Colors of Tobi: Being Transgender in Hungary

There is a tiny village in Hungary, where Éva and her family live. Her 16-year-old child recently came out as transgender and lives by his chosen name of Tobi. After the initial shock, the whole family comes together to support him.
However, Éva is quietly suffocating from the idea of losing the girl she was raising. Tobi is determined to become a man biologically, all while he struggles growing up. Éva is trying hard to be the mother her son needs, while Tobi starts questioning the boundaries he set up for himself as a transgender man.
'Colors of Tobi' is an emotional tale of releasing and accepting.
Director: Alexa Bakony

[@robbyg229]

Good job getting an unsubscribe from me

[@techcafe0]

adios, you won't be missed

[@DesaDonalba]

@@techcafe0 who cares what woke people will felt or not? ;D

[@dewetmaartens359]

Me too, I'm out.

[@DaStarrchild]

Werd we out

[@66kbm]

Ditto, ignore the fuckwits comments.

[@_ArsNova]

Sorry but gender is determined by genetics, not feelings.

[@danielbetancur1250]

Biology is, not gender. Read a book

[@DogratDavis]

​@danielbetancur1250 Gender is still fundamentally predicated on sex, otherwise, it would just be called aesthetics. You read a book.

[@teloiiv]

Biology, not genetics. Did you inherit your gender in your genes?

[@_ArsNova]

@@teloiiv Your gender, like every trait that determines who you are, stems from your DNA. I.e. your genetic makeup. I never claimed gender was hereditary.

[@user-wh2oy2ul1q]

This is not about feelings, it's identity. And also, gender is not determined by genetics, nonetheless.

[@Oz1991]

Narcism and obsession is what I see to be honest. Or am I crazy?

[@The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death]

No, you are ok!

[@purple6188]

Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

[@firstdirst5519]

@@purple6188 compliant that you use butplug to often

[@firstdirst5519]

@@purple6188 in name of god put boutplug out of your mouth

[@user-mp9rd4hg8b]

I thought this was Vice media for a minute there.

[@LacikaErdely94]

Bárki bármit próbál magyarázni ez nem normális dolog..... Valami valamikor nagyon félre ment gyermekkorban. Keressetek szakembert aki segít. Minden embert tisztelni kell de ez teljesen szembe megy az evolúcióval...... Sérült emberek ezek. Jobbulást kívánok nekük 🤘

[@purple6188]

Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

[@editkarpati6587]

Nagyon rendesek a szülők...! Csak még ne bánják ezek a gyerekek egyszer a nem átalakítását.

[@madmax6827]

Rendesek? Inkabb bolondok.

[@godzilladepressivo9]

A cara de decepção dos pais 😂

[@dylendog]

You can identify what ever but it doesn't change reality

[@purple6188]

Who's reality? God's?

[@dylendog]

@@purple6188 go milk a bull and see for yourself

[@purple6188]

@@dylendog Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

[@guacanememoya2045]

@@purple6188 Sounds like you're the one who's hurt, born in the wrong body perhaps? 🤡

[@valm9462]

Which is that transgender people are valid. and no not-see transphobe can change that reality.

[@muhammadshafi5084]

Not good for society

[@RabbitWatchShop]

Your hate isn’t good for society

[@okilydokily]

@@RabbitWatchShop Your brain is mush

[@RabbitWatchShop]

@@okilydokily replace “Your” with My, and you’ll have an accurate comment.

[@jule3480]

@@RabbitWatchShop. I don’t care what an adult chooses to be. But what has upset me as a women is elevating men identifying as women OVER women. I see it in sports, change rooms and bathrooms. Transgender women should not compete against biological women. The two sports men/ boys and women/gils exist because the male sex is physically stronger/ faster than females, end of story. The bathroom/ change room, I’ll just say I would NEVER choose to be in a state of vulnerability of being partially or fully undressed in an enclosed room with a strange man in such a setting. Especially as I have been physically assaulted by a man in my past. I wish people who call women against shared spaces “ transphobia “ would also consider that something like one in three women/girls have experienced some form of abuse and how it makes us feel.

[@RabbitWatchShop]

@@jule3480 I’m trans and 100 💯 percent agree with your statements, and often state all that in opposition to my own community.

[@DogratDavis]

Why do they all look, act, talk, and dress the same, no matter which country? It's almost like it's an internet based social contagion.

[@user-wh2oy2ul1q]

It's just because you don't know them in real life, people obviously avoid you if you're also acting such a netizen thing in real life

[@patrickmunneke8348]

That's exactly what it is. A social contagion.

[@deidresable]

Yep they all the same in every country

[@bahrom942]

​@@user-wh2oy2ul1qoh mate wait till pride Month, you see weirdos walking with stupid dresses even naked.

[@purple6188]

Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

[@eefjeharings9692]

all the snowflakes in the comment section are so offended when someone just wants to live his life

[@bahrom942]

Not just living, they are contagious, these tiny minority being pushed in media, turn on TV, most likely you gonna see gay parents or non binary person as main actors in films and even cartoons

[@purple6188]

@@bahrom942 I'll bet you can condense your comment to 2 words or less and still get your opinion out there for others to read. Give it a try.

[@dionysise5008]

Being a clown 🤡

[@valm9462]

tsphobes be like

[@eeweeweew]

This film is from 2021, and most of it seems to be filmed before 2020. It got way worse since then, I hope he is doing well!

[@teloiiv]

I don't understand why some transgender people get upset so easily, not understanding that people have to get used to it. When in 17:43 Tobi is upset because his mom called him "Jazmin" is inlogical to me. They were clearly talking about a situation that happened in the past, so it was normal for his mom to say "we used to say Jazmin, not it" because then it was in fact, Jazmin. Parents also have to deal with a lot when their child is changing their whole appearance, name and getting a sex change when they were living years with a whole different person

[@DogratDavis]

It's because this is about power and attention. These people don't actually believe they are the opposite gender.

[@teloiiv]

@@DogratDavis I believe some people really feel like other gender, a friend of mine is trans as well, but he acts normally, but I do agree about attention when it comes to some people

[@user-wh2oy2ul1q]

​@@DogratDavisplease learn science and biology, how your gender identity and body has been developed. Gender and human biology is very complicated, and trans, enby, genderqueer, or such is very legit thing in terms of science

[@MikasTinyLife]

As a transman, I NEVER got upset. These things take time. People around me got scared when they accidentally did it wrong and were so surprised when I wasn't mad. I'm on hormones now, and it has never happened since as I now pass and look completely male

[@Kiz-0]

Because being called your old name or gender is physically painful. it may not seem like it but it feels like being stabbed in the chest. on top of the depressive state.

[@The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death]

This is clinic case, need a doctor. Parents suffer.. but this human simply playing with them. Narcism on high level.

[@purple6188]

Why the muddled word salad?

[@valm9462]

transphobia is the new not-see-zem. it actually is part of the not-see ideology. Narcism on high level indeed, check yourself notsee transphobe

[@kopisatu14482]

Wow 🤭

[@TAKEALONGLINE.]

Walking Fairy Floss. 😅

[@valm9462]

Oh no, someone with colored hair. :O

[@ShellyGODS-CHILD]

Colors of Legions

[@lotuspocus76312]

I was waiting for a physical change of Tobi due to male hormones...but I only see a female wearing oversized clothes - who has got a name and sex change on documents. I work with someone who is a male now and was a female before. Very nice dude. Its just....the dude I work with takes hormones and has a beard.

[@valm9462]

I mean, that's a child and thats how it starts. reversable things first, to see if you really want that.

[@zsuzsannabarna8028]

Köszönöm szépen hogy megfilmesitettèk

[@thecognitivedissonant3606]

Nobody is asking what the common factors are among these youth that might be causing the body-brain disconnect and mismatch in self-perception. Is it chemical, hormonal, societal, injections, there is more to this phenomena. Individually they perceive it as their unique truth, but the statistics are alarming. On reddit alone there are more than 30k "detransitioners" who suffer varying degrees of permanent changes and other sorts of harm by what is happening. 😢 They need compassion and for us to fight to protect and help them

[@purple6188]

Why the muddled word salad?

[@aguianegra2752]

As cores do toba: pseudociência na Hungria

[@user-zy7kn6ep1o]

Сколько живут такие люди после тотальной операции?

[@purple6188]

Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

[@valm9462]

Well I had mine about 8 years ago, but I waited long. I live as female for like 15 years. But it depends, girl.

[@The_will_of_Ukraine_or_death]

Only♀️and ♂️

[@jededge]

such a small minority of people forcing there views on children , telling my kids to be gay is ok, straight is great, keep your views to yourself

[@bahrom942]

The reason they target on our children is because they can't have any.

[@purple6188]

@@bahrom942 Who's 'They'?

[@romans1450]

@@purple6188 You know and you're shaking, everyone knows "they" degenerate societies.

[@guacanememoya2045]

@@purple6188 🤡

[@valm9462]

yes, the not-see minority, as usual harassing lgbt people.

[@babayaga8514]

I'm just reading these mean comments and keep thinking about one thing: are you guys okay? So much hate from ppl who are not well-educated on the topic. Trans people don't hate on anyone, so why would you? Btw I used to know Tobi for a short time when we were in the same high school and he is a good person with a big heart.

[@semedrisstouda4676]

كان ذو زوك كبير

[@DogratDavis]

"Well educated on the topic" is just code for indoctrinated on this topic. There is no actual education to be had on gender. Transgenderism is a cult centered around queer aesthetics. And yes, all they do is go on the internet and hate.

[@mikeymike1981]

So saying what you don’t agree with is hate? No body wished any hurt on him.

[@user-wh2oy2ul1q]

​@@mikeymike1981Okay because you are on behalf of everybody

[@eeweeweew]

Do you know how he is doing now? This film is from 2021 and I am worried for any transgender person still living in Hungary.

[@Prod_Edits1]

A Tobi não conseguiu mudar de nome, que tragédia 😭😭🤧🎉

[@purple6188]

Wounded Victim Department. What's your complaint?

[@tyrondeklerk8489]

my eyes aaaaargggggggggg my eyes

[@user-lj4nj6hq6z]

В ПЕЧЬ!

[@purple6188]

После Вас!

[@user-lj4nj6hq6z]

@@purple6188 НЕ ДОЖДЕШЬСЯ.

[@purple6188]

@@user-lj4nj6hq6z Жертва Отдел. На что вы жалуетесь?

[@liledionbrown8507]

Amazing family !!!! 😍 communication is the key to understanding !!! Thats evolution !!! LOVE AND RESPECT ✌🏼 So sad and pathetic to read hatefull comments …. Those people have no f****king lives !! I hope those haters dont have kids because ignorance is one hell of a problem espacially when its transmited from the familly !!

[@guacanememoya2045]

What about love and respect to a different opinion?

[@purple6188]

Very good documentary. Tobi is a nice young man. He's got really good parents. Cherish them as long as you can. Once they're gone, the world becomes a very lonely place. Oh, anyone with a "just my opinion" bag of words that attack, belittle, dehumanize and outright call for voilence, hatred, intolorance or you "have some advice", just keep it to yourself. Pray to God for you and your love ones. Focus on becoming the best possible human being you can be. Earn your place in heaven. Prove to God you deserve to be there.

[@DogratDavis]

It's very telling that you cleverly try to equate anyone who dares to voice an opinion on a social movement with calling for violence by lumping all those categories together. You should work on your own intolerance of diversity, and your own relationship with God.

[@purple6188]

@@DogratDavis We know each other so well. God and I see your hatred for Tobi and his family. You see God and me as purveyers of acceptence. Heaven is not for you.

[@romans1450]

@@purple6188 Psalm 139:21 King James Version 21 Do not I hate them, O Lord, that hate thee? and am not I grieved with those that rise up against thee? No one "Earns heaven" false preacher with a malicious cloak of "love". No ones proves to God that they deserve to be there, we were all sinners saved by Jesus by faith. You mistake love for tolerance very dangerous teaching, not everything goes. Who are you to say heaven is not for him, if he trust in Jesus Christs finished work on the cross + nothing - nothing he is saved. Pharisee. Also Deuteronomy 22:5 King James Version 5 The woman shall not wear that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment: for all that do so are unto the Lord thy God.

[@purple6188]

@@romans1450 Do me and God a favor. Keep your opinions to 1 word or less. Your muddled word salad doesn't say anything intelligible.

[@dunciukasas]

Image being a dad and leaving this as your legacy after you are gone. hahaha

[@simpletownworx]

Always here. Always will be! ❤🏳️‍⚧️

[@user-wm2zy5nk1i]

Расчеловечевание подростков, все это от сатаны

[@purple6188]

Satan isn't real.

[@dylendog]

@@purple6188 keep going and thinking that way and sure you'll know

[@purple6188]

​@@dylendog Are you threatening me DylenDoggieStyle? Next time, keep your hate-filled comments to 2 words or less. Your opinions don't stand for much anyway. DylenDoggieStyle, you need to update your moniker. LOL. Peace.

[@flora9069]

Its nice to see supportive loving parents 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈

[@dionysise5008]

Criminals

[@flora9069]

@@dionysise5008 you're a bigot!

[@firstdirst5519]

failed parents

[@patrickmunneke8348]

It's child abuse

[@anasyare5815]

Good Documentary

[@Tata-gx3ni]

мама терпения и еще раз терпения!! с таким чудом а чуду надо психиатора и голову лечить

[@user-hi1et2tb5u]

I think what happen is we are the oppesite sex in our last lives and still hold on to the association.

[@DogratDavis]

The same people who make fun of religion and praying to flying Spaghetti monsters all suddenly treat gender like it's a supernatural force and believe in souls and past lives

[@user-hi1et2tb5u]

@@DogratDavis Religion is a form of control,I believe in God but not Bullshit from man.I barely trust my self TBH.

[@firstdirst5519]

weak shit

[@kissdani1911]

Egy lányt vesztettünk el a woke miatt!!! Mindet ki fogom írtani!!!! Nemzetiszocialista Magyarországot!!!!!

[@harisfadiell269]

Az egyik legundorítóbb dokumentumfilm, nem érdemes megnézni azoknak, akiknek még egészséges az agya 🤮🤮

[@peterpresser8151]

This is the worst documentary i ever watched 👎🏼

[@user-wn8ot8gt6c]

انحرافكم شيئ مقزز فعلا

[@pterks911]

🤮🤮

[@israel_started_it_ALL_in_1948]

oh. ok

[@luca_mos]

🤡🤡🤡🤡