this!! thank you john! haha i used to have a podcast on career life! it was actually pretty poppin but got way too much work to edit and maintain. i really wanna go back! i love long form discussions. we always can get into the nitty gritty. i'll get there soon!

[@fraffee]

I LOVE YOUR HONESTY. Chloe, you are such an inspiration for this healthy work mindset :)

[@chloeshih]

Aww thank you!! I try to share full context to the best of my ability but it’s always so hard to stuff into these short videos! Ty for watching and commenting!! ❤❤

[@abolijoshi5668]

Omg fellow ENFJ/INFJ here! I'm a real ambivert and my results are different every time. Your content is always so refreshing and reassuring - thanks for keeping it real! On non-traditional weddings - fight that fight, it's so worth it. Mine was incredibly simple but full of love - I'm glad I didn't cave to family expectations.

[@chloeshih]

hello hello!! haha yeah i think i flip flop a lot between E and I. we'll def fight that fight when the time comes!!

[@tapiocapress]

Thanks for making this Chloe! I just quit my tech job to pursue content full time. But, I live in China, and feel so far removed from the YT/IG/TT creator scene that I sometimes feel like I’m getting into something without knowing what I’m getting into😂 thanks for sharing your insight, and all the best with all the exciting things going on in your life!

[@courtneyclark-garcia929]

My husband and I (in our 30s) married for 3 years buying this year and we are veryyy similar. esp for kids. I so understand your friends wanting surrogates. I am the higher earner and don't want to put my career on hold. Also we got married during covid so great excuse to not fund a huge wedding which was 100000% worth it!

[@chloeshih]

ooo!! yeah i really dont want to put my career on hold either. it's just gonna be super tough on my body going through it. the more i see my friends host weddings, the less i want one haha. it's such a big undertaking!! glad y'all figured out a good format you enjoyed!

[@BastianSarah]

Thank you for planning to do more product management videos 🎉❤ so excited

[@Lulelly]

I work in tech too as a ✨✨software Product Owner✨✨, thank you for being honest about the "dream job" idea. After working at several tech companies, a dream job is one you create yourself or at a company that you built. I love how you acknowledge and honour your other interests outside of tech and have clear boundaries and distinction about what you can do as a job and is it a forever thing or not.

[@tsholo26]

The work trauma section was a big AHA moment for me, I've been trying to articulate my current thoughts and feelings around corporate leveling and that crazy need to be validated. I need more healthy-boundaries tutorials lol. I will get that book. Thank you!

[@sheriberrix]

Your conversations are so refreshing and I absolutely love and agree with your mindset about work and your personal identity. You not chasing after a promotion is really inspiring. I totally agree that there is more to life than work! Looking forward to engagement/wedding content very soon when it happens, hehe. Love your videos Chloe!

[@dqnh00]

Wow Chloe! What you shared about work boundaries so you have time for things outside of work is respectable and a great life reminder!

[@chloeshih]

haha it's always a balance. some weeks i'm really good and some weeks i'm horrrrrible and i burn out and i spend the weekend just vegetating x_x but yes i do aspire to regularly prioritize these boundaries!

[@sheisgrowinggracefully]

Yay, fellow ENFJ here! I really feel you on wanting to do interior design! That’s been my dream for so many years!

[@chloeshih]

waittt is it an ENFJ thing to want to do interior design? :o!!!

[@chikahoshi]

@@chloeshihI left a comment here earlier, but I don’t see it… :( So just to paraphrase it again, you should look into cognitive functions. It’s a little tricky at first, but if you take the time and look into it, hopefully you’ll see your patterns show up. Because it’s not about if one MBTI type is into interior designs or not…it’s a little more complicated than that, so I recommend for newbies to check out this KZbinr named Eric Wen who breaks down cognitive functions in a digestible way. And once you have the building blocks together, you have a better understanding what type you might be. A lot of people tend to get their types wrong because there’s a lot of misconceptions, so hopefully this helps.

[@chloeshih]

@@chikahoshi hm i dont see your earlier comment too :/ did it have a link in it? sometimes youtube will hide comments with links for safety i'll check out eric wen!! thank you for the rec!

[@arihe4956]

would you consider taking on interior design clients in the la area?

[@lousilvia9361]

Hi Chloe, INFJ here ☺️ Thank you for sharing about how your relationship operates. I don’t have a lot of healthy modeling around me growing up so this really helped. Also the visual quality of your videos is amazing. Just subscribed ❤ 加油

[@qratedfilms]

Pregnancy is not the big disruptor for careers, it's usually because babies need attention AFTER they're born. Most people work well into their pregnancies if not all the way until they give birth.

[@hellheaven08]

I always love the disclaimer and transparency with your videos i've followed you for a while now, but havent really really dug in your videos until recently because I've just been going through some career struggles. Was in Kinesiology then changed and graduated to become a UI/UX designer a few months ago, some life stuff happened and plans of grinding out my portfolio and find a career in the field have been difficult in Canada. Im finally getting myself together and working on my portfolio but motivation has been hard and watching your videos reminds me I need to stay focused, passionate, and excited. Im a creative and theres so many things I wanna do but I get overwhelmed sometimes and not know where to start. I'm hoping to fix this gradually so I can do all the things I truly want to do, (while also making money) to live comfortably but keep growing. Thank you for these videos! Wish I followed a lot sooner, thank you for being so real in your videos/content (:

[@dspinheiro95]

Great video Chloe, happy to know that you are also ENFJ xD

[@chloeshih]

wooo!! fellow ENFJs!! all I know is that i'm not adventurous xD

[@Minim1719]

Waiting for your in detail video about your relationship with Kevin 😊

[@chloeshih]

haha might take a while for kevin to get more comfortable on camera! he was so shy in this video and ended up being super stiff haha, but he's agreed to it!!

[@mirayece2256]

Great video, love it! Can you maybe not eat something while recording a video certain sounds can be traumatic for some neurodivergent people.

[@aquaearthnfirequ_pinsnsavi1721]

I absolutely agree!! Like Lewis Howe and his girlfriend did! I think its very adult of you two!

[@getting_life_together]

Your videos really motivated to work more and enjoy the process 😀 , thank you so much ❣️ maybe someday I can meet you 💕

[@chloeshih]

yes! i think work really shouldn't be the end all be all. we gotta work to live! hope you're doing well this week!! thank you for watching and commenting on day one of the upload :)

[@irenehanji3233]

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[@Akirameowxp]

What would you have done with your equity? I still need 2-3 years for mine to fully vest.

[@waiify7]

LOL 😂 OMGGG chloes his first gf 😮

[@chloeshih]

Lool!! Exactly!!! Big reveal 🤣

[@HanBang]

Love how transparent you are about building a good foundation with your partner, and the tools required to do so a.k.a. therapy and transparent conversations. Super helpful to hear how others ensure a strong partnership. Also love your new slice of life series! Gonna send some questions over on IG/TT!

[@cjngeh]

looking forward to more watermelon videos before it goes out of season! :D

[@chloeshih]

i've been desperately trying to figure out what the next fruits should be haha

[@AnnaLin]

Chloe ever since I found your channel I’ve been obsessed I hope I get to meet you someday since we are both friends with DJ. Also, how do you do your eyebrows I like how natural looks it looks 😊

[@chloeshih]

Awww I’m sure we will if we have a mutual like DJ! And for brows, I actually don’t think they look that natural haha. But I guess I should share my makeup routine sometime! I just use a brown brush and fill it in!

[@orangejmoothies]

7:48 OVER 7%!!! HOLY MOLY THINGS HAVE CHANGED...

[@machoman3055]

The sharing life online was such a good answer and is something that we could do offline. I feel this especially being at an age where I start going to high school/college reunions and people talk about their life. 😅

[@chloeshih]

that is v true. there's really no point in comparison games and creating jealousy in this world. nobody wins playing like that!

[@machoman3055]

@@chloeshih yeah and once you have kids it’s about comparing your kids to other kids… it is truly a never ending cycle and that should never establish how you feel about your life because of others. If you are content with your life then that’s fine. (Social media playing a large role in this generation).

[@melissabarrett3088]

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[@CreationTVstation]

i love that you follow your gut & are very clear about what you feel in your heart! ❤ yes your intuition is tops! keep goin for your dreams ☁ even when they evolve into something else 😁

[@LifeOfACre8tive]

Really awesome video! And I think I have to mention that Kelvin talks so well...😊

[@hsunflower6401]

I absolutely love your content ❤❤keep going, from an aspiring 21 y.o PM wanna-be

[@chloeshih]

rootin for ya!!!

[@ruthlin107]

Love your Q and A videos! Can you please also do a home tour with all the furniture and decor pieces you've picked in the future? It always looks so aesthetic and homey!

[@chloeshih]

Yes I’d love that! That one’s gonna take a while tho since I’ve yet to pick out any new furniture 😅 but I wanna share the little pieces I pick up as I settle in!!

[@superman11235813]

@@chloeshih As a person in cybersecurity, I would highly reccomend NOT touring your home on your channel, or being VERY careful about how you do it. Many creators have been doxxed on youtube, it just takes one person with time and a motive to find out where you live and start to mess with you. Little things like shots out windows, or pictures on your walls can be a way to locate your home. Be safe!

[@ruthlin107]

Right that makes sense. I've seen people do it for the place that they are about to leave, so that could be an option too 😅.

[@chloeshih]

hi there@@superman11235813 !! tysm for this recommendation! really appreciate you watching out for me. i definitely want to share more about home design, but im unsure how to do it safely. lmk if you know of any resources i should check out to get educated on this and stay protected!

[@chloeshih]

@@ruthlin107haha yes i'm planning to do my current apartment before i leave!

[@julia_in_tech]

I need a video about how to build this network!

[@pm-ua]

14:25 waiting for this a lot. Should be a banger🙀 Btw one more beast video, a lot of valuable information. Ty Chloe

[@chloeshih]

woo! lmk what career topics you're most interested in. i feel like i've done the big ones already, so unsure which topics would be most helpful. lmk!! also glad you like the video i posted this week! :D

[@alices2395]

Hello from a product manager in Taipei, hope you would visit TW more in the future❤ You videos cheers me up when I feel upset at work, coz you share how you came over all those difficulties.

[@chloeshih]

i might be visiting taiwan later this year!! i've been really wanting to do a speaking event in taipei somehow!

[@suzonmztd]

What masters program was it? :)

[@ug24axm]

Looking forward to the career videos. Your videos have really helped me, it gave me the confidence to start negotiating my salary.

[@chloeshih]

aww that's so great to hear! lmk what career topics you're most interested in!

[@c.uriouspalette]

ahhh this video is so cute and insightful!! Looking forward to the next good news you’ll share THIS YEAR 🎉😜

[@chloeshih]

Haha I wonder what that’ll be!!

[@fatezero1919]

Do you think the role as a PM is still a safe and attractiv job for the future considering all this AI stuff?

[@chloeshih]

I think it depends on the industry and geo you’re in, but it’s still pretty safe in my experience in Silicon Valley

[@richardbarba2736]

Ngl this girl kinda sorta cute

[@ShenyL]

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[@geasderlinasdwsxcdeasd]

Hi, i also wanna to be a product manager. And i just coming home and saw your update. Thank you for your video, which inspired me a bit.

[@chloeshih]

Aw so glad to hear it!! Glad this gave u some inspo. Thanks for watching and commenting on day 1!! Hope your week is going well!

[@geasderlinasdwsxcdeasd]

@@chloeshih omg, I got a response from my favorite KZbinr😆🥹feels so unreal

[@jiaqinleong4787]

i loveeee this video!!!! thank u so much for sharing

[@chloeshih]

awww thank you jiaqin!! glad you enjoyed this!!

[@chinnyb4942]

Is your current place a loft? It's so cute!

[@chloeshih]

yep! it's a loft!

[@justinwlin]

AH! It's out! Time to watch 🍿

[@chloeshih]

Yayyy!! Woo you watched in the first hour!

[@LildAnakin]

Great video

[@chloeshih]

thanks!! glad u enjoyed it! more to come ~

[@shakiracollins9168]

Hi Chloe, I'm Shakira. I just finished looking up your TikTok. I'm trying to get a degree in Bachelor's Business Administration and Marketing Concentration. I want to become a product marketing manager. The school that im applying to offers a Bachelor of Arts in Business Administration and Marketing Concentrations. Is it the same program?