Choosing a Soulmate Over a Twin Flame

What happens when you choose to be with a Soulmate over a Twin Flame? A lot of people make this choice since the Twin Flame journey is a rough one, so in this video, I tell you five things that occur when you do in fact choose to be with a Soulmate instead of the Twin
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[@mary-anneb2614]

I chose someone who choses me. I’m not going to wait around for my twin to learn his lessons with his karmic soulmate and evolve. I chose partnership with a soulmate who loves me and provides comfort over feeling like I’m in the sidelines of my twins journey. I would have chosen my twin but he’s not here.

[@shiviverma300]

I have recently left the TF journey and married a soulmate. I don't know about the future but yes it is a great relief from the endless suffering, yo yoing between wanting, not wanting and then striving to not want and in your vacant hours not being able to not think, wonder or not obsess about the DM. All these involuntary and voluntary exercises only caused stagnacy and anguish. Patience apart, my own life too is important and needs to move. Finally I can breathe, plan for the furture and have a few exciting things to look forward to.

[@wearethesamenergy]

All of my absolute best and highest vibrations to you with your beautiful Soulmate! 🙏🙏

[@shiviverma300]

@@wearethesamenergy thank you.

[@lifeskill8381]

Congratulations 👏🎉. You defeated the saitan that was torturing you using that mind game expert narcissist called DM. Now the evil spirit is defeated and the fake love called DM is tasting its own medicine of ghosting

[@echoeslight7880]

I hear you i had a similar experience and made a similar choice… i was waiting for him to realize or accept who i was for 10 years i was done… and i was not wanting to continue longing for my tf… once i let go of that i was ready to move on i was given the option of being with a soulmate and we now have 3 kids… i was almost 40 so im glad i made that choice… i have no regrets and even though i will always love my tf im also at peace knowing i made the best choice given the circumstances

[@IvanaXavierFanCRO]

Literally what I pray for... My soulmate...

[@e.o9470]

I’m myself in a free-will based separation, i see that many people don’t really understand (or are not really in a TF connection ) this TF phenomenon! IT IS something really mysterious

[@wearethesamenergy]

💜💜

[@CoachWakeup11]

I love that you combine beliefs astrology and twin flame teaching. It’s truly war with ourselves. You are God sent earth angel to help us in this painful, crazy, seemingly hopeless, yet inspiring spiritual journey ❤ SIGH

[@wearethesamenergy]

Aww

[@MariahBethea]

I left my karmic 3 year relationship for my twin who was already in a relationship when we met. I feel like I met my soulmate a few months ago and me and him are great friends. I feel he is going to be a guide in my life. It feels nice to know you’re not alone and someone to talk to. It gets lonely as the chaser if you know you know 😢

[@chitramoontarot]

You are brilliant in the words that you choose. I pray that more people find you.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Aww, you're sweet 🙏

[@lapecheysupermario]

I want to repeat myself, You are the best. I don't have to add anything else. Thank You Alexx 💓

[@wearethesamenergy]

♥️♥️

[@soulbabe79]

Only you can make you happy.. not a soulmate or TF... i cant stand the up and down issues. But remember.. its just the energy that you bith want qnd not the person. If your energy was in a chicken you'd be obsessed with that. I have detached and have no want or desire for TF. I am happy with soulmates and love the stability while still working on triggers and ego mind. You can still heal with a soulmate. You dont need a TF to be ascended and out of ego. But theres nothing wrong with wanting some normality.

[@magdalenawiko5158]

I think so too. I once worked in a very difficult environment and had a kind of awakening. one day I came to work and I had love and peace inside me. nothing moved me at all. peace and love. of course the ego ruined everything because it felt anxious. but it was totally different, healthy for me, this event was not healthy. it was irritating, disturbing, unpleasant, demonic. I already know that all of us humans have such features in the shadow. and that's the only gain. but if it is possible, I choose differently....

[@wearethesamenergy]

💯💯💯

[@the-barefoot]

Hi Alex, your channel appeared from nowhere after a meditation… I’m impressed… truly, first person ever to understand this bond deeply. I’m so happy I found you. You’re very intelligent and beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@wearethesamenergy]

🙏💜 happy my videos are resonating with you!

[@jo-wk2yp]

I came across your channel days ago and i would say yours is included in " One of the BEST". Very informative and helpful. Anyways, in my conclusion for this particular topic one will never achieve that complete happiness either with a karmic, soulmate and TF as long as one is not in TF union. It is a lose-lose situation. but it is not the end of the world. We just have to search for that happiness within ourselves, not from somebody else and of course from GOD , the source of true happiness. Thank you.❤❤❤❤

[@Flufero23]

This video is very informative, especially concerning soulmates. Your style resonates with me. I now have an understanding since there is a lot of "fluff" out there concerning soulmates. ( I wasn't even looking for a relationship when I met my TF. It just happened.) My intention is to stay on my spiritual journey, whether it be with my TF or alone.

[@Lucida1818]

This information has answered my question around this. Thank you. 🙏 I have had a few soul mate relationships and you’re right it pulled me right into my ego which is why it didn’t work and I eventually have been single for about 6 years. The last 4 years have been huge spiritual growth and I feel I have come into my Devine alignment to even go back to soul mate relationships I definitely feel like I couldn’t go back to that. I wasn’t clear that my DM was my twin flame until this year from October I knew we had a powerful spiritual connection and perhaps soul mates but I didn’t think much about twin flames. I just thought it was a new age buzz word lol 😅 until now. You know one of my soulmates wanted to came back last year and I said I definitely didn’t want to. I had my DM in my mind and realised the closeness I had with him just didn’t compare so I let him go completely - it was at that point I realised just how deeply connected I was to my DM.

[@Goldilox1111]

Thank you for the wisdom you shared today. The past 3 years finally make sense... especially when I reconnected with a soulmate this year, with no intent of trying to move on from my Twin... it just happened naturally or felt like that... anyways, what resulted was my Ego Degradation...I couldn't explain what was happening or why... I was really enjoying my soulmate... he and I are hilarious together... and truth be told, my Twin is not a humor expert lol.. and in the aftermath of the Ego Death, my Twin reached out and was going to fly out to visit me

[@Goldilox1111]

When you mentioned 'boredom,' were you referring to boredom in the Twin Flame union or a member of the Soul Tribe?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Soul Family

[@bushikciwa]

I never got to date a soul mate let alone anyone, before or after meeting my twin 🤦🏽‍♂️.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Wow, that's interesting

[@ozgursenturk11-11]

​@@pubgbros208never say that again!!!!! There's no one outside of you to love you! It's always and only you that thinking there are people around you who doesn't love you. SELF love bro all you need because there is only THE SELF.❤

[@sweetgirl62]

​@@wearethesamenergythe same for me i only have karmics in my life..never dated a soulmate..i wonder do i even have any soulmate this lifetime....the only soulmate friend that i met introduce me to my twin..

[@LightersWorld]

You share so detailely sometimes m not able to get things but m thankful that I found this channel so can do watch the needful when m ready to recieve.. Thanks again

[@wearethesamenergy]

🙏

[@mjey1]

I haven't dated anyone since I met my twin 7 years ago. I think about what it would be like to date someone new, but i just dont care. I'm also not a big dater as it is, and have lived most of my life single. I want peace and I like not having to always balance the needs, and expectations of other people and whats required for a "real relationship." I find it draining and a burden thinking about having to keep up with it all. In a perfect world, I would like to hug my twin. Thats all I desire in my mind. to be able to hold him again. not sure what that sesation signals but thats mainly it.

[@freealternativestreaming2404]

I felt at some point that I just outgrew this type of connection and the sexual urge is not there anymore for this person, although I love him so much. I feel naturally attracted to another soul bond type right now. My TF made a happy choice with another and I respect that. Things are simple most of the time, why make them complex?

[@wearethesamenergy]

That's great!

[@joshhance5733]

Being a male DF. My ego has controlled most of my life. Ive come along way since our last separation. As i was thrown into my 2nd ego death. And found out about what twin flames were. Things started to make alot more sense. But still need to fully release worrying about any potential outcomes.

[@jsims0075]

I'm in the same boat as a male DF. I'm tired of the journey and really hoping I meet a great woman who doesn't want to do this type of twin flame journey.

[@ozgursenturk11-11]

​@@jsims0075that great woman is you!!!! How you gonna find yourself? And of course your TF is you! How you gonna run from yourself? Keep watching her videos and you will "get" it soon. I mean you already know it but your ego is still there and thinking that there's something outside of you so you need to control by making choices❤🙏🙏🏻💕

[@aanisgarten]

@@ozgursenturk11-11 So are you saying if we're out of our egos, there are no choices to make? A little confused what you mean by this. What if a soulmate comes into your life, if there are no choices to make, you would just be with them, no?

[@graspingthewind]

Thank you! Very clear and concise. I’ve always known that there will be no other person to partner with except my twin. I can just feel it and any attempt of my ego to reach out to anyone in a possible dating way gets completely thwarted. Also making choices and decisions like where to move (away from my twin) seems to also be thwarted by this energy as though my higher self has taken the reigns completely and the only thing to do is surrender. It’s a little uncomfortable! Is this common? A feeling that you are at the will of this greater force (divine will/soul) and it intercedes in decisions and that “free will” doesn’t really play a role anymore, and actually is mostly a strata of consciousness that is primarily ego based? Sounds like the beginning of union with the true self, possibly i just haven’t fully let go completely….

[@wearethesamenergy]

I am releasing a video series on my website this week about this exact thing!

[@graspingthewind]

@@wearethesamenergy Brilliant! It's quite a phenomenon. I can't even get upset with other folks who don't respond or completely vanish b/c I know it's not even them really making the choice..it's uncanny! Thank you, I'm so grateful I found your content!

[@wearethesamenergy]

And it is now up on my site. It's called "Non-Attachment and Union" and it's under the merchandise section

[@graspingthewind]

@@wearethesamenergy Wonderful! I will put that on my "to buy" list!!

[@orsisabado8495]

Hi Alexx! As much as this video did a fantastic job of clarifying some things for those of us in a third-party relationship, it also confused me, and I may not be alone. For those of us who tried for years to get out of chaser energy, seemingly the only way to do that was to find a way to "give up" on our twin. But, somewhere between waiting patiently (which was chasing) and giving up completely (which is not allowing the union to occur), we are lost in understanding where we should be. If we "choose" our twin, it feels like we're going back to chasing, but if we give up and stop chasing, it seems we block the union energy. I realize it's a dualistic, egoic interpretation, but when we have to make choices about our lives (ie., ending a third-party relationship or not), we have no other way of making sense of it all. What does it really mean to surrender to the journey?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Union is NOT with the 3D physical Twin. So there is no such thing as "blocking union energy" because you can't block union with yourself. You can only avoid it by over-utilizing the Ego. Remember that you are your Twin. You don't need to chase yourself and you don't need to give up on yourself. 🙏🙏

[@mariai.a.2793]

Thank you for the question and for the answer ! 💞@@wearethesamenergy

[@orsisabado8495]

Thank you, Alexx. 🙏

[@noahalexander26]

So I think it is like this. Maybe. I realize and have accepted my twin and I are not together in 3D. I have grieved. Cried. Thrown tantrums. And then I accepted. This has been going on for 6 years so it's been a minute lol. I've tried cord cutting. Rituals. Even cut off my hair to get rid of the connection. Nothing's works if course. I feel him always. But now I don't care if I am with him. There is no more sorrow. There is peace. Is this surrendering ?

[@ozgursenturk11-11]

​@@noahalexander26 no it's not because you are still here watching this video🙏 almost all twin flame "teachers" point out that somewhere along your journey you "have to" stop watching or getting information about TF connection "naturally" so you know that you surrendered to the "higher self" "universe" "God" or basically to "yourself" 🙏🏻❤️

[@notearz76]

Thank you for the video and words of wisdom. Lots to unravel. Kinda feel many of your points are hitting some major points. 2-5 were really solid points to reflect on. 1- #NotWrong (Kinda felt like this video was an early bday present. 🤣 Many things that I have struggled with. ).

[@notearz76]

Damn, last part of #5 really touched something. Getting pulled back definitely is something.

[@erikpedersen5488]

Wow, really profound. Thank you!

[@wearethesamenergy]

You are so welcome! 🙏

[@twistedangel5440]

Came when I needed it. Thank you!

[@mariai.a.2793]

Brilliant💞 Thank you soooo much 🥰

[@jo-wk2yp]

I just wonder many times if all those who comment on YT channels about Twinflames are true twinflanes . Even I , question it so many times if i am one. Although signs and situations show me it is, i wish sometimes i 'm not .

[@sweetgirl62]

I don t think they are..a lot comfuse on and off toxic relationship as twin flames... Twin flames are rare...

[@tarlanfatehi8783]

I am in a state in which i mostly want to deal with people who are in love state and are authentic or at least awakened to some extent. I am not enligtened myself but i see for myself that ego based people and relationships are not what works for me anymore. Be it a karmic, a soulmate or even unawakened version of my so called twin flame

[@anonimuse6553]

The ego is a tough master. Happiness, while transient, is not sustainable unless you can master your ego. Mastering the ego is opening up to the cosmic energy and not being invested in the idea that all credit must be yours.

[@generaldvw]

😮... This video stopped me in my tracks. 😮... #2🎯🙏

[@MsPentek13]

It’s so interesting that you made this video because it’s a constant battle in my head. Before I met my twin, I was quite happy with my husband, or I thought I was. Now that I am vibrating so much higher I find him boring. Although he is a great person and we have built a great life (in 3D terms, we have everything). So, should I really get divorced for a twin - who is a coworker, married with children and has never made any serious efforts to pursue me? He is so shy. By the time my twin understood what we were, his foreign wife - who is completely attached to him and has no life on her own- was already pregnant with the second baby. Who is now a beautiful one year old. He showed me pictures. What are my chances? Even if I got divorced, I don’t think he would. At least my husband is here and he loves me - even if in a 3D egoistic way. Meanwhile I feel my DM’s desire for me every single day. And I can’t get him out of my head. What should I do? Jump on him at the office? Sometimes I can’t help feeling this journey is a punishment. I am open to any suggestions. Thank you.

[@wearethesamenergy]

I would suggest a consultation for when my books reopen. You can reach out via the contact form on my website and I'll get you on the waitlist.

[@MsPentek13]

@@wearethesamenergy Great, I’ll sign up. Thank you.

[@MsPentek13]

@@muar77 Thank you for your kind reply. What we do is we take turn in running😀. I spend as much time in home office as possible and he’s been calling off meetings to avoid me. Still, the feelings got so intense that often the other’s mere presence is a huge trigger. One look in his eyes is enough. I melt. It’s insane. And when we do get to spend time together, we have just been on a too day corporate trip together, it’s perfect. When the initial awkwardness wears off, we are in perfect sync. Yes, it is extremely difficult and yet beautiful. I just try to focus on myself as much as I can. Quitting wouldn’t help. It’s a great workplace and we would still have the connection. So I just try to be grateful for what I have and love life, you know?

[@ggcoaching-lifecoaching]

He came back opening his heart, saying that I changed his life and our connection is forever but we are not meant to be lovers, but just friends. His is with me with all his heart. After this conversation have passed almost 2 weeks. And after this I feel his energy more then ever and started to think of him so absessivelly. I feel that he is working on the last blockages. But is it normal to feel him so strongly and this thinking in the end ? And his suggestion for friendship?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Runners like to justify their running by any means necessary. It's normal to feel their energy. But if you don't find Non-attachment, you're still chasing, regardless of whether You're friends or not. He'll either heal or he won't. It's about you working on your own stuff, giving him the room to do the same

[@Sheisanangel0]

No one wants to walk on eggshells. That is what living with a TF will be. Love them from a far.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Oh that's so sad, but I know what you're referring to

[@Sheisanangel0]

​@@wearethesamenergy not sad, just too much energy stuff, always balancing, cannot relax. It is daily work. Not just work to get them in, but work to make them stay. Remain alone or be with someone else.

[@noahalexander26]

But the 'work', as you refer to it ..that's the whole point. Healing is work

[@Sheisanangel0]

@@noahalexander26 It never ends is what I am saying. It is always a battle. The best advice is to totally focus on yourself.

[@Ari-ih5un]

@@Sheisanangel0 to keep them to stay you basically have to not feel emotions toward them and be very 'neutral' and zen, right? love, desire, hurt/anger, wanting, neediness, expectation, etc. It's hard to imagine not feeling those

[@funpurplelady]

You're amazing, I love the way you share your knowledge. I'm curious where this knowledge comes from? I study Chinese medicine and Daoism, so I'm used to hearing all the references or where the ideas come from. I saw in your bio you have a lot of healing and academic experiences, so I'm just wondering the history behind all this information? Thank you so much for all your videos!!

[@wearethesamenergy]

I'll do a video on this, actually.

[@elizabeth_of_lore]

Feeling my 5D union makes me not really care about the 3D. He's with someone else, I'm with someone else, but this realm is a temporary illusion. Does it really matter?

[@wearethesamenergy]

No it does not!!

[@noahliasam7407]

I might come back later today to write my experience, after talking with my twin flame and a part of his soulmate (bf). I can totally resonate myself in all this as a chaser

[@TennisLover1967]

I am loving your videos. Thank you for all your videos on the TF journey and your efforts to raise consciousness. I would donate if there was a link.

[@wearethesamenergy]

That's very sweet, I'm glad the videos are resonating with you!

[@poojasharma-xc9un]

I have been married to my soulmate from last 11 years and I was always interested in spiritual work and some how always looked up to the Universe to guide me on my spiritual path Last year I met my twin flame and I never knew anything like that existed then, I was simply surprised how can I have such a deep connection with someone so much younger to me Only after I came to know about twin flames that I felt that all this madness is indeed leading me to my spiritual journey, now I enjoy this intense love which opens my system in so many ways But I seem to have lost all interest in my marriage, I don’t know what is instore in future I am in separation with my twin but love seems to grow stronger

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes, I completely understand.

[@tahimypasta7141]

Thank you. I really love your videos. You always post these videos at the right time

[@wearethesamenergy]

🙏🙏

[@jennyxiomara3]

Yes! Met TF after being married to my soulmate for 18 years:-)

[@joshhance5733]

Currently separated in the 3d. Ive met many soul mates. Even almost started dating one a few months prior to my last reunion with my twin. This person was as close to my ideal as i could have ever dreamed of. Although..something inside of me will not allow me to be with a soul mate. The divines choice i guess. At times i would be frustrated by this. As i could just have a happy, loving relationship with one of them. Iam ok with being single. And i do feel it within my being that iam supposed to be in a permanent relationship with my twin.

[@wearethesamenergy]

You are the exact demographic this video was made for! 🙏🙏🙏

[@joshhance5733]

@@wearethesamenergy Thank you very much! It was helpful!

[@SolyMo16]

I went thru this journey as a Chaser ; I think the problem with your point of view is , you only view it as a couple/ relationship journey. While from my perspective this journey is only about the self realization as written by Jung / Alice Bailey .... The TF journey is a scenario to bring us to the dark night of the soul in order to go through the Solar initiation. As A Bailey mentioned the solar initiation brings a balanced Yin/Yang energies, activate Kundalini and soul integration to the body. All this happened to me... For me our runner is part of our soul but as Karmic partner to push us to the solar initiation, it's the only target! If not why the universe put all these barriers if the reunion was the goal ?

[@wearethesamenergy]

You should watch more than one of my videos before you make your conclusions.

[@wonderrwall1855]

Thank you so much Alexx! I've been a recent fan of your videos just given how authentic they feel and how your teachings have been more than just "what I want to hear" like other sources are on the internet, so thank you! I also got your book and am slowly making my way through it, journalling along the way (trying to figure out what my karmic lesson is and how each member I've come across has been trying to teach me.) But I wanted to see if you could (or if it's in your list) make a video on how to surrender to the Higher Self? Or to submit to the Universe? Or ways on how to break down the ego? Thank you xx

[@wearethesamenergy]

I am currently working on this exact series that will be available on my website this week or next. Thank you for your support, and I'm so happy things are resonating! 🙏

[@wonderrwall1855]

@@wearethesamenergy Looking forward to that series! It all started to click together like a puzzle once I actually took the time to rewatch some of your videos, read your book AND journal it all. Makes total sense! I do want to ask you a quick question about third parties though. Is it possible for a third party to show up to mainly separate twins at a specific point in their journey in order for the twins to truly take the time alone to heal? Or do third parties only come in to teach lessons?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Wouldn't those two options be synonymous? 🙂 I'm so happy it's clicking for you; journaling helps me tons, too!

[@wonderrwall1855]

@@wearethesamenergy Suppose you're right haha thank you :)

[@NoName-zb1gm]

This person I liked felt like a twin flame and a soulmate. We are so similar in so many ways. Like the same personality quirks. We even talk using the same expressions when joking around. We're both hard workers but we struggle with finding that connection with someone. Maybe our connection could have been the one. We're both shy and she loves when we touch each other's hands and arms and enjoy being close to one another talking or in silence. I can't believe we're not together. But I see comments where one person is like me and the other person is miles away wanting something else not just a connection so I have to move on.

[@wearethesamenergy]

🙏

[@falcon99k]

Thank you for this!!!! ❤❤❤

[@leslieread556]

"...unless you make your 3D actions line-up with your 5D sensation." I'd love to hear more about this in another video sometime. Is feeling love for the TF a sign of ego? Or is this just the duality of aversion & attraction. I'm not sure how to N0T love! It feels as though there can certainly be a non-attached love. All the talk of ego-degradation put one on heightened alert to attachment...but I'm generally detached. Talk about crazy making lol...

[@wearethesamenergy]

On my list to do a video on it 🙏

[@queencard1111]

Alexx, I’ve poured over most/all of your videos and here’s my takeaway that I’d like you to correct and address later please: Takeaway: romantically we are all f*ked 😅 Soulmates: wonderful, warm, best friend, understands… but 💥 BOOM, it ends and you’re in a dark soul degradation. BYE soulmate. Twin flames: trigger upon trigger upon trigger, abandonment upon abandonment, and MAYBE a lifelong union ONLY IF the chaser healed, but most “normies” don’t heal so BYE BYE twin flame. Karmics: 🤮 All of it sounds kind of awful, tbh. Sounds like if you haven’t yet experienced a twin flame or soulmate yet, maybe it’s best manifesting or attracting a nice rando to do the conventional domestic rituals with and just be blissfully ignorant LOL. They can be some stray spirit from some other soul family. Lol. In fact, when i think about all the unconscious normies around me, they’re all married with kids with partners that aren’t soulmates or twin flames or karmics. What’s that all about? 🤔

[@wearethesamenergy]

If you have not read my book, I would suggest doing so.

[@queencard1111]

@@wearethesamenergy I ordered it and it will be delivered on Monday!!

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@queencard1111 Thank you for your support!

[@jillancantor2821]

Wow. This hit hard and true

[@wearethesamenergy]

🙏

[@joyulareign-himbert5218]

Thank you and much love

[@y2l906]

How does polyamory factor into this? Being with both a TF and soul mate?

[@wearethesamenergy]

"Twin Flames and Polyamory"

[@A-xm8up]

I have a unique question for you. What if you are in a nontraditional partnerhship with a soulmate (who also happens to be a twin) and we have an understanding / agreement that once we reach union and the twin comes back into the 3D, we will leave the partnership to be with our twins. Would this energetically block the twin from coming in permanently then?

[@wearethesamenergy]

Yes. This is a Third Party Situation.

[@brookd7880]

I question if the TF was actually a TF so moving on.

[@wearethesamenergy]

All my best and highest vibrations to you on your Soulmate journey! 🙏

[@MsTakiH]

How is it even possible to choose anyone over your counterpart unless you’re already married to a soulmate? My twin is unmarried and I’m now single and was at the end of my soulmate relationship who passed away right after I met my twin. If another soulmate would show up, he will never compare to my twin and it won’t be fair to him that I can never fully invest my heart into the relationship. If my twin were to transition and I know about it then I would be comfortable with moving on in 3D with a soulmate.

[@wearethesamenergy]

It all boils down to choice.

[@MargueriteMontijo]

I love learning this I'm a df twinflame older than dm his spulmate his age I often wondered when they get back Wil my love be forgot?

[@freshfacedb1981]

my question is #1 if we surrender to the universe all control how do we still manifest? i have found that if i listen to my guides and meditate to source, there is a flow to my life and what i chose to do brings me joy. is that surrendering and manifesting? #2 if we are in ascension and will be in higher dimensions how can we reincarnate here? i am not choosing to come back again as im going to 5d…confusing. im a starseed so my mission is clear but the tf part of it adds so much more depth to this incarnation. maybe id just have reunion w my twin flame in 5 d as a different experience? thank you for all you do!!! much ❤️

[@wearethesamenergy]

Please watch "The Problem with Manifesting" and "Manifesting 101"

[@brianboykin249]

Thank you for your rapid response as always. So if I feel that I do want to be together with my twin, how exactly do I "submit"?

[@wearethesamenergy]

You can't submit if you're doing so just to be with your Twin in the 3D. But I have a video series on my website specifically for the Chaser that talks about this 🙏

[@mjey1]

so ego degradation happens with a soulmate if it already did in its own way with a twin?

[@wearethesamenergy]

If you're bringing in more Soulmates after having started the TF journey, there are many more Symptom Karmic Lessons you "need" to learn

[@mjey1]

@@wearethesamenergy I only have my family as my trigger people. 👍🏼

[@magdalenawiko5158]

Alex, I have a question about what this meeting looks like from Cheser's perspective. I asked a few people because I felt so sorry for this man. (as I mentioned in one of the comments, I quickly realized what was happening and I didn't want to go into it, (first you organize your life, then you fall in love, first you pour out the old, then pour the new). The Chasers' answers were different. Some said that they were as if in a daze, others that they were somehow "awake" and were aware of what was happening. I really felt sorry for "my second incarnation". We have no contact and that's very good. We have to forget or meet more casually in other circumstances .

[@wearethesamenergy]

It looks different for everyone. Some say it feels like home, some say they hated their Twin when they met them.

[@magdalenawiko5158]

@@wearethesamenergy And how can you not worry 🤕 about incarnations older than us (but he's a smart man, so if Universe and Google helped me solve the mystery, it will probably help him too). thx

[@wearethesamenergy]

Why do you keep assuming you're a runner?

[@magdalenawiko5158]

@@wearethesamenergy Long story. because in our case it was very even, on both sides. feeling. out of this world. I don't fall in love with much older men. And sympathy. similarities. etc. only I said "NO" because no. because it doesn't make sense and I felt incredible relief right after the separation. And I'm worried about a human being. no expectations for a relationship.

[@wearethesamenergy]

Just because you said "no" doesn't mean you're a Runner. You obsess a lot to be a Runner.

[@crankrespect]

Only thing that's hard is that I'm 28 and she is 43

[@wearethesamenergy]

Watch my video "3D Differences Between TFs"

[@LightKingDGH]

Please what if I feel that my soulmate and I can help each other grow in most areas of life.. I just had this sudden attraction for a soulmate and I feel we both are matured to some degree to be able to help each other grow spiritually, intellectually and materially I also feel my twin is not ready for our union.. I feel my DM is yet to tap deeper within to find personal light, plus our union is supposed to create some sort of controversy, that's what I feel. I also feel she's yet to leave some group of people who are not healthy for her spiritual growth

[@wearethesamenergy]

It's your choice which member of the Soul Family you are with. Be with a Soulmate if that's what you want!

[@margaretworthing8645]

I NOT been with soulmate he only 37 twin gordon I love 6half years widow 16years gordon I already left message by phne gordon behaviour problem selfish he like I AM HONEST LOVE HIM DONT LIES AT ALL HE MY LIFE LIKE CALLS

[@talmoryanoy]

Can a soul mate be married wile i meet him? It seems that the "symptms" that you talked about are more similar to soul mates than twins, because i feel so safe and at home, But i keep having ego degdations when we grow apart. Is there somthing like soulmate-twin? The connection is so strong, and it feels like he is my person forever❤ How can i be sure what he is for me?

[@wearethesamenergy]

I suggest watching my videos "Ego Degradation and the Soul Family," "Twin Flames versus Karmic + Soulmate," "Twin Flames versus Soulmate," and my video coming out Wednesday

[@lostone9700]

Why are we trying to break down the ego? I mean why make something just to break it. Ugh i just dont care. Whose idea was this. Infinite incarnations?

[@wearethesamenergy]

The Ego is meant to be used as a tool, not as the main thing we live life through. It is a sense, not the driver. That's why breaking it down will help to remind us that what we see through Ego is not real

[@aanisgarten]

So if we're on the TF journey, is the highest path just to remain alone then (when in separation)? In your other video you mentioned TFs aren't necessarily "meant to be" in the 3D but here you mention that soulmates don'y really work in the longterm either (which I agree with). I guess I'm confused where this leaves us...

[@wearethesamenergy]

You are always alone anyway, even if you're with a Twin Flame, Soulmate, Karmic, etc. We are all the same made separate by how the Ego perceives 🙂

[@aanisgarten]

@@wearethesamenergy 🤯 Yep, it just clicked.

[@wearethesamenergy]

@@aanisgarten I love when that happens! 🙂

[@Heather25430]

So, how is it that he can go be with several women, travel with them. I feel EVERYTHING including seeing our souls being separated, and going through dark night of the soul after dark night of the soul every time he takes off with someone else... i stay loyal to my path, and other readers tell him i was using him for money, yet he's lied to my face, used me for my healing sexual energy and manifestated more into his life while depleting my body, energy and leaving me on the floor for almost a year each time. Yet, i was told "THE GRASS WOULD NOT BE GREENER" if i moved on? My manifestations have been blocked by "spirit, God, the Universe" Yet im the one that experiences spiritual warfare and slander. I cannot even be myself because my free spirit is judged as flirty? Especially when im in high vibration? Oh, and i cant sing or write because words are spells... WTF He rejects me, comes back plays mind games, rejects me then takes off with some other women, and i FEEL it all. Im not supposed to be upset or hurt by the way he's treated me or is treating me?

[@wearethesamenergy]

That sounds like a Karmic

[@Heather25430]

@wearethesamenergy it's my fault, I was under SO much spiritual warfare and TERRIFIED (traumatized) from the way my awakening happened that my fears manifestationed our soul being separated.( In Jan 2020.) I've realized deep down I feel like he could never love me. I feel him in my heart chakra. I apologize for the anger and resentment I had while typing the first message. (He's the only man I've ever felt energetically, and he's closed his heart with me, I can feel it)

[@wearethesamenergy]

You're allowed to be angry. You're allowed to be hurt. All of your feelings are valid. Never apologize for having feelings. They're always right because they're yours.

[@Heather25430]

@wearethesamenergy thank you, I told him in 2016, before all of the twin flame (Netflix) stuff, that our connection was different. Is there a chance our souls will reunite, or is it time for me to move on?

[@wearethesamenergy]

You need to do whatever is best for you in every aspect.

[@aanisgarten]

I have a question about what you mean by "submitting." So I recently started dating a soulmate that was magnetized into my life a few minutes after my TF and I went into separation. Couldn't you look at "submitting to the universe" as accepting that the soulmate is the path my higher self wants me to take? Isn't submitting just surrendering to the moment in front of you?

[@wearethesamenergy]

This is an excellent question. I'm in the process of writing a series of videos right now that will address this

[@aanisgarten]

you're the best, thank you!@@wearethesamenergy

[@Infinity.gaia.888]

Since tf journey I frequently feal a feeling from my earlier age that i was often feeling un seen and alone and every time when i think of him this feeling is turning around in my head. Is this normal?

[@wearethesamenergy]

YES! This has to do with the Core Karmic lesson. You can watch "The 3 Core Karmic Lessons" to understand a bit more

[@Infinity.gaia.888]

@@wearethesamenergy thanks a lot I’m gone watch💕

[@great9122]

Alexx, out of curiosity, are you in 3D/physical union with your twin? And what does that look like? Is it a romantic relationship? Sorry if you have answered this question before on your channel. Would love to know. Thank you 🎉

[@wearethesamenergy]

I am, yes. I'm actually going to do a video on this, probably in November

[@great9122]

​@wearethesamenergy awesome! Looking forward to it. 🎉

[@Goldilox1111]

What does surrending look like?

[@wearethesamenergy]

It looks different to everyone depending on what the Ego clings onto, but it's always just allowing the universe/Higher Self to take control and guide (not unlike your cooking journey)

[@lostone9700]

What on green earth is ego degradation. I swear. Where are my ruby slippers.

[@wearethesamenergy]

😂 It's what I call Spiritual Awakening. If you wanna learn more about it, I introduce it in the video "13 Ascension Symptoms" 🙏

[@ozgursenturk11-11]

9:25 Sorry but you will not have infinite incarnations because time is an illusion and having an incarnation can't happen in the so called "future" therefore they're all happening in this "eternal now" in every single sentient beings. So "You" will not incarnate in a different bodies and experience life in a multiple reincarnations because "YOU" are already doing it right now in me in your twin flame in your soulmate... As you always say "you are the universe" so it means there is nothing I meant NOTHING outside of me that can be experienced in the future or in an another body because I'm already doing it in every corner of the universe and in every milliseconds of time "right now".. welcome back to home where "I" never left. Understanding this is the key to success in TF connection because there is no connection! How can be connection if there is only ONE/ME. Before my Twin flame was I AM🙏💕❤️🫂

[@wearethesamenergy]

That is correct. Time is an illusion. But energy never gets destroyed nor created, only recycled. So when it is recycled into another Ego, that Ego perceives time as linear.

[@ozgursenturk11-11]

​@@wearethesamenergy that's right but it cannot recycle into another body in the "future" as you said. What I mean is that energy (which is ONE single energy) we are talking about is already in all possible bodies right now therefore it will not do it in the future. So we are not able to say "it's ok you choose your soulmate in this lifetime and you will have different choices in your "next" incarnation because there's no single separated soul making choices! How can it be? You always say that "you are the universe" if that is so I have already made all the decisions possible be made by the infinite universe I mean right here right now. So it turns everything we are talking here to an illusion. I mean how can I be separated from the entire universe then make decisions and change something If I'm the whole? In oneness you can not even change anything because it's already ONE. There is no others to be Twin flame or soulmate with! I mean all of these are an illusion. Anyway it was just talking to myself as we know that there's only me🙏❤️🫂

[@wearethesamenergy]

You're speaking about time as just right now, and you know that's not the case. You as the universe haven't "already made all the decisions possible," but that signifies past and a singular timeline. You're doing a beautiful job expanding your thoughts to the macro (which I love!), but the Ego's still caught in a bit of dualism. "Time" isn't all at once: it's never, always, has been, won't be, will be, past, present, future, completely false, and also flip flops around. However, imagine me attempting to give information in a 5 minute video regarding something so complex when it comes to Twin Flames. If you want the deeper elements, the entirety of my book is on this.

[@ozgursenturk11-11]

@@wearethesamenergy Thanks for your reply but who do you think wrote that book😉 much love and blessings🥰💕🫂🙏

[@magdalenawiko5158]

I don't really understand why we won't be able to "move on". This made me very sad

[@wearethesamenergy]

"Moving on" is only speaking of Ego. You always have the choice to do whatever you want.

[@magdalenawiko5158]

​@@wearethesamenergyMy great friend, my ego led me to this stupid job where I met another idiot (of course I like him, he's too similar to me). Three weeks after the meeting, I realized what was happening; the universe helped me by giving me a friend who studied philosophy. she introduced me to Plato's theories on a completely different topic. so I found out and thanks to that I read on the Internet that it doesn't end well. Relationship with TF (that's why I became a runner: someone has to, if my chaser didn't behave like a chaser, I wouldn't know for 100% that THIS was happening) even though I avoided him like the plague, I went through most of the phases of this journey. And not much has changed in me. Of course, I lost my job, although I surrendered to higher power while doing everything I could. it doesn't matter, I am very inspired by your work and message. one day I will understand.

[@BlindfoldSniper]

This is far too confusing and not really something that most twin flamers will listen to. Sorry but it's the truth. Nobody is going to care about this analysis because it too, is full of ego.

[@july713x3]

Oh Plz. these tf so called experts will have u nuts and suffering.

[@wearethesamenergy]

You should really watch my other videos if you perceive me as such

[@july713x3]

@@wearethesamenergy I am good. Not trying to be disrespectful, just over it and the whole industry that comes with it. Sorry for the snark.

[@noahalexander26]

She is incredibly educated and prolific I am a philosophy professor. This woman's knowledge and intelligence far surpasses any other spiritualist on social media. I am horrified at your lack of respect for her

[@wearethesamenergy]

@noahalexander26 Aww, you're sweet. A philosophy professor!

[@noahalexander26]

​@@wearethesamenergyit is why I only watch your videos on this topic I have not watched any tf stuff for over 5 years. They don't resonate. Then my friend sent me a link to you just 2 weeks ago. You help me understand and I have become very aware of my ego since watching and wrestling with it lol. Actually the awareness alone has given me quite a grip on it. I also am a yoga teacher and have studied with shamans etc. You speak my language because you also are spiritual and intellectual.. I just read about quantum entanglement last night.

[@jessieollinger]

This is so so beautiful. 🥰🦋🙏

[@wearethesamenergy]

🙏🙏