Cleaning motivation for when you want to do absolutely nothing 😢 Clean With Me 2022

[@alisonmiller215]

Mai. I'm a 66 year old grandmother of 3. Two live with me with their mom. I go through spells of being fed up as I didn't plan for this in my retirement. I try to look at the positives when I get like that. I must say I always look forward to your videos. They make me feel really good and inspired to do things around the house. You touch more people than you'll ever know. Please remember your needs are valid and take time for yourself.

[@LVioletta1]

I clean when I am upset or stressed. I know that I can't control life, but I feel like I can at least control the tidiness of my environment. It's instant gratification. Also, I love to organizing on top of that because I see it like puzzle pieces, every thing has a place. I'm here and praying for you *HUG* 💛

[@normachen8131]

Mai, my heart is so broken to hear this devastating news! Praying for you. Know you are so worthy and any man would be beyond lucky to be with you. It’s his complete lost. I don’t know what happened but sometimes a door being closed opens to a much greater life, you deserve the best!!!

[@deefaye7336]

Good for you. I recently had a major loss (my youngest son passed away from brain cancer) and I was basically just frozen. I found that just doing something every day, no matter how small just keeps you moving until you can get to a better place, and it will happen. Take your time to do what heals you. Allow your self to feel your grief and sorrow, it's real and it needs to be worked through. God bless you in your journey.

[@zoesherman6278]

Be gentle with yourself right now. Whatever you get done is enough! Frankly, if you're showing up for your family and yourself then you are doing great!

[@kirstiebasal4066]

Twin moms are the strongest folks out there! I’ve got 4 year old twin girls. You got this

[@vl9371]

I find solace in the following: I can't control my family. I can't control anyone. I can only control myself. And that's ok. ...... And then also the serenity prayer.... But I'm not mega religious. I think "God" could be changed to "Universe" or something else if you want. But I love the serenity prayer because it's great reminder that there are only certain things we can change or control and part of life's journey is figuring out the difference in all the things surrounding us...... Wishing you clarity and peace in these troubling times. ✌🏼

[@livinglifemindfully]

I am sorry you’re struggling. I actually found cleaning videos as a way to escape and cope after I lost my baby in the second trimester and ended an engagement less than a month later. I was out of sorts for a very long time but I’m doing so much better now. I have a great partner and we are going through fertility treatment and trying for a baby. I remember when things were at their worst, I just wanted to have a timeline when things would improve. Sadly, it doesn’t work like that but things do get better. 💜

[@angelaolive147]

I went through a crossroad situation years ago; my child was in high school, my husband traveled for business a lot, I had met all my goals and I didn't have anything to look forward to. I wish I would have gone back to work sooner than I did and started counseling because I let too many things take over my life and it wasn't good long term. I am now a Christian and I go to the Lord with my problems and He always leads me. Take care of yourself. ADDITIONAL THOUGHTS: so many of us moms go through this, I think, and I just want to stress that it is important to address this as soon as possible because we can become vulnerable to accepting the wrong people, influences, habits, etc., Into our lives creating even worse situations. Talk to your husband and explain how you feel. Maybe just going back to work part-time and being with other people would help. I know YT is a job, I am suggesting that getting external stimulation might be helpful. I work a part-time job in retail and it has helped me so much.

[@lauraammannito9911]

I don't have any wise words unfortunately, I'm a stay at home mama myself trying to figure it all out too. However no matter what u post, u have a cheerleader here rooting u on in life! I honestly enjoy your videos and look forward to them! So heres me just another mama sending you good vibes, prayers and cheering u on!

[@scx3757]

Perfectly said! We are all here for you mai xx

[@ddcjenn]

I’m loving decluttering, house reset, personal development, meal prep ideas for families, DIY house Reno ideas, ADHD tricks, and family vlog style videos. Thank you for being so open and vulnerable Mai…I totally get feeling off and finding my way with new routines coming out of summer. I hope you’re feeling better soon :)

[@ddcjenn]

As for going through changes in my life, I do like self improvement books. I love Brene Brown.

[@heidicarr4493]

I’m so sorry your going through such a rough season. When life hits me hard it comforts me to turn to the Bible. Praying for you today.

[@gloriabatista8619]

When am feeling down and out, I clean too and paint and keep myself so dam busy, I get too tired to remember I was stressed..

[@samanthadurrant4904]

Ugh. This is tough! What I live more is your no BS way of stating things while also keeping your family private. Much respect. You don’t use family for content and I appreciate that because it always feels like it’s just you and I working through the day. Mom of two boys here also. Life is HARD. I went from a career to SAHM and the days are longgggg and lonely. “Having faith” and “this too shall pass” seem laughable some days but they are true deep down. Sending love regardless.

[@rachel.schmidt]

I feel for you, Mai! Something that always helps me is the reminder “this too shall pass” during the bad times, and the good times too! It’s a good reminder that the bad times will get better, and the good times don’t last forever so enjoy them. Kudos to you for now only getting things done, but filming the cleaning too! Hope you start feeling better soon 🤍

[@Sarahs90sWorld]

Sending you so much love and all the hugs! You’ve gotten so many of us through hard times by being our comfort KZbinr. Can’t thank you enough for that. Now it’s time for us to get you through. May you come out of your plot twist even stronger than you were before. You got this!

[@isagoldfield7393]

Yes, you got this & YOU GOT US.

[@lynnegan1538]

Mai--thank you for being authentic. I'll be praying for your strength.

[@zoesherman6278]

Praying for your heart and that the tears will soon subside and bring clarity for what you are facing. You are loved!

[@liistonismae1972]

I'm a blogger since 2005 (mostly inactive last couple of years, but still) - I love writing and strongly prefer written content over videos and podcasts. I do enjoy watching series and movies every now and then, but mostly prefer to spend my evenings with books or jigzaw puzzles. I'm also a neat freak - don't like scouring and scrubbing part at all (that just has to be done), but I absolutely LOVE organizing and decluttering. So that's how I stumbled upon your channel, back it January I think... And I totally got hooked, binge watched all your decluttering and cleaning videos, been waiting for Mondays ever since to meet you again. As I live in Europe (tiny country called Estonia) there is no use for me of your "shop with me" videos so I skip these... So a long story short - I generally don't like video content, but I absolutely love you - your energy, your optimism, your attitude to life. I have tried to find other similar channels, but never commited, because they are not you and just don't interest me enough. As I don't use Instagram and Tiktok I will definitely miss your weekly videos. Hey, I seriously consider joining just to follow you :) I am really sorry you are going through a rough time. I got a divorce back in 2017 and 2018 was probably the toughest time for me... It just... SUCKED. But yeah, I just tried to live one day at a time, getting stuff done as much as possible without having any motivation... Tried out different group trainings in sports club (NOT a sporty person at all) - still doing aerial yoga as I really love that... For me blogging was really helpful - I always felt a bit better after writing. Anyway... I don't really have a lot of useful tips, but I just KNOW you will process it all, whatever it is, and will come out of it stronger and better person than you already are. If nothing else helps, time will. Not helpful at the moment of misery, but still helps me a little - knowing this too shall pass. So just... Sending positive thoughts to you. Btw, recently read "Midnight Library" and absolutely loved it. I did NOT guess the ending - stupid of me really :P

[@Scratchync]

You are not alone. It seems like there are sooooooo many of us going through something major right now😞😞. I hope and pray that things get better for all of us soon and wish you nothing positive, healing vibes🌈🌈.

[@christamckee3997]

I had a day like that yesterday, and I fell into it, I stayed in bed all day and binged watched TV shows! and believe me I had a mess of a house that needed attention, so I understand those days!

[@Gabby_8781]

Good morning! I just want to say that I have never commented on one of your videos before. I think I can speak for others when I say that your videos are more than just motivational cleaning. We like you and continue to come back to watch because of it. Whatever you’re going through I’m sorry, life can really suck sometimes. I pray things get better for you soon. As far as content….. honestly whatever you put out I would probably watch. Go with your gut instinct. 😊

[@viviruiz1977]

You’re honestly the only KZbinr I watch consistently and repetitively. Sending you healing energy and hope you take all the time you need. You’re a super mama that needs to put you first and I along with your other loyal followers will be here waiting for you to come back as your best self because at the end of the day we want to see you win in life.

[@jessieperez6984]

Mai, you got me through the beginning of my motherhood journey and I would've been so lost without you. I'm praying for you and your family. If you take away anything, know you have helped and inspired and motivated so many people. You've helped my family so much. You take care of yourself and your family and the rest will follow.

[@porcelina956]

Welcome to the club I have been feeling that for years. In therapy and trying.

[@ninadembinsky565]

I don't know if this would be helpful. But in a time when I was in a bad place with my mind and body it helped me immensely to reduce my belongings. No I'm not a Minimalist but I found it of great help to simplify my surroundings. First the stuff I didn't need then some appointments I didn't need and even a few people that only brought negativity in my life. I watched and still watch so many simplifying videos from different creators. One of them is "a hoarders heart" and another channel I just found is " happy organized chaos". I hope that you can work all what is causing you pain right now out. And I have so much respect for you for cleaning the house when feeling not up to it at all. Much love to you.

[@nadinewilliamson1037]

Give yourself grace. We all have these seasons in life.

[@alexandriakarter]

Keep your head up. It's HARD. Praying for you.❤️

[@ashleyblack3930]

Oh Mai, I hate to see you sad! Sending you all the good vibes ♥️

[@LejlaCikotic]

It’s okay to take time for yourself. When I’m stressed out I really enjoy self care or watching a TV show. Just remember to take it one day at a time. 💖 You seem like a wonder human being and I absolutely love watching your videos! I wish you all the happiness in the world ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@jordanragsdale6001]

Thank you for being real. That's why we love you Mai. You are strong, you are resilient. You will open a new bright chapter of your book soon.

[@kristalynnette8352]

Thank you for reminding me we are all human. Our kids don't listen & everyone struggles with that if they have children. No one wants to admit it but it happens. I act like only my children make messes. Just reminding myself to breathe is how I get through most days... (between running into the bathroom to cry) You probably don't feel like it but you were inspiring to me in this moment in your life to me in my life

[@BeautifulDisaster2121]

I wish I could hug you. You’re seriously one of my favorite channels. I love everything you do! So whatever adventure you take next I’ll be there watching. :)

[@staciesidloski2481]

I agree with u. Just keep moving. Give your self assignments and rewards. I’m praying for you and your family. Patience, love, understanding, and forgiveness 🙏.

[@lubnan08]

Praying for you during your struggles. ❤️. For content, I like whatever you do, even if less frequent.

[@joellemcgowen8080]

I have major depressive disorder and spend a lot of time feelings out of sorts. The things that really help me is leaning on others for support, doing something to occupy myself (crocheting, diamond dots, organizing random drawers/cupboards, etc.). Mindless calming tasks help me a lot, setting small expectations of myself, and being easy on myself.

[@laurianemaisier6448]

Hey there, I already commented on another video of yours which is already exceptionnal for my KZbin habits, but it seems like you need some support so I'll just say hi again :) I'm a French 22 yo girl (random huh ?) who's addicted to cleaning videos on KZbin (the satisfactiooooon), and yours hold a special place in my heart because you're always so fun, and bubbly, and interesting. I wish I had a friend like you and I hope to be as good of a mother one day :) So cheer up, I'm sure one day you'll think back on this period of your life thinking "man that was a rough patch, but I'm so much better now", and that you'll be able to share what happened with a light heart. Already looking forward to your next KZbin video !!

[@colesprouseful]

I’m so sorry to hear your going through some stuff, but please take the time you need for you in your life. We will be here for you and waiting patiently while you take the time to figure things out. We all have to take some time away from things just to refocus and figure stuff out. So please don’t ever feel bad about taking time for yourself cause that is always more important than anything else. And as moms we can put ourself on the back burner to our kids and husband and duties that we feel like we have to do. So allow yourself some forgiveness on if you don’t clean everything little spot or if their are dishes in the sink for an extra day or two. Your are doing good and your doing enough momma, no matter what.

[@368chen]

As a woman and being a mother and wife, we give 100% of ourselves daily that we often neglect ourselves in the process. Hope you can take some time for yourself and know you have many supporters out here.

[@mollyschmit9350]

I am so sorry for the struggles you are currently going through. 2018 was the year my life imploded and I didn’t know how I would get through it. I found telling myself to just put one foot in front of the other was all I had to focus on helped me. In other words just focus on making some progress, any progress and that is a win. Don’t try and look too far ahead as it can seem overwhelming and too much for your brain and emotions. I have never met you but LOVE your channel and in my head we are best friends 😉. For that reason my heart hurts for you but please know you bring so much joy to your followers. I know you have brought a lot of joy to me through your channel.

[@gloriaushijima3867]

I’m so sorry you are going through a hard time😢. I really enjoy your videos.. please come back when you are ready. Sending you blessings🙏

[@mamahroshi9243]

Mai I love you channel, you take a much more realistic approach to home making than many on this platform. I hope you, your husband and kids are all doing well.

[@dm4859]

This was a joy. First timer here and I thoroughly enjoyed cleaning with you. I just discovered that rubbing alcohol cleans all my stainless steel and my difficult gas stove top. I had a subdural & brain surgery 8 years ago (I'm good now), but it made me want to sleep all day with pretty bad depression. A few years ago I was put on a "smart drug" (modafinil). Every morning I have to take that first thing, and within 20 minutes this change comes over me and I feel happy and motivated. I want to get up and do stuff (not so much clean, but other stuff). Before that med, I couldn't start at all some days. I once googled to see how I could force my legs to go over the side of the bed because I just couldn't mentally start..... so crazy. You are so honest and open. I want to re-listen to that last part as I was typing this novel. Thx for the book suggestion. I ant to read it. Hang in there. You will find your way. You are gifted. Sincerely, New Subscriber to whatever you do. I'll do what you asked later.

[@karinakissell9565]

That book sounds really interesting--Without getting too personal, I stayed in a bad relationship for a long time and after "stuff" really hit the fan a few years ago, someone asked if I regretted staying with my husband. And I could honestly say, despite everything, no. I wouldn't have my amazing kids and wouldn't be the person I am today. I hope you are feeling better. I wish I had some magical bit of advice for feeling overwhelmed, unmotivated, and generally in a funk. Pretty sure we all have those days and I haven't figured out the cure yet either. Sending light to you. ❤

[@kaja09]

Dear Mai. As a subscriber since few good months now I feel like sharing a bit of what I think about being in "twist". This is perfectly normal! Everyone every once in a while feels like that, everyone. We, dare to speak in name of your entire audience, do not need happier Mai, we just need MAI the way she is! Despite your smile or the little violin Sound we love you and respect you. I feel thankful that you are not hiding your true feelings. I am strugling with depression for few years already, was not even aware of it! Finally I stood for myself and I get to know the reason and speaking about it out loud helps me out, a lot! Do not be afraid of saying what you think and feel. If you want to be anonymous start a blog and just put your feelings on wirtual paper. Sending you vibes from the bottom of my heart!!!!

[@lindacarroll3514]

You are wonderful -- You are enough, more than enough. I enjoy hanging out with you. Give yourself some luv gurllll. You are gold.

[@rossanaruiz8839]

I did therapy then medication and was deficient on d3 so started taking those and got a job and all those things combined have helped.

[@juliejones8229]

You’re so fun and bubbly and down to earth, so appreciate that. But crap happens in life, so take care of yourself and your family. That’s the most important. Make sure you reach out if you need anything, we are your your tube family 💕

[@juelt58]

Keeping busy -if not I’ll spiral- perspective is important - positive thoughts coming your way!

[@sweetpeapotato6861]

Mai I'll virtually hang out with whatever version of you you choose to present. Happy, sad, sassy. You're an excellent creator with good instincts. Feel the feels. *hugs

[@desireeasselinpena]

All the love and support from me and all of us I’m sure. My faith has hands down carried me through every “plot twist” (and there have been MANY) I am certain you will get through this and find the best “new” you moving forward 🤗♥️🙏

[@DocTardis10]

Life can be really, really hard sometimes. I’m going through a rough patch myself right now. I can tell you’re really struggling, but I have faith that we both will come out on the other side and we’ll be ok. We can do hard things. Hang in there!

[@patsyporter5082]

Take care Mai.😊♥️

[@sylviafigueroa8789]

Glad to see that you are going to take care of you. I will miss your weekly videos but see that you're struggling. I will be here waiting until your ready. Love ya

[@rosevee2689]

I've watched your videos as comfort videos when I'm in bed. I enjoy them so much. You're doing so amazing compared to what I feel I could do when I feel unmotivated. I have to play music upbeat or sad to get my emotions out while I clean. Life has been crazy lately and I played Saha Sloan while I cleaned today. I even put a mile in on the treadmill after bouncing on my ball, which is not a normal occurrence, but it should be. I see your videos and it makes me want to get my house cleaned and going while it's midnight. You're inspiring and amazing and my favorite! ♡

[@sammym1311]

Hang in there, girl... sending you all of the positive thoughts... Journaling the blessings in my life, just a few, each day (even if it's I woke up today) helps some. But allow yourself grace too... hugs!

[@suerescino3218]

Hi Mai, I hope you get some rest for yourself. Life is so hard..I know from a single mom with a boy it’s hard to raise them on your own. Or doing everything in the house all on your own is so extremely difficult and taxing on your body, soul and being. You are in my prayers my friend… we all love you and your journeys. I feel for you!!!!

[@JulianaGockos]

Mai, a channel I just love is "struthless".. he is awesome!

[@rachelhopkins5634]

Mai do what you need to do for you! I definitely have my down days and can relate. I think everyone does, just not everyone is open about it. I love your videos and will continue to support you. I personally have loved your baby videos in the past. That's how I found your channel when I was pregnant. I enjoy your cleaning videos which help to motivate me. What I would like to see are maybe videos on toddler products you recommend since you're asking for ideas. I struggle with researching items to get for my 9 month old son who thinks he's toddler haha.

[@emilyhammer4192]

Thanks for being vulnerable Mai! It's so hard to find motivation when the hard things hit. Hope things work out for you soon ❤️

[@jrau162]

Wishing I could send you a hug 🫂 all the way from Wisconsin! You have always made me laugh in your videos and have been so real, especially being a boy mom with toddlers and the grossness. Regardless whatever content/direction you take wishing you all the love! ❤️ Life throws us lots of curve balls, but you are doing the best you can. This video was a perfect example of that. Better done then perfect. Pick 3 things to do each day and reward yourself! Call a friend, get a milkshake, have some tea, put on a spa mask, go for a walk around the block (obviously after you take the mask off, 🤣), scream in a pillow! Love ya and your channel! Brighter things are on the horizon! ✨️🙏

[@lynnfarmer9792]

I have been were you are.so you are not alone!! Tip once a month put baking soda in the dishwasher it will make UT like new and smell fresh love and hugs

[@LORENA-wq3vm]

Awwwww I just feel for you. I was watching your Costco video then you mentioned the previous video with what you’re going through. I’m sorry to hear about your situation. This is tough, but God’s got you!💕. For me, once the trust is gone… it’s over. I don’t go back for seconds. Maybe it works for others… idk. All you can do… have a good cry and have a glass of champagne 🥰. Then move on. But you have to do what’s best for you. Don’t beat yourself up. You’re good girl. You’re strong and you’ll make it. I love your videos. Just be honest… that’s the best. God Bless You! Much love from Tampa Florida 🌴

[@lauranunez6405]

Mai I get you because I have been there also what gets me through my episodes is prayer I really just cry it out to the Lord for guidance and peace,so I will be praying for you that you receive those things as well 🥰 I really enjoy all your videos the shopping and the cleaning you keep it real and I smile watching you videos 😊😊😊

[@jcimlas210]

The cup holders are genius! Definitely TikTok that, if you haven’t already! I love you so much and hope you take the time you need to work through your emotions and don’t feel like you need to push them down for the sake of others’ comfort etc ♥️ no need to rush, or smile through the pain. I love you 😭

[@mamadee5190]

Baby girl, (sorry, I'm in my 50s, so you're a baby to me)...Baby Girl, Mai, you are so loved and so special. I've said it before, you are my absolute favorite person to watch here on YT. You are smart, funny, sweet, and a wonderful Mom! You keep it real every single video, and I have found myself laughing out loud (and crying out loud a couple of times too with you). Please know that the feelings you have right now are temporary and no matter what's going on today, things will get better. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I am praying for you and your family that this shall pass soon. Sending Mama hugs and lots of love ❤️. I will miss you so and will be looking for that notification! Do some soul-searching, go with what feels right to YOU. And then take a chance...try something new. If that doesn't work, try something else. Find what you love and go with it. Can't wait to see you smile again. 💕

[@bellaszucs-zagoni9014]

I am so sorry, Mai. Sending you hugs!

[@jackeepea6069]

Your sweetness always comes thru! Good luck and don't abandon us please! We love you out here!

[@LovesOfJuneBug]

Sometimes life gets really hard. I’m currently in a difficult season also. Sending much love! As for the content: I find my way to this channel to watch MAI. It’s not the topic- it’s the person. I’d would love to follow this journey to getting reacquainted with oneself.

[@lisafitzpatrick885]

Mai. Well 1st of all your very brave. I just enjoy you so wherever you r I'm watching. So sending great vibes to you. Breath your strong & whatever your going through you got this with all of us . Reach out

[@rockportmom2598]

God bless you! Love your channel and your honesty and humor. Hope you see light at the end of this tunnel soon

[@elissahobbs7907]

I live in lala land!! Life is so rough sometimes, have grace with yourself and take you time when you need it! Some days I do have to take the day just to lay in bed, read a book or watch some shows. Then the next day I’m better and motivated.

[@Plahntchild]

Prayers for you and your family ❤️ whenever times are tough and you’re not sure what to do, put your faith into God and let him take care of any struggles or hardships, things will get better ❤️

[@kellypruitt2362]

Thanks for this today. Thoughts are with you❤️

[@jennypatel2155]

Honestly, you’re my favorite that I follow bc of the cleaning content. I love your “real mom” approach to everything. I do also like to follow real moms that don’t try to sugar coat motherhood or act like everything is perfect. It’s fun to follow their lives like we’re friends. Thinking of you and hoping you find the peace you need ❤

[@marcimay2975]

You are not alone. Cling to your children for motivation and lean on your family for support. You are a #twinmom and that alone proves you’re stronger and more powerful and resilient than you ever thought possible. I’m so sorry you are hurting. Hugs❤️‍🩹

[@claudiag.3036]

My quiet time before the kids wake up when I read a couple devotionals/scripture, pray, and just enjoy the peace are what help me tremendously. Praise & worship music, an ol standby show on Netflix or Hulu (like Gilmore Girls) playing in the background always lifts my spirits, too. Like someone else said, this too shall pass friend. My morning walks to my big kid’s school also helps a lot. The mornings are so nice now.

[@abmarinova5119]

Hang in there Mai. Everything will be fine eventually. One way or another. Will miss your videos and hope you'll still have time and energy for them.

[@mjs.2000]

Sorry you're experiencing a difficult trial. I sure enjoy your humor and realism and would enjoy any video you put out. You powered through this clean. I believe with taking a break, your answers will come. Take care!

[@Emmaslaysinroblox2.0]

Mai, we love you to pieces. When you care about someone, you care about every piece of them. The good, the bad, the emotional. We care about you unconditionally. I don’t know what you’re going through right now, just know when you are here, I WILL BE TOO!!!!! Sending lots of hugs your way!!!

[@iamDonareen]

I love this video! It’s real… it’s RAW!!! I can definitely relate!!!!🤍

[@tameragoodloe2405]

I have been thru a lot, so I can tell you with absolute certainty that you will come out of whatever this season is stronger! It may not feel like it now, but you will! Hang in there! Sending you hugs and positive vibes! We are here for you! ❤️

[@guerra_1355]

From every relationship, marriage, work, etc. we learned something and take it with you as an experience. Never regret anything in life! You live and learn from everything! I released stress by cleaning, de cluttering, cleaning my car. Prayers going for you to lift you up 🙏

[@patsmith2408]

I love your personality and true life you bring to your videos. I’m sorry you are having a difficult time right now but never fear “this too will pass”. Keep pushing forward Mia. We are behind you all the way because we love you.

[@ashleyanne2798]

I don’t comment much on KZbin. But you are such a motivation to me. My kid situation is the same as yours except my kids are a year younger. I have 4 year old twins and a 3 year old. All boys. I just want you to know that whatever you are going through we are all here to support you. You really helped me when I had PPD/PPA, I would tell myself if she did it then so can I, it can be done. And I love your down to earth and honest personality. Thank you much for your videos, can’t wait to se the next one. ❤️

[@jaime7932]

Hi Mai, I can't tell you enough how much I look forward to your videos. You are like everyone's virtual best friend. I love that you do your videos as if I was standing next to you and going through your cleaning videos and "shop with me" videos. I honestly will watch your channel no matter what content you bring! Always look forward to seeing you and much love from Canada 🇨🇦 💕

[@Justme-dl4hf]

Mai, you looked so sad in the beginning. I pray things get better. Bry, you rocked the cleaning!

[@elizabethcameron429]

Mai I wish you the best! When I was in my worst spot I started therapy and started carving out time for myself once a week to allow myself to feel all my feelings, to be productive or be a lump whatever I needed that week and this has helped me find a new sustainable pace to be a human in this world! Take care!!! XOXO

[@naomicortis2634]

Thank you for your channel! I love watching your video's! You're so real :) hard times are no fun, but I know that through any hard times looking back there is always so much you can learn from them and it strengthens you and helps you remember the important things xo all the best, you're doing amazing!

[@truthfullyme7416]

I'm sorry you're hurting. Do what you need to do, for you ❣️

[@angeladroesbeke415]

Thinking of you Mai ❤ whether it be sickness, relationships, financial or even just life overwhelming, I am in full support for you and wish you well, peace and wellbeing. Thank you for posting in such a struggling time for you. Take care dear ❤

[@thatmomandi2240]

Hi I’m a new subscriber. The most practical advice thing I have to share is to plan out your day when things feel dark. Kind of like you’re doing in this video with your little rewards. And definitely plan an activity or a treat for the worst time of day. For me it was bedtime for my sick child or evening time during postpartum depression days. I planned small activities like reading a chapter book to said child or visiting with someone on the phone or taking a quick walk outside on the drive. Hope things look up for you soon. 🤍

[@jjjljuls2237]

Hi. Sorry your sad 😢 hope you get through the hard time you are struggling with. I really like your channel the cleaning the Costco shopping your fun to watch. Your real that's what makes you worth watching 💕

[@nancyfasolino7607]

I’m a very spiritual person and I stumbled across the book the untethered soul … I hear is life changing I plan on getting the audio book! I highly recommend ❤️❤️

[@bonessam9618]

I'm sorry you are in such a funk. I think we all go through it sooner than later. Sending good vibes your way. I love watching your channel. I love watching The Minimal Mom here on KZbin. I don't watch much shopping videos as I don't want more "stuff" in my home. Too much stuff I find is stressful and gives me anxiety. However I will say I do like it when you've tried different cleaning products as I have bought a couple of items just because of that. I will miss you not posting as much but will still be here as I enjoy watching you and love your attitude. You keep things so real. Keep that chin up Mai. We are all rooting for you...from one Minnesotan to another. ❤️

[@stadknit]

I’m sorry to hear you have a difficult time right now and I hope you feel better soon. 🥰 You have such a relateable and bubbly personality and it’s a joy to watch your videos. I hate cleaning, but love yt cleaning videos - they make me feel like I’ve actually done some cleaning myself and sometimes I even get motivated to actually clean! Your channel is my favourite because you keep it real and are so personable. Take good care of yourself and do what is right for you, not what you think is expected of you. ❤️

[@amandam5201]

I’m sorry for whatever you are going through. My life was in a whirlwind in 2016. My job at the time was awful and my husband and I were struggling. I felt so alone and I honestly believe God sent my coworker to help me through it. She had been at the same company for years and was able to relate to what my husband and I were struggling with. But eventually that job laid me off and my husband and I were on the mend. We did counseling and we already knew the issues but it was nice to get some pointers to work on. As far as content, maybe video helping friends and neighbors declutter, organize and clean their homes. You may need to find an outlet where you are around other people than your family. I think women struggle more with not feeling like they have a life outside of their kids, husband and household duties.

[@lindseybarnard8365]

Stumbled across this randomly searching for "cleaning motivation". I didn't even get to watch the whole thing because I have to go tend to my children. But, this was instantly so relatable. I almost teared up in the very beginning because it is exactly what I'm going through too. Like, when it rains, it poors. But, like you, I am just grateful that my kids are happy and healthy, and I am alive, at least. Haha. It is very overwhelming when things are going well, when things in life go wrong it makes it feel unbearable sometimes. You should be very proud that you decided to just try, and keep going when it is the last thing you want to do. ❤️

[@darcie406]

Girlfriend you are one of my favorite channels! I always want more Mai videos! I hope everything is ok! Love you!!!!

[@latmcb9863]

It makes me so sad to see you so sad. I hope that whatever you are going through passes quickly and that you find yourself in a happier place again soon. I also hope you can see from all of the comments how much we all care about you. Thank you so much for today's video. You got so much done despite feeling down. You always inspire me.

[@amys.8614]

I can only imagine what you are going through but just know you are so fun and inspirational to watch. Remember that you are amazing and worthy of respect/love. You are an awesome mom. As for other youtubers/ig living with cambria, the wads, other home organzing and decluttering/cleaning videos from other moms just cant recall the name now. 6 sisters cooking videos. Best wishes and thinking of you.