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@supermichaelssecondchannel43423 жыл бұрын
What if she’s already in a relationship?
@wayneclifford86413 жыл бұрын
Signs she likes you
@wayneclifford86413 жыл бұрын
I think it's okay for women to be bold and just grab the guy and say come on
@wayneclifford86413 жыл бұрын
It would be wonderful if more women would just look at the guy that they want to say hey you're the one I want then they can talk
@wayneclifford86413 жыл бұрын
Well how do you get the phone numbers and stuff if you don't have any way to contact somebody
@arnoldjohnson33172 жыл бұрын
You describe women’s actions as if they are children. You make them out to be irrational. Your description of women’s behavior is telling men to consider them as teenagers. It’s great advice, seriously.
@RandomVideos-kn3pf3 жыл бұрын
Stop asking yourself questions like " do I deserve her?" ask yourself questions like "does she deserve me?"
@knightlerk60423 жыл бұрын
I do deserve her we started as pen pals ty I needed that
@FF-bj4nq3 жыл бұрын
No, you shouldn't ask either of these questions. Let me show you why Does she deserve me? No. Then don't chase her. In fact don't waste time interact with her at all. Does she deserve me? Yes. I'm the angel here to save her from her pathetic life, I will show her why she deserves me. Wait, why did she just say I'm creepy? See, this won't get you anywhere. You will end up getting a girl you don't like, or single forever
@mcfly91883 жыл бұрын
OOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!! 🔥
@charles22413 жыл бұрын
That's just some form of humility, replaced with arrogance.
@luthermcgee37673 жыл бұрын
AGREED.
@joee76262 жыл бұрын
Best sign ever... she tells you and doesn't play coy little games.
@chrisbee96432 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!! Women who play those kind of games are always skanks or whores...
@chrisbee96432 жыл бұрын
@@piotrwaniek that is no problem. Other than women in your life. :) Just stop simping hoes. :)
@chrisbee96432 жыл бұрын
@@piotrwaniek sure I will. I am done with this crap, that are relationships... 50 bucks, no drama, no kids, no money gone, no lies, no fake living. Plus the only job I know, they are really good at. There sure will never ever be another woman, who will enter my private life. Those 5 I had, were a lesson. And what an expensive one. Not only moneywise. I dont take part in this game anymore. :) Have a heart for hookers. :)
@jakemandude7974 Жыл бұрын
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
@sixstringhans-tone5574 Жыл бұрын
@@jakemandude7974 what? The video is talkin about men an women wanting to be together. An the first thing you comment is, Jesus loves you Matthew? An that to me is a totally different kinda love. Unless I’m missing something? Or that’s your interpretation of what’s being said in the Bible? Or it’s on purpose? Or you just happened for some crazy reason, you just mistakenly made the wrong comment on the wrong video…..😮😂
@nguyenhuy67352 жыл бұрын
1.her feet pointed at you 2.she mentions she have free time 3.she drop hint about what she enjoys doing 4.she fixes clothes or jewelry around you 5.she will find a way to touch you 6.she finds a way to talk with you 7. She plays with her jewelry 8. She sit close to you 9. She points her feet toward you 10. She looks at you, she smile and look down
@michaelmcknight36392 жыл бұрын
thanks for this, saves me watching the video... obviously the most effective of these strategies is pointing her feet at you
@terryslay12 жыл бұрын
Everybody loves Cliff Notes!!!
@M_Ladd Жыл бұрын
Yes, it means she want you to lick her toes.
@TheRogueSquid Жыл бұрын
@@terryslay1 is he a singer?
@yroc2553 Жыл бұрын
11. Her feet are pointed your direction
@joegrande4848 Жыл бұрын
Some women are just generally flirty. Flirting isnt always a way of interest. The other signs probably more fitting if she doesnt engadge with others the other signs.
@cantstockrock3 жыл бұрын
The amount of missed opportunities that just jumped in my head 😭 Thank you for changing my future
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure! Thank you for watching. 🙏
@E_GIBSON3 жыл бұрын
If someone else is interested in you and too cowardly to make a move that is not a missed opportunity. This isn't the 1950s. Well, maybe you missed the opportunity to watch re-runs of friends, babysit someone's cat, listen to them whine about their studies or day at work and meet their lovely family.
@chrisorr39193 жыл бұрын
Its weird how its 2021 and girls will still rarely make a move.
@rflp77443 жыл бұрын
Ik I missed Soo many opportunities that isn't making me sad.
@adipsous3 жыл бұрын
One just came to mind where she totally suggested this adult night at the Exploratorium (a science museum in San Francisco) as a neat thing to do. She was nervous and giggly around me. Even fussed with her hair. She was absolutely gorgeous, petite, perfect. But young. I was probably twenty-five years older than her. I felt it would be creepy to ask if she wanted to go together. She even came to my work when she was leaving her job near where I worked to say bye. I'm such an idiot. So many of these I just have to laugh instead of cry.
@eloylopezcuriel3 жыл бұрын
I read the title as she wants you to make a movie. I was thinking man that’s a lot of pressure.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
LOL! That would be a lot of pressure! Thanks for watching. 🙏
@paulokello59813 жыл бұрын
🤣
@skyejacques3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha 😂 but it could be fun if you're into documentaries!
@JohnScottMatheny3 жыл бұрын
I DID TO LOL!!!!!
@jameswilliams70593 жыл бұрын
That's why every guy should just make a movie right after high school. Kind of like a thesis statement. If a woman ever wants you to make a movie, you'll already have your demo ready for her decide wether she really wants to invest 6 million dollars into your "Lord of the Rings 4" idea
@Joedamoyaw3 жыл бұрын
No.. the fear in making a move comes from the fact a lot of women take PLEASURE in rejecting men. They gain power from it. It's easy for women to say we want to be pursued because some don't understand the feeling of being DIRECTLY rejected. Most women don't recover from that.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry to hear that's happened to you! It sounds like there have been a lot of toxic women in your life. Here are some videos that will help you identify that they are toxic sooner so you can avoid them kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Remember that toxic women use good guys while classy women love and respect good guys. The key is to know how to attract the classy women instead.
@Joedamoyaw3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie somehow I truly believe you are genuine in your response. I appreciate you.
@sergioalmasy87222 жыл бұрын
Would you want those sort of women around you?? I wouldn't. You dodged the bullet, mate.
@itsmetheman_77902 жыл бұрын
@@sergioalmasy8722 you are correct!, this mate indeed dodged a missile. He needs to flip that feeling into joy for his second chance
@jacobgalvan36282 жыл бұрын
I was going to post this exact statement bro! I'm here because this just happened after building the courage to approach. I felt the power shift when I got her number. She looked at me like "chase over".
@TheBanana933 жыл бұрын
The whole "Pursue her or she will feel bad" thing is what really annoys me. If you are flirting for ages and the guy doesn't make a move why don't you do it? Why does it have to fall onto men to do it? A lot of us don't want to be accused of harassment or face the embarrassment of being wrong about signs..
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
If you know how to read the signs you won't be wrong. These videos will help. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN
@nigeldonaldson1647 Жыл бұрын
Exactly right, AND apparently your a woman
@thomasshannon966211 ай бұрын
I totally agree. I had a married woman at the gym give all the signs and reject me for a simple lunch. I'm 53 and still confused.
@nigeldonaldson164711 ай бұрын
I think youve replied to the wrong commentator@@thomasshannon9662
@kimmorrison916911 ай бұрын
@@thomasshannon9662 maybe bc shes married? I’d say she MAY have been giving you the signs of interest just to see if she could hook you into approaching her. ATTENTION & VALIDATION is a huge deal for women.
@ModernDatingMastery3 ай бұрын
*I love how the examples emphasize body language and small gestures - these details make all the difference. This will definitely help in navigating those tricky situations!*
@rudyfranco10093 жыл бұрын
Still having butterflies after so many videos is a good thing. That is what gives you that spark and charisma! Just keep being you😍
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Same to me
@leoonwuzu45223 жыл бұрын
I like the way you smile, shake your body blinking your eyes and laughing always while making your points such women like you are always happy and hardly get annoyed.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Im using that
@jrsands3 жыл бұрын
I was a repair tech & the way my girlfriend let me know she was interested when as I was working on her workstation she went to the water cooler, bent at the waist & looked back at me with a smile.
@clevelandwilliams59223 жыл бұрын
That’s how you do it
@pdswrld52003 жыл бұрын
What should I do if she's touchy while talking to her & laughs at the same time
@clevelandwilliams59223 жыл бұрын
@@pdswrld5200 means she is nervous. Ask her out for drinks which will lead to dinner as conversation progresses
@roninhubbard90593 жыл бұрын
Mbn
@Saixjacket3 жыл бұрын
@@Kamadev888 I could see a lot of people having an issue with how you’re framing what you’re saying, but in essence when a woman is laughing at something that you’re saying, you could literally be saying some of the most disgusting things in the world and they will still find it charming in the moment.
@Ninetails6o2 жыл бұрын
I started falling for this one girl that I didn’t think I would end up liking till I started hanging around her with people and seeing how nice she is towards people.
@13ash_2 жыл бұрын
So like what if the shoe was on the other foot
@franksangma5664 Жыл бұрын
Same bro. We in the same page. Asked her out already?
@jakemandude7974 Жыл бұрын
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
@airtiger4577 Жыл бұрын
Same goes for me. But, I think I fell for my crush the more time we spent together. After at least 4 weeks of hanging out with her, I got the courage to confess my feelings for her and she said she feels the same way. I then asked her out like 15 mins later after some awkward silence and she said "sure"
@Malitubee Жыл бұрын
One thing I really like about you, is that you just seem so genuine ! I
@slayergaming82983 жыл бұрын
Didn’t make a move the first night...but didn’t wanna come on tooo strong. She enjoys being around me and wants to chill again so I’ll definitely make the move next week! 😊
@radovan16903 жыл бұрын
How’d it go?
@mako80913 жыл бұрын
SlayerGaming has gone dark. We need a sitrep.
@jonathanv87043 жыл бұрын
Now I’m curious as well 🤷♂️lol
@extremelycreativeusername31903 жыл бұрын
SLAAAAYYYEEERRR
@landob33023 жыл бұрын
i’m waiting
@jaemsardine3 жыл бұрын
She does every sign that you talked about. We're going out with our friends this weekend; I'll ask her out once the day ends. Wish me luck.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I hope things went really good! 😀
@browniesr4theweak3 жыл бұрын
Did it work 👀
@sammybolton95803 жыл бұрын
Don't be like that. Did it work!? Come on dude
@jaemsardine3 жыл бұрын
She's now officially my girlfriend!
@jaemsardine3 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie It's been a great week!
@CarlosCruz-mw4hp3 жыл бұрын
Great video. Where was this when I was in college? So many chances missed. Now I know why I didn’t get a particular girl. Thanks for the video.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your kind words! There is still lots of time! You can do this! Have a fantastic day! 😊
@tydurden484 Жыл бұрын
I've been studying social dynamics for over 15 years and I'd say most, if not all of what she is saying is on point. I want to add something about the eye-contact thing. If a woman looks at you and then looks down, it is a sign of submission. If you see this, she's likely attracted to you. It's then your job as a man to figure out on a scale of one to 10 what level of attraction she's feeling and then calibrate your approach/interaction accordingly. If she looks to the side after making eye contact, that is a sign she is unsure about you. This puts her attraction for you in the 1-5 range. Again socially calibrate accordingly. If she looks up after making eye contact with you, she's not interested. She sees herself as above/better than you. Remember, women want to be with a man they perceive as better than them. This creator is generating some valuable material, but know that these are the very, very basics she's teaching. The rabbit hole goes much, much deeper.
@cherryfressh6188 Жыл бұрын
O dear. Thing is that their social skills are often not really existent. Think little girl level. So your acting like a man as you put it could go nowhere.
@mohitsoni4938 Жыл бұрын
Hope it will help me. Thank you.
@jakemandude7974 Жыл бұрын
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
@paolobenmore3504 Жыл бұрын
To be frank, I think todays women are a different breed of head ache. I think i'll leave well alone. I do believe your right in what you state. Also all that good advice is good advice in the days of pre dating apps, dating apps have really done damage and made relationships disposable.
@paolobenmore3504 Жыл бұрын
I had this a few times until I realised I dropped my wallet.
@crazymothertrucker81932 жыл бұрын
Hey coach, if you want to know the signs for when a guy is interested in a girl since you said it was hard to know. I know.....if a guy looks and checks you out or approaches and engages with you no matter how confident or shy he may act means he's definitely interested. If he looks but doesn't walk up he could be very shy or think you are out of his league. So if he tries to say something to you at all, he's interested. That's it. You're welcome
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Defiantly bro
@tommac212 жыл бұрын
Please tell me you didn't call this man destroyer coach. I dont see a whistle around her neck. She so wrong in every matter on this subject
@patrickh73683 жыл бұрын
Thank you…. Love it, could you do a series to educate women to just approach us men offering a pint of best and say “will you go out with me” that would help me out hopefully . But seriously I will try to remember all this 😊 thanks again
@waynepayne98753 жыл бұрын
Yeah all women need to do is say "i want you" and worst case scenario we let you down extremely easy but %99 of the time we will be down
@niaralosusa2 жыл бұрын
...great point. Rather than trying to educate men on the 4,934 ways women "just maybe, might, kinda, sorta" be interested in you, perhaps put focus on women being a bit more direct...just a thought.
@RetroCaptain3 жыл бұрын
I learned over time, some girls give out barely any signs!
@pdswrld52003 жыл бұрын
Those barely signs are enough
@Nyz1ro3 жыл бұрын
Or maybe they don't give signs to you?
@morganitEm00NrAVEN7 ай бұрын
Help me guys I met a girl who is a friend of a friend for the first time the other day. I can't tell if she was lowkey into me or if it was in my head. Signs: - she helped me put my wristband on for the event- touched my arm a lot - made a flirtatious comment but I brushed it off because I wasn't sure how to respond - After this I think she was unsure about me but I stood close to her and she didn't seem bothered by it - we talked a lot throughout the day - she waited behind to talk to me when our other friends walked ahead However: - she hugged me very awkwardly when we said goodbye, like almost a half hug, it's hard to tell because she was wearing cos play so maybe she just couldn't move very well... She was worried that I was uncomfortable because her and some of her friends are very sexually out there, I'm not used to it but I'm open minded so I was just being myself (kind of aloof, witty and analytical). I don't want to be someone else just to impress others, but at the same time, I don't want to express that I'm not into someone when I actually am. Please help! I have aspergers btw
@jc4evur6613 ай бұрын
Most women I've met have very low self esteem and lack the confidence to show signs. I'm amazed at how many women check me out without my even having a clue that they are.
@carlshunk61112 жыл бұрын
I've been battling asking someone out for quite awhile. The opportunity was there, but the setting was inappropriate. I'm seeing her next week, and this video gave me so much more confidence in the fact that I'm doing the right thing. I'm making my move when we hang out next, and I'm pretty sure she'll reciprocate, and understand why I hadn't before.
@jakemandude7974 Жыл бұрын
Jesus Loves you Matthew 11:28 come to me all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. As well as Romans 6:23 for the wages of sin is death but the gift of God (Jesus who died on the cross for our sins) is eternal life. As long as you put your faith and trust in Him.😊!!!!!
@LdAmaro71 Жыл бұрын
What’s the update? It’s been 6mos already.
@abdullahiabdirizack1673 Жыл бұрын
How did it go bro, ja oder nein??
@CTSpook66 ай бұрын
Good guidance. I realize I've missed so many opportunitites to meet women because I didn't recognize the signs that a woman was interested.
@shinrodanreviews4322Ай бұрын
Finally a video that ACTUALLY applies to me 😭😭😭😭 A lot of what she does have been a lot of these. So… she likes me!
@Slimpickins2162 жыл бұрын
"The signs are very subtle"..... "What are you doing this weekend? Wanna go to Chipotle with me??" If any guy misses this, he has bigger problems than trying to find a date. Also, this never happens.
@revenant44072 жыл бұрын
If you eat chipotle then something is obviously wrong with you also.
@garyreece51727 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 you are wise grasshopper
@polskikret17773 жыл бұрын
Girl subtle signs Tell that she had a free time/laughs a lot/drops hints what she like to do My subtle signs Get drunk and confess to her by phone
@testrholder86302 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@zachary9123Ай бұрын
Saaaaaaame
@aaronparker80293 жыл бұрын
She asked y its so hard to make a move. Well in this dating market there is a chance of not only getting rejected but some girls will make an event out of it by either trying to humiliate you or claim harassment when that isn't the case. It's to the point where we need to debate our safety if we decide we want to approach.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
Sadly some toxic women will do this. It's best to know how to attract high quality women!
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you 💯
@prof3ssor1782 жыл бұрын
@@CoachMelannie that's 95% of women these days... Toxic
@deuteroszephyer70592 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the first girl I ever tried to approach gave me obvious signals, then did the whole "HAHAHA like you ever had a chance" loudly humiliating me , then going back to her group of girlfriends and laughing it up. I was 20. fortunately a women asked me out a few years later or I doubt I would have ever tried again after that. at 30 I just gave it up, to many horrible women out playing games , games that hurt .
@chrisbee96432 жыл бұрын
just dont approach anymore. :)
@johnlarue22482 жыл бұрын
Melannie, this is without a doubt the best post I've seen. Well explained, excellent description and several things we men have little to no clue about....that being asking for directions! Lady, I swear you are the GPS of "subtle signs" travel guide! Very well done!
@CoachMelannie2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@wlonsdale12 жыл бұрын
You'd be surprised what men know about. Just look over KZbin.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Yes she is
@aig54292 жыл бұрын
Great video! I found my Filipina dream girl and will be traveling to the Middle East to meet her. She showed clear signs she likes me and she is attractive soon to be married!
@Privacy0983 жыл бұрын
If a girl text you first, I am 100℅ sure she is into you😂
@kg_17203 жыл бұрын
They always do, business proposals 😂
@Privacy0983 жыл бұрын
@@beaubrashier7284 I'm not a fortuneteller, I can't say anything😂
@michaelrichards53403 жыл бұрын
Well... What do I do with one that asked me for my number
@Privacy0983 жыл бұрын
@@michaelrichards5340 Give her your number and you can always start a chitchat
@thequipseeker3 жыл бұрын
2 of them did that. Both of them tried to sell me Herbalife products and insurance.
@ryanreagan60733 жыл бұрын
I used to be afraid of rejection now having the guts to ask a girl out it just makes me stronger if I get shot down oh well doesn't matter missed out on too much not willing to take a chance
@junivanofdragonia3 жыл бұрын
3:46 another part to this: *“She Mentions She Has Free Time.”* Even if she doesn’t have free time. If she mentions *“she doesn’t have free time,”* but *“she invites you to tag along,”* means she honestly doesn’t have free time, but she wants you to come along. If you reject it; then she will think you’re not interested.
@robertallenmcdowell2 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel and you have a voice that any man would want to make a move on. Please keep doing what you're doing and I'm listening.
@EdCancio-xt7rz7 ай бұрын
She is the one that reached out to me. We have known each other for many years. We use to work together. We met for some coffee and I made some of the mistakes you mentioned in your podcast. We shared a lot of personal information with each other. She initiated the personal information. I probably talked TOO MUCH. I reached out to her a couple of days later and set up another date. She agreed to meet me again.
@jc4evur6613 ай бұрын
So what happened??
@Tobenatorr3 жыл бұрын
The amount of opportunities that came to mind make me feel embarrassed that I missed them, with someone I have my eye on too. Dang it
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry! I'm happy you know more now!
@stepbackdeuce10623 жыл бұрын
ya still got yo eye on her right? make a move den king👑
@davidgoggins42133 жыл бұрын
Signs she likes you. I’ve enjoyed this video, thanks.
@holmenadventurecamp3 жыл бұрын
I found girls crossing there legs and thought this was a bad sign. To be honest grown to like it, but i have found attention plays a small role. I do believe you still have her attention, its a way of maybe dulling or fading out the background. I have found this to be a singel good sign. Thanks again Melannie!
@holmenadventurecamp3 жыл бұрын
@Christian M. ok,
@holmenadventurecamp3 жыл бұрын
@Christian M. ok, thank you. Are you ref. to The Matrix. Red pill, blue pill theory? Cant say I remember A black pill. Am i mistaken.
@curtismaize2 жыл бұрын
Wow, you have her attention. Ground breaking information.
@pavelonline39132 жыл бұрын
Signs she likes you. Wow nice video! Id like to see next part!
@michaelhall92113 жыл бұрын
Yes please do the more sign's she like's me video it's all great learning. Like your warm clear presentation style. Many thanks!
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Will do!
@bigmike94863 жыл бұрын
I could get all these signs only to make a move and "oh I have a boyfriend" or "oh I just like you as a friend"
@DaveRod763 жыл бұрын
Xactly! I think men like us must generate some kind of vibe that makes us easy targets for narcissistic women. I haven’t quite put my finger on it yet.
@batty22592 жыл бұрын
All makes sense. I knew a lot of the basic and main things but there were a few new ones in this one.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Totally agree with you 💯
@batty22592 жыл бұрын
@@travisandrews3909 thanks
@rsobrevinas2 жыл бұрын
I gave this to my son with the highest recommendation. Also to check out your other clips. Just such an amaing set of insights that on reflection just make impeccable sense. You are the star of your genre. Thanks.
@Greatlakeskyle.2 ай бұрын
I’m a 30 yr old guy working with many nurturing older married women and it took forever to realize that a few are dropping hints. I’ve finally realized one of the woman have become frustrated probably because I’m not picking up the hints. At the end of the day it’s probably for the best that I was a goober and not picking up on hints because I’m not trying to have someone’s husband come after me. But their positive energy is very attractive I’ll say.
@mr.yuk48583 жыл бұрын
I always figured that if I had to chase after a woman, she wasn't interested enough to begin with. Even when the women would flirt, they were just trying to manipulate me. Nowadays I just ignore them (flirting or not). They might not like it but tough crap. I realize now I'm much better off without them anyway.
@liamoreilly8453 жыл бұрын
Who hurt u
@jamesalexander64173 жыл бұрын
Truth!
@paulcolin90713 жыл бұрын
She isn't interested enough to be worth it in those scenarios for me
@ddgryful3 жыл бұрын
If she looks at you, then touches her hair, then stands on her toes and goes "whoop whoop whoop" while waving her arms in a counter clockwise motion...maybe she likes you. And she expects you to completely understand what she wants. If you don't "respond appropriately" she will think you hate her grandparents, and feel self conscious about her dog.
@mr.yuk48583 жыл бұрын
@@ddgryful 😂😂😂
@markpence83872 жыл бұрын
She may want you to make the first move, but my experience suggests it is better to wait until she makes the first move. Whenever I have done this, it always ends in rejection.
@marksafe54633 жыл бұрын
Having a girl feel comfortable with you is key! Nobody talks about this enough for most guys to understand. You have to be a woman to understand instinctually. Most men don’t realize this because they don’t know what it’s like to be a woman.
@hanifaperez40623 жыл бұрын
bro of course we dont know what it's like to be a women 💀
@greasegreaze32793 жыл бұрын
Haha, Simp alert!
@frankcrawford4163 жыл бұрын
I think it would be insanity for a man to actually think like a woman. We can still know about them, but a man needs to think like a man, not a woman. If we thought like women, then there is no man left. We have to love ourselves as God intended.
@austinbdn112 жыл бұрын
Thats how I ended up in the friend zone
@shadowmoon30622 жыл бұрын
@@hanifaperez4062 lol
@nicholaswalker1654 Жыл бұрын
What about if she was in conversation with a group of people in church, waves at me enthusiastically, and keeps her gaze locked on me as I walk down the aisle and the other people that are talking to her are not being addressed with her undivided attention.
@TravelWalesWithPaul2 жыл бұрын
This video makes so much sense to me. Can't believe how many of these I missed whilst chatting to women. Hopefully I will have more success from now on????
@KpxUrz57453 жыл бұрын
As always, I really enjoy the way Melannie speaks so cheerfully and presents her topics. But, as always, I must say I never experienced women sending any of these obvious or not-so-obvious signals except very rarely in life. Even in college, the women were mostly serious, or withdrawn, and seemingly quite disinterested, certainly not the giggly "little girl" image discussed here. I have enough self confidence and qualities to know I should be desirable to women, but I almost never encountered girls behaving in the ways described in this video. Bottom line: in the world I lived in, either the man makes all the efforts and moves, or else nothing happens.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏
@mac1bc3 жыл бұрын
When you figure out the right ways to make a move, let us know 😊
@KpxUrz57453 жыл бұрын
@@mac1bc You're drawing conclusions that were not stated in my prior remark. I posited a broad generality, not just an autobiographical perspective.
@mac1bc3 жыл бұрын
@@KpxUrz5745 ok not sure why you took my comment so seriously. It was meant jokingly
@gabeghiby69352 жыл бұрын
@@KpxUrz5745 signs like those presented here happens actually, but as she said it's usually very subtle... However you are right in many ways, the world in which we live in - especially in North America and maybe western EU - is a result of the feminist movement that I'm sad to say it, did more wrong than good for the society, and as such most women (luckily not all) feel that just spending time with her, not to mention putting it out, it should be done as a "reward" to the man, and not as a equal and mutual enjoyment event... "reward" for what..??.. that's a long story and many men know it... which in and of itself is so far away from the traditional Christian values that it's not even worth the effort anymore to mention it... yet I've only mentioned it 'cause I noticed she - Melanie - in a charming way she's presenting herself as a Christian relationship coach... I'll say it again that she's right, those signs are there if you learn how to read them... but you are right too, the men must work too hard for something more to happen... if you travel outside the feminist movement sphere of influence, you'll see those signs more clearly - not so subtle - and you don't have to "work" so much for her attention, because she knows she's going to enjoy it also... otherwise she won't display those signs to you... so yes, you're right, men need to make a lot of effort to make something happen (in the US mostly) but the signs are there... As that song goes "American woman...stay away from me"... sorry ladies, but it is what it is...
@infamouskong77022 жыл бұрын
🌟 I like this video.. Sometimes it be hard cause of being nervous.. Don't wanna be rejected but these tips are helping.. to start paying attention to avoid awkward moments when talking to women ✨
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
So do i
@danielbenson3563 жыл бұрын
Hello Melannie. I love learning about body language. Thank you for these videos.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
So do i
@Jbutler638 ай бұрын
Your content is super good,been out of the dating seen a several years but trying to build my confidence level up.Please continue more content on this topic.😅😅
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
You look beautiful in blue Coach Melannie.
@thommxiong44613 жыл бұрын
Omg I've been getting all these signs from many women throughout my life and I've never known.
@DaveRod763 жыл бұрын
LOL. I know right.
@georgekolotouros5483 жыл бұрын
I've blown so many opportunities .
@typicalslayer60863 жыл бұрын
I messed mine up missed my chance😢😭
@bprathe32053 жыл бұрын
I’ve blown it with some good ones after listening to Melanie. lol
@maxwelltekutey13133 жыл бұрын
Pls 🤣😅😅😅
@stevenprice6612 жыл бұрын
Bad thing is I only meet women where I work... I'm a manager at a fast food restaurant, yes I see 90% of these signs, all at once most of the time... but anytime I try to make a move it seems that I've misconstrued it all, or they just seem to want me to chase harder
@almark65483 жыл бұрын
I always have women look at me, smile, and look away. Fun fact: it's involuntary. It's not some contrived or premeditated tactic. And they don't stop doing it unless they're no longer interested.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
So do i
@lucdelhaize40292 жыл бұрын
I get the same treatment but never understood the significance until now. Never too late!
@dannysheain79683 жыл бұрын
I feel like these are things I needed a long time ago. Now I'm watching this for the first time and already have my dream girl.
@jimmyv17532 жыл бұрын
Very impressive info. I’ve seen a few videos that are so ridiculous but this stuff seems more honest and accurate
@jeffreybrugos22282 жыл бұрын
Melannie, this video true is helpful, a girl has actually done a few of things with me already. So it’s good to know what they mean! 👍🏻
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Facts
@tommac212 жыл бұрын
Do not trustbthis garbage
@philipmurray47533 жыл бұрын
Signs she likes you, I struggle to understand the difference between teasing or her being genuine.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
That can be a bit tricky. Here are some videos that will help you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN God bless 🙏
@viharsarok3 жыл бұрын
Simple: if you feel the need to ask this question she's either just teasing you or you wish she were.
@sugarnads3 жыл бұрын
Shes flirting until you respond in kind then she was just having fun. They just like to fuq around with guys they arent interested in. When chad rolls up they aint flirting they just grab n go.
@bujindork3 жыл бұрын
This is true. In my experience if i had a girl into me she made it known, there was no flirting. Flirty girls just like to tease guys theyre not into because theyre not into them.
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
So do i
@mazzarella_child5673 жыл бұрын
Wow this is like the best guidance I've heard in a long time. Though truthfully the extent of most of my interactions are just cordial greetings. Anyways I subscribed.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words and for subscribing! 🙏
@tricky22582 жыл бұрын
I may a married man but these tips are very useful when l can at least try to socialize with other ladies in the workplace or anywhere in life just to engage in friendly conversation. Thank you for this video. I hope you have a lot of success in this. 👏👏
@heyolel59732 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! I WAS WONDERING WHY THIS GIRL WAS ACTING KINDA WIERD AROUND ME
@Autonomous19692 жыл бұрын
Then you ask her out and she says, "No, I have no interest". True story.
@michaelrichards53403 жыл бұрын
Lol I scored the laughs at everything I say and the last one, the stare and look away
@jesussamurai84333 жыл бұрын
This is a lot harder when she's also your barber as it's hard to tell good customer service to genuine interest.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
That is so true! These videos will give you more information about this. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-WjotkCVLvYKp30QhuvcKDN The more signs you see the better! Best of luck!👍
@jerseysteelfitness69273 жыл бұрын
Just keep tipping, and she is already used to normal banter. Bring up better subjects, don't let her lead everything
@jesussamurai84333 жыл бұрын
@@jerseysteelfitness6927 Thanks for the advice I actually work a heavy customer service based job as well so I'm pretty damn near confident I can lead any conversation and talk about pretty much anything with anyone. I think it's more so the environment that trips me up and the fact that I see this person often. Although I can deal with rejection I kinda want to be more sure than usual that it'll swing my way. But there is also this professional environment that at least to me makes me feel like I'm not in control. Perhaps it's the fact there is other barbers around and people in the waiting area so finding that opening is tough.
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I’m tired of being rejected and ghosted Coach Melannie.
@markrossi57212 жыл бұрын
Yes! More subtle signs she wants to explore a relationship with you videos please!
@andrewmize8232 жыл бұрын
I once chuckled at one of my female co-workers because she reached for her phone instantly--almost frantically--when I said hello to her in line at the cafeteria. I have no way of knowing what she was thinking, but I got the general idea after working with her for a while that she was uninterested in socializing with anyone, male or female, who fell beneath her personal standards. She was just kind of a mean person--so in the end I considered her not wanting anything to do with me a win.
@josephstalin3073 жыл бұрын
This creature softened my heart of stone. She died and with her died my last warm feelings for humanity
@claytonhall49083 жыл бұрын
Love you Melanie. Thanks for every video you've done. I'm again alone, but hope and pray to keep the next marriage alive and working forever
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I hope so too!
@jessearagon80473 жыл бұрын
Hi Melanie thank you for you vice on date again 💗 you good at this date again I learn lot from you and other women to that help me lot how women like date again iam 72 year old man and try to find women my age Melanie I been pray for women in my life now ❤ I doing God way now jesse aragon flaming eagle
@martinmaz953 жыл бұрын
@@jessearagon8047 good luck Jesse!
@niveklor14562 жыл бұрын
Dont marry
@jack-the-ripper5842 жыл бұрын
@@niveklor1456 Damn boi😎
@johncunningham68926 ай бұрын
Very accurate and informative damn I was so naive and “shy” (scared). Yes, more please.
@Sadc0m2 жыл бұрын
Its like I knew all these things subconciously, but I didnt know how to articulate this knowledge to myself. Actually useful
@Moonlight-cq6bi2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this! I had a crush on a girl who recruited me into our Kendo club recently and days ago I noticed she was facing me from a distance and waiting for me to notice she is there; there's another time where she walks through a whole group of our club members to talk to me in a corner... we haven't been able to have long conversations for a while but I find myself in such a calm state of mind that I just wanna flow with it. Im thinking to make a move next time and see how it goes
@Tofi_ytchannel2 жыл бұрын
And, how did it go? Did you make a move?
@michaelsegal35583 жыл бұрын
Who else wants to date Coach Melannie?
@randyjackson67193 жыл бұрын
I would love too!!
@metalman692013 жыл бұрын
I definitely want to date coach Melannie because I love her!!
@ashyzad62373 жыл бұрын
brilliant as always, thank you and God bless.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
Thank you too!
@BernardJustusMuhwezi Жыл бұрын
Melannie, this is very good for our young boys thinking regectedly in life I shambled on it and enjoyed for real.
@wayneames8775 Жыл бұрын
Want to say thank you I have learned a lot from your videos got back in to dating again 27 years since last date .please keep up the videos thank you again .God bless you
@dude13933 жыл бұрын
I have learned I’ve the past 20 years of dating relationships and heart breaks that women don’t know what they want out of a man or relationship. I am in my mid 40’s. I have made my move before to a woman that I thought was into me. She showed me signs that she wanted me to kiss her , she would tell people that I am her boyfriend. Then she moved to another state.
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏
@filipedasilveira68353 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 sorry Bro, you are not alone .
@jasongillilan5872 жыл бұрын
Lol sorry to hear but real funny at same time
@Righteous692 жыл бұрын
Women brother ☕️
@blockinglowtier2 жыл бұрын
I'm bi and I mainly like women but I wish I was just fully gay. I have had no success trying to pursue women.
@Coyote-wm5op2 жыл бұрын
Last girl that did these to me and approached me was there with her bf. I didn’t make a move on that. A lot of women like to just get attention even though they have no intention of being with you. The look and look away thing is stupid when they do it with a group of friends. Their friends will sabotage it.
@edwardpiper91542 жыл бұрын
It’s scary to make a move because I know how it feels to get rejected and I’m not trying to go through that type of feeling again
@CoachMelannie2 жыл бұрын
I hope these videos will help you. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VOYPpi4UjSjCpKDxJAS6g3
@blairthandi7058 Жыл бұрын
The feet pointing is so accurate. She only points her body towards me, and my body too only points towards her, plus, I put my shoulders straight, and hands to my side.
@douglasalan57832 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your valuable insights about body language and social cues. Your video is very charming and enlightening. Melannie, I much prefer your videos to the Wing Girl.
@philipbenhardb.velasco3693 жыл бұрын
Totally blew my chance with a girl in college. Hated my guts at first, took a chance one night, dropped her guard, I was taken aback because it was so sudden. I knew I couldn't get over it. had to let her know to find happiness elsewhere. I'm glad she did. Wished I had a chance to hear her side. I'd also like to add that she squeezes you in a frame in her selfie. Caught her doing this multiple times. I was like yoooo, you know we can have a more decent picture yeah?
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that happened!
@travisandrews39092 жыл бұрын
Same her bro
@keshabuchai15143 жыл бұрын
your speech and presentation are so amazing
@onthepath5013 жыл бұрын
I was in the meat aisle talking to a girl once and she said she was making chili and I said I was barbecuing. She said I like barbecues, and I said have a good day. 😩
@scottboyer84502 жыл бұрын
Well, it's good to see I haven't missed any opportunities.
@tropicalbeach9225 Жыл бұрын
Hey there CM, thank you for the viable information; this will help me alot in the dating world!
@funkycoldmedina323 жыл бұрын
Omg 😆 if I start paying attention to all her signs, she’s gonna ask me why are u not paying attention to what I’m saying!!!
@fubytv7313 жыл бұрын
I'm a born again straight former lesbian and this actually really helps me with etiquettes of dating with men.
@thatsnailgirl9453 жыл бұрын
Honey from a mother lesbian don't be afraid to be your true self you can't get ride of gay but do what ever you would like
@fubytv7313 жыл бұрын
@@thatsnailgirl945 I don't think I'm a true gay though. Maybe more like fluid, but at this stage I just feel like I prefer to be with men...
@thatsnailgirl9453 жыл бұрын
@@fubytv731 oh okay that makes sense do
@Marsdrip3 жыл бұрын
@@fubytv731 it was probably just a stage especially if your young u might like guys more but u also are most likely bi
@BullyMaguire4ever3 жыл бұрын
Dont suppress your true self. Jesus never said anything against being gay.
@vicksaction50033 жыл бұрын
If I feel she is playing mind games and wasting my valuable time, then the only move I make is to run away as far as I can and as fast as I can.
@chrismcevoy2503 Жыл бұрын
I would give her a hug if I saw her.
@brianambrosemcmahon85312 жыл бұрын
Yes please make another video abut signs she likes you 🙏🏼💙
@turqueo2 жыл бұрын
This video is actually 100% perfect for my situation, thanks so much :)
@oPHILOSORAPTORo3 жыл бұрын
Okay, so what happens when you're pretty sure she's giving you a signal, but when you ask, she insists it's not a signal, yet she still acts hurt afterwards like you rejected her? in a situation like that, should you move forward as though it was a real signal, or should you take her at her word, and do nothing?
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
That sounds confusing. Is she playing games? These videos will help you to know. kzbin.info/aero/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA God bless 🙏
@Nikosi93 жыл бұрын
Go after a different one. Don't waste your time on a woman who doesn't know what she wants...
@Marsdrip3 жыл бұрын
@@Nikosi9 god
@lakelanddentalarts3 жыл бұрын
The smart thing is to always accept that no means no. If she's playing the "chase me" game, she's telling you to prove that you deserve her. It's a narcissistic attitude that means everything will be about her, and that every day in a relationship with her will be the equivalent of taking a final exam. It will not be an equal-partnership relating dynamic; it will be a Mistress/servant dynamic.
@ivanmalau49453 жыл бұрын
Most times girls/women dont know what they want so they are ambiguous on purpose. This prevents them from building dead ends and thus you are always an option. I think you need to understand that women are human like us dudes. They get confused and are driven by emotion like us. The difference is that men don't get nearly as much attention from girls as we give them. Provided you are not rich or handsome. My point is this girl you describing hasn't matured yet mentally and is most likely stringing you along for something she gets from you. The sooner you realise what the better. Be careful my dudes not all women are good for you. Bonus tip this might sound like a bad idea on paper but don't focus on 1 girl in your life... rather have multiple. Especially if you never had a real relationship before. the reason is that you are training your mind to not give 1 woman all the attention. As soon as a woman can discern that they just need to sneeze and you will be there. You have already lost. You not going to ever going to be in a relationship with that gal. Women are strange but the best advice I can give you is focus your life on yourself and socials and mingle when need be but don't make any woman the centre of your life. Unless you married lol... but even still some mystery never hurt nobody but that's a topic for another day.
@pelgervampireduck3 жыл бұрын
sometimes you are sure there are signs, you are careful, you wait to be like 500% sure, "this can't be just being friendly, this has to mean something", but when you ask her out, she says "I see you only as a friend".
@CoachMelannie3 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that happened! If you’d like to email me I can help you with this. coachmelannie.com/contact-me/ God bless 🙏
@jhinwsmite91172 жыл бұрын
Fell in love during radiation, received ALL the signs, However, decorum dictated I couldn't CLOSE, but had to wait "38 first dates" of 2 min at a time, til my treatment ended (Mon) Charming to watch us both drop rose petals and pick up each others' lead. Excellent video