How to pursue someone romantically the way God desires you to. full sermon: • Christ-Centered Relati... amenpodcast.com
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@TalkaboutChrist17 күн бұрын
Don’t forget, you have to find yourself through God before you go looking for a wife or husband. Be the person you would want to spend your entire life with.
@hebrewrld17 күн бұрын
Amen but it’s honestly all up to God and His mysterious ways. It’s always his timing. My wife and I met before we were believers and Jesus changed our lives YEARS later. 2 separate encounters.. sometimes it happens when we least expect
@ZombieRofl16 күн бұрын
The truth has been spoken.
@Kryille15 күн бұрын
yup. If you're not a godly man or woman, why would God entrust one of His sons or daughters to you?
@sylenx0214 күн бұрын
@@hebrewrldthat’s badass bro amen✝️
@marcusstarkweather924013 күн бұрын
@@Kryillebecause god loves us all no matter if we turn our backs on him or not. Me and my girlfriend turned our backs on god before we met and through our trials and tribulations we have found our way back to him as a unit on our own as individuals but also at the same time. Very weird but very blessed to have been forgiven and to be able to repent to do better is a great honor that i have been bestowed
@JoshMitchell11612 күн бұрын
"If he is unwilling to cross this boundary, that means the boundary of our marriage he will not cross." 💎💎💎
@RuthLovesJesus7 күн бұрын
Self control 🙏🏾
@Loveit456 күн бұрын
this the one
@Biancamarton1Күн бұрын
so good
@hakayi913010 күн бұрын
This gives language to what Holy Spirit has been talking to me about. It seems like both genders see each other as either a dating pool to explore romantically or a stumbling block to stay away from. We need to learn to socialize in church as brothers and sisters in Christ before starting to identify each other as future mates. Not everyone we interact with from the opposite gender is a potential mate. Others God sent our way to purely be our friends. May God help us❤
@maddybrown232014 күн бұрын
*Courting not dating. We are called to a higher standard.
@cobrabosse8 күн бұрын
Both are cultural and aren’t biblical laws. So it doesn’t matter. Also there is virtually no difference between them other than a few extra steps
@Momonga327 күн бұрын
Courting means you have marriage in mind, dating not so much@@cobrabosse
@Hanessy7 күн бұрын
@@cobrabosse I'd like to add to that context: we're also called to let Jesus redeem and transform whatever cultural processes we take part in. I assume that's what the original commenter meant by "higher standard"
@jamesmccraw72457 күн бұрын
What's the difference between courting or dating in your opinion?
@BillyOnYouTube7 күн бұрын
@@jamesmccraw7245 Usually, when secular people say "dating," what that means is an exclusive relationship between two people who regularly have sex. Courting is more focused with the goal of marriage under the blessing of the Lord.
@pelotongirl3 күн бұрын
There’s something here. . . And I would add a caution that communicating “I want to be your friend” when you know you like someone and are interested in a “friend in a relationship” is very kind. Just telling a woman that you want to be friends with her knowing that you like her in a non-platonic way is confusing and NOT clear. I don’t know who said it, but clarity is kindness. Why not just let a woman know I’m interested in getting to know you. Getting to know you doesn’t mean I want to have sex with you. If you tell me you want to be my friend, I’m like cool. We can be friends but I’m going to keep meeting other people who might want to be more than friends some day. I’m not rushing out to sleep with them, but at least a man who tells me I’m interested in you gets a gold star for being real. “Friends” between two people who meet in a non-platonic context and then get a “let’s be friends” is a nice “I’m not interested in you” message. Just my interpretation . . . And I add for context that I know and 1000% agree that friendship is paramount to a successful long term relationship.
@r.walker798612 күн бұрын
A friend is a friend and while a lover is also a friend, it's not the same kind of "friend" as a friend. It's not wise to not have boundaries between the two. If there is actual romantic-level physical attraction between you then you should not be friends at all because it will always be a threat to you actual relationships. People know when they like a person "like that" and it's best to never put them in a friends place, it can create a lot of unnecessary confusion and crossed signals and heartbreak for no reason. Be a man or a woman and just ask the person out and get to know them with intention.
@NarutoUzumaki-xg9et10 күн бұрын
Exactly. This is why I despise this kind of advice. This, sanitized, conformist, gummy bear christianity that is influenced by the world rather than the other way around. This probably came from a well-meaning place but it causes extreme damage. I know because I was harmed by applying it until I actually read my bible and understood its message concerning these matters.
@Da-Iceman.10 күн бұрын
@@NarutoUzumaki-xg9et What scripture did you read concerning that?
@NarutoUzumaki-xg9et10 күн бұрын
@@Da-Iceman. If you look at the old testament and saw how the saints came across their women, you’d see that the whole “make sure you’re a friend before making her your gf/fiance/wife thing doesn’t work” Especially if you look at the analogy of Christ relationship with us (The Church) which mirrors husband and wife. I’d within the 60 books, reading the old testament story of Isaac and how he found his wife is a good example. Furthermore, read the testament of Ruben, a book that was taken out of our modern bibles, that’s probably the clearest scripture on that matter
@uchenduhomes2 күн бұрын
I couldn’t agree with you more! Well said. The advice given on this video does more harm than good
@bobivenablezКүн бұрын
Dont think your comment really contradicts his advice.. hes talking about being upfront and honest about your intentions, but prioritising building the base of the relationship as a friendship. Therefore the criticism of “confusion, crossed signals and heartbreak” doesnt apply.
@lombechewemukulu376715 күн бұрын
biggest take away; I WANT NOTHING FROM YOU. I GOTTA DEAL WITH MY SELFISHNESS
@LifeWithEm9713 күн бұрын
this is so beautiful. love to see men thinking like this.
@LifeWithEm9712 күн бұрын
@LerzMerz ya
@abrightguy50815 күн бұрын
Alex always posting something that calls me out right when I need it
@anastazjamalczyk768314 күн бұрын
Oh this is so beautiful. I'm nearly 29, never been in a relationship, never really even desired one until recently. I'm at a point when I don't have close friends, let alone anything close to a romantic relationship and my heart is yearning for deep connection and companionship. How can I change that? I often cry myself to sleep because of the loneliness..
@lilpump88014 күн бұрын
I hope you may have not been scared in your past to just put yourself out there. But look to the lord for guidance and trust him. No one is perfect and we all have to learn lessons along the way it’s all for his glory. But nonetheless just put yourself out there it’s the only way and let god take care of the rest but use your discernment to make the right decision.
@anastazjamalczyk768314 күн бұрын
@@lilpump880 thanks! Actually I suffered from deep depression and anxiety for years (late teens up to mid 20s) which made me self-isolate for the most part. But I've been wanting to change that for quite some time now, but I'm not looking for shallow relationships but ones based on deep connection, vulnerability and trust. Recently I got briefly involved with a guy who's not a Christian (wasn't planning to, just happened), and I ended up brokenhearted, though I know it's for the best. I don't even know where to meet people (Christian men and women more less my age who are genuine Jesus followers). In my church fellowship they're middle aged and married (almost) or kids.
@conniek103913 күн бұрын
Can you get plugged in to community groups at your church/find a new church with a younger population? It’s been super helpful for me in finding friends recently since I moved somewhere new
@bkqj199712 күн бұрын
Ask God for a companion to come into your life and truly believe they will as God is infinite and can bring anything into your life that you ask. "Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you. For every one that asketh receiveth; and the person that seeketh findeth; and to them that knocketh it shall be opened." - Matthew 7:7-8 "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours." - Mark 11:24
@helloitsjules12 күн бұрын
Its okay to ask for a partner but just make sure you don’t fall into lust or sexual immorality. That is why it is important for you to work on your relationship with God first. And go with a partner who is also a Christian, choose a godly relationship over a worldly relationship.
@jorgecastillo239110 күн бұрын
Loved that part about boundaries and how if we can trust each other and ourselves to set those boundaries before marriage, we can trust each other with the boundaries that come with marriage
@maryanak3205 күн бұрын
Not always. Some people you will always accept as friends, but if there is no so called "chemistry" - no way that it will be marriage.
@strawberrystin12 күн бұрын
i wish i knew this before my first three relationships but i wasnt following Christ then. But this is truly the best way to build trust with someone and see them as a bestfriend first, and then as a lover.
@themilkaint4free17 күн бұрын
Holy Spirit has been downloading this to me as well. Whenever we meet someone, the foundation should just be "GETTING TO KNOW" the person to determine IF they are a true brother or sister in Christ and a worthy friend. Once enough time and experience have shown the 'FRUITS of a true genuine friend, then one can decide if this person someone that's a godly spouse material and then next if the person is The Spouse for you> And contrary to popular opinion: THE FIRST KISS should be after the "I Do." The Bible Commands that we treat each other as SISTERS and BROTHERS in purity...no sampling...because that person could be someone else's husband or wife and you two may never make it out of "the get to know stage" or Friendship stage" or Courtship stage.
@r.walker798612 күн бұрын
A fine way to end up with someone who is asexual or gay.
@Spuckley.5 күн бұрын
Sorry but this is not right
@SReneeAy11 күн бұрын
You, your wife and ministry are a gift. Thanks for this video.
@marciasroom11 күн бұрын
This is so timely as I’m reading single, dating, engaged and married by Ben Stuart, he also used the fire analogy
@Studentandtheteacher12 күн бұрын
This video came right in time. I didn't know how to approach the girl I like. It isn't about the the physical things but the love I give to her before hand. I'll have to reflect a bit on being just a friend and brother in Christ but honestly that sounds like the best type of relationship. One that doesn't seek its own priorities but seeks the love Jesus has for us but in each other. Thank you!
@Kevin-jc1fxКүн бұрын
Be clear with your intentions while presenting them respectfully. Playing games doesn't help.
@c42mar8814 күн бұрын
Amen brother!! 100% no one gets this!
@iamspeaking668612 күн бұрын
This allows much respect from each individual. My biological brother and I have this conversation often. As he is and becomes frustrated with woman wanting more after he’s simply being since and the gentleman that he was raised to be. And the same with me, if I’m cordial and friendly which is natural. Men often take this as flirtatious (or not) and immediately want to go quickly in to a relationship when I’m seeing possibly a friendship.
@GlendeGame12 күн бұрын
I like this video. It’s smart to keep pure intentions when it comes to being in a relationship. Starting off as friends is good for the foundation ! 😁👍🏽
@nbartistry18 сағат бұрын
This is so fire
@baryl396912 күн бұрын
As a woman, I completely agree with this message.
@TheoCynical3 күн бұрын
This was pretty helpful to hear. Its so simple.
@Kevin-jc1fxКүн бұрын
You have to be clear about the fact that you are here for marriage. The friend zone or the brozone are not places you can get out of at will. Don't go there in the first place. I have been a born again Christian for 14 years and all this has gotten me into was friendzone after friendzone and they all proceed to go and marry someone who doesn't bother will all this protocol. I guess it's time to radically change my strategy. They say that "nice guys" finish last and I learned the hard way that it isn't different in the Church. If you are there for courtship, do courtship if she aligns with a godly lifestyle, don't waste time being people's friends and hoping to be promoted to a romantic position somewhere down the line, that is a recipe for disaster.
@clarkysparky12 күн бұрын
thanks for this alex
@matefazekas310717 күн бұрын
Such a counterintuitive view but it makes so much sense!
@JB-ww8jh8 күн бұрын
Love you brother Alex
@nnodumodinaka750217 күн бұрын
Interesting view, thanks for sharing!
@mslikenootha17 күн бұрын
I LOVE THIS!!! It really is a good way to weed out the bad seeds. Amen
@matheushofman997111 күн бұрын
Amazing!
@elijahobiago526817 күн бұрын
I’ve struggling with this… I felt like putting myself in the friend zone was counterproductive and I always feel a type of way when I’m seen as a brother by my girl of interest. But this adds clarity, God bless you Alex 🙏🏾
@r.walker798612 күн бұрын
It is, don't do it, women want men who are intentional from the start. We are not supposed to sleep with our brothers and sisters... why blur these lines?
@Kevin-jc1fxКүн бұрын
Be clear with your intentions, let her know what the plan is from the beginning. Don't play games, it always backfires.
@DrewChainsTV10 күн бұрын
This is good 🔥
@alexnjogu54910 күн бұрын
Well said
@MistyGlades56715 күн бұрын
How can you want you even want to be romantic with someone w/o knowing yhem as a friend. I cant date anymore bc i need to know all their values first
@MistyGlades56713 күн бұрын
@LerzMerz I just want to get to know people. Just know them as good friends until God reveals to both people that they are each other's mates.
@Kevin-jc1fxКүн бұрын
@@MistyGlades567 God doesn't need to reveal to you that you like someone. If you get close to them, be clear about your intentions.
@MistyGlades567Күн бұрын
@@Kevin-jc1fx liking someone does not mean they are the life partner you are meant to be MARRIED to. I include God in my decisions especially life-long and life-altering ones. Thank you.
@UhhHuhHoney6 күн бұрын
Super good 🙏🏼❤️
@davidhasbargen424610 күн бұрын
Hey Alex, this video is super timely for me. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost seven months. Our eyes have been set toward the finish line the whole time and we drew the line right before kissing. But we’ve recently been challenged to think of our relationship like a brother sister relationship instead of two lovers. I’ve been unsure exactly how to apply that. Based on this video I’d bet you wouldn’t recommend saying I love you before marriage. Is that true? What about things like holding hands. Do you think little things like that can help a relationship? Or do those things seem like a way to ‘play marriage’ in an unhelpful way? Always appreciate your content. Thanks for loving Jesus. It helps me love Him more too.
@jt2times17 күн бұрын
This is deep what I needed
@MasterYoduhhh16 күн бұрын
There’s a difference of being friends with the intention of marriage and there’s the situation where you’re friend zoned and just giving her validation
@dajourphil0soph3r3614 күн бұрын
He actually responds to this @ 3:48
@MasterYoduhhh14 күн бұрын
@@dajourphil0soph3r36 thanks brother, I misunderstood that part before
@tichafarahobyane79210 күн бұрын
Thamk you brother
@ortiz8911 күн бұрын
Amen!
@mightymicro1455 күн бұрын
I swear the Lord got jokes because I’ve been praying about this one girl I met in church to hopefully talk to her and I watched this and just started laughing at myself😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@RetroSoulX17 күн бұрын
I am just tired of these messages now. I get too many mixed messages from pastors and other Christian influencers and users. I’m going to just stick with Proverbs 18:22 and follow God on these matters.
@jnr291217 күн бұрын
do as Jesus did, he was friends with women without enticing any sexual intimacy
@tatienna797216 күн бұрын
Yea I think when stuff like that happens and many influences are telling you different things it’s important to run to the word so you can know truly what to do and once God tells you don’t be swayed by anything else.
@iyejare7 күн бұрын
Amen
@ethantanatsiwasesedza830511 күн бұрын
Absolutely love this bro, You just discipled me big time, I've definitely been comprising too much of late 🛐📝💯
@Deandre-yv6nu17 күн бұрын
Preach Brother
@Clyde2CleanКүн бұрын
He talkinggg🗣️🗣️
@Lucysquad17 күн бұрын
THANKS ALEX!
@sandynichols123014 күн бұрын
Wow, 🙏🏽 Amen!
@sandynichols123012 күн бұрын
@LerzMerz no
@sammymp465017 күн бұрын
Truly beautiful
@elliotthill700815 күн бұрын
This is incredible!!
@nayelimurillo854117 күн бұрын
Absolutely beautifully put
@jrfaith857714 күн бұрын
Amennn
@kenthachosen605217 күн бұрын
I Needed To Hear This😮💨🙏🏽
@darianlee17 күн бұрын
This one right here.
@philip783317 күн бұрын
I didn’t even really want to get married til I came to Christ. One of those “Holy Spirit changes you” moments
@seedsofrevival115 күн бұрын
Post full sermon bro ❤
@amenalex15 күн бұрын
it’s on amen podcast
@pecky20613 күн бұрын
What's it called , can't find it
@MochadoNCU15 күн бұрын
Where can we ask questions ?
@ericafrazier53943 күн бұрын
❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
@EricTheOvercomer43 күн бұрын
Where is the full podcast I cant find it
@yami53255 күн бұрын
Bro is a chad
@CodyLarsson17 күн бұрын
Amen 🙏
@israeliana9 күн бұрын
Amen Amen. I love this It's such a similar teaching in the Theology of the Body. It's the idea that we have to build a strong foundation with Christ and focus on "friendship dating" It's a great accountability and shows how to love "willing the good for the other" and not *lust* after your partner or potential romantic interest.
@dawgithan16 күн бұрын
God bless you Alex. Thank you for all you’ve done man. All glory to God. We must decrease, so He may increase. In Jesus’ mighty name, Amen!! ✝️
@julianj_715 күн бұрын
This is so good bro I often rush to wanting to date and forget to be their best friend or brother first.
@metalrocker62713 күн бұрын
No. God First.
@SinoM1234 күн бұрын
I love the concept and I agree with the entire thing, but the terminology of brother/sister/siblings is throwing me off.. at least add the 'in Christ' suffix bc wow..
@clear_chrysalis92194 күн бұрын
THANK YOU!! This is what I was thinking the whole time. It would be understandable for someone to be confused about their role in the relationship if you’re referencing them as your sibling. We don’t marry our siblings, but adding “in Christ” changes the context completely
@SCALES199217 күн бұрын
0:58 when little man darted across the screen 😂
@pvkom2617 күн бұрын
I find a message like this very unhelpful. I’m not an expert when it comes to this topic but I had my share of experience and I do know a bit about the problems young people today are facing… and getting stuck in a friend zone is a real concern. This point of “being best friend” first was voiced multiple times throughout the video but if you watch it carefully, it’s pretty obvious that the relationship described is not that of friendship but something more. If you strive to be a “friend” to this one girl to the point where other guys have to compete with you in your “friendliness”, why not just start with making your intentions clear in being a boyfriend? And if there are any women reading this comment, please confirm if you’d like to hear compliments from a guy who likes you? Giving you flowers and small gifts? Paying for your dinner? The world today is full of guys who ask girls out to “hang out” not defining their intentions clearly leaving the other person confused. Men in the world are afraid of being judged - and making the first move always puts one in a very vulnerable position. But we as Christians should be above that.
@sarahfaith653117 күн бұрын
Buying someone’s dinner is fine as a friend but if you’re saying hey I want to buy your love or buy your affection or buy you and put you in a place of dependency - none of that is a great place to start a relationship.
@sarahfaith653117 күн бұрын
Even beyond that, he’s not saying he wanted to be her boyfriend because that’s not biblical or Christian behavior. You’re a friend and then you’re a spouse. The idea of a boyfriend or girlfriend is a trap into sexual intimacy immorally.
@enpafe17 күн бұрын
No matter how you feel, you should be pursuing and praying for a genuine friendship with those that call on the Lord with pure hearts. (see 2Tim 2:22) Seek first the Kingdom of God, everything else will come in time. A perfect example of this as always, is Jesus. Jesus followed God's will, did not seek a girl and God gave Him a bride (the Body of Christ.) Ya see, if He had went for His girl, He would have lost both His relationship with God (to love God is to keep His commands; He would have disobeyed God's will) and His more suitable *bride.* In the same way, we should not look for a relationship prematurely. We will strengthen our bond with Love itself, thus being able to love a not girlfriend, but a partner; a bride.
@ricoparadiso17 күн бұрын
The point I more-so heard was about boundaries, that when pursuing a sister in Christ it is as though you are just brother & sister in Christ until stated otherwise. If you cant be her best friend then how can you be her boyfriend?
@enpafe17 күн бұрын
@@ricoparadiso Exactly. Abba told me this. Boundaries are important in any genuine friendship. He will not bless you with something you are not ready for.
@birch15118 күн бұрын
i need this now😂
@nathanmoore616718 күн бұрын
True 🤣
@Preciouslovesjesus17 күн бұрын
no fr right
@Artanis66716 күн бұрын
That was great!!! Many blessings!!! I yurn for passion for our Father, my being cries out... He's been so gracious to point the truth out to me though, repentance and obedience is absolutely necessary!!
@angem993417 күн бұрын
I am glad to hear this because I like somoene but not in a romantic way yet but I still want to be with him because I think that he fits me. I felt a kind of pressure for the fact that I didn't feel anything romantic towards him yet but I am realising that I just want to set things right with him first and put God in the center. then evantually romantic feelings will come
@r.walker798612 күн бұрын
No, you need to like a spouse in a romantic way. It does not work this way, this is a surefire way to end up with a dead-bedroom and a host of other issues. We like people romantically for a reason, that should be your guide in choosing who is going to be a friend and who is going to be a lover. Women can like a man in all kinds of ways and not be interested romantically and vice versa. The fact that you dont feel anything for him romantically means he is just a person you like who might be a good friend, leave it there... Trust me. You will ruin both your lives not being clear on this...
@jarrettsoon612311 күн бұрын
@r.walker7986 With respect, God should be our guide in choosing a lover, and feelings of "eros" (physical and sexual intimacy between husband and wife as described in the Bible) should be a secondary factor to that. It's a valuable point to consider, but not our guide. Song of Songs talks repeatedly about not stirring up or awakening love until it pleases. Suggesting that @angem9934 will not develop romantic feelings for someone simply because she doesn't feel it at the moment is possibly a bit presumptive; perhaps God may awaken those feelings at the appropriate timing.
@nixonanthony481211 күн бұрын
nice guys syndrome eeh
@Joel_Mullins0614 күн бұрын
I agree with this but I wonder why kissing must be saved for marriage. Is this just a personal boundary or is it biblical? Either way is fine, but now I'm wondering if I was supposed to do that.
@Gib2412 күн бұрын
Because we are called to be holy, and idk about you but if we got to kissing that will fs lead to sinning later on
@Joel_Mullins0612 күн бұрын
@@Gib24 I guess for some people that can happen, but others have the self control to kiss without crossing a boundary.
@Gib2411 күн бұрын
@@Joel_Mullins06 better not to give the devil a foothold, give him an inch and he’ll go a mile.
@Spuckley.5 күн бұрын
@Gib24 here's the problem with what you said. Kissing does not always lead to anything sinful. Kissing should be in moderation and something that should be careful of.
@Gib245 күн бұрын
@@Spuckley. I mean that doesn’t call out a problem with what I said, I said it can lead to sinning later, which if you are trying to abstain till marriage it’s best not tip the scale
@Aiden-ly6ru4 күн бұрын
Jesus is king
@therealsubaekhyang17 күн бұрын
Your boy/girlfriend could be someone elses spouse
@eliohayek_117 күн бұрын
Thats why we should talk to God… and if God does not want it then it wont happen. And if it does not happen then God does not want it… such a specific topic, we should ask God about this if God Wills we live to do it ❤❤
@khloe-univers316016 күн бұрын
Yeah, that's why we should rely fully on God about it. Leaving it to Him, as we just focus on the way He is turning us into the best version of ourselves. That way, when you spouse comes, you know it your spouse. But don't be in a rush about it. Abide in God's love first. Make Him your first spouse.
@vk0122112 күн бұрын
And that’s fine. I had to turn away from my ex because he wasn’t a man of Christ. I blinded myself with love and thought he was the one for me. God allowed hardships to happen and give me dreams to warn me about my own will and where it would lead me. Seek God’s will because it is greater, more loving, safe of worries.
@ryandwayneneely16 күн бұрын
That fireplace analogy was hot! No pun intended 😃👊🏾🙏🏾🙌🏾💯
@principalitycidade432316 күн бұрын
I feel like this is a ticket to the friend zone
@bamwkeys549716 күн бұрын
What I'll would say, follow God first and foremost. Let him be the number 1 in your life.
@5ages50717 күн бұрын
Alex I really appreciate your the example your setting, it’s encouraging me to walk the more difficult (meaning good) way and to keep looking to Jesus. He is here to help as long as I am willing to accept him. Man I don’t deserve such an amazing God.
@user-sd6dz1ol2r17 күн бұрын
hi
@enpafe17 күн бұрын
hiii
@evaniaputri52417 күн бұрын
30 s
@user-qb9pf5jo6l16 күн бұрын
Is it a sin to kiss outside of marriage?
@lukavilchis16 күн бұрын
No, it’s not. Although, kissing could lead to sin, so it’s best to approach this when in the dating phase, with caution. Hope this helps!
@darsanprakash2714 күн бұрын
It is a Sin I would say. Intention is what matters. A guy or a Girl should not get the benefits of Husband/Wife. That is meant for Marriage. Simple as that.
@r.walker798612 күн бұрын
no. i think people are trying to trick people into marriage by waiting until its too late to know there is no passion there... Its a necessity for a healthy adult rerlationship...
@Hanessy7 күн бұрын
@@r.walker7986 Do you go around kissing everyone to see whether or not you have passion for them? Healthy adults don't need to kiss to know how they feel. That being said, I agree that kissing before marriage isn't a sin
@r.walker79866 күн бұрын
@@Hanessy No, that's a straw man argument, With that said sexual attraction, and chemistry are prerequisites for me to enter into a relationship where that is supposed to be a part of it. There has to be food in order to eat...You can't create somethings, they just have to be there. Not taking all aspects of a relationship into consideration before you lock yourself in is not now, or ever wise.
@TheNinjapancake149 күн бұрын
Stop, I’m already stuck on the title. I don’t kiss my homies 😭
@TheNinjapancake149 күн бұрын
Finishing the video I’m glad Alex mentions how the guy in his hypothetical example states that he not only wants to be a friend but he also wants to be more than friends. It’s OK to be friends but it’s important to establish the desired expectation you have. I think it is borderline malicious to be a friend when you actually don’t want to be friends
@andrewjordan48113 күн бұрын
“I want to marry you” and “I want to be your brother” should not be said in the same sentence.
@calebgibson558 күн бұрын
Nooooo no no bad advice..
@muttsack26514 күн бұрын
only be friends with women you want to date, otherwise they are too annoying to be around
@Jmkba1210 күн бұрын
That isn’t the right approach brother whatsoever . If you find women you don’t want to date “annoying “ that is more a reflection of yourself and I suggest you question why you don’t value women that aren’t possible partners . Reflect on how Jesus spoke with women such as Mary , he did not engage in relationships or seek them , however he respected the women in the same regard as any man . God bless brother I’m not trying to be condescending but offer help , this isn’t a healthy mindset that you have and it is by no means biblical .