Delilah Thee Stallion vs Samson Hendricks - Kevin Samuels Started this Conversation (Ep 90)

[@romemvp]

She's one of the better interviews. Each time she take's the seat its clear that she's listening to understanding. She also articulates her points and ask good questions. She's also not rejecting answers just because they don't make her feel good or match her prior beliefs

[@dapittg]

Then your not listening. She never really held woman accountable for anything without the subtle but stern stance that men men men need to change not saying once what women need to change in order to be better for men.

[@mr.culturefreedom2073]

We're already practicing polygamy and the majority of women are choosing Future.

[@Rieka.Chanel]

Too bad that’s not actually how polygamy works.

[@mr.culturefreedom2073]

@@Rieka.Chanel yeah I'm well aware but I see you're intentionally missing the point.

[@alphabogeyman7462]

@@mr.culturefreedom2073 Future is incapable of committing to any woman.

[@mr.culturefreedom2073]

@@alphabogeyman7462 whether he commits or not these women are connected to him forever. Yall ninjas stay in the weeds to intentionally miss the point. 🤣 Or maybe it's not intentional....🤔💭

[@alphabogeyman7462]

@@mr.culturefreedom2073 Guys like you are blind,guys like future who impregranate black women without any form of commitment are the reason the whites are ahead of us. I am a son of a doctor and my parents have been married for about 41 years,that is the ideal,not some guy selling drugs and going in and out of jail.

[@NoBody-jh7td]

She is by far my favorite guess you have!! The conversation is always so productive!!! She is wonderful!!!

[@themindofsam]

I love the interviews with her. I hope whatever man marries her appreciates her. She's a precious gem.

[@jadisming7527]

I like her mindset. She thought and believed way more than she felt. She wasn't tied to her feelings.

[@dapittg]

She was it was just subtle.

[@amaliomar]

@@dapittg Yep, and we want our women to be tied to their feelings right? Who wants a woman with some pragmatic male persona.

[@Mike_M.]

Whenever you see Kiana on the thumbnail, you know the conversation is going to be good.

[@margaretmuriuki8124]

I love her. She has that calm aura that will at the same time not allow you to walk all over her... She is not a Yes woman. She will listen to you but that doesn't necessarily mean she agrees with what is being said.

[@PA-qv2dy]

This was a good conversation, good back and forth, good to see this!! 👍🏾👍🏾

[@BrandoDennis]

God bless this channel! 🙏🏾 This talk was beautiful❤ this is sooo needed for the culture!

[@bigtymer163]

This was a nice conversation she is agreeable and can actually contribute to a conversation and a good listener..Alot of women are stuck on a need be right. Be ladylike and confident in yourself

[@joelr7208]

This woman is so beautiful, articulate and graceful. A great,excellent example,of having someone who can convey her points and receive feedback. She not only addressed the points made but managed to express her feelings and thoughts on the subject matter. I honestly was looking at her left ring finger for a wedding ring. She is definitely what the God father Kevin Samuels said, a woman and not just dealing with “baddies” The host expressed his points thoroughly and clarified any confusion while making the conversation flow naturally. These are the type of conversations he would be proud of, that are happening and what he wanted all along. Great clip

[@majorflavor]

She is by far the best female interview on this channel

[@AngelInAHoodie]

She womansplained what men feel so perfectly 💙

[@eternaldarkdragon8902]

LOL

[@MrSauserMFly]

Yo - this convo…this Woman - this convo?! One of the best videos on this channel yet! Great job my Brother and kudos to her!

[@Dorabuffbiggestfan]

Love her interviews

[@kevinpedican9949]

love the content bro!

[@KOOLCOMEDY]

You need more of these type of Women for your interviews. I've seen more than 1 interview with her & I like her thought process. She's attractive physically & mentally. 👍

[@ajgrand]

If you ever had a woman cohost it should be HER! She is one of the few women you have interviewed that even when I disagree with her, I respect her thought process and her angle. She is probably the best I have seen on your platform

[@Fowler0526]

Definitely keep bringing her back. The conversation between you two is beautiful and grabs all our attention

[@user-ld8wn4kz9y]

She touch on a great point! About women having the confidence to walk away from relationships that are not fulfilling them and I think it's because they fear that when they leave and he gets with the new girl he will do for her everything she wanted him to do for her. And now they are dealing with the rejection and the why wasn't I good enough for him to marry me. But at the end of the day us women must be confident in what we possess! Periodt!! Like she said! This was a great guess invite her back for a different topic!

[@wnttalk]

She’ll be back for this friday’s live stream

[@khepmaatsetepenra9825]

These are great conversations. I would hope that this sparks these same conversations across the country. This created war between black men and women is an instrument of the dominant society and we CANNOT allow them to prompt us to destruction

[@cloudnationmedia8326]

I enjoyed this interview🎯💯‼️ Salute to you both.

[@chi-beariantigre9596]

This is why I subscribe!! I love the dialect and that the conversation is being had in a way that’s digestible without being defensive!! S/o to the host and the interviewee

[@anthonyspidell9976]

Great discussion.

[@mandingo0430]

Another banger 🔥 🔥🔥🔥🔥 Brother Allen I told you she will help your show go to the next level. I'm a 47 yr old man and I really enjoy your content . Keep doing your thing SALUTE

[@Jakyjoseph]

Taking the chemistry analogy to ultimate conclusion 1. You aren’t a chemist 2. Most experiments fails and 3. You need to ask yourself if you have the time to see the experiment play out.

[@yournextguest]

Great interview, keep up the great work!

[@Blackout300]

She is very intelligent and Damn good looking. Her confidence and modesty combined is a very good look!!

[@hammuel188]

I love how she breaks this down

[@DECEPTICON33]

This young woman is priceless in her awareness and thought process. She's a thinker and very analytical in her assessment of the points.

[@dowardwashington9958]

As a married man 🤵🏿‍♂️👰🏾, my question is what man in his right mind wants to be married to more than 1 woman???? I guess the whole living like a 🤴🏿 fantasy sounds cool for a year/ 2, but keeping multiple women happy for more than 6 months is daaaaaaamn near an impossible feat....ijs 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@SherrickDuncan]

If you have to ask that question then you married a problematic amd rebellious woman. One good wife adds peace. Two good wives add more peace. Simple addition My friend. And who every told you that it is your job to make or to keep any number of wives (whether 1 or 1,000) happy? That is not your job as a Husband or as a Father or as a Human. Get that feminist brainwashing out of your mind and get with reality.

[@davidclass7150]

It was too increase your tribe and your likeness plus he might be from an line of wise men or highly talent warriors

[@moneylineparlay105]

You live in the United States, outside us borders having multiple wives is great

[@SherrickDuncan]

@@moneylineparlay105 I live inside the United States and having multiple wives is still great. Whether your married to one woman or one thousand or in America or in China it is as great as you make it. If you marry one rebellious unruly trollop or ten of them it will be bad or worse. If you marry one lifestyle submissive trad wife or ten of them it will be heaven on earth. American/U.S has nothing to do with it. A Continent can't stop you from having a happy Polygyny union. It is just dirt. A government can't stop you, because having multiple sexual partners you stay with and have babies with simultaneously isn't illegal here. 💁🏾‍♂️

[@Demsky83]

I'll take two. Personally I believe every good man deserves 2 since women claim there's a shortage. Pair up. 3s company too.

[@andalus1229]

Great conversation. Very cool insights.

[@kiad.2552]

Great guest, she’s a pleasure to watch. @Allen your POV on polygamy and men’s choices as they age is a little unrealistic. Older nerds with more resources often get played by the younger women they pursue. City Girls still win with those men. Unless a man is good looking and or appears successful, his chances of attracting high caliber women is no great than when he’s younger. In contrast, women who age well typically always have a robust selection of men to choose from.

[@w1zent91]

She needs to teach a course to all women lol Level headed and able to see both sides. Keep it up!

[@stylezpinero7416]

Not in their DNA. She is an Anomaly...

[@myisglim7801]

How many men are level headed and see both sides?

[@Curbsidehustle87]

That’s a good one im sure she’s gotta beat the men back with a stick Very good convo I wish u the best sista

[@wnttalk]

She’s married now

[@sekougetrouw6828]

Uh oh. This was a good convo too. Red headed Sweetheart got so competition. Very nice

[@mariebright6985]

Shalom man of valour and many blessings to you and to your beautiful family. What I have learned about relationships is that love does not play by anyone's rules. Love comes from a totally different realm of intelligence and in order to learn the true construct of how love expresses herself through the value of a person's life and through the building processes of relationships, we have to come up to where she (love) is in her wisdom. It take wisdom to learn how to love. Without wisdom, people will find themselves adopting all types of unhealthy belief systems that cannot give any real definition of what we look like in our value as divine intimate beings. For instance, it is not wise for anyone to "sow their royal oats", especially men. The power of a man's sexual intimate nature need to be protected just as much as the woman's sexual intimate nature. I do see your point regarding the power of a woman's femininity. And this is why it is so vital for women to understand who they are in this intimate image, so they won't mishandle the power that backs it. And as for the event of Samson and Delilah. I have to disagree with you man of valour on this one. It may seem as if Delilah was the strongest one in this event but she was not. Samson was still the strongest man in this event. Even though he lost one of his physical senses (which was his sight), he was able to stand between two pillars and take out at least three thousand people. That has revelation in it all within itself. I do see why you would think that Delilah was the one with the strength, but the truth is, she did not use real strength. If Delilah truly understood her power as a woman, she wouldn't have violated this man's personal space with seduction, manipulation, and witchcraft. She used all of those things in order to get private information out of this man's heart. Instead of respecting Samson's covenant that he had with God, she chose to show high disrespect to him and to the covenant that Samson was accountable for upholding. That is not real power. This beautiful young lady in this dialogue gave a wonderful example of real power, which is the same kind of power Delilah should have used. Instead of trying to press Samson to break his covenant with God, she should have bowed out and stayed silent in that area, and respected this man and his covenant. That is real power. That is real strength. Anytime a woman has to stoop to a form of darkness to get what she wants from a man, she has weakened the true significance of her power. Her power and strength loses weight and it loses respect. The power and strength of a woman will protect the power and strength of the man. Shalom

[@arkainrdk]

She's saying this the wrong way, and he's not helping the situation much. It's not that a woman can "change a man", but rather that a good woman can free a man up to do better than he could before he had her. It's not that she changes him, but rather she makes herself useful to him in a way that allows him to improve himself. Even if you think this is just hair splitting, this is a very important hair. Getting this wrong leads to bad expectations.

[@rushwill]

Fruitful and encouraging conversation

[@furiousgtribal4325]

She's one of your most cognitive listeners. It's a breath of fresh air to hear a woman who can try to listen and understand both sides..sigh..she is one out of not many. Lol

[@CoachJeff7]

This is a classic fam👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@cwoodyjr]

Let’s sign her to a 3 year deal bro.

[@losdog911]

Every time she sits down it's fire.

[@Jakyjoseph]

A great conversation

[@swellscity5792]

Is it poligyny or polygamy?

[@TheRoninHotep]

I believe that the anxious attachment style that was mentioned is do to trauma in our adolescence with our caregivers. Because from those early interactions and relationships we view the world through them and our bonds with those caregivers whoever they may be.

[@mr.culturefreedom2073]

It's not about growing up its about the hormones that drive men to pursue women. I wish folks would stop gasing women and acknowledge the biological chemistry that drives men. No different than the biological chemicals that drive women to be emotional.

[@if.i.dusse_somyself7683]

Intelligent, balanced, and beautiful. Well done Allen.

[@dduffy7271]

If we can get more of this in the black community (at all levels), black men would not be complaining. Black males might, but the men would be satisfied and the community growing and thriving in all the right ways

[@blaquejaque9702]

Inspiration can be overrated. Some people inspire without knowing, and inspiration does not always come from good ACTIONS

[@Kush_Ups]

She is definitely a 1 of 1! Whatever man she has/will have is(gonna be) an extremely lucky gentleman

[@Harold10ful]

Polygyny is benefits women and children more than the men but it is beneficial for everyone involved as long as it's somewhat regulated 2-3 wives sure but outside of that it can become to hectic.

[@kreativeforce532]

regulated by whom? Man have as many wives as you want. Theres kimgs with 50 and 80 wives even. Mandem will know when man hits his limit. Life is hectic solo if one prepares for a hectic life. Don't allow even one woman to have you in a frizzle like a squirrel. We men ain't we? Not mice.

[@Harold10ful]

@@kreativeforce532 Yea that 50-80 shit is dead nobody needs to be Solomon out here it doesn't end well. With having multiple wives is fine but it needs to be by how many you can keep a REAL CONSISTENT RELATIONSHIP WITH EACH WIFE as well being able to maintain a fruitful marriage with each woman. Having wives for status is dead to a extremely productive black man 2-3 is fine MAAAYYYBBBEEE 4, HUGE MAYBE. But not some 10,15,35,60 fuck no. And the culture needs to regulate it. Black culture can be the regulator. There will be some that will try to be hard headed but 2-3 is more than enough to build your own village maintain it and keep everyone happy while staying productive and still having time for yourself with kids included.

[@SherrickDuncan]

Regulated by whom? Nobody tells Me whom I can marry or in what number but God and His law. And He says I can marry as many women as I can afford to feed, clothe them and all children by them.

[@Jamfar777]

@@SherrickDuncan No. The Bible doesn't say that. The Bible warns against having too many wives because it will lead the heart away from God. And if memory serves, the limit was 4 wives set in Deuteronomy

[@kreativeforce532]

@@Harold10ful its not dead lol. there are living men today with numbers like that. They just aren't in the west. Ergo it is not impossible. 3 Would be more common sure, but as it stands until there are more people who have a lifetime of polygamous marriage experience there will be no elders to regulate anything. That comes a generation or two after doing it and sorting out issues via trial and error (plus divination for those of us who do so). By having no limitations then women who wish to all be wives of Drake can go do so and see what its really like. The men will see who really wants them and who is using him for a pseudo-Drake (or whomever) via delusion. The spell of alpha-star-power will break & women will be forced via experience to come to their senses & be reasonable. BM & BW will see one another clearly.

[@jangomp3]

Does she have a KZbin channel? I really enjoy her articulation of her ideas and thoughts. Finna put my sisters on.

[@henryrichardson5902]

Damnnn! This Sister needs to be taken off the market? She real with her thoughts and answers.

[@VoxMachina8]

Conversations around marriage needs to be around meaning and values. People talk about happiness, and the version of happiness being discussed is limited and unsustainable. Hedonic happiness is all about pleasure in the moment. But, Eudaimonic happiness is about meaning and fulfillment. The question before marriage is what role will this marriage be in pursuing Eudaimonic happiness for both people. Nothing wrong with momentary pleasures within the correct context. Humans are designed for meaning. The right to the pursuit of happiness is referring to the eudaimonic version not the hedonic version.

[@DVX755]

Polygamy is not right in my opinion.....I mean our parents had the courage, strength and conviction to stay together for DECADES. Who wants all these extended families and women running around a mans life....heck ONE woman is TOO MUCH for the majority of men. I have been with women on and off for decades and never got tired of them and they never got tired of me since they were always checking for me. I mean, after you sow your oats out in the world, nothing is more intimate than finally settling down with someone you love.

[@kumasifitts2248]

She's one of my favorites

[@jadisming7527]

She's my favorite.

[@NT35000]

Who did you interview from the Grapevine?

[@boydog00]

Great conversation

[@fangiscool1]

Polygamy is not effective and is not the answer. We have a culture of 70%+ men being raised by single moms. Learning to work with 1 (good) woman is an accomplishment for this community. Believing men can work with multiple women in this community is just hubris.

[@70ad84]

Monogamy should be a choice just like polygamy, both should be accepted

[@shomarimonroe150]

Awesome video

[@1man2manynotes]

We know just by studying what’s going on with everyday people right now that being around successful people generally doesn’t make people want to be better. The tendency is for people to make excuses and resent success or become depressed and seclude themselves. The only way someone changes is if they have the desire and confidence to pursue a given lifestyle or if they’re forced into it under duress. You cant change a man, and women know this that’s why they avoid men with low self esteem like the plague

[@darrelbutler1996]

I love this Sister..sweet, intelligent, calm but strong.

[@Benny_bandit]

👏🏾 the young lady is speaking gospel. Good head on her. She is a wife for sure.

[@PassportGods]

16:10 domination and fierce vs. persuasion and seduction.

[@onetruesavage]

Nothing but facts and fire!

[@quyntindowner7547]

Still watching but she got me at 13:15 , that was dope, calculate worst case scenario. Who's she I am from Guyana 🇬🇾, now getting on my purpose but would love to have a conversation with her. From that line alone I like how she thinks. Hopefully the next 10 mins don't change that.

[@elvisscott1980]

As an older, happily married black man, I’d advise younger black men to go out and find a group of black women like her and y’all wife them up. Her energy is everything

[@amaliomar]

She is a great and informative interviewee, her points are well thought out and reasonable. Yeah, you have to cheat on her.

[@mrrstarrk]

"2 Girls, 1 Cup" - Patrice O'Neal - Black Phillip Episode 9.

[@bisongatem-tambe5676]

Just like if a woman doesn't view a particular man as a romantic prospect, there is nothing that man can do to leave the friend zone, except something IN THE CIRCUMSTANCES OF THE WOMAN changes so as to change her feeling about him. So too there is nothing a woman can do to make a man settle down for marriage. The man just has to be ready ON HIS OWN. That change can only come from him. So it is: 1. A question of timing; 2. The woman must have qualities that the particular man desires as wifely. Otherwise he will skip her for some other woman that has the desired qualities. 3. What men consider wifely qualities depends on each and every man. It is not what the woman thinks he desires as wifely qualities. She must understand what he wants!

[@blaquejaque9702]

You can't say that men changed for women when you fail to factor in time, where that man was in life. And a better version is making life a little easier

[@ScaryToRemarry]

My wife has brought out the best in me! She’s a phenomenal woman

[@RodneyE.9491]

Her questions and answers....She's feeling you!

[@dapittg]

Hate women who ask can men be faithful when they are the most unfaithful creatures on earth.

[@Jay-vv8mq]

You should start interviewing ex drug dealer men. That will get the people going. You want a perspective you never heard?

[@Renzov12]

Facts

[@dewaltdavis2611]

She is so Beautiful! You can hear in her voice she is a “REAL” Woman, that whats to grow. Mind stimulating

[@ront9267]

If black women want men to commit quicker they're going to have to choose not good guys stop choosing the hood dude just stop choosing the dude with the swag stop choosing the bad boy get with a nice guy get with that friend that's been your friend for years that's always there for you that you know likes you but you strain him along and keep him around that's what black women do to get a man to commit

[@aferg76]

Even the non hood dudes don’t commit.

[@FLOYD3X]

She seems very intelligent.

[@codeblood2000]

The problem I see here is the mindset since we're using a black community as a example money seems to be the almighty thing so when a man has money somehow that makes him of high value? That is a corrupt mindset the average man is of high value as well but our mindset is Twisted it's corrupt thinking that money somehow means clean means good means better that's a societal problem. And our love of sin and debauchery is the foundation. Walk away from God you walk into darkness can you see?

[@bigsteve3530]

She is a real one. She will make a delightful wife. She seems very agreeable, very feminine.

[@VhudziJena]

Miss Williams is always a pleasure to listen to. Almost no "I feel", no over-talking, listening to understand rather than respond🔥🔥🔥🔥 Less than 1% S I G N On the subject of polygamy, it has been practised for thousands of years in cultures as diverse as African Asian and European, original American. Why is this so strange??? Even today it is practised in many parts of the world. There is only one rule for it to work - all parties must be willing and transparent. The 1st wife must have a say in the choice and inclusion of the second wife for it to work. It is only the European interpretation of marriage in Christianity that has made it a bad thing. The more urban society has become the more it has been replaced by "cheating". Remember in most populations in every age group there are usually more women than men, so why not? Advantages of a working polygamous relationship in today's society: * increased domestic support - house-keeping, kids * opportunity for increased domestic income * less likely to have only child syndrome * wife knows where the husband is and with whom * wife can get a rest When it's not working: * envy between spouses * fractured relations between children * resource leakage * no peace

[@quyntindowner7547]

I was thinking the same thing with that no " I feel like" part, lol. And all the other stuff she didn't do that we find annoying or combative.

[@yasmeenahbey632]

Polygny is the most painful thing I've ever experienced aside from my mother's death. When you really love your man, like for real, the heartbreak it induces drives so many women around the world into depression and suicide.

[@myisglim7801]

I’m sorry you experienced that, wish you the healing that you need to be happy and whole again.

[@ericpowell4350]

Is it the polygamy or the monogamous society the polygamy is being practiced within?

[@yasmeenahbey632]

@@ericpowell4350 polygny is painful, no matter what country its practiced in. Ive talked to women in various countries that have the same, if not worse, sentiments than me. Seeing a man that you TRULY love give that same affection, time, and energy to another woman kills any semblance of sacredness for the relationship in your soul. It is truly gut-wretching.

[@DVX755]

I agree, I dont think its the right thing to do.

[@YungTazz1001]

6:20 what can women do to make men commit quicker be nice and be genuine about it .... Be sweet to your core and men will line up

[@WeltB]

Bro... why didn't you let her know that women cheat at about the same clip as men. That throws her question into a different caveat.

[@brucegrover8658]

Y’all literally breaking how to men and women should court. Can’t be afraid to walk away. Know your value. This is how my wife and I got married. She did the exact same thing. I didn’t wanna be married at the time per say but I didn’t wanna lose her to anybody else.

[@cholli4141]

Want men to commit quicker…. Find a guy that wants to commit.

[@shlomobelafonte5613]

Delilah wasn’t a man so she couldn’t be the strongest man in the Bible

[@Eye-openefortheworld]

No polygamy benefits the top percentage of men the most.

[@wnttalk]

Depends on your definition of “benefit”.

[@DG-nk9ji]

love discussions with her

[@chazjohnson9372]

I think she likes you Allen! 😊

[@Jagosix]

Kianal is an awesome woman. Her demeanor alone is just so alluring. I can talk to and with her all day. She's definitely WIFE MATERIAL. She's beautiful inside and out. It would be a hard choice between KIANAL and Courtney Michelle. WeNeedToTalk - Samson revealed his secret to Delilah because of a combination of seduction, persuasion and overall (NAGGING HIM BEYOND REPROACH). He was So fed up with her wanting to know his SECRET (A pact he made with GOD) above everything else, that he then gave in. In hopes that she would then give him some peace. After that she put a sleeping potion (Sounds like a fairy tale) in his drink. Which put him in a deep sleep. So at that point, she was able to cut his hair and Bind him with ropes.

[@dommaybe]

Sampson bitterness grew with his hair and he knocked the whole town down lol 🌺🌑 We all gotta mama 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@johnaddaquay1114]

She is stunning😍

[@leichaurellelux7547]

Here is why I agree with polygamy it is all on the basis of wealth resources and status purpose and organized positions that are put in place for generations to come. Today, in modern america is on an individual structure that could limit how far a generation goes especially if you have one chid base on what you can afford for there future outcomes of expectations. However, the new mixing of poly relationships are not substantial of a man who has no great wealth. So to me it looks and seems pointless and I think it is recipe for continued disasters. Here is example a man who is a multi millionaire for at least ten years wants ten wives he is going where it is aloud and those woman know there duties that are assigned to them for the trade off of wealth and resources for his seeds he will have for some of the wives. The problem is most people in America may have a kid with what I call the new mental impairments where they are essentially functioning but they have neural issues he or she is not something most men or woman want to breed with sounds harsh but it happens.

[@dr.williaml.johnsoniii240]

The challenge between men and women, especially black men and black women and the idea of commitment from men to their women has to do with uncovering the myth that women are as they have been presenting themselves. That is not to say that they are being deceptive. it means that they may not even be aware of the things that are underneath that show up at different places. Men are hesitant to make a choice like in let's make a deal behind door number one door number two indoor number three because they choose discover that what's behind the door is toxic, dangerous, and in authentic, they are stuck. So they moved like they are sampling a box of chocolates.

[@R1R34P3R]

Refreshing.

[@jakewillis1124]

The delusion of a woman who changes a man is the biggest myth ever. If and only when a man is ready to settle down, many things have to be in order 1st. Physical, mental, spiritual & financial. Until my purpose was 3 quarters fulfilled a woman was never an option. She didn't come along an inspire me to start a business, get in shape, be a regular inspiring reader, all things actions were already under way for years and years before she entered my life.

[@coolbreeze2.0-mortemadfasc13]

8:50, she’s wrong.