*brutally* honest career Q&A | stop romanticizing tech

[@mengxiaoh9048]

Books that Chloe listed in the video 4:31: - Radical Candor - Becoming - The Culture Code - 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership - Daring Greatly - The Power of Vulnerability - The Happiness Advantage - What you do is who you are - Measure what Matters - Start with Why - Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck - Making of a Manager - Atomic Habits - 4-Hour Work Week - Lean in - The Almanack of Naval Ravikant - Give and Take - Never Split the Difference

[@syth9]

So done with managers/IC’s dumping their unresolved trauma on their employees/coworkers. But of course if you brought that up it would be considered “unprofessional” but of course verbally abusing people isn’t 🤣

[@chloeshih]

honestly i had to keep telling myself that them yelling at me is not a reflection of me but a reflection of them projecting their insecurities and stress onto me. and yes it is so hard to call them out because of the power dynamic and the fact that they control my compensation. it's really hard to give feedback in that sense. i have t r i e d :(

[@syth9]

@@chloeshih Truly it is. Being a great leader requires a lot of emotional intelligence which, like any skill, requires time and consistent effort to build. A lot of managers have not and will not put in that work. Unfortunately (as you've experienced) the employees suffer the most because of this skill deficit. It sounds like you're amazing at your job, but no matter how poor an employee is performing there's never a reason for authorities to use shame to address that. I hold a lot of privilege relative to most in the industry so I've been able to more easily confront management on these issues. I've made some progress with certain managers and IC's. I don't think it's hopeless but it will require a lot more privileged people putting in the work and not tolerating this kind of behavior to get the big changes that are needed.

[@radioactiveood]

My manager dumped shit on me too.. I really need to find a new role 😒

[@xfuie]

"... put extra effort to convince other people of the work I did ... " I feel ya girl 🥲 I also always feel this way esp working in tech. Keep sharing your stories, Chloe. The corporate culture is so toxic and desperately need change!

[@chloeshih]

dude fr. why do we have to fight for credit for our own work. that's so lame!!

[@Connieful]

“Only look down on her if you are trying to pick her up” YES

[@chloeshih]

fo real though. sometimes this industry can be really critical and scrutinizing and it just beats people down. :( no point of power plays, ya kno?

[@thebokchoyboy]

some of these stories are wild, props for opening up and being vulnerable!

[@chloeshih]

thank you bokchoy

[@phoebedyloco9553]

After watching this, I am just in awe of your mental toughness and strength in growing past these experiences ❤️ I empathize so much and wish you the best in your new journey ahead!

[@thisisarika]

You are such a storyteller - I stayed engaged from start to end!

[@chloeshih]

i'm so glad to hear haha! :D

[@StarsOfCassiopeia]

Woman in tech here too: I'd love to get more of your thoughts on reacting in the moment when a coworker says something that's out of line (eg the "Allies" question), and ways to circle back if you have no allies in the room to make sure it doesn't happen again. Like you, I've unfortunately also had some truly awful things said to me in professional environments, and also been too shocked in the moment to respond eloquently. Really loved this video overall: thanks for being so candid.

[@justlovegreenapples]

So grateful that you share this. As an Asian woman who used to work in investment banking, it was brutal. I'm in sustainability now and I still experience discrimination and talking down to from other women. It's such a struggle because as an Asian woman, I come off soft spoken and it can be hard when the corporate culture favours alpha type behaviours.

[@simmyng1798]

Thank you Chloe for sharing these vulnerable stories. I had a recent experience of being asked to leave the team when I shared my own aspirations to transfer from implementation to BD role in a tech company. I felt really hurt as I got ghosted by the team leaders after that. While recovering from this, seeing your sharing let’s me know that I am not alone and it is okay to move on; knowing that someday I will be better elsewhere.

[@michaelbowen4275]

These stories are so painful I'm sorry you've had to go through that. I wish I was as good as you at dealing with people

[@chloeshih]

ahh they are just some of my worst experiences. i hope it makes me a better leader moving forward. i definitely can empathasize a lot more and know how to stand up for myself a little bit more these days.

[@cadencetam697]

These stories were wild, but sadly not surprising :( Thank you for opening up and being the support for young women in the industry that we so desperately need!

[@chloeshih]

i know :( not surprising at all. i really do hope no one else goes through these things too!

[@vegahw]

@@chloeshih unfortunately, it happens to others too. Was just crying before watching this video over similar situations.

[@Memelovespeace]

I appreciate your story Chlo. As someone whose trying transition into tech I look for these stories because so many people show the highlights, but I appreciate the full experience. Love ya ♥️

[@chloeshih]

I know! The highlights are everywhere especially on LinkedIn. :< I hope this is helpful for you as you navigate your own career!

[@ColinLate]

This is so eye-opening, Chloe. I have been in thousands of hours of tech company meetings and have never heard the kind of disrespect you experienced. Horror stories. Thanks for sharing them.

[@aipiika0729]

When I had the courage to speak up then I was judged by the other team just because I was not in the best form for a moment of my life. It’s was really worst experience but also push me to move on. I finally realize that people can even talk whatever they want doesn’t mean it always turn out all right. Thanks Chloe for this video, I can smile and move on now 🥰

[@leonaszeto]

I'm a women in tech, relatively early in my career still (2-3 years including internships) and glad to say that I haven't experienced this kind of discrimination yet. I am so so glad that you have come out on the other side with so much strength and wisdom... but still sad for you that you had to go through that BS!! THE AMOUNT OF TIMES I EYE ROLLED WHEN YOU WERE REPEATING WHAT THESE MANAGERS AND COWORKERS SAID/DID TO YOU. UGH. 😠😠😠 This says so much about these companies, their leadership, their culture.... I'm so glad you're enjoying yourself at discord right now! Thanks for sharing all these stories because they are so interesting and informative.

[@chloeshih]

aww thank you leona! i feel like i'm still recovering from a lot of the trauma from the past x_x i honestly think i could've avoided a lot of those challenges had i known how to draw boundaries and call people out in the moment when they're power tripping. it's not a skill i really learned as an asian woman. i do have this weird relationship with superior figures in my life where i literally say yes every time they ask me to do something and i don't often question their directives. sighhh big lessons learned!

[@letechnicaljames]

Going through toxic people STRENGTHENS us and teaches us resilience. Love the storytelling sesh.

[@HowardLinca]

Holy Chloe..Thanks for sharing your personal story! I can't imagine how it would be for you as an Asian female working in a male-dominant tech world. Even as an Asian male I can sometimes feel not being heard or treated equally.

[@chloeshih]

it's definitely such a struggle. most of the time, i don't have the right words to say in the moment and it really hits when i'm not able to do much about it. hoping these stories helps others as they navigate through their own lives!

[@TheLingChang]

This might be my favourite video of yours!! I can’t believe they gave you a bell to ring during the meetings and your most painful moment was awful. I would have been FUMING. Loved all your answers and strongly identified with a lot of your struggles. Can’t believe some of the stuff you’ve been through but it’s clearly made you one heck of a strong woman! Oh also wow your sponsorship integration is flawless 💫

[@chloeshih]

aww LING!! i'm so glad!! and yesss that bell to ring was still so humiliating. i mean i get the good intentions, but i really felt laughed at instead of being helped. at least it came from a good place. and hahah ty on the sponsor note. i always try to make it smooth!

[@vegahw]

Thanks for sharing these stories. I was just crying today over how hard being a female PM is. Thanks for not making me feel so alone. 💜

[@chloeshih]

dude i feel you on this one. it's sometimes just so hard to articulate why it's hard for me and i kinda just roll with the punches. :< we're getting thru it!!

[@nancydavis5857]

Love this. So relatable. I recently had to call someone out for talking over me or answering questions directly proposed to me. Have an ally on the team can help redirect the conversation but sometimes u need to do it urself!

[@chloeshih]

that is seriously so annoying, nancy! i hate it when that happens :( allies help, but we ultimately gotta draw our boundaries and call people out!

[@Flutterbyby]

Looking back at the time management made me cry (didn’t stop crying for an hour) when I was a young employee, I see now due to being a person of colour I’m not inclined to pushback or question authority. Fear of loss of pay check is real factor in remaining silent. Also did not have the knowledge of what is ok and not ok behaviour from management, and what language I could use to assertively establish my boundaries or defense etc. this was before all the free or low cost online webinars were available for self or leadership development. My tip is to read up and have arsenal of tools you can use.

[@Inlieuofsue]

Thank you for being so brave and sharing. It gives courage to others to know they aren’t crazy and are empowered to make difficult decisions (like leaving a toxic environment). It’s so frustrating and exhausting to have to continuously protect against the onslaught of credit-stealers, mansplainers, and weak leadership. Persevere my friend and one day we’ll be at the top, enforcing a healthier work environment. Until then, we can do small things to support one another along the way (like drawing attention back to people who were interrupted, highlighting the ideas of others especially making sure credit is shared where due, etc).

[@kayteeflick]

Thank you so much for talking about these touuuugh experiences. It helps me realize that even though I'm leaving academia to get away from a toxic environment, they are everywhere, so I really need to prepare to advocate for myself.

[@chloeshih]

kaytee!! they were def tough and i still had more T_T toxic environments really are everywhere. it's so rare to find a nice, safe little bubble of people to work with. but when we do find them, we stay together!!

[@babiixjo]

Those ally examples were really good! Even that awkward 10-second silence because it could have been easy for someone to just giggle and take it as a joke but the person speaking probably knew they messed up when no one responded. Major props to the person who called it out! And the second example was such an ideal way for the person to handle it. Waiting for the person to finish so they weren't rude either but bringing you back in.

[@aquaticJulesVerne]

Thank you for sharing your story Chlo! Tech is vastly over glamorized, and after my time at Meta, I’m glad I’m now client-side. Can’t wait for more raw, honest, story times from your couch.

[@Syllicah]

Oh my goodness. You have been through it but I can tell it’s made you stronger… although that is not the ideal way. I can’t believe the amount of times you’ve been in those types of situations. I know it must get to you often but I find it admirable that you continue push forward. I am happy to see you post another video. I was looking forward to it. Hope you are well!

[@chloeshih]

girllll you and me both. i am so confused how much toxicity can happen in a row. there are other stories i've yet to share as well. but damnnn it is more common than i thought it would be. i'm glad you look forward to the videos!! :D

[@thepinkcodon]

I teared up a little bit at your last message. I’ve been there and I’ve felt lonely so many times. Thanks for sharing.

[@jingOmg]

this is so relatable 😢😢 I had coworkers steal my ideas/work for credit, sabotage me, ask me to be their girlfriend (20+ year age gap???), tell me to wear shorter skirts… the list goes on… I’m so sorry you had these experiences and I’m glad that you are in a better place now. I’d love your vidoes and i’d love a part 2, your experience and stories are so validating for so many other women too.

[@chloeshih]

omg ask you to be their girlfriend. 💀💀💀 not great at all. i'm sorry to hear that, jing. i hope you're in a MUCH better place. no one deserves that! and wow - i didn't even think about doing a part 2 actually. thanks for your suggestion - may weave these into the next videos!

[@TheAppledance]

So great to hear other people going through crazy management situations at work after having encountered one today myself. Thanks for sharing Chloe!

[@jen9569]

Hey Chloe! Just wanted to share that I was having a tough time at work and after watching your videos, I was inspired to pursue the product management pathway. I applied for some APM roles and finally got an offer last week (and am secretly quite nervous to start). You have been super inspirational for me personally and just wanted to thank you for all of your videos :)

[@TheMikster95]

So sorry about all of these painful experiences but I guve you so much credit for being vulnerable about them..a good manager should always want their highest performing employees to progress. They shouldnt be burning their bridges either. When the manager wants to keep you, it puts you in a catch 22 in terms of performance: keep performing well, you'll burn yourself out and you wont get promoted, or do the minimum or less and bad things will happen.

[@kmori123]

thank you for being so honest and vulnerable. im so tired of people glorifying tech life and it’s refreshing to hear real stories

[@kmori123]

i also work in tech and no regrets but it’s damn hard and i wish more people talked about that. we’re not just coasting here

[@chloeshih]

@@kmori123 I know :( i mean i will say that the perks and benefits are super nice compared to many other industries, but it is a different political and bureaucratic landscape with weird power dynamics at play that you have to somehow be aware of. it's a lot!

[@kmori123]

@@chloeshih yes completely! and im so grateful for the perks and benefits but just appreciate candid stories like this that show not just the romanticized side

[@natedavidoff668]

it’s pretty clear every company we work for doesn’t have our best interest at heart.

[@trevor_mason_reed]

Damn, there was probably a lot of toxic leadership! I used to work in a fast food gig, and my manager was super nasty and despicable. She was a perfectionist, and kind of a hypocrite, my coworkers and I did not liked her. Toxic positivity played a role too, however I couldn’t stand being “fake happy,” so I left.

[@NikDavis]

These stories are helping me reflect on how much effort I have to put in sometimes to tone myself down in a work team setting. I have a capital H in hyper man... I make conscious efforts to make sure I'm actively listening and offering feedback when appropriate.

[@torytrom]

you have the absolute best youtube videos. im obsessed with your editing skills

[@chloeshih]

aww thank you tory T_T this is a great pump-me-up for the weekend. thank you!

[@TheCanicap]

This video is gold!! Thank you for breaking all corporate rules and sharing these experiences with no fear!! It inspires me to share more episodes that happen to me at work with others.. I feel that everyone tries to change a bit the stories to look nice on the picture, but even the best ones have bad moments

[@chloeshih]

oh man i definitely have a lot of fear still haha, but i think it's more beneficial to share out so this stuff doesn't happen again elsewhere. i also felt so isolated when it was happening to me at the time since no one really talked about toxic work experiences.

[@TheCanicap]

@@chloeshih for sure! I talk a lot and I’ve had had bad consequences throughout my life because of that.. it’s seems that we all pass through bad moments, but if we talk about that it looks like we’re the only ones passing through those things

[@TheCanicap]

(And I’m so happy that you have answered my comment) - I can tell you that in a lot of moments when I need motivation, drive, guidance.. I come immediately to your channel because I feel like you’re the one talking about the things I relate to (more than close friends)

[@TheDrEngineer]

Thank you for making this. The more talented people like you speak up about their experiences, the more empowered us plebs will feel to not accept the status quo of discrimination (and a lot of times, abuse)! I have been underpaid and over-worked for the majority for my career because I simply didn't know any better, I just wanted to please everyone and get them to like me. Every role I have left has had to be backfilled with 2-3 people and only now do I realize how stupid and naive I was :(

[@chloeshih]

"us plebs" omg noooo. we're all deserving of great opportunities and success too!! but honestly, it doesn't feel that way in corporate america. :( i'm sorry to hear about the underpaid and overworked experiences. that honestly sucks!! i hope you're being treated like ROYALTY now!!

[@TheDrEngineer]

​@@chloeshih I saw your earlier video about comp and negotiated equity in a start up so that I will benefit if we make it big :) Have decided to take a break from corporates, lol. Oh and I am in Australia so things are relatively a lot better than the US atleast from the outside.

[@postdreaming]

Thanks for sharing! I really appreciate the vulnerability and strength to share these stories! Random unrelated note: Hirect ads are all over SF bus stops it's almost becoming a meme it seems. It's funny now this week they're starting to infiltrate all my fav tech youtubers too haha, their marketing budget must be huge?!?

[@chloeshih]

Omg I’m just traveling to SF today and I literally see them all over. They are launching big this year!!

[@aiho5698]

my favorite channel about tech and lifestyle

[@laurenxu3188]

oh gosh I hate when managers say talk to me / if there is something going I have to know, and it's so much probing and backing you into a corner sort of. I am glad you are at a better place now

[@laurenxu3188]

asian women have to endure so much invisible stress and im as fed up as you, that's why i have LOVED your content

[@AyleeWonder]

Omg, this hits so hard in my current situation. I can relate to you so well on these especially not getting promoted when your work was one of the top. I can totally relate!

[@zeanut]

Thank you for sharing. It's not easy to navigate a workplace where you're not supported. Hopefully you've found a good spot and can thrive where you are now!

[@chloeshih]

agh i wish i was much older going through something like that. i honestly was so young and naive that it really hurt me in very permanent ways. i'm still moving forward!!

[@annle986]

you're so kind and inspiring Chloe and I can relate to everything you said! I was so caught up in being a hard ass to make myself appear more capable in a male-dominated field and it's so draining! I feel much calmer now that I listen to your sharing

[@НаталияА-ъ2п]

Amazing video Chloe! Love how raw and honest you always are, thank you for everything that you do on KZbin

[@chloeshih]

thank you!! glad you enjoy these videos!!

[@MikeLouie]

Love these insights and vulnerable experiences shared, Chloe. Definitely inspires me to be more transparent in my upcoming podcast episodes. Thank you!

[@chloeshih]

aww that's great! it really took me like at least 3 years to start feeling comfortable talking about these more publicly, but i think it's about time. i gotta let it out, let people learn from it so it doesn't happen to them, and let it go to move forward.

[@jaymca730]

Thanks Chloe for sharing! This is so amazing & vulnerable. As a person of color, with tattoos that are visible, I feel the criticism in tech even when they talk about inclusion. I've heard the tech stereotypes of Asian women and it's great that you can be so open and inspire others.

[@chloeshih]

poc unite!! but yeah, it's honestly really hard to defend yourself as a poc or even just as someone who doesn't look like the standard c-suite in silicon valley. it's just so hard to argue cases and be specific since a lot of the experiences are invisible or they're microaggressions that pile over time. hope sharing this will def help others!

[@celina6204]

11:27 actually made me tear up. My first job as a software dev I was working at a startup where I felt psychologically unsafe. I finally broke down during a 1:1 with my manager and he was more supportive than I could've imagined. I'm so grateful to him and I hope to be that person for someone else one day. Thank you sooo SOO much for sharing your stories. It's super interesting to hear the not so glamorous side of tech and I feel comfort in knowing I'm not alone in these struggles. Thank you so much

[@HilliinUtah]

Thanks for honest and vulnerable conversation, Chloe! I gotta check out the Hirect. It's def what I need right now!

[@chloeshih]

thank you, minjy! i'm glad you like it! and yessss - best of luck on your recruiting process!!! :D

[@Flutterbyby]

Not In tech, but as someone who was moved into management role without being provided any training (I was a lone wolf), I’ve finally invested my own money & my own time after work in developing my skills to ensure my interactions leave the team positive. WhaT I mean is Don’t assume a manager has had training or any skills in people management or emotional intelligence. Also, keep in mind they may be on the Autism spectrum so may miss some cues.

[@darkpathos]

Another great video 🥲 haha both informative but also triggers ptsd LOL you’re so strong and I’m glad to be part of this community ☺️

[@chloeshih]

i am so sorry for the triggers ahh shoulda put a trigger warning. hope to have some more light-hearted vids in the future too!!

[@dianadiakite3693]

Thank you for sharing your story!! It’s great seeing more women and women of color entering into tech, I myself am in my sophomore year majoring in CS and it’s exciting but saddening that these are things we may have to deal with, Thank you! 💓

[@eeeyooohoh]

omg just hearing "AXE THROWING TEAM BONDING" alone makes me wanna unalive myself im so triggered 😅 im sorry tech is awful i am so glad im not in it although realistically im prob gonna have to go back at some point

[@mavmoneymiao]

such a warm story!! thank you!

[@hudonedem8517]

Glad you’re still in the game

[@Designalily]

My favorite of yours! This one was amazing 💖

[@chloeshih]

so glad you enjoyed this, lily! it's definitely very different from what i've been doing. my first q&a chat!

[@AmnaAbbas04]

Props to you for telling it like it is. More ppl should do that

[@katharinaalf]

Wow Chloe thank you for sharing this! And I’m sorry you had to go through so many unfair experiences:(( I’m lucky to have not experienced things this extreme but I’m just at the beginning of my career and it’s good to know what to be mindful of! Tech is definitely glamourised sometimes…

[@grace1081]

Fantastic video, gorl!!! Thank you for sharing your painful stories. It is really inspiring and encouraging to still see your smile and your positive attitude despite what people have done and said to you. Women are so strong ❤️ Ps, Iove the editing on this videooo

[@danielamarie]

LOVE LOVE LOVE THESE QUESTIONS AND ANSWERS 💗💗 thanks Chlo!

[@chloeshih]

THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVE DANIELA 💗💗

[@ImpalaJayyy]

Finally heard about your stories and it is fun! Look forward to more vidz! Support as always

[@chloeshih]

haha yes and there are def way more x_x. honestly fitting things into 10 min videos is truly a skill.

[@ryzer0881]

Holy sh*t... Thanks for sharing this, Chloe. Inspiring.

[@ernestohernandez4519]

Me debating: toxic job in tech with a nice payday vs incredible job with amazing work culture at a non-profit but pays 1/4 the salary of tech job 🤔

[@CebiGreen]

I call all of these honest answers. Sorry to say… No matter how an organization makes the culture sound like a warm and fuzzy company, Bamboo Ceiling still exists for the most part. I think now You’re in an ideal situation as no need to deal with office politics and some passive aggressive behaviors. Congratulations!

[@comcastlover]

Being in tech is SO traumatic... I've worked so hard and made it to all the top tech/engineering companies despite coming into college with no technical background just to always be told by men that it's because I'm a beautiful girl or because I'm a diversity hire :') yay.

[@gracebear]

Thanks for sharing! I feel encouraged & related and love to share my stories on KZbin one day too. 🙂

[@chloeshih]

rooting for you grace! hope you can share your stories as well!!

[@llcooldown]

love this, thanks for sharing Chloe!

[@chloeshih]

thanks for watching, ree gah!

[@TVTND]

No wayyyyyy, doing premed rn, and it is a hot mess. Watching your videos rn and Project management sounds like a promising career! :)

[@JenPurple2022]

What she said is true Similar experience here So glad to hear it

[@TravelWithAvantika]

Wow Chloe❤️ you are really my inspiration hence proved💜

[@cbwiley24]

+💯 I can so relate to your experiences as a woman in tech; IYKYK. Thanks for shining light on these topics. PS. You are a fantastic storyteller & content creator, Chloe!! TY!

[@sarahlee8832]

how do you recommend switching to a different team when you have a toxic manager?

[@Arkster18]

Thank you so much for sharing your experience!

[@another_youtube_bot4400]

wow. their PROFESSIONAL meeting devolves to yelling and they think you're the problem. Like who hurt these people?

[@letechnicaljames]

This video came just in time. Yes, I've done tons of LinkedIn stalking because of my own career-based insecurities but it motivated and allowed me to grow.

[@chloeshih]

doomscrolling on linkedin is the worst *___* but glad we're all in better places now!!

[@funnyshinhoo]

omg. I am 100% had similar experiences and I am so tired of tech. I am moving on to another industry soon.

[@chloeshih]

aww man it's insane to hear how common some of these experiences are. hope you're able to find a better environment for you!!

[@nathanjbee]

Your apartment is so cool! I'm super jealous, probably unrelated, but still it's worth complimenting xD

[@chloeshih]

haha tysm!! imma do an apartment tour v soon!

[@taizyamillettegarcia6021]

Thank you for sharing this!

[@niharikapatil902]

Thank you for making this video

[@ashleygesty7671]

Wow great video, thanks for sharing!

[@chloeshih]

thanks for watching!

[@miward0528]

My entire career as a PM has kinda turned on its head in the last year. Only because my experience as a woman in tech has been compounded by becoming a working mom in tech. Talk about some serious imposter syndrome. Being the only female PM on the team and being a new mom…it’s been a really difficult transition.

[@chloeshih]

omg melinda. i'm honestly so terrified of moving into motherhood while trying to sustain this career as a product lead in tech. the schedule is so unforgiving. you have my utmost respect in doing what you do!!

[@miward0528]

@@chloeshih Thankfully I have a really great boss (who has children). He is very understanding but he also is a he...so it's definitely difficult to explain to him how come I worry so much about how I am perceived by others now that I'm a Mom because he doesn't deal with what women in our positions tend to deal with. I'm not gonna lie, Chloe, it's really hard BUT you'll do what you have to do when that time comes and you will forge your path and you will thrive. Sounds like you have good managerial support now and that is truthfully half the battle when it comes to periods of professional and personal transition. Thanks for what you do here!

[@tibebe6571]

Y I K E S ! I have a question and please forgive me if I frame it awkwardly. How much of Tech's incredibly variable manager skills, do you think come from how people skills are ranked second to engineering skills? I am a grown man and I have had managers do similar 'bully-ing' type things I guess trying to bank on the power from their position to make up the deficit of managerial skill? What do you think about that Chloe?

[@chloeshih]

oof i don't think i have the best perspective on this, but you should def ask this question in my discord if you haven't already! i have a career questions channel where people openly talk about these types of topics! (check the discord link in the description)

[@joeybwalsh]

As a "white guy" wanting to get into product management...not sure how I'm supposed to feel about this. Like on one hand I feel bad...and on the other...I'm thinking there's hope for me.

[@chloeshih]

I think it's also a great opportunity to be a strong ally to others too! Your career aspirations to go into product are completely valid. I wouldn't prevent yourself from going into it from this video haha.

[@yandhi4202]

that story at 9:00 was so fucked up. I think she thought you wouldn’t call her out on her bullshit so she did that… I wish you called her out lol. You’re way to valuable to put up with someone’s bullshit like that at work. Any other company would be thrilled to have someone organized/driven/high performing like yourself

[@chloeshih]

I honestly wish I had the courage to do that. I was so young and naive. I didn’t know it was bad management and just took it all and almost blamed myself for not being capable of handling it. :( now I know better!

[@yandhi4202]

@@chloeshih yea I know what you mean, it’s understandable it’s a learning experience

[@ViviCoderGirl]

how old is Chloe? Am amazed by this girl accomplishing so much so quickly. Saying she's ready to start a family through me off. I need this skincare routine lol

[@chloeshih]

haha omg yeah i definitely get mistaken as the youngest person in the room, which i wish i were. let's just say i'm much older than i look! skincare - it's 100% that biore sunscreen that i use. secret to youth!

[@ViviCoderGirl]

@@chloeshih thanks for sharing and taking the time! Love ur channel, and buying that ASAP lol

[@generic_flower]

4:05 reminds me so much of the Pixar short Purl

[@chloeshih]

oh i didn't see it - great suggestion!

[@isa-qz8fg]

Curious as to know why you call People Operations or your specific experience "bottom rung"?

[@chloeshih]

it was really the way other people treated people in my role as well as how we were paid. :( from what i've seen in tech, these roles don't get that much ownership, visibility, and pay. now that i'm in a new career path, i always try to give everyone the respect they deserve. every job is challenging and useful in their own ways!

[@chikahoshi]

Hi Chole! Thank you for sharing your experiences. I can really relate to the part where people didn’t think you were assertive enough; I’ve had many experiences like that . So I really aspire to one day be a 1/10th of where you’re at in life, so listening to your journey helps me to have hope. :) On a side note, do you know what’s your MBTI type? I just like guessing what type someone might be, lol.

[@chloeshih]

oh man i'm really not that far in life. i know you'll get whereever you want to be in no time! rootin for ya! also how do i know what mbti type i am? o_o

[@chikahoshi]

@@chloeshih Thank you! I really appreciate the encouragement! :) And for some reason, KZbin doesn’t allow me to link anything in the comment section, but you can try to figure out your MBTI type if you google 16personalities or Mistypeinvestigator. I find that 16personalities makes more errors, but it is quick to do. It’s also a nice basic introduction to the 16 types. Mistypeinvestigator is significantly longer, but it’s more accurate when you take your time and be thorough with your answers. When you finish, it’ll give you a break down on which type you most likely are. I like this one a lot! :D

[@kayteeflick]

4:31 Chloe's list of self help books

[@chloeshih]

hahah perfect timestamp

[@mluu510]

Man, this person has jump job nearly every year. I am surprised no hiring manager has questioned that

[@IgorShorop]

The application is not available in Ukraine 😢

[@nnvananh]

thanks for the video Chloe may I ask you where you got your cardigan hehe

[@kseniaova]

Can't seem to be able to download the app (UK based)

[@chloeshih]

oh darn! i think it is US based unfortunately!

[@marianaandradesap]

I feel you! My boss like to hear him talk 😂

[@terrelldinkins8980]

Nice video and I’m new to your channel

[@marksias6764]

Only fools think IT is respectable. Get a life. You do have great people skills.

[@seths1997]

too bad you had to experience this. sad reality of corporate america. you deserve a lot more respect than that

[@chloeshih]

ah yeah :( it is quite common to see similar stories like these in corpo america. thanks for your support!

[@Porcelynnn]

Men and sports finding another way to piss me off

[@lucylongmarret5735]

Is hirect in Europe?

[@chloeshih]

ah hm, i think they're US only but you can check out their site / app to see if they've expanded by now!