How To Show Love And Affection To Your Wife

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Күн бұрын

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@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 2 жыл бұрын
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@jeffschrade4779
@jeffschrade4779 4 жыл бұрын
I was married for 31 years and 3 days.... I failed her miserably in helping her around the house, paying attention to her needs and serving her. Most importantly, I failed at communicating my love for her. I encourage every man who loves his wife to listen to this and DO what is recommended!
@cigarocean
@cigarocean 3 жыл бұрын
omg you have no clue. Just everything wrong you said.
@Jess-xl1wd
@Jess-xl1wd 3 жыл бұрын
This is what I'm hoping my husband will learn. Can I ask a question? Would sending this to him be rude? It feels rude. But I've already communicated all of this video in person over the months and years and he hasn't put it to action yet. So I'm thinking maybe seeing a video would help.
@3KeyElements
@3KeyElements 2 жыл бұрын
Incredible to see you learning from your experiences... sending our love and support! ❤️
@Stevielinguine
@Stevielinguine 2 жыл бұрын
@@Jess-xl1wd don't NOT send it. Better to send it than just quit him without knowing you did everything you could.
@michaelarango7782
@michaelarango7782 4 жыл бұрын
I love my wife so much. She is literally the single most amazing person I know. I analyzed myself and I am such a bad husband. I don’t deserve such a woman. I want to better myself for her to be what she deserves.
@kaufmanat1
@kaufmanat1 2 жыл бұрын
Hope you told her that... Hope you tell her that every day
@elizabethmcgrath537
@elizabethmcgrath537 3 жыл бұрын
My husband is excellent at acts of service. I need more hugs and empathy
@TheHBK596
@TheHBK596 4 жыл бұрын
my ex broke up with me because i wasn't affectionate. Im glad i took the steps to make myself a better person and show my love properly
@calvinatdrifterstudio8438
@calvinatdrifterstudio8438 4 жыл бұрын
I Kno this video sounds simpy but the point is, if you show love and affection to your wife, she will give you the respect and appreciation you need. Since different people have different preferences for love and affection, you should ask you wife if she can tell you about a time when you did something that made her feel loved.
@ashleywalker5654
@ashleywalker5654 4 жыл бұрын
I’m just four minutes in now, but he is only talking about ACTS of SERVICE. That is what I need LESS of! I just want HUGS.😭😭😭
@spankiedoodlesteve2086
@spankiedoodlesteve2086 4 жыл бұрын
Hopefully your partner (if you’ve got one) learns to love you the way you desire the most. I firmly believe we deserve to have our needs met by our long term partners
@namratanongmeikapam472
@namratanongmeikapam472 4 жыл бұрын
Just a hug😭😭😭😭
@KneelBeforeBlue
@KneelBeforeBlue 4 жыл бұрын
Tell your husband that.
@maryjane3713
@maryjane3713 4 жыл бұрын
You know why he doesn't hug you but you're not ready to accept it. You will be okay without him
@jenniferpeterson7618
@jenniferpeterson7618 4 жыл бұрын
Same here. My husband is great at acts of service, but he has a servants heart and does that for everyone. Nothing about his acts of service feeds my need to feel cherished above all. I need words of affirmation, not him telling me I should go to the gym and get my hair done. I need him to value and appreciate all I do as a stay at home, homeschooling mom. Picking up after himself would be a great start, helping run the boys to baseball practice, and definitely not adding to my duties by telling me I should make time for the gym. I need quality time and self sacrifice. Get up and go shopping with me sometimes, even if he hates to shop. Understanding me and knowing what I like and dont like, knowing my buttons and not intentionally pushing them. I need him to be humble and be able to own and apologize for his mistakes instead of prideful amd casting blame. And certainly not telling me he can do better than me whenever I try to communicate my hurts. 18 years and while I only have faith the size of a mustard seed, I cant give up on Gods ability to repair our marriage. I'm broken and weary though.
@michaelfoster7824
@michaelfoster7824 3 жыл бұрын
In short, he gave a suggestion to give a massage. But listen to this in a metaphorical way and run with the principle. Help your wife in places you see that she needs help. When we get overwhelmed, it's nice to be reminded you're important, and same goes for your wife. I love my wife a lot.
@spankiedoodlesteve2086
@spankiedoodlesteve2086 4 жыл бұрын
I don’t have a wife, neither a girlfriend. I’ve spent years chasing the wrong ones, but when I find her, this video will be remembered. I’ll be making sure my future partner gets all of her needs met. Great vid
@defttrader1491
@defttrader1491 5 жыл бұрын
This is literally some of the best advice a person could possibly want! You are absolutely on point! I appreciate your time in making this!
@johnryan3374
@johnryan3374 2 жыл бұрын
It helps to learn their "love language", that way you won't have to guess what they like and need.
@Ninni108
@Ninni108 5 жыл бұрын
OH my God.... felt like crying.... that will really make a women feel better... you have so deep understanding about what women want.... that was super sensitive advice with so good intentions...... God Bless you....
@kindupuckett.1843
@kindupuckett.1843 5 жыл бұрын
This was really good I want to make my wife happy I love her dearly she's my world
@sinazotame2411
@sinazotame2411 4 жыл бұрын
I thought I was selfish for wanting these things from my husband.
@jackwalker1822
@jackwalker1822 3 жыл бұрын
Don't feel selfish. Don't demand, but appreciate what he does do. And it really wouldn't hurt to ask, in the right tone of voice.
@rojinaluitel7651
@rojinaluitel7651 3 жыл бұрын
I am connecting your it directly to my husband’s EarPods and he is in kitchen and had no idea ❤️
@vgreene77
@vgreene77 5 ай бұрын
❤ i would prefer if my husband just asks me what makes me feel loved and work on doing it cause the need is different for every woman, I just want him to ask
@anjumanara3493
@anjumanara3493 4 жыл бұрын
True.But husband's forget their wife after marriage
@VandoriaDoughty
@VandoriaDoughty Ай бұрын
You should be a coach for all men because some of them don’t have a clue that when you make her feel like the queen you got it made😊
@vadimtikhonenko2670
@vadimtikhonenko2670 2 жыл бұрын
And I was like trying to pray away the back pain 🤯 thank you Lord
@boujimobbin9530
@boujimobbin9530 Жыл бұрын
I love how you explained to do it with no strings attached that is loving 🥰 and appreciated
@northernboy7272
@northernboy7272 4 жыл бұрын
Ok I cook, I clean, I give her massages almost every night. I tell her I love her , I send texts during the day and I tell her everyday that she she is beautiful. Only been married for 2 years and my wife doesn't respond like you said she would. I really don t know what else I can do?
@kimberlygracie
@kimberlygracie 4 жыл бұрын
Ooh woow! You are a great guy. You have done your best. Probably you could check if this (acts of service) is her love language.
@northernboy7272
@northernboy7272 4 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlygracie i m sorry but what is love language ...btw my wife might not be affectionate and cuddly like the guy said she would be but she is still my shining star. Thanks for the compliment.
@EngineeringmyLife
@EngineeringmyLife 4 жыл бұрын
There are five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Each one is important and expresses love in its own way. Learning your partner's and your own primary love language will help create a stronger bond in your relationship.
@maryjane3713
@maryjane3713 4 жыл бұрын
Only you would know your wife and how long you can tolerate her response to your attention. Keep focusing on what you love about her and not what you expect
@frankiefranfraser
@frankiefranfraser 3 жыл бұрын
There is a book... the 5 love love lamguages
@lindsaygamell2018
@lindsaygamell2018 25 күн бұрын
Great advice !!!
@jessicacheckley2521
@jessicacheckley2521 4 жыл бұрын
You are so on point I wish if my husband would do that for me
@secondswell
@secondswell 2 жыл бұрын
I do so much for my wife she knows I would do anything for her but she isn't an affectionate person in any way I can't tell if she Take me for granted or if she appreciates what I do for her and just doesn't know how to show it.
@searchrightthings.947
@searchrightthings.947 3 жыл бұрын
Nice & important tips. Thanks
@angelface7766
@angelface7766 5 жыл бұрын
Ok ok so you need to talk to my hubby! I’m subscribing!!!
@arbielujas5842
@arbielujas5842 3 жыл бұрын
sana all my husband na ganyan..
@huevow
@huevow 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the advice.
@reignofaragon6890
@reignofaragon6890 2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou I needed this so bad
@tanyaseifried1373
@tanyaseifried1373 4 жыл бұрын
I am so happy a man is saying this. In my experience, hetero-cis men are more likely to listen to other hetero-cis men.
@goddessshella664
@goddessshella664 4 жыл бұрын
Hello I can recomend you to someone great and powerful who can help you ,he helpeed meget my ex back
@goddessshella664
@goddessshella664 4 жыл бұрын
Text him on WhatsApp
@goddessshella664
@goddessshella664 4 жыл бұрын
+2348156896436
@SJ-zy1jf
@SJ-zy1jf 3 жыл бұрын
To counter balance this video not all women’s love language is acts of service. You mentioned earlier in your presentation that your wife is very busy and active, i would ask you to evaluate whether your wife is over functioning and if she is what is driving that behaviour? There should be a balance between doing and being. Then discover her love language if it is not acts of service as you describe. It could be receiving gifts, words of affirmation, focused attention, or , physical touch, the key is to discover the channel that she likes to receive love , so you can be attuned to her. The other important aspect is developing health communication, with low levels of criticism and high levels of empathy so you are not in polarising cycles of stress , tension , and hostility. If you can at least do these basics you have half a chance of building a healthy relationship
@officialtmpwavesmedia5955
@officialtmpwavesmedia5955 4 жыл бұрын
Yes definitely
@goddessshella664
@goddessshella664 4 жыл бұрын
Hello to whom it may concern I can recomend you to someone great and powerful who helped me get my ex back
@goddessshella664
@goddessshella664 4 жыл бұрын
Contact him on WhatsApp
@goddessshella664
@goddessshella664 4 жыл бұрын
+2348156896436 💞💞💞
@ihatecomfortzone2023
@ihatecomfortzone2023 Жыл бұрын
No matter how much you explain but actually it is the most difficult thing to do.
@cheynejones2126
@cheynejones2126 4 жыл бұрын
What if she questions why im being so nice and now there is. Trust problem.
@calvinatdrifterstudio8438
@calvinatdrifterstudio8438 4 жыл бұрын
Tell her that you are sorry that you didn't realize she needed your love so much
@lookwithinandsee
@lookwithinandsee 2 жыл бұрын
I was hopeful for this video until you mentioned the foot massage. I couldn't pay my husband to rub my feet, even during both pregnancies when I was at the point of being unable to walk. He HATES feet 🙄 he does know how to take care of things around the house, but there's not much in the affection department.
@karenrogers2826
@karenrogers2826 Жыл бұрын
Some are just so full of themselves.
@desireerice3699
@desireerice3699 Ай бұрын
WELL THIS IS DEPRESSING. IN 30 YEARS NEVER HAD ANY OF THIS
@MJ-sm1up
@MJ-sm1up 4 жыл бұрын
Me too! Great vid.
@mblake0420
@mblake0420 Жыл бұрын
Lol nope, wife won't even say thanks 🤣
@SuperDoulash
@SuperDoulash 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you🤙💪
@Mr1972Dean
@Mr1972Dean 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@asifmuniruniverse7732
@asifmuniruniverse7732 2 жыл бұрын
I'm bachelor
@homestead7741
@homestead7741 3 жыл бұрын
I just reminded my husband that he has done NONE of what you are sharing........ after 17 years. :-(
@homestead7741
@homestead7741 3 жыл бұрын
sorry for being a ......... foot massage needer. :-( ( hey can I please actually find a way to help you help women that are overwhelmed feel better????) F M
@Willowluvvx
@Willowluvvx 3 жыл бұрын
Very opposite with me and my partner this marriage is already failure h😭😭😭😭
@cherbears4446
@cherbears4446 Жыл бұрын
I love a bath run for me ❤
@Thinking-Biblically
@Thinking-Biblically Жыл бұрын
My wife hates her feet being touched....now what lol
@ksfernand
@ksfernand 4 жыл бұрын
What if your wife hates being touched? :/
@amfthehedgehog1993
@amfthehedgehog1993 5 жыл бұрын
💗
@Werewolf0216
@Werewolf0216 10 күн бұрын
Wow, that's a lot of talking about foot massages
@wenb5401
@wenb5401 3 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure this guy has a long single life ahead of him 🥴
@Hydemica
@Hydemica 4 жыл бұрын
Ok this guy sounds like a complete submissive servant of his wife BUT. But... He really knows what he's doing, I wouldn't mind my guy learning a thing or two from this 😂
@blackruthless
@blackruthless 4 жыл бұрын
💪
@asifmuniruniverse7732
@asifmuniruniverse7732 2 жыл бұрын
You don't about me
@KeystoneGPro
@KeystoneGPro 4 жыл бұрын
Seems like mostly woman watching ... c'mon men!
@TheFirefly71
@TheFirefly71 3 жыл бұрын
Instruction manual on WOMAN!!! 🙄
@homestead7741
@homestead7741 3 жыл бұрын
who is this "THEY"??
@homestead7741
@homestead7741 3 жыл бұрын
p.s. will you marry me? (JK) (FTG)
@Sajidhussain78538
@Sajidhussain78538 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you
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