Choosing Between Two Girls I REALLY Liked (My Second Girlfriend!)

Have you ever liked two different girls and struggled to figure out which one was right for you? In this storytime video, I share the story of how I weighed the pros and cons of both girls, got to know them and made my decision based on the experiences I shared with each of them.
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[@TheJoshSpeaks]

QUESTION: Did I make the right choice? Have you ever had to choose between two people that you like? Leave your comments below!

[@Ben_Starlord]

Btw I'm back on to help and talk 😉

[@ronwellnagales2140]

The Josh Speaks Um have you seen my comment in one of your videos?

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey Ronwell, I'm not sure but maybe? I try to read through all the comments on the videos but sometimes I miss some. What was your comment exactly?

[@ronwellnagales2140]

Josh. I had a crush on someone from my high school who's like sophomore and I'm senior. I had a crush on her since I'm junior last year and she's freshman last year. But I'm too scared to ask because she has a boyfriend OUTSIDE of my school! So what should I do? I am like "darn it!".

[@michaelmccarthy9342]

The Josh Speaks I am currently going through this problem. I am currently in high school. I have met a girl in which i really liked in summer, but one day when i had a meet for track and field, i was alone with another teamate in which was a girl. She was really cool. We talked, walked, and sat around a school in which we really didn't know. The next day was valentines and i had sent a rose to the first girl i met in summer before i ever knew about the second girl. Also i have noticed that the two girls were best friends. I really don't know what to do. This situation is really crazy for me and i really don't know who i should lean to more.

[@Kinsey_]

If I like 2 girls, chose the 2nd one u liked, because, if u loved the first one, u would of not fallen for the 2nd one

[@mariarose3563]

True

[@smithywergeryeagermanjense2745]

OverlordKinsey Words of wisdom

[@Agent.K.]

OverlordKinsey Makes sense...

[@chrollo4836]

OverlordKinsey yooooooo(mindblown)

[@TruDis01]

Not always true. Because you can love one girl, and lust for another at the same time

[@Shada04]

I met these 2 girls at the same time pretty much. flirted with them both and now they both like me😳 um help

[@kexno_2741]

SAME😭😭

[@JAL...]

Me too😱😱

[@robdillinger3112]

They both know girls share this shit. Just choose the prettiest one.

[@milesolding869]

yankee

[@milesolding869]

how much cap u coming out with

[@PeachyLiv]

OMG THIS VIDEO IS SUCH A PERFECT TIMING!! You are such a life saver Josh, Thank you Thank you Thank youu so much😭😭🙏🏻

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Thanks! I'm happy it was helpful!

[@PeachyLiv]

Can you reply to my other comment? I really need your help and opinion on my case :)

[@milesolding869]

how many caps u wearing rn?

[@johnsamuel6080]

I left one that i was dating for another. My ex was broken, i mean god-level broken. In my absence, people started taking advantage of her. She started doing silly stuffs all because of me. The kind of person she is today, i feel responsible. And for the guilt i feel, i don't think i will ever forgive myself.

[@robotone2812]

That's sad, bro. I feel ya. But you are not responsible for how she behaves. She alone chooses her attitude and behaviour, no matter how guilty you may feel.

[@johnsamuel6080]

@@robotone2812 I agree with you. Thanks for taking your time to advise me.

[@darksoul7675]

Dang Josh I wish I was good with the ladies like you are. ;~; I think you really made the right choice though.

[@lanewright7341]

Currently going through this. One girl is long distance and dumped me when I went to visit and then decided she wanted me. The other is local and is super sweet. Driving me nuts

[@snuzario]

im running through the same problem, but as of now i think the local is always the best choice because long-distance relationships are just too mentally distressing like you cant hang out as often, you are overthinking if shes cheating etc etc so maybe just never start long-distance relationships at all

[@PeachyLiv]

Hi Josh, I have a question. I'm a new girl at my school, since the first day, i like this shy guy in my class. He's really smart, talented, sweet, and doesn't talk to girls much. Which is btw my dream guy. But we were both shy so neither of us makes any move so I thought he didn't like or even notice me. Then, I met this bad boy. He's adventurous, gets into trouble a lot, hangs out with trouble-makers, but he's really funny and he makes me laugh non-stop. This bad boy gives me the thrill & that is something completely new to me. I felt something but I ignored the feeling for the bad boy. Months later the good guy I like DM'd me & we started talking & soon we became friends with benefits but I still have feelings for the bad boy.. because I feel like the good guy was too boring. Then my friend told me that the bad boy secretly likes me too & keep dropping hints. So then I told my friend to tell him I like him too. But a week had passed and he never makes any move. Is that because the bad boy saw me always hanging around the good guy or is it because he's just not interested enough to actually make a move? Am I not-worth his time or something? What should I do?

[@mariarose3563]

The good guy seemed too boring but his your dream guy. The bad guy makes you feel new to you and thrilling but doesn't make any move. . But what I think you should keep your option open. Talk to more people. And if they don't want to make the first move, then be the first move. If you truly like one of them then why don't you take a risk? I mean that's how love is right? Its like gambling. You could either lose or win. Take a risk, be the first move and prepare for future.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Hey, sounds like you may be interested in the bad boy a little bit more here so I would try doing what Maria Rose said in making the first move. Try talking to him initially for asking him to hang out maybe during lunch or after school if you can. Try to also be mindful of the activities he is involved, if he is doing some really bad stuff that could get him or you in trouble then I would probably stay away from him. Remember, no boy is worth getting in trouble over.

[@PeachyLiv]

Okay, thank you so much Josh and you too Maria😊

[@geneticgamer51]

honestly i wouldnt go with the bad boy

[@nkatekomhlari]

I’m in that situation right now, I can relate to your story.

[@daltonpavesi3009]

same here lol

[@GioLindsay-ks3ol]

Same here 2

[@kaileybrown7496]

Currently dealing with my EX boyfriend who cheated on me... because either was "never around" and I hang out with my BFF "Way too much"

[@kaileybrown7496]

DestructionCentral - Yep I liked him too much 😭

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I'm really sorry to hear that, it sounds like the best thing to do is to let him go in any way that you can. Communication is how you work through issues, not cheating.

[@colton8331]

Kailey Brown Wow, what a dick

[@triciam6765]

Sounds like the first girl, like you said, you were primarily physically attracted to. You even mentioned a few nasty personality traits she had, like being mean to others. I can't imagine someone like yourself wanting someone like that in your life, so I say just forget about her. The second girl, she's now eight hours away most of the year. I don't think you dated her long enough to conclude that you should stop meeting and dating others because of this girl. Do both of yourselves a favor, and agree that you can each date other people while you're eight hours apart, and then keep your options open when she returns. It definitely sounds like you need a girl who pursues you, and kind-of takes control. And that's fine, if that's what works for you. I have a friend who pursued her current husband while they were dating. She is very outgoing, charming and personable, and her now-husband was very shy, so it was a match made in heaven. They are very happy together. When you meet a girl who's really a great match for you, they'll be no question in your mind that you'll want that girl and no one else. Good Luck.

[@firstlast9813]

I have 2 "confirmed" girls that like me. I told them it's odd for me that multiple girls admit their feelings in the same week and that I don't want to let any of them down. For some reason, that didn't phase them. They are amazing in their own ways. Here's the breakdown. I'm Christian. I've been waiting for marriage my whole life. I'm building myself to be a husband one day. I'm looking for someone who is built to be a wife. I'm 26. They are both wife material. 21 and 23 respectively. Girl 1: I'm the first guy she's ever even HELD HANDS with. SCORE! She is EXTREMELY submissive. VERY attentive Is honorable Extremely trainable (like, if I say "Make me a sandwich, woman" in a rude tone as a JOKE, she'll do it without hesitation. And isn't malicious in any way. It's kinda concerning. She is a REAL GEM) She's enfactuated with me in both a romantic sense and overall. She actually tells me every day. Talented. Plays violen, taught herself to read korean, and went to school for linguistics. EXTREMELY smart. I'm in school for engineering, so it's a breath of fresh air to have someone I can talk to without feeling overbearing. She's not in any science field but LOVES learning and teaching. Nerd gang. Has odd eating habits Has low confidnece but she's come a long way since I've been breaking her out of her shell. Work ethic: She stops when she's finished. Not when she's tired. Looks: 6/10 (with a little TLC she's an 8.5/10. She could actually be a model if she worked towards it and I make sure to tell her and she gives me feedback on what she wants to improve) Always smells nice bc she is crazy about scents and different scent profiles. GOT ME EXPENSIVE COLOGNE FOR NO OTHER REASON THAN TO SEE ME HAPPY. Girl 2: Tiny. She's 5' 3" and melts every day she sees me. Even when I speak with her, she BLUSHES or gets lost looking at me. Very easy to make laugh. Honestly, I've never heard someone her age with a laugh that adorable. BIG on serving her man. She WANTS to take care of whoever she's with and only wants love and attention in return. She's been BROKEN in life, starting at a young age. She latches on bc she didn't get a lot. See's me as the prince of her dreams. EXTREMELY TALENTED COOK. Even brings plates of food to her job for me to drop by and pick up. Very funny with a lot of patience. Has a sharp edge that we've been working on dulling down. It's caused by triggers. Thankfully she doesn't have a lot. Has a little bit of a past. She claims to be straight but after getting ra*ed, and losing her V, she switched teams and realized it wasn't her cup of tea. Had 4 guys since. (I don't like any of that but we all come from somewhere) Allegedly can do a lot with cars. Not as smart, but is extremely accomidating and chill. Softspoken but has a voice (if that makes sense) Looks: 6.5/10 (With a little TLC can be an 8.5) Summary Breakdown: I am taken ABACK right now. So far I put up a list of requirements that the average person would see as unreasonable, and they are BOTH killing it. We have independant Bible studies, conversations, and they have been changing their lives around. AND it's not just to please me. They do it an see the effects in their lives and sincerly thank me for it. I just tell them to thank Jesus bc I'm nothing more than a person. I've been praying for a wife and this is... man. I made it clear to both of them independantly NOT to accept nonsense from me. For example, even though they KNOW I am the head of the relationship, they are to honor God more than me. That even means no polygamy. I can't go down this road forever. I haven't made anything official with either of them. They aren't talking to any other guys, and are very amazing girls. Do you guys have any tips? I'm still praying about this. Edit: I have asked them about their stance on polygamy and were in a realm where they don't want to, but not because they see that as cheating. It's because they wouldn't know how to feel about it or what to do. They said it would take a lot of positive reinforcement for them to grow into it. Even if I convinced them and went against my beliefs, my parent's would do their best to destroy that. They see me as the most moral child. If they see me going against God, they'll be dirctly involved for my betterment. As their son, I'm not entirely against that. I don't want to succumb to the burning of my lusts as is stated in Romans 1. Matthew 5 says that if I cause any of the little ones to stumble than God's wrath will be greater than that of me being drowned with a millstone around my neck. Do I dismiss them both? Do I choose girl 1 or girl 2? Do I choose both and keep it to myself?

[@cringiestguy7721]

Hey josh, i have a girlfriend at the moment i really like her she is kinda shy and a good person overall but i knew her from the previous girl i liked and now its been one month that she is my girlfriend and im not feeling with the intensity i used to and im starting getting thoughs that i should try and go back to the orther girl but from another point of view i wasnt so corageous about the orther girl and ended up not making a move and she started to talk to another dude that ended up thinking he wasnt the best option and now from time to time there's a though that makes me think if i did the right choice, i felt that the other girl was kinda bitchy and tbh i liked it and she had a lot more confidence, played lol with me and watches anime that's something that my girlfriend doesnt do, and sometimes i see me thinking that i choose this girlfriend because at some point i wasnt really an option for the first girl and i kinda saw the first girl in my girlfriend from another pov i really like my girlfriend and when i think of breaking with her and try my luck with the first girl i feel bad because she would be sad and depressed and that things would go wrong with the first girl and i would lose what i have with my girlfriend, i also feel really bad that im kinda putting my girlfriend on a 2nd option but sometimes i feel like if i knew the first girl liked me i would leave my actual girlfriend and go to her. Also they know each other and we all belong to a group of friends in common wich the first girl doesnt really appears that much and the first girl was actually the one that "set" me with my girlfriend . Help

[@wolfsbanemk]

CRINGIEST GUY I can’t relate with you anymore man, I feel what you’re feeling

[@CarlosHernandez-uj8vo]

CRINGIEST GUY it’s been 3 years I need to know what happened I’m in that boat right now

[@UFC16]

I knew it was the second girl when she wanted 1 on 1 time. She is the one man! I’m in a similar predicament with a younger girl and a more experienced girl and I like them both l 😅

[@cheedis6544]

Can you make a video on how to deal with having a girl in high school that likes you and you like them but you can't really talk to each other in person a lot. This is a situation me and this girl are in and I really need help with this and we don't really know what to do. It would mean a lot if you could help me with this

[@AshtonBruno_2313]

0:32 insert F.R.I.E.N.D.S theme here

[@TruDis01]

I'll bet those 2 girls love this video

[@markjmr4506]

Not 2 but m stuck on 3 grls they love me I like 3 of them as well but I can't choose the right one to love please help me out !!

[@ethanpfeiffer7403]

Thank you so much for making this video. It's helping me try to understand which girl I like more, but I still an indecisive. I don't know if there's a topic that can be covered to make my decision solid, but this also answers the question of what may happen when I decide which one I want to date.

[@jomama3515]

i like these 2 girls so much and i wanna tell them that i like them and explain what’s going on and yea idk what to do and i’m scared. i like both of them and the thing is they are friends hahah

[@TheBlackyoshi95]

I swear every time I have something for relationships that I need help with he makes a vid about it 3 days latr

[@kdrew257]

Gj Josh this vid is really helpful 😀

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

thanks!

[@TheGamingSquad]

Some girl like literally somehow pressured me to tell her that I liked her (which I do) but I like this other girl like a little bit more

[@mryoso22]

This is a huge problem to me can anyone give opinion please so the first girl rejected me, so it caused me to meet this new girl then this new girl rejected me too but now it seems they are both into me now.. what should i do.. i both like them.. and they are both kind..

[@mr.middlefid2829]

thanks i got the 2nd girl

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

awesome to hear that

[@ShawnTheDriver]

I've been binge watching your videos for the past hour or so, and I've got to say, you're probably the best channel I've ever subscribed to, man. You're really helpful. I'm trying to ask this girl out at my job, and I was really nervous about doing so and I was trying to figure out what to say. Finally, after watching your 3 second rule video, I was like you know what, this morning I'm just gonna freaking go up to her. And of course, she doesn't work today. 😂 What luck.

[@eczotiik]

I love 2 girls. If I go for one, I won’t be able to live with myself knowing the other one will always be in the back of my mind. What should I do?

[@thighssancamel8653]

That's the situation I'm in. I've been on a drought for a long period of time then All of a sudden 2 good ones appear within the same week wtf

[@pacdeezy]

@@thighssancamel8653 bruh fr

[@jacksondhruba3420]

Plz make a video in 'what to do n whom to choose if two girls love you n u love them 2' plz man

[@jacobgilpin9897]

Hey josh....what do I do if I am dating someone but I really like someone else

[@JAL...]

Shit thank you. I was playing truth or dare and she asked me between her and her friend which I like bother. I dont wanna pick bc one of them will get jealous. And maybe tear there friendshio

[@JAL...]

Like literally as of RN we are playing it

[@_jellyjam4200]

This is b.s.😒 not the video😂But I had experience. I'm one of the girls.

[@atanusleaflet007]

i have been a relationship for 4 years and my girfriend have been reading in place that is 10 hours of travel of me and that time i meet another girl who deeply fall in love with me both are too good and i became serious for both,,,,, first girl talking less because of me and second girl giving her 200% to me if i ignore her she never be angry and loves too much . she become also very serious for me . what should i do please help !! i know that everything is my fault but i can not get over anyone what should i do now please help me !!!!

[@boeingfan2479]

I have a solution: If there are two girls you like, just have a three-way.

[@connormoir1695]

tried that they both left

[@mynameis890]

unless you can honestly see either one being a wife you did it right. just keep hooking up with the first girl while girl 2 is 8 hours away. just make sure you and girl one are on the same page that girl two is your gf and she wont interfere with that relationship and you and her are not a couple. you may change your mind and decide girl two isn't for you. or neither is for you. best to keep your options open though. who knows maybe you will meet a girl 3 and loose all interest in the other two. but in the mean time get all you can. you can even be honest with them and let them know you aren't trying to be exclusive. if they really like you they will be happy to stay in limbo, just realize that they are also most likely going to play the field as well. so if you find one you know is the right one lock them down asap. and quit fuckin around

[@baboucarrjatta8660]

a girl that i dont talk to...(but admire from a distance) is really cute, smart, and pretty but....i dont know how to approach her... i want to just go up and say hey! whats uour snap chat ...but a rumor has gone around saying i like her ......im not the best looking of guys but i have personality how do i show her it though?

[@danieltree8244]

hw about if u cant choice ? like it is all hard they both are good.

[@geneticgamer51]

you made the right choice by choosing the person that called to you more

[@brandon_otb]

here's another great video from josh

[@sagarxhyetri6761]

help me 🙏😭 i have 2 girl who really love me 1st one really understand me n 2nd one really love me 1st one 4 years n 2nd one 2 years Bth of them are crazy n i have to choose one plz help me 😩

[@brandansimpson3915]

Sagar xhyetri id probably recommend the first one since I’m kinda in the situation and I believe u should go for the one u link with since it’ll be better in the long run but I don’t really know what else will help without more content

[@sagarxhyetri6761]

@@brandansimpson3915 thanks for the suggestion bro i am going through n i also think same hope that work out 🏋🚴💪

[@jordanbatka033]

Definitely the girl that empowers and challenged you, or else just hook up

[@kemperevers2664]

I started flirting with 2 girls at the same time and one likes me but there's one im not sure does and idk which one to pick

[@mysterymanyo]

same man, so what did you finally do?

[@rubyfrempong1053]

no

[@churchilltule3834]

Josh please answer me am in a really bad situation and I need advice pleassss

[@ryanfuller2975]

i have a question what if the girl u have a crush on lives in another state and you only see her in the summer

[@mariarose3563]

I think Keep your communication active. If she has a phone or any social media that you two can talk each other then get to know her better. Cause if you only see her in summer and you have like 9-10 months that don't even see each other. Cause what if you found someone else??? Just keep your option open. There's a lot more days, months and years to come. And if you truly likes her, then show her that you like her. And if she likes you too then that's great, but if she don't, then move on.

[@ryanfuller2975]

Maria Rose thx and no phone or social media btw ive known her since forever and i keep my options open but shes the only one i have ever felt this way with anyone but thx for your comment

[@jessemagallon2461]

I messed up with my crush that I liked a lot but my friends ruined it by telling her every time they could.

[@mariarose3563]

I swear! I hate when that happen

[@jessemagallon2461]

Maria Rose yeah but I think I can fix it with her

[@abhrodas9177]

what should I do when I know that my crush is in a relationship with some other guy.......

[@sigglass2183]

It really distracts me when girls around my age show off their body especially and I can sense their personality of being nice and smiling. Also if their stomach shows, it really attracts my attention. Even their face and their smiles may look alike. It gets really awkward when I may like a girl for once second then on to another girl. How can I carefully decide which girl to like?

[@sebastianwrumnig7119]

ayy man I'm going through pretty much the same and I'm having a really hard time

[@amigo5589]

Damn, everybody put here suffering from success huh

[@kamdenearls4949]

Josh thanks to you I'm making serious progress with a girl!👍

[@abhrodas9177]

what should I do when I know that my crush is in a relationship with some other guy.......

[@mariarose3563]

Abhro Das//: Move on. You got to respect and accept that your crush already with someone. I know its sucks that your crush already with someone but you got to deal with it. Move on.

[@Sportsman391]

This is hard im 9 and two girls like me😂

[@RileyGoss99]

Situation I’m in 😂

[@rajdeeproy1943]

i actually love a girl...but another girl loves me..nd i like her too but i dont know what should i do. .plz brother i need some suggestion

[@kianamatos7768]

instructions not clear, im now in jail

[@deeelshehaby8713]

Ayee

[@TheGoatGolfs]

Hey josh could you help me out pal

[@john_4984]

He looks like white Obama

[@matthewberezowski2870]

I asked on your last video like this, I just really need help with it, and I also wanna know the best way to let the other girls down. If you want I can just copy and paste my comment explaining the situation from the last video if u would be willing to try and help me.

[@BriannaBobadilla]

First

[@Ben_Starlord]

Brianna M GJ👍🏽👍🏽

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

Awesome, good stuff!

[@untamedkingdom6541]

The Josh Speaks I got a girls number and she knows I want to date her and it's spring break what should I do

[@untamedkingdom6541]

and she is super gigily around me

[@canaandonaldson7088]

ask her out dude

[@Ben_Starlord]

I feel exactly what you feel Josh

[@Ben_Starlord]

Except I never made out with mine😒 nor do I

[@Ori024]

Yea cuz they say if ur torn go with the 2nd choice bc if u loved or liked the 1st there wld be np 2nd🤷

[@kinggrizzly1916]

I started talking to these two girls at the same time and the both really like me now and there best fucking friends... kill me, and I’m on the spot rn on who I choose bruh literally the hardest decision, they’re both good looking and both really good people, and both of them have a lot in common with me I’m gonna kill my self I swear

[@mannycutit1264]

Bro i have three

[@BLACKstar-yy3vw]

I'm screwed 😔 your story is exactly like my story but I did the opposite I felt like I'm not worthy of my girlfriend's love(2nd girl) because that girl(1st girl) i liked back then no matter what i did just keeps getting in to my mind😶 saw I brokeup with my girlfriend(2nd girl) and thought I would date that girl(1st girl) But after I brokeup with my girlfriend (2nd girl) I totally lost the interest that I had to that girl(1st girl) Saw I just stopped dating anyone for like a year now I'm planning to ask that girl out(1st girl) but she is far away wright now saw I can't make a move At the same time my ex girlfriend (2nd girl) keeps coming after me saying that she can't forgot me 😪 Oooohhhhh 😔😔 this is such a mess 🤕🤕 what should I do ??? I like that girl (1st girl) saw much but it's verry painful to watch my ex girlfriend (2nd girl ) suffer because of me 😑😑 Any one If you have any solution plzz let me know

[@hotmessmissy]

Hahah youre a bit of a dork but i love your story. Are you still with that girl??

[@thealphamale415]

Dear josh, My name’s raf. I think, and it my opinion, but u should have went with the 1st girl just because the second girl lied to u and she could’ve lied to you again.

[@thomasstevenson2641]

I have a problem I really like this girl but she isnt allowed to my town coz people say its a bad but I like it and I dont get much money to go around ps im pretty early teens any advice would be nice 👍

[@Thiccolas-tn1qg]

I am in love with a girl who doesn't want to date me, she has helped me through so much, I think I fucked things up so bad by being honest about my feelings, I don't know if i can get by without her, I feel so lost and sad, I want to die and I don't know how to live now.

[@iyanarodriques1820]

My boyfriend is in this situation what should he do help me plz

[@thighssancamel8653]

Wtf does this even mean lol

[@bothevanbro1898]

I'm actually one of the girls in this story essentially I waited too long to make my move so she started talking to this other guy now she has to choose

[@thegreatmohau288]

I think you made the right choice bro. I got two girls, which I really like. The other one is too noisy and the other one is just cool and I like that. I'm a quiet guy myself; which one do you think I should pursue?

[@sayedsayed8766]

Ahahah thinking I have a choice between 2 girls xD. no chance.

[@abhrodas9177]

what should I do when I know that my crush is in a relationship with some other guy.......

[@thiccasour88]

Bro if she ever went to my house more then 3 times im asking bro

[@kevinamoroso5834]

just wondering, does this have anything to do with our dm?

[@Ben_Starlord]

Breeezy "DM"? Define DM

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

No, the topic wasn't reflective of that. It was a story from my life I wanted to share but if it's helpful to the thing we talked about then that's good!

[@mariarose3563]

By the way, Dm means direct message. Just saying 😁

[@Nazgulorton]

Love that intro haha Hey Playa

[@clayton8or]

Trying to deal with the opposite right now, a complete lack of options. My school is relatively small overall, and has an extremely small highschool section- 9th grade has a relatively small 40 or so, and 10th grade (mine) is dwindling with only 15, 9 girls and 6 guys. We are likely not going to have any newcomers next year and may even lose a few. The guys and girls are almost completely mutually separated, and Theres only 2 girls i like in any way. While 1 of them is currently in a "relationship" (though she told me before that she wishes it would end, but cannot do so as her boyfriend is nearly suicidal) and the other i just never really talk to or have the ability to do so (though there was 1 time i heard a statement from her friend "wow you really need a boyfriend" with a reply agreeing.) The biggest problem is the fact that i know barely anyone from outside there, and dont really know how i would go about doing that.. College is really my last semi-natural opportunity...

[@xxsuperkittyxx751]

clayton8or_2 I just love ur profile 😂

[@dr.pikachu7518]

I want you josh

[@trevonmckinley8172]

Perfect choice in the long run it makes sense to do that.

[@fern4real733]

If would've chosen the 1st girl.

[@aavoionlaurent9520]

Hey josh can you do a video of how to get out of hard situations

[@joesmith5104]

Hey Josh, I know this is irrelevant to this video but I really need to talk about my situation, and just talk to someone in general. Basically, I'm a 12 year old in middle school and I like this girl a lot. She likes me also, and so I decided to ask her out. Long story short, she said no because she feels that she's too young. I know that she doesn't owe me anything and I shouldn't me mad, but these past few days I've been just crying a lot and being completely heartbroken. If you could take the time out of your day and read this, I would appreciate it so much. Thanks!

[@mariarose3563]

hey I know I'm not josh and your expecting him to say something but anyway, you should understand that. She says no because she believe that's too young for her to go out with someone else. and you should accept that. you know what you should do? Study.

[@siahtri643]

Is that what we call it now? "Liquid Courage."

[@aavoionlaurent9520]

Hey Josh i need help with my life and choices

[@abhrodas9177]

what should I do when I know that my crush is in a relationship with some other guy.......

[@monkizaki1440]

Move on.

[@trevonmckinley8172]

This is literally exactly the same situation I'm in.

[@jonathanrolle5118]

Awesome video man as always 👍

[@cryptedanbu5611]

I really need your help josh. This girl (my crush) keeps sending me stuff on social media like "goodnight", "good morning" or "how was your day?" But when ever I ask her to hangout she completely ignores the snap. We barley talk, I wish we did but I'm a very shy person and I don't know how to start a conversation. Please help!

[@Ben_Starlord]

Deluxinic hey man no need to get scared, and all you need to do is actually talk to her in person. If you truly like her and she does to you, she'll answer right there in front of you. And tip one try to look at her eyes. If her eyes look different from what she really looks then you'll catch something.

[@untamedkingdom6541]

Ben_ Starlord start talking to more friendly people to get more friends so u rise your self-esteem to talk to her

[@mariarose3563]

How to start a conversation, does a little bit hard. But if having troubles to talk to her maybe try to talk other people. It actually helps and improve your communication. Believe in yourself and do it! Anyways, to start a conversation, what I always do is - try to find something that both of you find in common and talk about that and eventually the conversation starts to work.

[@Ben_Starlord]

OMG THIS IS HAPPENING RIGHT NOW!!! HOW DO I CHOOSE WHO?!?!?!

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

I think the best thing to do is to spend time with both of them, get to know them better and see how you connect with each one.

[@Ben_Starlord]

The Josh Speaks thing is, is that I already know one of them truly well. But the other I'm hangout with. My problem is that one of them just responds to my text and calls and talks friendly while the other hugs and holds me side by side and acts weird around me. Or one talks the other loves(and is pretty crazy)

[@mariarose3563]

Ben_ Starlord//: I agree With Josh, and that I also want to add that - What I think you should do is compare those two and crossed out the things that have both in common then try to understand how they're different. and Notice how each girl makes you feel about yourself. Like For example this Girl A makes you feel strong, and worthy, while the Girl B makes you feel like a stranger to yourself. And or This Girl A, makes you feel happy and carefree, while the girl B only stresses you out. Look for the changes in your own personality when you spend time with each of these girls.

[@will3531]

I don't have these problems.. I have a BIGGER problem.. I have a crush on two girls who are sisters ... this is a problem.. I am in 9th grade, and one sister is a year younger than me, and the other one is 3 years under me.. plz help!

[@8MJfan8]

Veste Gamez My personal opinion. Stop worrying about dating. You're what, 14? Don't grow up too fast, but the best of luck to you.

[@BPetty1236]

Ok Josh. I got over the previous girl I liked but now there is a girl that likes me. However, I want to give a chance. What do I do to do that?

[@Ben_Starlord]

DestructionCentral - what do you feel for the girl you really like?

[@BPetty1236]

Ben_ Starlord Nothing anymore. My best friends helped me get over her. We are still friends but nothing like love.

[@Ben_Starlord]

DestructionCentral - Sorry to say this but she's not yours. I loved mine and you know what happened? She hasn't talk to me and I haven't to her. She likes someone else and I'm here dying in my soul but you know what I still stand unbroken no matter what she's been doing behind my back or anything else, I stand strong

[@Ben_Starlord]

DestructionCentral - Sorry bro but you need to stand strong. You can still like her but don't feel her. One touch and your body shatters. Care but don't love

[@BPetty1236]

Ben_ Starlord i mean... I like her as a friend... but nothing more

[@GRAFFITIHALL]

i. Have. Never. needed. this. more. than. now.

[@TheJoshSpeaks]

haha what's your situation?

[@GRAFFITIHALL]

The Josh Speaks Me and this girl dated about a year ago, now me and her best friend are going places but she doesn't want to date me cause im still kinda hooked on the first girl

[@jorgethepute3989]

The first girl is cool I can truly be myself and it’s nice but she has no goals .. the 2nd girl makes me want to improve myself and change for the better .. she also has really high goals and is fulfilling them .

[@robotone2812]

Same here. What did you do in the end?

[@David_K_]

Exact same situation here. What did you wind up doing?

[@nickegofficial]

@@David_K_ creator of post never respponded but im curious if either of you made a decision and what it is you chose?