Citizens Arresting My Moaning Neighbor (w/ Sarah Bonsignore) | Perfect Person Ep. 13

My lovely wife Sarah joins the show to answer calls about seeing your friends boning, getting through grief, and inviting the cool kids to your wedding. It's perfection, baby!
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[@Erica82411]

“My boss losing focus” 🤣 feels like you had 100 things you wanted to say before that and this is what you and the lawyers settled on. Chefs kiss 🤌🏻 perfection.

[@jessicalocklear762]

This. The tact was glorious.

[@staceysmith5216]

Yeah, it does feel like that. He was also quoting Ned’s instagram post.

[@victreebel170]

Just quoting Ned's post and trying not to laugh while doing so. I love you, Miles.

[@TheFerParra]

The way I SPIT my coffee with that 😂😂😂🤭🤭

[@ALajProductionFilm]

I literally had a standing ovation after that line and again after the end of his speech. Perfectly said

[@sophiekuhn5342]

Miles actually loving his wife and being Italian

[@pyerp5574]

HAHAHAH 😭😭😭😭

[@maze2253]

"Global warming. Geopolitics. My boss losing focus." 💀💀💀 "People that I consider.... coworkers."

[@robynlindsey5969]

the national anthem and "my boss loosing focus" really were wildly unhinged choices and I loved it tysm

[@baohanhuynh8046]

Lmaooo I’m glad someone pointed it out because once I heard the national anthem I cracked up and had to restart the episode because I LOST FOCUS 😮‍💨

[@farrahatkinson5207]

Miles trying not to laugh at “my boss losing focus”

[@kristenlockner147]

Can we talk about Miles saying there’s one person he wishes he didn’t invite to the wedding 💀💀 WE KNOW MILES WE KNOW

[@jjunture]

I just got to that part of the episode and choked… 😂 There is someone who I wish I hadn’t invited to my wedding too, for the same reason. They ruin SO MANY PHOTOS!

[@kikiayanna]

@@jjunture that exact thing happened to me

[@KC-fj9kc]

I was listening to the podcast this morning while I was getting ready for work and I literally shouted out loud “oh damn he just threw shade!” Scared my dog I yelled so loud 😂 I was dying!

[@kristenlockner147]

@@KC-fj9kc almost spat out my coffee at work 😂😂

[@El1society]

what did he mean by that?

[@gopher8288]

Everyone talking about the pre-pod message, but Sarah's cop story was the funniest damn thing I've heard in recent memory. Please have Sarah on anytime, and I love you perfect people!

[@Queen_Ati]

lmfaoooooo miles basically telling us not to steep the tea too long or we’ll end up BITTER.

[@elizawoods7819]

trying not to cackle on this plane after hearing that 😂

[@heatherkalman9668]

Loved that metaphor! *chefs kiss*

[@raquelscheid4025]

He's right tho! I had a nightmare my husband cheated on me and my husband laughed and said I've been too invested in Ned's drama lol

[@TheShauNanigans]

@@elizawoods7819 Listening to this podcast in any sort of public place is always a risk. Lol

[@kimberlymary5350]

@@raquelscheid4025 ive been talking about it to my partner every single day since its happened. he called me on the way home from work yesterday and was like "DID YOU SEE THEIR LATEST VIDEO?!" hahahaha

[@zaynasallam]

“My boss losing focus” LMFAO he definitely lost focus alright😭 Love you Miles (& Sarah, we love seeing her on the show🥹)!

[@kparker905]

When did that happen in the podcast? Is there a timestamp?

[@maze2253]

@@kparker905 At the very beginning

[@beayv]

sarah saying that not that shes not good with money but "I'm a fun person, okay, sorry!" I FELT THAT

[@funland19]

I feel that way completely😭 my husband is the money person haha

[@consciouslycarly]

I want Sarah AND Rainie on the pod together!

[@zerocraic3966]

Honestly not to discount how unique they both are… but I do think the reason rainie and miles gas each other up so authentically is because if Sarah walked into say a bar with rainie and told me they’re sisters. I’d believe her. They’re like two sides of the same coin. That “I love who I am, who I am is bizarre to even me. I am excited to tell you so you can also feel the glee of my existence the way I do all the time you’re welcome” I love them so much for many different reasons but to rip off a comment I saw on another video re:rainie, I just love that she talks like predictive text you never know wtf word she’s going to pivot to next. I feel Sarah has a similar vibe

[@MSinger4472]

Yes please!!

[@alyssaferry600]

Best idea ever!

[@mayajohnson6643]

The way I HOLLERED when I hear miles say “you know, performative relationships are sort of in the news right now” 💀😂

[@federpen]

I love the first caller just listening into Sarah and Miles talking about stories and hyping them up xD

[@ecb3828]

YES

[@shanyon_canyon]

The silver lining to the Ned scandal is all the people like me rediscovering their love for the whole Try Squad and engaging in other content made by people involved in Second Try. This episode was hilarious and I'm absolutely going to be bingeing the backlog and listening regularly!

[@morgandanielle7196]

Sarah makes me realize i dont have to tone myself down for people because shes so wonderful and still loud and herself

[@christafollano800]

I love Sarah. I ALWAYS feel like I'm behind at 29 and then I hear her confidence in her experience and feel so much better. Late bloomers unite!

[@katiemoreno3013]

The one person you wish you didn’t invite to the wedding 😂😂 I’m LOSING IT

[@zerocraic3966]

ONE, Katie. Just one Love how many times they volleyed that “one”😅

[@HereforSimsandDogs]

I got trapped in the bathtub when I was 7 months pregnant and my husband had to come home from work early to get me out safely...also after the Dr. said I need to watch my weight gain and that my baby was getting too big. So I feel Sarah on the cracked toilet seat. Pregnancy, so much fun. 😑

[@rebeccat9918]

Pregnancy and post childbirth are... a ride. Here's some unsolicited advice... poop before you go to the hospital/birthing center/what have you. No one talks about it.. and its the absolute worst constipation you can imagine.

[@emilybuckmaster7391]

With the intro, and the rest of the pod, Miles has proven to be a perfect person once again.

[@funland19]

I lost my mom to suicide in 2017 when I was 21. It was by far the hardest thing I’ve ever lived through. Your advice was great Miles and I’d definitely watch a video on grief if you decide to make one!

[@LivingTheMusicLife]

well in light of Miles' great advice i'd love to know your funniest memory of your mom i you don't mind sharing :) & my thoughts go out to both of you and I hope both of you are in a good place currently

[@MySeasideRendezvous]

A video on grief is much needed. Specially in this post-pandemic time ❤

[@jeanthepants7905]

❤️❤️

[@Meganb1286]

@@LivingTheMusicLife that is so lovely of you to offer that. Good to know there’s still many of us who aren’t negative and care

[@startolentino]

I'm rolling at how he starts his intro with good morning and ends with goodnight. This was much needed. Thanks Bon sir!

[@Faybee99]

LMAOOO "my boss losing focus" man all of them so badly wanna talk about it but the small shade is still pretty good to see 👀

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Miles and Sarah in a Podcast. There’s going to be chaos and laughter. Also, hello to Bébé Bonsignore! I hope they’re doing well.

[@andyqv-goodvibes1900]

that statement was classy AND comedic af, love love love. Miles, you rock.

[@darahanley4929]

I love seeing Sarah on the podcast, she is hilarious. We all know that the battery basket is her idea. The boning ghost was too funny.🤣

[@elchaitea]

Am I the only one that wishes these were longer? I don't even see the hour pass by because I'm laughing or giggling most of the time.

[@connerolmedo888]

Minutes into the video Sarah putting Miles in his place is why we love her It’s great to see real love in these trying times

[@andreinalisette]

"ONE person I wish wasn't at our wedding" 🤣🤣🤣 love you guys!!

[@pluckyfox]

The shade 😂

[@Deliverance253]

Im new to the perfectionists and am confused by who it was?

[@jacs2cents98]

Miles talking about loss I really appreciate. Losing a sibling is fucking hard and it doesn’t get talked about. My sister died in my early 20s and sibling loss is so overlooked. I think I comment this on every video or podcast where he brings this up. You should ask and talk about it, like I so so so appreciate this and would love a podcast or video about it.

[@nu80sdiscofunk]

you two have such a hilarious and lovely dynamic! sarah's hookup story had me wheezing so hard LOL btw i feel like an episode with both will and zach would be so funny and chaotic, pls have them on soon

[@cozieswithkritta]

I love you talking about grief. Everyone takes it different. I lost my mom at 13 and it still affects me at 25 .

[@MySeasideRendezvous]

❤

[@betsymccleery2071]

The love that Sarah and Miles have for each other is legitimately the most beautiful thing I’ve ever witnessed. So happy for you guys 😢

[@domdomfrias]

The SHADE about the ONE person Miles regrets inviting to their wedding and Sarah with the “juuust one??” 😅😂

[@annafraser9061]

Honestly with all the drama going on it was so nice to just relax and listen to something funny but also very genuine. And I would absolutely love if Miles did an episode on grief.

[@chrissiesnap]

The star spangled banner playing in the background of your statement is sending me into orbit. 🤣💀

[@mood_ring13]

Firstly, Miles bashing Ned for "losing focus" made my week. Secondly, I just love Sarah so much! I'm happy she's a reoccurring host of the pod!

[@tayvinyip]

miles is definitely loving the drama

[@_previously]

Miles and Rainie are definitely whispering about it in the corner during their lunch break.

[@ohsolovely3995]

@@_previously This is too accurate ☠️

[@kathleenuclear]

MORE SARAH EPISODES PLEASE! I love this woman so much and I love your chemistry and how much you love one another, it is so lovely to see.

[@LostNTranslations]

Unless I'm misreading the vibe, (I hope I'm corrected if that's the case) but not wanting a certain person at the wedding combined with the podcast a couple days ago has me wondering: Was Ned a problematic boss in general? Like, even in an alternate universe where the scandal didn't happen, I'm getting the vibe that: 1. Ned was gatekeeping what content the tryguys can and cannot produce for the channel, stiffling Zach's creative inclinations that he spoke of. 2. Was unsupportive of co-worker's decisions. The thing about Rainie's biological clock, Ned ducking out during Miles' segment, ect. I know they all want to be done talking about Ned, but I was wondering if they could speak about Ned as a co-worker and the fact that he's suddenly gone, does that workspace share more relief than remorse?

[@Twinken2]

You and Sarah relationship is so beautiful! You can really tell you two are best friends and have so much fun together. It’s freaking awesome!!

[@sydneyshepherd6393]

Hi! Just here to help Sarah feel better. I, too, broke a toilet seat when I was pregnant. I was also in the office and had to explain how the seat broke.

[@4shortbread]

I was putting my baby down for a nap while I listened to this… laughed at loud and woke him up. Thanks Miles. 😂

[@robynk16]

Miles, you talking about loss at a young age really resonated! Thank you again for talking about it so openly, so many people can relate. ❤

[@_previously]

Miles, I hope that you and The Try Guys + staff know that you all are setting an entirely new precedent when it comes to addressing scandal, and PR disasters like this one. You guys are handling this with so much maturity and grace and I hope that everyone knows that we anticipate everything you guys are doing. I look forward to this new era and everything have in store for us from now on. This episode was fantastic as usual. You and Sarah have such great chemistry and it’s so fun to hear you two chat with each other. Looking forward to the next episode!! Love ya, ya cutie 😬🫶

[@camper4life22]

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[@deaniewink]

The section on grief gave me really proud feels. I lost my father at 11 and my mum, who was my best friend, at 18. Grief is such a mine field/clusterfuck and it’s not a club you ever want to be part of but your advice of being present is so real. I don’t need sympathy anymore but allowing me to talk about my mum, make jokes about her, tell memories, etc. without feeling like I’m bringing down the entire room is SO important. Another thing that I always try to mention when people ask me how to help those who are grieving is to be there after the shock has passed. Initially everyone wants to know how you’re doing but they eventually forget and go back to their lives and that’s not possible for the person grieving so just pay attention to your friends long after the passing, just in case. Thanks for your advice babes!! 🖤🖤

[@callie3396]

One of the big issues that many couples have when expecting is which religion to raise the baby. However, Sarah and Miles need to decide which pronunciation of their last name the child will be given.

[@sam_art21321]

Your advice on grief and how friends can help was so insightful and honestly really needed right now. It’s not the same as loosing a friend or family member, but my cat whom I’ve had since I was 4 (I’m 22 now)-we had to put her down a week ago and it’s so hard adjusting to the silence and not having her constant precense. I have a wonderful friend who just offered to be there with me and we hung out all day and it was so helpful in ways I cannot express. So thank you for all you had to say on the topic!

[@30leaves99]

I don't know if anyone has ever made a note of this, but I love how Miles says : talk to you later, after the call... Its brings an honest tone of connection with a smart promise of keeping in touch, even if it means commenting or keeping track of the podcast.

[@rebeccat9918]

Any time with Sarah is such a joy!

[@backpackerinprogress3171]

Quickly becoming a regular listener of this podcast! I will always tune in when Sarah has something to say!

[@MariahRAchel1]

I think that’s my favorite “statement” that’s come out of this ordeal so far 😂

[@Stevis92]

I'm a 29 year old not super emotional dude, but I literally teared up at the end. I strive to have a relationship like you're guys!

[@juliagazzara3711]

i love the discussion of y'all being so similar because i remember the first time i ever heard sarah speak i was like "OH it's female miles" (which means miles is male sarah)

[@grllwrfr]

sarah's vibes are always immaculate (source: i have listened to this podcast twice already since it came out and am now on my third listen/watch) i adore her

[@likesorad7320]

i am so glad she brought up the credit card thing cause i was also cringing at that (as someone with a fair amount of credit card debt lmao)

[@emilycorrea7252]

Miles will FOREVER be the Fourth TryGuys in my eyes !!

[@livjm]

I love love love Sarah being on the show, she's such a calming but hilarious presence 💕

[@falltowinter]

Honestly, I could listen to Sarah talk for hours, she's such a fun story teller! Miles & Sarah compliment each other so well.

[@victoriapettey9683]

Miles and Sarah have the BEST dynamic! Sarah’s storytelling has me fully in tears. “…Is she haunted?”

[@rhiannonlister517]

I lost the majority of my family by the time i was 15. At least three extremely important people every single year from the age of 6 - 15. Including multiple friend deaths and even more in the recent years of COVID. Im 21 now. I’m disabled and I’ve lost a lot of friends that had the same conditions as me due to the pandemic and us being high risk. An amazing friend i lost just two weeks ago. I truly truly want to thank you for the grief advice. Thank you fro talking about it. (Sorry if this seems like a trauma dump)

[@margocastro8207]

As someone who had a baby a year ago- keep those check ins! Those moments with your Sig Other is so important❤️ It’s so easy to get caught up in surviving the day and adjusting individually to having a child- staying a team takes work and effort too!

[@dollbowz]

unrelated to any of the tea but miles, thank you so much for the segment on grief. i'm usually an audio listener and i'm catching up on podcasts and tomorrow is my best friend's birthday, she passed about seven years ago when we were 19. i've tried to put my feelings abt grief and coping into words so many times and it's hard but you said it so perfectly. my favorite story about my friend is how we got put together on a debate project but we were like the exact same person which made working together kinda stressful and intense and we fought a lot but then ended up winning the debate. the after-party grief often brings more joy and nostalgia than it does pain and it can be cathartic. anyways sorry for the ramble, this topic has been heavy on my mind lately so i feel like i was meant to hear that

[@b.a.shaski3550]

I think this is my favorite episode so far. My face hurts from laughing but I'm also kinda teary.

[@rebaray8020]

Dear Sarah, Thank you for sharing your story about breaking the toilet seat! When I was pregnant I gained 70 lbs (half my body weight at the time) and I have no regrets! Being pregnant is fucking hard, my body was just really good at making sure my baby was well insulated! Live your best pregnant life! It’ll just set you up for an easier time chest feeding (should you choose to do so) afterwards!

[@titanweenie]

BEST co-host ever!!!! I’d love to hear Sarah more on the pod! She’s so funny and sweet and your two are the most perfect people ❤

[@swankyswede]

Peerrrrfect intro Miles!! We love a suppprtive coworker who tells the world to mind their business 😆

[@xwatch985]

I have strong trust issues, but hearing about your check ins made me feel hopeful about relationships. Thank you for everything always

[@dnellf]

I adore y’all’s dynamic. Playful, respectful and supportive

[@marilynvazzz]

I AM LITERALLY CRYING. YALL ARE SOOO SWEET TO EACH OTHER. This is why women (or at least me lol) start to fantasize the future with partners that are too soon to tell if it’s meant to be or not. I start to imagine a life together with a potential candidate when we’ve only exchanged 3 messages😅 but thats all on me because I have unrealistic expectations. I love love and I wish y’all all the happiness of the world❤

[@jboudie]

Miles and Sarah are the couple we need right now

[@shiragrunfeld3574]

"there's definitely one person I wish we didn't invite to our wedding." i WoNdEr WhO iT iS?

[@hp91825]

love your words on grief they were so comforting and informative❤ (congrats on the baby you guys are gonna be amazing parents!)

[@hp91825]

also the there are no safe career idea? so true bestie what a fantastic episode

[@hp91825]

coming back a year later and ive just had my first large loss. came back to hear your words again and they still mean so much. hope you know how much what you do means to people

[@suhaninandi9201]

"performative relationships are in the news" LMAO

[@lexichapman7588]

Invite people to come after dinner at like 8pm! That way you don't need to pay for their dinner or extra seats but they can still come drink and dance! I was invited to a wedding this way last weekend and it was so fun.

[@emmahackler7462]

30:15 “alright my love” 😭😭😭❤️❤️

[@oOlora]

I lost my dad to suicide when I was 17. It was the thoughest time in my life. I am lucky to have a big strong family that really stuck together and I feel stronger and at peace with it. Please make an episode so many people are struggling with loss and I want them to know that it gets better over time🙏🏽 my heart goes out to anyone who lost someone recently, you will get through it❤️

[@jeanthepants7905]

❤️❤️

[@KalsAngel]

honestly the best part of this scandal is the fact that i am being introduced to miles' personal content

[@minhnguyencovers]

seeing you all handle this with such class, integrity and humour has been equal parts heartwarming and hilarious! y'all are incredible, truly perfect people xoxo

[@MaeveByTheWaves]

Sarah and miles are so sweet! The whole thing about looking at each other too closely is both adorable and hilarious ❤

[@startolentino]

Loved this episode. I replay it bc I suffer from grief as well, I lost someone 8 years ago and I'm still not over it but hearing others talk about loss, feels like a balm.

[@1phantomoftheopera1]

I listened to this episode while driving, DIED laughing, and hopped on KZbin once I got to my destination to watch the recording for the full effect. The comedic powerhouse that is the Bonsignore Babes is unmatched!

[@maryelizabeth1216]

"There's ONE person I wish I didn't invite." SCREAMING 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@kessiahh]

I've been sick from Covid these past few days and I've binge watched this podcast. Thank you for all the laughs and perfect advice! Love all of this and everyone ❤ can't wait for more future episodes!

[@LocaPorLosAngeles]

Not laughing in the intro and the star spangled banner. I love you guys!! congrats to you and Sarah!! And the TRIFECTA!!!!

[@TheIves33]

The best intro that I've ever heard in my entire fakin life, I literally replayed it repeatedly so I could really give every joke the full belly laugh it deserved

[@kassyg8256]

Lovvee when sarah is on the pod! Her energy is the best

[@hollyoshea4558]

this podcast is truly such a gift

[@maddynye]

i was invested in the statement until the fact that the star spangled banner was playing in the background really hit me LOL

[@melissamcguire4855]

Shade, tears, laughs. Heeeere for it all.

[@makaylasmith403]

Y’all are too cute. One thing my partner and I always do before bed is say our favorite part. Usually it was our favorite thing the other person did that day. Even when we are fighting. It helps us stay connected and feel loved everyday and also have a moment of gratitude for yourself about how much you love your partner. Super sweet.

[@Speakthetruth63]

Sarah’s cop story had me dying!!!!!

[@LostNTranslations]

Just a few minutes in and LOVE the statement! Hilarious AND compassionate. Yaaaas king! Happy to see Sarah back, too!

[@theyJC]

Would love an episode on grief! its so helpful to know how to support others & ourselves. ❤

[@emilieg4336]

I love Sarah! Also the subtle shade is hilarious! I think we all know who you wish wasn't at your wedding 🤣

[@averyelizabeth1852]

It’s Miles never knowing what button to push on the soundboard for me.

[@furly6321]

I think I’m in love with Sarah Bonsignore. Miles, please love and respect her for the rest of your life for me. She is so beautiful, smart and funny. You both are wonderful together and I wish you the best

[@aliflanagan7669]

The get real talk was so true, finishing my day close with my fiancee just being and talking, is the best part of my day

[@kellikrueger7685]

Miles and Sarah...the perfect podcast.

[@domdomfrias]

THANK YOU for that last bit about performative relationships, while also sharing the imperfect parts of your own. Also, Sarah, you are a delight.

[@chepan83]

Sarah is a gem and I hope she's one the show more frequently. Also, I want more of her life stories haha.