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@jeffschrade47794 жыл бұрын
I was married for 31 years and 3 days.... I failed her miserably in helping her around the house, paying attention to her needs and serving her. Most importantly, I failed at communicating my love for her. I encourage every man who loves his wife to listen to this and DO what is recommended!
@cigarocean3 жыл бұрын
omg you have no clue. Just everything wrong you said.
@Jess-xl1wd3 жыл бұрын
This is what I'm hoping my husband will learn. Can I ask a question? Would sending this to him be rude? It feels rude. But I've already communicated all of this video in person over the months and years and he hasn't put it to action yet. So I'm thinking maybe seeing a video would help.
@3KeyElements2 жыл бұрын
Incredible to see you learning from your experiences... sending our love and support! ❤️
@Stevielinguine2 жыл бұрын
@@Jess-xl1wd don't NOT send it. Better to send it than just quit him without knowing you did everything you could.
@michaelarango77824 жыл бұрын
I love my wife so much. She is literally the single most amazing person I know. I analyzed myself and I am such a bad husband. I don’t deserve such a woman. I want to better myself for her to be what she deserves.
@kaufmanat12 жыл бұрын
Hope you told her that... Hope you tell her that every day
@elizabethmcgrath5373 жыл бұрын
My husband is excellent at acts of service. I need more hugs and empathy
@TheHBK5964 жыл бұрын
my ex broke up with me because i wasn't affectionate. Im glad i took the steps to make myself a better person and show my love properly
@calvinatdrifterstudio84384 жыл бұрын
I Kno this video sounds simpy but the point is, if you show love and affection to your wife, she will give you the respect and appreciation you need. Since different people have different preferences for love and affection, you should ask you wife if she can tell you about a time when you did something that made her feel loved.
@ashleywalker56544 жыл бұрын
I’m just four minutes in now, but he is only talking about ACTS of SERVICE. That is what I need LESS of! I just want HUGS.😭😭😭
@spankiedoodlesteve20864 жыл бұрын
Hopefully your partner (if you’ve got one) learns to love you the way you desire the most. I firmly believe we deserve to have our needs met by our long term partners
@namratanongmeikapam4724 жыл бұрын
Just a hug😭😭😭😭
@KneelBeforeBlue4 жыл бұрын
Tell your husband that.
@maryjane37134 жыл бұрын
You know why he doesn't hug you but you're not ready to accept it. You will be okay without him
@jenniferpeterson76184 жыл бұрын
Same here. My husband is great at acts of service, but he has a servants heart and does that for everyone. Nothing about his acts of service feeds my need to feel cherished above all. I need words of affirmation, not him telling me I should go to the gym and get my hair done. I need him to value and appreciate all I do as a stay at home, homeschooling mom. Picking up after himself would be a great start, helping run the boys to baseball practice, and definitely not adding to my duties by telling me I should make time for the gym. I need quality time and self sacrifice. Get up and go shopping with me sometimes, even if he hates to shop. Understanding me and knowing what I like and dont like, knowing my buttons and not intentionally pushing them. I need him to be humble and be able to own and apologize for his mistakes instead of prideful amd casting blame. And certainly not telling me he can do better than me whenever I try to communicate my hurts. 18 years and while I only have faith the size of a mustard seed, I cant give up on Gods ability to repair our marriage. I'm broken and weary though.
@michaelfoster78243 жыл бұрын
In short, he gave a suggestion to give a massage. But listen to this in a metaphorical way and run with the principle. Help your wife in places you see that she needs help. When we get overwhelmed, it's nice to be reminded you're important, and same goes for your wife. I love my wife a lot.
@spankiedoodlesteve20864 жыл бұрын
I don’t have a wife, neither a girlfriend. I’ve spent years chasing the wrong ones, but when I find her, this video will be remembered. I’ll be making sure my future partner gets all of her needs met. Great vid
@defttrader14915 жыл бұрын
This is literally some of the best advice a person could possibly want! You are absolutely on point! I appreciate your time in making this!
@johnryan33742 жыл бұрын
It helps to learn their "love language", that way you won't have to guess what they like and need.
@Ninni1085 жыл бұрын
OH my God.... felt like crying.... that will really make a women feel better... you have so deep understanding about what women want.... that was super sensitive advice with so good intentions...... God Bless you....
@kindupuckett.18435 жыл бұрын
This was really good I want to make my wife happy I love her dearly she's my world
@sinazotame24114 жыл бұрын
I thought I was selfish for wanting these things from my husband.
@jackwalker18223 жыл бұрын
Don't feel selfish. Don't demand, but appreciate what he does do. And it really wouldn't hurt to ask, in the right tone of voice.
@rojinaluitel76513 жыл бұрын
I am connecting your it directly to my husband’s EarPods and he is in kitchen and had no idea ❤️
@vgreene775 ай бұрын
❤ i would prefer if my husband just asks me what makes me feel loved and work on doing it cause the need is different for every woman, I just want him to ask
@anjumanara34934 жыл бұрын
True.But husband's forget their wife after marriage
@VandoriaDoughtyАй бұрын
You should be a coach for all men because some of them don’t have a clue that when you make her feel like the queen you got it made😊
@vadimtikhonenko26702 жыл бұрын
And I was like trying to pray away the back pain 🤯 thank you Lord
@boujimobbin9530 Жыл бұрын
I love how you explained to do it with no strings attached that is loving 🥰 and appreciated
@northernboy72724 жыл бұрын
Ok I cook, I clean, I give her massages almost every night. I tell her I love her , I send texts during the day and I tell her everyday that she she is beautiful. Only been married for 2 years and my wife doesn't respond like you said she would. I really don t know what else I can do?
@kimberlygracie4 жыл бұрын
Ooh woow! You are a great guy. You have done your best. Probably you could check if this (acts of service) is her love language.
@northernboy72724 жыл бұрын
@@kimberlygracie i m sorry but what is love language ...btw my wife might not be affectionate and cuddly like the guy said she would be but she is still my shining star. Thanks for the compliment.
@EngineeringmyLife4 жыл бұрын
There are five love languages: Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Receiving Gifts, Quality Time, and Physical Touch. Each one is important and expresses love in its own way. Learning your partner's and your own primary love language will help create a stronger bond in your relationship.
@maryjane37134 жыл бұрын
Only you would know your wife and how long you can tolerate her response to your attention. Keep focusing on what you love about her and not what you expect
@frankiefranfraser3 жыл бұрын
There is a book... the 5 love love lamguages
@lindsaygamell201825 күн бұрын
Great advice !!!
@jessicacheckley25214 жыл бұрын
You are so on point I wish if my husband would do that for me
@secondswell2 жыл бұрын
I do so much for my wife she knows I would do anything for her but she isn't an affectionate person in any way I can't tell if she Take me for granted or if she appreciates what I do for her and just doesn't know how to show it.
@searchrightthings.9473 жыл бұрын
Nice & important tips. Thanks
@angelface77665 жыл бұрын
Ok ok so you need to talk to my hubby! I’m subscribing!!!
@arbielujas58423 жыл бұрын
sana all my husband na ganyan..
@huevow2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the advice.
@reignofaragon68902 жыл бұрын
Thankyou I needed this so bad
@tanyaseifried13734 жыл бұрын
I am so happy a man is saying this. In my experience, hetero-cis men are more likely to listen to other hetero-cis men.
@goddessshella6644 жыл бұрын
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@goddessshella6644 жыл бұрын
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@SJ-zy1jf3 жыл бұрын
To counter balance this video not all women’s love language is acts of service. You mentioned earlier in your presentation that your wife is very busy and active, i would ask you to evaluate whether your wife is over functioning and if she is what is driving that behaviour? There should be a balance between doing and being. Then discover her love language if it is not acts of service as you describe. It could be receiving gifts, words of affirmation, focused attention, or , physical touch, the key is to discover the channel that she likes to receive love , so you can be attuned to her. The other important aspect is developing health communication, with low levels of criticism and high levels of empathy so you are not in polarising cycles of stress , tension , and hostility. If you can at least do these basics you have half a chance of building a healthy relationship
@officialtmpwavesmedia59554 жыл бұрын
Yes definitely
@goddessshella6644 жыл бұрын
Hello to whom it may concern I can recomend you to someone great and powerful who helped me get my ex back
@goddessshella6644 жыл бұрын
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@ihatecomfortzone2023 Жыл бұрын
No matter how much you explain but actually it is the most difficult thing to do.
@cheynejones21264 жыл бұрын
What if she questions why im being so nice and now there is. Trust problem.
@calvinatdrifterstudio84384 жыл бұрын
Tell her that you are sorry that you didn't realize she needed your love so much
@lookwithinandsee2 жыл бұрын
I was hopeful for this video until you mentioned the foot massage. I couldn't pay my husband to rub my feet, even during both pregnancies when I was at the point of being unable to walk. He HATES feet 🙄 he does know how to take care of things around the house, but there's not much in the affection department.
@karenrogers2826 Жыл бұрын
Some are just so full of themselves.
@desireerice3699Ай бұрын
WELL THIS IS DEPRESSING. IN 30 YEARS NEVER HAD ANY OF THIS
@MJ-sm1up4 жыл бұрын
Me too! Great vid.
@mblake0420 Жыл бұрын
Lol nope, wife won't even say thanks 🤣
@SuperDoulash4 жыл бұрын
Thank you🤙💪
@Mr1972Dean4 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@asifmuniruniverse77322 жыл бұрын
I'm bachelor
@homestead77413 жыл бұрын
I just reminded my husband that he has done NONE of what you are sharing........ after 17 years. :-(
@homestead77413 жыл бұрын
sorry for being a ......... foot massage needer. :-( ( hey can I please actually find a way to help you help women that are overwhelmed feel better????) F M
@Willowluvvx3 жыл бұрын
Very opposite with me and my partner this marriage is already failure h😭😭😭😭
@cherbears4446 Жыл бұрын
I love a bath run for me ❤
@Thinking-Biblically Жыл бұрын
My wife hates her feet being touched....now what lol
@ksfernand4 жыл бұрын
What if your wife hates being touched? :/
@amfthehedgehog19935 жыл бұрын
💗
@Werewolf021610 күн бұрын
Wow, that's a lot of talking about foot massages
@wenb54013 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure this guy has a long single life ahead of him 🥴
@Hydemica4 жыл бұрын
Ok this guy sounds like a complete submissive servant of his wife BUT. But... He really knows what he's doing, I wouldn't mind my guy learning a thing or two from this 😂