Things Women Wear That Men Hate!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

This comment section is bonkers. Lol People… find your sense of humor. Trust me, nobody is telling you what to wear or not to wear. The main message of the episode is wear whatever makes you feel great about yourself!!! I made an episode for the fellas about what women hate, and another about what women find super sexy on a man, and then a bunch of people asked me to make one for the gals. This is it! Take a deep breath and enjoy what the guys had to say. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@hsmd4533]

Lighten up, people!

[@kathleenmullen5475]

😂

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@kathleenmullen5475 🤦🏻‍♀️🤪

[@pamelab7235]

What’s the point of asking for advice (via watching the video) if all you’re going to do is be defensive about the advice? Take what you find useful, don’t pay attention to the rest, and resist the urge to brag about how you just don’t fit into any of the categories described.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@pamelab7235 Hi, Pamela. 👋

[@lisagignac1182]

I wear jeans, a white t-shirt and oversized blazer with kitten heels or low boots. I have shoulder length hair and let it go grey - it's shiny and healthy. I wear a bit of makeup and a light spritz of perfume. I feel beautiful at 59 and don't care if others disagree - I'm happy and healthy:)

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Wonderful!

[@barbaraparker6996]

Sounds like my kind of style.😊

[@Suzette-gb7uj]

You sound lovely!

[@aushepard]

Cool

[@judithwebb2348]

Wonderful and same here. But with a scarf for a pop of color.

[@dhodges1911]

As a man. We only say we don't like these things if we don't find you attractive. Women we find attractive can wear damn near anything. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@CoffeewithCarey]

That probably goes both ways

[@dhodges1911]

@@CoffeewithCarey it ABSOLUTELY does.

[@apropst5867]

@@CoffeewithCarey very true. I'm female and Mario Lopez could wear WHATEVER he wanted and still be gorgeous!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@apropst5867 Hahahha

[@BeYounique...Maryanne]

That's so true!! I can be around the house with my hair in a bun, no make-up, sweat pants and my husband is still pawing at me, trying to kiss me! LOL! :)

[@Krystal-vd1ql]

I’ve always worn a full face of make up. Years ago I had the Lasik eye procedure and was not allowed to wear make up for a week. I felt so insecure and scared. I was at the gym and the hottest guy there hit on me. I guess men really don’t like a lot of make up.

[@TheTerrypcurtin]

Did ya get a 2nd date? Or did Chad get his needs filled and find his 30 year old?

[@brendarodgers5686]

That's a sweet story.

[@okaycola2]

Yep

[@katemiller7874]

No one likes a circus clown

[@RickyB-u4s]

I've had a lot of guy friends over the years and can attest they don't like a lot of makeup. I wear makeup, but natural looking makeup. I actually had a friend say, he wanted someone who didn't wear makeup like me. I informed him I had on foundation, blush, mascara, etc. A full face of makeup just lightly applied and natural looking. He had no idea I wore makeup 😂

[@joannwisniewski5645]

I have very short hair, and I had a boyfriend who once asked me to grow my hair out for him. He said that he loved to play with long hair. Now I use to have very long hair, but due to my having health problems my hair started to thin and fall out. I told him this, but he really wanted me to do this for him. Finally after years of this I clapped back and told him that if he wanted long hair, he could grow his own hair out then he could then play with himself! (Needless to say, we are no longer together)

[@CoffeewithCarey]

😊

[@Marktheshark-e7f]

You sound unpleasant.yur ex dodged a bullet

[@jojokeane]

My long hair is wavy and thick. I don't like men running their fingers through it because it's going to get stuck. A lot of men's reaction is to yank their hand through it. Not sexy and sometimes painful. I have had men grab my hair and that feels threatening.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@jojokeane yikes!

[@intherockies]

Glad you stood up for yourself. Your comment to him was perfect 😂

[@GalaxyFluke]

I cut my hair to slightly below my chin after having longer but thin hair most of my life. Men tell me they love it. Strangers, friends, whoever. While I know they normally like long hair I think it’s how it is carried and overall vibe. My haircut made me “sexy sophisticated” as I’ve heard over and over. One married man at the beach stopped me as I walked across the room to say he wasn’t trying to hit on me that he was happily married but thought I should know my hair cut is perfect that you rarely see the perfect haircut like that anymore. He was like 70’s im early 30’s.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

That’s adorable!! 🤎

[@treefrogette]

@GalaxyFluke Oh wow that sounds so amazing, now I would love to see your haircut! I have long, very fine hair that is thinning at the scalp lately. I am getting ready to go short and donate it! Would you mind sharing your sample pictures? I've had a bob in the past but I'm afraid to go too short.

[@TehyaSB]

The maxi dress one has been so untrue in my experience. Guys love it when I'm wearing them, especially when we're on dates or our first meetup. They compliment how graceful and elegant I look and often compliment my dresses too.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@TehyaSB how wonderful that you found something that makes you feel great and looks good on you-yeah and is admired. These are not rules just generalities. Personally I look like a I’m walking in a hole in a long dress. My very long legs require not being hidden under flowing fabric. Point is… Everyone is different! 🤎

[@MIMIDSH]

Same for me-- a maxi is usually uncommon where I live so it's a nice surprise.

[@canecorsomom2023]

Yeah, that one is confusing. There's a whole side to the shorts at the beginning of summer where men are excited for maxi dress season. My husband loves them

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@canecorsomom2023 men would prefer shorts and short skirts.

[@bradzimmerman3171]

Just like muslim women-yuck,what a stupid religion

[@Learaks]

As a retired professional bellydancer, the only time men like harem pants is when you have a sparkly bra and belt with it.😉

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Ahhhaaaa. 🤎

[@T-Babbbldot]

@Learaks I In the 1980s, in West LA, there was a restaurant called Moonin' Tunis, where the bellydancer danced upon the tabletop while we ate the Hungarian Slop from a tray. The sparkly brazier was magnifico!

[@Learaks]

@@T-Babbbldot That sounds fun! At a Greek restaurant, I sat on a small table while one guy grabbed the corner by his teeth and his friend lifted the other corner with one hand. They would prance around with me playing the zills lounging on the table. Everything gets rowdier when the dancer literally steps off of the floor.😀

[@betterstill100]

And they’re see thru😛

[@Learaks]

@@betterstill100 If she's a trained professional, the bra and belt aren't transparent at all.

[@Myraisins1]

Personally I don't like men being so in to what women wear, makeup, hair etc There is something somewhat magical about a woman putting herself together, that a man should be confused and down right ignorant about. He is supposed to be confused about if I cut or colored my hair or if I'm wearing extensions. He is supposed to be confused about if it's the same dress I wore last week or a new one. He is just supposed to say "Wow you look amazing!" I know many women disagree and would feel offended if a man doesn't notice her hair or dress etc but I prefer them to be ignorant. In fact, that's what I look for.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Myraisins1 ahhhh, you don’t want men looking behind the curtain to see the wizard! ;-) 🤎

[@phalynwilliams4119]

I agree with you. A man just needs to notice that I look good 😊

[@ExoticalT369]

Yep!

[@zsuzsuspetals]

I so agree. Thank goodness my husband is clueless to fashion and style. He knows good and bad, but no specifics. I honestly have found it's feminine men who are too into women's fashion.

[@jsizemo]

In my experience, this is an odd thing to hear as men (in particularly straight) are frequently criticized for being apathetic on these things.

[@juanitahardy8583]

How about what turns women off in men.....poor grooming, gross tattoos, baggy or messy clothes, low backside or droopy pants, uncoordinated patterns and colours, high tide pants, dirty or worn down shoes, open chest exposing shirts, white socks and belts.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

How about you go check that episode out right now!

[@grandmaoldschool7011]

Velcro shoes, elastic waistbands,yellow teeth.

[@EVEE_Rose-3]

Burping and farting. I also hate those gross long frizzy pubic hair looking unkempt beards. Their snoring. Etc….l

[@myalightseeker]

Gross tattoos? A lot of women love tattoos

[@Just1American1966]

Most of those men aren't dressing for you. They're dressing for themselves. Sound familiar? Incidentally, I'm above fifty, sport no tattoos, go clean-shaven or with a two-day stubble, and wear a plaid button-up and blue jeans virtually everywhere. That is all between a cowboy hat or rancher cap and cowboy (saddle or roper) boots. I dress this way for me. I would never assume all women (or any woman) should like it.

[@karinesavard2016]

Oh yes the tattoos! I get compliments for having NO tattoos nor piercings! Who would have thought to be special WITHOUT this fancy stuff? 😉👍🤣😂

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I’m sure you look beautiful, but that’s ridiculous. Lol.

[@myalightseeker]

Funny because I get compliments on my tattoos ALL the time!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@mt.shasta6097 you read my comment incorrectly

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@mt.shasta6097 it’s ridiculous that people would give compliments for NOT having something. Ludicrous even hence the Lol. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@taboovsknowledge1603]

You are you and tats' and lancing your body is not needed and not attractive. Real, good men are looking at you, into you. Plus, Listening to women about women? Listen to men of your wasting your time.

[@rosanilebron1566]

This is hilarious! I once read a young adult gal talking about her experience when she had a Pixie cut. She said that in her experience, a Pixie has been one of the best filters to know a man's true intentions. That was a very interesting article I read a few months ago. I'm rocking a lovely Pixie at 52yrs old for the past 10 months.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Love that you love it!

[@jimfrederich8852]

I actually have always been attracted to women with short hair as long as it isn’t too short like mens styles. I’m now 73.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

💇🏻‍♀️👍

[@Mars_Fortune_Music]

When my lady comes down the staircase and she is looking beautiful. I appreciate all the effort she took to look her best for us. Whether it's a quick bar burger, run to the ice cream palour or dinner and a movie. Whether or not I really "love" one look over another it's the effort to make me look like I made a great choice in a life partner. Love one another out there :-)

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Mars_Fortune_Music #Appreciation

[@livbyron4150]

Great comment!

[@SN-wi6nn]

As a woman I absolutely loooove silk blouses with bows😂😂😂I’m not gonna stop wearing that

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@SN-wi6nn For sure!! You do you! 🤎👍

[@f.maria7835]

Wear what makes you happy,silk blouses are so pretty and feminine ❤

[@Cherryblossom18634]

I wouldn’t either

[@marionmuller7801]

I don't wear any of that stuff....just jeans or leggings , oversized Shirts. My hair is very long , ponytail or messy bun , still natural brown -- i'm 64 😂

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤎

[@saero1960]

Had short hair all my life. Never have wanted for male attention ever. It’s all about how you rock it, baby. You can wear a burlap bag if you wear it with total confidence.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Go girl! Lol🤎

[@Swakara1]

In my experience, men don't like ANYTHING overdone whether it's over the top hair, makeup or clothing. A fresh natural look and simple but not dowdy-looking clothes in colors that flatter you work best such as well-cut jeans and a red deep v-neck sweater, for example.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Well, that’s a pretty specific outfit you described! 😄

[@Swakara1]

@@CoffeewithCarey Yes, that was an example but it works. Anything simple with a touch of sexy men usually like. 😉

[@monicalong1371]

@@CoffeewithCarey It's the red sweater. That color tends to draw the eye.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@monicalong1371 they say everybody has their perfect shade of red!

[@cleopatra658]

@@monicalong1371 I think Men like women in brighter colors, they get tired of seeing us in black or dark colors! I used to have a Chartreuse outfit I wore with fuchsia accessories! I always got compliments from men!

[@starcatcher3691]

I dress for own pleasure. What brings me joy. Now when i care about a man, of course i want to look nice to him but primarily i dress for my own pleasure. I really dont think i dress for other women.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Yup, we dress for ourselves, and secondarily some of us dress for other women. 👍

[@Neoteny374]

​@@CoffeewithCarey Then wtf is the point of this video!?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Neoteny374 for those who prioritize that, general awareness, and for date nights?

[@ssiegreen5292]

@@CoffeewithCarey So you are referring to the old one-up-(wo)manship? The age old "I'm prettier/better/sexier/richer/successful-er/[fill in the appropriate blank] than you and can take your man if I want to!" adage?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@ssiegreen5292 🙄👎

[@karyannfontaine8757]

I have never worn any of the items you have mentioned. Always had positive attention from men. Still slim, petite, aging gracefully at 74. I have subscribed to your channel.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Welcome! 🤎

[@user-wv2bn2cb1i]

Don't care what men like or don't like. Wear what u want.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

That’s certainly what was suggested

[@jzwalz51robin45]

Sure, just do not much attention from them

[@katemiller7874]

Single lady I’m guessing

[@joannanangle4876]

Correct if men don't like you at the start they never will that goes for women aswell

[@kelly851]

I have and ALWAYS dressed for myself,my personal style and what makes me feel authenticity beautiful even on a date. I never have changed anything about myself to please someone else. I appreciate compliments from women and will never downplay women about their styles as we are all doing our best! I may wear an outfit that my friends would never wear and visa versa but i accept them for who they are inside and out! 💞

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Yes! 🤎

[@katemiller7874]

Sooo you are single sounds like it

[@laurahodgson6531]

Anyone else click on this in order to go out of their way to wear these things?

[@ValerieAnders-z8t]

That’s funny

[@TheDowntownHermit-xj6rq]

YES

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@laurahodgson6531 oooh a contrarian! 🙃

[@KDevilgal]

I assumed that was the point of this video. I am the most flattered if a stylish looking woman compliments me.

[@finolaomurchu8217]

😂

[@butterflygirl3359]

As a woman, I have to say I agree with all of these. Hair extensions, huge earrings, long fake lashes, tallon nails, overdone makeup all scream low class. And big tattoos and large holes in your earlobes make you look like a psych patient.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

And as a woman, I have to say that we’re all entitled to our own unique opinions. Thanks for sharing yours!

[@patriciaanzelc5386]

Exactly

[@myalightseeker]

I agreed until the tattoo thing. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@myalightseeker to each their own, right?

[@SarahlabyrinthLHC]

I agree with you!

[@monicadaniels784]

Like I always say, "Dress to not get arrested!" Other than that, you do you! Thanks Carey, it was interesting!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Hahhaha.

[@witchofthebakony]

hilarious and true!!

[@annaburns2865]

As a woman who has short hair, I’m grateful that my husband says that he doesn’t love me for my hair. I know if can be hard on him sometimes that I don’t look more feminine. But it’s hard to grow out this buzz cut and whenever we do chores, I really (used to) hate if it gets in my face. However, I think we have found a compromise. I still wear dresses sometimes, and when I do, I can tell that my husband really likes it. So you know. I don’t dress for him everyday, but some days I make a little more effort, and that goes a long way. 😊

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Whatever works for you!

[@serahloeffelroberts9901]

Nothing prettier than a bias cut 1930s style maxi dress!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@serahloeffelroberts9901 bias, cut in general is lovely in my opinion. Even cocktail length -for my figure.

[@katemiller7874]

Of course he likes when you wear dresses that way it differentiates a boy from a girl

[@just4music687]

There are many women who look MORE feminine with short hair. Because it really brings out their soft features and gorgeous eyes. Depends on the woman.

[@ivoryterry5976]

This is my first visit to your channel, and I enjoyed listening. I found it both comforting and engaging. Loved it

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Well thank you! I’m glad. 🤎

[@SoftChroma]

This was interesting! I know women are going to feel an aversion towards hearing “what they should do to please men” so you nailed that. I still thought it was a great video. For me I choose comfort 😂❤

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Yeah, this was not meant to advise women. I would never tell anyone what they should wear. This was just a comment on what many men say they dislike…. With a humorous tone -that went over some people’s heads. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Stay comfy! 👍

[@x-man5056]

Women constantly complain that men pay no attention to them, then in the next breath some nasty comment that lands like "screw what men like". Then women get ignored and complain. It's true that women dress to impress each other. Root cause right there.

[@renafielding945]

Oh yeah

[@DawnFromNZ]

I love my bright red lipsticks! Not giving them up for anyone! There has to be at least one man other than Hercule Poirot that adores women in red lipsticks. 💄💋😊

[@Mitra-sd7np]

😅😂

[@sandhermit3665]

My dad always yelled at me for wearing red lipstick and/or makeup in general. I rarely wear makeup. My mom wore red lipstick. My sister always wore makeup. The problem was that I rarely wore makeup and when I did, it was noticeable to him. The last time he said anything was when I was in my 30s and married. I told him, "Well, my husband likes me in lipstick." He never complained again.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@sandhermit3665 there is just something icky about men having an opinion so strong, they feel comfortable telling a woman what to wear or not wear.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@DawnFromNZ🎵 🎶 🎵express yourself 🎵🎶🎶

[@hauntingbeauty]

Awww a fellow bookworm! 📚🐛

[@Rondup]

I have super short hair and my husband has always loved it, one of his favorite things about me.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Rondup Lovely that he likes what you prefer!

[@bethyeary8995]

I have short hair, too.I don't look or feel good with long hair.

[@Rondup]

@@bethyeary8995 Yes! I look younger with short hair and anytime a male has complimented me on my hair most have said they find it sexy🤭

[@tims.5995]

🤮🤮🤮

[@Rondup]

@@tims.5995 you gotta look good to wear it😏

[@spoofsister]

I always find it funny which kind of man think they are entitled to have opinions about a woman’s looks and are not afraid to tell on a first date: One guy telling me he does not like short hair on girls so I should not cut mine, himself wearing a ”comb-over” of the size of a saucer. One guy telling me he expects that the girl is very well put together on a daily basis, I could smell his body odour over the table. One guy pointing out only slim girls are sexy enough for him, smiling with yellow/brownish teeth and reaching out for my hand with extremely unkept fingernails.

[@sandhermit3665]

Ewww!😂

[@monicadaniels784]

These doctors of male opinion took the hypocritical oath.

[@ssiegreen5292]

@@monicadaniels784 🤪🤪🤪

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@spoofsister ick. But let’s also not pretend that women don’t have opinions on what men wear. I have a couple episodes on that as well.

[@julieerin115]

lol, so true!

[@elizabethtaylor9910]

The majority of older women do not look good with long, shapeless hair because it drags their facial features down. This only makes them look older.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

And if that is the case, they obviously don’t care. Or for some of us, it’s about how we feel over how we look… To other people.

[@mtngrl5859]

The shapeless part of your comment can be dealt with in proper styling. Again, we have to be clear on what is long hair. My hair is shoulder length & is quite full and can be worn in a variety of styles.

[@marilynbrown5274]

@@mtngrl5859 Well styled and shaped shoulder length hair..I don't like short hair..period.

[@mtngrl5859]

@@marilynbrown5274 There are certain women who do look amazing in short hair. Dramatic beauties like Annie Lennox, a short hair style really focuses on one's face. Of course, one has to be skillful in handling makeup too. If one thinks of a classic Marilyn Monroe look, most of her hair styles were definitely on the shorter range. Personally, I prefer a long bob to shoulder length hair. Due to changes in hormonal health as we age, its more difficult to have very long hair due to hair fragility. I take all kinds of herbs & my air is fairly thick but I keep my hair well trimmed at shoulder length.

[@just4music687]

Exactly!

[@LenaS-j5y]

Don’t know of one man who dosnt love a woman in heels.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

The way they look, yes.

[@coraliepython1291]

I wear a pixie haircut for the past 4 years, from bold, sexy ginger, blonde platinium to 90s natural kind look, I'm shamed online but it's well received by men irl. I remember a dude saying to me "A woman with short hair knows what she wants". If you rock it, rock it, the guy you want to attract will be down if he likes you.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Absolutely. ☕️☕️

[@StellaWaldvogel]

If I didn't have a big head and a scrawny neck, I'd get a 1920's flapper bob. I'd put marcel waves in it too - I love that look! But I keep my hair at about collar bone length these days. It used to be a lot longer, past my butt. But for some reason people thought it was OK to come up behind me and put their hand on it! I'd feel somebody touching me and whirl around ready to fight for my life, and it would just be some idiot standing there saying "You got pretty hair." I finally cut it. It's the same hair and it's healthy and shiny but nobody tells me it's pretty any more. And I am perfectly OK with that. This looks like a fun channel. Subscribed!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@StellaWaldvogel touching your hair like they touch pregnant lady’s tummies! What’s with people and a lack of personal space/ boundaries? I don’t know what you mean by a scrawny neck. But I wish I had one at all. Lol Welcome to the channel! Ps. Maybe that flapper vibe was yours in a previous life. 🤔

[@lynniec]

As a woman I don't like several things on this list either, hair extensions, super long nails, tattoos and piercings, fake eyelashes, heavy makeup, clogs, giant jewelry and glasses, all tacky and unattractive in my opinion. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@CoffeewithCarey]

To each their own! 👍

[@user339]

I'll add leggings to that list. They look fabulous on some women, but many others who would look better in some other pants, slacks, or jeans wear leggings, too. Women either look great in them, or not.

[@dawnmiller6899]

I have found that the upkeep on short hair is much more to keep that style. Cut every 4 to 6 weeks at least. Also with my long hair I have many more style choices. I can wear it up or down depending on my mood or what I am doing. I will never go back to short hair.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I feel that way too. My mother has been bugging me to go back to a hairstyle. I had 25 years ago. “You look so pretty in that headshot on my piano…” Oy 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@carolesmall-diop2333]

It really depends on the kind of hair you have. Mine is fine, dry, and curly. It is currently long because my husband loves it (yeah, I know, but I like to make him happy, sometimes) and that means I need super gentle shampoo, heavy conditioner, and some kind of leave-in, and I need to braid it at night so it doesn't tangle and break when I sleep on it. When it is short, I can just shampoo it, mess up the curls with my fingers and go. A bit of conditioner from time to time, but I don't need all sorts of special products or protective styling.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@carolesmall-diop2333 curls. Fun!

[@jperksification]

Interesting. I don't know one straight man that comments on women's clothes or haircut. Who are these men commenting on women's clothing?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Nearly all of them. I’m assuming you don’t seem like the type to them where they would bring it up to you in particular.

[@BeYounique...Maryanne]

Before I started dating my husband I had a ton of male friends, including ex-boyfriends. They LOVED to take me shopping and buy me clothes. One in particular loved shoe shopping. Maybe it's me because I'm into artists and musicians and they are into clothes and creativity. But, yeah, my husband is also an artist and musician, very much into my clothes/fashion/style. He said I make him look good. He doesn't buy nearly as much as I do, but when he does he truly rocks it as well.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@BeYounique...Maryanne I’ve always been with musicians so I think you’re probably attracting a specific type of man. 🤎

[@BeYounique...Maryanne]

@@CoffeewithCarey Yeah, the kind that genuinely love their female friends and women they are involved with. I've always had my "jerk" radar on so I could detect the losers and run from them. Ha-ha! :) (Not saying that men that don't love clothes are losers, but I just like to be with guys who I could have a friend vibe with).

[@RickyB-u4s]

My guy friends have always told me what they like and don't like.

[@lucindasavona2278]

I do my own thing. I dress to suit myself. I'm not interested in others' opinions of my clothes, hair length or anything else. I like my hair long. Most women my age don't.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

You do you!

[@katemiller7874]

I like long hair too. I’ll never cut it

[@LauraJdogmom]

I (68F) used to have long hair. I kept telling myself that I would do things with it--chic up-dos and whatnot. Never did. I always wore it in a ponytail, usually braided and pulled through the back of a ball cap. I finally cut it all off and now have very short hair. I kind of miss the long hair, but it always looks better on hair models than it ever did on me. Also, my hair now dries in five minutes. That said, I think that healthy, well maintained long hair looks great on women of any age, including older women.

[@susans7091]

Thank you Nice to know how to get them to leave us alone!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Ohhhhh. Lol 😬

[@hillbilln9608]

My husband told me that he preferred me with short hair. I was always trying to grow it out, but it was very thin. So I wore it short. As I aged and my hair turned stark white, it started to grow long a lush. I know, not a common story. Anyway, now that it's long, he constantly tells me how gorgeous my hair is. Funny how he "preferences" changed. 😅

[@CoffeewithCarey]

How lucky are you! ☺️

[@alomaalber6514]

I love to have my hair long, but the one time it was VERY VERY short a european accented older man parked his car to tell me how great it looked as I left the salon!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Ahhh. Nice!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

And look how all these years later, you remember that lovely compliment.

[@tecomaman]

he just wanted to get in your pants

[@Katrn30]

Great episode! I say dress the way you want for what you want. If you want to be warm, comfortable, stylish, attractive, invisible, do it! …and if you want a man…find out what they like. Or, just be yourself and wing it! Lots of people like to know what others find attractive.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

So true!

[@gailfairweather1515]

I have long blonde hair and men always comment on it. In the summer I do put it up.i paint my nails no one has ever said anything bad about it. They say they like the colour. I wear natural makeup.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

☺️🤎

[@teelakovacs208]

My husband has admitted he absolutely hates overalls! I was shocked. Not on me specifically but in general. I don't get it, they look adorable so I still wear them but not typically if we're going out to do more than errands. Eternally a tshirt, jeans and boots girl. And androgynous styles- I wish I could pull them off! For me, getting a beautifully tailored bespoke suit would feel incredible, special, powerful. For now what's clean and cute does the job 😂 Oh when I was teaching he'd refer to my 'teacher clothes' longer jumper dresses or tunics and leggings and my general disheveled art teaching at multiple schools, schlepping looks. Oh well. At least he met me under no pretense, in a bar wearing of course a tshirt and jeans. Style evolves and looks back, my vintage pieces are mixed in the every day or just pulled out to smash styles together. It makes me happy and feel good. I've asked what he'd choose for me, but get no real response. Until then just gonna keep trying sometimes but ultimately do what I want lol

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤎

[@Katrn30]

I am a white woman who hates it when a man runs his hands through my hair. I work hard to keep my fine hair looking nice and really don’t like a man destroying it.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

This is usually in more intimate moments. Hopefully you’re not at a restaurant and having him “ruffle your feathers”. Lol.

[@sharroon7574]

Same!

[@jennifersilves4195]

​@@CoffeewithCarey It HURTS. I have curly hair. It just hurts.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@jennifersilves4195 then no way! 👍🤎

[@juboo4451]

I do dress for men, primarily. However I'll only wear clothes in which I feel like myself, in a way. Men should see me as a woman, but also as which "type" of a woman I am: taste-wise, peer-group-wise, interests-wise.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@juboo4451 that sounds like you’re dressing to impart information. Not for men, but to inform men. but I’m all for whatever makes you confident…

[@MIMIDSH]

That's just what I commented too. I dress in a way that the type of men I prefer, prefer, because that's who I am.

[@stoneagedjp]

The thing is, no one's going to break up with you over cutting off your hair. But if long hair was part of the attraction, well, you're going to have to face the music 😆

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@stoneagedjp why? Did you sign a contract stating that you would never change anything about yourself in the length of this partnership? Put that book down and get to the gym!

[@stoneagedjp]

@@CoffeewithCarey Hahaha. Yeah, but if I change something, and she has something to say about it, I can take it. (As for the gym, I'm the consummate gym rat, so only if I quit will she get me there.)

[@biondna7984]

Thank you for this. It confirms that I'm pretty much on target. I dress according to my own expression, comfort, and actual lifestyle, but also to attract the right kind of men. Can't help them with the hair thing; I'm really enjoying having it short. Oh well.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Glad you’re feeling good! These weren’t rules. Just the taste of the majority. 🤷🏻‍♀️😎

[@yensid4294]

Men like the *idea* of long hair & "no makeup" It's a youthful indicator. But once you're in your 4th or 5th decade....probably not. What they mean is they prefer makeup that doesn't look like makeup & hair that isn't over coiffed.They say they want low maintenance girls but always find high maintenance(styled) women attractive. Probably differs by age group. I think younger guys are more accepting of edgy or alternative street style where older guys might prefer more tradionally feminine styles. It's always weird when a guy who was initially attracted to you (presumably liked your presentation) suddenly starts criticizing how you look/dress. Big red flag.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I agree with everything you said! That’s rare for me. Lol.

[@oliviastar3812]

Love your frank and respectful comment for black women wearing hair extensions. You may want to consider that black men (in fact all men then) don't want to "run their hands through a woman's hair" as not all hair even naturally grows that way, i.e.: curly hair that is tightly curled. Yet, women blessed with hair that thick and bouncy are equally attractive to men. We all know what Eurocentric beauty image the media tells all of us (men and women) we should desire and be attracted to, and for those following that doctrine, good luck with that; for the more discerning, all women types have various modes of beauty.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

☕️☕️🤎

[@emilyevans6989]

Married 43 years in October. The ONLY things he has EVER said just wouldn’t fly were 1)too much eye makeup and 2)I had my hair dyed burgundy once. I wore a Pixie cut for about 5 years, and my dentist thought it was fabulous. I dress very simply. If it has bows, lace, too much pattern or too fussy, it bothers me. Basically, in fall and winter, it’s a black or navy turtleneck and jeans. Oh, and the big glasses. I have to have them.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤎

[@deannaleechristian4303]

I only dress for myself. My closest friend recently didn't like the pants I was wearing but I didn't care. She wears jeans every day so she doesn't dress to impress either

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Whatever floats the boat. 👍💃

[@eviefriend3976]

I just wear what’s comfortable and my husband is always complimenting me.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Very nice

[@Axnzo]

Very good. Even in oversized clothes?

[@eviefriend3976]

@@Axnzo Yes, overalls even, he says I am adorable.

[@masumi1990x]

I'm not a man, but I hate short hair and shoulder pads with passion. Short hair DOES need a lot of maintenance, and too big shoulder pads are just ugly.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Thanks for sharing your opinions

[@monicalong1371]

Yes, short hair does require a lot of maintenance, and one little hair out of place can ruin the whole style. Longer hair is easier to put in an updo. I don't hate short hair. A lot of women look great in it. I just don't happen to be one of them.

[@vickiecordon7887]

What! Are women supposed to be attractive to men or always worrying about that men like them? There is a lot more to life than being attractive to men. Women must wear and do what is confortable to them. The number one person in a woman's life should be herself.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Yeah, I am fairly certain that was not at all the message in this episode.

[@barbroose4664]

I love seeing my dates smile when I show up for a date. One of the hacks that I figured out after my divorce six years long ago was to buy date clothes in advance so I’m not stressing about what to wear. I like keeping 3-4 date specific outfits on hand. I do wear long wings, but natural looking. I have mid length elegant nails and tasteful make up. The key is sticking to what is consistent with my style…PS. I’m a profession high heel wearer, which means that I’m over six feet tall. Men love them!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤎

[@lucindasavona2278]

Yep. Mother & my sister sit in outdoor cafes or at home & criticise & tear other women's fashion choices apart. It embarrasses me & make me sick to my stomach. They also tell me & everyone else that I have bad taste & no fashion sense because I don't follow the fads & trends like they do. I did tell them that I wasn't a Kardashian....like them Now, I simply ignore them & try to avoid them & their black tongues.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Aw, that’s not nice criticizing others for their choices. Good for you.

[@lumity238]

Yes, My boyfriend has a comment about everything i wear, and he even checks out women too, which hurts , i asked him why he looks at other women ,and his answer is ... I like looking at beautiful women ... Well what am I ???? So im done , men are a waste of time .

[@ssiegreen5292]

Men will be men, and to be honest - that's what we like about them. If they were like women - not so much, right? I bet you look at other men and appreciate how they're build or the looks, etc - you may just be more discreet and not do it while he's observing you...

[@barbroose4664]

You deserve better than him.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

So you want him to stop looking at other women? How do you propose to do that? blinders or just gouge his eyeballs out? Lol I’m going to suggest you check in on, take stock of, and perhaps work on self-esteem because those of us who very confident have no problems with our men looking and talking to other women. Committed men are still human. Some of us don’t even mind harmless flirting. I certainly wouldn’t want anyone monitoring whom I choose to look at or talk to! I would not stay partnered to any man that was that insecure! Something to think about…

[@gaga4822]

I dunno. I don't think the comment the poster put was very nice. It sounded mean. I think we all have different boundaries of what we like and some people really don't have wandering eyes. People are different and that includes the way they look at others. I think you should just leave. Because it won't change. There's no point in arguing with a man. Just like there no point in a man trying to control and argue with a woman. Adults have the ability to understand and the freedom to choose.. For example some man get upset when their girlfriend posts sexy pictures or has a revealing clothes. But he is fine looking at other women who do the same thing and that's what attracted him to his woman. I would say he need to either except or leave and not do double standards. So there no point in staying if you value different things.. I think it's worse trying to force and pretend. Not every man feels the need to look around and some men are very attached to their partners just like some women don't look around and get very attached. I think best to find someone who agrees on certain key points rather than trying to force snd argue with an adult with free agency. Just like you aren't in control of him, he isn't in control of you so you don't have to stay. Also when two people disagree it just festers and blows up when they get mad or they hold it against the person. But if you don't leave at least find ways to have peace of mind start dressing for yourself and do things you like and go to places where people appreciate you.. I also don't think you are in a good relationship because you said he puts down what you do and comments on what you wear so he might be trying to break you down and neg you so you won't leave. Some men like to that to control the woman so she won't leave and takes his treatment.. she will try hard to please him without thinking if he is worth pleasing at all. That parts makes it sound like he doesn't care about you..and even after telling him how you feels he tries to minimize or deflect. But he is aware what he does is hurtful to you so it just sounds really sad. ☹️

[@gaga4822]

Unless he is making your life better in some way then there really is no point in being all sad over him.. that's what I learned from Shera. Don't die an unhappy woman.

[@SherryMacoy-dk4zh]

Guess I’m the only one here who clicked because I love dressing for my husband every day 🥰😍 I also love when he buys me clothes and accessories that he will like on me.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Whatever works for YOU! But yes, nobody else has shared your opinion. 🤎

[@katemiller7874]

I share your opinion. It’s nice being in a loving marriage where you please each other’s. Ladies nowadays really sound nasty

[@TruFlyFox]

I have a buzz cut and I get so many compliments. Lucky for me my hubby loves my short hair but even if he didn't, I wear my hair for me and I love it.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤎

[@SaffronJ7R]

This was amusing and interesting. Thank you Carey.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

So glad!! Thank you!

[@jennifermarquess8145]

Glasses fashions are something that seems to flip flop every generation or so. My Mom wore big, plastic frame glasses when I was growing up. When I needed glasses at 19, she recommended the same and my first glasses were like that. However, my friends were all wearing small, wire framed glasses. I will quote a very good salesperson at the optometrist: "Glasses are jewelry you wear every day." So I bought my small, wire frames. My mother said they looked like "old lady" glasses because that's what my grandmother wore. 20-30 years later, younger women are wearing my Mom's glasses styles. I'm still buying petite wire frames. I think they look old in their big, plastic glasses. They think I look old in my little wire glasses.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

You’re right that there are trends in most everything that is fashion, and glasses definitely make a fashion statement. But like everything in fashion, we’re not required to follow trends. Find your own style and embrace it. 🤎

[@Elizabeth-yc7pz]

I wear what I want to wear. I dress for comfort.

[@jeanniesilvestro2748]

Me too!

[@martasoltys9091]

I think harem pants are returning. I'm not a fan of them myself, but I've seen them around a lot lately and especially on women. And I love bows on blouses and frills and lace on blouses. The French 18th cent style. that's my jam.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

And I for one think that’s fantastic. I could never pull those things off, but I love that you enjoy them and can!

[@martasoltys9091]

@@CoffeewithCarey since elementary school and my first communion when there was some gorggette material left over and the seamstress made me the most beautiful white blouse with an " ébouriffer" in front. It was magnificent

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@martasoltys9091 interesting how we find our style and what appeals to us. 🤎

[@dck_tx4007]

My husband prefers me in short hair. He beams when I receive compliments from complete strangers. It’s a short in back, spiky top and sides. and long bangs haircut. I call it my funky old lady vibe. Once an older male store clerk complimented my haircut. I said, “I want my husband to look at me and say, ‘She is the best f-ing (yes, I used the word) decision I ever made.’ His reply,”Lady, I think you are rocking it.”

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@dck_tx4007 how great that you are being supported!

[@dck_tx4007]

He suggested the short hair cut❤

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@dck_tx4007 well you must’ve felt positively about the suggestion because 500 men could tell me to cut my hair and not one would convince me.

[@HeatherDFolks]

​@@dck_tx4007 would love a pic

[@MayvenFunk]

I love modeling because i love funky, diverse, colorful outfits.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

#PersonalExpression

[@tamiz8895]

Clogs, leather and harem pants…now I want to wear that combo all the time!!!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Do it! Take pictures! 👍

[@ReaghanReilly]

What a great video! So non-judgmental, just a little insight from the other side of the fence 😊 I had heard a few of these before, the short hair and too much make up, I had heard. Kind of interesting, but I've always dressed exactly as I please and worn as much or as little makeup as I like. All depends on my mood. Like you say, Carey, some women dress to suit their personality, and it's not a static thing for some of us 😃

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Exactly! 🤎

[@Pariafi]

Short hair on some women looks really healthy and sexy and also a touch of musculine vibe in feminine outfits makes them cute and sexy

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤌

[@sweetpeasandyarrowaranchdi8327]

I have young adult children. The mom jean, high waisted, wide leg looks terrible on everyone. I'm with the men on that one.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I think it depends on someone’s figure

[@Janus10001]

HUGE fan of short hair on women, especially as they age: It makes their necks look longer, which brings more light into their faces. And on heavier women, unless it's really well styled, long hair can make them look stubby, and it all but smothers any interesting accessories (earrings, mainly) they've got going on. I wish more American women had style and dress sense. The default style of "casual" (i.e., hoodies, sweatshirts, other kinds of pullovers) in blocky, dark, solid colors is evidently hard to grow out of. It seems to be the reason very few American women age into anything like an elegant phase. They just keep dressing like progressively bunchier, shrunken versions of themselves at 20. I just can't imagine an Italian or Spanish woman not knowing how to put together a few simple, fitted pieces, smartly accessorized and tied together with a good bag and great shoes.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Just remember that your experience is based on your experience. You don’t know all women so we’ll have to be careful to not make general statements. I have quite a few extremely fashionable friends. I am the casual leggings and hoodie kind of gal, but they choose to dress beautifully much more often so you’re definitely not talking about my friend group. You’re talking about people around you. I just like to remind people of that.

[@kathyharmon2093]

Interesting that you’ve never heard a man say he likes short hair on a woman, I’m in my late sixties and made the decision to no longer date( too much stress and drama) but the last 2 men I dated both preferred short hair on me and one of them actually said “ the shorter the better “ BTW now my hair is to my waist Lol and I have a new friend who would like to be more than friends but I choose to keep it on a friendship level actually loves my long hair ( and he is also only 40) it varies so much from man to man

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Of course it does! I was speaking in broad generalities. If it fell under the term “most men” I went with it. 😀👍

[@lindaleelaw5277]

I like to dress in a variety of styles . I have fine hair so I keep it short. (too many women wear long hair which isn't flattering ).

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@just4music687]

Men generally are attracted to confident women. Wear what makes you feel confident. Although a lot of guys may prefer long hair on women, or low waisted pants, sometimes this is just code for/ they just prefer younger women. Long hair on some older women is very aging. Rock your age whatever it is!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

👍

[@mehitablestorm8877]

Dress for yourself. As for men - it depends on where you are in life and what your goal is. If you want to attract a man, dress to attract him and the kind of man he is. Frankly, I don't see any point in dressing for other women and I don't know women who do that. Most women dress for themselves, for men, or for a job.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Just because you don’t know any or haven’t had that conversation to know that doesn’t mean it’s not true. Do what makes you feel best!🤎

[@shawngilliland243]

Brings to mind Aretha Franklin and Annie Lennox singing, "Sisters are doing it for themselves . . . "

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Good song!

[@shawnahammond3134]

The most shocking compliment I ever recieved. I was wearing a full length white skirt the floor, a light blue muscle shirt with a white cover that you could see hints of the shirt underneath with cute brown flats. The man said to me "seeing you walk over here in that outfit is the most irrotic thing I have ever seen." I was shocked.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Sounds super chic, although I can’t picture the shoes. 🤔

[@Antiqueexcavator]

I guess I’ll be the first. I love short hair on a woman!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

💇🏻‍♀️

[@pjsmfasheri]

Me too!

[@Axnzo]

Awnn♥️. Do you mind me asking if you also like short hair on African women too?

[@Axnzo]

​@@pjsmfasherilike a buzz cut or shoulder length hair?

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Axnzo I do! 🙋🏻‍♀️

[@mehitablestorm8877]

I think the short hair thing is because to men visually it makes them think of another man. Long hair emphasizes the sex difference between men and women. Not all of us can wear it though esp as we grow older. I think it's about trying to emphasize femininity visually in other ways, if it matters to someone.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Of course men are going to be attracted to things that are feminine. I think that probably goes without saying but thank you for saying it! ;-)

[@mehitablestorm8877]

@@CoffeewithCarey Well, it seems obvious but....I guess maybe it isn't so obvious to some people now. People are very confused these days and a lot live in denial, especially about biology.

[@TheMadge65]

I don’t care what other women think of what I’m wearing, and I never have. It’s about how comfortable I am that concerns me. I’m almost always dressed better than anyone I come across anywhere.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

So I assume you’re just wearing yoga pants tshirts and sweatshirts? 🤔

[@TheMadge65]

@@CoffeewithCarey No Ma’am I do not, except at home to exercise or mow the lawn. When I step outside, I am always far more polished than your appearance in this video.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@TheMadge65 Lol. Well that’s my comfort go to, and the 1% of my wardrobe that gets worn 90% of the time. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@blitzkrieg6872]

1. Dora The Explorer pajamas 2. Spanx 3. Clip on ponytails

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Well, that’s very specific

[@blitzkrieg6872]

@@CoffeewithCarey Thanks! I am wearing my Dora pajamas right now and eating a ding dong!

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@blitzkrieg6872 😆

[@Bryan198026]

I definitely love long hair on a woman because I love the feel of it as I run my hands through it, but at the same time I don't blame women who don't want all the upkeep, especially if the hair also happens to be thick. I also love a light perfume on a lady but it's not a dealbreaker for me.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Congrats on your lack of allergies! 👍

[@Bryan198026]

@@CoffeewithCarey Thankyou. Thankyouverymuch. LOL.

[@FreeSpirit47]

It's rare when I wear anything scented. Guys I have spent time with all said that I smell clean. I guess that's good.

[@Bryan198026]

@@FreeSpirit47 Well, that's all that's really important.

[@FreeSpirit47]

@@Bryan198026 You have a really good singing voice. Have you done anything with your talent?

[@Lovesapuzzle]

Before we were married, my husband asked me to never color my hair, especially when it turns grey, or try to look younger than I actually am. His mother was obsessed with fighting her age and he was embarrassed by it.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

He was traumatized by her anti-aging? Interesting.

[@Lovesapuzzle]

@@CoffeewithCarey I think the issue was that her attempts to remain young looking only made her look cheap. At some point, mini skits and crop tops need to be retired. The same goes for hair dye and harsh make-up. I think he was traumatized by her failed attempt to look like his sister rather than his mother.

[@ACollectorNotAHoarder]

I frickin LOVE wearing whatever I like and not giving a damn what men think 😂 There's no other way to be. Total freedom and peace ❤

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤎👍

[@jackdeniston6150]

All that matters is that the cats are fed

[@LauraJdogmom]

@@jackdeniston6150 Cats are experts at making sure they are fed. At least mine are.

[@wrightmf]

old guy here, many of these items apply. I have to say the turn-offs for me are tattoos and piercings, especially piercings that does opposite affect of viagra. It seems just about every woman under 30 has these (many in 30s as well), I guess that's why I like women over 50.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Whatever floats your boat! 👍

[@tecomaman]

If a man does not like the way you look ,he will not talk to you ,

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Lol. Thats not true. It may be true of you, but it’s certainly not true of all men. So you’re gonna have to speak for yourself.

[@wallacethomas9844]

I love short hair on women. It rocks!🔥🔥🔥 Long hair is awesome too. Love the variety. Now you’ve heard a man say he likes short hair on women.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

I didn’t say all men. There are plenty of men like you who like short hair. 👍

[@wallacethomas9844]

@@CoffeewithCarey didn’t mean to argue, just enjoyed the episode and wanted to say I enjoy short hair too. Love your videos.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@wallacethomas9844 oh no, are we arguing?😳

[@Joan-rw2ql]

I have had short hair my whole life and have never had a problem getting a date.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

👍 Why would you?

[@Joan-rw2ql]

@@CoffeewithCarey because you said you have never heard a man say he likes short hair

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@Joan-rw2ql I don’t know everyone! There are no hard and fast rules. This is just a consensus of people I spoke to. Lol. Nobody can speak for all men or all women! You are obviously attracting men who like short hair. The ones who like long hair are dating someone else.

[@Greenwings701]

Men do not dress for women either, and they don't ever get that women think about their own needs and preferences the same way. But guys will pretend that everything they do is actually for someone else, like it's benevolent that they didn't just put on a dirty tee. Always a gift to humanity.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Nobody is a gift. Far as I can see.

[@gen6895]

Thanks for the advice. Very interesting. On the same token....i just dont care. I would rather have the freedom to express myself via fashion and makeup then be concerned what people think of me.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Boom! 👍

[@FreeSpirit47]

Long hair or short hair, it looks different on every woman. Princess Diana is a classic example. Demi Moore, Halle Berry, Marilyn Monroe etc. A woman doesn't have to have long hair to be attractive. A friend of mine worries about aging, yet, her extremely short hair makes her look 10 years older. One time she went 5 months without having her hair cut. She looked more youthful, more feminine. Her husband was even more attracted to her. Then, she had her hair cut short again. She was more comfortable with it, her hubby complained. Long hair, for me is easier. Only once I got a pixie cut, it was harder to get my hair to do what I wanted it to do. Back to long hair, lol, it was so much easier. Personally, I dress & groom to please myself. Having made the decision to be single & celibate in 2012, life became easier since then. Maybe because I made this decision, I'm approached more than ever. Zero interest in dating, it's important to be kind when I turn the offers down.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🤎🤎🤎

[@MarinaM-o6p]

I DO NOT DRESS FOR MEN OR WOMEN …I DRESS FOR MYSELF ….EITHER PEOPLE HATE ME OR LOVE ME ….

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Hate you or love you? 😯That’s pretty extreme! I doubt I’m very polarizing g. Or that anyone hates me.

[@MarinaM-o6p]

@@CoffeewithCarey …was not talking about you …was talking about myself .

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@MarinaM-o6p why would anyone hate you?

[@RobinSpeer]

Stopped wearing make-up completely when I poked myself in the eye with a mascara brush for the millionth time! My husband likes my hair short, he wanted me to buzz it at one time but that's just him. 😅

[@CoffeewithCarey]

You do what works for you, Robin!

[@valiaudet3415]

House on the prairie are quite popular this year 🎉🎉🎉 boho

[@CoffeewithCarey]

🥴🤦🏻‍♀️😆

[@looloo4029]

Classic Laura Ashley Prairie Dresses are beautiful IMO. They are comfortable and pretty.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@looloo4029 then you should buy all means be wearing them!

[@GreenpeacerLiz56]

When you said some men don't get it described everything. Every woman should be what they want, if the guy cares, he accepts her and visa versa.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

☕️☕️

[@truthseeker6045]

In the King James Version of the Bible, 1 Corinthians 11:15 states, "But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair is given her for a covering". That’s all I need for long hair .

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Knowing nothing about the Bible, I will add that many women feel most like themselves with longer more feminine hair

[@paulineh4019]

Hmmm, so why can men grow their hair? Is it not a covering too. Yet long hair on men is often frowned upon.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

@@providahotwater7688 So you think people who wrote that book, starting 3500 year ago, had the same romantic challenges we have today?

[@truthseeker6045]

@@paulineh4019 That is a pretty in depth Bible study. For the people commenting that do not hold the Bible as the valid word of God, none of the following is going to mean a hill of beans. 🫘 Throughout the word of God, there has been a theme of gender distinctions. Deuteromy, it states that man shall not wear that which pertains to a woman neither shall a woman wear that which pertain to a man. If you did a deep dive into this topic of hair and dress… the distinction btw man and woman biblically, you would find that each gender has it’s own distinct and power place/gifts/calling in both the marriage relationship on earth as well as the marriage relationship to Jesus as the church being his bride. Through obedience to the statutes of the Bible, we have power and protection.. for God knows the pitfalls of going outside these boundaries. It’s like fire in a fireplace . It’s a beautiful warm comforting wonderful thing … as long as it’s within its boundaries. I’d let loose … Fire is massively destructive. When God sets up boundaries.. it is for protection, he knows the end from the beginning. Like a parent who knows far more than the young child who can’t understand all the whys of the don’t touch that, don’t do this. It is a shame for man to have long hair bc he is stepping over into what is set apart for a woman. At once time I imagine these verses were a mystery. Yet in my life time I have watched before my eyes all the crossing of genders and now the mass confusion… ultimately identity crisis … The devil wants us mixed up and confused … I know there will be some to disagree but humanity is not getting better… the mental health crisis is huge … In my opinion it is because we have gone so far away from the boundaries in many areas that God has set to protect us . In short .. hair and dress is about gender distinction . Not just in appearance, but in the role we have in spiritual warfare . Men and women are two puzzle 🧩 pieces separate and beautifully fit to make a powerful picture together.

[@Ed-b178]

@@paulineh4019 I Corinthians 11:14............It's not a matter of can he but of should he.

[@randalmiller7952]

As a man, and as an observer, the woman I’ve dated were often more concerned about what other women thought of their appearance rather than me. Personally, it’s not what a woman wears, it’s more is she dressed appropriately for the occasion.

[@CoffeewithCarey]

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[@T-Babbbldot]

I am a member of a clothing optional facility, I see short, tall, young, old, fat, thin, hairy, hairless & inbetween. When the attraction occurs, it's no holds barred. That is attraction at the utmost!🎉😊

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Thank you! Thanks for sharing. 🤎

[@t200b-i7k]

🤣🤣Mr. Bean with the tissue stuck in his nostril 🤣

[@CoffeewithCarey]

That’s hot.

[@JeanieD]

Any man who runs his hands through my hair will be lucky to keep all of his fingers.😡

[@CoffeewithCarey]

Hahahha 🤣🤎

[@jasminehasan890]

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