Happiest 90 Day Fiance Couple Now Just 'Weird and Annoying'

[@ShortHax]

Their relationship was rushed from the start and they’re just forced to stay with each other because of their rushed children

[@benjaminmartensson8714]

True

[@hellcat3156]

There’s a third child now. She’s not going no where

[@phylis5264]

@@hellcat3156 i agree....am with the idea that newly wed couples should wait at least 2 years before having children...so that If the marriage in the first two years doesn't work..they can both go on their seperate way without any extra bagage....

[@reves3333]

they got like 3 months and they got people pushing them to get things moving. is a tv show if they are not limite forced they gets heavy suggested to act like idiot or crazy i am pretty sur the producer or the director give them talks about what direction they want them to go.

[@DeityLover]

It's ridiculous to stay with someone just because of the kids. Because that toxic relationship will affect the kids

[@angeltakami517]

"commitment has been a hard part of any aspect of her life" hAs A bAbY 🤪

[@astherielleloella-ximena402]

What with these women who pop out a baby, but marriage?? Oh That’s too much commitment.

[@StoicVeR]

your stupid emoji just destroyed me. Why is that so funney?

[@haeresis_]

Peak humanity right there

[@sephinarose420]

Marriage isn't an end all be all. 🙄

[@kibi3072]

I think it might be more of babies can happen on accident but marriage is a choice. It’s somewhat normal now a days to have kids that belong to a different father than your husband. She may have kids with him but that doesn’t mean she wants to spend the rest of her life w him

[@shake6474]

“I just kinda feel rushed and panicked...” BISCUIT you've literally had a baby with him

[@spikesgirl9371]

Two babies.

[@Tempted_Lotus]

Biscuit 😂😂😂😂

[@letsfire7929]

😭 biscuit lmfao!

[@taylor1598]

I loved wayyyy to hard when I read BISCUIT 😂😅🤣

[@Shero1337]

BISCUIT!

[@xmayoburkex]

“I hate seeing him cry” Continues to stir up drama

[@theoverunderthinker]

I think making him cry is her goal! that way she "knows" his feelings are real.

[@MixerHaven1975]

Currently at 666 likes. Nice.

[@Clovis_Rose]

He seems to just want to be happy and with his family.

[@mr.maurice6572]

100%! But she’s just too controlling and not as patient as she should be especially since he’s from another side of the world and things are much different there

[@syrialak101]

Agreed

[@ridgewalker5718]

Yep, at the airport scene it was quite obvious he was from a very different culture. And during that scene it was obvious she did not at all want to understand anything about his culture.

[@elaysalunellaelward8021]

@Jeffrey Epstein bro you're doing a major self report right there, you might wanna tone it back.

[@ericaallisonc]

Jeffrey Epstein How to say you “have never been with a woman” without saying you’ve never been with a woman. 😂

[@strawberrynightmare7279]

Woman didn't just say she feels embarrassed that her sister is there to hear their business when she brought her there to talk about their business

[@Shellygrrl2573]

Exactly..smh. She's creating her own drama and blaming him for something he didnt even say. She's an extreme gaslighter and her attitude is shitty.

[@pepto843]

That has “did you just bring me a birthday present to my birthday party on my birthday day” vibe haha

[@audreyxatomic]

He actually brought it up, he said he doesn’t feel like she likes his family and she explained one reason why. And then he walked out. If you watched the series you’d realize that he walks away from every problem and his family is super disrespectful and toxic.

[@JLynnEchelon]

@@pepto843 all that audacity. 😆 Really though, Kalani overshares and outright lies to her sister and wonders why she doesn't like him. If only there were a way to predict this...🤔

[@nicholaskinkaid]

Oh she is the absolute worst. I can guarantee you during the baby in the carseat incident, if she were to have crashed the car, she would have 100% blamed him for it. Personal accountability goes out the window for those kinds of people.

[@kaylah9206]

I get that 90 days is a short amount of time and she feels rushed but...she had those 9 months during the pregnancy, the months before the pregnancy, and the months after to think about wanting to be with him. But she decided to bring him to america and NOW is not sure. Like why didn't you start thinking about this WAY before instead of wasting BOTH of your guys' time?

[@sydneyslaughter7163]

And why didn’t she spend any of that time learning about his culture and his family? Like you said, she had time!

[@Picachki]

She had a baby with him but isn’t into being “tied down”? I’m sorry but that’s weird and very sad for their child. She’s not thinking about anyone but herself. I feel like she should give him more of a chance because he really does want a fairytale ending with her.

[@pinkbombshellcasing2672]

@@Picachki sounds like the type of mum who’ll date a bunch of guys and her kid will just have random temporary “dads” in and out of their life… gonna be real healthy

[@Cityweaver]

Because now she has to deal with him as a person and not just a sexy vacation

[@jenniferwilliams5478]

She only knew him a few weeks lost her virginity to him and got pregnant. Then got pregnant again before the wedding. Her dad is from Samoa.

[@ChristoKiwi]

Annoying sister: "Do you like that she's American?" Asuelu: "Yes" ...Sisters add drama to the situation for no reason and push humour out of context... Asuelu: "Can I change my answer?"

[@sydneyslaughter7163]

I think Asuelu might’ve misunderstood the question as a “are you cool with the fact that she’s American?” Because that’s exactly the way I took that question.

[@alona270]

@@sydneyslaughter7163 yeah that’s why he had such a confused face hahaha

[@mcd08]

The sister was for sure asking that to find out if he got her pregnant on purpose to get them papers lmao

[@tehmoldi5915]

Or maybe he took it as being attracted to a foreigner? The sister asked the question to see if he just wanted a green card is what it sounded like to me.

[@jasmin_vsk]

"humour out of context" i really hope you dont mean what his brother said, but if yes you´re just as bad as him

[@sweetmother2406]

“I’m embarrassed my sister has to hear all this” but you brought it up yourself?

[@stacie7766]

That's exactly what I was thinking. It's like she WANTS her sister to dislike him. I honestly think he seems super sweet, genuine, and respectful. Just because his brother is a dickbag, doesn't mean he should have to pay for it.

[@seliisnotonfire]

@@stacie7766 CONSPIRACY THEORY! what if she wants OTHERS to dislike him so she has a “reason” to leave? “my family doesnt approve so i cant be w you” when in reality shes planting the seeds of dislike and distrust in her family bc she doesnt have the balls to end it w him bc in all actuality, he may be a lil immature but hes v sweet nonetheless. he didnt do anything to her so she feels “trapped” (even though shes a fully grown woman more than capable to make her own decisions)

[@theoverunderthinker]

it was all a humble brag. there was no other reason to bring it up. "I am so hot that even his brother wanted a turn with me." she didn't sound the least offended by it, or else she wouldn't have brought it up. in fact, she sounded "fake outraged" about it. almost as if to say to her more attractive sister: "I bet nobody ever said that about YOU to your face!"

[@raz9305]

Female privilege

[@mcbdllc136]

@@seliisnotonfire damnnnnnn my girl said that hella makes sense and your a female so its sounds 💯

[@beckyburnellparody]

I’m really upset Low wasn’t wearing apple bottom jeans and Boots with the fur

[@artinstructor4020]

WITH THE FUR!!!

[@usagishadow3354]

with the Fur ? were u expecting The whole club to be looking at hur?

[@shakirah.r]

She hit the floor (she hit the floor)

[@latoyapresil9659]

@@shakirah.r Next thing you know....

[@ka1jii]

@@latoyapresil9659 shawty got LOW low low low low low low lowwww

[@JenR1215]

This guy is so sensitive and tender hearted, and hes stuck with a child in an emotionally abusive family. The biggest red flag he needs to see is that she gets annoyed and embarrassed when hes happy, and when he breaks down, then she is happy. horrible horrible horrible.

[@iamlame6370]

Right I feel bad for him

[@morganpettipas9198]

Finally someone not making fun of him! Yes!

[@catheseries]

He was immature but sweet in this season and then he became super abusive and even more immature. It’s sad

[@sarajane5306]

Yes, I think he's such a genuine guy. A bit immature, but he has so much potential in life. I think he's had a rotten life with his family and just needs a bit more time and space for growing. Hopefully get more education or a trade or something and work hard and he will be the man everyone seems to be hoping for.

[@Amandavmmm]

@@sarajane5306 It could also be the cultural difference that makes his happyness and cheerfullness seem immature, when it could be completely normal for adults to be like this where he is from. He seems like a very extroverted, happy and loving person, which fits with his behaviour. It must be very exciting to go live in another country with a woman you genuinely love. Being a little embarassed by your goofbal man drawing attention isnt the worst thing that can happen by far.

[@ManicMaeve]

Gee it’s almost like they’re from totally different cultures and she’s refusing to acknowledge Asuelu’s yet expecting the perfect mindless behavior from him. I hope Asuelu finds someone better, please.

[@drock9009]

I do too!

[@Griselda_Puppy]

*Me three!*

[@charliecamire6210]

Period! Me four

[@aryastark575]

Another comment that didn't age well 😂

[@joshbrown9714]

Homie left the islands and is raising a child in another country while this Santa Rancho Margarita girl has done nothing but complain about him.

[@IvanaHonda]

Yeah he left his home country but he is not that involved in raising his children (if you watch all episodes, he is child himself).

[@joshbrown9714]

@@IvanaHonda I guess you’re right! This show paints different people in different lights so I probably just need to watch the whole series arch to get a feel for what they’re fighting about.

[@rhaenyralikesyoutube6289]

It takes two to tango, but it only takes ONE time to get preggers.

[@allab0ut-fl0wers-74]

Right. He's been immersed into an entirely different culture, language and environment and has to adjust let alone adjust to being a dad and husband. It's so much pressure

[@leann4265]

It’s unbearable. Constantly looking for something to be mad at him about? Ugh

[@jofip1999]

She’s not 100% sure about the dress cause she is not a 100% convinced to marry him

[@catcher881]

Solid point

[@snooganslestat2030]

But she was sure enough to have kids. 🙄

[@allie6469]

she lets him rail her though. Should have thought about that miss Pristine Kalani

[@metroscene]

Probably because he’s immature and irresponsible as hell!

[@snooganslestat2030]

@@metroscene il say it a thousand times. Why not think about that before children?!

[@ChristaKwon]

Their dad is from Samoa - so it's kinda crazy that the sister is acting like that... didn't they meet because they were over there visiting family??

[@kfan61]

Yea her dad explains that he doesn’t trust Samoan men because he knows how they are.

[@seliisnotonfire]

@@xxarianahiltonxx5116 so hes the samoan man whos shit? and is projecting?

[@johnnyholmes8840]

He just knows how the culture is and that's not what he wants for his daughter. You cant hate on him for that. These are early episodes, as they carry on you will realize dad wasn't too far off.

[@Shellygrrl2573]

@@seliisnotonfire That is EXACTLY what hes doing. And he's mad at Asuelu for having a baby but no accountability for his daughter whos OLDER than him like he forced her into bed..smh. Kailani is distorted in her thinking...she feels rushed into getting married but not for sleeping with a younger man she didnt know and having a baby...like girl get it together.

[@TheNexusChan]

*Dad:* Don't trust Somoa men! Except for me

[@StephanieBethany]

I love how she clearly was trying to get her sister to hear about what his brother said and then is all like "im embarrassed my sister is here to see us fight" like ... girl 😑

[@Brandibb]

She's just looking for reasons to kick him to the curb at every opportunity... But feels like she needs to "give him a shot" even though she's honestly NOT; it's all for her own guilty conscience because the right thing to do is give him access to his child. This guy doesn't have a chance. She's going to eat him up and spit him out.

[@emonahmadi208]

100% agreed

[@audreyxatomic]

Not the case at all. If you watch the show, the reason at the end she’s asking him to communicate is because every issue they have he literally walks out. At one point he literally gets on a bus and leaves town with his son trying to chase after him to get him to stay. Not even a screaming fight, just an argument.

[@jessicapeyton5444]

I'm 27 and I can't imagine marrying a 23 year old or having one as the father of my child. Like even if you are crazy mature (which this guy's not) there are still some things that you just don't get until you get some years

[@samuelstephens6917]

@@jessicapeyton5444 you're like 4 years older than 23. Unless those 4 years gave you some divine enlightenment, you shouldn't be so quick to dismiss younger guys.

[@KatieMoorerose]

@@jessicapeyton5444 seriously lol I was 18 with a 25 year old as the father of my child, and he was immature as hell(didn’t show until I was actually pregnant). But Men of all ages and maturity levels have the ability to be parents when the chance is there they have to make that choice.

[@jkookie3484]

It's couple like these is why I'm glad I'm single.

[@sarahdaniel4502]

Right? It's couples like these that make me happy I'm ace and single lol

[@jkookie3484]

@@sarahdaniel4502 Ikr 😂

[@16driver16]

Just avoid people in a cult like her

[@lindaobrien8538]

How true

[@northwestclasspnw7974]

It's not a great way to make relationships look. But it's a great way to show what a busted relationship looks like

[@EmEm78]

Putting on a dress was the reality check. Having a child with him wasn't though, I guess.

[@lime1949]

He is the the bigger person in every situation and she just plays the victim the whole time.

[@armelleantoine30]

That is not true

[@Shellygrrl2573]

She really does and you can see where she gets it. Her entire family is putting the blame on him and not holding her accountable for her own actions. They act like she didnt lay down with him willingly and make that baby. She even is blaming him for something his BROTHER said..lol...She's an awful person.

[@vincevvn]

Just wait until you see the whole story dumbass

[@CrystalLynn1988]

He's immature and definitely has his flaws, but dear lord she is a drama queen who thrives on toxicity. She is just horrible.

[@Coco-xq7zh]

*Lol u haven’t seen the whole series yet*

[@LonewolfDelta-db2hh]

I married into a pacific islander family. And from my experience with my wife and her family, physical touch is a very important thing. Literally every time the family meets, even if it's in passing at the grocery store, then you get a hug. My wife's go to after any sort if difficult time is a hug or a kiss. Hand holding is also huge.

[@kingslayer4427]

"omg i cant believe my sister doesn't like him after i only told her bad shit about him i wonder why"

[@isaaccardin]

"I guess touching is part of love or something?" She is so gross

[@Shellygrrl2573]

Yup..and everyone talked mess when i said she was a bissss in the other video for having that disgusted look on her face when he danced for her expressing his love and affection...i guess they now can see how i was right about her...whenever he's miserable she's happy. Who smiles and laughs when their man is crying and spilling their heart out to them..smh..

[@Griselda_Puppy]

@Michelle Baker *_YES, YES, YES!!!_** You took the words right outta my mouth, girl! I just wanted to knock the EFFED UP look off her face she had while he was dancing for her in the airport! What an ungrateful BIA! This woman recognizes exactly NONE of his expressions of love for her! I really hate that for him!*

[@Shellygrrl2573]

@@Griselda_Puppy me too. And everyone one is wondering why later on he started acting up and are calling him a jerk. What do they think happens to people when they've been beaten down and ridiculed, judged and blamed for everything under the sun and treated like crap. Are they going to stay nice with their heart on their sleeve..hell nah they arent...smh. Him acting out later in the season is her fault.

[@oddcontent5152]

There's always two sides, so we don't know. But yah, even as an extreme introvert, I don't think that I'd react how she did when he danced. That was a really sweet gesture that we just don't see a lot of in our culture. I do understand having struggles with communication, which she seems to have expressed...but english also doesn't seem to be his first language, soooo cut him a little slack haha

[@kakakatana1]

@@Shellygrrl2573 It is weird that she would see it that way because she obviously has hawaiian blood. Her name is kalani and her father is obviously Hawaiian.... I guess this is what happens when Hawaiians get white washed.

[@nepiii01]

If you feel like the relationship is rushed, why did y'all have the baby in the first place? I feel bad for Asuelo and the bebe! Kalani seems to be putting a lot of drama onto them with meeting the family and the marriage.

[@Samus7000]

I’m pretty sure they didn’t plan that baby. Not sure why they kept it when the relationship is so new.

[@hotlinemiammary]

She's part of a cult that doesn't believe in using birth control at all. Takes two to make a baby though

[@nepiii01]

@@hotlinemiammary fr tho??

[@Afmedic85]

Asuelo doesn't like condoms and I guess Kalani didn't think it would only take 1 time to get pregnant. The 2nd kid happened because they used the pull out method

[@_tardigrade]

@@nepiii01 She's a Mormon.

[@janecat8753]

Couple: Argues Her: I don't know if I should shop for a wedding dress. I don't know if I want to marry him anymore. Couple: makes up. Her: He's the man I want to marry. I mean, if her bond to him is so fragile that she questions their future after an argument, then turns her opinion around the moment they make up, maybe they shouldn't get married lol.

[@CrystalLynn1988]

The funny thing is she is older than him and supposedly more mature. Yet she has the mentality of an entitled teenager.

[@DarkKnight-yd5du]

@@CrystalLynn1988 both of them are a complete mess.

[@lucy9698]

Lol seriously. But.... dumbass already has several children with the man 😂 She's really dumb. Also, if a few arguments make you (or your partner) not want a relationship - then you definitely don't need it. A real relationship and real love can't be broken that easily.

[@TheDragiix3]

He seems like a really simple, easy going guy, someone who didn't consider all the hardships he would have to go through in this relationship, she on the other hand is a control freak and strikes me as one of those first gen immigrant kids who almost forcefully push away all original attachment to their own culture. It's this gross vibe I get every time I see these people who almost painfully try to pass as white, thinking that makes them better in a class system or sth, she and her entire family keep treating him like a second or third class person because he's so samoan and it's just sad.

[@cstef5592]

It annoyed me how the sister was like ‘How dare you want to come to America, how dare you want a green card’ but their dad is also a Samoan who came to America..? One would think they’d show a little more compassion to a fellow Samoan, but they treat him like he’s beneath them.

[@TheDragiix3]

@@cstef5592 I think they react like this because they inherently reject their heritage. They see themselves as American, but not just that, they see themselves as part of the white Americans and their ancestry is almost a bad stain. Another aspect might be, that the dad when he came to America was also a bit opportunistic and they project that onto this guy now.

[@theeguineapigpeople]

Yes!!! I was looking for the words, but I couldn't have said it better. It upsets me, I really like Asuelu. I can't believe how judgmental the family is, and how Kalani picks at the tiniest things. They do treat him like he is lower class for sure. It's beyond frustrating to witness. I wish he'd found someone who appreciates who he is instead of making it a "problem" in the relationship.

[@Careless-sv6cf]

She literally said she's attracted to older white guys but then decided to keep a baby by a young Samoan man. Now she's mad he's immature and doesn't understand how modern living in America works. I understand why Asulu's sister wanted to fight her.

[@weskersgf]

"Being in the dress gave me a reality check?" BUT A BABY DIDN'T???? ok

[@Guus115]

Probably because a dress is more expensive than an abortion

[@MetalAnarchyUSA]

"It's called the American dream, because you have to be asleep to believe it." -George Carlin

[@howiegruwitz3173]

@Tee Carrat No he wasn't. You're just below average like all his quotestars

[@babyfire361]

I love this comment

[@neuroticgurl0295]

george carlin!!! 😭❤️❤️❤️

[@evilpuma4866]

She has 3 months to get married, and she feels rushed. No way!

[@vakareb5387]

Immature people shouldn’t have kids. Therapy is expensive

[@Synthia17]

So are the kids

[@maryelizabeth6797]

Harder to get a driving license than a marriage license while nothing in order to have a baby. As a matter of fact, nothing (birth control) is the reason too many children are born.

[@VueiyVisarelli]

As I always say, if you're not responsible enough to have a baby, you're not responsible enough to do the baby-making act. There's only _one_ birth control method that is 100% effective and on top of that completely free...but _immature and foolish_ people are too stupid to practice it, even though they're the ones who need it most.

[@atmywhitson]

@@VueiyVisarelli Right but I'm sure you all have NEVER ever been foolish or acted immature ever in your entire lives,eh? It's easy to judge others...

[@Shellygrrl2573]

@@atmywhitson if they didnt want to be judged they wouldnt have their private lives broadcasted on national tv. So that opens them up to BEING judged so please calm down...lol

[@brittanyrandazzo7122]

“My baby!” What a sicko. She clearly has power and control issues.

[@16driver16]

Still want him to change diapers then it's "hers"

[@bhadgyaledds3333]

To be fair he wasn't in the baby's life before now

[@16driver16]

@@bhadgyaledds3333 because she took him away from the country he lives and worked in!!! Wtf kind of logic is that?! She left after getting pregnant! He didn't have any choice

[@jeszee1654]

Her family is so judgmental and dramatic. If they didn’t have the baby, I’d say ruuuunnnn! She’s crazy bro. He’s really sweet and deserves better.

[@mrjennings9594]

This dude is so sweet and they're being super ugly to him. Run dude run!! These nasty women and their daddy are going to make your life a living hell.

[@16driver16]

Never marry a cult member

[@MoomiLuv]

Just you wait, he ends up being pretty bad, and irresponsible immature father clinging onto the very family that doesn't care about his kids, and then khalani ends up having to step up. Goes to show camera editing and such can do so much to make you perceive who the bad guy is, and then we end up seeing through asuelus actions that he is not fit for parenthood

[@mr0mime]

@@MoomiLuv or maybe it's the outcome from the shitty abusive situation he found himself in because of her shit family ?

[@kubel83]

Suddenly condoms don’t seem so expensive and annoying anymore

[@rhaenyralikesyoutube6289]

Pills and depo shots as well.

[@hills625]

@@rhaenyralikesyoutube6289 for some women these kind of pills are unhealthy

[@rockinreebz]

😂😂

[@Mariemarie-uw7id]

Got pregnant while using them so yeah

[@HKaito]

I want baki edition.

[@boonlearnstoplay]

The sister's been keeping tabs on the man's red flags when she should also look at her sister too

[@shakirah.r]

First off she went to Samoa on a vacation, met Asuelu at the hotel, swallowed all of the attention she thought he gave. Felt right to lose her virginity to him and eventually, had a baby together. Asuelu then moved to America for her and the baby, trying to adapt new foreign thing. It must be tough for him especially when he didnt get the approval and support he needed from Kalani Samoan dad. Yes. Kalani is half Samoan herself. She should see this coming though. Now she wanna act up. And her sister. Duh.

[@s.j.t6006]

Ever since the Cheeto finger scene, I knew this relationship was going to be a rocky one

[@veevee6771]

This just seems like her family doesn't like him because he walks out when they're all ganging up on him

[@tarragoncake1556]

I honestly don’t blame him walking out, I hate confrontations and being ganged up on. Not a cool situation to put someone from halfway across the world in.

[@audreyxatomic]

How does everyone see that as ganging up on him? He literally brought it up and she explained why. He should have stuck up for her and understood his brother crossed the line. He’s showing he clearly is oblivious to her feelings and he does it consistently.

[@dieudonnebrou3945]

@@tarragoncake1556 I would just stay with the girl and avoid the family as much as I can

[@vaernima]

@@audreyxatomic But why bring the sister into it? They could have just sat down and talked about it, or bought in a neutral third party like adults. Instead she bought her sister into a conversation that should have been between the two of them, which only added more drama. She wants her family to like him, yet she's purposely making him look bad instead of trying to work things out for the sake of their child.

[@Ash-ow5yc]

This feels like a controlling mother and her annoying son that she is in a relationship and has children with. Neither of them is mature enough for a relationship, let alone children, but in different ways. She’s a self-centered, condescending control freak and he’s.. not very bright or mature.

[@mariamimi11297]

Also the speech barrier seems to have an impact. Maybe he struggles with explaining his emotions which makes the communication between them harder.

[@Z.ahmad99]

Sums up there relationship

[@tyffaneelavely8087]

Don't say he's not bright. He just doesn't know the language completely, and he has strong emotions...Saying he's not bright based off of clips from a show is just rude. Not to mention, nothing in these clips indicated that he's not bright. He's from a different culture. Just because he doesn't act American, doesn't mean he's not smart. At least he seems to have a kind heart, unlike a lot of KZbin commenters...

[@nezaamleach1623]

He is also a lot younger than her , i know a lot of guys in their early 20's that still act like little kids myself included

[@gram.]

maybe a bit hard on Asuela. He means well and I think he's really trying, he's real too, down to earth. I still think they're best together and she should try a bit harder.

[@zomgkb]

I feel like he needs to be with someone younger. They obviously aren't in the same life phase.

[@SanilJadhav711]

True, he's too young, inexperienced and so out of place moreover she and her family keep on putting more pressure on him

[@lucy9698]

For sure. Difference in age definitely affects the relationship more often than not. For one, when you're younger you have plans, ambitions, and goals. When you're older, you want less of that and more of vegging on a couch.

[@Angel-vb7bb]

How old is she ?

[@lucy9698]

@@Angel-vb7bb She's like 30 and he's like 20-ish I think

[@unluckyy-w8f]

5 year is the max gap for me

[@mo0nslay3r33]

Nothing beats 90 day fiance

[@Parkermoons]

Whenever I get upset about being single, I watch 90 day fiance and think yeahhhh i can wait a little longer

[@toyamwarr]

Same. I may be 36 and single but at least I’m not questioning my relationship while trying on wedding dresses with a baby on my hip.

[@purplezebra0421]

Idk man, I been keeping up with this couple and Azuelu’s mother said she didn’t want anything to do with her own grandson because Kalani won’t send her hard earned money to Azuelu’s Mom and sister. And on the tell all, Azuelu’s sister wants to fight Kalani’s sister. Azuelu and his family are far worse.

[@thedisconnect5769]

This chick is a basket case. Get over it and realize he's admitting that he's wrong in the situation. Some women can't let it go and they get mad at themselves for being unable to move past it.

[@audreyxatomic]

It’s crazy the amount of dudes talking about chicks being crazy in the comments when the comments should be about how shitty men are that they see nothing wrong with not sticking up for your woman or caring that a family member was so rude and gross to her. Kind of hard to let things go if the other person just refuses to talk or listen and walks away and allows their family to keep treating you that way.

[@DarkKnight-yd5du]

@@audreyxatomic how about judging both of them instead of picking sides??? Since clearly both of them are a hot mess.

[@paulm1690]

@@audreyxatomic You’re the type of woman we’re talking about in the comments. More red flags than a communist parade lol

[@MAX-de8fe]

@@audreyxatomic try not making generalizations about entire genders based on one television couple that came from different cultures and completely rushed their relationship. This particular lady is acting entitled and toxic, and this particular guy seems to be trying his best considering his fiance is a judgemental bitch that wants to create as much drama as possible and then get mad when her situation is dramatic.

[@zeldagoblin]

Are toxic relatives a requirement? We've got Debbie, Tiff, and this creature. They just get worse!

[@youlooksuperfly5463]

I’m surprised everyone is on Asuelo’s side. Maybe y’all haven’t seen this far, but once his family enters the picture I couldn’t stand his guts for the longest time. What manipulative people. Don’t necessarily feel bad for Kalani though. You reap what you sow.

[@MandalaBunnyhome]

I'm also surprised everyone is on his side

[@theantianimeassociation7574]

well most people here watch for there reactions and havnt seen the full show. I watch these for my entertainment. But I dont go watch the actual show because I have no real care about other peoples TV drama queen realtionships.

[@gagagugu1018]

Because no one knows the whole story, same goes for me.

[@edwardelric.]

What about his family? Im too lazy to find clips of it

[@JC_WT]

This is an official spoilers request.

[@Aprilaprilapril82]

When Ken & Buff follow this couple further I have faith they will totally change their minds. Asuellu is immature and his family is beyond nuts! Kalani is one of the only people on 90 day with common sense.

[@DragonEmperorDraKai]

The only person I care about is their kid, so to prevent the most evident issue in this vid is Kalani needs to keep check of her own flaws before she gets to Asuelu, it's like someone who constantly gets ill once a week lecturing someone who barely gets ill like once a year on how not to get ill

[@Rae.Harper]

“People in glass houses should throw stones” or “pot calling the kettle black” fit well.

[@DragonEmperorDraKai]

@@Rae.Harper I just use an analogy that anyone can understand, and making an analogy was never my forte

[@Rae.Harper]

@@DragonEmperorDraKai pardon? I hope you didn’t think I was referring to you, I meant what you were saying about Kalani and checking her own flaws… I was agreeing with you.

[@DragonEmperorDraKai]

@@Rae.Harper I know, it's just to let people(you included Rae) know why I didn't use a better analogy, that's why I like your reply.

[@Jamjamsart]

ok, so her brother said something inappropriate, but that's not HIS fault? why is she acting like HE is responsible for things his brother says?

[@denizenaru]

Lmao i knew someone like that. The person believes you can control what others say and they blame you for it even if its a random person on the street saying it.

[@katelynb1665]

if he didn’t stand up for her and say that it’s not okay for his brother to say things like that to his fiancée, then i believe she has a right to be upset.

[@denizenaru]

@@katelynb1665 they both have the right to be upset no one is questioning that. But taking your anger out on the person you claim to love ain't right neither is bringing your sister /friend or family member into your relationship. Because it will always end badly if you add a third wheel to a relationship.

[@audreyxatomic]

@@katelynb1665 yeah and with the context of this clip alone of how he doesn’t even say “I know I’m sorry he shouldn’t have said that” is enough to know he didn’t stand up for her…even if you don’t have the context of the whole show and how the rest of his family treats her.

[@nicolej5924]

I like how the family is coming after the guy even though he's super committed to her and their baby. But its her that having doubts...

[@shareekah1]

You gotta watch the show lol that’s definitely not the case

[@forgottenpixel]

@@shareekah1 Right? All these comments talking about how sweet and caring and what a great father he is etc. etc. etc. make it super obvious they don't watch it lol. I am not blaming them or anything I just find it amusing coming from a place where I have seen their whole relationship on the show.

[@nicolej5924]

Lol, I'm not gonna lie. I haven't watched the show.

[@karinac.3378]

@@forgottenpixel omg... True. I should watch isn't it🤣🤣

[@SanilJadhav711]

Tbh I don't feel like watching this show, idk leaves a bad taste in my mouth. I only feel comfortabe watching it when Ken And Buff are reviewing it lol, they make it fun From what I've heard in comments, in the next episode Asuelu does not help with the kids at all

[@imnotedgy1080]

this guy looks like he is always zoning out eternally, until he does something random, with no warning.

[@MandalaBunnyhome]

I know everyone says he's so sweet and simple but would you really want to raise kids with someone who is basically a child and freaks out if you don't want to cuddle? I can't imagine he is much help with the kids or financially but who knows

[@CrystalLynn1988]

He's immature but she knew that before she agreed to marry him. She could have raised the kid on her own, or not had the kid if she wasn't ready to commit.

[@idalarsen2540]

Well, she laid her bed. He did as well. You reap what you sow. They decided to risk getting pregnant, then decided to keep the baby, after that they need to grow up and put their baby first and their ego's aside. It's not about either of them anymore, IT'S ABOUT THE INNOCENT BABY THEY WILLFULLY AND KNOWINGLY CONCEIVED.

[@kopykat6843]

@@CrystalLynn1988 it's fifty fifty though. People are acting like she forced him and he's innocent. Bitch no. They both made that baby. Ya she fucked up bad but he's guilty as hell too.

[@caseyh8386]

Ouch, I feel seen 😂

[@MandalaBunnyhome]

@@CrystalLynn1988 definitely fair point, I'm not a fan of either of them especially considering how they're having so many kids without considering the consequences

[@ammeliad2186]

She looks like she's at least 40 maybe older. He's just a kid.

[@maja23_82]

Hey can someone pls update me about big wife, small wife and garrick? Are they not reviewing it anymore or are they waiting for new content?

[@natsudragonfly2661]

If she needs to figure things out b/w her and asuelu, then why tf is she bringing her sister and creating a one sided blame game. Sit down together and just talk. Why bring a 3rd person?

[@shannan273]

can these people with kids on television HOLD their kids properly?!

[@melrose8213]

Buffs face when that dude said “there’s….lots of…white people….” Lmaooooo

[@Archphoenix1]

She sounds like the problem in this. She is way too unchill

[@supremerulerofapplejuice9441]

The sisters talking to each other are slowly reminding me of the Kardashians

[@mggm1733]

Sister: Hey Ken, did you like that Mary was Australian? Ken: Yes, 100 percent! 😱😱😱😱 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Bubblies005]

Just a thought this relationship seems a bit rough. She’s putting him in uncomfortable situations instead of handling issues privately she decides to invite her sister to brunch and then start fighting. She has a right to be angry but like maybe pull him aside about it first.

[@OneBlueField]

Ken's answer to what he'd do about his daughters partners was absolutely perfect! And that he said 'my kids', not single out his daughter.

[@aces959]

She totally invited him to that brunch with her sister to call him out and start drama. Why bring up that stuff in front of the sister, and then complain that she doesn't like him?

[@MrMatthias]

I feel like I relate to this fellow. The lady constantly dogging on him like that, while all he's trying to do is be a loving, friendly guy is frustrating to say the least. Reminds me of my first girlfriend. Sure, he's immature, but she just keeps attacking him unprovoked, at least from the perspective the clips show us

[@frogdrug8282]

So she has a baby with him even after admitting she doesnt know him that well but buying a wedding dress for their possible wedding is crossing the line? Bruh

[@TrashbashMan]

What's really bugging me is the way her sister is carrying the kid, she's pretty much holding his neck with one arm and one leg with the other while half of the kid is just dangling there and holding on for dear life, yet Kalani isn't bothered by that AT ALL?! Edit: 11:54 for reference

[@Latro84]

Get this man a dog so he can cuddle

[@GigiGeez]

Damn they were really grinding out these vids for us ♡

[@Guus115]

They pulled an all nighter for sure

[@LadyMFUnicorn]

Touch is a love language so yeah he wants hugs.

[@lolabunnie85]

Love their commentary 🤣🤣

[@DmitriSolomon]

Asuelu is obviously young and immature when it comes to relationships and being an adult in general (I mean, he's like 23) All he talks about is how his dreams come true, and how he is happy, and how he wants to show love and affection (Did he ever talk about being a father and responsible, getting a job? No, just about how strange it was HE had to change a diaper once and how he is afraid of being sent back home. He does NOTHING to show or ask how to be what is needed. At least on camera/postedits) Great. That's exactly what an adult woman with a kid, a job, a family, and a whole life wants to suddenly include directly into her life 24/7. He doesn't seem like a bad guy but he isn't husband material. Not for a few years at least. If he wants, he should do his best to stick around for the kid. But as a father who lives nearby, not as a husband in-house.

[@rhaenyralikesyoutube6289]

He'll be ready in 50 years, I predict.

[@WhereIsKali]

My birthday is in 49 days, and I can’t wait til I hear Ken say, “If todays your birthday happy birthday, stay toasty my friends” 😂😂

[@emperor8716]

I feel so bad for him, they act like he’s a kid when he’s a young adult and they try to control every about him…

[@VueiyVisarelli]

To be fair, _he_ acts like a kid. I respect his desire to be a family w/ the chick he knocked up and take care of his own son...but the fact of the matter is that he clearly wasn't ready for a baby when he went and _made_ one. Respect for rising to the challenge, but this situation is at least 50% his own fault.

[@kopykat6843]

He shouldn't act like a kid then huh

[@victoriousf.i.g.3311]

Yo, that lady rolled her eyes at his haka in episode 1; I already knew she was bad news. My mans showed his excitement via dance in a crowded area and all she could be was embarrassed, because she's an embarassment of a human being.

[@naniieSAYhuh]

When yall titled the last one happiest couple i was so confused bc I thought they (at least him) were MISERABLE. And the fucked up thing is that he atleast got with someone with the same culture as him and she STILL treats him like a pariah! As though she had no ideal about what a Samoan man 100% from samoa would act like/want. And the family is so damn mean from the jump, i really wonder how they expected him to integrate into the family if everyone is sus of him right off the bat; Like is he verbally abusive or something we don't see?? (For anyone who follows the show more closely)

[@LegitDark]

"I’m embarrassed my sister has to hear all of this” Hold on... this whole operation was your idea.

[@justsomerandomguy8210]

“Get am baby” -Ken 2021

[@lilashadow9871]

I love how you point out the situation point blank

[@TheGhostTrooper1]

I honestly feel like she's just using him for the baby just so she can then dump him because she's acting like he didn't contribute to the baby and is activly ignoring his love and affections under the excuse that she's stressed. I get that its all rushed but this is no way to treat someone you "love" at all 😡 smh

[@savannahclipp3198]

There’s a difference between wanting to continue fighting because you want to win the argument, and actually wanting to discuss what the argument was about, listening to each other’s thoughts and opinions and perhaps realizing you’re the one in the wrong.

[@CebolaGeek]

okay, if he survives the family, they'll be the first ever happy couple out of this show

[@xorvictia]

"I'm keeping my eye out for red flags." Ma'am, have you looked in a mirror-

[@duck-ew5zs]

Her dad kinda looks like an old version of her husband

[@CoushattaL]

I can't unseen this now...

[@TheAceOfSpadezz]

OMG KEN "Asuelu's sister tried to fight Kalani" and Asuelu's mom admitted to caring more about money than the baby...

[@CodenameTurtle]

My husband does this thing too where he wants to cuddle if he's upset me. But that just upsets me more, like, we should both take some time to ourselves to calm down instead of ignoring the problem. Then again, I feel bad for the guy because it seems like he's the only one who's trying while she's constantly unreasonable and not trying to meet in the middle, as if he's not his own person. Plus the culture shock! Do you know how hard it is to move to a country where you don't know anything or anyone. Like he has no one to confide in there because she's being a b.

[@audreyxatomic]

He actually has family in Oregon. And they are all trash. I don’t necessarily feel bad for Kalani, but he runs away from every disagreement and never defends her while his family is outright rude to her. His mother even says she doesn’t care about his children when demanding he send more money monthly.

[@CodenameTurtle]

I don't think either of them are completely in the right. I just think he's more at disadvantage due to a different culture and language. She seems to get mad with everything in such a rude way, and that's when humans tend to stop listening. She doesn't respect his opinion if that makes sense. I can also see why he would drive her crazy, much thanks to culture shock, and it's terrible that his family isn't welcoming either. Sounds pretty absurd. That being said, I've only seen Ken and Buff react to two clips of them so I can only give my opinion of what I've seen so far.

[@dualityofgin]

I feel so bad for him. ☹️ He seems like a genuinely kind man.

[@Flavoaw1013]

She said, "Im unhappy our sister got to see that fight." She literally started the fight by telling her sister something he said. Youre 30 think it through, omg.

[@swissunicorn5678]

The amount of video you guys made for us to is see since Ken is in Australia is insane 👍🏻 thanks you guys so much!

[@Stormageddon81]

The way her sister carries the baby makes me nervous at times.

[@Andi-ei5xg]

It's my Birthday today! Thank you for this! Love you guys and wishing Ken's family well in their move to Australia :)

[@meganc7208]

I feel like her feelings about marriage will change again lol

[@JeweledLove]

"When I'm mad at you, I wanna talk about what I'm mad about" Buff: "Fight me right then and there!"

[@SamanthaGracexO]

Her dad is also from Samoa. It’s just a culture thing. They have worked hard to make their marriage work. They have 2 kids now and last I saw they were in a happy loving marriage 💕

[@dannieon]

Mans is probably the most emotionally mature person in all of TLC.

[@michellemueller7288]

I'm super early for once!! Ps. Asuelu just wasn't ready to grow up. I think they're still together though and I think doing well. I saw an interview with an old cast member and she had mentioned that most of the fighting and drama is for the cameras for the most part it's not that bad.

[@UnCreativeBeliever]

Seeing how Asuelo behaves here compared to recently- she has completely broken this man down to be just as miserable and awful as her.

[@xuien]

She's looking for red flags but doesn't realize she is one. Wasting this young man's time not actually wanting anything to do with him and finding every reason to be mad at him.

[@emme4193]

Ken was kinda slick with it @0:45

[@Rocpacci]

This was posted just early enough for me to watch before I clock in.

[@abigaelwhite2383]

Regular date: dinner and a movie. 90 Day date: dinner and a baby.