Don’t Fight for Attention || Coach Ken Canion

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Don’t Fight for Attention || Coach Ken Canion
• Don’t Fight for Attent...

[@GLeon-ov9yu]

“If a man doesn’t fear losing you he will always devalue you.” This is golden, thanks for sharing. 👍🏼

[@CoachKenCanion]

My pleasure!

[@ChoeneNkoana]

Very golden. ❤

[@dpharrison7]

Always be willing to walk away. I rather be alone than settle for disrespect

[@shevettejackson.]

Amen girly !!💗

[@megsmurphy7777]

I have ALWAYS said, "indifference is so much more damaging than active hate."

[@reginamitchell975]

Thank you .

[@carriemoore8207]

We must protect this man by all means necessary. I love listening to him. He always on point and giving u valid advice from a mans standpoint and how they think.

[@CoachKenCanion]

I want to add value to peoples lives

[@kimyork4945]

@@CoachKenCanion Kim from London 😊 I'm looking through KZbin... And came across you... Your videos are so right and I know that... I know you are so so so right... and yes I need to pull back... But it's not easy 😔 and I love that you recognise that... I appreciate your time in posting this... I think my fear is what if it doesn't work... But I know I need to do something different... Every word you say resonates with my situation.. I know I need to self reflect (your other video) wish me luck.. xx

[@CoachKenCanion]

@@kimyork4945 You got this. I am here to support u

[@kimyork4945]

@@CoachKenCanion thank you... Appreciate it... It started this evening and I feel good.. one step at a time and I am trying to be kind to myself... Xx

[@SeekingGod77]

I agree he valuable to us women this stuff works

[@misstruth1115]

That’s why I’m practicing no sex outside of a marriage bed.

[@rijajones4811]

Thank you for helping me realise that I do the emotional heavy lifting in all my relationships. It stops now! I'm worth more and deserve more than I've been getting in return.

[@angelfire402]

I agree. Happened to me twice. When I decided just forget it. Months later they both started calling at the same time. I was so hurt. I don't feel anything anymore. I ignore there calls I no longer rush to answer the phone. I don't want to be bothered anymore. Now i get more text and calls. what a shame

[@falishatucker3486]

I love this message so much. I appreciate all that you do. I'm newly single and it's a struggle out here in the dating world. But I'm up for the challenge with your guidance.

[@carolirvine7663]

Excellent advice - Tolerating bad behavior becomes a habit, so when our partner does something nice we think this reaffirms commitment - This is false security and clever ploy men and sometimes women use to stay in control of a relationship.

[@sunshinesunflowerz1647]

Not chasing anything, not even goals. If it’s meant that I have it, God will make sure that I have all the tools I need to complete it. In regards to a man, he needs to be whole before he steps to me because you ain’t getting anything for free. Yes. I made the distinction between ‘hate’ and ‘indifference’ years ago. Indifference is when you don’t want nothing to do with that person. Fall back game on ♾…

[@sony3246]

It's crazy to me that any of this game playing is needed. Two human beings should be able to respect and love each other without all of this extra.

[@aleciamoten6867]

We don't demand what we deserve. We demand what we tolerate. That's good Coach!

[@beverlytriche4111]

I have done everything you have requested. I am getting married in June of 2024. Thanks for all your help directing us on a positive path . I appreciate you and all your advice. Now if my grown son can get right, I ll have another blessing.

[@shaunierockett4964]

A woman must create the standard✨and a man must either adhere or not♥️chin check tht ninja if he falls below the standards‼️Got it✅

[@wandasmall1433]

This video has very great information. Thanks for sharing. Now how about hitting that like button to show our appreciation

[@lawandalivingston3603]

So glad I came across the video. So applicable to me right now. Thanks ❤️

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thank you for watching my channel. Please share

[@tonyaparrott7242]

Absolutely agree with the posture of INDIFFERENCE!! You are spot on Coach! Keep telling us the RAW truth! This is not easy and I'm so very thankful for your help❤❤❤

[@shirleyamccreemccree6323]

I love this guy! Very smart advice!❤

[@luzimarah8907]

Thank you sir! Thank you for giving valid advice from a man’s standpoint and telling us how they think. It meant a lot for me bc I don’t have that male figure in my life that I can pick up the phone to ask for advice from. So since I don’t have that in my life I look forward to your videos. So…. Once again thank you for your advice!!

[@christinaringo2535]

After listening to this I had to subscribe You are Amazingly HONEST!!! Thank you ❤️

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thank you. I really want to empower people

[@rahdancecompany5443]

Chin checked mine and he got mad and went silent.

[@BrittanyHunter-f6w]

When I see your content, it comes through my feed as shorts. Right now I’m going through a breakup and decided to come to your channel, and I am sooooo impressed!!! Thank you so much for doing this work ❤❤❤ binge watching tomorrow

[@mzdee7021]

Until the pain of staying the same becomes GREATER than the pain it takes to CHANGE....you WON'T ❤️❤️

[@DB-gu6tf]

Thanks Coach Ken. I used your advice. I pulled back just a tiny bit and he knew he needed to adjust himself. That opened up an opportunity to communicate. It was so beautiful. Our connection continues to grow because I’m not making the mistakes I used to. I’m really happy right now….thanks to you coach.

[@CoachKenCanion]

Great job!

[@BrittnePtheBestGirl]

Just was dealing with this in dating this guy. You are describing him to the T.

[@Mikeismybaby02]

in my current situation I'm so happy I ran across your videos they help me in my weak moments.

[@anastasiasharidaali8217]

We dont demand what we deserve. We demand what we tolerate. Great advice.

[@stephaniebaker5519]

Thank you!! Much needed insight. Love this!! Thank you!!!!thank!!!you thank you!!!

[@CoachKenCanion]

You are so welcome

[@adaofcharles1217]

Forget how I feel, think on what I deserve 👏👏👏

[@ayrakwa1]

Very good advice Coach!

[@yolandawestbrook8240]

I miss my father. He would give me good advice like this. Glad to find a KZbin daddy.

[@ms_may_gyen]

💯💯💯 I have a few different “guides” as long as their aligned with my core values. -relationship -financial -spiritual -academic -entrepreneurship

[@demechiakirkland5146]

Thank you for showing me another way to communicate how I truly feel without feeling like I am the one that's running him down. This video was extremely helpful 👏. I was raised in a house full of men but I still have a lot to learn about the man in my personal life. Thank you for helping me to understand on my journey.

[@CoachKenCanion]

You are so welcome

[@donnajordan3540]

I had to stop fighting, I’m gone

[@r314522s]

I totally agree with you especially with the toy analogy. Thank you

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thank you for watching

[@latrice3748]

I could really use your help lol

[@CoachKenCanion]

@@latrice3748 email me at [e-mail]

[@CoachKenCanion]

@@latrice3748 email me at [e-mail]

[@sherondadavis8907]

I kept going back only to go through a repeated cycle.

[@gletsayaaasantewaa2793]

I’ve been there too sis. I had to decide I was more important than the relationship, and finally walked away…

[@chrisharris2367]

Hi, can this dynamic work in marriage? Thanks for the video; I like the positivity.

[@CoachKenCanion]

Yes, absolutely

[@Mikeismybaby02]

@@CoachKenCanion that's exactly what I needed to know cause he is tripping. i never thought I would have to play cat and mouse game in my marriage

[@marialacerda6593]

My guide is the Holy Spirit !!!!

[@amaal1]

Much needed to hear this. Thank you. Back in the dating pool.🙏🏽

[@chiobabe2180]

Best advice I heard from a guru. And a sane blk man at that. Lord protect this man! ❤

[@SS-zy5dc]

That's great but not 100% correct some of us have children, so no choice of not letting him in unfortunately 😕

[@tiffanycrenshaw5421]

This is some dam good advice!

[@AnnieTangerine8714]

I have done like EVERYTHING wrong.... everything.....and now my once amazing relationship is a mess....and yes, I dont wanna lose him. He is a great guy. I hope I am not too late. And actually I hope that while pulling back, if it doesn't work, it will prepare me to walk away. Cause right now I am not willing to walk away...God help me

[@virginiaharvey]

Competing.trying to get someones attention.trying too hard repels.attracts opposite.

[@iwig2714]

Omg this was FACTS so on point. Keep blessing us. I walked away 10 years was too long 😢

[@chandalewashington1564]

After 29 years can you still walk away

[@Heyu7her3]

Of course. People do it every day.

[@Exoticano]

If you still have feet, put on your shoes and walk right away into the door that best serves you, makes you happy, open it and walk in 👣

[@dgirdaukas9587]

Walked away after 39yrs, having left twice before

[@oliviabarr2986]

I had to step back when I realized,,,, I was begging for time, for dates, for attention. It was always left in my corner tot figure out….. I heard him say once, just come on so u can stop nagging wow😮

[@lala5061]

Ugh 🤮

[@ChoeneNkoana]

I'm back in the dating pool, and your lessons are valuable. Thank you.

[@CoachKenCanion]

Welcome back!

[@farahkibriya6311]

At least he is articulate and can speak eloquently

[@naomirivera4837]

I have zero toleration it's good to miss each other love is action I learn you don't got to say I love you all the time you feel it and if you're so damn good, I'm about respect peace elegant classy yes I had to put it out there independent,Not me I don't play respect compromise communicate priority number one no I'm not tolerating that if you leave and don't come back and I don't know where you are you ain't told me nothing you can come to me it's a rap goodbye I might be hurt but I see now that's a big red flag no sir nope I'm dating now it's going on a year I was settlement for 3 years I am taking my time there's time that he don't even come in my house he rides in my front of my house I come downstairs and we leave I got my own car he doesn't have to come to my house everytime taking my time I wanna no him no me not lose bf because we are because couple 🙏🏼 pray I'm doing the right thing 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@Mikeismybaby02]

dealing with this now with my husband I'm separated from. Thanks

[@cathyjackson5675]

I Thank God for you

[@CoachKenCanion]

I thank God for you

[@alicialandrum2048]

This is good information

[@kimbellas6874]

Coach your saving my life love you❤

[@patricadyson778]

This is where I am now . Do not care.

[@Almediale]

Great advice

[@aviwedyantyi5535]

Thanks alot

[@vixter28]

Yup I took whatever he gave me 😢 Urghhh Let him get away with BAD BEHAVIOR! Disrespectful I let him in my door at midnight! Dang ! So mad at myself now! Right I stayed & went bk bc I thought i couldn’t find anyone else or better

[@empressnaja]

This is Absolutely!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾✊🏿✊🏿👍🏾👍🏾 Spot on advice to live by.

[@CoachKenCanion]

💯

[@Amaviv09]

This got to me at the right time, thank you coach

[@gaylabrown8028]

I recently subscribed to you! I love listening to your videos and you’re a major blessing to me seriously!!! Thank you so much!❤️

[@CoachKenCanion]

I appreciate you!!!

[@MS.M1220]

God is my guide first and foremost. This should be everyone’s declaration.

[@peacelove280]

Awesome, Beautiful, and Wise message!!

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thank you kindly!

[@JusttRaquel]

Wow, some nuggets here . Thank you 😊.

[@CoachKenCanion]

So nice of you

[@mosedimayo1919]

Just came across your Channel and i must say u made a lot of sense for me...much love🙌🙏keep teaching.

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thank you. Glad you are here

[@jeannettesneed]

Now what about if a MAN blocks a woman bc you know in your heart he didnt get what he wants. Does that show he CAREs? OR THAT WOMAN HAS HIM??? 🤔🤔

[@chiobabe2180]

I was blocked for 17 days, he came back begging and zelled me 2k

[@BrittnePtheBestGirl]

All your old videos are coming right in clutch omg. Thanks you Ken!!

[@nivniv7844]

I like your personality. Subscribed

[@CoachKenCanion]

❤❤

[@BrittnePtheBestGirl]

I venture tonsay of all this is seen before the commitment it shouldn't be a commitment and lets just say, we dodnt commit. I got the balls to walk away from the dating 3 mts and keeping in touch the following 3 mts. To now where i left with a nice text

[@angieangie9062]

Thanks

[@robertjackson4877]

How to get n your class

[@Braveh3artGirl]

This is AMAZING advice. Thank you so much ❤

[@CoachKenCanion]

You're so welcome!

[@nikkinikki3001]

Chasing vs attracting, I love that logical breakdown. Thank you.

[@CoachKenCanion]

You're so welcome!

[@kellymarsh8541]

Excellent advice

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thanks for watching

[@Stella-kx3lt]

This is so good!!! Thank you sir

[@Pacifica74]

Staying with him when he's like this is giving up.

[@reeseyanceyms.rayiamwhoiam100]

This message was powerful. Thank you so much. 💪🏽💯🙏🏽

[@CoachKenCanion]

You are so welcome

[@pamelaclary6805]

It takes too much to be with one, don't put yourself through it, you'll be better off.

[@giaalston9092]

I’m afraid of losing the friendship. Which is why I keep fighting for the relationship. I make excuses that he is dealing with grief, and loss of a close loved one, that he is adjusting to being a single father, he just isn’t ready for a relationship. I know and say all these things but still fight for the friendship and relationship that we had for so many years, and he is inconsistent, and pushing my love away. How do I be there for him without involving my emotions or feelings for him? Which normally leads to sex and giving into what he wants?

[@sharhondariley]

I appreciate this wisdom so much ❤

[@tinatina4131]

Thanks for keeping it real coach. 🙏🏼

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thanks for appreciating the content

[@shirelsummers9185]

Love your wisdom.. Very good info!

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thanks for watching!

[@Chilly-Bibee]

I just found you and you are awesome!! Thank you.

[@CoachKenCanion]

AHHHH, Thank You so much. Please share

[@Chilly-Bibee]

@@CoachKenCanion I did already!

[@neicyluv553]

Man, speak yo ish! This is so true!!

[@farahkibriya6311]

Where do people get time? After a 10 hr work day after I beat the peak hour traffic I get home then have to take care of my sick mother all I want to do is sleep.

[@carolarchibald6944]

Thanks coach Ken you have opened my eyes so wide. I put in so much and get nothing back.

[@CoachKenCanion]

Excellent!

[@brixandblooms]

Once you really accept that men dont nurture the way we do, chin check him. Its ifeal that he treats you the way you like because he is genuinely a good person...he's not. You have create and stand by your standard and yiu have to continually make sure that he meets it because he forever tests you to see wh a t he can get away with...exhausting right?

[@Cherryblossom-fg1pl]

Thankyou so much ❤

[@jollymboya1069]

Well put..

[@Lovice-n9z]

Thanks so much for the advice 😊

[@preese100]

Impactful!

[@avanellejean-marie6740]

Awesome advice thank you appreciate you coach blessings.

[@CoachKenCanion]

You are so welcome

[@TheGoldenYears51]

Not he's old enough to make decisions

[@neicyluv553]

I deserve BETTER! Amen.

[@sharhondasmith7604]

How can I get help from you

[@sharhondasmith7604]

Coach my husband and me have been married now for 3 years but but friends first since 2014 but now since the marriage it's all bad all bad in and out the bedroom Help please 🙏

[@Delaine2005]

Thank you! This was on time!!!

[@farahkibriya6311]

I don't have time for myself where do I get time for someone else.

[@angeg100]

I just came across your videos. You are a God send. I was meant to see your videos.. I have made colossal mistakes in with this man.. I am going to correct them now, by walking away. It's been almost 3 years. My needs are not being met, I have complained, said I am done and still allowed him back in. I wished him a happy birthday yesterday, he did not even reply. My pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing. Thank you so very much for what you do. Stay Blessed.. 🧡🧡🧡🧡

[@CoachKenCanion]

Thank you for watching

[@Gg-rssystG8]

There you go.

[@dkay1888]

Truth.... Thanks

[@annmohabir5043]

So true

[@taraday3719]

I needed this thank u!