When To Reach Out & When To Let Her Go

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Coach Corey Wayne

Coach Corey Wayne

Күн бұрын

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@user-kg8uq9es3u
@user-kg8uq9es3u 3 жыл бұрын
Wanted to post my reply as a separate comment: Corey's book is DESIGNED to filter out women with mental illnesses and trauma. That's just the reality. The narcissist woman I dated ghosted me at 3 months, no explanation (this is what narcissists do). Lets fast forward: I'm now with a HEALTHY woman. I treated both women EXACTLY the same, and the healthy woman has never once fought with me, argued with me, pulled any drama, etc. Literally 0 problems. The difference between these two women is that 1 has serious mental issues and suffers from NPD, and the other is healthy, hence why she responds positively and is attracted to me. Unhealthy women, like a narcissist, will not stay with you. They arent wired to be attracted to healthy masculine behavior. They will create drama, go silent on you, distrust you, make things up in their heads, etc. They will make you question yourself. You may start to feel that you’re crazy. That you’re doing things wrong. And so on. It’s not until you actually date a healthy woman that you realize how messed up the other women are
@Mancer1980
@Mancer1980 3 жыл бұрын
Great comment and story. This is so important for guys to understand - you get rejected by a girl after seemingly doing everything right and eventually realize its THEM not you.
@topshelfgaming9093
@topshelfgaming9093 3 жыл бұрын
Dude..... you hit that completely on the head! I am going through that EXACT thing right now with someone that legit got mad at me over a girl "Heart" reacting to my profile pic and this particular girl that did that my girlfriend knew that I had talked to her a bit before her and I started dating and that "Emoji" caused her to ask if I was still talking to this other girl!?!? i was like "wtf!?" for real right now?? smh.. so now we are on a "break" I just say split up because I call a spade a spade man... but she even said she was damaged and needed to heal ex boyfriend trauma is why.. to much trust issues and what not... so like I said... you nailed it completely with this comment! cheers!
@TruthAplomado
@TruthAplomado 3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Some problems are just not everyone's to deal with. Some women want relationships to be one sided. Not healthy at all.
@ajb3858
@ajb3858 3 жыл бұрын
It's not mental illness, it's genuine burning desire. The first woman haven't had it. Hence, hypergamy was still active thinking she could do better finding a guy with the most access to resources.the second women however, did have genuine burning desire.
@user-kg8uq9es3u
@user-kg8uq9es3u 2 жыл бұрын
@@ajb3858 The first woman in my story is a full blown narcissist. So technically you are correct because narcissists will never have any sort of “full blown desire” for anyone. That’s not how they’re wired. Every action and thought in the narcissist’s head is “how can this benefit me?” Hypergamy isnt real. Narcissism is. A narcissist, man or woman, will detach and ghost you when they have found new supply. Its what they always do. It’s a severe mental illness. My new woman is healthy. No mental illness. Hence why she responded positively and fell for me, just as Corey’s book describes. So avoid the narcissists if you can. They can be difficult to spot. Dont make things more complicated with “hypergamy” and all that pick up bs. Get some real experience and you’ll see how foolish your comment is
@angelofazio6601
@angelofazio6601 3 жыл бұрын
Extremely thankful that Mr Wayne chose this pathway in life. He is truly a gift. Happy thanksgiving!
@MichaelTmusicAndCompositions
@MichaelTmusicAndCompositions 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, right bro! Thanks for existing, Corey, and I thank life for finding this space propitious for more growth for all of us!
@Habalmeme
@Habalmeme 3 жыл бұрын
Look for Rollo Tomasi he is a gift too.
@bennyblanco6704
@bennyblanco6704 2 жыл бұрын
U can say that again pure genius
@vanessabarker4901
@vanessabarker4901 2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@billyr.1703
@billyr.1703 3 жыл бұрын
Stop being needy. Be a confident high valued man. And for goodness sake, create abundance in your life.
@valentinepetric3689
@valentinepetric3689 Жыл бұрын
The amount of grounding this man has provided is insaneee. Couldnt be more thankful for your work bro
@richardcollins586
@richardcollins586 3 жыл бұрын
I did all this in May, I went zero contact in the end and went 4 months before I contacted her again . I’ve recently been on another date with her, we had fun, we’ve agreed to give it another go, though on a day to day basis. I’m contacting her less and she’s actually reaching out to me now and apologising for not getting back to me sooner. It’s early days, though I feel like I’m creating better interest than the last time. Only time will tell.
@cristiangutierrez1314
@cristiangutierrez1314 2 жыл бұрын
Good luck lads. It happened to me exactly the same way…
@Mr.Singhhh
@Mr.Singhhh 2 жыл бұрын
how did you contact her back?
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Жыл бұрын
Usually these are not a lasting scenarios I guess
@MrRockr95
@MrRockr95 Жыл бұрын
Great dude! i think that if she is still interested it might worth a shot reaching out. Ive been ghosted for a month now after 2 months of talking and dating. Might aproach her in a non confrontaional way.
@theonee9104
@theonee9104 2 ай бұрын
Before going back to her, just remember she fucked some random dude and probably talked shit about you. If she contacts you after 3 months just know she fucked other people probably got pregnant/something and wants some loser to blame.😂😂 No sir,after 3 months there is no way we are getting back together
@noonevincecarterfan
@noonevincecarterfan 3 жыл бұрын
She's a clear fearful avoidant. Don't take that too personal dude. Get to know your own attachment style, you're a clear anxious preoccupied. Do work on yourself. Take a cource of Briana MacWilliam. She covers trauma based attachment style super well and will help you to a degree that Corey's book won't. Your's is called the "anxious avoidant trap" which is a classic type of trauma bonding. You're attachment styles draw both of you together but also push each other away - again it's most often more the avoidants fault that the anxious. They get scared and look for signs things won't work out and then put gasoline on the fire in some way. I did everthing by Corey's book and me ex still ran away. I had been through Corey's book close to 15 times and yet I still wasn't able to keep a relationship going with an FA aka Spice of Lifer. They usually get scared when intimacy gets real - on average right around 3 months of dating. Then they detach and usually blame their date/partner and dissapear. They tend to come back around as your's did, but due to their trauma, they'll always be super suspicious and on the lookout. Not very stable people to be in a relationship with.
@steelmind5511
@steelmind5511 3 жыл бұрын
You sure that aint a narc?
@noonevincecarterfan
@noonevincecarterfan 3 жыл бұрын
@@steelmind5511 Could be but doesn't have to. True narcissists are quite rare, 1-2 percent of all people. I studied those a lot after I was in a 3 year relationship with one. Dated quite a few FA's and they weren't close to being true narcissists.
@noonevincecarterfan
@noonevincecarterfan 3 жыл бұрын
@Mr Andrea It can, but again, fearful avoidants also crave intimacy. They share the fear of loss with anxious preoccupied but also tend to shift quite happidly in the other direction once the relationship gets serious. That avoidant deactivation is actually mostly a sign of thing going well and it seems too good to be true for the avoidant. That's why you can't just assume that the non-avoidant did something wrong or necessarily caused the breakup.
@noonevincecarterfan
@noonevincecarterfan 3 жыл бұрын
@@lavieenrose7925 Corey's book is great in many ways and definately did help me - that being said it is not the holy bible and has it's limitations, which is fine. It's been critizised by several psychologists for it's quite regit and rationally based structure. Corey is not a psychologist and does not know what he doesn't know. That is okay, but my point is that personal growth and trauma healing won't get done just from reading the book. Even though women have quite predictable patterns, they are not math problems nor machines that always can be fixed. Nor are men of cource. There is actually very little that I disagree with in the book - but it can not make any relationship work with any woman, especially not a fearful avoidant as their fear of intimacy will still get triggered weeks or months down the line. That's why I think that Corey is a bit too quick to jump to conclusions that it's almost always the man's fault when he gives feedback in the videos. To Corey's defence, he also did mention that the pricinples and techniques of the book attracts healthy women, not unhealhty onces and fearful avoidants most certraintly are not healthy as they tend to be the most traumatized of all the subgroups.
@steelmind5511
@steelmind5511 3 жыл бұрын
@Mr Andrea so does that mean that people with anxious style attachments are lesser quality fruit?
@GO-wr3de
@GO-wr3de 3 жыл бұрын
Never reach out!
@Peteyp-o4v
@Peteyp-o4v 8 ай бұрын
Exactly, let them reach out. If she doesn’t, find another . Or don’t , but do not ever reach out to a woman. If they really want that, they are mentally ill anyway.
@ketobodybuilder2482
@ketobodybuilder2482 26 күн бұрын
​@@Peteyp-o4v some like you but are avoidants. But see the response. Is it good or cold anf 1 word ect
@fredflinstone9774
@fredflinstone9774 3 жыл бұрын
When she said she was canceling because her friend was visiting he should have said : " ok , be safe and have a good time" in a detach way from her and walk away! Cut all communications from her. If she cares about you she will text or call back.
@eppsislike
@eppsislike 5 ай бұрын
f*ck no, what Corey said is better. She won't interpret it ''In a detached way''
@TheManishTalreja
@TheManishTalreja 6 ай бұрын
The best I love about coach is it is a man’s fault. One should take accountability and total blame on one self. Never to play a victim card. He’s the best. He hypnotizes people with his words of wisdom. One of the best. Man is supposed to act like a man.
@erickruiz-hl5vs
@erickruiz-hl5vs 3 жыл бұрын
This came at the PERFECT time… thank you coach… Happy thanksgiving 🦃🙌🏻🙌🏻
@melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082
@melvin-fitnessproductrevie7082 3 жыл бұрын
Coach putting in work on a holiday. Leading by example as always
@TruthAplomado
@TruthAplomado 3 жыл бұрын
Those cup sip puns are just hilarious. Srsly though just facts, and facts. Thank you Corey for caring for us your knowledge echoes around the world.
@matthelm344
@matthelm344 3 жыл бұрын
Like CCW Says, Indifference Makes The Difference.
@howtosnatch
@howtosnatch Жыл бұрын
Probably the funniest video I've seen so far. Lots of wit
@JohnyZman
@JohnyZman 2 жыл бұрын
My ex who dumped me two years ago reached out to me to meet up after ghosting me for that long. We met up and had an amazing time. She then went cold again quick and now isn’t pursuing me anymore. Typical behavior changes could have not allowed this to happen. Needed this video!
@sammoe1292
@sammoe1292 Жыл бұрын
That’s a narcissist.
@romanramos3992
@romanramos3992 6 ай бұрын
If I could get Coach to like my comment… I would absolutely jump through a table
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne 6 ай бұрын
don't hurt the table
@jonwashburn7999
@jonwashburn7999 3 жыл бұрын
You really should do a show on Love vs Lust and how to realize what it is you are feeling.
@user-sp2yu9zt6h
@user-sp2yu9zt6h 3 жыл бұрын
its the same thing.
@mexicanakinskywalker6762
@mexicanakinskywalker6762 3 жыл бұрын
Thankful for the coach this thanksgiving. Would love to meet you one day coach!
@goliathwestern323
@goliathwestern323 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so glad Wayne had such calmness. For a guy like me I need this in a coach
@lankdup
@lankdup 3 жыл бұрын
My man the myth the legend, corey fucking wayne, happy ThanksGiving. You come to realize you dont need a relationship when you're working on your life purpose. focus on you and your own goals and the right people will gravitate towards you. Once again Happy Thanksgiving everyone **read the book**
@60grit13
@60grit13 2 жыл бұрын
There in your past for a reason. Sometimes is best to leave it this way.
@Martin-Savage
@Martin-Savage 2 жыл бұрын
Read you’re book like six times how to be a 3% man and I still feel like I need to read this book another six times.
@drewfuerstenberger4675
@drewfuerstenberger4675 Жыл бұрын
10-15 times is what I hear is the going rate…
@YoBoostMobile
@YoBoostMobile 2 жыл бұрын
I've been dating someone for 6 months. The first 4 were great. Hit it off really well and she was head over heals for me. Hanging out as much as we could, texting all the time and really had her chasing me. Then suddenly she just stopped texting as much. Barely spoke for a month. Said she felt like we were just friends and lost the spark. We eventually talked to give it another go, and things were good for about a week before she seemed to lost interest again. She took a trip to visit her sister for a week and got back a few days ago. We had a video chat before she came back deciding to hang out when her plane landed. Never heard from her since and its been about 4 days now. Really want to reach out even though I know she isn't the one for me anymore, but its super hard to let go. Would at least like closure.
@Anth_D
@Anth_D 2 жыл бұрын
Leave it brother! Be strong.
@EarthtoAdam95
@EarthtoAdam95 2 жыл бұрын
If she can’t be bothered to be honest with you then she doesn’t deserve your time and energy. Let her be and if she reaches out, great, see how it goes. If not, then she’s spared you a whole lot a of time of wasted effort. Good luck, let us know how it goes man.
@YoBoostMobile
@YoBoostMobile 2 жыл бұрын
@@EarthtoAdam95 yeah I think the day after I posted that she texted me "are you okay?". In retrospect, I probably could've handled it better but oh well. I said I was fine and figured she ghosted me. She replied with "I can see why you thought that" with no follow up text. So the next day we decided to part ways. Sad, but it is what it is. If she ever reaches out again I would consider trying to make things work. But I'm just trying to move forward and make a better version of myself now. Still can be a struggle on some days though.
@Anth_D
@Anth_D 2 жыл бұрын
@@YoBoostMobile stop trying to justify her behaviour, focus your energy on other women and practice no contact. Sounds like the attraction is gone and potentially you went too fast too soon.
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Жыл бұрын
She had another guy from the get go, don't agree w everytime a girl loose interests u fcked up ,some women line up 10-15 guys all at once even more n at times they interested in the chase only so they just wants attention
@DeepPoeticSociety
@DeepPoeticSociety 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving
@gonzo-7866
@gonzo-7866 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Coach! I'm thankful for your wisdom and guidance.
@pvcro5015
@pvcro5015 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Coach. Thank you for all the work you have provided to us!
@wayweh
@wayweh 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Coach and Thank you for always keeping it Real.
@MikeJ2470
@MikeJ2470 3 жыл бұрын
I started talking back to this girl that I clearly messed up on. She blocked me off social media and everything. Four years later, I added her on ig. I was focused on my work and business. She saw my photos that I did for my brand. We talked and I gave her my number. She texted me the next day and we caught up on a phone call. She was falling for me again. Wanted to meet my family and she wanted me to moved in with her. Basically I told her that I can not move at this time. My business is my baby. Also, she just gave birth. So that made me hesitant. She ghosted me after that convo. It’s best for me in the long run.
@82powpow
@82powpow 2 жыл бұрын
she’s looking for someone to take care of her and her kid! run!
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Жыл бұрын
Bro she still doesn't give a fck bout u just tryna be a leech of ur success ,thank this to God ,I didn't fck up lot of women in my life but those I did I look back at them n usually they all miserable ,n I have my own things ,they have usually nothing ,so always realise that even tho coach works applies all women ,still sometimes u meet w a hot women n everything is Soo smooth n sometimes u meet w women n everything is a struggle ,those times usually happens if either a chick have some trauma or she's not that in to u ,so if u need to play mindgames from the get go n u can't fck up tiny things here n there a lil only a lil tho ,than prob she's interests was super low anyway ,n always twist urself f a chick who dumps u at the first low point in ur life ,is not good ,happened w me that my dad passed away imagine I would having a gf who dumps me at my first low point ,... I know ppl gna say I'm an idiot but yeah be masculine don't be to pushy but w these I get women usually ,but I've got it back when I was playing in a band learned a lot bout women ,I used to say they like to talk bout themselfes only , so if a women like that not worth to twist urself for them ,no way u won't fck up tiny things ever in ur life if u with a chick for long time , n if she dumps ppl at the first mistake ull just gna set urself up f a miserable life , choose someone who head over heels in to u ,n others just pound them
@terrymitchellii2162
@terrymitchellii2162 3 жыл бұрын
HAPPY THANKSGIVING COREY!
@vanessabarker4901
@vanessabarker4901 2 жыл бұрын
Love these videos, helps to have a laugh knowing I've done the same as this guy. 🤣
@dementedpuppy
@dementedpuppy 2 жыл бұрын
Just found your channel. Appreciate your pragmatic and refreshing perspective.
@Mancer1980
@Mancer1980 3 жыл бұрын
Regardless of this guy over pursuing this girl sounds like a capital B. She's only doing this because she wants the attention and doesn't get it from other guys.
@Qqxx22
@Qqxx22 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks coach for all that you do. I wish you well sir!
@MuscleMan500
@MuscleMan500 3 жыл бұрын
subscribed after the bucket of sand thing
@neyfidelrosario
@neyfidelrosario 3 жыл бұрын
Lmao the Derek profile pic
@berrylee8453
@berrylee8453 3 жыл бұрын
miss this guy.always love his vid
@zachmitchell5290
@zachmitchell5290 3 жыл бұрын
Happy thanksgiving!
@bennyblanco6704
@bennyblanco6704 2 жыл бұрын
Ur the best COACH 😂 luv the humor !
@luisc.7314
@luisc.7314 2 жыл бұрын
Yooo, awesome coach
@EggMCMUFFIN-e4l
@EggMCMUFFIN-e4l 7 ай бұрын
If she wants to go LET HER GO. Stop suffering
@markmckinney9821
@markmckinney9821 2 жыл бұрын
Can you do more videos on the emotional red flags of women. You blame men constantly for the current dating market but never address how toxic most women in the dating market are which really puts alot of men in the danger zone. Kevin Samuel's talks alot on this and I think your opinion would be even better. Thanks coach
@c-za.c7085
@c-za.c7085 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Corey 🙏🙏
@JTDyer21
@JTDyer21 Жыл бұрын
Men gotta start looking to improve themselves than waiting on a woman. She gonna feel how she wants to feel regardless and you focus on improving yourself it's a win win either way for the man.
@akarathehechithajaaya1465
@akarathehechithajaaya1465 3 жыл бұрын
Coach is never wrong!
@southvalleynews8759
@southvalleynews8759 2 жыл бұрын
Hang out, have fun and fall for her immediately 🤣🤣
@Grace17893
@Grace17893 2 жыл бұрын
Love you bro God bless you
@fentanyl6969
@fentanyl6969 Жыл бұрын
Needed this right at this time. Love you coach
@Traivss
@Traivss Жыл бұрын
Alright, that’s it I’m buying a mug
@TimpBizkit
@TimpBizkit 2 жыл бұрын
I hardly call 1 text every 2 weeks over pursuing though, especially if they'd had sex on the third date.
@Mike-tn2ii
@Mike-tn2ii 3 жыл бұрын
This guy could be me. Met a 9 a few years ago. Jennifer Aniston type We were both 50. Didn't just friend zone me once but I let her do it a 2nd time. Lesson learned. Deleted her number and unfriended her from FB. Met a cool fun 7 a few months later. Was at a concert and ran into the other chick. I started teasing her in line to get drinks. She couldn't see me. She turned around a saw me. She was mortified. I introduced my gf to her. This one said hi and left really fast. Lol. She was with the guy who she complained about being broke and fat. She was in line buying the drinks. Haha. My 7 lost 25 lbs and is kind, loyal and doesn't play these games.
@bluesmoke8826
@bluesmoke8826 3 жыл бұрын
I find some 7's to be legit. They know where they stand in the market place
@Mike-tn2ii
@Mike-tn2ii 3 жыл бұрын
@@bluesmoke8826 Agree. This one is kind, drama free. Loyal, doesn't play the stupid games the 9's play. She cooks and she also lost 25 lbs. The 9's play games because they love the attention/validation they get from guys. They also don't give a shit how they act because they always have a line up of betas wanting to put them on a pedestal. I used to me that guy. Not anymore.
@bluesmoke8826
@bluesmoke8826 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mike-tn2ii We all had to learn. I'm 45 and really now just getting to point of understanding the dynamics of this thing fully. I'll tell you brother, there is no simp left in me. You see I understand what women don't understand. Higher tier guys are not in abundance. That is our edge. So the 8,9,and 10's can play now and cry later.
@Mike-tn2ii
@Mike-tn2ii 3 жыл бұрын
@@bluesmoke8826 The more videos of women in their 30's - 50's who cry about not finding any decent guys the more I laugh. They had them - they friend zoned them looking for the next best chad.
@bluesmoke8826
@bluesmoke8826 3 жыл бұрын
That's right
@jamesdavies542
@jamesdavies542 2 жыл бұрын
My fiancé earns more than twice what I earn, so there are women out there that don’t buy into hypergamy but most are very much that way I find. The top two questions a girl wants to know… 1) is he good looking? & 2) how much money does he earn?
@Sip28
@Sip28 Жыл бұрын
@@VoiceOfThe I believe women need to have their own money.. I’m not about to be slave and work and give her all my money
@chadfrozt8404
@chadfrozt8404 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u coach Wayne!!! 🙏💯
@mouadhbach-tobji8299
@mouadhbach-tobji8299 3 жыл бұрын
Corey i think you have to make more videos about mastering relationships, all your videos are aiming the same subject of dating
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne 3 жыл бұрын
The courtship never ends.
@ssen007
@ssen007 3 жыл бұрын
She preferred route 66 over route 69
@ConsultColin-fv6rc
@ConsultColin-fv6rc 7 ай бұрын
If she's not crazy interested I let her go
@sam_alimi
@sam_alimi 3 жыл бұрын
A whole year? C’mon man. And you started chasing her again after over a year?
@bronzemv4440
@bronzemv4440 2 жыл бұрын
You gotta read the book. Also before you go no contact, I did let her know I took her serious, made no offer, because she dropped hints about that, then I got my funny on to leave a good last impression. Now I go no contact and say, "Wanna talk, so let us hang out."
@TheRoadpilgrim
@TheRoadpilgrim 3 жыл бұрын
Classic Cory Wayne, Never Change!
@ryanwientzek3755
@ryanwientzek3755 2 жыл бұрын
lmao love the shirt Corey !
@hamza1517
@hamza1517 3 жыл бұрын
That sound after slapping your shaved head 🤣
@grazman44
@grazman44 3 жыл бұрын
Happy Thanksgiving Mr. Wayne I listen everyday and I have ur book as of last week.. been listening for 13 months. I know I know read the book 10-15 times.. yesterday or day b4 a person who shared a story is a 50 timer.. impressive
@AYYYEEEEYOOO
@AYYYEEEEYOOO Жыл бұрын
Bruh falling for her immediately is the worst…. men we will fix this in ourselves!!!
@Christian-tw3sp
@Christian-tw3sp 3 жыл бұрын
This guy is funny af
@DelhiRoadwarrior
@DelhiRoadwarrior 3 жыл бұрын
Coach I have kindle. Should I listen 15times?
@sinodeestanho
@sinodeestanho 3 жыл бұрын
Ok, but when to reach out? Dude must've done something right in that front, because he had a second shot to blow.
@juliencharlet3672
@juliencharlet3672 3 жыл бұрын
Going through this right now...
@tjsoko15
@tjsoko15 2 ай бұрын
You are so unintentionally funny sometimes
@DougyFreshGames
@DougyFreshGames 3 жыл бұрын
6:26 Hahahaha nice one CC
@icwhy4366
@icwhy4366 2 жыл бұрын
Always let go don't waste time.
@fencemenders
@fencemenders 3 жыл бұрын
Not only was it drier than bucket of sand. Probably had two or three guys on the side too
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Жыл бұрын
U mean in SIDE 😂
@Grace17893
@Grace17893 2 жыл бұрын
God bless you brother
@derrell5718
@derrell5718 11 ай бұрын
She didn't talk to him for a year I would have deleted her number after a week LoL that's crazy
@shedrickwallace9363
@shedrickwallace9363 13 күн бұрын
I just can’t understand how a guy who is a lawyer and fitness trainer can go through so much bad luck with a woman while a guy who at the airport can have women chasing him for validation. Lol
@scissoroarscissoroar3214
@scissoroarscissoroar3214 5 ай бұрын
I don’t know if one minute Corey says “you didn’t make her feel special” and “don’t reach out” which makes me think I’m not making her feel special because I just never called or messaged her after she said she would call me the next morning - we were together for 2 years and haven’t even broken up we are in a Mexican stand off ! Do I reach out and say “things have clearly gone south - I will really cherish all the things we had together but I’m moving on and if you miss me and I’m still single maybe we could try again”
@bywodensbeard9841
@bywodensbeard9841 3 жыл бұрын
Hey Coach, OK, so I feel things have been going pretty well with the girl I've been dating for the last couple of weeks or so. Anyway, I was wondering if you could give your thoughts on this: Basically, she's ill. She got in touch yesterday (5 or so hours before the date) to tell me she was ill and didn't want to make ill. She asked if we could do it tomorrow (today) instead. She sent me a voicemail saying "Hey babe, as you can probably hear it's gotten worse, my beautiful voice is going" (no reschedule this time). Anyway, I told her that her voice still sounds beautiful to me, she laughs tells me I'm lying and I tell her "It's making my knees weak" and "Get in touch when you're feeling better and we can do something then". I know I need to go by words and wait till she reaches out now... not sure I did a good thing?
@ohgoditsjames94
@ohgoditsjames94 3 жыл бұрын
Maybe overdid it a little “knees weak” compliment but yeah she definitely sounds like she likes you. Just leave her be for now, if she’s unwell she won’t want to spend all her time on the phone
@bywodensbeard9841
@bywodensbeard9841 3 жыл бұрын
@@lonewolftrucker3955 Thanks! Tbf she does sound really sick and I should take it at face value. Ngl, it's a bit of a shame that she's fallen ill so soon into the dating process, but it is what it is
@MascaroAlex
@MascaroAlex 3 жыл бұрын
I can tell by the way you speak you really like her. In reality Even If she canceled you should already have other plans. Focus on your goals my friend. Women come to you… Remember! Also! Read Corey Wayne’s book 10-15 times.
@danieltene2048
@danieltene2048 3 жыл бұрын
@@bywodensbeard9841 did she get in touch?
@bywodensbeard9841
@bywodensbeard9841 3 жыл бұрын
@@danieltene2048 Yes, she did. Like two days later she sent me a message asking if I wanted to come over to hers for dinner. She made us lasagna. Then the next morning she cooked me breakfast in best. Two days after that she sent me a video of her singing one of my favourite songs... I asked her out again for this Saturday.
@salihoz3822
@salihoz3822 Жыл бұрын
Corey your a classic 🤣🤣
@mayankgupta9376
@mayankgupta9376 3 жыл бұрын
Daam first
@sliqdaddy91
@sliqdaddy91 3 жыл бұрын
Is it ever right to reach out tho?
@r.maelstrom4810
@r.maelstrom4810 3 жыл бұрын
Yep, when you have been neglectful. When you dosed yourself (out of fear, out of too much caution trying to make things work) in a way she got firstly thirsty of you and next tired of waiting. LDR are rich in examples: two people who live far away from each other and only met from time to time, occasionally; months goes by and finally she becomes tired of a situation in which she thinks she is losing her time mostly texting, specially when around there are more men accesible. She breaks up, more time passes, she even forgets about you but you suddenly show yourself to her, in vivo: Magic happens.
@bignickdigger7105
@bignickdigger7105 3 жыл бұрын
No. Hell no
@RespectMyAuthoritha
@RespectMyAuthoritha 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Bruce willis
@lloydbeal613
@lloydbeal613 Жыл бұрын
Mann… is she the only woman out there dude😂
@mkowboy13
@mkowboy13 Жыл бұрын
“Inside of me” 😂 hahh that was a good chick impression
@jimmyb393
@jimmyb393 3 жыл бұрын
How to make her do all the talking? It’s getting hard for me as most of these chicks have nothing to talk about.
@Jooohan1412
@Jooohan1412 2 жыл бұрын
So I got the number of a nice women. 4 days later I called here. Nothing. Voicemail. I called here another time to actually speak something in the voicemail. One day later I called again. Nothing. I just saw here (2 days later). I passed here by and she said: 'Oh, sorry, I heard your voicemail just yesterday. My nephews were over.' We talked a bit and I ended with: Ok, I will call you sometime. Or you can call me off course. She seemed still interested but I don't know what to do. Wait at least till sunday? (it's now thuesday, so 5 days) Or let here call me. I'll now watch the video. Maybe the tip is in it.
@82powpow
@82powpow 2 жыл бұрын
cut her loose. don’t do anything
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Жыл бұрын
Do nothing ,u showed interest she doesn't ,had same thing happened I called one time she was off I moved on ,to be fair maybe I fcked up but I think I couldn't do anything to make that work if a women not capable to pick up the phone for u ,why will I ever waste time on her ??? U called n she wasn't able to push a button ,like women on theire phones 24/7 if u think her nephew was there Bs ,I wrote to a girl she responded 2 weeks later never wrote to her again ,now she sent me happy bdays how r us etc but at that moment if I'll go bck writing to her she will lose attraction ,is it bcuz I'm over pursuing ,hell no it's bcuz she doesn't care bout me at all just wants attention ,forget bout her move on n once u happy w someone n she sees it look how she's gna reach out
@DukeFavre
@DukeFavre 2 жыл бұрын
"now everything makes sense" God please help that poor men hahaha
@intunewithcars9484
@intunewithcars9484 Жыл бұрын
i wonder if chad thundercock was in the background???
@liveankur
@liveankur 3 жыл бұрын
You are putting everything on the boy, and saying the same thing which some girls say. "Nothing is my fault !!", "Everything is Man's fault". No accountability. No responsibility. If that girl wanted an actual relationship, she would have not made it so harder. Even in rejecting, she would have been respectful. She was playing simply. Mind games.
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Жыл бұрын
It's because the girl in my opinion wasn't in to that guy at all , so he tried to pull a women who was like 'ehhh okay I'm bored let's give it a try w this guy as a time passing' but def not a girl who was like awww I'm gna meet w this handsome sexy eyed macho Mr dickmedown ,that's why she was playing mind games ,just kick her out n go to some more sexy women than her coocie will open up once more , in my experience there's always a way hotter women comes along after u fck up w one lady
@ayalav02
@ayalav02 Жыл бұрын
Weve dated for 5 dates but I believe an emotional connection didn’t form yet because I held back and she sensed it. I invited her to meetup (6th date) and she replied a day later on other subjects ignoring my invite. I replied politely nothing more. And since then made no contact (now over a week). Giving the assumption no emotional connection was formed, is walking away effective here? I want to reach out to her just for that reason ( but afraid it will backfire) What do you think?
@fishersofmen428
@fishersofmen428 Жыл бұрын
Just move on its over
@giovannij1368
@giovannij1368 Жыл бұрын
Wow, he got 👻. Probably want to avoid someone who does that to you
@ipponsuki
@ipponsuki 3 жыл бұрын
The first dude D game was bad that why she didn't call back.
@steventheartist7667
@steventheartist7667 2 жыл бұрын
Question 1. Can you make a video on the skills you need to attract Celebrities, like actors, who have everything but can not hold on to a successful relationship. For example scarlett johansson who is gorgeous but has already 12 relationship that has failed 🤔 why? Look at Angelina Jolie has a long history of bad relationship and now former husband brad Pitt end in terrible divorce.....can you explain why this rich Celebrities have everything financially but suck in having a healthy relationship and why can't there relationship work and does a regular guy have a chance 🤔
@CoachCoreyWayne
@CoachCoreyWayne 2 жыл бұрын
Fucked up families. Bad relationships with their fathers.
@steventheartist7667
@steventheartist7667 2 жыл бұрын
@@CoachCoreyWayne Dude ...I love your channel your information is on point. It has opened my eyes towards woman and thier behavior. Thank you so much
@poisonpoison2134
@poisonpoison2134 2 жыл бұрын
They don't know Corey's work and book. Period
@TheADRIANOVALENTINO
@TheADRIANOVALENTINO 3 жыл бұрын
COMMON MANN!!🤣🤣🤣 I reckon Bob said a few other eager things to her after they slept together hence Lowered her interest even more.. TBH she wasnt that interested to begin with.. after she ghosted you you try set up dates!! 🤣🤣 Then after that you said " will see what happens in the future!🤣🤣 I would hav just said "Kool, ok " leav it at that. Dont giv any clues or hints less you say the better bro!!👍👍
@falconheavy595
@falconheavy595 2 жыл бұрын
damn, now I can't even love a woman the way I want, giving my everything. Gotta have a calculator and put all those emotions in an equation to make love work. Why woman has to be so complicated???
@redcloth6073
@redcloth6073 3 жыл бұрын
I miss the intro song
@vitonagulan1651
@vitonagulan1651 3 жыл бұрын
Coach i need help!!....I met this girl at a new job, me and her instantly clicked. But there is another dude she also liked, which i personally didn't like. So i started talking to other woman infront of her, she would get really jealous ( I did this thinking she would like me more), she started to get insecure and started to ask other colleagues if i was dating the other woman. At one point she started ignoring my texts, but eveytime i see her at work, i would talk and she also would talk back. i also noticed she would also look at me and stare at me like a hungry tiger time to time... i have a feeling she likes me, but how do i get her to reply to my texts...by the way i asked her on a date (the 4th day of meeting her), she couldn't because she didnt have vaccine passports to go anywhere....what can i do?
@jhondalton130
@jhondalton130 3 жыл бұрын
Stop texting . Make little chitchats & laugh with her during work,wait a little bit to analyze her attraction level and then make a date
@torhbakalit908
@torhbakalit908 Жыл бұрын
Fck the other women 🤣
@nickethan7547
@nickethan7547 22 күн бұрын
It’s not lust, it’s limerence. 6:28
@ianshahan4229
@ianshahan4229 Жыл бұрын
I'm curious, though, you say you never want to try to keep someone in your life who doesn't want you in theirs right? Well if they're thinking the same way and never contact you because they expect you to contact first (if you want to be in their life) that then starts a perpetual motion of two people playing, for lack of a better term, hard to get. When in reality those two people may truly want the other person back in their life? Your teachings seem very promising and work great most of the time, but these things are often much more complex, grey areas with no one particular answer (I feel).
@without3566
@without3566 3 жыл бұрын
First comment 🤟🏻
@ulisesc4388
@ulisesc4388 3 жыл бұрын
Not this time
@vladestoup2342
@vladestoup2342 3 жыл бұрын
10:23 😂😂😂
@irshadazeez4764
@irshadazeez4764 3 жыл бұрын
10:23 🤣
@jasondorymeade8419
@jasondorymeade8419 3 жыл бұрын
Ghosted for a year... Get the fook out of here. Read the book. Date, loads of women they are 2 a penny.. Dont get hung up on one women. Once you get the one you want you will probably want a different one down the line anyway.. Hang out have fun and hook up..
@girthybrowns4489
@girthybrowns4489 3 жыл бұрын
10 - 15 times 😂
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