How to Find “The One” | Alex Wilson

[@kdog6793]

Ever since I was a little boy I’ve always wanted to just find the 1 girl to spend my life with and call my wife, lately I’ve been noticing that’s all I think about and I am trying to focus on God more because I know he has it all planned out and he will bring her to me when the time is right.. but man it gets lonely out here lol

[@maryannarodriguez7016]

Aw I'm sorry that it gets lonely. My prayers go out towards you and I pray that God gives you comfort and connection between you and Him, a relationship beyond your wildest dreams.

[@midnightstar3340]

I relate so much.Its so hard..it feels like we are destined to fail and succumb to the world..by God s grace he will preserve us.

[@NuNu-oo7fp]

My struggle is not so much with loneliness …it’s the feeling of being misunderstood all the time. It’s just hard being an OutKast 😂 ❤️🙏

[@ivylillace]

Same to me am in that place where am seeking a husband not a boyfriend, a husband. God has it planned out Amen 🙏

[@Mal0ree]

💯

[@JonAdamsMinistries]

I’m so thankful for my wife, doesn’t mean there aren’t problems to work through, but a marriage grounded in the gospel is powerful and beautiful. Great video guys.

[@JonAdamsMinistries]

@Staten L w Spreading_GodsGrace hey Staten, hope you’re well brother!

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

You are lucky. Thanks for your honesty.

[@JonAdamsMinistries]

@@schawnettarobinson8584 for sure!

[@doomslayer8431]

I have a crush but I’m not sure if she’s Christian. I’ll see

[@cawatson7616]

That's what I want someone that God set aside for me , but I'll wait on God to send Him...

[@chronicghosts]

I think God blessed me with my fiancé. When we met he told me he had had dreams about me a year prior, and he’s the first person i’ve ever been able to fall asleep around that wasn’t my mother. We’ve both grown in Christ so much, we were both lukewarm when we met and we’re doing better everyday. Pray this is a long, happy marriage

[@daniellawrence7064]

🙏

[@j.8655]

This gave me hope. Thanks for your honesty in being lukewarm and you both growing together. ❤

[@user-mf7gc9nu6o]

May the Lord bless you with a God centered and Holy Marriage, always remember it takes three to get married, Husband, wife, and Jesus

[@moma5501]

🥰🥰

[@1newearth]

Happy new month. Marriage is a lifetime commitment. Have you ever read the entire king James bible (KJB) from Genesis to Revelation? If you want to go to hellfire, continue eating pork, chicken, shrimps and continue going to church on sunday, Christmas, Easter. *Acts 10:28 KJV And he said unto them, Ye know how that it is an unlawful thing for a man that is a Jew to keep company, or come unto one of another nation; but God hath shewed me that I should not call any man common or unclean.* Peter said that any man God has cleansed is not common nor unclean and that is main message of Acts 10 and Acts 11. Revelation 18:2 calls Babylon a cage of every unclean and hateful bird. The Holy Ghost is described as a dove and doves are clean. Chicken (cuckow) and pork/pig (swine) are unclean. My Lord Jesus cast devils into pigs in Mark 5. If you want to reign for 1,000 years and be in the new earth, eat clean flesh, drink soberly, and worship God in his sabbaths, new moons and holy days. We are to keep the commandments of God and the faith of Jesus to be among the saints. Revelation 12:17, 14:12. Only the saints can possess the kingdom. Your mind and conscience are defiled. Stop exalting sunday over the true sabbath for that is idolatry. They were preparing for passover, not the seventh day sabbath. REPENT. *Isaiah 66:15 For, behold, the Lord will come with fire, and with his chariots like a whirlwind, to render his anger with fury, and his rebuke with flames of fire. 16 For by fire and by his sword will the Lord plead with all flesh: and the slain of the Lord shall be many. 17 They that sanctify themselves, and purify themselves in the gardens behind one tree in the midst, eating swine's flesh, and the abomination, and the mouse, shall be consumed together, saith the Lord.* *Leviticus 11:43 Ye shall not make yourselves abominable with any creeping thing that creepeth, neither shall ye make yourselves unclean with them, that ye should be defiled thereby.* *Revelation 21:8 But the fearful, and unbelieving, and the abominable, and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars, shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which is the second death.* The physical mark is: they erect a digital economy and enforce the physical mark of the beast. Most people, yea, sadly 99% of Christians have the spiritual mark of the beast because they worship the beast. They go to church on sunday, Christmas and Easter. Our Lord Jesus, Paul, John, the Gentiles and I respect the sabbaths, new moons and holy days (passover, Pentecost, feast of tabernacles, etc). Revelation 11:10, Galatians 4:8-10, Jeremiah 10:1-5, Ezekiel 8:16, Acts 12:4 show people keeping CHRISTMAS AND EASTER FROM SATAN. Jesus is the everlasting Father, Alpha and Omega, the Almighty. Revelation 1. Isaiah 9:6. Only the Lord Jesus is without sin. We can be holy, perfect and blameless like Noah, Job, Elizabeth by the help of the Holy Ghost. Jesus is the LAMB of God. Lamb flesh is clean, and we can eat if we choose to. Telling people not to eat clean flesh is a doctrine of devils which Ellen taught. Repent and follow the Lord Jesus. Imagine singing, praying, reading the Bible but hearing depart from me, worker of iniquity. Judge Jesus kept the new moons and holy days like passover, feast of trumpets and others. She wrote that we should have less marriages as the world ends thus forbidding to marry. She did not keep the new moons nor holy days like Pentecost and feast of booths. The Holy Ghost spoke through Jeremiah, Isaiah, Paul and other apostles, not Ellen. She wrote no one can eat clean flesh like beef which is sanctified by the word of God and prayer. The Holy Ghost is the spirit of prophecy and the testimony of Jesus, not Ellen White. Only women need to cover their hair while praying or prophesying. Right after repenting and believing, people ought to be baptized speedily with the Holy Ghost and with water. As time goes on, they will learn about the dietary law (not eating pork, chicken, shrimp, not being drunk, etc). Chicken, turkey, pork, roach, dog, rabbit, camel, etc will always be unclean for they are NOT sanctified by the word of God nor prayer. They will learn to worship God the Father in his holy days, new moons and sabbaths which are a shadow of things to come. Isaiah 66:22,23. Colossians 2:16. They will learn that all males need to be circumcised in the heart, ears, lips and in the flesh to enter the sanctuary of the Lord. Ezekiel 44:9, etc. Females only need to be circumcised in the heart, ears and lips. They will learn other things from the Holy Ghost whom Christ Jesus said would guide us into all truth. The Ashkenazi Jewish state was established by the UN (mankind, not God) in 1947/1948. People thought the Lord Jesus would return within a generation of the Ashkenazi Jewish state. 70 years is longer than a generation. After 70 years, someone is a grandmother if she had children at 25 and grandchildren at 50. GOD said he would gather all Israel which are the true Christians for his glory, not the glory of man nor the glory of Satan. There is only one Holy Ghost but many holy spirits like the holy angels. The Holy Ghost is our Comforter and will guide us into all truth. He proceeded from the Father just like the Lord Jesus proceeded from the Father. Please read John 8:42, John 14:26, John 15:26. Jesus is the highest name in this world and the world to come. Yahuwah, yahweh, yeshua, etc are devils. Let us trust in the Lord Jesus for salvation. The J sound has been there since creation and it is in all the older languages. In Mark 10:24, our Lord Jesus said, It is very hard for them that trust in riches to enter the kingdom of God. He is speaking about physical wealth and a literal camel. No matter how rich we get, be ready to distribute to the poor. I hate when people say the Greek says this or the Hebrew says this. Bible Hebrew is quite different from modern yiddish hebrew. Even the Ephraimites had a slight accent that was a little different from other Israelites. Why don't people say the Egyptian says this or the Syriack says this or the Chaldean says this? I don't hear anyone saying the Barbarian says this or the Median says this or the Pontian says this. Let us hold fast to the old king James bible which gave the mortal wound to the allegorical first sea beast of the Roman kingdom and the false Roman church that rides him.

[@C.O.SBurpees]

"Reject pleasures to stay devoted to God" amen amen 7 times 70!!!

[@jenniferagyekum5472]

Your wife is Soo calm,love how she's quiet and just listening and supporting you God bless your union !

[@StayingMindfulShaq]

Right! Im quiet asl too so i want someone just as reserved. If not, im prolly gon get violated by my wife

[@onlyautismic]

Around a year and a half ago, I felt pretty much alone and unhappy with my life. Every since I met my girlfriend, she’s been loyal, caring, and loving. She’s given me a fuller introduction to God and even gave me a Bible as a gift. I hope I get to marry her one day since she’s done so much for me and has loves me through the hardest moments. I’m so blessed to have a person like her in my life ❤️

[@angellacey9006]

Amen

[@Inspirational_cari]

Amen 🙏 brother

[@Coronaboii88]

Amen!

[@keenan1637]

Amen, stay blessed 🙌

[@dude9318]

Keep a close relationship with God God is first remembered Just keep praying and read your Bible and you will be closer to God Im sure you and your future wife will have amazing life together

[@taowang6056]

I've studied this topic through and through and came to a conclusion similar to yours: give more than you're taking, then you'll find a spouse.

[@StrongnBeautiful]

Wonderful. Will keep this in my heart.

[@citybake3602]

Great advice but let me add a caution. Look closely before giving yourself because there are selfless empathetic people who actually are giving and ended up with narcissistic people.

[@taowang6056]

@@citybake3602 People should also know: Infatuation at first sight is a trap, awesome relationships start awkwardly. Sleep next to them BEFORE having sex with them so that God gives you a dream about who they really are.

[@priscille1577]

Discernment is needed. Don't cast your pearls before swine says Scripture.

[@Cameron_7127]

Noooooo that doesn’t work that’s all I’ve done and it’s always left me soooo broken in the end.

[@crimsonstripes]

This is extremely timely for me dude. The Proverbs 18:22 and Psalms 147:12 bit especially is really eye opening for what I need to be doing. I don't want to be worshipping this desire and want to be wanting relationship with God more, but I do believe this is a desire from God that I need to pursue righteously, not through how my flesh wants me to act on it.

[@silaspersonal2754]

Don't forget proverbs 31:30

[@crimsonstripes]

​@@silaspersonal2754 Thanks dude that's a great reminder. Not sure about this since I'm still testing it and need to pray about it honestly, but when I see a girl I want to talk to in an environment that's not a Christian thing, I've just gone up and asked "Hey, mind if I ask you something? What's the most important thing in your life?". If her answer isn't immediately her relationship with Jesus, I just say "Nevermind, I was hoping it was gonna be your relationship with Christ. Sorry to bother you." I am asking God for help in if I should go up to her or not, and am not sure if I'm taking this too much in my hands or not, but something I've been thinking about. Don't want to be trusting in my own results more than what God leads me to however.

[@supercooldude824]

@@crimsonstripesamen man 💪

[@ericy8290]

The part of Jesus thinking of his mother while on the cross brought tears to my eyes 😭

[@josephchebib4491]

same :( i hope to be as manly as Jesus some day

[@ctgeorgia]

Well said. Wise words. I pray my daughters increase their spiritual maturity and look for good men in good places.

[@KJ_Appa]

Hearing stories about y’all’s marriage and the way you look at each other is absolutely adorable. Beautiful example of true lovers. Can’t wait to find my future partner and live with them in Christ. God bless y’all ^^

[@moma5501]

Amén!!!🙏🙏

[@dude9318]

Amen

[@Body.By.Bennett]

I very recently gave my life to Christ, but have always been against hookup culture. I have had only one girlfriend, who looking back was not a woman that God wants me to date. I’m just focused on growing everyday with the Lord, and am confident that God will provide me with a likeminded woman when the time is right. Thank you for helping me in my faith every day Alex! God bless you and your family.

[@supercooldude824]

💪

[@pckrnrnck]

this is what i needed to read. thank you man.

[@HighAltitudeInvesting]

You are helping me remove my ego self and let Christ work through me.

[@just_markeith]

I clicked on this because I’m single, but the biggest point I got from it was spiritual maturity. That’s the thing that jumped out to me most because we all need spiritual maturity. We have to drink milk to start with, but the Father wants us to work out way up to meat. More than I want a wife, I want to make my election sure, as the word says. Thank you for this snippet. All glory and honor belongs to the Most High!!!

[@essentialeugene]

In 1995 I dated a girl named Sarah Jones in school. When we broke up I chose to give up dating for good. I choose not to marry or have kids. I am CEO of Eugene K. Lynch Productions. I write books, make reality shows and documentaries. I think that dating and marriage is a distraction and that dating one time in your life is enough.

[@madyella-Ge]

I use J O Y as an acronym meaning Jesus, Others & Yourself… That’s how we serve. Have a Joy day!!

[@jamberry1135]

His name is Yahushua and He wasn't white.

[@madyella-Ge]

@@jamberry1135 When did I say anything about being white? I know Jesus blood washes you white as snow. Take your mind off of color & worship the true and living God.

[@dude9318]

@@jamberry1135 Nobody said he was white in the comments,so i don't understand why you mentioned that in the comments.

[@jamberry1135]

@@dude9318 because He's portrayed as white in churches when He's not

[@dude9318]

@@jamberry1135 yeah i know

[@GodWokeMeUp]

I love hearing about the fruit loops and pop tarts stuff. I gave up McDonald's in 2020. I used to have a drink ever so often but I stopped drinking any alcohol (even wine), and I recently gave up caffeine drinks especially coffee. I don't think this is for everyone... But it was specifically for me because I did really enjoy those things... Especially coffee I drank 3 cups a day. I literally felt my kidneys screaming at me for stopping caffeine drinks. 🤣 My lower back hurt for a week and a half from caffeine withdrawal... Then I felt so much better. When you talk about getting rid of non-manly foods it made me think of 1 Corinthians 13:11 (KJV) When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

[@ayla7308]

Amen!

[@StrongnBeautiful]

I have a similar testimony. I LOVE kid cereal! However, the last couple of times I went to the grocery store I purposely brought an "adult" cereal, literally saying, I gotta be a little mature! 😄

[@StrongnBeautiful]

I LOVE your username btw.

[@dude9318]

But its isnt a sin to eat junk food .Im not going to get into legalism ,that for me ruins Christianity. I understand we should eat healthy food but still if the Bible doesn't mention its a sin then im not going to call it a sin .

[@coryparsley3946]

I don’t really comment but I thought I would for some reason. I am quite young and their is this other Christian girl I really like and she is a very nice girl if I’m honest. I overthink a lot as well so I prayed to God and just after praying I found this video! It’s such and encouragement, the Lord lead me to this video! God has been answering my prayers so he builds up my courage to speak to her and so I have more strength through him. Even though me and this girl aren’t ready to date yet I feel like me and her have got a good future ahead of us, ( if this is the Lord’s will ) so if anyone wants to pray for me that would be very much appreciated, thank you!

[@KC.537]

My brother thank you for commenting this. I’ve been going through the same thing as you recently and this comment has really been an eye opener for me. I wish you the best in your pursuit in finding a wife.

[@liammonaghan9090]

Hey bro how is it going?

[@scarlettstott7570]

Spend some time studying marriage in the bible and set yourself up to date in a way that preserves your purity and glorifies Him! Prayers to you!

[@isaacmca9003]

I literally can’t say how of perfect timing this was. Like it’s actually crazy, thank you sooo so much!

[@wileybo116]

Same for me been trying to be patient and working on my maturity in Christ I've fallen I've gotten up and honestly I've been struggling in this area a lot but i know i can overcome the struggle through Jesus this was a great video

[@Ace-3.]

God bless and much love to all ❤ By grace through faith we are saved 🙏

[@emahpurple]

A few years ago, I would have seen this video and avoided it. Marriage content, books, videos used to make me uncomfortable. Not because I didn't want to get married, but the opposite. I thought watching those videos would confirm why no one would want to marry someone like me. I've never dated anyone even though I've always believed God for marriage and because of a lot of insecurities, I believed that I'd never find someone to love me. Through the years, God has been building my faith and maturity to focus on God primarily. And somehow those insecurities just fell away. I realized firstly that, the love of God equips us to love more efficiently. And secondly that humility is a trait that helps us in our faith and in marriage. I've put away that toxic thought about marriage and I'm so happy I could watch this video because it reinforces many things God has been teaching me as I'm trusting God for marriage.

[@syd5831]

Was just journaling about this 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽, when I’m in a bad place I always runaway from God and to the world. But when I’m in a good place I run back to God and it needs to change. Working on it though 🙏🏽.

[@steflondon88]

I really resonated with the part about "sin leading you to act like a little girl" - I want to be mature, and I'm so sick of sin & the spiritual darkness it leads to.

[@jadalefevre641]

It’s crazy because lately I’ve been praying to God about who is my husband and stuff like that just last night I was praying that and I’ve been watching a lot of videos that pop up that talk about that stuff and then, they make this video

[@startoftheseason6995]

Literally perfect timing! I thought it was fine to start trying to date but the Lord told me not yet you still have some things to learn.

[@StrongnBeautiful]

Weell! 🙌🏾

[@musicislove703]

Rejecting pleasures to stay devoted to Yahweh and enjoying Him! This resonates for me. Thank you brother. I’m in an unequally yoked marriage and it’s such a challenge. I’m so lonely, but the Word of Yahweh and encouragement like yours reminds me to “delight myself in Yahweh”.

[@LpsDreamsStarsandMoons]

Definitely check out 1 Corinthians 7 it helps alot!

[@aari8350]

I’ve been taking care of my dad, my grandmother, and my grandfather (May his soul now Rest In Peace) for the past 3.5 years while also working on myself. I’m 28 and my family and I have 50+ years between us. I’ve learned a lot about true love through the way I serve my family. I don’t know if/when God will bring my husband. But I’m grateful to know that at least I am trying to do the right thing and live by God’s word by honoring and serving my family. Even when difficult circumstances pop up.

[@JamesAndersonWhite]

The toasted bread from the farmers market I’m eating isn’t quite locust (besides the crunch), but the raw milk and honey are close enough. Jokes aside, I saw this video pop up immediately after watching one about how sad the state of Gen Z was, especially for finding a spouse. The other video was correct in its assessment, but lacking any sort of hope. I must admit, as a 20 year old, I often operate under that assumption of hopelessness for any prospects in this generation. But like this video so wisely said, spiritual maturity is imperative, and losing hope is spiritually immature. I need to remind myself each and every day that His plan, His timing, and His ways are greater than my own and so often outside my understanding.

[@indigopursue1542]

I REALLY RESPECT YOU MR.WILSON THANKYOU!!!! WE NEED PEOPLE WHO ACTUALLY ARE CHRISTIANS!!!! CHRIST LIKE WITH CHRIST LOVE!!!

[@Danae78]

Thank you for the reminder and encouragement and the reality check. Needed it as a 44 year old single .... it's been tough lately.

[@myrandomrants]

I soo relate. I’m 42 and really struggling the past few months… praying for you as I pray for myself!

[@Danae78]

@@myrandomrants Thanks a ton. I need to dedicate more time to God, reading my bible, and exercising. I'm allowing myself to get caught up in the anxiety around me...or just with work. I'll be praying for you.

[@sydneymarcelline8134]

This video was such a blessing. Keep being obedient to God about the videos he wants you to make brother and they will continue to be anointed and effective 🙌🏽

[@TamairaFowler]

Hey I don't normally comment on ANY video I watch not even if I watch the channel regularly, but I have been searching for love my whole life , never got it in the home ,this was a unintentional search not realizing that I was searching till a little while ago and literally just decided that , its exhausting to search and I don't want to do it anymore and so I'm going to pray about it and focus on whats important, and trust that God will send him when I'm in the right place So thank you for the advice , the new perspective, God bless you both😊

[@Mountain_bonker]

the way your wife looks at you in such a trusting and loving way makes me so happy for yall man. She seems like such a wonderful human being

[@roxanaconception]

Your wife….I just really like her, lol. She is just sitting there listening, looking out the window, yawns her and there… and I just love how she is completely content. She is beautiful and it makes her more beautiful that she seems to not even know it…..🥰🙏🏻 …God bless you and your family, always.

[@roxanaconception]

Happy (early) Mother’s Day! 🌷

[@christlovesyou314]

Praise The Lord❤❤❤

[@kingdomculturenetwork]

Your wife is a good listener and I love 💕 your message. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@walkwithkey]

This was right on time💛 I pray that God will continue to develop me spiritually maturely so that me and my husband can glorify God in all ways possible! I’m claiming it🙌🏽

[@CuddletoDeathBear]

I’ll be 50 this year, and I love Fruit Loops. Not that I want to eat that way often, but sometimes it’s a nice treat. I’ll always eat ant larva for the extra protein when out camping, hiking, or chopping wood. God bless Alex.

[@holdenmcmillen4307]

This has been something I’ve been praying about for awhile now. I was in a relationship with a woman I knew would be my wife and when we had to separate, it hurt me because a part of me was taken. I was going through a dry season at the time, so it made the pain worse. A few months later, the Lord spoke to me for the first time and began revealing things to me, including who I will marry in the future. It was crazy that it was the same woman I knew I wanted to be my wife, and it was comforting for me because God gave me my answer. He gave me the verse Revelation 3:8 and it was the verse he began talking to me

[@rupertholmes5828]

Did you get back together?

[@holdenmcmillen4307]

@@rupertholmes5828 no just waiting on God’s timing

[@rupertholmes5828]

@@holdenmcmillen4307 that's respectful bro :)

[@MrScotty2Hotty28]

Bro he revealed the same to me today and I'm praying for faith in his timing bc me and my ex ended horribly

[@holdenmcmillen4307]

@@MrScotty2Hotty28 same here man. Romans 5:3-4 says that patience produces endurance and endurance produces character and character produces hope. Sometimes God puts us in seasons of singleness and/or waiting to help us build up our spiritual endurance

[@luisdiaz9142]

My wife has been grace personified for my life! I can see God's unending love in my life and even in the rocky moments, there she finds herself giving me words of encouragement and affirmation! Forever grateful for her life. Thank you God!

[@stephcarpediem]

Thanks for sharing Alex! Always appreciate how you and your bride lead from a place of both confidence and humility.

[@thedot7947]

This is so sweet, God is so good.🤗❤🙏 PS: When he saw her with the platter of food and thought that she will be his future wife😂❤ I thought of every time I served food to the people.😂😂🤗

[@jeaneseason9182]

Thank you God as been talking to me about the one and preparing me for marriage

[@idkjj8835]

For anyone who reads this please pray for me, I really want to find my wife, I have such a huge desire to be a husband and father already but I want it all to be through the will of God, I want my house to serve God and I wanna be a good dad and amazing husband to my wife, but I just really need help persisting in the lord.. I’ve been praying for my ex girlfriend and our relationship because I really want her to be the one but I’ve just been struggling so much in my relationship with God that I just slowly feel my self slipping away from the narrow path and I don’t want that.. please just pray for me brothers and sister

[@marjorie575]

Focus on your relationship with you and God first. That is the first relationship we should all be immersed in. God will give you your wife and give your wife a great husband. Trust in him and he will provide for you. But you need to put God first all the time 😊🙏❤

[@marjorie575]

And maybe your ex girlfriend really isn't the one. God might have taken her out of your life in order for you to get closer with him. And maybe he's training you to be more spiritually mature so he can give you the one. I encourage you to ask God about your old relationship with your ex and ask him to help you focus on your relationship with him.

[@NukeNick1221]

Hey man I know this was 8 months ago but i just want to say some things to you. I too have this desire to be a faithful husband and father. It is continually frustrating to know that you don’t have those things yet. We as men have those strong desires, but because we value God, we decide to wait for our spouse. It is so easy for this to slip and I myself have failed to things such as masturbation to take away those urges. The fact that I slipped is a sign of a lack of faith and spiritual patience with God. You need to pray for spiritual patience and faith to be strengthened in God’s promises to you my friend. I doubt you will see this, but I understand your struggle and as a brother in Christ I believe that you will be strengthened. God bless.

[@idkjj8835]

@@NukeNick1221 thank you brother

[@Bridecoach]

This is SO true. You see someone of good character so much better after you allow God to come in and spiritually mature you. You will attract & be attracted to like-minded people. If you are not spiritually mature or being spiritually matured in Christ, you will attract & be attracted to wherever you are (mentally, emotionally, spiritually…etc) at that time in your life. It’s SO TRUE!!!

[@logandemar8208]

Jesus loves you all, have a blessed day or night. May His peace be with you. ❤️❤️

[@Shelby_Coleman]

Alex growing into a true father when naps become part of the day😂

[@geeattia1456]

Had some bad past but praying for the one and only one God has for me

[@moopandmop4597]

Im in those middle school ages of my life rn and this passage helped me to remember what my science teacher said (I go to a Christian school) about praying for my future wife. And definetly with how this world is pushing this ideology of how middle-school and high school relationships are ok I’m getting slowly pushed into thinking it is ok but it is not. And you see to many examples of those who are in this awkward stage of life going through break-ups of relationships that lasted like one day, but I know God will make it clear to me who I am to marry and right now, the only thing I should be focusing on is finding favor with God and getting good grades lol. Whoever is reading this I just ask that you may pray for me that God may have control over how I feel about this topic, and just like Alex said, to have a Godly love for others, or thinking of them greater than you.

[@gerrimiller3491]

I fear the Lord and read the Holy Bible daily to live as Jesus wants me to live. I surrender to Jesus and know when He's ready marriage will come soon. God is a miracle worker 💗

[@EssenceofPolish]

I needed that story of the 3 young ladies and how you put them before you! I said something to my boyfriend last night that didn't feel defensive in the moment but I woke up this morning feeling guilty and that's when I realized I had got defensive with my words! I didn't cause an argument but I could tell I hurt him by making the conversation about me! I prayed about it and I feel as though God wants me to think of others before myself so I thank you and I'm so grateful for your story about the 3 young girls!!

[@nissivlogs9828]

A reminder that God loves you so much and Jesus died for your sins💗💗

[@mandiij6]

My time is coming . This is the year in Jesus name.

[@jessicaflamenco6732]

Single waiting for my man of God, God first!

[@chruch5784]

GOD LOVES YOU ALL GIVE YOUR LIFE TO JESUS CHRIST ALMIGHTY BEFORE ITS TO LATE AND LIVE FOR GOD ALMIGHTY NOT FOR THE WORLD GOD BLESS YOU ALL MY FIENDS

[@rippedtidegames]

What simple yet profound analogies. I have a few more “child-like” habits to put away to be the mature Christian man I need to be for my future wife. Thank you for this! Glory be to God, Amen.

[@SharonRyeJensen]

🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@SharonRyeJensen]

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[@SamiraJay]

I’m thirty eating Cap’n Crunch Berries right now….and all week. I don’t have kids.👀 Don’t be embarrassed. 😂 I knew God was trying to use this random craving to tell me something! I’ve been struggling for so long trying to figure out marriage in my relationship. This week, I’ve been tempted to slide into spiritual immaturity and to settle because I’m tired of pursuing. That’s because I shouldn’t be pursuing…I need to be busy with platters of food serving others lol, thanks for the reminder! My energy has been put into the wrong place. Time to turn back to the true Cap’n of my life for clear directions. “God Empowers us for spiritual maturity!” This was enlightening and encouraging! God really uses you! So timely, thoughtful and relatable. 🙏🏾 thank you! “To find the one Jesus wanted to marry, he was willing to think of him as more significant than himself”

[@Snaz.z.z]

One of the coolest channels I've encountered this year. Thank you sir

[@tonycletooo9270]

I had passed on this video and put it on my watch later, it just kept coming back. I'm glad I finally watched it! I recently made a breakthrough in my spiritual journey . I know " The one" for me is out there. This video served as a reminder that I am on the right path. I trust God's timing. Until then, I'll continue to grow. Thank you brother. Much love and prosperity to you and your family for this video. God Bless!

[@AWiseManWillShama]

Aloha Alex and Lokelani. I really enjoyed this message! Father truly is delighted, and you both are highly favored! I went through a bad divorce years ago and the lessons I learned have made me a better person. I was tested in a big way! Forgiveness of my narcissistic partners ways was hard. She was the love of my life, unfortunately she cheated on me more than once. Years later I found Yahusha (Jesus) and was healed by the Holy Spirit. The encounter I had with the Most High was so amazing it left me speechless and crying like a baby. My life has changed for the better in the last 3 years! I no longer have a wife, but I have my relationship with Yahusha! I now live by Yahuah's will for my life. I'm happy your video was in my suggestions! Shalom!

[@katelynschultz4191]

THIS IS SO FUNNY!!!!!!! I just told a friend that my future husband WILL be a manly man and LOOK AT YOU talking about how MANLY Jesus and John awe!!!!! Jesus is the best husband, EVER!!!!! 🥺😭. He’s not going to give me a husband until I let Him be my husband. Confirmation all the way around. Thanks bro

[@swt.clapzz2656]

GOD Loves you and GOD is Good always.

[@theTimmyStevenson]

This couldn’t have come at a better time thank you!

[@WinningTicket-BibleASMR]

🕯🙏🏾Watching you and your family up here is a beautiful testimony to know parts of your growth and evolution as a loving couple and family! May God continue to bless you all TREMENDOUSLY! 🏆💦Cup Runneth Over!

[@christlovesyou314]

God Loves You All❤❤❤❤

[@cbebop5]

Loved this so much! I hope you guys will consider doing an extended more in depth video on this same topic. Would love to hear your wife's version of her first impressions of you, how God confirmed to her that you were the one, and just your general path from dating to marriage. From this video it definitely sounds like God has written a really beautiful and redemptive love story. All glory to Him. ❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@be.love.shine.]

I pray I link with someone who desires your kind of relationship in Most High. Thank you both for being lights in the darkness 👑🦁💞

[@xavierthomas5835]

In actuality, the Apostle Paul says in 1 Corinthians that we should not seek a wife if we are single. Notice how when Abraham sent a servant to get a wife for Isaac, God was the one who ended up bringing her to him. It was God's command that he not be married to anyone outside his clan, God's providence that led Rachel to Isaac, and God's grace that kept them together. Also notice that in 1 Kings 17 that when God told Elijah to leave for Kerith River, he feeds Elijah through birds and gives him water to drink. And the John the Baptist was to walk in the spirit and ministry of Elijah. Wouldn't this mean God fed him the same as he fed Elijah? Manliness has nothing to do with being hardy, but rather, to be steadfast despite any obstacle. John the Baptist' manliness truly shows when, even imprisoned, he will not change his testimony and preaching for anyone. Every good and perfect thing comes from the Father of lights... he won't send you to get something that will inevitably hurt you every time you go to get it. Be sober, be vigilant, your adversary the devil is as a roaring lion seeking whom he may devour. He will even take your desire for a good thing and twist it if you don't understand how you are supposed to recieve it.

[@Lazarusrizing]

Timely for me. The desire she had to serve was a big image for me. Not for the selfish reason, but because of the pleasure that comes from serving. As you spoke of Fruit Loops, a verse came to me: Proverbs 25:16, to paraphrase, "... don't eat too much honey, or it will make you sick." A good word about health, manhood and finding favor in order to find a wife. Thank you.

[@jessicamerced9116]

You two are so beautiful together 💞🙌Love this channel. The story of Chik Fa Le was hilarious 🤣 I'm growing in the Lord, this past month has shifted me so much, a part of me feels it was already happening I just became conscious of it. He guided me to join a church and the female friends I have made has brought me joy. Thank You Jesus for Your loving, merciful kindness ❤❤🙏🙏

[@dawsonraines7254]

Hey Alex! Thanks for making this man. You truly have a mind and heart for God and youre you and when you preach about God its inspiring and spiritually educational and you're videos help have helped me out through my mental illness and and many others! God bless you brother and your ministry amen❤🙏🏻✝️

[@lukeharris6138]

I know you aren’t a vloggin channel but I’d love to see a day in the life with you guys

[@lorenap.8110]

Oh, what a beautiful message! I was chatting with my friends an hour before, and now I found this video. I also think it's important for couples to be on the same frequency of faith, because no one deserves to date or marry someone who doesn't have the same love for Jesus. So how important is it when we are single and we seek sanctification and discover what God's desires are for our lives. And if you want to date someone beautiful, kind, and adorable, you need to be that person too. Relationships are important and family is God's plan, but knowing what God wants for you is more important. Sometimes (especially when we're on social media seeing everyone dating) it's hard to wait on God for 'the one' but brothers and sisters wait on God and He will do the best in our lives. Glad to found you guys!! Jesus bless your family, Alex!

[@asmrtastic]

As tears fall from my eyes as I hear your words of Gods word I feel safe and mellow and I’m a safe space. Thank you🙏🏼❤ Also your wife is very beautiful and her laugh is like music to my ears she is so sweet🥺! I love both of you and I thank you for this video. I am gonna go see your podcast to learn more and just to relax.

[@kylerhamilton6676]

Thank you so much! There was so much truth in what you said. When I was in a bad place I sought out bad places, but now that I’m in a good place God has brought me to His good places. Amen!

[@michelepryor9798]

I receive this word. In Jesus mighty name.

[@islandgirlxx3465]

I'm praying to our Lord to bless me with a wonderful godly man🙏❤️

[@Caroline-el8yw]

This video is so helpful to me! I’m 21 and this is so easy to apply to my life. Keep doing what you’re doing, praying for you guys!

[@makatforoma9796]

You are so good at expressing your ideas

[@thelambswife]

I just recently found you & you’re so speaking to my spirit! Thank you!

[@SkyRaidis]

Jesus loves you and died on a cross and rose three days later taking our place and paying our debt (for the wages of sin is death) so you can have eternal life and be forgiven of sin if you repent and pick up your cross and follow him daily

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

Good things are found in good places. I agree.

[@nateu360]

In a relationship now and its been nearly 3 years since we first met, and dated for 2 years, i messed up and we sinned during this time, and I tried to have God included in our relationship, she grew up in church like me but we came out two different people, as she looks for positive messages, im interested in the meat and mysteries of the word. At times i dont know if what i say would end or strengthen us, but she’s so busy trying to elevate her career and bag that I feel left out, even if she does talk to me and loves me, but I feel stuck because even with a master’s i have no career job yet, but i dont let comparison be my thief of joy, i felt the sorrow and regret of actions i took, but still feel sad for wanting to both stay and leave, what is God telling me?

[@RK4CHRIST]

Holy Spirit isn't revealing anything to me in this moment but I encourage you to pray and fast until you receive and answer and you will know that is the right decision because the peace of God will be upon God has recently conformed where I'm at spiritually and it's nice to know to have that assurance I say that to just reinforce that God wants to lead and guide you so seek his face like I said through pray, reading your Bible, and fasting be sensitive to the Holy Spirit and get quite before the Lord and he will speak to you in that still quiet voice 🙏🏽

[@Austinshore2005]

Maybe don’t leave but take some time to focus on your walk with Christ for a while.

[@samuelisner4710]

I would also say seek the Lord in the Word and prayer. He has the Answers.

[@samuelisner4710]

I also feel like you may know what you have to do. I would say do it.

[@TheGreatIAMWHOIAM]

Sounds like you're being called to discipleship, under Him. 1 Corinthians 9:32-35 I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs-how he can please the Lord. But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world-how he can please his wife- and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world-how she can please her husband. I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.

[@emilyawood]

When I met my fiancé I was in a really good place spiritually. I was making a lot of decisions in my life and God had given me the confidence to get a good job at the hospital, where I met him. I was in the word every day and feeling fresh. Since then I’ve done a lot of maturing and growing after moving in together and traveling but I also lost my job and have gotten way too comfortable hiding away at home. The both of us are too comfortable and have fallen back into childish habits like eating unhealthy, not exercising, and playing video games/watching youtube too much. I don’t pray everyday like I used to. We’re both aware of these things and how depressed they’re making us. We need a change and we’re trying to encourage each other to try harder any way we can.

[@Mcmini]

Hey Alex, Thanks so much for this video I have been watching your content for quite some time now. I love what you have built and I needed this video, as I just prayed about help in finding the right girl and I found this video. Thanks man and keep doing what your doing!

[@krissy424]

The bit on maturity was spot on!

[@michelepryor9798]

That was the best analogy of maturity that I’ve ever heard. Amen to that.🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@johnoppongjr8639]

You guys are awesome, your family, your ministry, your commitment. It’s beautiful, God is good 🙏🏾

[@Lipsy28]

I Love your podcast. And Thankyou for alll these Videos!!! - it helps so much and is soooo down to earth and simple and practical. I am so thankful for what y‘all Are doing. Keep going!!

[@Createdplayer11]

bro i really appreciate you making these videos. i don’t know you guys, but i hope i can have a beautiful family like you guys one day. God bless your family bro, want to let you know you are inspiring me, of course through the Spirit of the Living God. God bless you guys

[@AString95]

27 and still single. It sucks but I know the Lords timing is perfect. And I know I need to give God my all.

[@SharonRyeJensen]

Exactly.... surrender to his will. First seek the kingdom of the lord and the rest shall definitely be added unto you!!

[@marisantiago6287]

It looks like u found a partner now in ur pfp Glory to God ❤❤

[@jericcaclaussen8179]

This was one of my favorite videos you’ve ever made. The scripture was broken down so well, thank you!

[@upAlone607]

God is great ❤️✝️

[@AyanaInChrist]

Such good and wholesome discussions.

[@Cameron-ne8yk]

May God bless you, the Lord is using you mightly. you inspire me to want to be a better man of God

[@otavioalexandre7575]

Bro, it's so amazing how you share with us the directions of God, thanks for that!

[@CrystalHfff]

This was simple , honest, and amazing . Thank you God bless you 🙏

[@AlliePiccalo]

So well timed for me to hear this today. Thank you I’m glad God has used you for this!

[@belreed8257]

It’s so good to hear always ! I also would love to hear from lokelani! I respect her so much as a wife and her servant humble heart

[@toddtalford3038]

This is my vision my prayer everyday god sends my way I can’t wait to find a godly woman to Marry an have a beautiful godly relationship this just makes me happy an happy I know my time will come some day

[@DanteLigons]

Thank you for this my brother and sister in Christ 💪🏽