Cold approach ruined my relationship

[@TheTibor]

I love how you make yourself vulnerable. I found a good switch between the Playboy Lifestyle and being in a Relationship; I'm now in a sort-of-open relationship, as long as she's comfortable. She's my main partner, I love her so much, and we're giving each other all the space & freedom we can give. I told her about my needs and how they will arise, and she accepted me the way I am. We're both completely transparent & honest and she may date anyone else as well, though I know it'd make me jealous. But I'll have to live through that, just like she does with me... and trust her, just like she trusts me. Thank you for Your video.

[@juanmanuelvalverde]

this is pure honesty! I really appreciate this transparency

[@amygdalahijackers]

you could or you could gamble all in and go for love

[@amygdalahijackers]

ive noticed there are unconscious thoughts im thinking

[@TopTalentBridgecanada]

Exactly, I after doing 100 approaches, it's so hard for me to stop approaching casually, and I feel a bit bad deep inside when I don't do it. I'm good at cold approach although, but I'm struggling to get them in bed.

[@annefrancess1224]

Yeah I appreciate you being vulnerable but some of the things you're saying is very worrying and creep zooming in on strangers on your phone sunny next to strangers at the gym so you can have a look at them that's really worrying behaviour predator behaviour even and makes women uncomfortable

[@annefrancess1224]

I think from this is a lot of things you're still not realising you are not realising that that part of you that is disrespecting other people by making them feel uncomfortable staring at them walking next to them like you said etc it is to do with you having low self-esteem and needing validation it is to do with the part of you that has been brought up to believe that beauty is the first and foremost where to get respecter from other men so in a way you were trying to prove to other men that you can get these women you want the attention because it makes you feel validated like a drug not because you actually want the people or see any value in them in fact you are seeing them like an object just to validate your own ego and nothing more you need to know what is making you feel empty that you think that these people are feeling avoid and giving you the dopamine maybe you are not fulfilled in your own life don't have enough hobbies etc things that you're interested in so you're using these people like a drug to make you get a temporary dopamine fix I would hope that you are receiving therapy for all of this because there is an underlying issue causing this other than people are beautiful and I can't help it I'm tempted eventually this behaviour will destroy relationships and see that you're on your own it is suppressing your ability to be able to see the value in people other than physical and other than just to elevate your own needs I would suggest maybe joining groups where you can learn to see people for the value they have as a human being rather than just four looks and rather than just to make you feel good about yourself and to validate you that would help retrain your brain to see people as human beings with worth and value to appreciate people even when they're doing nothing for you physically or to validate your ego also to know that to have a partner you're a very lucky because the likelihood that all these beautiful women that you see are going to be the perfect match for you it's very very small compatibility is one thing beauty is another the likelihood that every single beautiful woman you see could be your future wife is very unlikely you could have a million beautiful women in the room and the money be like 3% that are compatible with you and then after getting to know them even less than that