Nice Guys Get No Respect

[@ollyf5088]

"you don't get what you deserve in life, only what you negotiate" a very important lesson there

[@Madmok128]

Huge lesson. Love this lesson and those few words have helped me so much

[@malandrovago7970]

I´ve never been a nice guy with girls, never gave them flowers or gifts (before a formal relationship), but also never let myself to be treated like garbage, when I invite a girl its only once, if she does not answer or says no, good for her, I move on, if she regrets or simply feel like dating with me, is up to the girl, but I´m not asking twice. And the truth is that when you give them too much attention and please them, they just change and treat you like a dog, so, be respectful with yourself, no woman on earth is as worthy as to loose your dignity, there is popular phrase in my country that reflects what I mean "to women not all your love, not all your money" you don't have to be a jerk or unrespectfull with women, but your priority and the first person you have to take care of is you.

[@Orgizo08]

📠

[@LulaRoberts]

🧐🧐🤔🤚🤌👍👍🫵. Well spoken!

[@frankm3146]

Perfectly said. South Florida native Hollywood bch here 54yrs..

[@Somali_pirate]

⁠@@frankm3146 Frank you forgot to mention that you’re Corey’s twin brother you never met lol you guys look identical Holly

[@6.0hhh]

7 years later your comment is still helping people. Thanks for this!

[@camman6912]

Try meeting a beautiful woman who spends the night with her ex and then tells you nothing happened So then you believe her and she ends up with you and you sell your home to buy one with her and fast forward it’s 20 years later and she emotionally cheats on you with chat rooms and Facebook You end up divorced and you lose your home and have to live with your mom Young guys that’s me I feel like such a fool Don’t make the mistake I made Once they cheat they always will no matter how many years in between Guys I’m 61 and in good shape Please don’t make the same mistakes as me And as far as meeting single mothers DONT I made that mistake also Young guys listen to this guy he’s hitting right on And listen to us older guys as we’ve made these mistakes

[@bobbyjackson5172]

Thanks a lot I appreciate it.

[@WestsideCleveland]

Elaborate on the single mother thing? Do they love their baby daddy still?

[@manicmurph]

I've heard the single mothers thing before, but if your 37 like me most women have a kid so what are you supposed to do?

[@smokedpotato]

@@manicmurph I'm in the same boat bro , met a cool single mom who is about to turn 30 .. my better judgment is telling me "don't do it"

[@manicmurph]

@@smokedpotato i mean the only other thing is to date 20 year olds. Most women our age have kids. Some more than one.

[@alcudiababe1]

What id love to say is when you get to the point of missing the woman and you want her back - get a pen and write down her pros, list them, im sure you can, and then, come on, her cons, be honest remind yourself why you had to walk away or why you should not get back together and remind yourself why she is better in your past. Tell yourself that you dont miss who she was - tell yourself you miss who you thought she was.

[@AgeofCraccadilliaassent]

IF Wah-men actually were who you thought they were not a disguise

[@stevesayed6330]

This is great advice.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Glad you guys enjoy listening to me run my mouth so much :)

[@khodnett88]

Coach Corey Wayne lol , but you are a great coach man!

[@principlemethods5281]

Corey wayne you the man! #1 male role model !

[@luchoator2527]

You kinda sound like the nice guy now Corey lol

[@muhammedlaminjassey2823]

Mr corey, you have hlap me lol i by buy your book, I'm some who never being in school, because of anger of me bron in Europe in Spain and my parents take me to Gambia, and my father's brother aused me like the way you have with your family, you change my life, I'm saying thanks to you may keep blessing you for the work putting in the world 🙏💯

[@tonygee6418]

We can binge listen to you for hours on end, Coach.....

[@vernonwilliams8644]

I now realize that people accept kindness for weakness and when the time comes you should be able to stand up for yourself. I am on my third 3% man read and it has opened my eyes to what I allowed people to do to me. Coach Corey Wayne has opened my mind and eyes!

[@eddiec5036]

Always be kind, but never at the expense of being kind to yourself.

[@WaqarDepp]

Listen "nice guys", you don't have to be a jerk. You just have to be A MAN.

[@socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546]

Just don't be a jerkoff

[@damonrjoseph3012]

Yep

[@weirdchamp7790]

well said

[@bahaatamer1245]

And to be a man, you need to be a jerk! (As far as I know).

[@SantiXiAmaru]

@Imran Rasheed all guys don't start out this way. Speak for yourself.

[@FIVEOFEVER]

Woman cannot take advantage of you without your permission!

[@davidlee6117]

Nobody can!

[@KevsUploads]

"You have to love a person in such a way, they feel free"

[@icecube3645]

I wish I watched your videos before I broke up. I humillied myself with my ex girl. I was the nice guy.

[@gregcampbelle3696]

Everybody has at least once. I don't know that anyone is totally "Alpha" 100 percent of their life. Nobody I know, fits that bill. I know a lot of people who would like you to believe that is true, but I don't think it is. More likely we evolve as I did, out of necessity from being burned so many times. You can either be the poor sap who is manipulated by women or you can learn to manipulate women for what you want out of them.

[@KrisTenRob]

Exactly, we are just trying to be nice. But women unconsciously change they way they react overtime. Most people are not born as Alpha. Some are but those people dont even know they are alpha. . So a lot Alphas nowadays learned from being Beta.

[@alberonibaggio9680]

Ice Cube I feel you bro , I went through the same shit

[@Puccbelit]

Welcome to the club. Anyway, what really matter is that we are here, now

[@helpman42k]

"Everything that happens, happens and could not have happened any other way." - Corey Wayne

[@Wiseguy0309]

I love how you cut out the bull shit. This is me. The nice guy with low self confidence. I lost my ex because of this. I am working on myself. Our relationship was great we never caught I treated her amazing and she treated me amazing. Sex was amazing. I made all of the classic mistakes after the break up and now doing no contact. I realize I need to build my self confidence and have made some progress. I'm hoping one day she will come back but now I can except that it is over and I will be ok.

[@Wiseguy0309]

@@dotfive5six477 she did actually and the funny thing was is when she did I realize that the person I was upset for loosing didn’t exist. I went into the second relationship smarter stronger and way more convenient. I ended up breaking up with her cause I wasn’t getting what I wanted in the relationship

[@Blodia1990]

@@Wiseguy0309 🎯🎯💯💯straight playa shit my guy. You've done what 97% of guys wouldn't do. I salute you

[@fordcobraboss427]

Women that like douchbags end up alone, elderly and full of regret. Women that recognize life is not a Hollywood movie will keep her man one that is nice to her and treats her with value and admiration will end up growing old together with a life long companion that has spent his life showing her how much he loves her and has taken care of her. Life is not a stupid Discovery Chanel nature documentary, the fact that men are reduced to Alpha and Beta males is offensive we all have moments of great courage, strength, anger, weakness, sadness etc. If women want an insensitive, emotionally absent, narcissistic douche bad boy, go visit prisons, they have thousands of these types there.

[@ThanosRiddler]

Leaving in a dream fem-centric world..go show her how much you love her all day and come back to report..you dont have to be a douchbag man..you just have to understand the intergener relationships...your kind of opinion is what makes Corey here having to make 3000 videos and lots of money...

[@commonmanv.3257]

Thanos Riddler but the statement that "women who choose douches end up alone" is 100% authentic. Karma will hunt everyone down.

[@sasusan1]

Idiot

[@Rekke_yt]

It's not about woman not appreciating men being kind and generous. It's about physiological attraction, you don't have a choice if you feel attracted or not. If a male displays weakness and is ultimately a beta male, even if he is incredibly nice and generous, it won't matter because on a primal level he is a weak, unattractive man that can't protect her or make her feel safe and comfortable, and she will want to look elsewhere and find a man that can. By the way, you don't need to be an inconsiderate narcissist to be a confident alpha male ... A man can be confident , sure of himself and live his life with abundance while still being a caring and compassionate man. This whole anti masculinity movement is a fallacy as it goes against basic human evolution and physiology.

[@zardozthehammer2023]

"Girls break rules for Alphas Girls make more rules for Betas"

[@cherryblossom9226]

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@cherryblossom9226]

@@blair5475 Absolutely!!!!!!

[@AhmedAldoori]

"She's become my best friend" followed by that hilarious sigh had me laughin out loud

[@rogernkosi8420]

I replayed that 10X... ahahahhahhahahaha

[@CameronBaileyQuote]

Ahmed Aldoori me too. Lol!

[@WalidFeghali]

Yo Ahmed fun to see you here. Love your drawing stuff ;)

[@knowledgecopes7714]

I use to be "the nice guy"toward everyone that close friends n even family members would just walk over me.it's like the minute I transform or show I say activate the alpha that was in me my level of respect became bigger then life.old enemies even developed fear and wanted no problems

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

It's your birthright Bro, enjoy!

[@rockinron4725]

Wished I had followed all your advice dozens of years ago. I'm now in my late middle age and have finally got it from the relationship school of hard knocks! Cheers, Ron.

[@camman6912]

Rockin' Ron I’m there with you I finally cut loose people including my ex-wives yes ex-wives like this but I should have learned the first time

[@johnparsons6231]

Low hanging fruit won't get us far for long. Completely agree that a goal of what is deserved should be priority. Settling for less will result in a negative situation with a high likelihood for an unsustainable relationship. NEEDED to hear this. THANK YOU.

[@therealflamelit]

Im 6'1" flat abs,own business and handsome(so im told by many women)..I white knighted a average homely country woman thinking she would be lower maintenance more appreciative of having a good(and good looking)man and more trustworthy than a super hot model type...boy,was I wrong...she treats me as if i shot her dog sometimes for no reason...

[@therealflamelit]

***** I never used looks to get ahead with anybody in my life, even though Ive been told I was handsome all the time...thats shallow.. the profile pics I choose are for comedic effect....

[@Marcara081]

+Take this L;Ron Hubbard All women are shallow. If you don't like shallowness but want a relationship I've got bad news for you.

[@therealflamelit]

***** my personality is fine , Im told :) ..I actually have never had much of a problem interacting with women, sh'e the only one to ever act like i wasnt good enough to be with her..this is a average looking woman who was living with her illegitmate child,her mom & brother when we met. acting towards me like Im not good enough for her lol ..im not obsessed,I just dont wanna be fat lol

[@lifebydesignstudioproductions]

You’re a big role model, and I just saw the last comment. So freaking cool. Im 22 now. You’ve changed my life, and continue too. Thanks Coach.

[@retrorocker3337]

Dear Coach Corey, I haven't replied much to your videos because I'm still taking in all of the info - I am fascinated with human behavior and you are confirming what I have known for a long time but I appreciate you going the extra mile to tell us how to pull it all together and put it into practice. I admire the fact that unlike other dating coaches that think they are the shit, you have the humility to share your life experiences in hopes that you may help us all avoid those mistakes. To all the nice guys out there myself included - You can be nice, but you need to understand that being "nice/kind" and saying "yes" are not necessarily the same thing - The girl may think she knows what she wants, but you have to give her what she NEEDS (If she treats you like shit, guess what? Her actions have consequences!) Corey's example about his "friend" doing $16,000-$17,000 worth of damage to his precious car he worked so hard to get could not be more POWERFUL. If you let people walk all over you throughout your life, YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW BAD IT CAN GET....It can always get worse!!

[@lovemecom3832]

You can never go wrong with nice people but the thing is it makes them look boring. Sometimes you just have to show your hard side in order to gain respect and authority because too much kindness will make people abusive.

[@albertderek]

Omg, I can't believe how similar we are Corey. Same experience. Thanks to share your stories. It makes me feel better. And work about it.

[@Raptor44256]

So what you are saying is being a human doormat beta-male is a bad thing? You don't say. Being a decent guy is different than being a "Nice Guy". Be decent to people, but the reason these alpha males are able to use people is because they can. Stop being a doormat, stop letting people use you.

[@UltraTribes]

I wouldn't want to be with a girl that doesn't accept me for being a 'nice guy'. I am nice and respectful to everyone unless they give me a reason not to. I'm not pushy, I don't talk down to anyone, and I don't go out of my way to make others feel like a lesser person for no reason. In my opinion, that's what makes a good person, and a good person deserves to be with another good person.

[@UltraTribes]

@Classic It's too bad that people like me don't belong in society. Apparently, I think and act the opposite of what is considered normal, therefore I am not desired by women, and not respected by men. What's the point of even being here?

[@UltraTribes]

I've done over a hundred hours of research. Trust me, I know. All I can tell you is that confidence doesn't just fall out of the sky. I've spent my whole life sheltered from society, doing whatever my parents tell me to do. I was never taught how to provide a life for myself. You don't just flip a switch and recover from that.

[@TiramoanaTaia]

I lot of young girls equate the word "nice guy" to mean a pushover, weak winded, defenceless etc. Even though that may not be necessarily true, it's what they do. It's good that you're nice, respectful etc. Don't be a pushover though, pushovers is what most girls fear in guys (trust me I'm a girl, I definitely know). You can still be nice/respectful etc, but the number 1 thing a majority of girls check for is their ability to stand up for themselves, take control etc.

[@UltraTribes]

I'm really not sure what you mean by that. In what way would I be a push over? Like, them telling me to buy a bunch of shit for them or what? I want a nice girl that isn't going to try to maliciously manipulate me. Not that I'd get sucked into that to begin with. I'm not a push over, I just don't know how to be social. Being nice means not treating people like garbage. I try to explain this to people, but they just don't understand that I've literally never spoken to a random girl before.

[@TiramoanaTaia]

+UltraTribes What I'm saying by pushover is, that girls generally don't want somebody they can walk all over. They want the man to be a man, a lot of girls confuse nice to equal weak (even though that's not true) Pushover can mean anything, like you guys both want to go to a different place for dinner, and so without hesitation you 'side' with her just because you don't want to hear backlash about why you're 'wrong'. I wasn't saying you're a pushover, I was just saying make sure you aren't a pushover because that generally turns girls away.

[@CarlosTManatee]

I was in a friendship with a girl for a long time that I had romantic feelings for, but we had connected when I was getting over a 10-year relationship and my confidence was at an all time low. so, i friendzoned myself. then when i finally brought it up, she told me she didn't even notice it. see? nice guys finish last.

[@ibnishakhafiz]

New fan; man, what have I missed from this awesome coach and channel! Got into a rship with a woman who gave me a real fight to love her; followed your advice videos and I managed her just fine! In fact, she's behaving exactly like you're saying and I do as you say, voila! She's not as hard to love as she seems out to be. Thanks coach corey!

[@TH-cq7bj]

man o man. This one hits home. 2020 no more Mr. Nice Guy

[@zetar87]

Power comes from accepting your weakness NOT by trying to cover them with fake confidence . YES MEN ACCEPT TO BE WEAK ! ACCEPT YOUR WEAKNESS !!! And fuck who doesn't accept you the way you are .

[@frankdees507]

Exactly, if you are honest about weakness, you will desire to be a different person, and facilitate change

[@fitlife1205]

Frank Dees lol great advice don't accept it & live with it fucking change it

[@leone41ll]

not so much accepting but being aware of them without them affecting you negatively. That's power.

[@SM-zr4nc]

Hi All, There is an amazing book that tackles the nice guy syndrome indepth- it's called "no more mr nice guy" by Dr. Glover. It starts with childhood- an overbearing mother coupled with a abscent, passive or abusive father. This creates the conditions for the nice guy. The mother connects her "emotional hose" up to the son, resulting in a unnatural lean towards the feminine. There is also a shame filled environment of blame which results in the need to seek approval and wanting to always "smooth things out". Nice guys often lie a lot as they feel the need to hide a lot of flaws or things they think might result in shame or blame or disapproval from a partner . The book also dives into- breaking free activities like learning to say no, gaining more male friends...and so on.. It's a must read as the truth is the nice guy syndrome impacts career success, friendships, dating, sense of self etc. Truly life changing. (Its on audible)

[@tetsuokima6259]

Dude... This is so depressing. It's hard to even want to learn how to win when the shame of losing for so long has ingrained itself into you. Eventually you just force yourself to accept it and move on. Even though the urges are still there it's nothing you can do about it because you know the end results. It just seems like a waste of time because at some point the expectation has changed. It's no longer optimism but, pessimism. It's no longer a feeling of excitement like a birthday present but, a feeling of annoyance like being stuck in traffic. You don't really have a choice to be there but, you have to wait it out because it's going to end eventually. You feel trapped in a biological pattern you wish would go away. Then the hate comes. Then the anger and passive aggressive behavior from the past hurt. It's just better to avoid all the pain and walk than keep taking the same road because you are too stubborn to change who you are. No... Because you are too stubborn to accept what you would have to let go of to get what you always wanted. It's become apart of you. The shame has made you what you are today. And as sick as it sounds, you like it. It didn't reject you. It didn't use you. You and it are one. You think it has made you stronger. When the truth is that it's just a bandage you refuse to take off. Even though you have healed. Because... Because you don't want to face the scar it left behind. Because you want to keep pretending you are perfect and nothing is wrong. Because you are afraid. I don't know if I'm done being afraid. Even though I know there is nothing to fear. I'm just not done hiding. My strength is my fear.

[@christopherurso7736]

That was deep as fuck unlike my response +1

[@tetsuokima6259]

+Christopher Urso It's like we become the person we wish we were before all the rejections and embarrassing attempts. Sometimes, that person would have never wasted their time in the first place. All those years spent thinking about ultimately fruitless efforts. It's infuriating and insulting to acknowledge the fact that that hobby you started once you quit would have already been mastered. All that money wasted could have gotten actual assets instead of gratitude money shots (thanks for the free food/drink but...) from mental hj's on someone's ego.

[@liggmabawls5634]

i feel you dude .

[@tetsuokima6259]

+Laurel Anderson I disagree with your opinion however, I respect your right to have one. Since, I never elaborated on what I meant by 'urges' your entire claim(retort??) is baseless. Even if I was referring to sexual topics my narrative was in reference to the actual video. Not your subjective opinion. I hope you will take this as a lesson to pay attention to the source material prior to commenting on it. To do the contrary is foolish, narcissistic and presumptuous. Thanks for your time and happy holidays.

[@ishidacoolp]

This gave me the feels. The way you write, you should be an author. You painted this very vivid picture. And other people and I can feel the emotions you are conveying in this comment so well. Most of us can relate to you. Thank you for that.

[@invincibleunderdog8156]

Most definitely one of Corey's better videos, very true and more that relate-able... Everybody knows and hates that guy that asks favors and ends up screwing up others lives and yet never is capable of taking any accountability! One of the key things is "integrity", at the end of the day chics with little to know integrity will do or same damn near anything to their advantage... Often times just to keep you or other dudes around and feed their own insecurities meanwhile looking down upon you as a sucker for falling for it. Sometimes being able to finally realize and see this is the clarity you need, if you don't act upon it is your own bad business.

[@lifebydesignstudioproductions]

Haven't been here on a bit, but I recommend you to everyone coach, much love

[@REDe4AKSHON]

"You're getting fucked but not getting fucked!" That's fuckery! Lol

[@whitemax5372]

LMAO !

[@CameronBaileyQuote]

My father and Coach Corey has the same attitude. Outspoken And funny. My father says he wish I was more like him but I'm a bit more shy due to my Mom passing as a child...left me introverted.

[@TheBigyiin]

This video was full of brilliant advice and hilarious at the same time. I really enjoy your Brutal honesty when giving advice.

[@socialpiratekeyboardwarrio6546]

Mr Wayne sir your a goat to all men on how to find marriage material but most people don't think they need to be able quote your book that takes 10 to 15 times to absorb and be thankful you found this out less single parent families bless your work bud from Ireland luck of the Irish to you

[@klevdavful]

Spot on women express what they feel in the moment it's up to you for your part to recognize patterns of moments that don't add up to what you as a man will put up with and then just remove yourself from being around her completely.

[@ralphtijtgat3233]

'emotional tampon' holy shit lmfao also, everything this guy said here is totally right on

[@TheMightyJ95]

He sent her “inappropriate messages” and then she hooked up with him.. Sounds like they were very appropriate messages 😄

[@zinc381]

I was way to much of a nice guy with the last two women I dated. Submitted to them, pursued them to heavily ect...I got friend zoned and that didn't work...Until I started watching Corey's vids I had know idea why a nice guy like me got dumped. Well now I know...

[@Moonshine1147]

It's all biology! Humanity still got these "Alpha" genes, which ultimately result in what we know of todays society. This is why most women prefer the "alpha" / "bad boy" instead of being in love with a true "nice guy", who'd at least love her unconditionally no matter what flaws she might have. (That's what she said... =) ) Blame our ancestors and the extreme form of feminism, that has taken part in the last 60 years, for changing the norms so that the average normal guy of today resembles a fuckin "fifth choice" (if he's lucky... XD)!!! *NOT all women are "conditioned" to their genetics though!!!!!!! As i've seen many average couples having a serious relationship filled with commitment and passion. The biggest problem is that the media, which has a big effect on the majority of people, kind of manipulates our subconsciousness into believing that the way how society acts and lives nowadays is the written dogma. A unchangeable law. It's contraproductive to humanity imho!!!

[@ursamajor5234]

I used to be nice but 3 years ago I met someone who had gave me hell. He turned the whole class against me and took my only friend away from me but one day I snapped due to teachers chastising me for my project and a classmate who was laughing like it was so funny and honestly I still gain no respect. Someone hits you hit em back cause if you don't might as well be treated with no respect

[@randomrealistictone2231]

How are you doing now.?

[@ursamajor5234]

PARAMOTH not better

[@randomrealistictone2231]

Urso Minar Man I hope it gets better for you.

[@ursamajor5234]

PARAMOTH me too

[@gr8guy900]

guys misunderstand the difference between a gentleman and a nice guy

[@Curiousnessify]

lol @ ur name

[@makleborum937]

meacomefeyou gentlemen do something because he belief its a right thing to do not doing it for validation. Also gentlemen is not a pussy.

[@owenmadondo3099]

Thanks!!! @Makle Borum

[@Orgizo08]

Gr8 Guy so true!! Nice guys are fake, which is why girls don’t like them. Nice guys will act nice because they expect sex in return, not because they’re actually nice. Gentlemen treat women with respect, but know they’re not a doormat. They hold themselves to a high standard in every way.

[@rachidbezzaz8785]

Hollywood bullshit!

[@RodrigoBorgia]

FANTASTIC video...I was sitting here, laughing and really enjoying this video. Your comments, kind of intepretation of these stories, that straight way of telling what it´s to be...enlightening! 1st I was thinking "Ok, another nice therapist with smart attitude and online understanding...."but this here is indeed enfreshing, enlightening,... Thank you for that!

[@zoruauser]

This partially has to do with the woman's own immaturity, and you as the man's inability to get what you want out of the relationship. Communication is key, if you can't communicate and read her efficiently, then of course you're going to get friendzoned. Because she doesn't even recognize you're interested in her, in some cases you're unawaringly REJECTING her. Some women are mature enough to pick up on even the subtlest of signs, most aren't

[@damonrjoseph3012]

People treat you how you allow them to.

[@CoachCoreyWayne]

Thank you! You are spot on!

[@SimonWells69]

I had a friend like that too. He took me for granted and wiped his arse with me. What i learned from that is look after No 1. To toughen up and take no shit from fuckbags.

[@ArgentPure]

Lotus Espirit is a beautiful car!

[@jakehunter3434]

I can't believe he just let someone else borrow it.

[@augustayarteh7524]

Nice one cocah, nice girls too they dont get the respect that they desever because of neative things or reasons. Is not nice guys only Dont get respect nice wonderful women too is the same thing that is affecting them that a bad sydrom powerful video to hear.

[@NFS305]

Favorite episode thus far! On point and such a boss. Thanks for the real life advice.

[@NFS305]

Wow I commented on this 6 years ago! This stuff works but there are definitely seasons of abundance and scarcity. The interesting aspect is when I’m feeling great I tend to get less and when I’m lot more women reach out but I worry they would want to be with someone who is feeling a bit down. 🤷🏼‍♂️

[@keithferrell7406]

Nowadays you can't be nice anymore. If so the nice guy will get treated like crap and get no respect.

[@danodendaal4572]

Grab your kahoonas and be a man. Dont get jerked around. Big shoutout to Coach Corey. Man, i cant thank you enough. Your advise took me on a journey and helped me grow into a confident, successful alpha male. Ive landed the woman of my dreams. Easy, effortless and we constantly communicate effectively. Thanks bro. #lifechanged

[@IzzyPerezCycling]

I was having somewhat of a bad couple of days with this girl I had just met and noticing a bit of distance from her I started watching your vids & definitely feel a lot better. Thanks for this mate! P.D you’re hilarious too lol

[@alistairproductions]

No one is "the one" for anyone. Lmao!

[@barbatvs8959]

Projection. Hasty generalization fallacy.

[@bahaatamer1245]

I learned that recently the hard way! - it's all about game, how you handle your frame and how you deal with her emotions and shit (which you should be walking away from anyway!).

[@Neptunianist]

I can decide whether to agree or disagree. I'm definitely a classic nice guy; put myself second, don't think I deserve to be listened to, let someone else get what I want if that someone else wants it. Deferential. But. I've got a gorgeous girlfriend, a top (3%) job and a small circle of good friends. But I don't feel I deserve respect even if I get it. I usually act like I don't. Maybe that's the key. Feeling I deserve it.

[@chrismais]

There is a difference a big ONE between being polite and being a doormat. Polite is like saying have a nice weekend. Being a doormat is making a steak dinner for her with candlelight at your home. A hired guitarist playing a slow romantic love song. And she spits out the steak saying this meat is moo cow blue just like your balls are going to be.. as she walks out while texting her man on the side.

[@loslucky]

Some of this is so funny and painful only because I can relate so much. Red pilled life is so much better! Wake up brothas!

[@ninjanick84]

Things are going well for me with my Roomate thanks to your book and my inner self coming out. Thank you so much, I will keep my head on a swivel and keep checking her interest level.

[@justinh9103]

rollin on the floor corey. you nail the typical nice guy. so funny!

[@arod8596]

I came to his work because my desire to get my ex back, I made all the mistakes typical clueless men make, enough of them to drive a great girl out of my life, used logic, was not a good listener, always tried to find solutions for all her problems. And then to put the iseing on the cake I annoyed the shit out of her when she told me that it was over, looking back she really gave her all into our relationship, I can't say she did not, she had low self esteem and made some mistakes such as I did, but she was the best girl I had so far, treated me well like her man, respected me and genuinely cared for me. I bought your book and I came to the realization that I was to much of a nice guy not only with my exs but at work also. I have always been the 'go to guy' or should I say go to bitch, when someone needs something done or someone of a higher rank but still the same job type just feels lazy to do something. I've been the guy that takes up the task.. after all this I knew that I had to change... Been listening and reading and learning... and applying what I learn to work, and its made me so far a heck of a lot more respected, people don't come to me with silly requests or give me smart comments and if I ask them to do something for me they do it with out much issue. They trust my leadership and drive. I got a lot more to learn from you, to kill the rest of this shy nice guy bullshit that is left in me. My set of balls are definitely growing... thanks for everything Corey.

[@bigophilip2897]

This guy is hilarious 🤣🤣🤣. And yes, everything he says is on point.

[@hayday9224]

What u want is the way u used to feel that's deep,

[@andyestrada229]

24.52 is Freakin Classic!, sorry Bro but your expression was killin it.. But in all seriousness, Thanks for these videos and I am glad I found your site here

[@flameout12345]

i love how Corey rolls his eyes, drop his jaw and the most of all the silent after hearing a sick line.

[@JohnDoe-dt3by]

I’ve stood up for my self but girls don’t take me serious n walk away.

[@mildchaos6037]

Then they can fuck off

[@Kickback-dm7zt]

Even though this video is 8 years old it's STILL relevant TODAY.

[@btp7259]

Corey everything that you are saying is so true. I find it funny, come over my place bring a bottle of wine" I am so using that one. lol

[@jellyboy123]

you know when you talked about your younger self you remind me of my nephew he's so god damn nice. I want to slap him sometime. His gf smashed his i phone 6 against the wall and he took her back omg!!! he needs your help.

[@sarfay1]

Although nice guys might not get the best looking chic in the world, they get the best chic in the world. Why? Only the best girls will love them truly and hence they get the best girls.

[@sarfay1]

You said no because you don't understand what I am saying.

[@eltoro1768]

Unfortunately best girls are going extinct

[@1960HikerDude]

I know from very personal experience. That simply does not work. What you're really doing is settling. You WILL be taken advantage of and discarded.

[@loqueando666]

Francis Au Yeung Bruh your living in a fantasy world that shit doesen't happen.

[@principlemethods5281]

sounds like someone's livin in fairy tale land

[@baldheaddatingjerk5301]

Most guys mix up "being nice" with "being idiots". Tread your girl as if she was you homie, add up a little romantic stuff here n then & (to quote Xzibit) "make sure it's the one you gonna make your wife". Everything else follows automatically.

[@MikeNewland]

Essentially you can't be friends with them. Bloody awful then!

[@MAYWEATHERFLOW]

Me and my girl are going through a separation stage..We have a 1 year old child together and we had a bad argument over things she felt I wasn't accomplishing towards home chores and it got really bad. I try to help as much as I can but she doesn't do anything to meet my needs so I packed up and left. She takes me for granted but since I packed she has been crying a lot and I know it hurt bad..and leaving hurt me also. I don't know how long I should keep this distance..

[@CarlosTManatee]

don't call her! let her chase YOU. and when she does reach out to you, invite her to do hang out, have fun, and hook up

[@alphaa.a5644]

I have a friend, who is exactly like the guy you described that wrecked your car.

[@Ataensic]

Yeah, nice guys aren't really nice, they're dudes who lack the backbone to stand up for themselves & the cojones to make a move. Women give you a small window of opportunity to prove you're a man & not a mouse. If you don't put your beaver basher in her, or your foot down, at the appropriate moment, she'll put you in the category of insignificant rodent scurrying beneath her floorboards.

[@devinkimmel1619]

This guy always makes me feel better

[@CroPETROforeverNBA]

Corey if I only listened to you when you published this video back in 2013 when I had 28... I wish.

[@midwest_trucker8638]

Thank you so much man you're videos and books have changed my life.

[@kevin7431]

"Beat up her pelvis" LMAO

[@Blodia1990]

I keep track of all of coach's friends and cannot wait to learn more about his past

[@Majorhavoktv]

It seems that Corey's ex best friend has a lot of narcissistic tendencies.

[@rowsdower12]

This must be about me. Well the standing up for myself I'm better at, not just with girls but in general.

[@dntueva]

just found you on KZbin here think you have a lot of interesting information. thanks for doing these videos

[@jomoody798]

another nice guy

[@steveclare116]

Hi Corey... RE: When women say "I love you" etc... its TRUE..... but it only applies IN THAT MOMENT.... I believe turnabout is fair play.... If a guy says to a girl I will provide for you [provisioning, etc] at say a wedding.... Can he turn around and say " Its True... but that only applied IN THE MOMENT" -- not after 12 years of marriage that either (or both of us) are contemplating divorce.... You've spoken favorable of men in the service... can they go back and say after enlisting [or re-enlisting] that my vow to serve for X # of years was sincere -- but ONLY APPLIED in the moment..... Aren't women fully formed adults responsible for their actions including verbal commitments vows pledges and promises.... or children who have orafices we desire and thus get a special pass to run on emotions -- and do shit that would NEVER BE TOLERATED by a man?!

[@erics670]

Never lend money to friends or family. Basically free money for them.

[@vanessaleetroy7306]

Nice guys don’t deserve respect for acting the way decent people are supposed to!! They act like women owe them attention for being nice! Tired of being treated like I should drop Sex because they dropped Kindness Coins into me……

[@fitnessgurugt7763]

I catch myself either being too nice or too alpha. And I attract real beautiful women like 9s 10 every once in a while . So I guess it’s just really mastering keeping keep your head on a swivel and not getting in your feelings too soon. That’s all. It’s the slip ups. It’s crazy but yeah you get more respect when you treat them like they’re just another option Lol

[@acs197]

The first story @ 8:48 is very similar to something I experienced. I felt like such an idiot. Haven't dated since :/

[@anthonyporter414]

acs197 yo fuck that step up man

[@acs197]

Much easier said than done. When all your adult life, women have seen you as just a friend, because you're too empathetic and kind. I don't want to change who I am, but I don't know how to be with women if I stay the same, either. It's a conundrum.

[@freecreator6426]

I have the same dilemma : Why should I change myself just to be suitable with a girl? , but after thinking i found an answer: You must change yourself only if you see that you'll become better independently, only if YOU are convinced of the necessity of changing your way of seeing things. I hope my opinion helps you

[@ishidacoolp]

YES!!! This is my problem also. Do I change my personality, become the bad boy/asshole just to get girls? Or do I hold onto my morals and never get laid and always get used. I've only been in love once and it was very short. The girl was beautiful, smart and passionate, but she did treat me like a doormat. Hindsight is 20/20.

[@CharlesAdeyemiO]

Coach corey rocks

[@macioluko9484]

@0:25 Never a shortage of nice guys out there. CCW did well to structure his business around an area in the market where the demand is endless... @2:24 So a dude that makes $30 000/set needs money to get into a basic apartment?! I love how humble Corey is. Notice how he would never make this kind of mistake again.

[@ishidacoolp]

This was one of Corey's best videos.

[@mrtruthhurts2307]

Women love men who have balls

[@junkviewer]

I'd rather hear "honey I don't love you anymore" rather than "dude , I wrecked your car" :P

[@margaretbatson83]

Anyone can be a nice guy, even a bad guy in disguise as a nice guy. Women want a good man, with good morals and is nice. It's very hard to find a very nice guy these days that has good morals , values and genuinely is a good guy. My husband is a very blunt guy he's not nicey nice, he smokes, and not sure on how he is with his values .

[@princediamond85]

And yet still your husband

[@alcudiababe1]

i knew this one lad when i was about 18. We laughed and joked at our work and i was sure we saw each other as friends, i thought so but i was never good at reading behind any lines, subtuly is not my best skill, if someone likes me they need to come out and tell me and i can adjust myself to them and decide what to tell them. Anyway, so then i dated this other fella, he was charming and full of himself - i was with him for six months just about. Afterwards this other guy comes back on the scene and i wasnt ready to date let alone let him touch or hug me because the other guy had abused me so i kept squirting my body spray in good humour to stop him getting so close - i didnt wanna tell him to back off until i had to, but he was there for me and i thought we were good friends until he said that he liked me. He was quite overweight and he wasnt someone who i would date and go out with - i told him i did not feel the same way and told him he was a friend. And i knew he was struggling with that but he still wanted to hang out with me and we'd eat out and meet in the town, we'd make each other laugh and talk for ages and slowly i found that i did like him back but was embarresed to tell him. He was overweight as i say and it didnt bother me before up until then - so i told him, and then we met up and dated privatly but he was someone who i felt comfortable with and i needed that, i felt if push came to shove id be the one defending him - not that he wouldnt defend me, i doubt that hed let me get hurt but hed get beaten up pretty bad - because he was never a fighter. Esp because he told me that some young lads threw his glasses on the train tracks at birmingham, and told me that he went on the rails to go and get them!! If i was there id have not let him get on those tracks, i would have pinned him back with all my strength and id have shouted at those boys proper id have got really angry im not always great at defending myself but when its someone i care about.... I told him that could have cost him his life that a train could have been only coming the other way and all he said was those are my only glasses and i needed to be able to see!!

[@alcudiababe1]

i will say with this guy and i liked him, we did kiss and do other stuff but not enough to have sex with him. And i remember going on holiday with him and his mom and sister and his mom thought it was a great idea for him to sleep in her room so we didnt get up to any funny buisness - so i was sharing with his sister big mistake that was towards the end of the week, his sister was the dealbreaker. But he did think he was going to get it on the one night and he bought some condoms i saw him push them into his pocket earlier on and as soon as i saw them i told myself that wasnt going to happen, anyway he came to my room all in a panic late that night. Hed only dropped the condoms in front of his mom. So i went into the other room trying to fix the situation, i cared about him i really did but i felt like saying to his mom im never going to sleep with your son. And even after the holiday and i broke it off we always remained friends but he needed to be able to get to a place to do that, but it was possible - we led our own lives and it was a couple of years ago i found that hed passed away. My mom thought it was because if his size. I was told on that day he was going to propose to someone but he collapsed inthe town and went into a coma. And its no bulshit. And although we dated but i still really cared about him as a friend, and i was never guna see him munching on a sausage roll in town. I did care.

[@ewi30114]

wtf did i just read

[@t-rizzle0509]

+Elliott Lee hahaha

[@brianalonso8747]

Story too long BRUH!

[@commonmanv.3257]

alcudiababe1 friendzone leve 1000. Lol. I would have asked you to pay for the outings and throw you out of my house.

[@shadowdark7395]

Great advice corey thanks

[@randybfap]

home town palm beach 🌴

[@damonrjoseph3012]

Most women (DON'T) want no nice guy now I (DIDN'T) say they want I guy to beat them and be cruel to them