Stand Your Ground, or Get Jerked Around

[@bradjbourgeois73]

The other day my wife wasn't feeling good, so I waited on her all day. Later that evening I went in the garage and drank a few whiskey and waters. When I came in to go to bed she called me a "selfish asshole!" I turned over and went to bed. The next morning I took off and didn't tell her I was leaving. My phone started blowing up, I turned it off for a couple of hours while I visited my dad. When I finally got home she was all over me. ;-)

[@Prashant131090]

Respect🕴

[@siegpasta]

That's sounds about right.

[@eppsislike]

Brad muthaphucking Bourgeois 🫵🏽

[@lovemecom3832]

Whatever decisions you made stand up what is right for you and what makes you happy. Because your the responsible of your decisions.

[@pablojimenez5433]

...you are absolutely right...!!!

[@Blackmandala108]

Just stood my ground… My girlfriend had an ex who was also her business mentor. I made it clear from the start that I don’t want any exes coming around (mine or hers). Consistently this is something she had struggled with. Now recently she has been stressing over her business and made plans to meet with her ex for business advice. I told her I was uncomfortable with this, she can do what she wants but I wouldn’t be around for it… she is pissed off at me currently but I’m standing firm. She did cancel her plans to meet him. She’s still pissed lol but I’m just glad I didn’t get walk on. Thank you Corey

[@ApostleThe344]

Update!

[@croatiancroissant28776]

I hadn’t talked to my ex in 7 months after she dumped me. I spent that time getting in great shape, dating, putting a smile on my face, and reminding myself that I’m better than she made me feel. Last weekend, we saw each other at a distance at Target. I didn’t think anything of it. That very night, I got a text: “Just wanted to tell you that I really miss you, and I should’ve worked on us instead of leaving.” Yes…..you should have.

[@FLiPtHeSWI7CH]

Don't go back bro

[@CosmoMakeupgurl]

Some people are for loving, some people are for fucking, and others are for fucking over. We need to get better at knowing where we fall for someone else.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Well said

[@priley817]

Im from Venus I don't believe in fucking over anybody that's bad karma

[@8754roberto]

“My feelings had been playing harder than my guitar “. That’s a song right there !

[@christopherarmstrong2710]

17:02 The fear that you’re never going to find anybody better happens to everybody

[@RealPaydayMonsanto]

I may have gotten her back. She just called me out of the blue and proclaimed her love to me. Largely because of you, reinforcing and refining what I was already doing. Kudos.

[@kingtitan2051]

How'd it go?

[@acepace136]

This video made me realize how weak I was over my teens and even now. I misinterpreted people standing up for themselves for being selfish. No wonder other women saw me as unmanly. The change starts today.

[@bigdrob54]

Corey....you ROCK dude. What a great dose of straight talk. I really enjoy the heck out of your great work here!

[@Comzewebss]

When they show their real face just believe them and let them go.

[@fargeeks]

Yup believe them once they tell you: "leave me alone"

[@yumaungkhant7559]

Never ever throw out every other possibilities until she proves back to you that she's worth you time... Have Fun... You're the priority... You're a totally awesome dude...

[@Jackson37737]

Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test: 1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER. 2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all. 3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood. 4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away. 5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away. 6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you. REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST: Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD. FINALLY: Women do not set the social “standards of etiquette” for our society - but they should abide by them. Moreover, it is inappropriate in today's environment for anyone to cull their own group as MORE SPECIAL or exceptional than any other. In short, they should abide by all of the SAME social rules of engagement as any other group. Never allow the females in any situation to collectively hold males to standards they themselves are unable to act in accordance to. Keep this at the forefront in all dealings with ANY group - especially females in specific and women's groups in general.

[@haxino]

You don't get what you deserve in life => Only What You Negotiate 👍

[@ZendesignStore]

Sometimes when I hear these stories of other people, I see some of my younger actions I have done.. And Now I Laugh Out Loud when I see people bullshitting themselves.. Read your book, Great work Corey Wayne

[@Lewisevans1618]

Same here i cringe and shout 'NO!!!!!' listening to these poor fellas

[@5150BODE]

Damn I wish I would have found your vids 6 years ago lol. Just reentered the dating scene and couldn’t have been better timing that I stumbled across your vids yesterday and have been watching all of them since. I can tell where I have screwed up in the past while watching them. Your knowledge that you share is priceless. Thank you for helping me in my endeavors in the dating world.

[@thecowboy9698]

Do their words line up with their actions? if not, don't ignore it! A person's actions, or lack thereof, will tell you more about who they are as a person, then their words ever will. Someone can say all the right things, but sooner or later if they're not genuine, their words and/or actions will betray them. If you want to get to know who someone is, be sure not only take note of how they act with you, but also carefully observe how they treat those around them, especially the people they're close with, particularly family and friends, as it is a very good indicator of how they will treat you. (Also, take note of how she treats you when you two are with her friends.) Another thing you can take note of, in order to learn about them as a person, take note of what they like to view for entertainment, whether it be a tv show, a particular hobby, a certain selection of books, or whatever have you. What we view with our eyes feeds our thoughts, and our thoughts in turn influence our actions, and it's our actions that define us as to who and what we are as people. Buddha once said: "All we are is the result of our thoughts."

[@siegpasta]

So if you meditate you become nothing, becuase you ignore your thaughts and let them pass. I guess that would be logical in terms of that logic. Otherwise great words, I agree with it all.

[@JustinsSupercars]

Probably one of the funniest videos ever Coach! Nice topic as well.

[@chrisbullock6477]

When at the end of the day its just pure Nature taking its course...

[@cryptocruz6312]

Wow, I’m so glad I found your work. Saved my life

[@jonathanluna7221]

Had this girl at work we flirt a lot and all of a sudden she started being rude and like if she didn’t want to talk to me. At first I was being indifferent and not letting it ruin my day. She kept doing it and I felt it was disrespectful and I told her I’ll talk to you when you get and attitude change. Calm and collected and left it at that!

[@jerryjones2054]

Best quote of the whole video "Nice Woman" lol.. truth,, don't waste your time with women that suck!!!! Move on!!! So many good women out there believe me!!!!!!!!!!!

[@incangeneral7996]

Are there really though?? Look I find Women easily but they are pretty but not that good. Or good and not that pretty. To get a well balanced Woman isn't easy.

[@houopajack500]

@Incangeneral it depends on how u define good woman urself

[@KevinHernandez-pr2qk]

I've read your book about 10x now, and this little behind the scenes is dope.

[@aldenburton6240]

I watched so many videos now, many times I count 3..2..1: C'mon man! ;) Corey, you showed me everything I did wrong (and she did wrong) and you will be doing so after I get the hardcopy of your book tomorrow. And therefor I thank you.

[@sebzero5247]

Coach, this is such a strong and good message. I smiled and nodded in agreement.

[@weisthor0815]

"i´ve met about 40 new friends". that is something only an american would say. no person EVER has had 40 friends throughout their entire life. you will have 2-3 real friends, if you are lucky.

[@fabolousninenine30]

Mathew Van Ostin Haha good luck

[@edwardsand1594]

I agree.

[@larrycrumbs9219]

weisthor0815 depends on what your definition of friends are

[@AS-ts7sj]

haha you are a loser and have no friends

[@theartemisgland]

americans simplified to a degree they forgot about acquintances...

[@jneptune1540]

This video made me realize how over my marriage is.

[@chic_kiss5612]

I just found your videos last week. You should do some for women too. I'm trying to learn from your videos and I think this video does apply for us too. In how we need to stand up for ourselfs. By the way when you are reading the emails, and all of the sudden smile for what you have read. Gives you a really nice look, and when you look straight at the camera and make silly faces too :)

[@davymike761]

Wow, even when this guy got that girl to the point of actually saying fuck off dude I don't wanna talk he still thinks he has to chase!

[@angelavictoriagutierrez2798]

LOVE COREY WHEN HE SAYS “SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS!!!” HAHAHHAHA

[@jasonmcmaster5719]

"Life is Grand"

[@Singhamanus5]

ME at 10:28 WHEN MY GIRL TRY TO BULLSHIT AROUND ME 😂😃☝🏼❤️👌🏻💪🏻

[@mrlinklady]

this one is one of the best yet

[@returnoftheschaef2084]

This may come off as sexist, but it has been my experience that many women are extremely childish. Therefore giving a woman power over you is the same as giving a child power over you. You should expect them to be very irresponsible with the power you have given them. Hence, being jerked around should come as no surprise when it happens.

[@Lerroy007]

6:00 what to say if I woman trying to break an agreement you made.

[@rockwithyou2006]

ya, unless you are married, in which case you are fucked.

[@miguelfloriano9039]

Corey your the shit... Knowledge is always good...

[@qiaddictandtheqiexperiment9280]

I love your videos Corey Wayne I've learned a lot from your book 2!

[@NaturesPlan]

5:51 LOL, "fuck that bull sheite" hahaha!!!!

[@megret1808]

How does that expression go? “Men marry women hoping she won’t change. Women marry men hoping they will.”

[@carltrotter7622]

This is something I need to improve on, in everything. The other day, someone skipped the queue in front of me, Deep down, I knew I had to say something, to take action, to get him to move to the back, saving my time and those behind my person. The most I gave was a continual stare at the point he turned around. The most it accomplished was making him awkward. From now on, in everything, if someone does something wrong, I'm applying the proverbial stiff-upper-lip and speaking up. (For those wondering why I am getting agitated over queues; yes I am indeed, British) Wishing you a pleasant day, -Carl

[@popeye3945]

Better always comes classic Corey!

[@nosfedss]

I did not stand up for myself, I tried to please her and just didn’t know that I was doing wrong. She has told me recently that she wants a separation. I’ve told her that it’s just her delaying the inevitable. So I’m ready to call it now. We’ll I say this now after I doubled down on trying to please her and give her her ferrytale Disney dream of a relationship but it’s not what she really wanted. Obviously

[@mrmarcusdmorgan]

Thank you Corey !!! 😅😪😢

[@diunjenai]

So does he only coach men? Because he is an awesome coach!

[@andrebaxter4023]

He coaches women as well. There's a few videos on this channel where women have emailed him.

[@Lewisevans1618]

Both sexes Corey is a fantastic life coach for everyone 👍

[@siulong1394]

What if she always said "I don't know" to any difficult question you asked her?

[@thewanderingartists]

Either you be better at communication or this won't work.

[@siulong1394]

@@thewanderingartists it didn't work... All Hail Lelouch!

[@thewanderingartists]

@@siulong1394 I command you to date more women !!

[@siulong1394]

@@thewanderingartists 🤣🤣🤣 I wish it was that easy! 🤦‍♂️😅

[@MrRob_-yp4wc]

"Don't bullshit the coach" 😂

[@mylifeinrussia4627]

Good job man!

[@rockstarkiller2009]

thank you sir

[@seanreardon3920]

Thank you

[@vivek2rhyme]

i stood my grounds and and told her no phone cutting ignoring or blocking me and if she does that it will be the last of it,shes abroad with her husband and daughter and have always been talking fr hours about her fights with husband,her old friends and using me like a trash bin ,,i recently lost my wife because of kidney failure and this woman just keeps on telling me about her problems and when asked about us she cuts blocks and ignores me ..i had to ell her that

[@eriklievano1]

good shit Corey.... but you have too much echo in your videos. you may want to consider wearing a clip on mic on your chest so that your voice is picked up without echo and the vibration of your chest makes a fuller clearer sound... I love your teachings though... this shit works!! I love the way you talk straight up, no bullshit and the execution of your message is very real...

[@pablojimenez5433]

...thanks coach for the great video... ...

[@erichkruger]

Thank You!

[@sjm07400ex]

I was dying to when he said that 😄😄

[@mikeemswiler4541]

thank you mr corey

[@oslokru1972]

Well, I think he joined her gym to stock her, that pissed her off, so she ignored him. Then he says, "she wanted me to chase her". Like you said once Coach Corey, " He wants help, but he doesn't want to participate in his own rescue".

[@SamS-fd5qt]

philip collins Not a big deal but it’s actually stalk, not stock. Stock is used for situations like “go stock that aisle with bread” or “Apple’s stock value has plummeted.”

[@isaacmelendez8202]

Thanks Cory it helped a lot

[@NethervvoidBuilds]

23:06 Well also she's probably waiting for him to be the leader, and say hi. Should have said hi, just like no biggie.

[@komINgETSOme]

A little weird how you say you dont remember the guy and then later in the video you talk about the last email he sent

[@jedipharajjas227]

Good man!.

[@blaineshower6426]

"Acts of service"...? Sounds like he has been reading that " Love languages" book.... just silly...girls love it !!!lol

[@chrisbullock6477]

LOL....love that Shit Burger comment...LOL

[@danncapitan]

Coach, the second guy email when he says he did "acts of service" for his gf, I think he is talking about one of the 5 love languages of Gary Chapman who you encourage reading. What are your toughts on that?

[@Squirt_russel]

Ya I spotted that too. Coach- I’d love to hear your view on the 5 love languages brotha. And what yours are? And if you think it’s a legit concept.

[@1mickeydog]

Don't go through the garbage.

[@Mr.Yang823]

Don't bullshit yourself, or bullshit the COACH!!! 🤘🏼

[@darknoon1jesusdidit915]

This is fucking gold

[@edwardsand1594]

This guy bought a membership because he knew she went there, you need to lay off the stalking behavior, and stop bullshitting yourself have some dignity.

[@kittenheels1958]

Comment on last one....she’s rude because he was too stalkerish

[@berineayala4767]

Such good shit lol so funny

[@maximusk545]

What is with you guys trying to return back your disrespectful exes ?! Do you really want back that one who wipes her feet off of you !? If yes, then you deserve that treatment. Women will treat you the way you allow them to period.

[@dannsixty-nine2639]

Don't Bullshit THE COACH ! Com' on MAN !

[@wtj83tw]

Damn I jus had Deja vu like 47 seconds ago holy shit

[@Lewisevans1618]

Has it stopped yet?

[@wtj83tw]

Chris Evans no I still have it til this day

[@thewanderingartists]

Has it stopped yet?

[@eg20238]

6:35-6:44🤣🤣🤣

[@drjayent.926]

Sounds like she lied about wanting to be together just until she find another guy and move out.

[@TheTerrypcurtin]

Best part about Cory is he sounds just like me and my friends. We laugh our asses off ridiculing each other over date mistakes. Getting caught. Or she bangs the neighbor. Just hilarious.

[@Play2Win1958]

@ 5:14 Phony shallow ass player and there a dime a dozen ? Yep

[@mellylutherking]

He knew she would be there it’s obvious

[@Nick-ue9of]

Instead of what you signed up for....here's this great shit burger. 😂

[@josephjezreelcasanova4728]

"It's me again" Hahaha

[@thetruthoutside8423]

The first man, he should give her the kids back and move on.

[@pistol850]

coach looks stoned..hahaha

[@flo_ridaa7074]

4:51

[@pistol850]

haha.. I thought so

[@EraphaseContemplation]

Ref to the tread mill stuff? My formula is 0 - 0 = 0 . You cant lose someone who was never truly there in the first place so why let it harm your soul????? Bus leaves every 15 minutes !!!!! He should have used another treadmill or changed his schedule. and stop making her the God he worships creating heaven and earth.

[@edwardsand1594]

This 30 year old guy is pushy as hell yikes I cringed idk how many times 😬

[@TrustYeshua4Ever]

Makes no sense to keep chasing someone who still hasn't receive you... Unless you're A beta lol

[@synon9m]

this second guy, what a joke.

[@rickysbrutal]

this guy created a tyrant

[@frankiethejunkman8904]

Farg that bull shish kabob!!! 5:50