CNA | The Family Affair S4 | E05: The Stress Never Ends

[@yellowlimes8885]

Gab is such a smart girl. Already so amazing at expressing how she feels at such an early age. Wish you all the best baby.

[@ihuk]

Some parents seem to forget that children have, to some extent, autonomy over themselves. Watching the child actor plead to his mom is heartbreaking. Even as he felt harmed and was asking her to stop, she didn't. Not getting compassion and mercy from the person who's supposed to shield you from any and all danger is soul crushing. If that's not the utmost level of breach of trust, I don't know what is.

[@noirnua1257]

The Singaporean dad is the real mvp. Such wise words from him during every episode!

[@curriebiscake3757]

He is wise but

[@curriebiscake3757]

He is not pushing the kid

[@curriebiscake3757]

Which the mom is and it's a better thing because those kind of things though might not be necessary to school work but is essential for life. The dad reward system didn't work on keane.

[@dawnyap]

They are both great parents:)))

[@noirnua1257]

Dawn Yap you have such a nice voice btw. I saw the videos you uploaded. Keep your dream alive, you’re very talented!! 👍🏻😊

[@karingoneg5849]

She forced the peppermint oil on him when he clearly expressed his dislike for it and then she got mad at him for being rude to her? Threw a tantrum by dissappearing and causing inconveniences to the rest of the crew? Then kept forcing her son to apologise to her? She was forcing him to apologise for making her look bad coz of the way he reacted and not really because he was being rude. Man.. she is overbearing and egoistic.

[@slaiyfershin]

Tantum? That's from the kid. Sure, the mom's in the wrong but the kid's crybaby behaviour makes it very hard to sympathise with him either.

[@curriebiscake3757]

If she were to place the oil well wouldn't it be good? Well the reaction of the mom and the kid is unacceptable then if you say it. Cus right, the kid can use the peppermint oil to cry for the scene then complain to the mom later

[@curriebiscake3757]

The mom is in the wrong but the attitude of the kid was not equivocal. So the kids reaction on professionalism is more important in this case which he failed it. Not due to the mom but his own tolerance and diligence.

[@dawnyap]

@@curriebiscake3757 Yes. both parties are in a wrong and both have kindly apologised to each other:)

[@user-sf5bt8eb4y]

I agree , mom was clearly in the wrong but somehow flips the table and blame her son for being "rude" and force him to apologize for her actions that provoke him in the first place? for those that think the kid action is "unprofessional" keep in mind that hes like 11 yo and you are comparing the kid "professionalism " on job to an adult?

[@Ranger629]

In this season, the only family that I truly felt that changed was the Korean family. Only his father seems to understand the importance of family, his children needs and how to make sure that the family stays together. Meanwhile, all I see from the other family is unjustifiable egos.

[@AnwesaChaudhury]

What about the Indian family

[@irmawatifebriani8459]

basti might seem selfish outside, I used to hate this child, but when he cried, I melted, I could feel the burden he felt from his mother's expectations as well as the hope of helping his family's finances. parents should not see their children as commodities, but with their circumstances, they may only have limited choices.

[@lifeisgood2542]

irmawati febriani the mom or dad should provide. but instead, they were asking their children to provide for them. bad culture

[@rosamariamendoza1466]

He is a bully to his sister, no don't feel sorry for him.

[@mindy9061]

@@lifeisgood2542 exactly

[@tsubakilee1728]

Im a singaporean student and honestly what you see happening is pretty true. Being send for many lessons and enrichment courses are nothing new. My parents sent me and my 2 siblings to many courses and tuition. My best was never enough for them. I realised when I grew older that those courses they sent me for really helped me in boosting my social ability and portfolio in entering good schools and finally medicine. To the kids out there that are watching, clench your jaws and work hard it will pay off one day.

[@koopakid6951]

Yap's mum: "Hes trying to cover his ego." Arent you trying to cover your ego as well? Hmm... parenting ...

[@dawnyap]

It was very hard for my mom to allow my brother to make a big fuss and cause problems for the crew. But of course the apology happened after:)

[@wepbop6736]

Dawn Yap how do you feel about the entire comment section go against your mom lol

[@Zenocius]

@@dawnyap is here! All on your knees!

[@Ppf9000]

CNA, thanks for producing such an engrossing and relatable show. I’ve enjoyed all 4 seasons and look forward to more in the future. I also appreciate that you’ve given updates at the end of the series which was missing from previous series. I do feel this series the parents all seem to project their own wishes onto the kids and set unrealistic and unhealthy expectations. I know all parents think their own kids are perfect, but there is some serious delusions here. The Indian family also proves that money doesn’t buy happiness, nor good behavior as they all seem to support each other in their own sacrifice and selflessness. The SG family is the worst - Keane is very spoilt and his parents treating him like a baby is a disservice to him in the long run.

[@channelnewsasia]

Thanks for watching till the end and supporting the series!

[@dawnyap]

Hi, I know that it is your opinion but Keane is not treated like a baby in a sense that would become a disservice to him in the long run. He takes responsibility in doing his homework himself and practising. Of course there are some slacking points but we kinda have to admit that everyone would at least slack once in a while:) Sry I am replying the comments cause that is what I feel:) If you have any suggestions or anything our family could improve on, please reply to this:)

[@lifeisgood2542]

Dawn Yap atleast you or keane only slack most of the time. is slacking cam get an honor, i'd probably take a platinum medal home.

[@rtrgrl78]

@@channelnewsasia I have enjoyed this too and will miss the families. Thanks

[@CB-yr4hq]

Not to be rude but Basti's family had it coming. In the Philippines there are many people and groups who are really good at dancing meanwhile Basti haven't been dancing for a long time.

[@noelleyap5111]

I think the korean family should go to KBS "Hello Counselor"..... It's stressing out for the lady boss...

[@curriebiscake3757]

Or for another season 5 will be much appreciated

[@Rpaullo]

I'm watching from Thailand, I want to cheer up Lookhan. He has dream to follow to study in USA. He tries his best for it. It reminds me that once I used to plan studying abroad

[@studentnguyen2564]

Yeah he has a real fire in his eyes. Although from his updates he didn’t get the opportunity to study abroad he has his own company and is doing well.

[@patrickm4529]

How annoying some mothers can be.... even if it was an accident, even if it was unintentionally, she did hurt her son, just admit it instead of saying it's not her fault in front of the camera! 睜眼說瞎話 🙄

[@dawnyap]

My mom and my brother did apologise to each other after:) They were both in a wrong

[@priyarewa8337]

I really enjoyed the episodes of family affair. I feel that the yaps r very involved in their children's lives which is marvelous. I am happy for all participants of this program. Nobody is perfect but what's important is that u learn and grow from your mistakes.

[@Pushkin62]

The Yaps have only themselves to blame for Keane’s gaming addiction. They were the ones who bought the game console and allowed him to play iPad games. They should be encouraging Keane to engage in outdoor activities rather than making him a couch potato.

[@dawnyap]

Keane does have outdoor activities and Keane had bought his console with his hard earned money that he had earned from all his acting jobs. So naturally, Keane has a right to use his console that he bought himself. But of course now his gaming time is reduced and he is slowly adapting to the change:)

[@Pushkin62]

Dawn Yap Playing games is fine but it appears that Keane has developed an addiction to games and his parents are desperately trying to control this.

[@jlyxo]

Awwe im so glad the Lokhan family is doing well and improved their life

[@koalatheworld]

"Without your mum, can you do all these?" the controlling mother needs to stop her behaviour.

[@thecatfromsingapore]

yes, it's disgusting

[@GamingDante]

Yeah, she was the most annoying mom

[@tonyshu6052]

thecatfromsingapore for me it was the Filipino one

[@dawnyap]

I respect your opinions she said that for a reason, not just to be controlling:))))

[@thanos3839]

I think shes the best one

[@ItsRaining12345]

Haha the yap family kid is not wrong though? Just apologise if it’s your fault la. It’s your fault for putting your peppermint oil fingers near his face lol

[@pauline3599]

Trouble is, his mother will NEVER apologise even though clearly it is HER fault

[@dawnyap]

My mom wanted to help my brother as he needed to cry for this scene. Usually it is fine, but in this case my brother accidentally moved and it went into his eye. My mom and my brother did apologise after to each other and the crew of course:)

[@wepbop6736]

Dawn Yap is that actually you?

[@eugenestuff26]

18:23 I like the fact that the husband finds it ugly it made me die laughing

[@Globetrotter_Alpha]

1 Episode a day, Well done CNA.

[@betsibest]

Omg this Singaporean mum was overbearing and too ambitous towards her son's to achieve her own ego.

[@blatherskite9632]

I wish the Indian family well. Such intelligence should be put to good use. With Gaurav’s determination and incredible mindset despite their poverty, he will surely someday be able to lift his family’s financial stability. I really do hope for that. The Sporean parents I think are doing a great job. The parents are a perfect balance for the kids. The mom is the green light that tells her kids to go, the father is the pit stop. The Philippine fam, i did a search on the kid and it’s good to know that he made it as a child actor. The Chinese fam, i love how the father perceived how the future will be and has taken action - which is directing his son’s interest in things that will matter in this generation. He doesn’t care about grades that much - bec his son, a kid is already excelling in robotics, coding and everything that involves tech which is great. A lot of people now have made it big bec they have the skills. In all these shows, I admire how every parent strive to work for a better life or create a better path for their children. It’s hard to judge their parenting styles but unless we are in their shoes, we will never understand.

[@jeffreylim3011]

Wow keanes mom is truly the worst. She already admitted that it was her fault that she accidentally placed the oil into his eye. But she was still the one who threw a tantrum towards him, expected him to apologise to her, laughed at the fact that keane needs to apologise. And I don't care if her daughter said they apologized after the set off camera. It doesn't matter as you can tell on camera that she is 100% not remorseful at all. She's insane. His dad is wonderful though.

[@sibeiho]

This is gold....seriously why is there only 64k views?

[@whoisthisrawn]

I remember the CNA shooters entering the tuition classroom the shoot for that scene for my friend. Yap. Brings back memories everytime I think about it. I hope hes doing well these days. ^^

[@yezi8584]

Tbh .......i felted that bastis audition compared to the others before him..........was pretty bad,imma sry

[@gabrielkok9208]

The Korean dude have a very warped sense of thinking, just mind boggling

[@queeddity5450]

I felt like I have so much to say but the Chinese kid looks like Russell from UP movie. Sooooo cuuuute.

[@p0m2girl]

he is so cute haha He does look like Russell!!

[@ttsing]

Keane was not rude to his mother, his mother was wrong about the peppermint accident but she refused to admit it was her fault... that was terrible

[@LadySymphora]

Hope everyone’s dream comes true. I wish mine is but thats ok, I still have my family with me to support. Hwaitting

[@josephyeo6966]

Yap family Mother: "Find another mum". That is the best advice she had given her son. She is the most overbearing and intrusive persona as a mother. Poor child. How disrespectful to the makeup artist, fighting and torturing your own child when she is trying to do her work. Don't force your own delusional dreams on your children. They did not choose you as their mentor, and they deserve a chance to be happy. I was born in Singapore, I did not finish secondary school because my parents were too poor and needed me to find work. Many would have given up on me, but no, today I live in another continent, have 3 university degrees and still earning a six figure salary at the age of 72. I found my own path to my dreams through the inspiration of Mr. LKY.

[@lucasloong4713]

Kean already acting like diva leh

[@reinaldtan2361]

best series ever. incredible stories

[@themontephone875]

Keane s mom is messed up. She hurt him by interrupting his career that she wants. Twisted. Hope she reads this...

[@thanos3839]

Nigga

[@rosamariamendoza1466]

And her laugh is super duper annoying!!!!

[@lol...]

bruh keane's career choice is what he imposed on himself, have you even watched this series at all?

[@p0m2girl]

Is season 5 coming? I love this show so much

[@gordonsoo]

Totally agree with the Korean dad regarding his Value of a "Degree" , I am a master Degree holder yet me myself don't really value it if it don't brings in the Money. It is true money can't buy happiness, but in the reality that we live in right now, if you are broke, definitely your world will become a walking hell, I've learnt that the hard way, I've work for a company and got paid with the amount that i can only barely get by every month, but i like what I am doing, Soon.... that "barely get by life" creeps up to me and what I use to enjoy became what I truly hate the most. In the end I quite, and started my own venture that I don't really like, years had pass and I am making 10 time more that I used to be back then. Sometimes you need to get slapped really really hard by this harsh reality to realize that most of us cant align our dream with reality. If my dad owns a booming business like him, I would continue it with my own improvement.

[@bing2133]

Good job Dawn :)

[@slaiyfershin]

No wonder Keane takes up crying roles, since he is really still a crybaby at 10! Director: Aaaand, cry! Keane: :) Mom: Keane we are going to take away one of the overabundant privileges you have away. Keane: I don't understand. I'm not Band 1 in English. Mom: We are banning video games. Keane: WAAAAAAAAA

[@curriebiscake3757]

He's a cute boy. Hope he grows up well

[@dawnyap]

It helps sometimes hahahhaha

[@kiatsan5781]

That kid gets spring rolls for everytime he recites a few lines and Judging by his size.... He should be a genius by now..

[@kyoko6588]

He is 11 and is a state champion at robotics what have you achieved in your life dear Kiat? Manners, may be not at all.

[@kiatsan5781]

@@kyoko6588 listen here. I have already achieved more than you ever will achieve in your dead beat life. I'm retired while you are still worrying about your leaking roof. Yes, I've judged that boy but you don't know me. Manners: Quit barking like a mad dog

[@kyoko6588]

@@kiatsan5781 so you're retired 😏 and still have such an obnoxious mindset. You must be really wicked.

[@kiatsan5781]

@@kyoko6588 you have the audacity to say that I'm wicked when you fool were the first to judge me. Please get miss stupid out of your chutney brain and put logic back. Go fix that roof. Come on.. Goooo..

[@kyoko6588]

@@kiatsan5781 of course I have the audacity to say you're not only wicked but OBNOXIOUS. People like you are a disgrace to the society who cannot understand the struggle of students.

[@harri2128]

They could try starting a You Tube Channel to become famous

[@suzystone244]

I hope that anti anxiety meds will not be needed while watching this episode.🤔🤔

[@CrustyBaker]

Love the singaporean mom 😂

[@silverbells4732]

these academic hi expectant parents r a constant nitemares.....

[@123arcadia]

College is wasted money since but rather entrepreneurial is 🔑

[@marcusb.7412]

Sure, but it’s definitely not for everyone. Most billionaires have degrees from elite universities, it provided them a network to base business off.

[@Love4ever1223]

I hope mummy Yap see this and know she is doing a great job, although outsiders might say she is controlling or a "bad" mum , but she actually reminds of my mother who did the same, always believe in me & pushes me to strive harder. You might look like a bad mum/ tiger mum now, but your child will appreciate and thank you when they grow up.

[@dawnyap]

I will forward this to her:)

[@albertoh9019]

Singapore mum and China mum should not be pressuring theirs' son overboard, do not such a kiasu mom lah. India second brother, listen to your dad's advice about your elder brother, just take good care of your mum and siblings. Philippine mom, do not trying to milk your son as cash cow and neglect your other children and husband, let nature take its course. Korea dad, you maybe a successful businessman, earning your $ during your time but remember your children future will be at a different time so let them and also do not make your family over work on the burger business, employ more people to lighten theirs burden and toll on them

[@SiliconValleyMommy]

Abandoning your child to teach him a lesson, wow!! 😡

[@arlen3070]

Wer is the ep 06?

[@5StackNinjaFam]

What is a gaming detox?

[@zhibinliu7263]

The wen family should worry about their son's weight

[@kyoko6588]

You take care of yourself. That little guy is juggling with his grades, happiness and life. We all are not movie stars that we will be successful simultaneously at school, life and career. Everything will fall into place once he gets into college. People like you are the reason kids develop self hate. That guy is 11 and not 40.

[@thanos3839]

Chill nigga

[@fairymay7486]

Rude 🤦‍♀️

[@josephyeo6966]

Isn't it ironic? A mensa scholarship student unable to cope with expectations of normal academic education. I think the Mensa tests are hopelessly inaccurate or badly administered. If I were a board member, I would be thoroughly ashamed. Your tests are not as good a predictor of intelligence as you claimed.

[@weerapatras7567]

M

[@ErikaCM]

Does the Wen son have ADHD?

[@studentnguyen2564]

If he does it’s probably undiagnosed since Asian families tend to steer away from mental health.