City Boys, we UP 500 points BAEBAYYY!!! - Kevin Samuels Started this Conversation (Episode 88)

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[@ajgrand]

I told a girl “ I see how easily you give away your body, and I know the guys you have dated. It is obvious that you don’t value yourself, so why should I value you.” I was young( immature) and I used her the same way other dudes did. I wouldn’t tell most women that, I would just use them because they let me. But I told this particular girl because she was smart and better than the way she was doing herself. She changed her life after that conversation

[@marquisewilliams8994]

This is the story of my life bro…. Same situation and i 100% can relate to every thing you said 😂 never had a problem getting a woman, but the ones i was probably going after are buss downs so i just did what they was doing to themselves instead of trying to change them.

[@ethioluv1dalluS]

And u r no better. 🙄

[@djdamage75]

Moral of the story is: If you truly want happiness then learn to love the one who loves you.

[@itsmr.thomas]

I hate when people say that! So be happy with a person that likes you, but you are not happy with that person as a mate. Just stay single if that's the case.

[@wingdragonzero]

Amen

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

@@itsmr.thomas self work within the individual self is how they'll be ever to have love for themselves maybe not give it. However they have to understand being happy between two people has to be near or on par with each other. Otherwise it becomes a power struggle trade off.

[@johnbrown-ch1zv]

There's nothing like a woman who listens, ask questions, but humbles her self without the bark....she will be wifed up soon!

[@theriphraff]

Ladies take note... from 17:40 - 20:23 this sister just sat, engaged herself and was listening intently.... She didn't say a word! (technically she said for sure at about 19:45 but even that was in agreement😂😂) She nodded and was respectful. I didn't notice it until the end and said "wait was she quiet the whole time" and I had to go back but the point is this: Did you notice how much Alan was able to communicate to her in those few minutes? He was able to get out the entire idea of that part of the conversation. Whether she agreed or disagreed, he didn't have to change his speech to fit her feelings, didn't have to adjust his volume to get back control of the conversation, no "but what about men" or any other buts. I haven't seen that in a long time, where a lady sat in silence and waited for the man to finish before expressing. The great thing about that is the communication was able to happen, the whole idea could be understood, and the strength in that is something that will make a relationship strong because both will understand each other. AND..its an attractive quality.

[@marianomalango8535]

Amazing isn't it? It is sad though. That SHE is the anomaly! The pendulum is swinging though...

[@TheJaybass32]

Nice catch...if you look really closely you can see the genuine empathy she has for MEN's struggles. Watch her carefully when OBI mentions males issues, her body language says it all. It is rare for even good women to emphasize with MEN, they are just not really built like that...she is way above average this one. I'm glad she is back

[@mrbdx]

@@TheJaybass32empathize with men

[@philu3]

Women: Guys are visual creatures Also women: I can't go out with a guy who's less than 6 feet, I wanna wear heels.

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

I’m 5’1. As long as they are taller than me I’m good lol 😂

[@UnexpectedWonder]

Exactly!!!

[@malikaustin9087]

@@Ilovebamsvlog I hear u Lul Mama BUUUT...u represent a VERY SMALL MINORITY OF WOMEN

[@jesterbons1558]

@@malikaustin9087 wait what? lol what about her is a minority?

[@TheJaybass32]

@@malikaustin9087 that part...

[@carl3063]

Bro was really speaking for the guys on this one!! Bless up bruh, you said everything. 💪🏾✊🏾👊🏾

[@Jihad__]

He sound drunk, too much vulgarity.

[@theriphraff]

And she allowed him

[@Drewdown382]

One of your best guests. Intelligent, self-aware, and beautiful inside and out.

[@deondricksteen4606]

I do have one question. Why do women wanna take chances on struggling rappers and ballplayers, but never engineering or medical students?

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

I believe it’s the mindset and also media . Media makes it look good and makes a man who is is an engineer or medical student or looked at as boring . Which I don’t believe is true at all .

[@deondricksteen4606]

@@Ilovebamsvlog only thing I can say to that is that you all as women need to collectively correct that, because women don't listen to men.

[@malikaustin9087]

Those Engineering and medical students are often BLAND. Women wannabe entertained that's why they fall EASILY for ENTERTAINERS...BEING A GOOD DUDE WITH STABILITY IS NOT ENOUGH...Harsh reality...My thing is WHY WORRY ABOUT THE NEXT MAN THO... That alone comes off as LAME...if u are confident in YOURSELF, u ain't worried about the NEXT MAN. Be yo best version and let your crowd come to YOU and this is coming from a Struggling rapper AKA Arizona Alias 🤣🤣🤣🩸🌵

[@cyes1156]

@@Ilovebamsvlog I disagree! Women are attracted to these men (ball players/rappers! See, This is the problem...Your immediate response was blame, deflection, and scapegoating by saying "the media"😂😂.....Until women come to terms with their decision/choice of bad boys THEY'RE ATTRACTED TO then we can have a logical conversation about how disastrous dating/relationships have become for women! Men are staying far far far away from relationships these days because it's literally dangerous to be emotionally available to modern women that only see value in toxicity then when she's used up now u want the good guy.....hell no...... Because you DESIRE the bad boys in your 20's then all of a sudden you want the stable guys in your 30's 😂.....Men are waking up....Stable guys that have their ish together don't want to be second option!

[@jamal9613]

Cause they always make dumb choices. They think those jobs don't make any money

[@modifiedjaymill]

The fact that you have women who feel like sex classes are more important than cooking classes literally explained everything. Good now but once that drive slows down what more is there.

[@Bangs_Theory]

Sheeeeesh, this was probably the best human to human conversations between man and woman I've heard in a long time.

[@blacknerdtalks7921]

14:30 This is *LITERALLY* the situation that happened with my ex👏🏿👏🏿 After we broke up, and left me for a project boyfriend, and I moved to Toronto (for unrelated family reasons), she kept stringing me along and occasionally dipping in the waters of being in a serious relationship with me. All the while seemingly keeping me around, but secretly going on Tinder dates and getting involved with chasing emotionally unavailable men, like her dad. It was only until I met my girlfriend, now my wife, did she realized that she had lost me and wanted to salvage things. But by then, I had to tell her it was too late, I wasn't going to leave my relationship for her. This caused her a lot of pent up grief and trauma to surface with her. God bless her, and I Hope she's found her peace. Great conversation Obi, keep it up🙏🏿

[@tangoalpha94]

Bw need to learn the hard way.

[@blacknerdtalks7921]

@@tangoalpha94 women in general👌🏿 that amazing man, that you think is mid, won't always be around.

[@vaunslayzez5910]

I love how she wasn't cutting you off 👌🏽 and actually ingesting the words spoken to her

[@danielremy7826]

Agreed. She deserves a compliment for that because most woman can’t wait to argue. Or react. Or dispute. Like she truly listened and that’s rare. Kudos to her👏🏾🙌🏾

[@2010cwill]

He articulated how we feel and what we see PERFECTLY!

[@wnttalk]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿I try brother ✊🏿

[@TheJaybass32]

@@wnttalk women should protect you at all costs, most MEN in this space have given up(understandably). Kevin Samuels was one off the only ones still advocating for MEN to come back to the table(pity he was crucified by the same women he tried to help). Glad you are carrying on the Godfathers torch. RIP KS we will not forget! "KS started the conversation we will finish it" - Obi

[@saddovneus2000]

She’s a great guest. Bring her back!! She helping me understand my girl mindset.

[@wnttalk]

Stay tuned brother🙏🏿

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

I appreciate you for tuning in 🙏🏽

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

And I’m so glad I can help .

[@vision-fi4jj]

I hope this women is winning in whatever she's doing in life..

[@wnttalk]

🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@genovasquez8361]

I agree true I hope she finds a great man

[@steevehoyoufat9155]

For the record, she's absolutely gorgeous. Her attitude make her that much more beautiful. It's women like her who are at least trying to put in the effort to be better that keep the hope alive.

[@dangusto2596]

This was by far THE BEST episode yet. Not only did you paint a better picture for her to see the answers you were giving, you clearly and vividly explained how us men feel when it comes to our interactions with most sisters. I tip my hat to you sir 🧢 You continue to do great work with this channel. #Respect ✊🏾

[@cloudnationmedia8326]

Salute to Dr Obi and his guest for providing good content! I really enjoy listening to the guest who can comprehend and express themselves clearly.

[@markscott8164]

I am studying your interview process and skills and hope to be as successful as you are in drawing out thoughtful observations that move us forward as a culture...

[@wnttalk]

Thank you so much! Consider joining my patreon for a masterclass brother🙏🏿

[@steevehoyoufat9155]

"I can give a person tools, but I can't fix everything." So simple, yet so profound.

[@pinkpeaches88]

I truly appreciated this conversation. It was honest and realistic.

[@sheppy2817]

Goddamn! That Brady/Newton analogy was perfect!!!! Blew my mind. I’m definitely using that and yes, I will give credit lol

[@wnttalk]

😂🤣Preciate you bro😂

[@Lorenzo3K]

Dear God this is so good. Great way to break down with the sports analogy. We need more of this.

[@wnttalk]

Share the ministry brother 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@U4ia28]

Staying in shape, knowing how to cook and being a mans peace costs nothing. Protecting and providing does have a price tag. Especially if the woman is loose with her mouth/hands for the former. There’s no comparison. Also when it comes to her talking about men seeing women with standards as disposable she’s talking about the pookies. They’re the ones who treat women as disposable because they have the options that allow them to do so. The men who would respect and value these women are still ultimately invisible to them

[@chrisjohnson926]

I love this conversation so far. Based on her first question my big bro and I always say this (and my man mentioned it ), we understand the trade off aspect. I like the Cam/Brady analogy but my first thought was you can’t be bad built and mean. There has to be some type of win for both people in a successful relationship and for the guy an attractive woman, a younger woman, and/or women with a certain demeanor can be a win. But you gotta give me something.

[@sekougetrouw6828]

She is my favorite guest. And a bona fide sweetheart. This was hands down the best conversation so far.

[@mygotoguyz]

I love every inch of her, great guest even shot her shot at Obi “Oh you 29 like me” City Boyz. Great show

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

@@mygotoguyz noooo I was just surprised we were the same age lol 😂. I just smile a lot . You guys are so funny 😆. Thank you for tuning in 🙏🏽

[@themarathoncontinues4211]

@@Ilovebamsvlog did you expect him to be older or younger?

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

@@themarathoncontinues4211 Honestly I wasn’t sure lol 😂. I didn’t know if he was younger or older . His face looks younger but he acts older.

[@GLDub]

She described herself as the male version of a nice guy and still crapped on a nice guy. That’s sad but at least she learned from it.

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

I explained at the time I wasn’t healed . So although I knew I was a good person the love I had for myself was low and I couldn’t appreciate him . Not because I didn’t want to , just because I wasn’t in the mental space to realize it then . That was in 2014.

[@GLDub]

@@Ilovebamsvlog its all good. Great interview..

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

@@GLDub I appreciate you 🙏🏽

[@deepeyton]

I think most of us have pushed away at least one person we wish we wouldn’t have or just wasn’t ready for

[@MrDDM10001]

Dope conversation. That NFL analogy is top tier man lol...Bam wit another classic vid

[@wnttalk]

We workinggggg✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

One thing as man i will say is Most important lesson I learned in the past year is, don’t let anyone turn you cruel. No matter how badly you wanna give the world a taste of its own bitter medicine. It’s never worth losing yourself over.Most people have never had a good understanding of love, just a poor interpretation of it.The pain of discipline weighs ounces but the pain of regrets weighs tons. Every good person is not your person.

[@babyboyomaj2250]

Omg my Baby is back 😂 I love youuuuuuu. Great job. Wish you the best

[@17thN.O]

This was a great conversation. Good job!

[@Dmagic716]

She is definitely the best one that come on the show I love her mindset

[@mackhook]

Bruh you are so necessary and blessed in what you do. She is one of my favorite guests. Many of us are the children of trauma and dysfunction and couple that with our community's aversion to mental health care and you have a perfect storm for the current state of affairs regarding coupling in our community. Our women have to stop treating us like the enemy or children that need to be directed.

[@Dwyr15]

Unfortunately most have that story of missing out on the great guy. They wait too long. The 2nd pick will never be valued as much as the 1st. They still fantasizing about the 1st pick.

[@cyes1156]

Exactly 💯

[@wisdomscommonsense8580]

I like her. She's one of the best guests that you've had on WNTT thus far. She's feminine with no masculine energy and listens without over talking or cutting you off. I'm not a Passport Bro but I've been traveling on my passport for 30 years. These guys have been ignored and overlooked in the U. S. so they're going where they're desired and treated with respect and cooperation. I understand this. The other set of guys who aren't ignored by women, exercise their options and invariably end up treating women badly. Those traumatized women have a problem with those men they chose. They don't care anything about the men they didn't choose to have a relationship, marriage, or babies with. The men who are ignored need to be put together with discerning women who didn't choose bad guys with all the options to run through them and have babies by them. I think if ignored, responsible guys can get with ignored, responsible women who choose men wisely, more good relationships will happen and more black children will be born in those marriages Vs. the ~80% of kids currently being born in single parent, unwed households."

[@Keytap15]

We need more guests like her where actual progress and understanding can be achieved between both parties

[@MsLoyal100]

Another wonderful conversation. So many truths ❤

[@PaulCampbell77]

Enjoyed the thought provoking conversations on this episode! Also love that Vivid, Popping Fuchsia Hair Color!!

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

I appreciate you 🙏🏽

[@openmindchannel1978]

I could sense it that this lady was ready to cried in the end after she heard how black men are viewed and treated by everyone..

[@vendeezel]

Her story is the story of a lotta ppl. It's called "Life Lessons". Only in these manosphere spaces do men speak as tho women should have it 2gether 13 yrs ago and hold them accountable 4 what they didn't understand in their youth.

[@ContextReallyMatters]

Fair point.

[@inkyandthebrain]

Obie was preaching at the end 💯

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

He definitely was 🙌🏽. He is phenomenal at what he does .

[@tahj2981]

Facts

[@digi9ten]

Another one... 😎 Keep bringing the heat.

[@steevehoyoufat9155]

I love you brother! I support you and I'm rooting for you. You are loved. You are necessary. You are valued. You are worthy. You are appreciated! Keep up the great work and keep being great, brethren! May Yahuah lead, guide, direct, and protect you and may he bless you and everything you touch. So be it.

[@wnttalk]

Thats love my brother ✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿❤️

[@Bender_Rod]

I’ve watched every single last video in this series and this one is probably by far my favorite. Very intellectual conversation being had throughout the entire video. Keep up the great work!

[@wnttalk]

Thank you 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@navytanutrof1823]

You are so right. If I'm with a woman and she constantly tries to fix things in my life, I inevitably will become resentful. In my soul I'm so independent I barely can't accept help from my family let alone from someone else.

[@pooptrainconductor815]

Love this back and forth.

[@eliflihi]

This was a pretty fire video. Dude you have really come along way from the angry ladies you used to present. Glad you stayed in there

[@AC-dt1rk]

Best show ever. I'm an Accountant and black cashier at Specs liquor told me I can carry my beer out after she just bagged a white dudes liquor. I was nice a pleasant, hi how's your day. I ended up having to have the white male manager come over cause she just wouldn't do it. It's sad

[@ContextReallyMatters]

I had a similar experience at a McDonalds. Chick gave the white man in front of me top notch service. Then I get to the counter and she's talking to co workers and carrying on. Her co worker said something to her about it and these were her exact words, "Oh, he black. He don't mind." As if it was a black thing and I should be cool with receiving less stellar service than the white man got.

[@chitownbob9714]

I'm afraid I don't quite understand. Are you saying that she refused to bag your beer? Does this kind of thing happen a lot, and what is her "reasoning" for not giving you same service!?

[@chitownbob9714]

@@ContextReallyMatters sounds like a double edge sword. I see your point... You were disrespected here because you were black and should be "cool". On the other hand, white guy is "NOT cool, probably a pain in the ass, and better do job right or bastard will complain to boss". Funny thing that, in food service, I have heard that BW tend to be most demanding.

[@deoncovington9485]

Great conversation

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@romemvp]

That football analogy was spot on 👌

[@MrIDONTCARE2000]

Women actually choose men that are opposite of what they say they want. The characteristics can be on full display and they still choose the badboy

[@gtr485]

This was the first women on here Ive seen actually listened, wasn’t rude, and agreed.

[@Inglewood_Addition]

She’s absolutely GORGEOUS!!! Beautiful face, glowing chocolate skin, petite body frame, and hair lox. Good GAWD!!! 😍🖤

[@get470]

Your analogy was spot on, additionally ladies please know first what kind of Man You want first bad boy or nice guy nice guys are you or something in-between, also PLEASE be honest in your self assessment what you think of yourself is not necessarily what other's think

[@Scoe246]

This is one for the archives and I hope more women tune in. The final talking point hit the hardest. Great job 👏 👍🏾

[@deondricksteen4606]

I always hear it's both of us but, yet you never really hear women own their half or hold the other women accountable. However, we must hold men accountable and get better as men too.

[@mrw3905]

Men have no choice but to be accountable

[@NoBody-jh7td]

Truth be told I have seen a some other women on your show that are my favorites but her conversation with you was so special in more ways than I can say. Most of all I can appreciate her incite, humility and willingness to be open/vulnerable and share. I agree with most of the comments below! KEEP IT UP BROTHER! I'm hoping to share this with my community in the 5280. "WE NEED TO TALK" needs to become mainstream for serious relationships in our community!

[@julianbroughton]

If his problems are external then give him a chance if there's potential. A discipline man will turn it around. If his problems are internal then move on or wait for him to do the work, bc he is the only who can make that decision.

[@frankieiconoclast4942]

Regarding the help meet reference: If you get a chance, buy a Stone's Tanakh and then read that chapter and verse. In it, it says a woman "corresponding to him." This woman is one of many I've heard have the same problem, they want to fix someone, help someone, get bored easily, etc. Women need a couple of things. Agreeableness to her one man's desires and compliance with her one man's instructions. Given the environment, laws, and institution today, this works against their natural proclivities and socializes women to work contrary to it. Just some thoughts. Gotta run!

[@DaMuffinMan1985]

Shoutout the young lady keeping it real.

[@iwishyouwould9985]

I’m 5”4 and my black queen of 21 years is 5”5. If she had that height mindset, she would have missed out on a 400k annual and 2 mil in real estate lifestyle. We got married in our early 20s and built together. And I outcome compete 97% of all men from all backgrounds white, Asian, Hispanic Indian, black; ALL them niggas in money and outcomes. I always get the WTF look from #20yearchallengers

[@StealfromRich]

That quarterback analogy...chefs kiss

[@Mike_M.]

Very good conversation, watched this one twice. Everything Allen said from 26:44 to the end of the stream, was one of the realest statements ever made in this space. 💯

[@wnttalk]

Preciate you brother 🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@richardsou]

The Arthur of creation designed us to function in a certain way in order for us to experience happiness and fulfillment. The further away that we stray from our male and female nature, the more hurt, pain and dissent we cause each other. Man is the foundation, woman is the structure. The structure is not made to withstand the elements alone, and the foundation is not finished without a structure. We can create change, but we gotta do it with honest and open dialog like this video depicts!

[@Mr.BigBadWolf]

I’ve literally watched almost every video if not all. From day 1.

[@wnttalk]

Preciate you brother🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@JamR0ck]

I love the calmness and mutual respect

[@bettergentspodcast]

Dude that initial breakdown was phenomenal. I'm gonna have to steal that one!

[@wnttalk]

✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿

[@tommytee6290]

Great conversation...#Salute

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

I appreciate you 🙏🏽

[@Shenruss]

*Perspective:* Men and women are judged on _totally different criteria_ (think of a race car being judged for speed, and a MACK truck being judged for its power/hauling capacity). Both a vehicles, run on gas, and have basic similar make ups, but they *both are made to serve COMPLETLEY DIFFERENT PURPOSES.* both, however, are still demanded to _work_ at _their best_ capacity, which is level 7, 8, 9 or higher out of 10. But you can't judge a race car (woman) as you would a truck (man.)

[@tahj2981]

This your best video yet

[@TheGr8-1]

Great analogy on cam vs Brady. Dead on.

[@dredhedkingpin]

Wowww. OBI CLOSED THE VIDEO WITH THE GREATEST DEPICTION OF WHAT A BLACK MAN WHO HAS BUSTED HIS ASS AND BECOME THE "IDEAL MAN" GOES THROUGH. incredible. Well said.

[@jessiepooh5164]

I appreciate this channel as I was literally looking for a KS gap. Well done with the lighting as well.

[@ppearson35N]

I love when you bring her on

[@jafricanlove8641]

well done sir, great questions

[@LoneWolf90Xiaolin]

This women is best girl you had in awhile Allen she is actually listening she will definitely do fine tell her don’t feel bad as long as you see your mistakes you will do fine.

[@Ilovebamsvlog]

Thank you so much for that feedback . I’m not going to lie It gets hard when you don’t fit the image . You’re stuck between being your authentic self in a respectful manner or suppressing a part of you to fit with the majority standard that is required . You are in fact right about not being perfect . But whoooo the pressure sometimes . I do my best to hold myself accountable for things I’ve done . It helps me grow. But I do know no matter what I do I can not make everyone happy . So my goal is to mask in my authentic self , be a good person , love , learn , and thrive to be the best version of myself for me . You are appreciated 🙏🏽

[@noahcrockett9641]

I notice that a few in chat have gone their own way even when the guest is good.

[@everydaychristian8932]

"Men feel that, and it hurts" ... Mic drop.

[@jeffuchiha3725]

the 1st 5 minutes proves women don't see 80% of men.avg men do desire 9s and 10s but you will never hear avg men saying I ain't settling for nothing less than a 10.women on the other hand can be below avg and yelling from the mountain top I ain't settling.thats the difference,want what you want but get what you can afford

[@kg8281]

She's a sweet, beautiful, respectful woman. I hope she finds who she wants

[@switzjon8405]

Let's hope a pookie doesn't taint her. She may have had a dad in her life.

[@17thN.O]

I had to learn to make my wants and desires match up. Also to truly know what I wanted in a relationship with a women and it doesn't matchup with a standard and traditional relationship. Cause I realized that don't work for me.

[@alldaylong3331]

Men go down in looks to go up in co-operation

[@kendrick2867]

Great convo.

[@mr.teachone7211]

Thank you !! My Brother

[@wnttalk]

🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@jayduncan9445]

I’m a firm believer that every half way decent looking woman has had a man that was willing to move heaven and earth for her but unfortunately they blew it because she might not liked the way he looked or his swag.

[@eliflihi]

So I’m back to see how far you’ve gotten. Been awhile. I’ll catch up and get back to see if you have found a point or direction.

[@cw5971]

"I don't mind being nurturing". Don't MIND? 😑 That's literally your job.

[@ojbgamin]

My dawg alarm went off and I thought it was my phone going off. Shoutout to the Samsung gang!!!

[@onetruesavage]

Love the title and the conversation. Lol

[@kristopherthomas181]

It's the totality of what you bring. The bad chick might get the pipe, the total package gets the relationship. Play the long game...

[@wnttalk]

💯💯💯

[@TheJaybass32]

This one does NOT belong to the streets...

[@2010cwill]

I told my most recent lady i wanted her to workout and take care of her body more…she was more interested in getting a second BBL , she had this obsession with being “thick “ 🙄🙄 31 yes old talking about she want to be thick. Hadn’t even popped out kids yet. Man after 5yrs dealing with her attitude and mentality i finally gave up and left her ass. I told her do whatever the hell you want.

[@wnttalk]

Smart man!!!

[@christinabivins3839]

Y'all males make me sick always giving up on some damn body

[@2010cwill]

@@christinabivins3839 baby sometimes you gotta know when to fold them. 🤷🏾‍♂️ women leave they man all the time so don’t act like that. Lol

[@kyleflournoy7730]

This is what true accountability looks like, on both sides. Get a good look and take it in. Bc it's rare

[@lovellb5839]

Me:. (The part at the end) 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@magnumstrike1]

Around the 25 min mark she was talking about us seeing each other as disposable that's definitely not all men, too many men simping to easily disprove that and going by her words she had a good one

[@bisongatem-tambe5676]

What men want is simple: be fit, be feminine, and be SUBMISSIVE!

[@kuja5809]

Don't forget loyalty the majority. Majority of modern women are hypersexual promiscuous sociopaths the complete opposite of what men want

[@genovasquez8361]

bingo absolutely

[@quietstorm9436]

The crazy thing is that, the men who are against the passport bros ain't rushing to wife up these women they're defending.

[@dra4600]

Whoever does win this Sista’s Heart will have a wonderful wife.

[@MRMORTONIII]

That Tom Brady / Cam Newton analogy was so on point

[@carpediem4512]

City Boys are up? In the Western world. 😂😂

[@josephwhite3486]

We are. 🤣🤣🤣🤣