Cole from Love Is Blind tells us EVERYTHING that went wrong with him and Zanab | M.O.M | Episode 4

[@bethnshermy]

The more Cole goes on these shows and talks, the better he looks. Love the depth of this interview. Don't give the producers too much credit though, they didn't feel bad - they aired the cuties scene because it was great tv.

[@susannahammond2033]

They aired it because Zenab implicated them in her claims. It would have looked really bad on them if they had not aired something that would have proved that Cole was an abuser.

[@alicat95]

I agree and he keeps getting more comfortable in interviews as well! The first one I saw he was still holding back a bit and seemed afraid to say the wrong thing, but now he’s just keeping it real and is showing himself to be more mature than we thought on the show

[@by_ednafelicita]

@@susannahammond2033 are you saying that the cuties scene confirmed Zanab's allegations?

[@candace9560]

@@by_ednafelicitathink she’s saying the opposite. Zanab kept saying the producers gave Cole a good edit as if they kept abusive behavior out the show on purpose. So they aired it to let the audience decide and they also had to know the clip was not as bad as Zanab claimed it was.

[@cindyben3089]

@@susannahammond2033 She’s the type of girl that would claim assault. If they thought the cutie incident was him body shaming her. She spoke more about Colleen looks more than cole, she asked cole who’s his type.

[@The_Relevance]

*His absolute best Interview, the Lord is gonna bless this guy so much u can literally hear how pure of a soul this guy is*

[@amyivelisse]

he is so incredibly insightful and intentional in what he says. he didn’t bash her, he said what happened and flipped it to what he could learn from it. not why people should hate her or pick his side. i love him !!!

[@TheBeysTV]

Yea he surprised us!!

[@TheBeysTV]

subscribe if you havent! much more interviews to come!

[@bhernandez2468]

totally the opposite of what she does when she goes on interviews. She's messy

[@osmosisdaily]

Shame that Coles “flaw” is that he is so open and vulnerable. Basically people have been asking him to not be honest or be himself, which kills most relationships anyways

[@jclyntoledo]

Yes! I hate that ppl keep saying he should have lied about finding others attractive when feeling the need to lie about small insignificant things is actually really bad. Besides Cole is authentically an honest and open person. I can't see how going against his own nature would be better when there isn't anything wrong to begin with and would only hurt him long term.

[@smartmarketing173]

Cole seems to have a pure heart. I never understood what he saw in Zenab- she was bitter, insecure, cynical, and constantly annoyed by him during the lead up to the wedding and ultimately, delusional, cruel, and vindictive after. To this day she is doubling and tripling down, she hasn’t stopped coming for him, to the point it’s getting weirdly harass-ey. Her seeking out the ex wife just to stir up trouble - this girl is TOXIC. Run!🏃💨

[@la4549]

Whaat she seeked out his ex wife ? Didn’t know that. Wow

[@carolinasouth3117]

She wasn’t like that in the pods, she waited until she had him reeled

[@SarahRodriguez-1619]

Hopefully the exwife is more level headed than zenab

[@maritzah.4039]

You guys have asked him the BEST questions!! THIS is actually the best Cole interview I’ve seen this far 👏🏼 I definitely relate to Cole and a lot of what he said at the end hit deep because I feel like people have said that I’m “too much” and I’ve been treated like a burden. It really does make you question whether it’s truly worth being yourself & it makes you want to dim the light that you are, but at the end of the day… being yourself always wins. It’s hard being yourself in this world, but it’s truly worth it

[@TheBeysTV]

Yes queen! Continue to be you! If you're too bright for them, you need to find some new friends and sometimes family haha! much love please subscribe if you haven't already!

[@iamabutterflychaser]

In my opinion, Zanab was trying to have a "Deepti" moment with saying no at the wedding. I remember when I watched Deepti and Shake's wedding I cried and clapped for her standing up for herself! The problem is that Zanab is not anywhere as likable as Deepti and Cole was not even remotely close to how awful Shake was!

[@rejoice1225]

This episode was extremely refreshing. You guys were such good hosts, asking the right questions that we viewers want to ask but delivered it tastefully. Really loved the entire dynamic between host and guest here. Thank you for giving Cole a safe platform to be himself.

[@amandadosanjos3994]

Feminism is not about tearing men down. That’s what Zanab did. It was calculated, nothing to do with feminism, just Zanabism.

[@rochelledejesus2894]

Every movement has its rotten apples.

[@melodyann44]

This guy is a keeper. Cole was one of the most natural ' relatable man on the show. He was my favorite. One day he will find the right women who matches his fun character.

[@smallberrystyle4607]

if she just would have met him half way i think he would have had the chance to shine so much more as a partner- she would not allow it

[@chitowntexan]

I love this interview. Cole seems soooo down to earth & genuine. I pray he finds the woman he's looking for & that relationship provides them both with the authentucity, transparency, strength, endurance, peace, love & understanding it takes to go the distance. It's challenging dating in general, but dating with purpose is even more challenging. I'm really rooting for him. Team Cole over here 🙌🏽

[@LadyVenVen]

I just watched the season because I went back to Netflix. I was very confused why he stayed with her. He seemed like he was really trying and I felt so bad for him. Listening to him talk about it now is a pretty accurate description of what I thought about him when I watched the show.

[@AfroMillennialMomma]

Cole is so evolved. He's a beautiful spirit.

[@sha_sta]

The irony of all this, is that Cole and Colleen would have made a great match. They are both playful and lighthearted. Instead, both chose partners who sucked the life out of them! Colleen is with a husband who is toxic for her. It's really too bad that Cole and Colleen didn't choose each other in the end.

[@by_ednafelicita]

This was awesome! Thanks for asking the good questions and making it comfortable for Cole to be open and candid. He's going to be a wonderful husband someday.

[@marianaya5824]

Big hug to you Cole! You are so loved by everybody. I was so disgusted by Zeynab's abuse of you, when you were just a young uncomplicated guy, who actually had a very strong discernment when it came to her irrational behavior. She really triggered my Mama Bear, believe me. I wish the cast had been more supportive and less mentally lazy. 😊 God bless you honey!

[@ruthbarnard6593]

They probably have very little knowledge of toxic abuse.

Y’all be on it with the content that the people want to see. I’m here for it ❤

[@TheBeysTV]

thanks girl!!!

[@highlightme1205]

Cole don't worry, we all saw how zanab treated you, you put up with a lot..hope you find a nice normal girl❤

[@omnicul]

There’s a difference between immature and fun loving. 💘much love cole

[@Masterbeat69]

I'm 29 I wish I had the emotional maturity that Cole has. I am taking notes from this guy.

[@kemartini]

He seemed to be the most genuine on the show. Zanab is a liar and did a whole theatrical performance up to the wedding and all her attendees was on code..

[@ashleysmith1369]

Loved this interview. it was so relaxed and you can tell Cole felt very comfortable talking to you guys. I hardly ever watch these things in full and I watched this whole thing!

[@TheBeysTV]

That’s so amazing to hear! Thank you so much! Please subscribe if you haven’t! Much appreciated !!

[@RND.MunaAbdullahi]

I love his energy even though Zay painted him a bad guy, immured . Zay, she was very insecurity for her look n he blamed him out of no where . Col he is actually good at articulating his thoughts, a good communicator, n he care about others people’s feelings so much. He doesn’t deserve all this drama

[@kackyrobinson3931]

I just watched Season 3 of Love Is Blind & happened to run across this interview with Cole. This was such a great interview. Definitely a new subscriber.

[@prettytrOuble]

I never saw the actual show but I did see the cuties scene . Cole seems like a great guy & he will def find someone better suited for him .

[@Call.Me.Nikomi]

I love how y’all blend with the couch.

[@LibraLeo325]

Cole is so gracious. If I was 20 years younger-

[@shenicemcpherson1824]

This was a great interview… I personally think things like him saying where his mom works or personal places locations etc.. should be blur out,

[@BCSBB]

What an amazing interview!!! Great job hosts !! You guys are amazing! 💚🧡💛 man this made me love Cole even more. I pray he does heal and that he sees God has a good women for him. He just need to be patience. God takes his time to give you the right person because he is looking at all things of the person. So it’s worth waiting for. Be patience Cole !!! Your proverbs 31 is in the making. Trust God.

[@TheBeysTV]

Thank you! And amazing advice!!

[@Usurpadora]

Great interview! iyanna’s interview introduced me to you and this cole interview got me to suscribe!

[@TheBeysTV]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@bobococo89]

I love this interview!!!

[@TheBeysTV]

Ty!!!

[@CarminaAmza]

BEST 👏🏼COLE 👏🏼INTERVIEW👏🏼

[@bobococo89]

My favorite by far

[@andra9601]

This was a really good interview , thank you for the take aways! Wisdom ❤

[@newmanos1200]

Seems like Coles has reflected and learned a lot from this experience. His main fault is that he needs to filter what he says more when he is on tv and when he talks to people that he doesn't know too well. When he finds a girl and both are of the same fun goofy say whatever comes in their head without taking it seriously vibe , i believe it will be ideal for him .

[@eliciaeldridge3452]

I was just listening to Taylor's Swift song Tolerate it and it really seems to fit Cole and Zainab's relationship from his point of view to a T . The lyrics " I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head, tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I greet you with a battle hero's welcome take your indiscretions all in good fun You're so much older and wiser. " pretty much say it all.

[@jclyntoledo]

I mean yes that song is very much so for an unhealthy relationship that's very unequally balanced where the person makes you out to be the bad guy and you're constantly walking on egg shells.

[@homesbyamina]

FREE COLE

[@TheBeysTV]

He’s free! 😅

[@homesbyamina]

@@TheBeysTV from the haters, lol!

[@lhj276]

This is so fun. Thank you for being brilliantly funny and kept it upbeat and fun.

[@JourneyOfADesi]

Just a handsome boy who wants to get married, and demand is just a girl who loves and respects him. ❤️❤️

[@xiffany20]

Team COLE all the way!!!, F... Zanah

[@carlycoppi4769]

There is nothing immature about Cole reminiscing about his relationships! In fact I think it's really healthy that he recognizes the good that he went through during the show! He's so damn charming and sweet 🥰🥰🥰

[@wendheryayra4858]

I love Cole! Yes he made mistakes but as humans we make mistakes and learn from it. And he is. Wish i was i could connect with him. Cole is a good guy. Much love Cole.

[@christianjrb]

Y'all did this!

[@mimineren8787]

One of the worst mistake zanab made was being passive aggressive when something bothers her. If you need reassurance, why not straight up ask for it. If you felt like he was controlling your eating habit, why not just address it? Like everything she complained about could have been resolved. People can’t read your mind 🙄.I think Cole can do so much better because he’s willing to adjust. Another thing I think people should look into is the 16 personality type. There are some people you’ll never be compatible with nobody how much you fight.

[@hollywoodgeisha954]

this episode was so great i couldn't stop laughing & smiling yasss we want more 🤣👏🏾

[@tboss-r9s]

I knew there was something not right with Zaneb...the fakeness. The Delilah of it all.

[@Elesclusterb1971]

Come to Belton Cole! You'll love it here! It's not far from FW we have a cute creek and a decent Lake. Good luck to you!

[@TheBeysTV]

Maybe one day!😊

[@princessofmakeup9626]

Zanab was delusional, a liar, very pessimistic… I’m so glad he didn’t end up with her… that would have been the biggest mistake of his life! He is soooo awesome! Team Cole!

[@yalesomdestin7673]

Cole is the best ❤💗🌸♥️

[@TheBeysTV]

Amazing interview

[@MsASFAW]

I doubted , if so it’s that “trauma bond “

[@lifewithg0lden]

hi, new subscriber here that would like to put her application in for Cole. Born in the midwest, went to college in SC and now living in GA! 😅He's very attractive, intelligent, has a sense of humor and knows what he wants or at least has an idea. He won't have any problem finding the lady of his dreams, I sense he's a great guy. Love you all's channel!

[@patriciajeronimo427]

I still don't understand why people are smashing Cole (on social media) instead of Bartise! He was the worse in the Season in my opinion.

[@bluedancelilly]

Cole, you want mountains and an outdoorsy vibe? Move up here to the northwest. The best corner of the country.

[@Reading_the_comments]

Someone shouted you out from a different You tube video and I'm so glad they did... This interview was so good! You asked everything I wanted to. I feel like she had massive insecurities before she even went on the show and she tried to ruin a good man with her toxic BS. I legit hope she gets some help before she gets involved with anyone else. Cole seems like a really good guy. I hope the very best for him.

[@TheBeysTV]

Awesome! Which video?!

[@Reading_the_comments]

I'm sorry I should've clarified, there were 3 different people in the comments of a video from Psychology in Seattle. He's a therapist that reacts to reality TV videos. He was watching a video of Zanab and he's not sure about Cole so people were saying to come watch Your interview because it shows the other side basically.

[@smartmarketing173]

Same; Dr Kirk Honda comment section brought me here, and I am grateful for it!

[@TheBeysTV]

@@Reading_the_comments oh wow that's thats so amazing

[@TheBeysTV]

@@smartmarketing173 so cool!!!!

[@jessebos5413]

Ya, you guys did a really good interview here, and did ask really good questions. Well done! .....From Canada 🇨🇦 🍁 🇨🇦

[@danielamarquis22]

Cole I pray for your faith in love to be restored🤍

[@ohgeez3794]

"I know what I'm supposed to do but then I start falling in love" lol same, I swore I wouldn't move in with my ex until 5 years, I made it about 1 🤣

[@Butterfly-m5v]

😂 definitely subscribing! 1 hour 45 min never went by so fast. Got so sad when I saw I was almost at the end of the video! I need moreeeee😂😂😂😂

[@maggysday]

#TeamCole ❤

[@maxrice6990]

"I'm not trying to catch a charge" ya'll are cracking me up

[@Miss_Liz_]

What a great interview!! New subscriber 🎉

[@angied5029]

Just found this channel. You guys are so funny. New subscriber here !!!

[@TheBeysTV]

Awesome!!!! Ty!!

[@wendheryayra4858]

Cant believe the other gurls wated Cole to reach out to such a spiteful gurl. If they were in Coles shoes would they have reached out? Where were the brains of those girls at that moment.

[@whitneyanneweideman9093]

He is such a cutie!! 🥹

[@PravdavBoge101]

Man I just wish we saw Cole and Coleen get together in the pods. That’s what I wish I saw not the Zenab drama

[@ShaisTime]

Still don’t wake women up Cole. That’s still sound advice haha 😂💯 Loved hearing your side. You may say certain things that you probably shouldn’t sometimes but you didn’t deserve what you went through. Gotta use that filter though but it’s good you recognized that..And you’re so fine ! Lol js 😂☺️

[@thomaswilliams8107]

I love you 2 podcast, you 2 work great together 💪💯 such a beautiful husband & wife inside & out 💯

[@jessebos5413]

Cole, PLEASE don't let people do this to you. I am a female,"Love is Blind" uber fan from Canada. I was shocked at how Zanab treated YOU on the show AND at the alter. First of all, she needs to lighten up. I think her adoptive family coddled her too much after the death of her parents. She has no sense of humour, and is incapable of understanding little fun jibes. And I am sorry to say she - IS slightly overweight, so you're not wrong. There are TONS of guys that feel the same way about being attracted to someone who is slim or fit. So, to me it seems like she was insulted and publicly embarrassed and that's why she was so cruel to you. She wanted to get back at you! What she did was calculated gaslighting. And I could see that even though initially you may have done some stuff that was wrong, I could tell, even as a viewer, that as time went on, you really regretted what you did (with what you said to Coleen) at the Malibu pool party, and had developed genuine deep feelings for Zay. I also thought she displayed-if not bipolar-then surely some type of narcissistic, self centered attitude toward you! And the reason Brennan attacked you is because he thinks just because he's okay being with an overweight woman, you should be too. That-to me, is effed up and immature. And don't even get me started on them coming down on you for using the word "insane" at the reunion. I say that word all the time. IT'S A COLLOQUIALIZM for crying out loud. Can people not see that? Anyway I could continue but this is already too long..... Sorry about that, but please- I beg you, as someone who has been around the block several times, don't-I repeat-DON'T let them gaslight you like this. They are all just "Insanely " jealous of you cause you're bold enough to speak your mind (the truth) and you're the best looking of the lot.

[@chemicalhaze7607]

Zanab went really far to slander him even though she claimed she could’ve “dragged” him. The cuties scene he was literally just talking about their future and it seems like he wanted to treat her girl to a big dinner which is why he made that comment. I think she was really insecure and took everything the wrong way, and she did want to make him look bad on tv no matter how much she said she didn’t 😂😂😂 she looked so smug on the last few episodes

[@gzelle317]

#teamcole

[@donteverfckwithmyvibe]

I've seen different interviews of both Zanab and Cole, and God bless both of them, but honestly Cole just comes across as more likeable. I'm not trying to hate on anyone. It's just like a gut feeling.

[@TheeJessieWoo]

Whew!!!!

[@TheBeysTV]

Seeeester!

[@andreeanasca8216]

it wasn`t that they were different, she is narcissist, she would not be a match to anyone unless she heals and comes out of her delusions. Very few narcissists change though.

[@sflo4538]

He's great!

[@SanjaZ689]

Cole is great. I rooted for Zanab to open up and learn to be more relaxed and become able to see and focus on his positive sides and to see how she interpreted some things so wrongly. She missed a lot.

[@smartmarketing173]

#JusticeForCole 😅

[@melliyao1079]

Team Cole

[@xiffany20]

Cole, you need a Peruvian girl, we are committed! haha I married at 23 and have been for 12 years now. just an advise lol

[@Wyatt_o7]

Dude you are plenty mature for a 26 yr old guy. I'm 29 and not even close to as put together as you are and do more immature things on the regular. Hell I'm not even dating and don't even want to be married.

[@chiantayrussell3009]

I noticed the first night they were able to have alone time in the Malibu house, you can see her feelings for Cole started changing. They were in a pool together and she didn't want her hair to get wet (that was weird) then she asked him his opinion and to rate certain women in the house and got upset he gave her a 9/10 and the others 10/10, you should never ask a man that. She showed her insecurities alot with him. I was very uncomfortable for him when she was scolding him how he cooked. I was like sheesh give the man a chance he's trying!! She def showed only her representative in the pods so she could get picked for the final 5. Her and Bartiste are just the same!! But atleast Bartiste tried to pull Nancy aside to talk to her without anyone or family around and give his reasoning for saying no but Zannab straight wanted to embarass him in front of his friends, family and NATIONAL TELEVISION!!

[@RoxyOnDaRocks]

Im still looking for the whole cast to apologize to this guy

[@karinaescobar8905]

Cole has class and he is good looking. I hate zab

[@bubbagump1306]

She’s crazy.

[@carlycoppi4769]

Sorry i keep commenting but my parents were complete opposites and were happily married until my mom passed away.

[@sashapalma2033]

I definitely think the girls friendship seems so fake.

[@Fairwayqueeno345.]

I could not see what he was doing wrong. Unfortunately, he chose the wrong one.

[@tulip5210]

cole reminds me of harry potter cuz dang boy are you sassy lol

[@addie8397]

Zanab did not deserve Cole

[@saskwatching]

She has no grace.

[@sufiheart]

I do think Zanab just thought she was standing up for herself, not realizing the real impact of her actions.

[@brendamoon2660]

Cole went on and on to Zinab about how much more attractive Colleen was and I could just see her crumbling. I think Cole uses honesty as an excuse to be mean. You can be both honest and compassionate.

[@JourneyOfADesi]

It feels like he’s still in love with Zanab.

[@paolamonroy3742]

I feel like the interviewers should try and at least come off as a little less biased but these two just straight up bashed Zenab and praised cole the whole time, the not skinny but not fat interview is better because there was no tearing someone down while bringing someone up. It’s a shame

[@TheBeysTV]

Hey! We appreciate your opinion! Got to ask, what did we say that was bashful towards Zanab? We reached out to her for an interview but no response so far. Hopefully she can come on the show and tell her side of the story!!

[@paolamonroy3742]

The beginning was good but then it started to feel like it was a lot of cole you did no wrong, it was Zenabs insecurity, Zenabs actions, etc… Cole even slightly stood up for Zenab in the end and one of you said you had to work on that. It would have been good to acknowledge his mistakes too, which I felt he was more upfront with by his own will but it definitely felt like it was a lot of cole pleasing.

[@TheBeysTV]

Once again appreciate your opinion. What we appreciated from cole is he was accountable about all his wrong doings throughout the entire interview. It’s not our place to say, you’re wrong about this or that. Cole went through a lot after being embarrassed on national tv TWICE, and we thought it would be good to support him because we didn’t believe he deserved any of that. No one does. But most importantly we did not bash Zanab as you said we did.

[@bobococo89]

The skinny not fat wasn’t good, she’s telling Cole to be dishonest and lie. When it comes to Zanab people need to be honest when it comes to her because she’s still acting infantile and still dragging Cole. So good for these people keeping the conversation honest.

[@macymiller3417]

@@paolamonroy3742 They kept both parties accountable and he said many times what he did wrong.

[@LibraLeo325]

There is a lot of generalized “boys are this and girls are that” talk. I thought that was weird people still talk like that.

[@lovelymalae3242]

I’m disappointed 😢

[@Rosyrose101]

I hope Zanab never interviews with you guys. Clearly you 2 have amnesia when it comes to cole 🙄

[@TheBeysTV]

Hey! Thanks for your opinion! Tell us what we may not know please

[@ericar.7924]

There’s a reason this comment is at the bottom

[@Wyatt_o7]

Not even going to bother explaining why you think that ? What a ridiculous comment.

[@Rosyrose101]

@Wyatt_o7's no, because anyone who watch the show from beginning to end and refuse to see how Cole was rude, sneaky, low-key racist I'm not going to waste my time. You guys can pretend to have amnesia and selective memory but I see him for what he is.

[@macymiller3417]

I love how she painted him so immature and he’s so dang mature and just likes to have fun. More mature then most of the people on show.

[@TheBeysTV]

Agree!!

[@TheBeysTV]

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[@maddyG7414]

Lol he’s not that mature. I don’t hate him, but he made numerous comments in the show that don’t exactly paint him as a mature individual. The remarks he made about not dating nurses, a bad butt being a deal breaker and Zanab’s breasts being something he announced right away. From episode one I caught a weird vibe. With that being said Zanab has some major issues. Both of them are fucked tbh.

[@Trainingwithtroya]

@@maddyG7414 you also have to consider there was someone asking him a series of questions and then they cut and air certain parts of his answers where ever they want to… so of coarse he said it.. but imagine being asked what’s the best physical attraction to Z? And then he says the boob answer in fun.. and then they just air that part wherever… it tv y’all!!! Most of the solo interview parts are answering questions the producers ask..

[@jclyntoledo]

@@maddyG7414 when did the butt and boob comments happen? I don't remember that and the butt thing sounds like something he would have half heartedly said.

[@RedBunni1024]

Cole needs a free-spirited girl who is fun but also religious. His problem is that type of girl may be hard to find as a lot free-spirited people are more hippie like and not very religious at all, as he was mentioning in the beginning. I noticed that was a core problem in their relationship he was very fun and playful and Zanab was not at all. He needs someone that can be fun and playful but also share his deep love for God. Just my opinion in observing the few clips we saw of them.

[@Pryjole]

Cole deserves all the good things, and he seems to have a bright future ahead of him. I'm rooting from him.

[@TheBeysTV]

Agree!!

[@konnyu.torna.kezdoknek]

I'm 36, I have a baby, I am mature when it comes to serious things but I'm still like a child when I'm having fun 😁 There's nothing wrong with being childlike sometimes 😊

[@moniquee1302]

I am 39 with 2 kids, and agree with you with everything else! Life is too short to be boring and serious all the time.

[@saltandpepperandmint]

💯!!! Godo for you keep being you! ❤️

[@hollywont9447]

Laughing and having fun is good for your health…and face. Zanab is angry at the world and she’ll age horribly with her permanent scowl. I thought she was pretty until episode 3, when the scowl appeared. Bleh.

[@Ola_Stawinska]

49:00 just please, don't call what Zanab did a "feminism" thing. Feminism is not about putting man down, it's about equality and lifting us up. Just because Zanab is a woman (and maybe she even defines herself as a feminist, i dont know) but doesn't mean, that everything she does is about feminism or comes from it. Im a feminist and I would never act the way she did at the altar amd i dont agree with what she did. It wasn't empowering, it was horrible and hurtful.

[@h3tur]

exactly

[@smartmarketing173]

THIS👆

[@bobococo89]

Omg you are so refreshing. I nearly gave up feminism because of the support for Zay. But it's nice to see an honest feminist that can be objective to her behavior. Not saying Cole is completely innocent but its disgusting that people just saw him as this villain instead of Zay's vile behavior I continue to still see

[@Ola_Stawinska]

@@bobococo89 thank you :) it wasn't very nice to realize that not everything I do is "feminitsic" but it is true. It would be impossible, since we don't live in a bubble and a lot of our choices are defined by our environment, upbringing or culture. So yeah, feminists do a lot of stuff that have nothing to do with feminism, but its ok. Thats life. Its sad that some women would take being supportive too far and just support an action without thinking, just because it was done by a woman.

[@rachelles_wheels]

Right but to her it was empowering. It may be feminism to her. Doesn’t mean it represents all feminists

[@bubzi91]

Let me tell you Cole won! Even though Zenab did him dirty, (yow i was so mad i wanted to fight her for how vile she was to him!) I am glad her nasty behavior showed him exactly what he needed to see. Going and dating her in private would have also been a disaster. So he won! Good luck on your growth journey Cole!!!!

[@Nunofyabizzzzz]

I feel so bad for Cole. He really seems like a sweet person that just couldn't see that person in front of him was the wrong person and tried to make it right. And got hurt. Like a lot of us. I could definitely empathize.

[@TheBeysTV]

Yea! He seems like he’s on the right path to healing!

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