VLOG: change in birth plan + baby update

[@staceyperigo7652]

My doctor had indicated that my baby was going to be big. A week toward the end of my pregnancy the doctor would stretch my cervix to help with my labour and hopefully avoid stitches. I was one week overdue and went into labour which was only 6 hours long. I delivered a 9 lbs 13.5 oz baby naturally with absolutely no stitches. I was very grateful my doctor knew how to make my delivery successful. My son is now 32 years old!

[@hannahsuej97]

Just here to comment again that your body and baby are so capable and smart and are working together! Dont let anyone scare you into something you dont want to do. That being said, everyones journey is different and just do whatever brings you the most peace. Do some soul searching and do whatever feels right💕 continued prayers for a smooth positive labor and delivery experience!

[@carriecobb1235]

The good news is baby will get here one way or another. Just keep a good attitude and stay flexible. Soon this will all just be a sweet story you get to tell him about! ❤ Sending hugs and prayers for a safe and happy delivery.

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Thank you!! 💞

[@engallop]

Clancy you're so freakin' funny. I'm not even intending to have a child myself but find this entire journey so interesting and exciting to hear about! Thank you for sharing with us.

[@Teenie303]

Everything is going to go exactly the way it's supposed to. Trust the process and enjoy these last weeks!!

[@kallieschumaker268]

Trust your body it was made to this! Praying for a safe delivery and healthy mom and baby. You got this!

[@stefanietaylor5402]

As much as you research online in the past, I’d think you’d see that ultrasound measurements are verrryy unreliable…

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Or they can be very accurate! It just varies

[@sierrafullerton3005]

If it helps mine was SO far off my midwife had to make a complaint about one of my ultrasounds. All the estimates were way, way off what she ended up being.

[@daniellewashington1411]

Good morning, Clancy. So glad to hear that you will follow your own plan. Congratulations 👏🏾🎉

[@ritabarnes2440]

Good idea to get the epidural. I had emergency c-section as baby’s heart rate kept dropping. (She was fine but it was a scary moment as cord was around her neck). I hadn’t had an epidural so had to be put to sleep. So excited for you and praying for safe delivery.

[@michelleh5727]

Absolute truth I was told that my babies were way too big and that I was gonna have to have a C sections with ALL 3 of mine..... nope... all 3 of my babies were way under 7lbs and all 3 were short in measurements and had small heads.. extremely OFF from what ultrasound "showed" ..

[@madalynbernard]

Clancy I’ve loved you taking us on this journey!!! Try not to worry too much about labor and delivery (easier said than done) but your dr’s and nurses will take great care of you and baby. Good luck sending you all the best vibes! 🩵

[@reghanolm451]

You got this mama. My baby was also measuring huge and he ended up being 9lbs 11oz and 23 inches long and his shoulder was stuck during delivery. I was so scared of the unknown before hand as well, but despite the complications delivery is a surreal and amazing experience.

[@squeakyb.7709]

Both of my deliveries have not been “surreal” lol. Epidural, push once or twice, and have a baby in my arms in 2 minutes. Have I been robbed of a true delivery experience? Lol. My labors were a decent length, though.

[@laneywagner5735]

Everything is going to go exactly the way it’s supposed to! Praying for a safe and healthy delivery if we don’t hear from you!! Loved watching all of your separate journeys throughout the years! I remember watching your vlogs during “hell week” in college & now you’re about to have a baby! So exciting.

[@Colleen-m4k]

Frugal tip for baby clothes shopping - shop clearance rack for the next season! So if there were clearance summer clothes at Kohls just get the baby's size for next summer!

[@nancymcdonough4373]

Your blogs are wonderful! Keep them coming!!

[@dee_ewell_pierce]

I keep checking Insta to see if we have a surprise! Hang in there sweet girl...the end is in sight.

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Thank you! 🩷

[@thepinkgiraffe2]

I look forward to these vlogs more now than ever, they just keep getting better. I have been a follower since the beginning back when you filmed in your childhood bedroom, through college and now. Your journey has been such a pleasure to follow

[@xdajanax1]

my son measured 6lbs 12oz at 33 weeks and big boy came out 9lbs, natural delivery...you got this!!!!

[@kimtongo3533]

You are too funny explaining stuff😂😂😂

[@mansoor3159]

Clancy your videos makes me so calm and peaceful, Thank you so so so much for making such a wonderful beautiful videos for us and I will always be your supportive🥹💫💗

[@reannemichellem]

Hi Clancy! I had a very similar situation to the nurse you talked to. I had an emergency c-section with my first daughter because she got stuck. Recovery was pretty smooth and went way better than I thought it was going to! When I got pregnant with my second daughter, I was told I was not a good candidate for a VBAC so we scheduled an elective c-section. Long story short, she came much too quickly and there wasn’t time for the cesarean. I ended up having an unmedicated VBAC, and the recovery was much harder! I guess my point is that everybody is different and it’s impossible to predict how things will play out. Try not to stress too much and please don’t freak yourself out with things you read online! As a few other people have mentioned, ultrasound measurements can be wildly inaccurate! Best of luck ❤

[@laurencarpenter7097]

Clancy, at my 20 week scan, my baby was in the 93% percentile and was already 15 oz. I appreciate your transparency. It gives me some perspective.

[@shannahamilton7758]

I think you’ve totally got the right mindset on sleep schedules - I will say I think they get more important as babies get a little older, but newborns really just do whatever they want and having a kiddo that can sleep wherever is the best for a little while 😂

[@lesshustlemorecoffee]

Oh my gosh! It’s about to get real. I keep thinking in real time, the baby is here. I’m guessing and know the videos lag a bit. So excited 😆. Prayers going up and blessings requested for you, Zach and baby! :-)

[@losiramadartse4127]

I’m excited to see more of your mom and dad in videos! Clancy, you moved your entire family to Cinci! Yaya! ❤

[@sarahs6228]

I was induced at 37 weeks 2 weeks ago, he got stuck on my pelvis and I pushed for 2 hours. It was exhausting, but I ended up getting him out and he was only 7 lbs 5oz! They flipped me around into different positions to move him throughout so utilize that while taking breaks from pushing!! But also, I got the epidural and it was a life saver!

[@maribelguzman0419]

Trust them when they say you have a roomy pelvis. I’m a tiny 4’11, 84 pound woman and they said I had a favorable pelvis for a vaginal delivery and my baby flew right out! And yes, pelvic check pain varies but once you get that epidural during labor you wont feel a thing.

[@justinfelt748]

Happy Wednesday, Clancy!😊😊😊😊😊😎☀💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍. I'm so excited that your baby is almost here and I can feel it outside whether it's rain or shine!😍😍😍😍😍😍🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇🎇👍

[@dylansousa5571]

Clancy and Zac you will be great parents and i hope you are having a great week

[@alyssabee1002]

This is random, and maybe it's just me, but you may not want the nails on once the baby is here. I hated having long nails with a newborn, so I temporarily stopped doing them with each kiddo. So excited for you and Zac!!

[@Jocebearr]

I will say when you try for a vaginal birth and end up with a c section you have to essentially heal from having both kinds of labor not to mention we ended up laboring for almost two days before staying another 4 days from the c section it makes the stay feel so long. With my second planned c section in and out in 2 days

[@katiegarland8235]

For the record, you can always decline a student doing any procedure on you and you can even decline them even coming in the room. It is your choice as the patient.

[@superscript634]

Please consider the stress of the birth process on the baby and have someone advocate for both Mom and baby by your side at all times. Making such a decision in a middle of labour pains is not ideal. Take care ❤

[@sheriroyalty2042]

Thank you for always keeping it real, Clancy! I'm so excited for you to meet your little boy! 💙

[@emmelineglover]

So excited for you! I’ve had 2 c sections and recovery is not as bad as most people make it out to be! The planned one with my twins was by far WAY nicer! I had a full nights’ sleep and walked into the operating room on my own! It was lovely. I feel like birth recovery is painful regardless of how your baby is born. Also, take those ultrasound weight estimates for what they are - an estimate. I had an ultrasound 3 days prior to giving birth to my twins and they were off by an entire POUND! Can’t wait to see you become a mother! 🩵🩵

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Thank you!!!❤️❤️❤️

[@ashleighrose8115]

Okay there are only 2 recommendations I have (you do whats best for you!) But I def recommend sticking to Plastic Bottles and buying like 1-2 glass bottles until he is able to try them out, Glass is expensive and reflux is VERY common in babies and my sister in law had only glass bottles on her registry so she ended up with like 20glass bottles that she ended up not being able to use because my nephew had reflux, so she had to buy doctor browns (plastic) bottles because they were made specifically for reflux so id definitely wait before splurging on glass! Lol. And The ONLY thing I can say I agree with your doctor on is the epidural, if you're on the fence about it, just do it because if you get to a certain point and change your mind sometimes it'll be too late to get it, also its easier to just start with the epidural apart of your plan than it is to ask for it last min (Especially because there is a higer chance you may need a C-section), my best friend held off with her third baby and she was so tensed up (from being in active labor for hours) that the epidural didnt WORK they tried twice, but because of her adrenaline and everything it just had 0 effect and at that point there isnt anything they can do.... With her 4th Baby she planned the epidural so things went MUCH smoother and my niece was out in 3 pushes! So it just makes the experience much nicer for YOU because you're not focused on the pain, making it the incredibly, empowering experience it should be! Honestly listen to your doctors advice and trust YOUR instincts, you know what best for you and YOUR Son! And PLEASE remember that no matter if you deliver vaginally or via C-section or if you do epidural or no epidural, you're a FREAKING ROCKSTAR who's about to do something incredible that only Mommys can do and thats bring your own soulmate into the world! Sending positive vibes your way for a nice smooth and EASY delivery! ❤

[@Bythewordpod]

I wish I had time to process. I had less than 5 minutes to mentally prepare for my c section and it was a traumatic experience. You’re gonna do great no matter what happens!

[@bhskhs2010]

If it makes you feel better, my daughter had been measuring 2 weeks ahead and in the 97th percentile since I was like 30 weeks and she was measuring 7 lbs 11 oz at 37 weeks. I gave birth to her at 8 lbs 3 oz 2 weeks later on the 19th. I got induced with both my girls and both were great. First time moms induction can take a couple days too though so just something to be aware of.

[@Tatjana_m]

If you don’t already have one - a yoga ball is a great way to open up your hips and help baby move down into your pelvis. Squats as well! I would do some research on things you can do to help open up to get him to move down 🙏🏼 (mom of 3 here so I’m not just talking out of my bum 🤣) I was told this exact thing with my first one, they said I may not be able to deliver her due to the size of pelvis vs baby’s head. Well, I had 3 kids vaginally so it was all fine ;) (and no regrets. There were no major struggles to get them to move down once things got going).

[@Tatjana_m]

Just kidding, I didn’t watch the whole video before commenting 😅 clearly you have a yoga ball haha.

[@maribelguzman0419]

Omg the yoga ball between my legs took me from 5 cm to 10cm in less than 2 hours!

[@QueenBe4Life]

Just here to say I’m so excited for you!! Libra baby 💙♎️

[@alexismorgan3286]

You’re doing great, mama! I know opinions on inductions can be overwhelming and controversial, but I was induced and it’s was absolutely perfect. It was nice to have a plan/day and could wrap my brain around everything! You’ve got this!

[@kellytharp7653]

You're going to be a wonderful mother Clancy!

[@amandaholley8068]

I am so much like you! Having a plan makes me feel more comfortable. I may face fertility issues, but I know God has a plan. He sent me the sweetest rescue puppy and i am blessed to have him. My mom and sister ended up with general anesthesia. My sister’s was due to her epidural not working on one side. I’ve never heard of anyone else needing a c-section for that, so I’m not worrying about that for myself. It was a fluke for my mom, too. My niece had a big head and my sister only got to a 6. Thank you for being real. You haven’t been negative at all! It’s healthy to talk through anxieties and be ok with just ending up with you both healthy! I know it’s hard being a natural planner and trying to prepare your brain for every possibility. It’s a struggle learning to be flexible, but compare it to your nomad life. You had an idea of what to expect, but knew there would be experienced locals with advice, so you went to your AirBNB and adapted. Your family will do the same at the hospital and all getting to know each other for years to come. Baby Boy has already taught you that surprises can be better than plans! I told my sister the same thing you are telling yourself about getting to leave with a baby! I just can’t wait to see Asher’s reaction!

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Okay this is the sweetest message ever and the fact that you took the time to type it all out says so much about who you are as a person 🥹 thank you so so much for your words of encouragement!!! 🩷

[@amandaholley8068]

@@ClancyBurkeXDon’t make me cry! I’m good at weddings, but babies get me. My sister was advised to stop after my niece. (Don’t worry-it’s just her. I was the easy child. She manages to have the weirdest health issues. She could have more kids, but she would need blood thinners and she’s already been on them and doesn’t want to risk my niece not having a mom.) BUT my niece will be 21 tomorrow! My mom’s birthday is Friday. I still tell my sister that after 3 days in labor, she could have waited another 6.5 hours so they could share a birthday. My sister was born on my second birthday and we are exact opposites. I typed it all with one finger on my iPad because I need to go check out the new MacBooks if they are out. I probably should have sent it on IG from my phone, but I do things that hard way, obvi. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I know it’s hard for you now because you are just waiting to meet him! Just remember that you will be around people who can get a baby out so quickly and they’ve got tons of experience. His grand entrance will be the first of many surprises the baby has in store!

[@Crismsu11]

Hey Clancy! Wishing you a safe labor and delivery. Sending good vibes! 😊❤️

[@ruthieebabyyxohh]

Pregnancy charlie horses are the WORST! You're so close to the end, you've got this mama! ❤

[@alyssameier7328]

My son got stuck in my pelvis during labor because he was coming out at an angle. He was also a bigger baby at 8lbs 5 oz. They had to use the vacuum to get him out. Everything worked out and he was perfectly fine! My recovery was also a breeze. I was going for walks around my neighborhood the day after we got home from the hospital. I stayed active my whole pregnancy and my nurse in the hospital told me that walking can really help recovery, within reason. She was right! It will all work out!

[@karajohnston5935]

Everything will work out the way it’s suppose to. 🙏❤️. Sending prayers your way for a happy healthy baby, momma and birth.

[@SchokoN]

Clancy you got this 💪🏼

[@kristenm7370]

You’re so close to the finish line!! Sounds like you have an amazing medical team that will take great care of you and baby boy, no mater what happens. Don’t listen to any horror stories, unfortunately people are quick to share them (shame on that nurse for scaring you). Thinking positive thoughts for you and your family 🫶🏼

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Thank you so much!!🥹❤️

[@alonalyons8685]

It is your body. Just let the time to come, if the doctor induces they know what to do. Just belive to the doctors. I can't believe you almost done with the pregnancy. I still remember when you find out. We all cryed with you.

[@Jewel-b3c]

With my first child I was like yeah go ahead and check my cervix. With the second kid I was like nah I’m good I’ll wait😂😂

[@jordanadams5994]

Coming from someone who has had two babies: I was in labor for almost 30 hours with my first, but just couldn’t get him out. We went for a c section and he actually had a wound on his head from sitting on my pelvis for so long. My second was a schedule c section. They had to vacuum her out bc she was wedged in my pelvis too. But I will say the recovery from both was easy for me. Just be open-minded. Obviously yours and baby’s safety is priority over the actual avenue it may take for him to get here!! Prayers for you easing the anxiety surrounding birth. ❤️

[@sweeney12711]

It’s sounds like you’re going into labor with a great mindset - being open! It’s so hard to know what the right choice is. I’m old (40) and wanted a natural birth. I’m tall and skinny with narrow hips. Husband is very tall. My OB wanted to induce at 40 weeks, but we decided to wait until 41+2. It was 24 hours of labor and I wanted to resist the epidural, but boy did I want it 15 hours in once the contractions came on strong and fast. Once it was time to push, I pushed for 45 minutes and delivered a 8lb 7oz baby. My OB said I was an excellent pusher - the key was to push like you’re pooping (and I did, literally)! I couldn’t even feel the contractions bc of the epidural. The downside is that it took a good 6 months for my pelvic floor to feel back to normal. Good luck with whatever you choose! ❤

[@lexiemcbroom9388]

You are so right. Everyone and every birth is so different! But maybe a bit of positivity in terms of getting induced, I was induced with both of my babies at 40 weeks and both times it was a great experience! I loved being induced lol! I pray for peace over whatever decision and you your doctors make and for the most beautiful birthing experience! You will be a wonderful mama!

[@jordyntodd3611]

I think the best thing you can do & best thing you have done is prepare for all avenues that labor & delivery can take, even preparing for unmedicated labor is a good idea even if you planned an epidural. My third baby that I had in June was an average size baby (6.5lbs) & he got stuck on my pelvic bone or something lol I was in a ton of pain & I got checked. I was 3cm. They sent me home. 35 minutes later I was in transition & got to the hospital. 20 minutes after arriving & of pushing, I held my son. No time for pain meds so I’m SO thankful that I did my research on coping without medication!! my other two babies where 5lbs & 8lbs & came out in three pushes & honestly you just never know… prepare your mind for all possibilities to relieve stress in the moments that could come. I didn’t get an epidural with my last & it was amazing but boyyyy was it hard. It’s 90% mental for sure lol You got this Clancy!! 💕 you’re doing a wonderful job! I cannot wait to see your vlogs as a new mom.

[@mariabadillo1282]

💙 Asher is going to love the baby! 🐾

[@kelseyp600]

They said my baby was gonna be huge and so they wanted to induce me, I was 0 dilated and 0% effaced. Baby ended up being less than 8 Lb and I only had to push for 35 min (first time mom). However I’m still glad I was induced. No stress / mystery about when baby was coming do what feels right to you and your Drs, girl. It’s your story, your body, your birth❤️

[@victoriadelbando3283]

Clancy sending you all the love and support you need❣️❤️ I was induced and had a C section too! You’ll do great❣️ I love your positive look on your upcoming birth❣️❤️🥰

[@abigailcarroscia1864]

Just putting my birth story out there to give you some hope, hopefully 😊 a year ago I had a homebirth, delivered a 10 lb 14 oz healthy baby boy with a large head and zero tearing or issues. I was on my knees in a waterbirth, which coupled with my midwife's coaching through pushing helped produce those results. It's totally possible!! You're the mama, if you feel like the induction or c section is best go with your gut. Praying for everything to go smoothly! ❤

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Wow, that’s amazing!!!! Thank you for sharing your story ❤️

[@chelseapritchard2117]

Some complications arose during the birth of my first child but my doctors did everything in their power to ensure I didn't have to have a c section, which is surprising because a lot of doctors are easy to order a c section. I was so thankful they did that even though I had been terrified of a vaginal delivery. Get the epidural!! Absolutely nothing wrong with getting one. I had two and had no pain when they inserted the needle and made giving birth painless!!

[@lucysapphire]

I had a baby 20 years ago so I know things have changed but let me give you my experience just so you have the info. My doctor repeatedly told me my son was about 7 pounds. I wound up going to 40 weeks 3 days and was induced. I labored for 36 hours and then my son was born vaginally although they had to use vacuum suction to get him out. He was 9 pounds 4 ounces. He basically ripped me apart. My recovery was terrible and my bladder control has never ever been the same. If I could go back in time I would have demanded a C-section because I think recovery would have been a ton easier. I wish both you and baby a healthy delivery no matter what you decide. 💙

[@tee-tee172]

Clancy you have a right to consent or decline medical students from your care. I have if i dont feel comfortable sometime and in other cases I dont mind medical student being present.

[@Colleen-m4k]

Best of luck to you, everything will work out the way it is intended to! Enjoy the exciting anticipation of your first baby! And enjoy your hospital stay! I always stayed the extra night ;)

[@SSM356]

All the best for the baby!

[@angiereed3843]

"Before I formed you in the womb, I knew you, before you were borned I set you apart" Jeremiah 1:5 ❤God's got this!❤

[@AI_REACTS.]

Oh please

[@chelseagelber1979]

I love that verse!!!

[@AI_REACTS.]

@@chelseagelber1979 Its not appropriate for someone who doesn't express or have religious beliefs.

[@dustmite723]

@@AI_REACTS.it’s ok to be whatever or whoever you want, except if you are Christian apparently

[@AI_REACTS.]

@@dustmite723 no it’s fine to believe whatever u want it’s just rude and not appropriate to ram your thoughts down peoples throats.

[@giovannacristina4252]

hi, clancy, I just found out I’m 4 weeks pregnant 🥺🥺🥺😍 any advice besides rewatching all of you pregnancy vlogs? ❤️ hahaha

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Congrats!!!! I recommend getting the book What to Expect When You’re Expecting!! It was super informative

[@elizabethcheung6207]

Good morning Clancy, 🙏 Happy Wednesday ❤

[@sarah_lou388]

My fiancé is 6’4 and I’m 5’2. Our baby’s head was 98th percentile and he was 8lbs 7oz. I wasn’t induced till 41w and I still had him vaginally but they had to use suction

[@Heathershodgepodge2]

You do you and whatever will be will be!! I think you are very smart to have only one plan and that’s it’s cause babies are very unpredictable and I feel you’re kind of at their mercy somewhat lol. I’m so excited and can’t wait for you guys!!!

[@mckynleestanley]

Just here to say I was induced with all three of my babies at 39 weeks and I had ZERO complications each time! I understand it’s not like that for every woman, all of our bodies are different, but don’t let induction scare you if you have to take that route! 🤍

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Thank you!❤️❤️❤️

[@rosalindacano]

Yes lol it’s true I had a 6lb baby boy & struggled getting him out I pushed for 3hrs & my epidural failed (it doesn’t work for everyone). Dr offered an emergency c-section or vacuum (baby’s heart rate dropped). I picked the vacuum & baby would still not come out until he did an episiotomy. I was left with a 3rd degree tear, an incision, horrible hemorrhoids from pushing, & a baby who had to be resuscitated/rushed to NICU. I’m currently pregnant with baby girl due in November hoping it’s better this time around🤞🏼I also have an experience with my ultrasound being way off. I was told the whole time baby’s abdomen was abnormally small. It stressed me out so much just for him to be born completely normal. By the way that Moms on Call book was a life saver!! I bought it when my baby was 10weeks old & I was so horribly sleep deprived I was ready for sleep training. I followed the sleep training schedule & methods from that book. Baby was sleep trained in 2 days, he would sleep 12 hrs straight (7pm-7am). It helped me feel like myself again. He’s about to be 3 in November & he still so well trained for his daytime naps. He will hop into bed once he sees me close the black out curtains & play the white noise he knows what to do.

[@justaemogirlwhosings9375]

I'm going to say my birth story as a ounce of hope. My daughter was induced at 40 weeks and 1 day. She was 5lbs 4oz when born and an 18 hr labor. My son was almost 8lbs when born and was a 13hr labor but my water broke a week early,he was more complicated as far as my second water bag didn't break on it's own and my cervix wasn't opening all the way but he was still totally natural. I'll see how baby #3 goes in april but you got this girl,do what's best for you. And btw I see a lot of comments saying others vaginal births were horrible to recover from and i've never had a csection so i can't compare but I can say the 1st time I had stitches and felt fully normal after a week. The 2nd were no stitches and I felt fine in 3 days.

[@jess-r8h]

This is my personal opinion… I had a C-section and vaginal birth (vbac) and my c-section recovery was waaaaaay easier then vaginal. 😂

[@jess-r8h]

Also home stretch!!!! Best of luck. Holding him will be the absolute best feeling you will ever experience. You got this. ❤

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Thank you! 🩷

[@arej3293]

Same! I’ve had 2 natural births and 2 c sections. One of my natural births was over a 9lb baby! I would 100% do a c-section, Recovery was soooo much easier.

[@laperlenoir]

They told me I probably would not be able to deliver vaginally, but let me try. I did deliver vaginally. My poor son had a dent around his head. He had dropped really early. They told me if his head had ben one mm larger, it would have been a c-section. It all went well. Listen to your L&D nurses. Mine rocked.

[@sierrafullerton3005]

Get yourself some electrolyte drinks! I had the WORST leg cramps at night when i was pregnant and i swear they totally went away when i started religiously drinking electrolytes.

[@catlady4799]

Clancy my daughter had one vag. birth and three c sections said pain not like people said was not bad at all little cut low on belly and her recovery was fine. Do what you want to do. God Bless.

[@TheLifeOfElizabeth]

Cascade of interventions

[@judieloveday1643]

My first born was an emergency c-section after many, many hours of labour and not progressing past 4cm (don't want to scare you with numbers). I was utterly exhausted, and don't remember much of the first night. He was average weight and length, but it turned out he had a very large head, and would never have come out vaginally. (This son wore adult-size hats at 8 yrs old.) Second pregnancy - I was 35 so they did an amniocentesis (this son is now 29, so things have changed a bit since) to find out gender and if there were chromosomal issues. He was a planned c-section at 38 weeks because they thought he would have the same issue his elder brother did. Nope. He was so much smaller that they thought. All this to say - each birth is different and planned c-sections are much easier to recover from than emergency ones.

[@samanthasmith1209]

I live in the Cincinnati area too. I highly highly suggest once upon a child! There’s one in west Chester and if you go on a day they have clearance on sale you can get some clothing items for $1 especially when they get bigger. It’s super convenient to sell to them too!

[@samanthasmith1209]

I almost never buy anything new for my kiddo because they grow out of the clothes so so fast and most outfits only get worn once. I do buy new if it’s for a special occasion like planned family photos or birthdays. ❤

[@moniquefreeman4600]

Small tip - you may want to avoid eating the avocado toast with everything bagel seasoning from Dunkin before giving birth (I understand, the avocado toast is so good and one of my favorite items too!) The reason is because the poppyseeds in the everything bagel seasoning might make your drug test positive after you give birth. There have been instances where the baby was taken away because the mom tested positive on a drug test after giving birth and she had eaten poppyseeds.

[@unicornhorse1632]

We don't test everybody routinely

[@allisonnastepniak]

It really does depend who does the cervical checks. One of my nurses in the hospital hurt me soooo bad lol I literally was like ok I’ll wait for my midwives in the future 😂😂😂😂

[@molly_frances]

Clancy, I really appreciate how level headed you are about the birth and how you are going to stick to what feels right/safe for the baby and you. It’s admirable. I think I’ve said it before but, I know you are going to be such a great mom! You are a natural!

[@pinkklink]

You have to take the doctors estimated baby weight as a grain of salt. They told me my son was huge, that I would struggle in birth. He was 18 inch and 6lbs at 40 weeks! So.. trust me, it’s just a number! Also I have a great friend who is a tiny tiny person and gave birth naturally, in a tube, no medication, 10lbs! They had no idea her baby was so big and I cannot believe her little petite body pushed that whole human out! A woman’s body is so capable of the unknown!

[@kaseypb]

Yeah same for both my boys & they were both 5lbs

[@TheMissySue]

I pushed out a 10lb baby with a head in the 99 percentile, first baby and I weighed 110lbs pre pregnancy, I think there are actual few cases where it’s not possible to fit a baby in the birth canal but obviously trust your instincts and look at the information given to you by your doctor but don’t feel pressured into anything. I’m sure everything will be fine ❤

[@dustmite723]

That’s right, your body is made for this and it knows what to do

[@Notable2Nikki]

Prayers for a smooth delivery and a healthy mama and baby!

[@lesliehouse]

Let your body do its thing. Trust it first!

[@Marieq]

First, can you make us a 1 - or 2 minute pre-recorded video. Saying you're going to the hospital to have the baby❤? Other KZbin channels I've watched did that, and it was just very exciting! My story/advice for you. I ended up getting pre-eclampsia 1 month early. My doctor said to go to L&D to just get checked out. Well, the doctors came in and said, " Guess what, you're having your baby." I was given the choice for a natural, but i would have to take these pills every 3 hours, for at least 36 hours before they would start pitocin. My baby also did 3 summer salts that day, but the 3rd he was head down. Or I could have a c-section in an hour. They said the choice is completely up to me and left the room, so i could talk with my husband and mom. We were weighing the pros and cons, and obviously, it was my choice. I just had this feeling that if i chose natural, it would take days, and i would end up having an emergency c section anyway. I ultimately decided to do the c section. I could either have my baby in my arms in an hour and a half. Or hope to have a natural birth, spending hours of the unknown and possible c-section. For me personally, I made the right choice for me. He was born at exactly midnight and 11 seconds, and the whole operating room erupted in cheers (they hadn't had a midnight baby in a long time). As I was being wheeled back my one doctor whispered to me you made a good choice, im glad i did it. The doctors are not going to tell you what choice you should decide because it is your choice. (Unless there is some emergency.) They don't want to pressure you either way because its ultimately what you would feel most comfortable with, and there is no wrong choice. It is very difficult to be put in that situation i know, but you do what your heart tells you to do❤! I will say one silly plus side of choosing a c-section is your baby will have a perfectly shaped head, lol 😆. Just wanted to give you a laugh. Again, go with what you feel is right for you and baby! Much love, excitement, and prayers!!! 🩵💙🩵

[@susananderson8995]

You have a good attitude going into child birth. Being flexible is key. I wish people would stop calling birth plans, "plans". They are more like parameters. Ultimately, your body and baby will have their own plan!

[@enneki929]

i gave birth 3 weeks ago, a planned c section. was so calm and genuinely a good experience. dont be afraid! and ugh its so nice to be a free woman in my body again haha. things will be good

[@ClancyBurkeX]

Thank you!! And congrats! 🩷🩷

[@amymarie3312]

My advice is advocating for yourself. I had a lot of decisions taken away from me during my birth and I often wonder what would have happened if things had gone differently. She’s amazing and I would do it all again for her, but next baby I will be doing things differently for my sake.

[@cuteprincess441]

The epidural saved me. The pain was unbelievable before, and I was only at 4cm dilated! It's a brief pinch and then you find sweet sweet relief.

[@inyourdaydreams7576]

Did Zach say Zander when she was making dinner?

[@neilbradley]

Roomy Pelvis sounds like a great name for a band. Sleep better when the baby's here? Uh.... I have some news for you. ;-) As a father of two grown girls, the first kid you obsess about everything and almost none of it really matters. The second kid, you let them play with knives. ;-)

[@jamiebanys2816]

You should have had a birth doula

[@rebeccafoust3545]

Personally I wouldn't opt for a c section unless baby was breech. Once you have a c section you will most likely getting one for future kids.

[@ashlynnpetty]

this is unrelated to the video, but I use to be subscribed to Luke piano, your cousin, and I need to know where he is now. he was one of my favorite KZbinrs when I was younger. Please tell me where I can find him thank you.

[@brittneyrenea210]

💜💜

[@melindagordon5278]

Clancy, with the millions of people in this world is how many different stories there are to giving birth. We're all looking forward to seeing this beautiful little guy and you and Zac will do amazing. ❤👣

[@blakely6835]

Any way your little man may decides to the world, or has entered the world…. you were created for this! God bless your family❤

[@shelbychocolate]

My twins measurements were so so off and I felt like I was pushed into a C-section based on those incorrect measurements. After having my 3rd baby normally (no C-section) I wished I didn’t opt for a C-section the first time around. Either way baby will get here! My Csection recovery was just really hard!

[@hp0730]

Both times I was told my babies were huge, had a 6 pound and 7 pound baby (same with you told that he was 6 pounds at like 35 weeks), but ultimately listen to your instincts and your doctor. If one way feels less scary, then go with that, but it’s great that you have an open mind!

[@hermionepink96]

I was 6 lbs and my Mom labored for over a day and heard in the next room a mother give birth in 30 minutes to a larger baby

[@sweetypie442]

I usually don’t leave comments but I feel you should do what’s best for you and give your body the opportunity to tell you what’s best for you.