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[@leahxrose_edits]

if she never got pregnant there is no way they would have lasted this long

[@thaloblue]

The affair is always more exciting than the actual person

[@veg2489]

That's the whole reason why they got together. Ugh

[@Emmastayofftheinternet]

I agree. If he hadnt had kids with her he would be long gone by now. This poor dude

[@aliahsarchive]

maybe (bad) karma really is her boyfriend...

[@veg2489]

Also the fact that she legit slept with her EMPLOYEE.... if he said no he could've lost his job. Just sickening 🥴😭😭

[@taylorg2320]

If I hear Collen go "It's fine!! It's whatever!!" in her pretend nice voice after very clearly making it known that something isn't fine and whatever I'm going to drive a nail into my skull lmao. The dude was being an ass but he was trying to apologize for how he approached it, and she keeps trying to pretend like she's too above being angry or upset, and like she's only capable of experiencing pure kindness and light, but she's also making it VERY known that he made her angry and using the "people online" to talk about stuff that's very clearly making her angry about HIM. She's refusing to let him truly apologize for it by refusing to acknowledge that she's mad at him.

[@OceansbutalsoLakes]

She’s intentionally turning the viewers against him imo

[@Apollo-ot6tx]

update: i finished this and she did mention that she did the same for him with football-however my perspective on a lot of this being toxic still stands because they seriously spent 20 mins arguing over something that other couples barely think about and they are married like i genuinely do not understand how this relationship has lasted this long if something as basic as different song choices can spark a discussion this long that doesn’t go anywhere without any listening on either side it’s extremely frustrating to watch

[@juliannepierre]

idkkk i feel like they were both passive aggressive! I feel like Erik’s apologies at time felt forced he was like “sorry?” but this is spot on with colleen trying to play like she’s never been angry before

[@OceansbutalsoLakes]

@@juliannepierre yeah and to be fair, he’s probably feeling disrespected by constant blaring of a sound he doesn’t like, it would be frustrating. So he gives a token “sorry?” that’s really like a “sorry if your feelings got hurt”. Basically, they deserve each other lol.

[@otiphanyv]

@@juliannepierre I kind of read the repeated “sorry?” as an attempt to pacify, like he’s not allowed to state an opinion she won’t like without there being a to-do about it if he’s not immediately apologetic. I have no clue what it signifies for these two, and I don’t want to speculate about them specifically because I’m so biased against her. But I think his apologies are notable to a lot of people because it’s a behavior people in abusive relationships perform as a fear response. It’s one of the “fight or flight” responses.

[@morganizedwithkelly45]

So I read this differently. Not him being rude. She was saying if you don’t like it, don’t listen. And he was just saying “yeah but I live with you and it’s playing so I hear it”

[@scandalousjen]

That's the way I saw it as well.

[@morganizedwithkelly45]

@@scandalousjen I’m also married and we’ve been together for 16 years. We both enjoy stuff that annoys each other 😂🤷🏻‍♀️. I do think it was a super weird podcast to air though. It was a very unimportant topic haha

[@bett2390]

Yeah, but Adam summarized it perfectly at 18:49. Plus, if you love someone, and you see them vibing with a song in the same room with you, that should actually make you smile. The problem I think is when you start to notice things that you dislike within your partner. You should like your partner with all their weird things, not just tolerate them.

[@morganizedwithkelly45]

@@bett2390 I understand that, too. I just think that this was spun by Colleen to create content. Like she was making something out of nothing.

[@StarDreamsStudios]

@@bett2390 Um no that’s normal. When you are with someone for a long time there going to be things that irritate you and get on your nerves but that’s normal. And if a partner doesn’t like certain shows music or movies they don’t have to like the fact that you love it. They don’t have to enjoy the fact that you enjoy it they are allowed to be annoyed by it. You don’t have to like everything about your partner.

[@charlottep4222]

Her saying with a straight face that Swifties don’t care if people don’t like Taylor made me spit out my drink

[@starfiresreign]

Lmaoo

[@LyraPyxisVT]

a lot of them do care tho, me personally i dont, and i love taylor swift

[@ellaova]

Am I a bad person for feeling like I'm undergoing absolute torture being subjected to terrible music or music I despise!???

[@kaitlyndarcy2590]

Tbf I think it does depend on the person i genuinely don’t care as long as people aren’t mean to me personally but I defo know people who would get offended too xx

[@markk8588]

Ok but he was being horribleeee

[@eleceb]

This was deeply uncomfortable, but I actually appreciated SOME of Erik's brutal honesty here--painful and uncomfortable as it might be. He's actually saying what he feels. He's exhausted. Colleen is obviously hurt here, but she never just says, "The way you took a shit all over this thing that's important to me REALLY HURT ME." Instead, she takes this incredibly passive aggressive posture and dances around what she really means. It's exhausting. She's exhausting. This conversation is clearly emotionally loaded for both of them, and it's never going anywhere productive this way. There's so much subtext, and none of it's good.

[@seashells1460]

Oh my god thank you!! This is almost word for word how i see it. If she would just be REAL with him and say how what he did made her FEEL the conversation would actually get somewhere productive. And if he actually gave a real apology instead of a stiff "sorry" that could help too. Its sad to see him walk on eggshells and for her to be so passive and trying so hard to act unbothered when she's clearly deeply hurt by his words/actions.

[@annalewis4794]

yes this!! they’re both just completely missing each other here and letting egos get in the way, especially colleeen

[@markk8588]

Ya and he just simply doesn’t care for her anymore 💀

[@mk3621]

It's the fact that they had the confidence to post this for me

[@personincognito3989]

I feel it's a sheer manipulation for her to target a specific audience and get more views there for more money

[@Aylii1]

She definitely knew it would drag in views and get people talking again, and probably even manipulate people into feeling like she is a victim

[@cuddlecows]

​@Aylii1 That's the vibe I got. She's outed for being a terrible person to Josh, and so she wants to look like the victim now. It felt very dirty to me. Very manipulative.

[@shanel4294]

@@Aylii1I 100% believe this especially after what Adam went through, she probably has a few youngings spreading the clip

[@kay.smi2424]

Definitely agree with those above ^^. Something that could also be playing a part in this could be that they're very deep in their unhealthy relationship dynamics. If this is how they interact with each other regularly (or worse) a convo like this could seem totally normal and wouldn't automatically raise red flags for them like it does for people witnessing it. It's so easy to minimize things like this as being "playful disagreements" or not that serious when you're so accustomed to dysfunction. Just to realize in hindsight (or someone you trust mentions something) that you're not supposed to feel that way in a happy, loving relationship. Also wouldn't put it above her to milk the hell out of the controversy either way!

[@Moxipoxie]

As someone who lived with four swiftie roommates, there absolutely are fans who will try to convince you that Taylor makes the best music and you’re stupid for not liking it 😂😂

[@desiraesherwood]

She’s doing it here passive aggressively “you don’t have to understand” 😂😂😂

[@Spaced0ut000]

Lmao and they say “idc if u like it but like..” it’s so childish

[@bluz1864]

Exactly! She says no one has to like her and swifties don't force anyone but her tone, language and passive aggressiveness are almost as bad as the obsessed swifties

[@Sweet_Dee]

Oof you braver than me lol! I like some of Taylor's songs, but I fear the swfties would realize I'm not into every track and every era like that and try to convert me 😂

[@AshlynVillage]

THATS WHAT IM SAYING

[@teagannovak3120]

It felt more like Erik was walking on eggshells about the taylor swift thing. So awkward. Woof.

[@FabiolaRVela]

Me too! I felt that too 😅

[@VampMedusa]

Same. He doesn't sound like an ass at all.

[@scandalousjen]

I mean she said "Don't listen to it then", and he was saying well, you play it in our house and so I hear it.

[@savedmp3]

"I can put headphones in if it bothers you"..... why werent you already doing that

[@bojomoonlight]

yeah it’s giving “manipulative person who acts like a victim when you bring anything up

[@emilybunney6163]

“i just think it’s so funny that” is triggering my fight or flight reflex 😭

[@amberevol]

as soon as she said that I was like OPE HERE WE GO 😂

[@DeeznutztheOG]

Omg I feel that to my core😂

[@lumiepop5049]

For once i sorta disagree with adam on this one, i dont think he was being rude at all! Colleen seemed really defensive and passive aggressive here. The repeated "it's fine" felt so insincere 😭

[@maurajonperovich3997]

Ya I agree

[@astridjorgensen7971]

adam is a swiftie so his judgment is clouded 😭

[@NorahSnyder]

Colleen ballinger pulls out the ukulele at couples counseling

[@Dogwithoutaname]

def would

[@mzkillerbit89]

ToXiC MaRrIdGe TrAiN.

[@reu2002]

‘Aaaaaaall aboard!!’

[@katherinerivera8061]

honestly that would be a slay

[@Psykells]

The toxic Taylor trainnn

[@user-jh7nq9hx7f]

I think it just common courtesy to wear headphones when you're playing something that you know your housemates don't enjoy, like...

[@meganjs]

No agreed my brother used to play music out loud on his phone and walk around and it was infuriating

[@OceansbutalsoLakes]

Exactly and you don’t need your favourite music ALL the time

[@conbiniii]

agree. my partner and I have similar musical tastes but we both wear headphones around the house so we don't distract each other while working. plus music just sounds better in headphones in our opinion lol. gotta love the noise cancelling headphones!

[@fewerpuppet6423]

You really would think this is common sense. But I used to have a roommate who anytime she was doing anything. Was blasting her music through the whole house and singing along. And sometimes I wouldn’t mind like do you girl. But it was every time she would cook, clean, take a shower, do literally anything. If she is out of her room you r hearing the music. And it gets annoying. Colleen has the very same vibes as that old roommate.

[@savedmp3]

She likes control

[@cdn0199]

Given her history, she needs *way* more than just "couples" counseling

[@mzkillerbit89]

You're right, she needs that train she sings about 😂

[@icravedeath.1200]

​@@mzkillerbit89advocating for violence isn't ok

[@mzkillerbit89]

@@icravedeath.1200 you're the only one who went to violence ❤️

[@icravedeath.1200]

@@mzkillerbit89 re-read your comment, I don't understand how you don't think it comes off that way🤣

[@samanthahope1316]

@@icravedeath.1200i read it as she needed to get on the train since she’s so toxic, so you are the one thinking violence🤷🏼‍♀️

[@youtubeuser3635]

The grip Taylor has on people is INSANE, a whole ass domestic over not enjoying Taylor Swift’s music is crazy. Taylor stans take any dislike to Taylor sooo personally it’s insane

[@shayalynn]

Yeah, it’s like a whole religion.. notice how at 5:40 where she says “It’s not as if I’m trying to convert anyone (to become a fan of Taylor Swift).” I think it’s really hard to convince anyone it’s not a cult to be honest - except the very fans of Taylor Swift of course

[@laiam617]

This might be an unpopular opinion, but I don’t think he’s being rude at all, he doesn’t like it and that’s fine, but Colleen keeps insisting that he doesn’t have to listen to it if he doesn’t like it and he’s right when he says that that’s not true, since she’s constantly putting that music on speaker while spending time with him! I’m sorry but they could be listening to something they both like instead of her always putting TS, she could listen to it with headphones instead of making him listen to it too and then having the audacity of stating that “you don’t have to listen to it if you don’t want to”! Ma’am you are not giving him the option!🙄

[@Coconutlovergirl]

No Colleen is 100% being the passive aggressive one here… this conversation felt way too similar to every time I ever confronted my ex best friend; extremely hostile and manipulative on colleens end

[@aekelly]

YES

[@gabbys2468]

Agree but it’s still strange when people HAVE to point out how much they dislike something their partner loves. Over and over.

[@shanel4294]

@@gabbys2468deffo think he’s at his breaking point with her, interesting to see how josh has been affected by her behaviour vs her current hubby

[@gabbys2468]

@@shanel4294possibly. I think the fact they share kids and she’s the one with the most money, I think he’s gotten pretty complacent there and probably won’t leave any time soon. Maybe one day though.

[@Froggele]

Why can’t it be both of them?🤣 He‘s definitely weird for denigrating something that he knows his wife enjoys tho! After she had specifically asked him not to make fun of the new album too? Honestly A-hole behavior🤷🏻‍♀️

[@whipsybask]

as someone who has had interpersonal relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies, and knowing how colleen is behind closed doors... i think he seems very nervous here and is trying to remain calm for the camera, and she's doing that thing narcissists do where they try to make it seem like their victim (or what-have-you) as the problem. that bigass nervous sigh he gave after giving his opinion on the album, and him going "is this a prank?" to her because she was saying he didn't have to like it, and also his difficulty in articulating himself throughout makes me believe he was walking on eggshells this whole clip. also i disagree with the listening to music out loud thing. it'd be one thing if they were both into it, but it is kinda rude imo.

[@thaloblue]

That's what he gets for being the other man. The affair is always more exciting than the actual person. And once stability is reached (the opposite of forbidden chaotic adultery), there's nothing left in common.

[@sammyi2505]

Yeah, I could feel the tiptoing around eggshells SO HARD. Like, him bringing it up because he tried to have a "mature conversation" about it with her earlier? Then all her little jabs at him throughout... It's like watching a couple two steps from divorce trying to be civil at a dinner party.

[@Bubaiel]

@@thaloblue 😑

[@Glitched_System_byte]

It’s awkward enough when a stranger is listening to a music/video/tiktok out loud in public and being disrespectful. Sheesh when it’s someone I know and they get huffy when I politely ask to get headphones? Nah. Nah…

[@joshsigned2500]

@@thaloblueAmen. He didn’t walk to this he shove himself into a married couple. Zero pity.

[@fewerpuppet6423]

I actually disagree that Eric is being a huge ass. Does he have his moments yes, but he didn’t even want to talk about Taylor swift Colleen is the one who keeps trying to back him into a corner about it. And it seems like he’s fumbling around his words cuz he’s trying not to start a bigger argument. To me it feels like Colleen wanted this to be filmed and posted so she can make Eric look like he’s the ass. Cuz literally the entire time she was being condescending. If my bf spoke to me like how she was speaking to Eric, I’d just get up and walk away. Colleen acts like she wants to hear his opinion and side of things, but if he says anything she doesn’t like she’s gonna be passive aggressive about it. Colleen prolly thought her talking about Taylor swift in this way would’ve gotten her some kind of praise from Swifties, meanwhile she just made it look like she’s in a love less marriage and they hate each other

[@aleciahansen7859]

I agree and when she bombs their marriage she can play the victim.

[@fewerpuppet6423]

@@aleciahansen7859 this is exactly what I think her mindset is. Cuz why would you make a podcast where you r just arguing w your husband over dumb things. So whenever the marriage fails she can say “look he was being mean to me”

[@Magickmelon]

Agree it was either (or both) A- an attempt to get the swiftie’s praise B- an attempt to make him look bad in case she wants to leave him

[@fewerpuppet6423]

@@Magickmelon i think it’s both, that woman is a narcissist. And I hate calling ppl that but.. if the shoe fits

[@maria2337]

Agreed, plus she’s the one that started the argument saying “oh if you don’t like it why do you listen to it” and he literally responds that he’s basically forced to listen because she’s playing it around the house all the time. Not an asshole move on him but on her, especially relating as someone that doesn’t give a shit about Taylor swift or her music, I’d be livid if my bf played her over speakers in our shared space.

[@michellehenderson8172]

The way he’s walking on eggshells talking to her about this is crazyyyyyy

[@leahsoldat4118]

I feel like Adam kind of misunderstood Eric, here. He isn’t saying it’s a chore to hang out with her, he is stating that when she is around she is playing the music he isn’t interested in. The emphasis is on the music, not on Coleen. He may be indirectly saying she is being inconsiderate, but he isn’t attacking her or saying he doesn’t enjoy spending time with her. She is for sure being defensive, and not acknowledging what he is saying.

[@courtkendell]

agreeeeed.

[@agntstingo]

Oh you mean Adam making shit up? Pretty usual 🤣

[@make.upexperiments7269]

Also why is Colleen pretending that swifties don’t go after people that don’t like her music? One review of the album was published anonymously to avoid hate and threats and there were STILL swifties that tried to figure out and out the author of the article. It’s not every swiftie but how is Colleen so unaware of this well known dynamic?

[@TinaMarie12]

The world on revolves around her and her own opinions.

[@hydrogen3266]

And the whole video is her trying to convince him that Taylor Swift isn’t bad too😭

[@shanel4294]

There are crazies in every fan base and she couldn’t even admit that

[@megshep]

Can we stop claiming those nutcases as Swifties? Swifties are women in their 30s crying into a glass of wine while reminiscing about the boy But Daddy I Love Him makes us think of. The feral children doxxing journalists are an entirely different species lol

[@mariahwheaton4377]

Swifties literally dox people who say they don't like her

[@ohheyyitsbrooke]

I like how she keeps on going “It’s funny when people say that” and it’s her husband she’s directly alluding to after every comment he makes

[@FabiolaRVela]

So passive aggressive 😂

[@virgobleu27]

I said they same thing 😊

[@virgobleu27]

They keep talking over each other. You can tell that they’re getting tense.

[@ohheyyitsbrooke]

@@virgobleu27 literally!! he kept going too😭

[@PascuBeckett]

Also saying it so many times when GIRL, IT DOESNT LOOK LIKE THATS *FUNNY* TO YOU AT ALL

[@slowreadergirlie]

"I just feel like a marriage counselor (which I was for her by the way)" LMFAO

[@MachelTheDestroyer]

As a married person, wear your headphones. I wear mine so I don’t disturb the rest of the people in the house.

[@indesomniac]

It’s driving me crazy that she keeps going “It’s fine if it’s not for you” when she’s very clearly NOT fine with the fact he’s not a Swiftie. “Taylor Swift fans aren’t going to drag you for not liking her” she says as she pressures and publicly shames her husband because he’s not interested in pop music. I don’t how to break it to her that most straight men don’t care for pop music and it’s not something personal.

[@r2488]

I think the reason he keeps bringing it up that he doesn’t like it is because he wants validation for his opinion. He doesn’t feel respected for his opinion. It’s not even that he wants her to not listen but he wants her to tell him in a loving way that she can see/respect his perspective. But instead she just keep being so passive and rude.

[@skyelorspacex]

You can tell Eric is walking on eggshells about this like Colleen definitely would’ve responded differently if this wasn’t on camera

[@katherinerivera8061]

i think so too. he doesnt come off in a good light tbh but shes def reacting differently bc theyre on camera

[@thebjm1967]

Yeah I think he’s scared. I’m married to a narc and I can see similarities in the fear even in his body language

[@paigecullen4095]

@@thebjm1967 and you havent divorced yet why?...

[@danween]

her acting like Swifties don’t attack people who don’t like Taylor’s music is absolutely laughable i also don’t think Eric is the one being the asshole. Colleen is basically like “this is what i like. you don’t have to like it but you have to endure it”

[@maria2337]

She also said “I just think it’s funny that the people that don’t like it still listen to it” when she’s literally forcing her husband to listen to it at the house and then gets mad that he doesn’t like that?

[@danween]

@@maria2337 EXACTLY

[@FaerieMxxn]

She also was actively trying to convince him that he should like T Swift

[@willowashe]

I agree; Eric was just following the format of bringing up a grievance. All things considered, he is actually being pretty mature and rational, trying to take some accountability.

[@asarishepard8171]

Ikr im not a Taylor swift fan but I think we'll of her. She seems like a nicer type of celebrity. Her fans however seem to be unhinged. Change my mind.

[@sammyrei295]

God she’s so incredibly defensive here… she’s triggering my anxiety with her passive aggressive and just flat out aggressiveness. He doesn’t have to be in to Taylor Swift just because she is he just wants a break for it. My husband needs a break when a new album comes out too I use my air pods some of the time so I don’t drive him crazy and I’m fine with that.

[@FabiolaRVela]

An almost 40 year old woman getting defensive over Taylor swift 😅😂.

[@myhi6793]

@@FabiolaRVelawoman have suffered enough age shaming :(

[@ellietaylor9938]

@@myhi6793 she sort of deserves anything she gets given her history imo

[@MissMickey00]

@@myhi6793they’re not shaming her for listening to Taylor Swift at her age. They’re pointing out her immaturity towards the situation.

[@ketsia3]

@@MissMickey00 there’s no need to bring age into it at all. The same could be said about Erik but it’s not because people don’t say things like this about men

[@jamesmckenzie9529]

What? Adam is defending Colleen Ballenger? She specifically told her hubby that if he didn't like Taylor Swift, he didn't have to listen to it. But, if she is roaming around the house playing the bad music on speaker, he has no choice unless he leaves the house!

[@luhe8]

exactly! she has zero respect for his right to silence

[@krystalwithak2889]

I agree!

[@megamovieman101]

Yeah it makes no sense lol. I think Adam’s biased because he’s a swiftie

[@yingyang2838]

Adam being a swiftie is also taking this personally

[@HassanRaashid]

​@@megamovieman101swifties 😒

[@tracybuchwald1535]

She loves to bash him over the head with "her truth" and then when he tries to defend himself, she's like "its fine", but it clearly isn't lol

[@JohnnySantanaAwcom]

I can’t help but notice he never said “I hate” about any of her likes or interests in this, however she’s so pissed off that he didn’t care for this Taylor swift album that she’s like “well there are plenty of movies and shows that you like that I absolutely hate” and “I hated sports” all he really said in this was “I tried to have an adult conversation with you that I didn’t like this album” she got mad and said “then don’t listen” to which he said he is stuck listening to it because she blasts it around the house, in the car, and she sings it. I will say he didn’t have to say it’s not music while she was enjoying it but her reaction is over the top

[@valstorms693]

I mean saying “this isn’t music” is pretty close lol

[@linger6666]

​@@valstorms693why is she getting offended like she wrote it or is friends with Taylor Swift lol

[@krista3446]

this exactly

[@DefyReality-ll2cg]

@@linger6666 She probably thinks she is friend with Taylor. Most Stans think they know the person they are obsessed with like they've been childhood besties.

[@linger6666]

@@DefyReality-ll2cg Wow, you'd think she'd grow out of that by now at her age. She has a weird fixation on childish and child related things

[@sammyrei295]

Adam, I actually think SHE is being passive aggressive with HiM!!! Here’s my take on how I interpreted this… Like he’s being honest that her obsession is too much for him probably because she’s crazy and it is, she is trying to spin lyrics to all be about her (shocker!) and she is pissed he’s calling her out on the pod cast and is mad he’s not more supportive of her obsession.

[@nmra122]

I thought the same but he is being kind of a duck too. When he seriously said it wasnt music, knowing its her favorite, I gasped 😂😂

[@thaloblue]

I wouldn't be surprised if she went crazy on him when he originally tapped out, and is now pretending everything is and was fine to make him look bad. She's a duplicitous monster.

[@MsSmile300]

Eh, it didn't feel like that to me. Because when she says he asked her if he could listen to the album with her, he agrees that's true. So why would you ask to listen to it with her knowing you dislike it, then proceed to say "it's not music" before going to bed? He could have just gone to bed or asked her to listen to it with headphones if that's his real problem with it.

[@celedhion]

I also think that her music doesn't really sound like music. To me, it sounds like melodic spoken word. They're both just kind of in the wrong. She is too defensive of the liking the music, and he is too insistent on not liking it.

[@spookyiceberg6669]

Absolutely. She is insufferable

[@jasmincastillo8686]

Not the podcast literally being called “relax” with Colleen and erik 👀how’m i supposed to relax when the hosts are fighting

[@Lilith23]

They completely misunderstand the concept of a podcast

[@armygirl85fuckhitler74]

Can't relax around pedophiles lol

[@madisonrose1576]

Actually Colleen, some swifties are in fact unhinged about it. I’ve seent it 😂

[@eckilla]

I got called a misogynist for saying I didn’t think Taylor Swift is a good lyricist, but she makes catchy music 🥴

[@AineCreedon]

"She's been vlogging again...and picking up rocks...really riveting stuff..." 😂😂🤣😂

[@_namasteshay]

I took it more as he was responding to her saying “if you don’t like it then why are you listening to it” and I think he’s trying to say he isn’t listening he just hears it and that’s how he formed his opinion that he doesn’t like it.

[@desiraesherwood]

Yeah I don’t think he was trying to be rude, actually I think he was kinda doing the opposite 😂

[@jennastewart7290]

Right, actively seeking out music to hate on it is weird and what Colleen is trying to imply people are doing. Most of them aren't LISTENING to it as much as they just can't block out other people listening to it near them on speaker. 😂😂😂

[@Inthepotwithdiogenes]

Adam reliving his childhood with colleens marital problems 😂

[@aubreyf4678]

LOL

[@siebenhundertsiebenundsiebzig]

Lmfao it's not his first rodeo

[@kaylan688]

I don’t see where Erik is being rude or a dick to her lol

[@drgarzachiro]

It seems like they are just having a conversation? But like Eric is tiptoeing to not upset her since she loves Taylor. I’m not a Colleen or an Erik fan either but they didn’t seem to “despise” each other lol

[@kaylan688]

@@drgarzachiro my thoughts exactly!!

[@darkbrokenangel21]

I feel like they are having a normal conversation between two adults. Like compromising to wear headphones would literally solve the problem. I'm not a fan of either of them but I don't see a problem here.

[@krystalwithak2889]

Same!! I thought Colleen was being more mean than anything.

[@HassanRaashid]

Same

[@Uraveragecrouton]

Erik wasn’t being a dick, he was trying his hardest to NOT come across as one. I feel like he was walking on eggshells trying to explain his opinion on Taylor. He developed an opinion because he lives around it, and hears it all of the time. It’s actually Colleen who is coming off extremely passive aggressive

[@kristyrussell5493]

Exactly

[@AMinnie]

LOL. Did Colleen actually say There are NO swifties who are like “you have to love Taylor Swift and think she’s the greatest person in the world?” Yes there are 😂😂

[@lemonita347]

Eric is totally allowed to not like something she likes and hes CLEARLY tip toeing around her because she seems volatile. I actually think Eric is being KIND to her considering it's COLLEEN. I mean look at Erics body language hes SO uncomfortable

[@Goatings]

Right? I wish this was more clear to Adam :(

[@joshsigned2500]

Did we forget Eric stepped into a marriage and helped Colleen destroy Josh? What is this?? He’s playing you for the camera.

[@Goatings]

@joshsigned2500 two things can be true at once we're past one dimensional thinking... my main issue is Adam siding with colleen because of his obvious bias being a swiftie shows and he's ignoring how passive aggressive colleen is to him I don't care at all about erik

[@joshsigned2500]

@@Goatings (edited) Adam isn’t. He’s calling out both of them, at separate times, when each were being passive aggressive. It is good that they are going through this uncomfortable situation. Because he is as complicit as her, and share the same personal lack of character. I’m not sad at the consequences of his actions. And I think he’s disingenuous to the camera as well.

[@joshsigned2500]

@@Goatings I appreciate the edit clarification. This couple does not exist on a vacuum. Apologies for believing you were defending Eric.

[@amygray6645]

“I don’t know if I care” is WILD

[@abivander]

MY JAW HIT THE FLOOR 😭

[@brialltheway420]

The way you can tell it wasnt a joke but he says im joking to play it off 💀

[@athazagorab]

i don’t blame him at this point 😭 seems like he’s walking on eggshells around her

[@lisaspelarthesims]

Even as a "joke" it's insane.

[@juliannepierre]

@@lisaspelarthesims right bc even jokes can have hidden truth

[@lauralouisastorr]

I actually feel for Eric in this situation because hes walking on eggshells trying to not say the wrong things and hes actually trying to end the conversation because he knows shes sensitive about it but each time he tries to shut it down, she keeps trying to keep the conversation going!

[@desiraesherwood]

Fr I don’t honestly see what’s rude about him in this convo, he’s being blunt for sure but he’s just trying to end the convo asap 🤣

[@jennastewart7290]

Because she needs the last word. She has to "win" even though there is no prize. Him getting out before it turns into something worse is not considered a victory to her.

[@lauralouisastorr]

@jennastewart7290 my dads like that, wants to keep a conversation going at all costs just to enjoy the argument and some how in his mind prove that they're in the right about NOTHING! My absolute favourite is when he would eventually cut us off by saying "I already know what you're going to say" and I started just saying well conversations over then because you already know everything thats going to be said... Followed quickly by a well no, no, no, no 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Colleen is literally giving me those vibes! Hes trying to be sensitive and hes trying to end it and when someone ignores you over and over and over again... you do get to the point where you are like, I don't actually care about this topic that much. Let's move on now! I don't think he was doing it disrespectfully but I 100% agree its just Colleen just trying to get the last word in! Its also fine and healthy that partners have their own likes and dislikes! Yes, you are in a partnership but you're still an individual as well and its 100% ok to dislike something that they love to do because it can be a them thing as long as you don't be a dick about it! I wasn't picking up dickhead vibes from Eric, just frustrated wanting to end a conversation vibes as she wasn't letting it go even when he said he didn't want to really talk about it. (Just some feelings I kinda wanted to add as I commented before the end of the video)

[@joshsigned2500]

He’s still the jerk sleeping w Colleen while she was married, or is this a different dude?

[@lilastar7759]

@@joshsigned2500yes, him and the married wife who slept with another man while married r both in this video.

[@clandestinecoherence]

take a shot every time she says “that’s fine” and doesn’t mean it hahaha

[@diariodecaru]

i would be drunk 😂😂😂😂

[@dagnyholt8705]

this feels like being a kid and watching your friends parents fight

[@RebrandYourselfFor]

I've done that, it sucks lmaoo

[@melissafischer5892]

Josh is laughing knowing he dodged a bullet 😂😂

[@hydrogen3266]

“You don’t have to like it” proceeds to argue over why he’s wrong for not liking it “You don’t have to listen to it” but apparently she’s the one playing it for him to hear it all the time Ngl Adam, I think his frustration is warranted

[@starfiresreign]

I agree there's 31 songs each like close to 4 minutes long. I can't imagine 😭

[@froggsarecool29]

I also think erik is afraid to voice his opinion to her and that's the true issue here I think

[@Impericallyfrozen]

yeaaa

[@fatimaoubijjane326]

Exactly 😂 my husband and I don't share the same music taste and whenever I'm excited and he doesn't like it, I really don't care about it cause its not really that deep.

[@eliiivv]

25:31 bro, what in the world is this dynamic?? "you don't have to understand her brilliant lyrics" "yeah, enjoy your 30ish songs" "i will" "okay, can i do my job now?"😭😭💀

[@selfidolization]

I feel like Colleen strong arms him into doing a lot to cater her & this is where he’s finally drawing the line

[@annoyed_bimbo8104]

Full shade, i think the way colleen is being treated in this vid is the karma she deserves.

[@KDspookz]

Anyone else getting Ethan vs Trisha vibes? They're acting more like bitter inlaws than husband and wife Also the reason you wanna feel bad for Colleen is cause she's in her theatre mode, she's not going full colleen. Eric doesn't have that kind of practice at hiding his shittiness, that's probably why he seems worse, like how Josh always seemed like the worse one. Eric and Colleen are probably equally as shitty and passive aggressive to eachother

[@thaloblue]

Well said, although I think Trisha is far more unhinged than Colleen. Colleen is manipulative and likes to act stoic and mature once people are scrutinizing a situation, but behind all the cameras and closed doors I bet she acts like a damn toddler.

[@KDspookz]

@@thaloblue yea, I agree. I just meant the way her and Ethan acted the last time they were on camera together lol. But yea I garuntee how Eric Is acting isn't even the tip of the iceberg either, and I also garuntee the only reason she posted that video is to paint her as healthy, secure and confident and him as bitter, spiteful and passive aggressive. Which hey, he very well could be. But we know how colleen is so it kinda fills in the blanks

[@FabiolaRVela]

Yes! I was trying to figure out how to explain this, she’s acting nice , he’s probably found hard because he doesn’t get a chance to usually 😂😅

[@linger6666]

I agree, but it seems like he's hesitant to express how he really feels because of how she'll react

[@KDspookz]

@@linger6666 yea that's also very likely to be the case. Josh literally admitted that he was so stressed all the time from worrying about what to say or what not to say. He seems much more toxic than Josh but still in the realm of being heavily controlled by queen colleen

[@VampMedusa]

I dont think he's being an ass. As someone who has been married for a while, it sounds like he's walking on eggshells. Also, if she listens to it over and over and over...I'd be like "stop it, please." He sounds like he feels tortured. I couldn't listen to even ONE Taylor Swift song, let alone all damn day.🤘🏻💀

[@zoar5768]

Lol that's a lil dramatic, no ? Like u cant listen to even one song lmao u must really hate her music more than I ever hated any music. Like there's no genre where I can't sit through one tiny song. Honestly kinda funny if ur being forreal.

[@PGOuma]

But what if YOU were obsessed with a certain artist that your partner hated? How would you handle it? Just ALWAYS wearing headphones 24/7? This is why I can't date someone who doesn't have my music taste 🤣🤣🤣

[@VampMedusa]

@@zoar5768 I listen to rock and metal, so I truly have zero interest in her. It's not dramatic. It's just the truth.

[@VampMedusa]

@PGOuma Yes, I'd wear my earbuds. Luckily, my husband and I enjoy the same music, so I don't have to worry about our music taste clashing.

[@chaotic.tired.goblin.]

@@VampMedusareading the dipshit replies to your original comment, I fear common courtesy is about to die out if it isn’t already dead 😬

[@pressley0108]

He was definitely coming off harsh, and the argument between them is just embarrassing, but I see his point that he’s going to know the music even though he’s not searching for it. I’m not a swifty, but I’ve heard her songs because my friends like them, on the radio, in stores when shopping, etc.

[@huwenacaires6443]

"You say you don't have to listen to it, but, I kinda doooo" I SCREAMED 🤣🤣🤣

[@TragicTayla]

My husband LOOOOVES metal, in most of its varieties. He even calls himself a metal head. But; he knows that style of music can be triggering for me (since I grew up in a very violent and emotionally neglectful household), so he just simply doesn’t listen to it on full blast when we are around each other. It’s all about figuring out balance around each other and making it safe to say, “Hey.. I know you love this kind of music, but could we find something that works for both of us?” This just gave me so much ick. I can’t believe they just willing put this out there.

[@crazyslothlady419]

Adam you need to go watch the podcast episode of Colleen in the blue dress. They argue about the musical Rent and it results in Erik telling her to not scream at him. She is absolutely abusive to him and they definitely hate each other .

[@googliebear8]

She used to yell at Joshua and always hit him with little smacks…. I’m sure she’s still the same

[@crazyslothlady419]

@@googliebear8 oh 100%

[@thaloblue]

She will never be happy with any man because she is the source of her relationships going to shit. If the man isn't a vulnerable child she gets irritated with their free will and critical thinking skills. My mother is similar. I don't talk to that bitch any more lol.

[@JSouBK]

Ahh I wonder if this episode you describe is a better illustration of the tension people are picking up on here. I didn’t find this Taylor Swift convo to be very intense, to me it’s kinda whatever lol.

[@crazyslothlady419]

@@JSouBK this episode is definitely a good explanation of the passive aggressiveness and you can definitely see it in this episode. But I agree I think the other one might be a better demonstration.

[@epohmp4]

They sound like me talking to a stranger who is being condesending yet they're doing it to each other.

[@harmonydesroches]

My take: They aren't hearing each other. Also, it's ok for couples to not enjoy the same things. Sure, you should put forth an effort because you care about your partner, but it's totally healthy to have different interests.

[@briannajohn6930]

Why does she care so much about how he feels about taylor swift 😂 like why is this even an argument.... the fact she is almost 40 years old with children and she is this obsessed with a celebrity that it is a legit argument with your spouse is crazy to me 😂

[@briannajohn6930]

And he shouldn't be forced to listen to it just because it makes her happy. She can listen to it on her own time. When my husband and I are in the car or listening to music together we listen to music we both can agree on. I hate rap so he knows not to turn it on and he doesn't wanna listen to Britney spears and that's OK lol.

[@wonhur885]

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[@MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb]

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[@MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jb]

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[@wonhur885]

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[@lilastar7759]

@@MalcolmM.Stanton-hy4jbno one cares

[@emonlorman-buttar2913]

Not even halfway through the video and this is already giving me Shane and Ryland vibes

[@pressley0108]

Definitely!!!

[@priscillareshell4062]

Exactly and Colleen is the famale Shane

[@thatgirlbrinna7927]

@@priscillareshell4062😂😂😂

[@FabiolaRVela]

Omg yes 😂

[@thaloblue]

YES! OMG

[@yup8166]

Honestly I would be so upset if my partner was walking around the house with their music on a speaker. Use headphones. I use headphones. You use headphones.

[@Djimenez_]

If we’re cleaning my husband and I both use headphone to listen to different things! Super simple to do and no one gets annoyed 😂

[@luhe8]

this!!! silence is so incredibly rare nowadays and noise is unescapable. if i don't wanna see something, i can close my eyes or look away. but if i don't wanna listen to something i phisically cannot do anything. have some decency and use headphones!

[@yup8166]

@@Djimenez_ it’s so much easier that way. When I’m in the car I always let whoever is driving to use the speaker. I just simply pop in my headphones. Everyone controls their music and there’s no complaining 🤷🏻‍♀️ Couples really need to choose their battles. And arguing with my partner over music isn’t gonna be one of my battles.

[@Tati_ab]

Not to defend her husband, I don't even know his name, but my boyfriend and I have similar music taste but some that are vastly different and we do tend to walk around with headphones in just out of like respect. Which clearly they don't have for each other so there's that.

[@desiraesherwood]

I don’t even think he cares! I think he was just saying that in response to her saying “you don’t have to listen to it” lol

[@beth24421]

Eric seems on edge the whole time. like he is asking "please don't attack me" .

[@fantastichermit5]

The icing on the cake is how Josh is constantly praising and so proud of his wife and the way they connect on their love for music.

[@eliiivv]

as an annoying swiftie, when my bf told me that he doesn't like taylor i was like, "okay"? because IT'S FINE?? we just dropped it, my god😭 why are they doing such a big deal AND a podcast about it, their dynamic is so weird

[@kaitlynmorgan4613]

fr normal ppl dont care this much about someone being neutral or disliking something they like. if someone said they didnt like death note 1. ill think theyre crazy lmfao but 2. i wont care overall; anime isnt for everyone (even if it is a good show) bc the visuals arent captivating to them, maybe the voice acting is way different to what theyre used to, they hate tropes (we all do though 😭😭), etc. and 3. im not gonna be mAD if someone doesnt like death note, like ??

[@e.a.4531]

this was my biggest critique like she keeps saying it’s fine he doesn’t like it (passive aggressive) but then comes out with a bulleted list to argue why his opinion is incorrect….. like girl he just doesn’t like taylor swift and that’s ok. maybe that’s why he’s so pissed off about her playing it and singing it all the time because maybe she like forces it on him or something? idk just pure speculation. or maybe they’re both just exhausted parents having relationship struggles and both need to recoup for the sake of their marriage and the kids. or maybe all of the above lol

[@thaloblue]

They're both emotionally 14.

[@skyelorspacex]

We don’t claim Colleen as a swiftie right I can’t be the only one surely

[@AllysonKing]

Same here!! I’m obsessed with her but if you don’t like her fine. Now if your being mysognistic or etc then I’ll say something but otherwise taste is different

[@dreamincolor14]

The Toxic Marriage Train, chugging down the tracks to Separation Station!

[@lynzigolembiewski8039]

Yo that’s so good

[@dreamincolor14]

@@lynzigolembiewski8039 hahahaha thanks

[@armygirl85fuckhitler74]

It stops at the Pedophile Platform 😂

[@Ashbrash1998]

This is literally the vibe of going to your friend's house and listening to their parents "argue" but also "not argue". Like they think it's not an argument because they're not yelling, insulting and putting up a "I'm not angry" front. ANd instead of just dropping the conversation they just keep going on and on and on.

[@luhe8]

i disagree about the headphones part. people SHOULD listen to anything with headphones if there's other people around. your interests are not universal and silence is fundamental.

[@TheOddz_]

I didn’t seen her husband coming off as an asshole. It seems like he was trying to be careful what he says so she doesn’t spin it and escalate the fight 😅

[@liesbeneathoureyes]

The fact that Colleen and her husband are having this horrible uncomfortable “discussion”/argument while sitting in front of the same infamous backdrop from the “Toxic Gossip Train” video is just *chefs kiss* 💀🫣 so jarring but fitting at the same time

[@rachelotremba8100]

Oh yikes I didn't even realize that 😬😳

[@laurengibbs6940]

I noticed that too 😭

[@Iuxinterior]

my theory is that she does this with things he likes, nitpicks and drags it out so he’s doing it back at her over taylor swift. she seems like the type to drag him for his interests then get defensive when he does the same back

[@liveyourlife510]

She definitely does! Back when I was still a subscriber of her, she was always shitting on Erik and his interests on the podcast. It was constant bickering, seems it still is, except extra passive aggressive these days.

[@anissastoke]

“eugh i feel like a marriage counselor rn, which i was for her btw” GOOOOOOODBYEEEE

[@paige_1234]

the way eric like hid himself when he said it at the start bc he expected colleen to go crazy at him😭

[@krystalwithak2889]

I don't get how adam thinks colleens husband is being so called " rude" and a "dick". Hes literally just saying that he doesn't like taylor swift and didnt like her last album. Which is perfectly ok, and its clearly colleen that has a issue with that. And it would also be courteous to put headphones in when your listening to music knowing your spouse may not wanna hear the music or doesnt like it. That's called respect, and also when colleen was saying that it was ok for eric to say he didnt like Taylor swift but it wasnt ok for him to say the music sucked or it wasnt music....i just find that weird because both would have been his opinion. It's not that hard as a adult to say ok you dont like this but i do and i respect that. But there clearly isnt mutual respect between them.

[@steph15036]

agree! i think it’s so weird how he kept insisting that the husband is being so mean and rude to colleen. the clip literally just shows him saying “yeah u gotta cool it with the taylor swift lyrics all the time” and her saying “actually that’s the most disgusting and disrespectful thing you’ve ever said to me how dare you” ??? like yeah sure, saying “these aren’t songs” isn’t the nicest thing to say, but it really did not warrant this whole uncomfortable discussion. the only reason he kept bringing up that she listens to music out loud in the house and in the car is because she kept insisting that “you can dislike it that’s fine (it’s not) but then why are u listening to it with me??” lmao that’s why he was bringing up this taylor swift issue in the first place bc she is shoving it in his face and getting mad when he’s not sufficiently impressed.

[@krystalwithak2889]

@@steph15036 took the words right out my mouth lol

[@yazisAlright]

im happy to hear she's doing bad! 🥰

[@desiraesherwood]

😂😂😂😂😭

[@delusionalshawty]

she’s like 40 acting like 14 year old stan twt swiftie😭 also tbh don’t think he’s even being rude he’s probably just tired of being tied to a groomer

[@lapatti]

As a general rule, whenever someone apologises for something they've done, don't go "it's fine, whatever" like Colleen here. Acknowledge their apology and move on from there.

[@RJnottheraccoon]

Exactly!! Also he tried to end the conversation earlier because he could tell he had made her mad and then was just trying to express himself with out getting yelled at for it! (I’m not saying he is perfect, he was being a little bit rude especially with the “these arnt songs” but it seemed like everyone completely glossed over the fact that he asked her if he could join her because he was trying to take interest in what she likes!

[@megamovieman101]

I think I disagree with Adam on this. Like yeah, if someone really likes something, let them like it. But for example, my friend really loves a show that I REALLY don’t like, so I’ve asked not to hear about it. Like I’m totally cool with my friend enjoying it, and said they could talk to other friends about it, but for a while they insisted they share it with me in particular. I’m not gonna lie, it was annoying. Eventually they realized how much it had negatively affected our friendship, so they stopped. I feel like Eric’s in a similar situation where he’s constantly having things he’s not interested in shoved into his face.

[@litomario]

a thought about colleen asking erik why he's listening to music he doesn't like and erik saying that colleen is walking around in their home without using earphones/headphones it doesn't make sense that she's asking him that question when she's (in some way) forcing him to listen to it while they're both home at the same time like if he doesn't like it she could use headphones when she want to listen to it while in his presence or if she doesn't have a pair that works she either get it or she listens to it in a different room

[@meganjs]

“My issue is when people” aka my problem with you💀

[@trinitybernhardt9944]

I felt they were both so passive aggressive. She was like "ok, but what i don't get is people who hate her music who listen to it..." so he defended how he did by bringing up the fact she walks around listening to it. So i see them being equally 💩. I feel like if she was allowed to finish her statement i was expecting her to insult the haters. He could have just gone to bed without saying anything other than "goodnight" the night it came out. It did get worse as it went on. They should have dropped it when he first suggested dropping it. Toward the end i did feel she was trying harder than him.

[@mdkl73]

I dont think hes being rude, i think shes treating him like a doormat

[@rachelotremba8100]

THIS

[@mdkl73]

@@rachelotremba8100 like wtf else is he supposed to do as a host on his podcast besides share his opinion on the topic at hand? And she's just passively aggressively referring to him as a stereotypical group to completely dismiss him

[@sierrarobinson4447]

I have a feeling that Colleen makes everything about her in their lives. I know he's talked about how she can't sit still for a movie or commit to watching anything that's not like musicals or trashy TV. Which like to each their own but I think they are just deeply, deeply different people. I also wonder if she says shit about what he likes, off camera knowing how much of a bitch she can be

[@Gracie2245]

She can’t directly rely on minors to give her relationship advice, so now she posts for them lmfao

[@infjmale91]

This is your typical narcissist relationship. As they rarely change, this is what happens. They love bomb, then gaslight, then nag until they discard. This is the nagging stage until she gets bored & either discards or just is SO passive aggressive he leaves/cheats on her so she can be the victim. Very common with narcissist women. She needs to get hers all the time so if her partner isn't kissing her feet ALL the time she sees it as unacceptable (because narcissists are always right) so gets narcissistic rage.

[@mandik2050]

I’m in my early 30s married for 13 years, a mom and also a swiftie. My husband is NOT into her music. I listen to it in headphones as to not bug him with it but I do so with podcasts I listen to as well. He loves baseball. I don’t really care about sports. I say all this to say that despite our not having the same interests we still talk about these subjects. He listens to my Easter egg theories and I ask how his team is doing in baseball. There is a difference in having opposite hobbies and interests, and simply going out of your way to be rude to each other over said hobbies. The tension is high with these two.

[@leora_in_london]

Yessss!!! Love this! Ypu don't have to be into each other's interests, but if you're into each other, you'll want to listen to what makes the other light up

[@GreenEnvy.]

What are you Easter egg theories?

[@bootaytay]

My husband is not a swiftie, he doesn't find her music enjoyable & its just not for him... but you bet your ass he enjoys every second of me sitting as a passenger princess blasting TTPD & scream singing!! Why? Cuz he doesnt fucking hate me 😭😭

[@12bree4]

Fr!! You don’t have to enjoy everything your parter (or friend) like but you should be happy that they enjoy something. I love learning about people’s interests because it makes them so happy.

[@Spaced0ut000]

Poor guy lmao

[@Taylaaaaa562]

@@Spaced0ut000fr lmao 😂

[@holdmacat9932]

Just cus someone doesn't enjoy it, doesn't mean that person hates you you know?

[@holdmacat9932]

Sometimes I don't want to listen to my partners music, and him singing it in the car, and vice versa, it's normal not to be down for sometimes

[@olivero.5483]

i genuinely don’t feel like Eric is that in the wrong here. like he’s being passive aggressive at times but in all he’s just saying that he’s allowed to have an opinion on music he has to hear because it’s around him a lot

[@colleenwilson3896]

I don’t think he’s saying he doesn’t want to hang out with her. I think he’s just answering her point of “if you don’t like it, don’t listen” but she probably continuously plays the music, knowing he doesn’t like it. I wouldn’t force my husband to listen to something he doesn’t like.

[@knitwitchpgh]

I grew up in an emotionally abusive house with parents who dont like each other. This is how my parents fought in public. And i always knew there was a blow out waiting when we get home

[@leora_in_london]

Same!

[@supertrueblueful]

I need a marriage counselor to react to them 😭

[@eliiivv]

25:44 the "well, love you.." sounded SO forced😭

[@EmiIsHerexo]

It's giving "don't cut the brakes on my car, please" 😂

[@indesomniac]

In my experience, listening to your music without headphones in shared living spaces is generally regarded as rude if there’s other people also trying to use that space unless they’ve agreed to the music. I watch videos on my phone without headphones, but as soon as someone else is around I either turn it off or get headphones because it’s rude outside to pollute the group space with my videos audio.

[@megdiane]

AHHHH the way she’s so passive aggressive and the way he’s walking on eggshells with her reminds me SO MUCH of my relationship with my ex and I’m TRIGGERED

[@runa_7022]

im sorry but eric is allowed to hate taylor and have strong opinions/feelings about her. just cuz colleen likes it doesnt mean he has to lie about his feelings. like he was walking on EGGSHELLS, which makes me think colleen has 1000% yelled at him about this exact topic as a taylor swift hater, but a huge music consumer, i understand his feeling exactly! swifties over hype her lyrics and music to the point where its grating on the ears. but its so hard for people to criticise her because they will literally get mobbed- also colleen needs to understand that just cuz she has emotional connections to taylors music doesnt mean people cant hate it. if what hes saying is true, she knows he doesnt like it but she consistently forces it on him despite him clearly making it obvious - shes not in the right here AT ALL!!! if my friend told me they didnt like one of my faves i wouldnt force it on them cuz im a normal human being!!!!!

[@lovefool.99]

Colleen and even Adam here are only proving the point that Swifties are a toxic fandom and DO get crazy when people don’t like jt

[@hanzib31]

Even as a long time Taylor fan, swifties are nuts 😅 I've liked her music since 07 and have NEVER interacted with the fandom on social media as they even scare me. Even for someone that likes her music, you can't criticize even a tiny thing about her.

[@eliiivv]

15:41 the way they're being SO passively aggressive about this? i don't even want to imagine how they act with (real) bigger problems

[@jennamichelle5491]

"i dont like you playing that" "okay ill put earbuds in" "no no its fine" "its just i have to listen to it" "ill play it somewhere else" "nono its okay....... but i have to still listen to it"

[@anjaangell]

Exactly! She says he doesn't have to listen to it and he dismisses her

[@MaidenIron]

She’s a grownass woman crying about him not liking Taylor swift 🤣 I can’t

[@KeeHart]

If this is what they're like on camera, imagine their conversations off camera