Co-Parenting, Divorce & How I’m REALLY Doing | Retail Therapy Vlog Target & Walmart

[@susie7336]

I would love for your channel to evolve from cleaning & shop with me to an all around lifestyle channel! You have a wonderful personality, cool sense of humor and you’re gorgeous. This could be your $, girl!

[@gigipaz5959]

Mai, despite grieving the loss of your marriage, I've noticed that you have done some things for yourself, hair done and makeup (your lashes and liner are on point!!) which are very therapuetic. Getting ready for the day in a cute outfit, (even workout gear), styling our hair and putting on even a little makeup improves our mood. You look really good in those hats, by the way! Keep taking it one day at a time.

[@jesystar]

I know you are not a makeup channel but would love to see a tutorial on how you did your makeup on this particular day, it looks so good 😊

[@bellaszucs-zagoni9014]

+1 :)

[@theLordismyShephard]

Yes!

[@sylviafigueroa8789]

That would be great!

[@fanntarded]

YES!!

[@21972012145525]

Agreed. Beautiful

[@amy2284]

Love your channel. It’s so movitating me to declutter and clean. You can expand to a lifestyle, budget for single parent, shopping, and of course cleaning😊.

[@leizanazo]

I'm 32, and my parents got finally a divorce this year. My mom kept staying in that relationship "for the kids", and left me having panic attacks. My heart can not thank you enough for your maturity and for thinking about your kids first. Keep it going, I know sometimes we depend on our men taking care of the tech in the house, but it's really not that hard!

[@Chrisplainjane]

Co-parenting is hard! So the fact you always bring it back to the kids is awesome 👏 I had the kids full time for over 6 years because my X wouldn’t keep his word. Then when my son turned 13 he wanted to go live with his dad. I let him go because he is old enough to come home whenever he wants. It’s been good, my daughter still doesn’t spend much time with him but this is not due to me. I have always been open, shared invites & kept him in the loop. I miss my boy but he is happy, so I’m happy. I re-married & having my 5th baby making a total of 3 siblings for my 2 older kids from my first marriage. There is no ‘step kid’ we are just a big family & love each other. I’m 6 years down the track & I did not see my life being this. I planned on being a happy single mum then I met my buddy, my handsome, kind, loving now husband. I have been happier in the last 5 years than I have in the last 12 years. Not because I need a man but because I met my human. I think you know you are doing life as best you can & that is all that matters. Not these comments ❤

[@emilyw511]

I saw you at Costco yesterday and didn’t want to bother you while you were with your family, but wanted to stop by here and say I enjoy your channel and I’m rooting for you! Hang in there! You’re in a tough season, but it will get better! Also, I think you’d make an excellent reality TV star 😂

[@MaiZimmy]

I didn't go to Costco yesterday so I must have a doppleganger out there!! lol But if you ever do see me at Costco 100% come say hi!!!!! I would be so excited to meet anyone who watches my videos in person cause if you watch then we would def get along :)

[@livinglifemindfully]

I work in family law. I am actually going to criminal law next month because I can’t take the toxicity anymore. It is heartbreaking to see children used as pawns. You are doing the right thing putting them first. I know it’s not easy. It will get easier with the passage of time. You and your ex should be commended. Let me tell you, I have seen people spend years and thousands of dollars being petty.

[@ashleycisper-cox3672]

LOL…. The woman who has done most of my family’s photos INSISTS on making sure there are photos each session of kids with the parents individually. I totally get it and actually appreciate it for many reasons. I don’t think my husband and I will ever split, but hell….. I thought that with the first one! 🤣

[@anilugabriel]

Your videos helped me so much with planning during my pregnancy. Thanks for the content you share! You look great and I just know your future is bright 💕

[@CourtneyG1015]

I totally feel for you and hate that you have to go through this at all. My parents were in the category of "stayed together for the kids". It was hard to watch them together growing up. I think that while things may be hard now, I'm sure it was the right decision for you AND your boys. On another note, you look great! Your hair looks great and even though you mention it's hard to find motivation when your boys aren't around, it looks as though you're taking care of yourself and enrolled in therapy to get you through. Even if it's with all of us that can't talk back, except in the comments! Keep going; you're doing great!😉

[@VenomKpp]

It was the "RIGHT," Decisions...to break up a family in front of impressionable children? I mean she even said it herself that both her and her exhusband are very close with him apparently showing up in 2 minutes from her phone call. This is really just a case of putting herself first over her family.

[@lisagiannoumis3816]

You're a strong woman and you're definitely doing the right thing for your family ❤️ You're both being mature for your kids, it's an ideal situation.

[@alithiadrew]

Dear Single Moms Reality Show Casting Director: PLEASE hire this woman!!!! She is HILARIOUS and you will not be sorry! 😂🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@justusewater1]

I see it as being vulnerable and real, and you are so sweet to really put your bs with your ex aside and be the best co-parent for your boys!

[@marusharejc]

My parents tried patching up things about 10 years ago and bought the house we now live in, which was the worst decision ever! They finally divorced almost 4 years ago. Them getting a divorce was the best thing that happened to our family, they both now have new partners and are happy and I have the best relationship ever with my mom. It was a little harder for my brother since he was 11 when this first happened and his ADHD made things a bit more complicated, but eventually, he understood. I am 9 years older than him and I was actually the one to tell them to get a divorce because I was sick of the arguments and yelling. It took them 10 years to admit I was right but now we are all happier.

[@renee9318]

You are PRESCIOUS !!! I give you credit for putting yourself out here, sharing all this. Stay strong, stay positive!

[@Vick77777]

Hi Mai. SOOOO SORRY. Things WILL get better and better. You WILL get through this. Nothing you ever say is pathetic, etc. You are SO incredible inside and out. Lots of love and hugs. God bless. BIG HUGS.

[@brendasparks6234]

We love you, you’re doing great in the sense you talk about it. That’s what you need to to right now. So proud of you and thank you for just being you and sharing

[@chelsichristensen]

Congrats on the sponsorship! Their food looks great!

[@jonjharrington]

I think you're doing great- it's not easy, but you're doing it! And your hair looks gorgeous, you seem a little less stressed than previously. You're completely right- be positive and hopeful and happy, and a bright, happy future.

[@ohadrii]

Love seeing a sponsorship for you! As a newish mom who frequently is unmotivated to feed myself, I’m going to look into this!

[@rachaelhegi9338]

Commenting! Love to see videos when you get a sponsor, you deserve it. All the good vibes and things for you ♥️

[@saraihernandez7951]

I’m so glad you’re doing OK. By the way, I just wanted to let you know that I really like watching your shop with me videos. I usually don’t like to watch these types of videos because people don’t describe what they are doing and I am blind lol. You do an awesome job of describing what you are looking at and I really appreciate it. 💙

[@LejlaCikotic]

I think it’s wonderful that your ex was there too to help you with the break in. I don’t have Instagram or TikTok so I hope you continue making KZbin videos. ❤ In case nobody told you today, you are an awesome mama and you’re doing the best you can. 💝💝💝

[@rashamaarabouni3022]

Off-topic but that hair color is amazing!!! Keep up the positive energy!! ❤❤❤

[@justusewater1]

I also love your channel evolution! The chatty errands are great!

[@concepcionmartinez9023]

Those Factor meals would be a life savor for me. Loved your video thanks for sharing your life and being open.

[@karinakissell9565]

Looking at divorce like a death is kind of unfortunate, imo. It is an end to something....but it is also a beginning to something! Totally agree with looking at the positive! Really, truly happy for you. ❤

[@kcmnky]

You’re such an inspiration! Being self sufficient is important to me too!

[@alinalucrezia]

I really love your personality and thank you for sharing!

[@alohamaud5905]

Your co-parenting sounds like it’s working and I’m glad you are putting kids first!!! Well done 🎉

[@Vick77777]

HIGHLY recommend Bare Minerals...LOVE their make-up SO much. I never felt like I was wearing make-up. If I had a little extra I would still wear it. I wore it for a LONG time. It is SO worth it!

[@elizabethkennedy4427]

You should see if there’s a Once Upon A Child near you! I love getting my boys clothes there, so much better prices and the ones I’ve been to are pretty picky about the quality they accept!

[@ktrayan1]

I think it’s so good you make an effort to go out to dinner as the family of 5. I’m sure the boys will look back on those fond memories for many years!

[@pinadelmonico]

Thank u so much for sharing Mai! U have a great attitude & think ur doing it right by keeping the kids on the forefront! My ex & I have always focused on keeping them as happy & normal as poss & they have been doing great in the past ten yrs since we split! As an aside u are looking so so pretty! 🥰

[@DistanceTraveled]

I'm glad to hear your diverse income portfolio. That would be one more thing to stress about that it is a blessing to not need.

[@lunagabriella213]

Lol at the m word 😂💜 He's a true Texan now! I'm impressed he carries.

[@Vick77777]

You're very strong and I deeply appreciate all that you share with us. HUGS

[@jessicafreitag5111]

I never really realized until you talked about it in this video how sponsorships work. I didn’t know that liking and commenting, etc. helps. Now that I know, I won’t just scroll by my favorite creators’ sponsored posts! I usually “like” videos on YT and leave some emojis to help with monetization, so I guess I’ll start on other platforms too!

[@Vick77777]

SO happy everything was ok. You are always very proactive.

[@beccataylor4693]

The only time my KZbin notifies me is when you post and I love it! 🎉 congrats on sponsorship!!

[@claudiag.3036]

Thank you for not comparing it to a spouse dying. Your babies still have their dad, and that’s such a blessing. I love that you don’t ever throw yourself a pity party. You admit when things are challenging, but are ready & willing to tackle it with positivity. You’re a great example of resilience for your sons.

[@julieanne7223]

I watch your videos all the time, just wondering will you be doing any more Kon Mai method videos as they were really fun and motivating. Love your positive outlook on life, I find this is one of the hardest things to maintain, whatever you do Mai, try to look on the bright side, remember you are worthy, and always enjoy the time with your children, it goes soooooo fast!!!

[@MultiDaisy1995]

You look gorgeous! Your makeup and hair looks different in this video & I’m loving it! ❤

[@howtooperatewithabrokenmin689]

“What the hell is this?” 😂😂😂😂 I say that so much when I look at Target clothing.

[@MaiZimmy]

😅😅😅

[@kamiifae]

Still at the beginning of the video, but your makeup is looking good! Can you do a GRWM video with your new routine? Also your hair looks good too! You're doing great.

[@sspiker]

i think the modern internet allows most people to be more honest about their life and it's obstacles and supportive of others going through the same. Wish this had been the environment that was available when I was going through my divorce with my small kids.

[@yvonnelanese-coppola4999]

I totally get that. I would have really helped 😊 You are strong and wonderful, just remember that

[@andreamontalvo7059]

Of course I’m here for the tea 😩 🍿 let’s hear the drama 🍿

[@erikate5730]

You look good girl! Keep your head up. Love your videos all around!! Happy Holidays!

[@jubby89]

Love your content. I found your videos when I was pregnant and looking for what items to get. I am also going through co-parenting right now with mt 2 year old

[@tameragoodloe2405]

Girl, you always make day no matter what the content! Keep it comin! 😍

[@melaniehill5468]

I don't have anything insightful to say besides, love your new hair color! 😄

[@DS-rm7px]

We love you! Thanks for telling us-I will comment and like all of your sponsored content now!

[@MaiZimmy]

Appreciate it so much!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@juliesjourney8625]

Stay as positive as you ca, keep your head up and you ARE WORTH more than you know!❤😊❤

[@mountainviewvintage386]

Just hope you guys think about the 🐣bird nesting 🐣co parenting method! It kills me when my 19 yr old son says how he hated having to move his whole life every Sunday switching since he was 6 yrs old from mom to dads house..it’s so true that it’s not the kids fault for the divorce but they’re the ones that have to endure the most change

[@MaiZimmy]

I’ll look it up! Thanks!

[@kitw76]

How strange about the break in. Glad your ex was willing to come over and check things out. Being the mother of his kids and you guys knowing each other forever there will always be a love there. The type of love just changed over time:

[@reginacharley3075]

Lol, buy the grizzly looking pants dress up like a bear for Halloween 😂

[@kathrync.144]

I have a relative who is very close with her ex husband and his wife - she even babysits his children 🤷🏼‍♀️ I hope that you and your ex can keep up the friendship! I know my cousin appreciates her parents still being friends!

[@kamillelord3891]

Love the new hair, Mai! It looks beautiful!

[@ambergarcia3842]

Have you tried the Cat & Jack pants "hack" at Target? I've seen a couple of posts but never tried myself. It's where you take the outgrown pants & get a bigger size free..

[@juliecairns9644]

Totally not related to your video, but what products (shampoo, etc.) do you use on your hair? It's absolutely gorgeous!

[@anad5238]

Great video🥰 did u get ur hair done? Looks beautiful!

[@carlenewilliams5388]

My son got divorced and had 50/50 with his daughter and there was no child support and no alimony . I wish there co parenting would have been better , my granddaughter is 19 now so we don’t do birthdays together anymore same with holidays , happy you are doing good with your Co parenting everyone wins in the end especially your children !

[@gretchenphillips9787]

That Factor meal looked so delicious. I've been thinking about them but haven't committed. Thanks for sharing about your life and updates. I can definitely appreciate that you and your ex are putting the kids first. Twins birthday at a trampoline place sounds fun! Did you jump with them? That's what we did a few months back when my kiddo turned 9 and my goodness, it took a lot of energy for me out there bouncing!

[@Minnazs]

Giiirrrrllll clicked this so fast!!! Love these videos

[@lauramatsuyama9742]

Always wanted to try Factor! Just might now! If you did do a reality show… I might have to watch it🤣💝

[@jessicaashler7691]

Try The Children's Place for pants for your boys. I buy the packs of cargos and they come out to about $8 each.

[@kcameron7952]

Love you!!! Your doing great!!

[@anitajohnson782]

Great video as usual, thank you. Your attitude is brilliant, and I'd watch you on a reality show 🙂🌱

[@reginacharley3075]

Your my kind of mom, you buy clothes that you know looks nice for your kids, most parents now days take their kids shopping, leaving them to make decisions I don't think that good haha

[@saraeliza3024]

Mai you look so beautiful! Congrats on the sponsorship 🥳

[@josiemojica3674]

Would you consider downsizing? Sometimes a big empty house just adds salt to the healing.

[@Apathyandangst]

Reality TV seems like it could add more stress. At least with your own web videos you can control the narrative. Reality TV has a way of manufacturing stories and painting people in a negative light without giving the full context.

[@bonessam9618]

Your hair looks beautiful Mai!

[@CTB863]

Just leaving a comment since you got a sponsorship. Woo!

[@Isis31]

Your hair looks GREAT‼️😊😍

[@DS-rm7px]

Omg I have that same problem with target clothes. My granddaughter is a 6 and I can’t find ANYTHING in that size!

[@chelsichristensen]

Hi! Question for future videos: how did you decide to get into KZbin?

[@morganprice2581]

I couldn't love this about divorce bc living same..my theory is more that love the kids is the best...and I tell kids just bc our family doesn't look like someone else's doesn't mean we aren't a family.....4 kids here but yesssss best is kods first always

[@tamirule4216]

I would totally watch you on a show like that 👍🏻

[@marcyb6647]

Your hair looks great with the lowlights!

[@dorothyodenthal128]

Those outfits looked so cute on you.

[@anabeliagarza1805]

That’s the definition of true love… when someone is willing to die or kill for your safety

[@kimberlywatts3402]

🎉Sponsored!💯👍So glad that you are safe! You can order the jeans online and have them delivered! Walmart is free delivery for 35 dollars or more🎉. Grocery delivery is with Walmart +with a fee I'm NOT a fan. 🤷‍♀️

[@Illuminate-to-heal]

Love seeing you doing okay during this crazy time. I’d totally watch a single mom reality show if you’re on it🙌🏼 Also, I love your sponsors!😄

[@dayna6938]

That is creepy as hell. The door was unlocked and your microwave was on?? Be very careful, that is scary!

[@lunagabriella213]

Sounds like a teenager 😂

[@amandapalmieri1271]

I'm so happy that you're OK financially and that you are in good relationship with your ex. I hope, no, I'm sure that you will found someone that make you happy.

[@VenomKpp]

She's 30+ with 2 boys....that's asking a lot for ANYONE.

[@amandapalmieri1271]

@@VenomKpp she has 3 boys.

[@VenomKpp]

@@amandapalmieri1271 Yeah, I got to that point in the video where she said her 3 boys, but my argument still stands. It's real hard to ask a man OR woman to join an already put together family when they have the option to start their own with a woman that doesn't have kids.

[@amandapalmieri1271]

@@VenomKpp if you are a mama boy. A real man, if in love, accepts children. The world is full of these situations. And the fact that for you, a 30 years old woman with kids is now "to throw away" is disrespectful and sexist.

[@VenomKpp]

@@amandapalmieri1271 No one said to throw away and the fact you got very defensive over the truth shows more about you than me....'mama's boy." That doesn't even make sense.

[@mkpeter6274]

Factor was great in those initial postpartum days. It’s tasty!!

[@jefferybonem7336]

Mia, You are an amazingly strong, smart, beautiful woman. You look fantastic in the hats. Keep up the great work❤

[@Valschapero]

I just think you’d be so fun to be friends with! Love your videos

[@joveehekmatara675]

Next on Retail Therapy Q&A: Did you and your ex try therapy before deciding on a divorce? What does your family think about it? How are your boys doing with it?

[@carmenbrussee8623]

love the first hat!

[@Herreratali]

I would totally watch the show; just because your in it

[@kitw76]

My twin sister’s divorce was like a death to me. her hubby went through college with us and I really thought they were in love. He was like a brother I never had. I grieved the end of their relationship.

[@daughterofgod8671]

Love your positivity

[@susanwelch9496]

The hat looked good on you

[@renee9318]

Good job passing on that tannish top. You said you have too much already. Get some COLOR GURL!!! 😉

[@rosevee2689]

Will you be doing anymore organization videos?

[@BallroomJenni]

I have been wondering if you knew you were getting divorced when you did the attic clean out?

[@kaleikam]

OMG that is so freaking scary.. I would have gotten the best system too and a ton of cameras and motion activated lights