Classic Divorce Court- Durham Vs. Durham: Video Phone

Has the dream of being a Rap Videographer ruined the marriage for today’s couple?
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[@AshleyAshleyAshley395]

Dang I’m 5 minutes in and it sounds like the universe was screaming NOOOO DONT DO IT 😕

[@twinklestar620]

missashleyowens so c

[@twinklestar620]

missashleyowens so true 😂😂😂😂

[@danyaleclayton-easter2362]

Right 😆 see what happens when we don't listen 😂🤦

[@BooLadybeautycare]

Girlll right

[@islandgirl9479]

I said the same thing. I couldn't believe what I was hearing and seeing for that matter.....smh🤔🙄

[@Taggimit]

He looks so exhausted, and emotionally drained. Like he just works, comes home and works some more. His eyes tell a sad story. I hope he finds some sense of self after this.

[@sheriecemalone2155]

He spent his 20's and most of his 30s being married when most of us was in college and partying. He tired he really to live his best life. And he don't have kids either. I'm with you I hope he find his self

[@dl2015]

They just weren’t meant to be together. Their wedding & the 2 year affair was confirmation.

[@ronnimartin7033]

HE WAS 22 YEARS OLD!! What did she expect?! He was a kid!! He STILL can't articulate his thoughts now, so what was he like at 22?!!

[@KnottyCeltic]

Right? I mean some of those Ummms and pauses might be from nerves being on tv and all but they are not a good match at all due to the age difference. The trainwreck wedding and then having the "fake pregnancy scare" right after the wedding...she chose to ignore all the signs of his "youth" and not being ready for a marriage. She should have known better at 28.

[@tasbar7743]

I would've loved to see their wedding photos. Afro puffs lol

[@fatemamurray7629]

Me 2🤣🤣 wish they had the entire wedding taped

[@autumnskai6383]

He said "what's wrong with that" smh

[@msdanielledapson]

😂 I’m all for people wearing their hair any way but toddler curly puffs! I would fall out 🤣😭

[@BooLadybeautycare]

I would brought it to court just embarrassing

[@islandgirl9479]

Stop it girrrrrrrl 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

[@hm93654]

She treats him like a child. She does not appreciate his efforts. He is working taking care of her and 4 kids that are not his and she is all in her feelings when he gets home tired, sweaty and wanting to relax. While she has been chilling at home all day!!! Go somewhere FELICIA!!! He needs his freedom a bit longer to experience a different life without her baggage!!

[@Pinkgirlyyyy]

The fact that no one could eat at the wedding😭

[@coconutwater4531]

He can’t string a coherent sentence together.

[@M.jasett]

It is so frustrating to listen to 😭

[@MarinaRhymin]

Because he's a liar! He's always trying to think of a way to talk around what he does.

[@biggmixxo]

He's a lil slow & she treats him like 1 of kids

[@islandgirl9479]

@@theotherwise3102 right.🤣🤣🤣

[@ANGEL-sm1hw]

Sometimes in life we make the mistake of giving certain people the places which they never deserve in our life.

[@sanasamateh2653]

Judge, you're very true. Come on teach us.

[@asabifatosin1150]

Yes. And that’s what he did. She never deserved to be his wife.

[@yaniquefrancis429]

Judge I LOVE you!!

[@rose3411]

So true

[@kdaye7647]

I think bcuz she's older, she probably talks to him like that's her child or he feels that way. I'm older than my husband by 7 years and I have to catch myself bcuz you can easily slip to acting like their mom. And that's not what I want.

[@ck.5218]

K Daye geez I’m a year and a few months younger than my hubby and still talk to him like he’s a child ..maybe ..highly likely..it’s the way they act..behave..and don’t do the obvious.

[@vapaperboi]

That and hes a lil slow

[@mechaem1426]

@th1smomentisfate I agree! It absolutely does start fights. It's not even worth the drama being with someone you treat as a child.

[@starisesun7692]

Well that's weird

[@ronnimartin7033]

At least you're honest!!

[@HTAnderson76]

So she was 28 with FOUR children already from a previous relationship and she married a 22 yr old? It's a miracle that their marriage lasted over a decade.

[@whit9676]

Same thing I was thinking

[@angelacarlisle1708]

He didnt need to marry her he was old enough to make his own mind up

[@lovetatyanna2221]

@@angelacarlisle1708 well I mean somebody did say"I do" for him so yeah lmaoooo anyways she knew what she was doing. And I believe him wen he said she asked him when is he gonna marry her.

[@liaw1231]

I don’t tend to believe in bad luck... but damn this wedding was an omen.

[@brittanyjackson2004]

Sooo many omens!!!

[@StygianStilettosGamer]

She designed her own hell. She was sleeping with a man barely out of boyhood, coerced this kid into marriage, then expected him to turn into a proper husband overnight. He's overworked, undersexed, and overwhelmed (as another person in a DC episode said lol). Found himself in a grown man's situation and just simply wasn't ready. He's got a good work ethic, he can make a great husband one day, but she designed this disaster. I ultimately blame her.

[@rai6489]

I’m going to miss judge Toler ❤️ I look forward to hearing her advice at the end of the show

[@herodecesaire8805]

I love watching your episode, it helps me to improve my listening and it brings me to pay attention to how native speakers tell their issues. Good for you ! Great job. From #Haiti

[@Nadiaworld8019]

Wow, I've never seen anyone comment on here saying their from Haiti...and I just met a girl earlier today at Wingstop who said she is from Haiti! Interesting! Can you tell me more about Haiti and how it is living there? You could email me if u want at [e-mail]

[@cowboylemonheadmedia]

I agree with how the judge called the situation on this at the end. He wasn’t ready and I totally feel his headspace. You shouldn’t even be thinking about marriage until you’re in your mid-30’s and got some living, grinding and rachetness out of your system.

[@faithsexhubby7422]

The wedding that went wrong is a sign, that both of you should not be together.

[@vijayalakshmipriya23vijaya33]

very true👍👍

[@damienhall2917]

Really?

[@r5ndom527]

That's too many signs.

[@autumnskai6383]

Way too many signs... It's like she was more focused on being married and just picked the guy willing to marry her. Desperation will have ppl accepting any ol raggedy piece of a person

[@Jasmine-gf8yk]

Their breakup started of from a disastrous marriage..

[@r5ndom527]

From before THAT,too!

[@Lee-up2cy]

He's not there asyet not even just his age but even how he communicates, we just need to be honest about who we are and what we want as a person.

[@pianomanhere]

That poor man looks so tired from working and just being "drained."

[@yolanivyolani7201]

The way he talks makes me understand why his brother had to do the vows for him 😂😂😂😂

[@2ndedition766]

Her brother said his vows. 😆😂

[@hmcdaniels]

This dude was a young kid not far from being out of his teens. He didn't know what he was doing getting into a marriage with a woman with 4 kids. I believe he was pressured. She should be ashamed of herself and go find herself a real man who can handle those responsibilities. Girl, stop being Desperate Diane and do some growing up your damn self.

[@brownsugarvalley7326]

Judge Lynn, always speaks Volume✨🎯👍

[@vannem2688]

He could still put his clothes in the hamper or wherever instead of dropping them at the door. Especially if it’s clean. I mean, come on now.

[@egcarswell]

Facts! Like his arms don't work or something. Boy, please!

[@krazychilel]

Exactly!!!

[@jjdesigns5558]

Exactly. And for how he speaks you can tell he drags and it would take days before he gets to it. Urggh

[@puremotion2212]

Not putting his clothes in the hamper was an act of defiance in response to her bulldozing the life out of him. Had she shown him love and an understanding of how that warehouse job was wearing him the heck out; he could have become her Superman. He would have had the mental fortitude to make his videography his full time gig. Her constant harping has worn him down and he looks older than she does. He is so unhappy. I hope he has the courage to get out of the marriage; and to grow into the man that he could be.

[@markb5478]

She is too advanced for him. He hasn’t grasped the concept of what a relationship is about much less Marriage. Can’t see how it got this far.

[@asabifatosin1150]

She had targeted him as a mark to support her and her kids. He walked into her web and was stuck.

[@prody666]

@@asabifatosin1150 She doesn't seem like this. Plus there wasn't a lot to target first.

[@cavelcunningham9305]

I don’t think so, he’s ready for a relationship but not marriage.She really doesn’t listen to anything he says. I think he can’t even get his words out a home, notice how she tries to interject to tell what’s he trying to say & gets it wrong every time. Give this man his freedom .

[@keylacmckemp1309]

He has not grasped the concept of a complete sentence.

[@whatsthetruth_review]

As soon as I knew and he told me he works with strippers and such I wouldn't of committed myself to him.

[@2ndedition766]

He probably spent more money entertaining strippers than he did on the actual job.

[@bakihanma6770]

4 kids at 28 marrying a 21 year old, yes this was going to be a success. 😂 😂 😂

[@RacieRain]

Right! Like, what went WRONG?!

[@mariehill6427]

She had no business marrying a child,and expecting him to act like an adult!

[@jemp.b.3926]

Looks like she found a young man who was a lil slow and easy to manipulate so she snatched the opportunity to get married. tried to mold him into the man that she wanted while treating him like a lil boy. The young man looks exhausted. 28 years old with 4 kids trying to force a lil boy into a man, she did it to herself.

[@justtracy7175]

Judge is so wise & true...."don't let some man just come live with you and don't contribute anything."

[@Faerie_Ren]

I think people forget that being a stay at home mom isn't as easy as we think. COVID proved that. A lot of parents couldn't handle being at home with their children. Take the fact that she is doing laundry for 6 people not one or two---6. I'd be mad too if after i just picked up after the kids and cooked (because southern people don't play with meals) my husband comes home and drops all his clothes in the floor right at the door after he cheated on me for most of the marriage. Sometimes it's the little things that build up that cause a problem. He really wasn't ready and she's resentful now.

[@daniellecl3310]

*Man-Child* She has herself to blame...she was old enough to know from the get go that she had no business dealing with him.... I'm not even 1/2 way through & listening to him talk is frustrating AsF #smh

[@africanredemption15]

Rocking tough with his AFRO PUFFS

[@yamomsass1263]

She's a nice shade of chocolate....she's too good and beautiful for him

[@lansanadiarra5312]

Really 😏

[@labrea654]

She is gorgeous 🥰😍😍

[@beb5407]

What is a nice shade of chocolate 🤔👀

[@bajanzelly]

So old girl actually married HER brother! Hahahaaaaa!

[@tinasmith5752]

SHE FOLOWED HER FREINDS SUGGESTIONS. AND NOT HER FIRST MIND! AND EVERTHING EENT DOWN HILL! *FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND! *FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND! *FOLLOW YOUR FIRST MIND! IT WILL "NEVER": * LEAD YOU WRONG! ! !

[@carolyng4273]

00lp00

[@ga_b.e_5282]

He’s annoying😐plz talk in complete sentences plzzzzz

[@tinasmith5752]

NO INTELLECT! NO INTELLECT! NO INTELLECT!

[@jenihunt2001]

Desperation is real with some women. She was willing to take a piece of a man than none at all. I hope she seeks counseling and work on family

[@eskedartam]

What the heck is she doing with him!😳 Really? They have no business being with each other. It’s all frustration!

[@kelleyc3916]

He really called her a dictator for picking up after him

[@desireejones2787]

😂😂😂 this started out as one of the funniest episodes I’ve seen.

[@jyquanstewart6551]

She lit his clothes on fire 😂

[@khrislewis9502]

Idk what he sees in her. She had 4 kids - no way Jose. Young dude has no business doing that

[@brittanyr1456]

So there are no other appealing characteristics/qualities to a woman other than her fertility?

[@labrea654]

She's a beautiful black woman.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

@@labrea654 I would never marry her.

[@jjdesigns5558]

Yeah man have 10 kids he's the man. Woman have 4 kids she's not worthy of love. She had her own house and taking care of them before she met him. So I don't get your comment

[@donnabrown7216]

28 with 4 children?! Wow! And then you married a young man 6 years younger?! Her thinking process was apparently on pause

[@hangtyme765]

He should stay frustrated. he can’t talk worth a shit when he’s calm.

[@oodief88]

I'm sorry, but I don't care if you've been gone 20-11 hrs, it's disrespectful to just drop your shit anywhere you want because you think your mate is obligated to clean after you.

[@sullivancountydays]

You knew he was a kid when you married him. How they make it 13 years?

[@life.perception.perspective]

Well if u ever needed a damn sign this was definitely it!!

[@latanyagordon5605]

When you marry a child you get child attitude and childish behavers.

[@whatsthetruth_review]

That woman is beautiful

[@mogetit5999]

That skin though

[@desteepooful]

Shes gorgeous

[@tpoppy9303]

and her butt is soooooo big

[@yamomsass1263]

No way in hell I'll be with a grown man with braids gotta let it go sir lmao

[@BUTeFalBLESSING]

The wedding was a sign!! Ain’t no way lol

[@RacieRain]

Look at Judge Toler's face! Lol.. 😂🤣🤣.."ummhmm".

[@hangtyme765]

So he’s like one of your children? It must be nice to have 4 children that can financially support an entire household. He financially supports you and the 4 kids you brought into the marriage. You cook and clean for him,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,and the 4 kids YOU brought into the marriage. Which is more impressive. 1). Providing financial and physical security for a woman and her 4 kids (I know, it’s a package deal). Throwing an extra chicken in the pot, and making what was a dinner for 5 now a dinner for 6. This ain’t about gender either. Judge Lynn took on 4 stepchildren when she married. I’m sure Big E recognized what a HUGE sacrifice that was. His cheating was inexcusable. But if she doesn’t realize that his contributions to this marriage makes life easier for her than her contributions make life easier for him, he should just leave and let her find out the hard way.

[@ChristalClearCarma]

Tyme right! I wish people would stop say she can do better cause..he's a decent guy ..not many man willing to work and take care of there own 4 kids.

[@ChristalClearCarma]

@th1smomentisfate I understand,and I'm not saying he's not without fault cheating is serious and I'm not calling him a good father but rather a good provider but after watching so many cheating lazy no job having men..the bar is low but he is above it for that reason alone.

[@PrincessZaire100]

Okay I get that he works in a warehouse and that’s hard work but I’ve seen my aunt do the same thing. My uncle doesn’t devalue her contributions nor does he say he does more than her. She also gets frustrated when he leaves his clothes everywhere. It’s mad annoying. Like if I clean all day and you don’t have to lift a finger when you get home, the least you could do is throw your damn clothes the hamper. Also she’s probably still mad about the cheating and doesn’t want to keep bringing it up but doesn’t want to let it go

[@KingRose339]

Christal Patton he’s a decent guy that cheated for 2 years don’t go in the same sentence so dumb 😂

[@PrincessZaire100]

KingRose AT ALL

[@msdany2xsayy328]

He never wanted to be married in the first place.it took him that long to say i do???

[@stormij]

It takes him long to explain everything. He reminds me of a sloth lol

[@Sweetie_744]

Exactly! But he needed a place to stay so she made him marry her

[@asabifatosin1150]

They should have sued the venue that ruined their wedding.

[@robertjames9547]

The judge hit it on the head you're very frustrated, we are all frustrated but we can't explain ourselves!

[@janettedesilier1018]

Dang their wedding was a disaster. 😢

[@valeriel4145]

I knew she looked familiar from another show. She was on paternity court as a guest for her daughter that was talking so much 🤣.

[@1010QUEEN7]

Elaborate please

[@ShaVaughn]

Don't get me wrong, domestic work is valuable and can be tedious.. but let's not pretend working in a factory is equivalent to it. Working from the comfort of your own home is WAY different from working in a factory climate-especially with the one he described working at. I wish more women would see admitting the truth as just that rather than thinking it's devaluing their efforts. Just my virgil cents.

[@amal7926]

It sounds like the marriage was forced

[@SimpleStephy]

That wedding was awful oh my and she's an Event Planner... Seriously this marriage obviously meant nothing sigh

[@ebbyf294]

Event planner?? She's a homemaker

[@SimpleStephy]

@@ebbyf294 it said event planner beside her name

[@justforme6076]

@@ebbyf294 she says she held her own, in the title it said she is an event planner. (She probably was not a good one based on her own wedding outcome.) When Judge Toler asked her if she brings in $$ (& owns her home- ??? is it a coop or condo because they in an apt complex???) she said yes but when he talked about jobs she said she's home. I conclude she is getting welfare, food stamps & possibly section 8 and occasionally do events. The part about the caterer makes no sense at all...raw food & venue late by 3 hours. Real catering cook food b4 offsite & bring prepared or partically prepared food then complete the heating or cooking process at the venue. Since the food was raw this prob was not a professional & since she works in the industry it doesnt add up. That sounds real racket especially if she is a event planner. Sound like they took a really cheap tacky route to get married. An event planner would have hired an event planner which if professional always a plan a, b & c in order to execute properly. If funds was low the she would have done her own event planning up to a point then designated someone reliable to coordinate everything the day of. With the 3 extra hours she could have called a neighborhood restaurant , got hot food delivered & someone run to sam, bjs or costco got appetizers, salad to stretch the food so the guests had something. Very. Very tacky.

[@justforme6076]

My question is why doesnt she work outside the home? If she is getting benefits they also provide low cost or free daycare. I think he resents very much that she doesnt work

[@sullivancountydays]

Four kids at 28? Mama was busy

[@TheQueenBarb]

She is so pretty. I wonder what did she see in him. His conversation is so wack, in my opinion and he was far too young for her, especially if she was as mature as she seems to be now. Divorce is horrible but I am glad they are divorcing. He needs time to do what he wants to do and get with a woman on his own level that fully understands him and will treat him like a man instead of wanting him to be who he isn't.

[@egcarswell]

This is why women that date men should date UP, not down. And young guys shouldn't commit to anyone at all if they aren't ready. If y'all need a place to stay, get a job, save some money and rent a room. Stop relying on women to house you, because if you aren't on that lease your bum card will expire and you'll either have to show up ready or get out.

[@MP-nj1qy]

She's selfish for complaining about cleaning when she has 4 kids, but it's his problem that he got married when he wasn't even into it.

[@nurselife3177]

This poor guy is just plain defeated! Women love to get men then complain to death about their shortcomings. She was old enough and certainly experienced enough (4 kids) to pick better. You didn’t and now it’s his fault?! 😒I’m confused 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@marcelinesforza4712]

I think the brother rushed the "I do" because he knew Mr. Duram's hamster wheel isn't moving...🙄 that AND they were three freaking hours late with EVERYTHING! 😡

[@UniquelyDesigned]

His car insurance haven't even started to go down yet....way too young for marriage 💑

[@1010QUEEN7]

🤣🤣🤣

[@patfrancis109]

Judge you are so correct and on point.😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@konige-tochteru.9295]

It was over before it started

[@lolag.9620]

I remember this woman on paternity court with her daughter. Long after this.

[@wmijjministryshow2321]

This is prime example of when the universe is telling you Noooooooooooooooo don’t do it. 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@ChristalClearCarma]

I hate seeing men over 25 with braids ..(love locs) update just listening to him speak make me understand why bro said I do for him.(didnt get too the part when Judge said the same thing) She came with 4 extra mouths and he's a hard working man I see him in a different light his a pretty decent brother.

[@KnottyCeltic]

Ummm Bruh has some paucity of thought. They just don't seem intellectually matched or matched in regard to maturity, at all.

[@anquentinwilliams2764]

I do not understand why people who destroy other people's property are not arrested.

[@darrellsadler2848]

It had been "RAW and UNCOOKED."

[@yolanivyolani7201]

Kkkk maybe they have their own definition of raw

[@TanieBaker]

Whew Chile‼️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Taggimit]

...Tired of the bullsh*t Gone, dust your shoulders off, keep it moving... (I couldn't resist singing Lizzo after the Whew chile 😂)

[@trayb318]

@@Taggimit 🤣🤣

[@reginaharrigan7454]

She got 4 kids prior basically look for man to take care of her girl bye

[@really9998]

Just because she is at home all day doesn't mean his clothes belong on the floor he is not a child !!!!!!!!!!

[@Linda-pr6zp]

Y do an older woman feel like she can tell a younger man what to do just because she has 10 years on him 🤔😲 stop treating him like a baby 🤔😲

[@sydoz1956]

at least the wedding thing wasnt really his fault

[@luckyamadin2277]

This woman is cool and beautiful you deserve much more than this

[@TheeMichellesMind]

Did this chic say “my daytime minutes”???!!! Girllll I guess! Lol!!!

[@TinkMarshae]

I’m sorry. I work from home full time and we have 4 children in the home. Everyone is assigned chores including my husband and he work 16hr shifts sometimes.. he better not come throwing his work clothes everywhere. Over time that can be nerve wrecking.

[@wildfiregirl1556]

Hello can you tell me if your company is hiring? If so what company? Thank you.

[@anquentinwilliams5835]

This dude is super slow. She was 28 with four kids? I do not understand why he got into that.

[@janellepilgrim3046]

She married a 22 year old and expected him to father her children and pay all the bills. She’s selfish and robbed this man of his youth. I can never respect a woman that dates a younger man and tries to mold him into her man slave. I hope he finds happiness.

[@thebalance871]

Some marriages cant be fixed

[@leelew.1462]

Wow that wedding day 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@RainWalking]

4 kids by the age of 24, wow she was active.

[@lisaannette3644]

These old divorce courts are a trip. Judge Toler would let these husbands slide with anythinggggg😂 Husband:*works, habitual cheater, disrespectful to wife* Judge Toler:.... Wife:*works also, does all the domestic work, but just so happen to be upset about being cheated on and disrespected* Judge Toler:😡🤬🗣‼️

[@jasminerubin6026]

Yeah, I disagreed with that too. My ex would come in and make HUGE messes and that pissed me off. He did it whether I worked or not though. Cleaning, cooking, and child care are literally things you can get paid pretty well for. A lot of people just don't or sometimes can't do those things. Especially men. It's work. Also, a lot of jobs have a least some of one of those things in them like working at a restaurant or daycare.

[@sherifox2854]

A 5 year old completes more sentences than this guy.

[@shaylah2725]

the first 3 years in and you have a 2 year affair??? wtf. that coupled w/ the wedding shouldve been IT 🤦🏾‍♀️😳😒

[@funnyvideosyoulove]

Now one second lemme get this straight first before I continue watching. *clears throat* she was 28 with 4 kids marrying a 22 year old? And him as young as he is.... okay back to watching.

[@barbarabemah1349]

Can I please see one photo of the 22 year old wedding hair?? Trying to prevent my son from doing that on his wedding day....

[@brownbridgett6200]

Why did you bother

[@asabifatosin1150]

Hmmm. Sounds like she was seeing him while he was in a relationship with the ex-girlfriend. What did she see in him?

[@reanathompson8389]

Chileeeeee from the moment she started talking ab the wedding day, I knew this marriage wasn’t meant to be.

[@Iwish387]

17:45 the girl with the short hair behind him... 😅😂😃. Same girl, same.