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[@AnthonyRecenello]

I’m excited to put out this new series that I’ll be doing weekly where I coach subscribers on anything related to relationships, human behavior, and self help. Do you have any suggestions for what I could do to improve the series? Lemme know in the comments. I’m starting off simple and can improve as I go. I’m so appreciative you’re here cuz this is what I’m most passionate about. And if you’re interested in getting coached by me for free in either NYC or LA, tap the link in the description to apply!

[@autumngoodwin5830]

Can you do this mindset with meeting friends? Because I’m in a healthy relationship but now I have been struggling for YEARS finding friends, would be awesome to make videos about that as well as, maybe if somewhere in your guidance with someone you can mention that can work for finding friends as well. And can you explain the ping with friendship? THANKYOU!

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Of course! Social skills are universal. Doesn’t matter if for dating, friends, or business. Thank YOU for watching.

[@lovwwiebummy]

SAMEEEE!!!

[@unselfishcefamandole6722]

Literally in the same boat

[@SennaiDB]

Wow, this is free. Now imagine what the course would look like. I'm 16 so I don't have the money but I would defo check it out if I could. Thanks for helping the youth.

[@danikamoses3288]

Hey Anthony, loved the conversational content. It felt like a podcast in nature. Since you’re so good at having conversations, for future content, it would be nice if you spoke on how to actually hold one. As adults it’s a skill we’re expected to just have, but as an introvert myself, speaking to other people isn’t so easy. And in order to build relationships, thats a skill that’s needed.

[@amber.ren_1995]

Yeah I’ve never done dating apps. I don’t care for them. I like going out and meeting people and it just feels safer for me. When neither one of you knows you’re looking for each other and just happen to come across them out and about. And something about them stands out so you go up to them or they come up to me. And then just start talking and go from there. I love the more organic way. I’ve never pondered too long on someone once I notice they’re not showing as much interest in me as I am in them then yeah I just keep moving cuz we don’t got time to waste lol I got 1 life and I’m not about to waste it constantly wondering why they won’t call/text me back. 💚💚💚 Love your video this is a great idea btw! Good luck. 🍀 ❤️😊

[@AnthonyRecenello]

I love the thoughtful commenting Amber. Plz lemme know more of what you’d like to see in future vlogs

[@RealIvy1]

so excited for this vid.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Plz lemme know ur thoughts it’s the first episode and I’m gonna be improving as I go

[@CelestialCookies]

I LOVE this format. Your passion for helping people with socializing and connecting shines through. You're in the flow and it's beautiful to see. It's also very comforting to see how present you are and how genuinely interested in hearing what the other person has to say. It led me to feel comfortable writing this long comment lol. Your guests were so charming too! As for suggestions, I have a couple but idk if they're any good: - Dividing the Vlog into sections by broad themes. The free flowing convo is amazing, so I don't think it needs to be restricted to broad themes but while editing adding some divisions could help people feel less lost and to have some sort of anchor. - Subtitles might help people focus more. It's something I noticed on Tiktok, and when watching movies I find myself looking for subtitles, even when I don't need them. I'll watch this series regardless of what the editing looks like, honestly because the content is solid. I don't have a mentor or a friend who's very good at socialising to copy or to get advice from, so thank you so much for doing what you're doing on KZbin, Anthony! I hope your channel keeps on growing and that your healthy way of looking at connection and gender roles and relationships reaches more and more people 🤍

[@AnthonyRecenello]

My birthday is in a few hours so this comment was especially special to me. I’m gonna add timestamps to the videos to break it up for now. And I was debating subtitles, but for now I think I’ll just put them in the Shorts versions of the vlog, as I’m breaking up the entire thing into little bits that way.

[@CelestialCookies]

@@AnthonyRecenello Aw happy birthday!

[@silvazander5507]

This is so great! Thank you! It’s very helpful 🙏

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks so much! Be sure to let me know any improvements you’d like to the vlog

[@silvazander5507]

I really thought it was great cause it’s so natural and realistic when you’re outside with them talking and giving advice. I also think you have great advice and love how you can make it simple and both show and tell what you mean I find that very helpful! I think this is one of my favorite series you have so far because it is so human centered and natural and I can tell you are interested and care about it and have a lot of knowledge! I will think about if I have any suggestions for improvements for now I think it’s great! 😊

[@AnthonyRecenello]

@@silvazander5507 woo I’m so glad. I’ll keep em coming as long as you guys keep coming to meet me in nyc

[@silvazander5507]

@@AnthonyRecenello I’m excited to see more! I’m in New Zealand now but if I’m ever in New York I’d love to! I’ll let you meet other New Yorkers for now 😄

[@Naytone]

I'm laughing at the pinging segment but at the same time it's really fun to see those interactions broken down. Love the vids, dude.

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Thanks! What did you find funny about it I forget what happened

[@Naytone]

@@AnthonyRecenello I think I was just reflexively laughing at the progressive touching and moving closer. It's probably kinda like, "This could be awkward IRL but I'm really enjoying it."

[@AnthonyRecenello]

lol I see now

[@frenchbully]

@@AnthonyRecenellofound that part very insightful

[@sallymaeee_]

Awesome job ladies! Awesome coach! I randomly came across your videos and I appreciate the insight. My social time is the gym, bike trails or church. I feel like all those are pretty tricky settings. Anthony, I say you come to the gym with me and help me apply these skills. Ok I’m joking but that would be a cool video idea. Maybe? Go with a subscriber and live coach them discreetly? Anyway, I’m going to keep watching and maybe I’ll work up the courage to put this into practice. I’ll update you if I do lol.

[@mininimi9203]

Yeeiyy 😊

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hope u like!

[@francescoesposito212]

love from italy, just wow

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hiiii

[@j.arielbonilla]

Very interesting ✨

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Glad ur here Ms Bonilla

[@fettm17]

I love your videos, you’re one of my favorite KZbinrs! You seem so genuine in what you do and authentically yourself. Thank you for sharing your knowledge to the world ❤

[@AnthonyRecenello]

@@fettm17 comments like this make me keep releasing vids 🤘🏻❤️🙏🏻

[@lathemvanguard283]

Hi, I just finished your communication course on skill share. It was amazing! I was wondering if you could do something on how to flirt. Or do you see flirting as making them laugh by bending their reality, and using pinging/getting closer, touching, and telling them that your interested. Are there other aspects like teasing?

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Hey! If you do everything in this course, you’ll be a master flirter. Teasing and stuff is extra but I’m big on perfecting the basics. Basics are what makes someone incredible. Usually people want to try the tricks before they’re good at foundations.

[@SupremeCheenis]

The focus on the basics is a really good way to go and I figure Anthony picks up on this instinctually/intuitively, but the reason all of the things you mentioned are signals for attraction emerge from human instincts, they may be shaped a bit by culture but flirting didn't start from someone who thought it up arbitrarily. Working on the framework is what makes the flirting authentic to you, and attempting to adopt a pick-up-artist's "tactics" will only display as inauthentic and unnatural because they come from the rational side of the brain, not the irrational/intuitive/emotional (you find love on that side!).

[@AnthonyRecenello]

Exactly. And as you master the basics, you’ll naturally learn to expand on them through teasing, etc. but when it’s authentic to you instead of contrived. I picked up this stuff through a mix of studying friends, movies, and journaling my experiences for years to see how conversation and attraction naturally works.

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[@AnthonyRecenello]

Today or tomorrow