5 Ways To Be A Better HUSBAND || Here's some marriage advice to make your wife HAPPIER!

[@tal8871]

1. Be clean --- consistently, not once a week 2. Listen to your wife's concerns --- don't just dismiss her as nagging 3. Compliment your wife and thank her for what she does --- show her that you notice her and are grateful for what she does 4. Make the special occasions special --- surprise her and make her feel special on Anniversaries, Valentines day, etc 5. Be kind to her family --- she loves her family, so you should put in a lot of effort to build a good relationship with them

[@bobcostas6272]

Doing this lands you in simp city, dont do it men.

[@Goat.Cheese]

As a woman, I think this list is 10/10. Pretty basic stuff, but some of it is easily overlooked!

[@zohawn4398]

@@Goat.Cheese as a man i can never do any of this. imagine...loving your woman in 2020, gross

[@renji2600]

Lol

[@KAM128]

Combine #2 with #5 and that’s what I deal with 😒. Several times a day while doing work via text msgs and get called out for not reading them while at the office or responding.

[@wildatheart8894]

Abby, as a single Christian man in my twenties, I studied people, read books on topic of marriage and relationships and attending seminars about this topic at my church, I gotta say I appreciate how thorough and articulate you are about in this video. I have always been a family man. Quality time is important to me. And the last point you made was very helpful. Keep up the good work.

[@mettlesomeknight9018]

Shoot that's me to!!!!

[@chocolaterottenheresy5229]

Do you fart?

[@treelord8813]

@@chocolaterottenheresy5229 I do ;)

[@graciep5829]

No❤️

[@PoochieCollins]

@@chocolaterottenheresy5229 bruh

[@zanthax1]

Awesome video! One caveat: I’ve found that it’s important to realize that happiness is not the responsibility of your spouse to create. Happiness can be a choice, more of an attitude. Now, if you place too much stock in your spouse as the soul source of your personal happiness, you might find that things get disappointing quick. In short, make sure your oxygen mask is on first before helping others with theirs.

[@jayman9388]

💯💯💯

[@millerfamilyfitness84]

But your spouse should make you happy. If your spouse never makes you happy..:what then?

[@shanegrizzle566]

I stopped this video @ 1:05 , went to the kitchen for a drink. On the way I cleaned up a cup and a spoon that was left on the counter from my wife after she made her coffee. To which she said: "Who are you?!". lol, give this a shot gents... she was was super happy to see me aware and cleaning along the way. Glad i clicked on the vid, Subbed

[@justangela1684]

That's fantastic! Woman truly notice and see it as an act of respect and love. Go you! Keep it up!

[@Chryslerdealership]

Haha God bless your dear heart. 😊

[@adoptada12]

Go Shane!!! 👍

[@angelheart7663]

such hard work!!!!!

[@adoragomez8163]

is this a joke....

[@HBOMAXtvmoviesyoutube]

Support your wife in her work. If your Wife is a businesswoman or has a job she'll really appreciate it if your happy about her successes and are interested in her work!

[@slippyfinger.bandit6230]

NO REEEEEEE

[@pianogirl7125]

@@slippyfinger.bandit6230 ?

[@Guanajuatoeddie]

Ok. I’ll try that

[@addorsubtract650]

The whole point of finding a traditional woman is cuz i don’t want a woman who is a “career woman.” Businesswomen. 🤢🤮

[@Brianbravo2000]

@@addorsubtract650 that’s sad you have my pity

[@thegr8309]

"You'd be considered a genius if you just shut your damn mouth," Jordon Peterson. Has done wondered for my marriage! 😀

[@shambamz7476]

i hope you’re joking, that’s so sad :(

[@thegr8309]

@@shambamz7476 It is not a joke. It means you need to be a good listener and stop trying to fix the problem before the person is done talking. It is exactly what she talks about. It doesn't mean don't talk. It means listen a lot before talking.

[@shambamz7476]

Anthony Anon the wording of that was disgusting. “shut your damn mouth?” sounds more like trying to silence your partner than communicate effectively. good luck in your marriage though anthony

[@thegr8309]

@@shambamz7476 Thanks, 12.5 years so far. This is not something you should say to your partner! It is an inner dialogue to say to yourself when your partner is speaking.

[@shambamz7476]

Anthony Anon ohhhh thanks so much for clearing that up!! aww over ten years? that’s amazing. wishing you nothing but happiness. #WAP!!

[@justangela1684]

I would love a video about how to be a great girlfriend and one for a boyfriend too! My boyfriend and I have never been in a relationship before so we're figuring this out together. We would both really appreciate the advice.

[@basilzaidi7262]

Hope you guys are still together.

[@yashivuvbolshomdomenakholm8274]

Abby, I've been watching you for months and have been married before. All of this is on point. Thank you for your fun, intriguing and wise channel. The world needs more voices like yours! Keep being wonderful you!

[@formicapple2]

Thanks for taking the time to make this video. As a husband married for 35 years, it's good to be reminded what wives like.

[@SirMemesAlot71]

How bold of you to assume I will ever find a wife.

[@konnerdent4835]

Love this! It seriously helped me and my partner be better husbands to each other, and for our kids! Blessings!

[@thatexcalifornian6124]

Here before the haters dogpile the comment section.

[@justangela1684]

Ugh! I know, right. I gotta get here early if I want to actually enjoy the comment section.

[@TheCaptainjuicy]

I’m not even conservative, yet even then, the advice she gives is genuine and makes a lot of sense. Tbh, this video may be fine, its just her more political videos that tend to be charged in the comments.

[@thatexcalifornian6124]

@@TheCaptainjuicy agreed tbh. I’m a middle of the roader and the amount of hate is ridiculous. Not to mention the gross guys sexualizing her.

[@chocolaterottenheresy5229]

@@thatexcalifornian6124 do you fart?

[@MakeUpTraffic]

Feminists can't stand anything positive and godly. "There are good people and there are unhappy people".

[@cjr4286]

I'll consider this video my pre-test cheat sheet...

[@katherineoffutt7559]

Good! Lol us girls appreciate it 😊

[@maurinarobinson3627]

I love that you’ve done this for both genders. One note I will say there is such a thing as too much compliments lol rare but true Edit: also I’m gay but honestly these videos are super good relationship advice in general. Also I’m Christian Edit 2: I also wanted to say an added cool thing I do is I’m writing down really good food places for great future dates with my future wife. Like Michael buble says “I just haven’t met her yet”

[@drme22]

Love this! When I was single I would sometimes wonder what the person i was going to spend the rest of my life was up to. I’d also send them good vibes so they were happy. Overall wanting them to be well until I can be there with them to help them through difficult times.

[@Goat.Cheese]

I love this advice. It definitely works for either partner and these are just basics that everyone should follow :)

[@salvadorramirez4114]

Your advise is very sound, as my cousin has run through SOOOO many engagements for being exactly what you've described. He's a shallow stud, but he's been humbled so much; he's changed now and happily married.😇

[@smyrnasstory]

“You husbands, keep on loving your wives and do not be bitterly angry with them”

[@coffinmyface4237]

I gave birth to my daughter so my wife didn't have too, Shes to weak to birth anyway, I'm a manly man😎😎

[@urmom-rv8wm]

PLEASE I'M SCREAMINGGG

[@urmom-rv8wm]

@Siti Zulaikha r/whoosh

[@urmom-rv8wm]

@Siti Zulaikha I don't remember asking, Chile.

[@LokitosGf]

LOL

[@shreeshchhabbi]

Spot on! I learnt these over the last 6 years. I get called as ideal husband at times. Want to keep it same way.

[@alexa7194-d8n]

Abby, I can't wait for you to do a Silver Play Button video when you reach 100k subscribers. You're almost there. Keep it up.

[@makaihardgrow1343]

Thank you for your advice I've been married 6 years there's no handbook that comes with marriage so I'm really trying to learn how to be a very very loving supportive husband

[@kyikyi674]

Lol I’m 13 year old girl watching this lol 😂 I don’t mind tho, watching you is fun 💗💕✨

[@faithjohnson7779]

Same, I’m 15 and a girl but this will help me know what to look for in a man in the future

[@el_1576]

Same

[@strawberryblood666]

Please don’t listen to her,,

[@kyikyi674]

@@strawberryblood666 why not? She’s just being friendly and giving tips and suggestions to people

[@thegrammarpolice6953]

@@strawberryblood666 THANK YOU

[@CoolP19]

Everything you said Is true and I do for my wife but I need to be more consistent with what I do, so I’m gonna listen to what you said and be more constant in my actions. Thank you for helping me be a better husband. 👍🏾

[@Shiver.1235]

the number 1 rule to being a husband or a wife is LOVE YOUR PARTNER AND TREAT THEM GOOD.

[@socratesandstorybooks1109]

Im not married. But as a woman whos love language is words of affirmation, I agree that kind and loving words are always helpful, encouraging, and make me feel loved. I think if both partners try to make the other feel loved and respected things will be smoother. :) ❤

[@LoveBot-ni9cz]

Simple 1.) treat the person you are married to with respect. 2.) make them feel loved 3.) be there for them 4.) Support their choices 5.) Just be a good person.

[@otana9870]

Look just because you and your husband are having issues doesn't mean you should use your platform to be petty towards him and tell him what you really want.... just talk to him

[@SourceCodeDeleted]

Why is there so many dislikes? This seems like understandable advise that can apply to anyone .

[@leelearnsya8619]

We do like it clean. We let it build up because it feels better when we clean a really dirty house vs just tidying up a small amount of disarray

[@SGMsmuuv]

I'm a married man 33 I've been married almost 9 yrs. These are great points. If you have a great person on your side listen to want the ask and do. My men be better we can handle alot be strong for our strong women. Peace

[@GregoryGarvin]

I am not a husband yet and trying to learn everything before I commit to anyone. This is great advice.

[@basilzaidi7262]

My to be wife is literally the most beautifulllll and the most amazing woman. I think this is the bare minimum I can do for her.

[@Dennis-nc3vw]

Note how this video has more likes than dislikes, how modern men embrace constructive criticism and always strive to be better, while modern women (at least on this channel) throw a fit and tell you its the world's job to kiss their ass 24/7.

[@oluwabunmiayodele1873]

🤨🤨🤨

[@theotherside8258]

its always not their fault.

[@80patie08]

why do we have to tell men to just be decent people?

[@Dannys.channel]

Tip # be clean. If you’re doing something and you make a mess just clean it up after so your wife doesn’t automatically assume you’re going to leave a mess behind.

[@Dannys.channel]

The one great thing is when you said that when your wife has a problem and just needs you to listen.

[@honeytrump766]

Abby, u r the best ! Thank you so much ! Have a great day 🤜🤛

[@alvaroochoa5238]

I hope this video goes beyond our expectations is a good women secret that most of us men don't have it in mind. You just gave us a few tips for our marriage.

[@point-bl4nk]

6:00 correction. Only compliment her with words when she _tries_ to look prettier than usual. In any other situation, other languages ;) will suffice. Words are like gold: too much of it thrown around will decrease the perceived value, and you become a yes man.

[@Mom_of_the_Chickies]

I agree. But sometimes we need a random reminder. Especially when we are tired and are down on our looks. It’s sweet when a man says you look beautiful and you don’t have any makeup on

[@briannalockwood3182]

Here before the haters overpile the comment section. Will you make a video on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict?

[@briannalockwood3182]

Maryiam smiles we can’t assume she would be pro-Israel, I’M Jewish and I think what Israel does is terrible

[@metoonunyabidness1391]

The organized mind A book by Daniel J Levitin, A neuroscientist and author makes the case that, through something he calls “cognitive economy” we encode our thoughts and memories in our environment. He suggests that a well ordered and clean house quite literally orders our minds and our ability to think clearly

[@maurinarobinson3627]

Jordan B Peterson takes this advice to heart too! He says before doing anything big clean your " damn room" but really its not limited to your room, just being clean

[@ehrke23]

Do you have any recommendations on to apologize for past mistakes or oversights, and how to help build a better relationship between wives and in-laws?

[@bcsurfstyles]

Those recommendations are on point All 5 are legit Thanks for the reminder, great video

[@queenkenya2634]

My boyfriend is so good to me he has made mistakes but I leaned to forgive him and we are happy together

[@aisham2099]

Mistake as in cheat or mistake as in mistake

[@queenkenya2634]

@@aisham2099 well I like to consider it cheating when u sleep with someone else but I forgave him so no hard feelings or anything

[@J.A000]

Lol, he will continue cheating on you. Once a cheater, always a cheater.

[@queenkenya2634]

@@J.A000 guess what 5 years add he never did it again sooooooo

[@J.A000]

@@queenkenya2634 How naive...

[@mystic0]

Helpful video! Very simple, straightforward, and nice. 1. Clean up after yourself a. Keep track of belongings b. Avoid creating messes 2. Listening to your wife's concerns without immediately arguing with them a. Aim for specific heckling b. Determine the impact of the concern c. Try doing what she has in mind immediately when she has raises the concern i. How does she want that done and why? ii. What does it mean to her if it is done in that way? d. Create a habit around how to correct it i. Create a reward system: GIVE YOURSELF A REWARD FOR DOING CORRECTLY e. Determine threshold for communication channels i. Assume that the person has their best interest in you ii. Know trigger points 1) If they use a trigger, know specifically, "Why would want to do that? What was the purpose?" iii. Avoid triggers 1) Repair triggers f. Never let your wife nag unnecessarily g. She wants to solve the problem HOWEVER it must be something outside of her or most likely relationships. She most likely would prefer you never interfere with her drama with Becky from accounting. 3. Randomly give your wife compliments: say something out loud a. Keep up your wife's morale i. Memory retention - The further it is from when you said, the less likely they are to remember. She needs to know the compliments in her short-term, mid-term, and long-term memory. b. Constantly flirt with your wife 4. Make special occasions special a. Environment i. Furniture 1) Colors & feel ii. Decorations iii. Smells iv. Music v. Lighting b. Gift i. Meaning ii. Value iii. Long lasting gifts iv. Size c. Food d. Celebrations i. Words ii. Actions 5. Be kind and get along with your in-laws a. Siblings b. Parents c. Let the disagreement go

[@9FiftyTV]

Well I just realized in a married couple my role is the wife or an AMAZING husband

[@willmallory9085]

Adding to: fulfill her fantasy. Don't be afraid of adult costumes. Police, Fireman, Zorro are all on-line. 😅

[@theotherside8258]

I suppose if the employers don't mind. A famous womaniser put success in wooing women to treating them as 7 year olds so costumes should help.

[@lizzyw7861]

Listening to this & adapting some of it as “how to be a better daughter”

[@abbott5580]

Thanks for the tips! I'm super guilty about no1. Also I'm happy to see your content is being appreciated more and that you're finding an audience on here. I'm gonna go clean now.

[@GOODMORNINGOCEAN]

Been waiting for this💪🏻🙏🏻

[@caterichards1841]

Haha I think these tips apply more to me and the wife tips to my boyfriend 😂😂😂😂

[@roberttippett3733]

Cleanliness: Check. Put the dishes in the sink? No! Never leave dishes in the sink! Dishwasher? Lazy! Wife is the one cleaning? In what world? Don’t get my “hackles” up: No check there. I try to be patient and listen, but I almost always become angry. How do you men do that? It seems she is trying to make me angry. Random compliments: Check. I do it, but I guess I don’t do it enough, because she does not hear me. I talked about how I liked the food she made yesterday, and she complained today that I did not tell her that I enjoyed the food. Give her things to brag about: Check. Well, I do my best. Right now I’m sitting in the car on a hill. I could see the house from here, but now it’s dark and I can’t see it anymore. I better get back. I wonder if I’ll be able to get in. I DO ALL I CAN. I was never a good husband. HELP!

[@deveroncrawford8536]

"It doesn't take any time..." INCORRECT It takes a small amount of time, and that can require a decision between doing the cleaner thing or address another immediate concern (Read: kids). This is definitely my baggage, but its annoying to be accused of "not caring" about the mess when you already feel like you can't keep up with the concerns you are addressing.

[@youcantconvinceamoronnotto7117]

aye acknoledging the boys lets goo

[@sabinaflapperina1300]

I would like to add one point to your #1 (be Clean). If clean up after yourself, you will find that your spouse is doing less cleaning and has more time and energy to devote to you. More time and more energy equals more sex.

[@Amused_Comfort_Inc]

LOVE YOU ABBY 💟

[@GodfreyElder]

Dear men, cleaning is useless when you can’t protect and provide for your family. So work out, make money, learn to fight, and master leadership skills. Gifts and compliments so your wife can brag to her friends is narcissistically toxic. Lastly, respect is earned. Stand firm on your principles and not your emotions.

[@willmallory9085]

I recommend Dr. Unger's "Laugh Your Way To A Better Marriage" series. It's excellent!

[@sparrowwatch6843]

This has got to be one of your best videos yet!

[@gustafadolf3065]

Don't mind me, I am just a NatSoc here checking out my favorite Jewess.

[@triller269]

Great advice ill have to try this on my wife she's the best! Im so lucky!

[@thineshpathmaraja6670]

1. Clean up as you go. Clean up after yourself and little more 2. Listen to your wife's concerns without dismissing her. Listen to her, validate and consider her concerns. Show that you value her opinion. If you don't value her opinion, you wouldn't be married to her

[@theotherside8258]

All this might help a marriage survive but not sure if it means the man is happy in it, they mostly just want a quite life

[@purefoldnz3070]

Damn, I was looking for Contemporary Abby. Not Dark Ages Abby.

[@PaulMisner]

Going to completely focus on #1 this week. I'm guilty.

[@renji2600]

I’m a husband according to this vid

[@bluerobin7051]

Great video. Hope I get to use these someday!

[@xenzorygames4116]

finally a video for a man in #Classically Abby.

[@____7752]

Abby your shirt is so pretty, I love it! Also great video

[@syd4366]

hisoka you better b taking notes🙄🙄‼‼‼

[@GByrne-qp3kk]

I appreciate this video. Thank You!!!

[@emmybear874]

I really love this well done

[@millerfamilyfitness84]

Question. My wife doesn’t like when I flirt with her. She says she’s not a sex object if I say she has an amazing body or she’s gorgeous. Also, she doesn’t brag about me to her friends and family. I’m also deployed and I asked for a picture because I miss her and I need to see something beautiful and she got mad I wanted a picture…so…what other advice do you have? 😂

[@LokitosGf]

Assuming this story isn’t fabricated at all, your wife just doesn’t like you LOL.

[@millerfamilyfitness84]

@@LokitosGf she swears she does and I’m over reacting. She’s great in other areas like she, without asking, will pack my lunch stuff when I normally do that myself. Or she will lay out my uniform the night before where I like it so I can get ready for work. Little things like that. She also likes spending time with me and we built a garage gym so she can workout with me at home.

[@LokitosGf]

@@millerfamilyfitness84 you guys should consider couples therapy. She may find herself unattractive.

[@toddnorvell9170]

If a man made this video about his wife. Lol did we switch genders? The problem here... there’s not enough room for your mess, men. Only her mess.

[@maximumoccupancy]

Blink if you're being abused by your husband.

[@gigasquid2040]

im a great husband to my husband. we are a gay couple

[@olivercepeda2475]

Me a ✨𝑏𝑖𝑠𝑒𝑥𝑢𝑎𝑙✨watching this like: 👁👄👁

[@ulyssesornelas627]

sound like you just complained about what you dont like about ur men, not what actually improves the quality of the relationship for the wife .

[@drakgrotta]

Great video. Thanks!

[@sebawaleed3148]

every husband and wife are good they will know how to make the other happier if their married so please dont tell people what to do :)

[@norawrrrr]

agreed

[@junkedfood9584]

Shes not telling them what to do lmao shes giving them tips on marriage......

[@sebawaleed3148]

@@junkedfood9584 she said "to be a better husband" thats rude and telling boys to not be themselves

[@junkedfood9584]

@@sebawaleed3148 it really isn't?? I'm not even a conservative and I share like none of her views, but if you find that offensive you're the definition of a snowflake. it's the same thing as saying "how to be a better artist" or "how to be a better friend". Just trying to help someone make their spouse's day a bit better. Is learning to show someone that you love them and care for them by doing little favors offensive or something? And drop that "telling them to not be themselves" bullshit, shes not making anyone do anything, just giving some ideas from a women's pov. Tf are you guys on?? Scared of someone whose opinions differ from yours?

[@redvikingbiker]

I am the main one who cleans our house my wife is the one who will let it sit

[@SoloJourneyandPJ]

Cleanliness is a BIG one !!! DAMN! 😤😤🤬

[@point-bl4nk]

4:21 this right here, this is why you ladies are complicated. sometimes you just "talk to talk" and if we have the solution "you don't understand me!" 🤣

[@chocolaterottenheresy5229]

do you fart?

[@penguinninja4417]

@@chocolaterottenheresy5229 why do you keep asking this?

[@gilajacobsen2881]

Time to get some communication help. There are great marriage therapists, also the PAIRS program is super helpful

[@demonalivefornow9680]

This isn't a woman problem. My mom "talks to talk" constantly asking me "what should I do"? But when I answer that I don't know she says, "well I wasn't asking for an answer"

[@chocolaterottenheresy5229]

@@penguinninja4417 do you have feet?

[@lg6002]

Great video Abby👍

[@AlexeiKmit]

Thank you, Abby!

[@MommaX4-28]

I love this!!

[@chocolaterottenheresy5229]

Do you fart ?

[@sxnny2315]

Me watching this for when I get a wife

[@societyitself7569]

This one is actually not bad.

[@crochetloverangelgrace54]

Love your videos Thank you for always telling the truth And being real

[@chocolaterottenheresy5229]

Do you fart?

[@iqveryhigh8992]

Debate vegan gains

[@dp3of5]

This feels like an instructional vid from the 60's

[@vanessat7758]

It's literally just simple basic advice that can be applied in any time period.

[@dp3of5]

@@vanessat7758 it's not really valuable advice lmfao. Relationship dynamics are different now than they were in the past. Women aren't just house wives as this video paints them to be

[@vanessat7758]

@@dp3of5 It doesn't paint them to be like that. She herself isn't a big housewife.

[@dp3of5]

@@vanessat7758 Lmao one of the first things she says is for men to Help women with the chores, which implies chores are typically a woman's job. Her whole schtick is "Classic Conservatism", so to say this sounds like a vid from the 60's isn't that much of a stretch lol. The whole idea of conservatism is to keep things the same or go back to how they were previously.

[@vanessat7758]

@@dp3of5 Yeah, if you look around you, women ARE the ones who traditionally do more chores in the house than men. She's not saying ONLY women should do it. It would be sexist to say that men should not do chores and women should instead, but she isn't saying that. If you're a man, you're clearly one of those simps. And it doesn't feel like something from the 60s because things were actually sexist, nothing like what you see in this video. Oh, and by the way, conservatism is made up of economic and social policies.

[@inhumanwayz]

#1 those are chores. You'll learn allowance and creating responsibilities one day when you grow up. 😉 #2 what are you REALLY talking about... Rebuttals up and down. Probably using you in a narcissistic manner. #3... Listen here. Look in the mirror so it for your own well being not mine. It's be happy not forced yourself to be. #4 there has to be a ground to stand on before you go setting your goals for a birthday. If it's already an argument about little shit there can't be and is no footing. Will end in drama, it's what they crave is power. Usually is obtained in a sick or crude way. Johnny Depp case is one to show you. #5 family is the forced end. Usually great with grand parents but it's the divorced mom or dad's step version 90% of the time a sheetstain. There is the 10% that your mom or dad don't like because you get along great with them. Buuuuut, Most the time against you and you have to be quiet a shill or lie to be there. This is not natural to spread your ideologies as a truth. 😬 Narrative; Bend over, because it's what yo(we)u'll do now.

[@teemo-kawaii3423]

I'm not even married, nor in a relationship, ever. Just curious.

[@WeShareTheSameAffliction]

Wonderful content!!!

[@HarryKingKelowna]

Also make a video on how to bring down divorce rates in western world 🌎

[@AlexMartin-bz2tx]

Great video but my wife's mom hates me don't know how to change that.

[@elliotnielsen5383]

also not all men act this way. dont generalize men or women. plz

[@PoochieCollins]

I felt she did good job not to avoid sounding prejudicial.

[@scurvydog20]

I have an advantage my girl literally cleans to relax

[@Goat.Cheese]

I do this, too. I clean when i'm stressed out haha

[@PoochieCollins]

@scurvydog20 : how's it feel to win the girlfriend lottery?

[@scurvydog20]

@@PoochieCollins not great she broke up because long distance and lockdowns

[@PoochieCollins]

@@scurvydog20 ;-( 🖤

[@yoyococonuggets6922]

Don't beat your wife would be a good start.

[@addorsubtract650]

If she misbehaves, she’s gonna get spanked

[@tags2022]

What if your wife is giving 90% of her time to work, 8% to friends, and 2% you you? And all you want is 25% atleast.

[@LokitosGf]

this is very valid, the wife is overworked and doesn’t have the energy at the end of the day to be a wife. She will eventually get resentful enough to leave.

[@courgette3401]

A jacket over a chair isn’t dirty. A woman who worries about this has OCD. Chill out Abby . You just don’t sound like a woman that most men would want to live with. I’m a woman and my husband is very grateful that I don’t fuss over the unnecessary.

[@PoochieCollins]

As a man, I've noticed many women seem to bottle up problems they have with their man instead of politely talking to them about it, and it creates more problems later.