A Dating Coach - That Library Show

Step into the pages of romance with Chantal Heide in our cozy library interview! 📚 Tune in as she shares juicy dating tips, spices up the bedroom talk, and reveals secrets to finding your literary soul mate. Get ready for a storybook of love wisdom! 💕
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[@borabora169]

“she wasn’t into you, she was into her tip” is genuinely the funniest thing ive heard someone say about one of his rejections 😭😭😭

[@pween_]

his reply too 😭😭 the joke landed so well

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

LOL. Someone had to tell him!😂

[@borabora169]

@@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach! LOVE U GIRLIE 🫶🏼

[@wowoboo767]

OMG YESS

This took me out 🤣

[@andrewkoontz8206]

Derek really just calls people into a library and then trauma dumps on them

[@TDGCmote]

living the dreeeeaam

[@oConshien]

"...I'm gonna hate myself" "right, as you should" lmao Now That's What I Call Therapy, Volume 37

[@nperez4080]

New to this channel but im sold

[@poutinepack]

"do you know who else is uncomfortable with sharing?" "who? ...God?" "-toddlers." 😭😭😭

[@999danae]

not God lmaooo made me crack

[@mrryuk9208]

Put me in my play pin then

[@z3r0davi43]

I heard muscle man's voice for a sec

[@younghex9577]

10:58

[@therais50]

💀💀💀💀

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

Thanks fro having me! I enjoyed our chat!😊

[@floatingclouuds]

Loved you in this program, it was very insightful. Hope we can have you both again in another video 💗

[@emmafoley7413]

You’re my favorite so inspiring! Just bought one of your books (:

[@TDGCmote]

goated

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

@@emmafoley7413 love love love this!!

[@salem-li6ub]

we need more info on negotiating farting!! (just kidding but I absolutely loved this interview, your advice was amazing)

[@camiys9597]

lovee her saying “boys are easy” while side eyeing the camera

[@Juston-tz8zi]

Girls are too just not as easy as boys

[@c2pcake738]

Rich Amiri - One Call

[@Kate-pl6ho]

I BET IT MOVED BAHAHHAHH

[@otaku11bts23]

I’m so glad you caught that 😂

[@weedfanatic23]

literally what i scrolled down for 😭😭

[@K0dakHalfBlack]

I SCREAMED LMAO

[@uslph.]

immediately went to the comments 😂😂

[@jakebrowning2373]

15:50

[@Nuhcole]

“I would hate myself” “as you should” broooo 😂

[@cosmickisses]

10:32 not him writing elle's name in the captions 😭

[@elektrastanley9748]

i literally saw this😂😂

[@Rrrka11]

I knew he was talking about her, saw this comment and had to go back to check that 🤭 Aaawww que cute🫶🏼

[@Sokira14]

We allll see that 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ItsRegnier]

"so much baggage, they wouldn't let me on the plane" I felt that one deep down

[@TVC15ohoh]

It's a great line. And I'm stealing it.

[@breydbeauty7]

This needed to be an hour! She’s so good!

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

You're sweet! Thank you!!

[@aa-xy4hg]

huh..? she told her it's immature to not wanna SHARE your partner with other people 😭

[@wurst2952]

And that body count doesn’t matter cause who I did is not who I am. Yeeeeah if you did it with 900 people though I get a gist of what kind of person you are 💀

[@h.w.4482]

yeah her whole story of meeting her husband after 20 years of being a stripper story made me able to guess what her answers were gonna be before she said them, using like half of this stuff as advice is bad

[@TheLokee6]

@@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach Agreed! Please return to the show : )

[@karimareyes3992]

I truthfully love how casual this is. There’s literally no stupid questions because there are so many preconceived notions..and she is answering them by acknowledging where he is coming from and sincerely metin him where he is at in his sexual journey and insecurities then empower him through sound advice and Also deconstructing prior biases or notions. I wish my college sexual experience class was taught by this woman.

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

😃😍😍 Let's do it!

[@herewegoagain9619]

15:55 “i bet it moved” 😭

[@VideoGamePedia]

Mi shit moved with

[@skii1410]

It definitely moved 😂 I laughed for like 5 minutes at his reaction

[@EM-vk5rn]

not derek admitting he wants to date elle omg ❤

[@charliemiddleton1731]

I was gonna comment the same thing

[@33nbb19]

maybe not

[@chileferguson6978]

if you look at the CC's, when he says "she", it is CC'd as "elle" :') (10:37) @@33nbb19

[@akira1205]

Based on her Twitch, it seemed like she’s (Elle) with someone. There seems to be good chemistry between Derek and Elle, but don’t get stuck on her. I’ve been down a kind of similar situation (not OF, just a crush) and nothing really came of it. It was mostly infatuation on my part and a lack of options. Also, I agree with the Castle in the sky analogy. It’s what I went through in that same situation.

[@clarafernandes4590]

Yeah, right???

[@juliaaarmada]

HAHAHAH she said “10 second seizure”

[@amvg1008]

💀

[@Piasays]

She cooked this whole episode. 😮‍💨

[@IAmJxxb]

“Of course you wanna hop on for your 10 second seizure” this is a queen, and I need her on every episode 😂

[@alexsfc]

This is my favorite talk so far, she had witty responses and gave some good advice

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

Aw! Thank you!! I have some videos on my KZbin channel you might find helpful. 💖

[@lilturtle6143]

the fact that every video is a therapy for him is cute or like, a 'women's pov in life' class every dudes should learn btw

[@thathungrypanda4386]

What's the book about?

[@SusanVivian-g3l]

This intriguing video serves as a poignant reminder of the heartache I've been enduring since my 7 year relationship came to an end 4 months ago. My cherished partner, the love of my life, made the difficult decision to part ways, leaving me consumed by thoughts of him. Despite my earnest attempts to win him back, I find myself facing frustration and an overwhelming sense of emptiness, unable to envision a life without his presence. Despite my efforts to move on, I'm compelled to confess my lingering feelings and longing for him here.

[@JustinLouis-p1u]

The process of releasing a loved one can be an uphill battle. I can relate, having navigated a similar journey when my 8 year relationship dissolved. Despite the heartache, I refused to relinquish hope and embarked on a quest to win her back. Turning to a spiritual counselor for assistance, I found guidance that ultimately led to our reconciliation.

[@SusanVivian-g3l]

Impressive! How did you manage to connect with a spiritual counselor, and what's the process for me to reach out to her?

[@JustinLouis-p1u]

Allow me to introduce Suzanne Ann Walters, a highly skilled spiritual counselor known for her expertise in rekindling past relationships.

[@SusanVivian-g3l]

Thank you for this invaluable information; I've just checked her out online. Very impressive indeed!

[@Lukeormaybenath]

"Let me show you what I like" is incredibly powerful. Wow!

[@chlooooe]

Whoever typed your closed captions deserves a raise

[@drewm8848]

closed captions lowkey got me weak

[@kouiaz7452]

They’re so subtle but get me everytime

[@timothychaIamet]

"I BET IT MOVED" IS CRODONKULOUS I CANT

[@shampoo_bamboo9789]

5:45 The way Derek thinks about the question like it's actually a math problem

[@prod.kashkari3075]

LMFAOOOO

[@masterspork3735]

math is everything honestly

[@joetality5296]

This woman validated without overly praising, and is so well spoken and charismatic. She’s nice, knows this field to the T, confident in her words, and seems comfortable (truly comfortable) within herself. Her alone speaking cleared up a few worries in regards to myself and dating. Thank you Chantel :)

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

You're so welcome my Love!

[@divynemarie]

“I think you would send me down like a 6-month spiral” 😭😭😭😭😭

[@Nvsh07]

I wish it was longer. She was lovely❤

[@yoshikagekira4797]

thats what she said

[@ChrisPBacon-xn9up]

Not the first time I’ve heard that.

[@rubengarcia7790]

@@yoshikagekira4797heyyooooo

[@shailaprol6587]

This lady is so polite, so well put together. I come back to this video time and time again. She gives huge ASMR vibes

[@middlesaint]

this was the best episode yet. PLEASE bring her back again!!!!

[@gisselleperezmoreno1910]

Yes! She was so interesting and funny

[@freyalookinglessugly6944]

Omg her voice is so relaxing

[@bloodevoir4575]

"She wasn't into you...she was into your tip" I AUDIBLY GASPED

[@smokeytaboo1756]

Into her tip... meaning what she'll earn as a server if she's nice to him...

[@jayyy8229]

15:56 “i bet it moved” LMAOO 😭😭😭

[@virusDETECTED]

that shit had me DEAD

[@s.mcgirl]

Derek: "I feel like and idiot", Dating coach: "that is stupid"🤣

[@PandaMan-et4kr]

“what are bollywockles?” 😭

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

Nuts and peen 😊

[@ricedolce2114]

When he said “only a couple” the captions wrote “ only a thousand” . Had me dying 😢😢😂

[@ItsJC-gu3jz]

timestamp

[@haleysmith7958]

​@@ItsJC-gu3jz0:57

[@ReubenNinan]

This episode was educational and funny af. Chantal should totally come back. A very wise and open woman!

[@BKJibas]

“I bet it moved” is WIIILD

[@genesprouts]

not him typing it in word for word💀 17:21

[@KYLETISZAI]

I thought that was so cute 😂😂😂

[@Gottalovelyn]

😂😂😂😂 that was funny

[@kristypacheco4435]

love how self aware he is but still ask if it’s wrong 😭

[@Xinallao]

FOR YOUR TEN SECOND SEIZURE I CANTTTT AKDJSKSJSB

[@esp_09]

The knowing smile after « she wasn’t into you, she was into her tip” lmao

[@floorbutter9672]

that last car analogy was perfect i loved it so much

[@spelljordin]

This is another great video especially for my generation. What she said about going from talking to sexual was so true and is probably why younger generations have terrible dating experiences. I love this channel

[@brianclark4040]

Who you did is exactly who you are. If women can judge men based on their watch or shoes or car as indicators, then who you had s3x with is definitely indicative of your values.

[@L33ch97]

When she talked about the breakaway kiss- “Let me show you what I like” brother STOOD UP. I melted a little inside.

[@noimkat]

the castle in the sky metaphor….. my life is forever changed i need that book omg

[@krystalmarie3932]

"of course you want to hop on me of your 10 second seizure" OH MY GODDDDDD

[@emilyfae6683]

“Of course you wanna hop on me for your ten second seizure” I’m deceased

[@burton7767]

this is literally your greatest video ever, bring HER BACK

[@JoseSuarez-f2g]

“Who you did is not what I am” but what you do is who you are. Base people off their actions if they are presumptuous and stuff like that it is okay to judge them off that because it’s in their nature they will never change.

[@imsospaghettiful]

derek's eyes widening after hearing "10 sec seizure" is hilarious great guest btw!!

[@l.grays.2689]

this was one of the funniest eps so far😭😭

[@bliblihere1377]

i loved the way ella give the straight explanation when people don't show you love so they don't loved you hitting me soooo harddddd

[@serene4961]

The sharing analogy she can’t really compare polygamy with an undeveloped ability to share like a toddler. It’s normal to not want to share your partner intimately, that’s the whole point of monogamy. But that doesn’t mean you won’t share other things like your food, space, items etc.

[@stevemattero1471]

True... the fact is, if he's open to casual sex, why is he looking for monogamy? He sleeps around but doesn’t like a partner who does OF thats very hypothetical

[@serene4961]

@@stevemattero1471 oh I thought he was looking for monogamy but open to accepting the fact she is a sw as a job, if he’s not monogamous himself then thats just stupid

[@vibez2806]

@@stevemattero1471 choosing to sleep around when out of a relationship isnt the same as doing corn in a relationship.

[@lkaelyn]

thank you for finally posting i was getting withdrawals 😞🙏

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

@Canada’s Dating Coach ♥️: If you want to know, my book is No More Asshloes 🥰

[@Jay_490]

We all love you 🇨🇦🇨🇦

[@KydraExhale]

But I thought girls liked assholes

[@phoenixtempleeviltruth8074]

“I bet it moved” is diabolical

[@CarlSinon]

bring her back this was lovely

[@lilliancastanera6814]

WRITE THAT DOWN WRITE THAT DOWN LMAO

[@K3n_R0y]

wtf is this only 25 minutes short?? awesome episode btw

[@melajae6246]

“i bet it moved” WHAAAAAATTT😭😭😭😭

[@skii1410]

“And Elle has like a seperate business” bro I saw that caption 😂

[@andrademaca]

This must be THE BEST interview out of all the series, part 2 is a need

[@rokit6633]

" I dont want to tell someone how I like things" " That is stupid. How else are they suppose to know" Jfc thats so validating... My ex would give me so much crap for not just magically knowing how to cater to all his likings/dislikings and get annoyed/upset/dissatisfied with me for it. It made me feel like I failed as a lover and that I was falling short.. because he's the person I love... I SHOULD know, right? Wrong. Uhg, this among many other things have opened my eyes and made me realize I wasnt as crappy of a lover that I thought I was and that I just glorified and made excuses for him while I allowed myself to be drug through the dirt and demeaned daily because i wasnt somehow perfect in every way he wanted me to be...*sigh* at least its over now and im free.

[@elle1107]

I like how she says "Okay" to any question he asks. Just an acknowledgement of what's been said without placing judgement on it yet. Very interesting.

[@romanangeles5860]

Just them breaking the 4th wall, made this 100x more personable *chefs kiss 💋

[@christopherxable]

lol “that is stupid” in that tone is gold. I’m borrowing that.

[@alexisfelice]

Her answers were no bullshit and said in a way that really made sense to me. I appreciated that!!

[@spockolenbrander256]

The entire episode my brain is going “Write that down! Write that down!”

[@jeanlucdecoster]

“I was a stripper for 20 years” “…ok” Bro did not expect that 😂

[@nuthinbutnikk17]

I was suposed to fall asleep to this but ended up enthralled by the conversation. Lots of things to learn. And these two are funny in their own different way haha.

[@Liz-ri3qy]

“I bet it moved” 😂😂😂😂 that got me

[@hopeangelica7971]

She is such an ICON! Wow, the amount of patience & clarity. Every Gen-Z boy needs to watch this and do as she says! 👏

[@aswinkrishna5042]

She told him to go date an OF girl Nah I'm good

[@Jxrdan513]

Her essentially trying to guilt trip him into wanting to ‘share’ Elle hypothetically 😭 jus got me weak

[@ChantalheideCanadasDatingCoach]

This is me legit letting him know if anyone is too insecure, move on, nobody should try to interfere with a woman making her money. PERIODTT

[@Novau.u]

I absolutely love this channel! All theses interviews are the perfect blend between seriousness and comedy!

[@Sammy-sm4yg]

I’m going through a terrible break up right now where my boyfriend behind my back, cheated on me and got engaged to somebody else, and I found out when I talk to her mother and it was a nine year long relationship. I still cannot wrap my head around the fact why would somebody do this to me? However, while I try to calm myself down and trying to keep myself alive. This library show episode really healed something in me. When she said that the person who actually loves, you shows you that they love you and no amount of condition can break that. And that’s I guess what I needed to hear in order for myself to understand that whatever happened did not happen because of me but because eventually they wanted to do something like this. it’s scary to go back to the world where you feel lonely and scared after such a long time of being with someone you feel like you have to re-learn how to walk again without a support. True love is indeed, very very hurtful and very very calming. At the same time depends upon the other person, how they use it for themselves.. I wish I could do so many things again which I did wrong but one thing I know for sure time heals everything for everyone and I am grateful that I found this episode in the time of need. I will definitely keep coming back to this to remind myself to be grateful and that there is better things waiting for me

[@Piplup10416]

21:52-23:04 i saw this part as an ig reel, really needed that reality check

[@Mellokitty7711]

Yeah I ended up here looking for a clip of it bc I couldn’t download the instagram reel

[@IsraelLlerena]

I watch her lives on TikTok all the time. She’s genuinely a really intelligent person

[@chaoshexs]

“I bet it moved” IM ON THE FLOOOOOR LIKE ACTUALLY

[@fca3464]

this was actually so insightful and funny. im glad Chantal has a beautiful sense of comedy and compassion

[@liveforever1517]

omg when he was talking abt online girls thinking hes short and him saying "only a couple" and the close captions saying "only a thousand" am i the only one that noticed that 😭

[@make_it_nashty7206]

"Is this like an actual thing you're saying?" "Yes." *Bro locks TF in*

[@eliasramirez2410]

There needs to be a part two!

[@livwalz9329]

She is both Holly and Jan from The Office

[@liabw05]

Omg 💀

[@guiomardart]

This is my first video for this dude. I've seen the clips on socials but when I saw this lady's clip I was like "HOT DAMN. I LOVE HER, I LOVE HER ENERGY, I WANT TO HEAR EVERYTHING SHE HAS TO SAY." and so when I saw the thumbnail i was like "ooooooooo!!!!!!! It's her!" I'm 2:00m in and already so fucking glad I clicked.

[@maggaayy]

This is so insightful! I appreciate Derek's self-awareness.

[@MargielaCoat]

She was definitely gaslighting you with the “do you know who don’t like sharing?” 😭😭😭

[@CHROMIUMHEROmusic]

I like this channel and the conversations. Show clearly has his flaws, but is trying to work on them and that's the main thing. As a fellow guy with flaws who is trying to work on them, it is refreshing and reassuring to see conversations where people dont try to be perfect but just better themselves

[@amanitillman2953]

this is hilarious. she had some nice oneliners 😁loved tagging along to derek'a therapy session

[@evamm3213]

We need a part 2!! She is amazing!!

[@highmeoweldergod8371]

13:25 that dap up had me dead

[@divynemarie]

Literally died lmao

[@amber_alertz]

the “i bet it moved” took me out ☠️☠️

[@157Firedemon]

I saw a short clip about being with someone who gives nothing untill the relationship is about to end, or giving lots at first before doing nothing. I found myslef in both of those situations with the man I am currently with. Your wording of it was just so simple and straightforward that it made it so much simpler for my brain to process the disconnect between my head and my feelings. Thank you, I will be using it in therapy

[@Runatsu]

“The Tesla is gonna run you over when the Tesla finds out” 😭

[@sleepiisings]

Bro I love her she’s so real

[@qtnayeli3013]

WE WANT MORE OF HERRR 🩷🩷🩷

[@MilahSayanih]

Watching with subtitles is actually another experience lol

[@faithmacharia6075]

The intro made me love her already

[@whiteshadow247]

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone who has an OF account. It goes well beyond “sharing”.

[@DLTVhz]

This one is so good! I hate how so many tik tok accounts are impersonating you and reposting your clips. You deserve all the views and credit

[@ScoobyDaBez14]

"Are you ok with sharing🤨?" "Well.......🙄" best part by far.

[@t345m]

The amount of hilarious one liners the dating coach says has me dead af 😂

[@zsconger]

The “Castle In The Sky” theory was 🔥. That one hit and made sense for people I know 😅