Husband Thinks A Womans Job Is EASY (and he tells her that)

Watching Kalani and Asuelu on TLC's 90 Day Fiance. They get married and have another kid. THen Asuelu decides to tell Kalani and his mother in law that women are lazy and that thier job is easy.
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[@antwon8902]

"Did we miss a whole kid?" - BUFF

[@Kazza_8240]

Kevin? Has anyone seen Kevin?

[@whatlilydid__]

as opposed to half a kid

[@darthdragon117]

@@Kazza_8240 (whips out remote, Kevin comes out of woods) Duracell.

[@hollowshadow6970]

Lmao I’m right here

[@atmywhitson]

Lol 😂

[@caffeinequeenie]

There is not a single thought behind Asuelu's eyes. Seriously, looking at him is like looking at an empty bucket.

[@EvaPapadimitriou]

Such true words have never been spoken before.

[@Kazza_8240]

We have a saying for eyes like that here in Scotland - 'eyes like piss holes in the snow' Edit - vacant, and you cant see anything else in there 😂 We use it to describe drunk people more though.

[@cc3066]

Yes most definitely 👍 . I mean if kelani was already seeing the facts with asuelu when they had their first kid, why? Why? Would she continue having another baby knowing her husband won't change for the best. 🤔

[@caffeinequeenie]

@@Kazza_8240 I feel like the piss at least adds a bit of personality, more than he seems to have

[@tomfoolery7797]

​@@cc3066 Probably the same reason why they had their first baby, they're both not the brightest bulbs in the box. Also rather irresponsible.

[@cbz5283]

Asuelo took the whole "baby daddy" thing literally. He is a baby, but also a dad

[@rmf176]

Lol... im using this later...

[@pikaiboo8845]

Totally could use this line to my Ex. Omg... xD

[@iStorm-my5fp]

Lol

[@jennmoslek921]

Oh Boy! I can't wait until you get to the clips of his family begging for money & throwing down when they don't get it!! AND the reason he was being an A-Hole in the car to her & her mom is because he was having a tantrum about not being able to go to Samoa. They were planning the trip but found out that Samoa was having a major Measels outbreak...They took the boys to the pediatrician to see if it was safe to take the babies (ages 2 & 8 mos, or somewhere around that) over there while this was happening & Doc said absolutely NOT! Asuelo got pissed & said he didn't believe the doctor because "She's a woman." Kalani put her foot down & told him they'd have to postpone the trip until it was safe. Asuelo's been on the fast track to doucheville ever since.

[@toocutenoirb.4278]

Oh SIS we would have had to FIGHT I wish I would have had been in that situation. Like NO SIR we are not going anywhere that's unsafe with our babies lol TF you smoking

[@Pink_Aqua]

That's garbage. I would be so mad. I have a friend from Samoa, and she had a niece that she raised that passed away from the small pox epidemic there. He's being incredibly selfish.

[@BarbieBando]

*Ahh, thank you for clarifying! 👏🏼*

[@yulana990]

goddamn.His misogyny popping tf out! Throwing a tantrum when it has to do with your CHILDRENS HEALTH and refusing to believe a WOMAN?! just disgusting

[@Mr3Trois3]

Thanks makes sense even if it doesn't justify his attitude lol

[@courtneyholmes3707]

It’s funny that Ken and Dane haven’t seen how basically Kalahni’s family is raising the kids so when she announces that she’s pregnant again the whole family feels like they are placing more stress one the parents and sister verses Asalu

[@SallySue9725]

Oh so they did have a second kid? Geez when did that happen lol

[@briannam8230]

@@SallySue9725 ummm did you watch the video?

[@SallySue9725]

@@briannam8230 this was before I got to far into the video

[@jenniferwilliams5478]

She now has 3

[@angelabonilla6497]

The sister isn't the crazy one, she was the one who watched the first baby and was deemed 'the dad' before Asuelo came, so yeah she's a little traumatized that she has to 'father' another kid and fill in whenever Asuelo throws a tantrum.

[@Kanyon85]

Thanks, that makes so much more sense now.

[@aleenagarrison474]

Seems so obvious to me just from her reaction maybe it’s because I’ve been in her position though

[@tomfoolery7797]

They all seem like kind of crazy and shitty people tbh.

[@bianca741]

@@tomfoolery7797 I would go crazy if I had to take care of two whole human beings that I didn't make too, ngl

[@snooganslestat2030]

Why should her family be happy. They know its an awful idea. Shame she didn't.

[@ani1451]

Asuelu was upset that he couldn’t take his kids to Samoa because of a measles pandemic.. even his own family told him to stay in the US.

[@Darkshade_01]

So we are dealing with a grown man child

[@kiyokumabear]

@@Darkshade_01 His voice is higher than Mickey Mouse's. Yes, he's a man child, sans the "man" part. Idk how he even got her pregnant if he hasn't even hit puberty yet with a voice like that...

[@Darkshade_01]

@@kiyokumabear true

[@EmEm78]

What a selfish little manchild.

[@Darkshade_01]

@@EmEm78 yes indeed

[@littlemoon2352]

When Asuelu and Kalani took a trip to Washington after being unable to travel to Samoa they stopped by a gift shop and Asuelu tried to buy multiple expenstive gifts and Kalani said "no we don't have that kind of money" causing Asuelu to get upset and while at the resteraunt after Asuelu tells his family he has no gifts he then blames Kalani for not getting gifts causing his mother to be disrepectful and blame Kalani

[@TunTheOfficial]

Wow 😯

[@EmEm78]

He's such a child.

[@NativeKayKay]

I hate when people come to America and assume money falls from the sky, yeah our dollar has more value but that doesn’t take away the fact “we don’t have the money for that”

[@kikinatrone]

The thing is, this who he was when she met him. What was she expecting. I mean pick your baby daddy and partners VERY carefully.

[@annehaight9963]

@@NativeKayKay They don't understand that although our money is worth more, our cost of living is also sky-high in comparison. We make lots of money because we have to spend lots of money.

[@Vampirita447]

If you're going to expect her to do all the "woman jobs" then you need to be providing all of the income.

[@rmf176]

Right

[@Tysandifer]

Thought women are fighting to sorta fix that... To an extent there are jobs only women can do when talking about kids . But bringing in an income is a partnership, most women work while having kids ...

[@celestiacrystal9317]

@@Tysandifer Not true, some people don’t even breastfeed, you can buy babyfood simulating breastmilk…

[@celestiacrystal9317]

@@Tysandifer And that´s one job, not several…

[@mattellis3297]

The benefits of breast feeding over formula is like comparing milk to water. As someone who literally pre and post test women's breastmilk at a milk bank I can assure you the different in just immune systems when the child is older is insane. My children are literally never sick and we dont really believe in medicines that often ( wife having all natural births).

[@wesi.g.2915]

Her dad and Danielle's dad need to switch. He'd straighten Garrick out real quick too lol

[@AxxLAfriku]

i am no dad

[@imjustapancake3188]

@@AxxLAfriku you are everywhere

[@imkindaanxious5020]

I’m so glad someone else thought it😂💀

[@bekahsierra7313]

I’d love Garrick and Roberta to be on 90 Day fiancé. We need a crossover event so he can meet Low.

[@Kazza_8240]

@@imjustapancake3188 he haunts my nightmares with his badly written messages with random capital letters, I did check out his page, not worth it, he must be a 10 year old.

[@KrayZky]

Her family doesn’t like him because he acts like a child (never talks about things and throws temper tantrum’s) and doesn’t have a job. Her father is from Samoa. He knows what’s up and doesn’t respect this man boy. I love her family tbh. Wait til you see more of his family 👀

[@rowanmiles1576]

Can’t you not get a job until you have your green card? (I’m not sure if he has his green card at this point so correct me if I’m wrong.)

[@huntzkush]

Her family is the one making everything about themselves.

[@huntzkush]

@@rowanmiles1576 No you can't, but some places will illegaly hire you.

[@onceuponadystopia]

@@rowanmiles1576 he can actually file for a work permit that's valid during his 90 day stay, it does cost $500 to file, he just needs the K1 visa (which is what they should be getting for this show)

[@imabakedpotato]

Yeah ...no her family are rude and disrespectful have been to him since day one. She married him knowing he was a man child

[@sockruhtease]

Wait until you meet his mother and sister. You don't even know. Laziness, selfishness, and childishness run deep in his bloodline

[@evelynvslife]

Kalani’s sisters reaction to her pregnancy is 100% understandable. Her sister is in an unstable relationship that obviously has a lot of problems and her sister is bringing more children into it? Not only is she worried about her nephews if there’s a breakup, but she’ll also have to deal with Kalani’s reaction to it and all the emotional fallout.

[@DaddyAbbadon99]

The family, sister included, is supporting her and her baby. That's why they're angry. You'd think this chick's been on paint fumes or smth

[@edieniswonger]

Exactly. She is one of those people that constantly screws up, and passes the responsibility on to everyone else around her to fix. So when she's bringing someone equally as laissez fair and careless into the family, they have a right to be angry - they have TWO idiots to take care of now.... and one more kid on the way!

[@applejuicesip]

@@edieniswonger man you just tore her whole life apart but it was so Accurate i’m deceased

[@angelamosebarger9053]

Yes! Her family is completely supporting them financially because they couldn’t afford the first baby. And now they were so irresponsible to have another one. It’s completely understandable for them to be mad at her. I would be pissed if my sister was leeching money away from my parents because she can’t stop getting pregnant.

[@androgynousmaggot9389]

Can he get a regular job? Because permits and all, or he's simple that irresponsible?

[@edieniswonger]

@@androgynousmaggot9389 well, he knocked her up within 3 months of arriving to America while they lived in a house owned by her family and she had no job. So, yeah, I'd say he's pretty damn irresponsible.

[@laurenlozano9480]

Asuelu: “That’s a women’s job, it’s easy.” Every woman on earth: “So, you choose death?”

[@gram.]

Pff yeah, would be different if he was like working 12 hours manual labour and getting dug up but nah Asuelu, cmon man pff you're part-time in an ice cream shop, pipe down

[@lencross2172]

Not just every woman, every single dad too XD

[@blessedcocoa5729]

@@lilnass6891 Cause they do the same, so it's not just for women and it ain't easy.

[@grievingstereo8527]

It is easy. They wake up, throw the kids at school, go to the gym to flirt, go to the supermarket, buy wine and microwavable food, pick up the kids, buy fast food, let the kids run around the house, sit down drink wine and be on social media, feed the kids chicken nuggets for dinner, wash some dishes and laundry, take Tylenol pm and wine and fall asleep. Wake up and repeat

[@killallbtsfans2990]

@@lilnass6891 No shit simp

[@ksmith4831]

I think that her family saw through Aswelo more than she did and this is why they didn't like him and were upset that she was pregnant again.

[@cocolime6496]

idk what's there is to see "through" the man's not slick

[@edieniswonger]

@@cocolime6496 correct, she's just that daft

[@MicoB1022]

I mean in the first place she and Asuelo barely make enough to make ends meet as it is, they should not even be having 2 children right now, if any children at all.

[@emperor8716]

I guess he’s saying their jobs are easy cuz he’s seen Samoan women do more work, although that doesn’t mean a wife’s job is any easy. Also he is lazy so he shouldn’t say anything about easy work 😂

[@blumeiworld]

I think it's kind of s***** of him to sit there and compare though, like it doesn't really matter what their reason is he sat there and told her her voice was annoying like what the f*** is wrong with him, if you said that to me I would be ready to square up and kick him out of the car

[@blumeiworld]

my original thought was how's he know whose job is easier when he does no jobs everywhere

[@bt70a9]

Well that depends on the wifes work. Because being a wife is easy, you can quit at any time and you can still keep your actual job. Don't do that thing where you project life's hardships as a gender thing, or to have anything to do with having a wife or a man. Life is hard, having a family and duties is the single thing that gives meaning to life. Many lonely individuals would kill to be in a position like that.

[@Lockandkey45]

With the entire family treating him like shit lol 😂

[@banditdoggo]

@@blumeiworld didnt he work at a guild tour thing

[@basementdwellercosplay]

I love when someone says "oh this job has to be easy", but when someone says "why don't you do it", they are like,"oh no that's not my job". I often hear it when someone complains that minimum wage jobs are getting a slightly more liveable wage, but when you suggest they should do it they back out and act better than they are.

[@WadeAlma]

Because minimum wage goes up. Prices go up. And minimum wage reverts back to the same price value it was before. But now people who were earning more now suffer. It's basic economics.

[@Savvy_Fandoms]

@@WadeAlma which is why only 10% of the US population owns 90% of all the wealth, right? Such suffering, oh wow! Definitely not keeping wages low and prices up to keep up their own billion dollar paycheck they didn't/hardly work for!

[@jessicamillen7479]

@@WadeAlma havent done econ in years, but depending on demand elasticity (I think?) Then the price increase can be almost entirely absorbed by the company

[@WadeAlma]

@@Savvy_Fandoms You understand that even with the 10% giving all their salary away that still would not make up enough money for everyone to have a livable wage right? Regardless minimum wage shouldn't be very high in the first place. It's a beginner job with no skill. Anyone can take orders at McDonalds. Not everyone can go to college for 8 years to get a degree in medicine. Honestly learn a trade. Stop thinking minimum wage jobs should earn more and instead work towards valuable skills.

[@WadeAlma]

@@jessicamillen7479 Most minimum wage jobs aren't highly valued. And economics show companies will raise the cost of goods every time. It's not just lining up millionaires pockets but making up for the cost increase in the supply they have to buy as well as well as the employee cost. In fact economics show companies firing more when wage rises.

[@amberbaylie123]

“because that’s a woman job” nothing more annoying than hearing that shit

[@gram.]

Different culture

[@Isthislife2135]

And men hate hearing man up.

[@Ladyscarface]

Must be a womans job to go hulk smash and threaten to beat people up for money like his gangsta wannabe wide jaw sister

[@Ladyscarface]

@@gram. is that the same culture of beating people up for money you didnt work for? Amazing place and culture 🙌

[@androgynousmaggot9389]

Yep, we're still far away from being a decent society! Sadly girls will always have a harder time in life, that's just a fact! On the other hand I hate the"man up" crap too! Just treat each other with respect and don't assume or project insecurities!

[@doesntmatter6532]

The sister that started crying was the one who always watched her kids and chipped in financially. And CONSTANTLY constantly kept telling her to slow down with the kids so she could take on the responsibility herself. But nope😓

[@johnnyholmes8840]

That yawning scene is so true. You have a couple little one's, then finally get some time off and a sitter etc. And you end up just wanting to take a nap....ofcourse you can't because you are obligated at that point, the thing is, your significant other is probably thinking the same damn thing.

[@celianunn2070]

Mom of 2.5, best time of day when the kids finally fall asleep and I can get 3-6 hours of sleep 😂

[@jacqlynastro5747]

Wait till you guys see his mom and sister 🤣 "gimme money, gimme money now!!!"

[@gram.]

Helyaow you are eligible refund. Gibs goggle playing cards, load of dollar.

[@Ladyscarface]

"Ill beat you chup" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@jenefer3k]

I couldn't believe the grandma said she didn't care about the babies.

[@DocBelle2]

Did we miss a whole kid? Lol yes you did she was pregnant at her wedding.

[@Ladyscarface]

She is probably again rn

[@applehearts996]

Gotta love that logic, "it's easy work!" "why don't you do it?" "CAUSE I'M NOT A WOMAN" lol okay, easy it's beneath you better to work hard like man and work parttime at an ice cream shop.

[@Ladyscarface]

And play vido games all day with his crew of squeakers🤣

[@Ladyscarface]

Like atleast stream it and help make money so you sister dont have beat everyone up for money

[@Nexesys]

Any job you can do in sweat pants is an easy job. Laundry, cleaning, and watching kids is easy work. I'm a single dad, I do it all. Lol

[@amjadalhindi7350]

@@Nexesys idk what you do but babysitting and taking care of kids is easy, PARENTING and RAISING KIDS is the hard job. If it wasn't it wouldn't have been originally made a job for two people. Besides that it's a 24/7 job.

[@Nexesys]

@@amjadalhindi7350 it should be done by two people filling their assigned roles. I dunno about you, maybe you need to learn some skills with kids but I've found parenting to be fairly straightforward. Structure, right and wrong. Teaching as well as discipline. If you really finding that hard you prolly should have waited to have kids.

[@emperor8716]

Funny quotes just cuz: “Here’s some flowers. Smell it.” “Do you know what that is?” “Yeah. What is it?” “Axe throwing? That’s your romantic date?” “Yeah baby.” “It’s expensive.” “I know.” “We’re gonna return with money in the bank.” “Some.” “I’ll buy you a pig but I’m not buying you a cow.” “I think its just manipulation to get us to Samoa.” “…That’s not true.”

[@AlexKeyes299]

"SEE CAROLIIINNNE"

[@GHOST_13S]

I think the axe throwing date would be cool , two angry parents that need a break and can release the anger throwing axes, sometimes throwing shit is therapeutic

[@claranadine1086]

@@GHOST_13S right! Plus it's something new and kinda exciting

[@androgynousmaggot9389]

Except you don't pop up those kind of questions during a "romantic date" xd

[@Kazza_8240]

@@GHOST_13S one of those places has just opened here in Glasgow, Scotland, 'Hatchet Harrys' it's called, it's just outside central station if any fellow Scots see this. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

[@PhantomMonkey2008]

He can’t even do the lazy “let tv raise kids” style of parenting? Sad. She basically married a teenager.

[@katejackson6502]

Most teenagers are better then that

[@EmEm78]

He's more like a toddler than a teenager.

[@statesminds]

If y'all are super well off it's okay to send money to one of their family if in poverty but if y'all struggling and have kids then I don't think you should do that especially if you're paying to visit them. Lol

[@Ladyscarface]

But then the sister will "beat u chup" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@justinas1298]

Asuelu knows it's not his money so he rushes off to give it away. I wonder what he would do if he got, let's say, 5k from work. I bet he would buy a fancy car for that money and order Kalani to send her money away to his family without contributing any himself

[@kiyokumabear]

@@justinas1298 My hyundai cost more than that. He can get a 2012 sedan with 120k miles at best, lmao!

[@justinas1298]

@@kiyokumabear I don't drive so I dunno about the cost lol, but the thought stays the same, his money is his money and the wife's money is his family's money lol

[@bianca741]

@@justinas1298 It's really funny how he says that it's a woman's job to take care of kids when he, as a man, doesn't provide for his family.

[@sassysucculent6291]

He doesn’t help with the kids. He would leave her home with the kids and go out and be gone for hours or full days and come home and act dumb like he didn’t know why she was upset. He’s a big child. That’s why her family was so upset about the second pregnancy lol. Also he wouldn’t work. Or do anything except run around practically

[@Dino23124]

“I just told everyone I’m pregnant and they won’t give me the champagne bottle 😭 😭 😭 what’s wrong with them?? They’re calling me weird!!!”

[@mcflurryenjoyer]

"We are always trying to find the worst couples" My brain: **cough cough** Danielle and Mohamed

[@Ladyscarface]

Angela and Mike

[@Ladyscarface]

Libby and anddrrrre

[@lunix3259]

That skanky religious dude and large wife

[@IratePuffin]

YoU uSeD mE!!!!!!!

[@pinkyvdt]

Oh Laarrwwddd yes, those 2 are content for days. The "her vagina stinks so bad she needs a doctor" saga is at least 2 videos.

[@GutzyPlays]

You should have someone organize all the clips for you guys! You didn't really miss much, but it might be easier for yall. Either way, I click and love every video you put out 😂 Much love

[@Ladyscarface]

They missed everything what are you talking about they missed so much they're on asulus side🤭🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🗑

[@Ladyscarface]

Missed all the times his sister tried to beat up her family for money

[@Ladyscarface]

Missed asulus mom saying "i dont care about the kids, I NEED MONEY MONEY MONEY NOW"🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@Ladyscarface]

Missed asulu leaving on a bus and calling kalani to come pick him up but kept giving her the wrong address on purpose to make her drive around all night....

[@marissadash]

@@Ladyscarface what! I haven’t watched 90df in a while. When was this?!?

[@phoebesargeant8822]

Y’all haven’t even seen “you - you are the pineapple of my life, and you have my heart” and she just goes “OkkkAAAyyy”

[@EmEm78]

😂

[@Casinogirl56]

Her family is unhappy about the pregnancy because they're supporting these two overgrown children with children.

[@natchosm4320]

Well it's frustrating to the family when this girl is popping out children without thinking about it and they then have to help and provide for her kid. Like yeah Id be pissed too

[@rykensnow]

... that‘s even worse than saying a womans job is easy

[@tomfoolery7797]

@@rykensnow It really isn't. Having a child with a person you haven't known for that long, and having a second child while the first is still being in diapers is pretty irresponsible.

[@cocolime6496]

they're mormon I'm thinking they're not big on birth control

[@JenR1215]

the sister is upset becasue they all know this family is a disaster. brignign more kids into this hurricane family is completely irresponsible. if you cant get afford to go home so his family can meet is children, how tf are you affording another one??

[@sarahhunter1114]

In the sisters defense, when you have a sibling who has or creates a ton of drama, you get pushed aside a lot. It's really a tough way to live.

[@tweakyapollo]

Dane: "Somebody....SLAP THAT MAN!!!!!!"

[@flashpointprdx]

Don't mean to be rude but I don't think Asuelu is all there ...

[@Immortal4everable]

Yeah, I don’t believe that he really has the mental ability to think and function as a normal man his age would. I do actually feel a little bad for him.

[@foxnb358]

I absolutely love the moments of Ken being a dad about stuff x3

[@SamWiseTheGrey]

If someone talked to my daughter that way they would swiftly regret it. Wouldn’t need her dad there at all.

[@YouKnowMeDuh]

If dad isn't there, nothing says you can't be the dad in that moment ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ and just to drive the point home, tell dad too so that deadbeat can get a hearty double portion of whoop ass.

[@angryman2406]

That guy has one of the most vacant expressions I have ever seen. It is like there is nothing going on behind his heavily lidded eyes.

[@katattack707]

I was watching some eps on Asuelu and one of the biggest reasons why everyone dislikes him is he kept lying about where he was going during Covid and he was out playing netball without a mask with all these people, and Kalani (the wife I think?) her mum has a condition where she is at severe risk with covid and Kalani was worried for the babies because she doesn't want them to get covid either.

[@DigicrestLegend]

Asuelu: "Take these flowers." Also Asuelu: "tHiS iS tHe ScEnT oF mY lOvE."

[@TheRumourMill]

I never knew how beautiful Roses could smell until I moved to California. They grow wild and smell amazing, nothing like those refrigerated stems from the store.

[@oliviaforever16]

TRUE! I had the same experience when I moved to L.A

[@EmanDeMoan]

Ikr! I love the smell of roses

[@Ladyscarface]

You also have more p3d0s per square mile as the rest of the country sooooo😬😬😬

[@lunix3259]

Bruh fr another reason to move to LA

[@grievingstereo8527]

@@Ladyscarface Los Angeles is really ironic name for the epicenter of illuminati and devil worshipers

[@Kindred500]

Oh, that man could not have dug himself a deeper hole.

[@atomickitten4648]

Maybe 6 feet worth of a hole 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@QueenDorkSyd]

I'm upset you guys missed the clip of Asuelu's opinions on condoms. A classic line came out of that scene.

[@Spaghotti_Thotti]

What is the video called?

[@jasminejacobs6862]

Aseulu ain't being cuute anymore, he doesn't have to be mean bc he won't get a job his family trying to beat up hers all the time 😩😅😅

[@Ladyscarface]

And kens simping his bum azz🤣

[@katherinemartin9261]

He does have a job. He went from selling frozen yogurt to working for a ride share company

[@jasminejacobs6862]

@@katherinemartin9261 ok but kalanis family is carrying her babies n him at the end of the day besides tlc money aseulu is just trying to throw it all at HIS family without caring about this little group of children he keeps having, if he wants to toss his money around he's gotta support his children and wife before his mom and sister and that's the biggest point of contempt

[@karleypayton8845]

"I'm the stern parent, believe it or not", yeah, I'm choosing not, Ken. You're wearing cat ears and Mary is the one who brought an army of literal snakes into your life 😂😂😂

[@thesuperdoge2476]

Ken being the stern parent is probably the most surprising plot twist of 2021

[@pumpkin_piexox]

People think he’s sweet because he speaks broken English, barley knows what he’s saying n has a high pitched voice lol Who knows how that fool is fr

[@Michael-hc2vs]

I'm sorry but have you not seen the previous videos and how horrible her and her family is to him? Don't get me wrong what he said is stupid and naive and a very dated outlook but I really can't blame him for being done with her shit.

[@pumpkin_piexox]

@@Michael-hc2vs can’t say his family is any better 🤷‍♀️

[@kopykat6843]

@@Michael-hc2vs considering her dad was completely correct about him and "Samoan" thinking. And the sister having to take care of his kid for them. I say her family has ever right to be pissed off at both of them.

[@MegaLars10]

Axe throwing sounds like a great date!

[@hileyjohnson1901]

I was thinking the same thing

[@FrizzKid05]

It's just not super-romantic. Lol. I think that's why she scoffed. He said it was 'really romantic'.

[@neen42]

@@FrizzKid05 romance is overrated. I'd rather have fun and do something i've yet to try.

[@FrizzKid05]

@@neen42 Agreed...but he was the one who told her it was gonna be romantic. The confusion was definitely his fault.

[@neen42]

@@FrizzKid05 ah, wasn't really paying attention to that part. Yeah, he screwed up there.

[@chericarr141]

He is not joking at all. Obviously a lot of men think its so easy being a stay at home mom, until they become a stay at home dad. Being a parent is hard you never get a break from your kids!!!

[@hipeople4495]

10:41 tbh when my brother told my family he was having a kid my reaction was like “oh…” instead of being all happy only because he was not even old enough to drink and she was almost twice his age also they met 5 months prior. But I didn’t break down crying in the middle of a restaurant like the sister that was my mother’s job. Edit: i was not there when this happened but i wish i was cuz 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kopykat6843]

@@RandomUserYTisFailing ha! Same!

[@daniellefaithlove9517]

The couple fights all the time and his family always wants him to send them money. His mother expects $1000 a month. They live with her family. He doesn’t help her with anything. Not even with the kids. He doesn’t deal with anything. He always leaves or walks off. I believes he was only working part time. There’s a lot more. His sister tries to attack his wife when she tells her they aren’t giving them anymore money because they have a family to take care of.

[@deadadm3659]

patiently waiting for the clips of his mom and sister crying and fighting over money

[@aussieinnz666]

My old nan once told me, There's many a bride who carries more than flowers down the Isle. 💐🍼

[@kopykat6843]

Hahaha i think I would have really liked your nan.

[@Benobot99]

"If today's your birthday, happy birthday" It actually is my birthday! Thank you! 😊

[@mike90317]

Happy birthday 🎂🎉🥳

[@zargle]

happy birthday !!!

[@Benobot99]

Thank you both! 😊

[@baka-sama7834]

Happy bday!

[@lunix3259]

Hbd boiiii 🥳

[@saragh3900]

I mean if i saw my sister was marrying someone like that i'd be sad too.

[@madamedragon]

This guy should have tried living a few years on his own, maybe than he would have learned some respect for "the woman's job". He needs to grow up and keep his fragile masculinity to himself. If he said any of that crap to me I would kick him out of my life so fast

[@annehaight9963]

That would have required him to get a full time job, which apparently he doesn't want to do. It's easier to mooch off other people.

[@alyxwithay6516]

The way she talks to him its like she’s talking to a toddler.

[@_marth_1537]

Those first 8 seconds made me scream- like- W H A T?! That is BEYOND rude. Immediate divorce. I don’t care.

[@gram.]

Try watching the rest first, before you let that chip on your shoulder get in the way wheyheyyyy

[@Tannerj50]

@@gram. for real,mans was probably just triggered by all the loaded bullets(questions) being shot at him.the tipping point was when the mother asked about samoan women.

[@jimthecactus7425]

@UCLIFoAMXxsUDVbizi1_8fxQ Nah he's a piece of shit

[@gram.]

@@jimthecactus7425 projecting

[@gram.]

@@Tannerj50 awk aye tbh what he said was a bit 'ooof' to us in our culture... but ultimately? these comments are a bit much haha. Consider the mans from a different, old school kinda culture as well, know? Awk, think most of them are just posturing, grandstanding, 'virtue signalling' haha.

[@Kibeeeeee]

I think they should react to Deaven and Jihoon at some point, especially because Deaven does have a kid from a different relationship, and they literally only speak through translator apps.

[@elaenawalker316]

Yes!

[@rabiademir9171]

They are really boring

[@Ktakahashi18]

Kay wait?! She takes care of the kids because its "women's work". But he doesn't have a job. Who provides for this couple?! Does she also have a job?! What does he do all day?

[@bianca741]

Not a "men's job", that's for sure

[@kopykat6843]

Apparently he's part time worker at a ice cream shop.... So manly....

[@KittyKatCat-]

I don't care if that guy was "joking" or not. It wasn't funny, it was rude.

[@betterbetty3542]

You’re missing a lot of context about the family dealing with the pregnancy. First, they’re all Mormon. Also, Asuelu promised her family and her father that the first pregnancy was a one time thing and he wouldn’t touch his daughter until after they got married therefore getting the family on his side only to feel betrayed when they both continued lying about their lifestyle. I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, just what the context is.

[@cauzie8281]

I wondered if there was religion mixed in.

[@firetiger582]

The reason everyone in her family is against him is because when she first got pregnant with her first child her man refused to pay for anything with the baby. After I think it was 6 or 7 months of her family and her pushing him he finally bought a little over $100 of baby stuff. It was very sad

[@lunix3259]

Honestly from this, I can respect my mom more that she does everything in the house, when it's ok to ask help. Her title will forever be belittled by society while my dad gets all the glory and calls the shots. I get why women nowadays decide to pursue career over family, and even then it ain't going to be easy either

[@thebronzepill7892]

Motherhood is the most important thing there is.

[@simplesweetpotatoj1112]

No matter which path you choose as a women people judge you it’s awful,

[@enbyishimaru]

" JK found the next clip" Thanks Mary

[@Peanut_taco_muffin]

I came across a Reddit or something where they were trashing Ken and saying he just sits around and does nothing while Mary raises the kids and cooks, etc.- the man puts out a new video EVERY SINGLE DAY. He’s the breadwinner, he obviously works his ass off and Mary wants to be a homemaker. And we don’t know what he does around the house because it’s no one’s business but theirs. People are hella judgmental and it’s so toxic.

[@eva3026]

them trying to have a serious conversation while axes being thrown in the background 💀

[@lizziec4408]

It's so funny to me how big and tough Aseulu is in front of Kailani and her mom, but as soon as her dad Lo shows up Asuelu becomes a quiet little mouse 🤣🤣 And yet, I don't blame asuelu for the way he started acting. They beat him down constantly.

[@cocolime6496]

if by "beat him down" you mean "call him out on his shit"

[@michaelajones7182]

I love how Ken just starts talking about his family in the middle of this, it’s so wholesome to see his eyes light up when he talks about them

[@xabrinamorph]

The sister is upset because the last time Kalani said she was pregnant the whole family had to step in and raise the baby. She also didn't have a job or partner to pick up the slack. The sister was basically "dad" and did the feeding, diapers, everything. Kalani also LIED to her sister and said that Asuelu cheated on her and that he basically didn't want to be a dad. It wasn't until after this that she came clean and her sister gave him a chance because she then knew the truth. Through all the ups and downs her family was still there for him. They'd get upset but Das being from Samoa was able to explain that it's different where he's from and it's not fair to tell him to change everything he knows instantly, when everyone should be working on improving themselves. Asuelu has his faults but at the end of the day, she had full control over sleeping with him during that vacation, choosing to marry him, and choosing to live with him.

[@YouWillGetThereBuddy]

So him being a shit father and mysogynist asshole is somehow her fault?

[@xabrinamorph]

@@YouWillGetThereBuddy I'm not seeing where I said any of that. I was answering a specific question in the video, if you have more to add please do so.

[@YouWillGetThereBuddy]

@@xabrinamorph I ask this cuz that's what your comment seems like ti's saying. Ending off your comment with blaming her for sleeping with him and choosing to marry him says that. As if people don't change as time passes. Your comment just seems like your blaming her for even getting with this asshole when everyone was fooled in he beginning

[@xabrinamorph]

@@YouWillGetThereBuddy I think YOU took it that way. Don't make this into something it's not.

[@rmf176]

@@xabrinamorph agree... I love my kids but same thing, should be wrapping it up instead of having kids with people you don't know well enough yet. Its not her fault for what he does, but she has control of her legs..wether it be walk away or keep em closed.

[@heisrisen7899]

He can finally say to her what he couldn't say before. Now let the controlling begin.

[@emperor8716]

He was so innocent when he first came… he’s changed a lot and that says a lot about the family

[@TheBiggestMoronYouKnow]

It’s like a kid being raised in a shitty environment

[@intermediateopal8059]

I think he is opening up more because earlier language barriers were holding him back. I don't think he has actually changed.

[@emperor8716]

@@intermediateopal8059 He could’ve been a bad person before, we don’t really know, but the family has definitely had some sort of negative impact on him

[@jasminejacobs6862]

@@emperor8716 ahh, his family is really greedy n violent though- like his mom and sister alwaus trying to beat them all up 😩

[@Ladyscarface]

Whos family? His money hungry lazy family?

[@3minutestill]

I love how you and your wife have an agreement and understanding. It is tough to explain it but as parents, I think those that have that understanding would agree and understand you completely.

[@kamryn110]

Not Asuelu having a tantrum because *THE DOCTOR WAS A WOMAN🤦‍♀️*

[@liberfaction9700]

If "woman's job" is easy, then why doesn't he go to med school, get qualified as a pediatrician and start his own practice? That way he can earn 'easy' money for his lazy relatives.

[@TIMAAAY]

3:42 "Do you know what giddy is?" "Yup" *does no-one see the comedy?*

[@m.rye.426]

Giddyup! 🐎

[@lord_xylozdoomsday959]

Most dudes who say that have wives that take care of the house and kids while working at least two jobs while the fella complaining is jobless and sits on his ass all day

[@Super_Panda_BS]

Fun animal fact: It’s a well-known legend that Saint Patrick banished snakes from Ireland, and whether or not you believe that to be true, you won’t find any slithering serpents there. In fact, the closest thing you’ll find is the viviparous lizard, Ireland’s only lizard.

[@shake6474]

I hope there's a place with no lizards and only snakes. I'm fricking scared of lizards but I love snakes

[@Brookehhxd]

In Alberta, Canada.. rats are outlawed.

[@slandonlandon6783]

Indeed, two of my passions is ophinolpgy and mythology/folklore. So I came across this at one point.

[@jeanjacketfuzz]

I believe it was actually Protestants that he banished, but for learning purposes, they changed the story to snakes

[@YourFriendKelsey]

I have a pet corn snake named Rosie.

[@taniaABal]

I think Kalani told her sister that Asuelu cheated back in Samoa and Kalani still wanted to marry him, that's why she was upset. I also think Kalani lied, they were on a break, so it wasn't cheating

[@tashray633]

The dad threatens Asulau the whole season and never does a thing to back it up.

[@ani1451]

He confronts him about being rude in the car ride.. he also confronts asuelus family for asking for money.

[@rebeccaolmedo3999]

Well we know now why her family wasn’t happy about the second baby. Kalani came out and said he cheated the whole relationship and her sister knew many of the times, including while Kalani was pregnant both times. After he got a yeast infection IN HIS MOUTH while visiting Samoa, she checked out of the relationship and later said she wanted a divorce. This was also after he gave her a, “hall pass” to kiss another man. Then she did and ended up sleeping with him and falling for the other guy. I hope their kids never see the content because how heart breaking would it be to watch your parents’ marriage break down this way.

[@gaia_arcade]

I'm like Mary in that I actually like being a housewife, taking care of the cleaning and cooking, and someday that kids. My husband does help a lot. He likes to cook too and will vaccum the house because it hurts my back too much. When I ask for help, he's always there. He feels bad when I don't, but has to remember that I actually like taking care of the house. My mom swears that I should work too so I'm not home all day, but I don't have to heart to tell her I like being a housewife 😂 She thinks I'll get bored like she did, but I'm fine ☺️

[@danielescobar7618]

Him sitting in the back seat next to the childseat is so fitting. He's a manchild. The sister cries because she warns her sister endlessly and when she turns oit right, the mess gets dumped into her lap withoit thanks or admission of any mistakes

[@koalakisser9769]

Lol y’all think Kahlani’s family is combative?? Wait until you meet Asuelo’s mom and sister Tammi😂😂

[@sleepybun908]

Asuelu literally looks like he has nothing going on in his head 😭

[@fairytailgirl123]

I love how you guys post right when I decide to eat something. Now I have something to watch while eating

[@catcher881]

Eating gang 🤜🤛

[@kenziehansen2424]

19:37 truth lol the amount of times ive seen mary in the background with a laundry basket is hilarious😂

[@konno1995]

Are you Kris Hansen

[@happyfairyjerry]

Lol when you're sleepy as a kid, you don't even know how tired you are😂 most of the time I wasn't fighting my parents to stay up I was fighting myself 💯 need someone stern when you're emotionally tired😊

[@charlacobb3968]

Last time a man told me, "That's a woman's job," I broke his nose.

[@neen42]

Have a cat instead of a spouse is really underrated.

[@chronicallyella1191]

The reason her family weren’t happy about having another baby is because he (asuleu) treats her so poorly and doesn’t help with the kids or anything

[@PhillTheHero]

If I had a baby girl and I heard her partner talk to her like that, I would fight them hahaha XD

[@sweetstar8756]

I love seeing ken be a dad and talk about his kids and family, it's so sweet :3

[@n3v3rg01ngback]

Try going through a wedding in a new country. I had a traditional Korean wedding. Both I and my brother-in-law (himself Korean) had no idea what to do. It was a total trip.

[@sangsteppenwolf4965]

This went from being the sweet couple to yikes at this point... Rip.

[@Kylarfi]

It's not always a happy thing. My parents straight up told me they'd have to process it and still don't accept that I have a child with my wife almost 7 years later. They don't consider it a "real" grandchild because we live in another country.

[@Emily-lh6em]

They don't sound like very positive and loving people. Sounds like you guys are better off without them. They're gonna regret it at the end of their life but that's their loss.

[@stevierosser4493]

The way Buff says “you’ve changed” plays again and again in my brain when I try to go to sleep.