Come along with me as I try dating again after divorce 😳 what a mess

[@vasseurbeauty]

do we like this idea for a series?! ✨ALSO Try Ritual for 40% OFF, their best deal of the year www.ritual.com/BRITTV-40

[@PrimetimeKCL]

I thought you were dating someone? But more power to you!! I think all of your ideas were fantastic! 🙌🏻

[@idrenar4660]

Where can I get that lantern in the back of you!

[@Kittyheavenwith21cats]

​@@PrimetimeKCLya what happened to the guy you were dating, did you guys loose interest?

[@sarachapman972]

I love your content! Do you have a link for the red light therapy mask?

[@gabrielleg.1347]

I absolutely love this series and love what a growth mindset you have! You are such a positive influence in the KZbin space!

[@jenmarie115]

Being content alone is KEY! A partner as the “cherry on top” is exactly how I felt when I started dating my husband. If they don’t make your life better, it’s not worth it.

[@sheilasheila2709]

EXACTLY!

[@arlenehynes4607]

YES!!!

[@kathyrobertson4493]

You have to get happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else.

[@acl8857]

First trick is, don’t allow disrespect. Dont let little things slide early on, because little things become big things after time. If you’re not afraid to be alone, you won’t put up with any disrespect whatsoever.

[@TracyCampanella]

Facts

[@melindasmith3713]

Or learn to let go , imhere 27 to 30 yrs later . Kids are not gonna improve yous. You may separate well together , ßeems beat

[@vasseurbeauty]

YES!!! And to not allow disrespect I have to have better self esteem because that's why I've allowed so much mistreatment

[@melindasmith3713]

@@vasseurbeauty the kids could have waited . But they didn't. This world changed because mothers couldn't handle it . I'm married in Nov 7 ,1999. Second child on they way with 1 man . Who was marries b4 me ... I had 2 kids . Boy 26 married it tech . Girl what ever she wants at 24 . Weilding degree and married . Both straight married , no kids .

[@vibekes2416]

So true 😊

[@donnaatteberry3640]

I’m astounded. You’re beautiful, smart, articulate, and successful. Yet, you have low self esteem and you’re willing to share that struggle with us. This video is eye opening. Thank you. ❤

[@theresiatull2928]

It’s a common trend that influencers have low self esteem. That’s why they are influencers as they crave that validation yet it’ll never be enough til they fully heal themselves

[@JennyMarsala]

Dear Brittany, I’ve been watching your videos for a few years and I really admire you and everything you’ve build up on your channel and your career. I’ve learned a lot from you and I’m really grateful for that. You are a first class lady. Please protect your private life as good as you can. I will pray that the right man will come into your life so you don’t need to date a lot of men or have these horrible experiences you heard of. You deserve better especially after what you went through. I wish for you to truly thrive in your career, bring amazing products to the market, and for your brand to become a timeless classic (which, in my eyes, it already is). I will support you along the way. All my love from Los Angeles, Jenny ❤

[@vasseurbeauty]

thanks so much for the support. In all honesty I think I will end up single and happy but kind of just doing this for fun and to keep life interesting

[@AP-hh2ki]

​@vasseurbeauty Life is always better with a partner, BUT getting someone who is passionate about you and loyal that you're attracted to and feel the same about is very difficult to find. Am getting pretty content with my fantasy romance books and my two cats. Haven't been disappointed yet 😂

[@ShellyBomb]

​@@vasseurbeauty🥰 ~ Hello Beautiful: I'm confused, I thought you WERE dating someone special? Maybe you stopped seeing one another, if so - sending you a big hug from San Diego ❣️

[@nelidaflores1286]

You have children to raise, do not bring anyone to your home, whomever you date, make sure it's out of your house , protect your sacred home❤blessings. Hope the best for you. You're a lovely person and deserve all the best.

[@Godsdevine777]

I would 🙏about every prospect because you have kids and it can be dangerous.I would suggest a baby sitter so he doesn’t have to be near your home ..You need to heal yourself first take your time don’t rush the process…🙏☺️

[@JustSheilz]

THIS!

[@JanineMandera]

I’m with you your kids, your. Kids, your kids

[@stoutie18]

All of this ☝️

[@ingridmartin7986]

She's said in previous videos that she wouldn't bring anyone into her home or around her kids.

[@Indo_chef]

I met my wife when I wasn’t looking. That’s when you meet all the best people that are off your radar. We both watch your channel. There are a few different britney’s that we’re subscribed to. You’re “the elegant one with beautiful hair” 💇‍♀️ Good vibes are heading your way.

[@wilddaisies1067]

I loved this

[@VonkariusLevy-y8s]

Hey Tiffany

[@nancyglezhdez]

Don’t sleep with them at all the first 3 months. You will get attached and by the time they start to show their real character you’ll ignore the red flags. Stay dating and let them show you who they are. If they dip before you both start having s*x then that means he wasn’t interested in you! Read ACT LIKE A LADY THINK LIKE A MAN

[@vasseurbeauty]

YESSSS 1000%

[@Trish-.]

Yes! That's Steve Harvey's book. It has excellent advice!

[@melindasmith3713]

That's control , married same man 28 yrs

[@hollyj2925]

Love Steve Harvey’s book!

[@allie9462]

3 months is not enough time to see a man’s true character. However, if you’re not religious it’s good to wait at least 4 seasons to get to know each other in many different situations.

[@stars_for_night_lights]

My biggest dating lesson, is that we teach people how to treat us. I'm staying single, but if you're out there dating, remember this!

[@CocoNicole84]

💯💯

[@trishpipkins]

So true! And we need to normalize being single. Not everyone needs to be in a relationship. For all my single sisters out there: I've got your back!

[@adriannamartinez8513]

I personally believe in staying single especially after a big breakup. It’s better to fully heal yourself first before trying to find someone else. You don’t need a significant other to make you feel whole or complete. You should feel whole on your own. I wish you the best on your search and I pray you find a good guy who will treat you right. Just don’t rush into anything.

[@coffeegirl918]

I am enjoying living without the narcissist. Still healing from being controlled and getting to know myself, that takes years. I feel free being on my own, I love being single and not dating. Especially when my friends complain about their spouses. Learn to love yourself as you are, not the person you are when you are with someone.

[@sarahallysonchey]

You have no idea how happy I am to see you do this segment. Navigating single life again after the worst heartbreak I’ve ever had and it feels really lonely as everyone I know is in a committed relationship. Rooting for you Brittany! We got this 🖤🖤

[@dianeo]

Keep in mind not everything you see out there is as peachy-keen as it seems. I know many people who seem so happy, smiley, loving and cuddly (in real life and online) yet have threatened to divorce one another in private. People are so hung up on the perfect image to project, yet it's not really so.

[@CocoNicole84]

💯❤

[@stefanieyeoman3686]

I’m so excited for this! I am newly separated and love the idea of having a full and happy life myself before adding anyone else.

[@melindasmith3713]

What was the reason ? As I'm a married woman , who always thought of the kids . 48 and kids married at 24 and 26 , had no kids lol. You must give up on you

[@Brittanybavery]

As a therapist, I will say those things you want to unpack are really great for unpacking during therapy with someone you can be 100% honest with. Those are really big things that deserve your attention but can be really destabilizing or upsetting to unpack alone.

[@hollyj2925]

Same!! Anxious attachment style. I don’t date at all! Been single for many years. I’m happy alone. I’ve got more confidence now. Especially as I’m 58 and my kids are young adults. I’m ok being alone. If someone comes along then great if not I’ll be fine. I’m really excited for this series. Much love, Holly❤definitely interested in face taping!

[@olgasantiago-agirlfriendsguide]

❤same.😊

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

Fantastic video My five-year relationship ended a month ago. The decision to part ways with the love of my life is something that truly consumes me. Though it's all in vain, I've tried everything to get him back, and I can't fathom my life with anyone else. Even though I've made every effort to quit thinking about him, I can't help but miss him and can't stop thinking about him. Why I am stating this here is beyond me.

[@Allenwatts-y9n]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@Allenwatts-y9n]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@danielasiravo7001]

Wait a minute I thought she was dating someone?

[@megancraig8145]

I will never use a dating app again! I was raped on one date and a couple years later ended up marrying a man who was a bipolar 1, has IED and is a narcissist. I didn’t know what IED or narcissist was. Now I do. And I’ve watched too many love stories that started from a dating app and the woman was tragically murdered. Oh my word 100% could have been me! So, Brittany my advice to you is to stay off dating sites and apps! ❤️

[@justsomerabia8480]

Dating apps are terrible

[@semsem185]

​@@justsomerabia8480 I don't think all dating apps are terrible. I met my husband on one after my divorce and we're close to our 15th wedding anniversary. The thing we don't realize when joining dating apps is that you have to love yourself enough first so you don't date or choose dates out of desperation but also learn to recognize red flags long before you go out with a person,meet in public places, don't take strangers to your house etc until you know them better,the same way you would in person.

[@nsanenthembrane]

Watched a KZbin special on grace millane last night 😢

[@InshasChoice]

I'm really sorry 🫂🫂🫂🫂

[@AP-hh2ki]

This past year I've taken up reading and got me two cats, at 35, I feel that's all I need. There's nothing quite like stress free life, plus let's be real, men are better when they are in romance books....

[@CocoNicole84]

😂 true!

[@trishpipkins]

Cats are THE BEST.

[@sabine3769]

Agree

[@samanthaw1419]

That's true, the only man I date is Richard, he's just in my head..he's perfect. No need for anyone else 😁

[@lauramccollum5686]

I am really impressed with your level of self-awareness and your plan to move forward. Good for you! 🙌

[@michelleisplanning]

I’m a divorced girl and I’m now engaged to a wonderful man. I didn’t bring any guy until I was for sure he was the one. I told my son about him and I told him if he doesn’t like him, then I say bye-bye. My son loves him! He loves my son as well.

[@NeedMoreCoffeeOG]

Bless you for continuing to put your son first!!

[@RandomStoryTime02]

You are such a stunning person. I have needed help and worked on building my mind. Some psychologists define love as an emotion, but our emotions are fleeting. Instead of relying on fickle feelings, we should focus on building a strong and resilient mind. We can wake up feeling loved and confident, only to have a negative experience later that day that shatters our self-esteem. However, by cultivating a resilient mindset, we can weather any storm. We can trust ourselves to handle challenges and navigate difficult situations. The world is full of negativity, but our minds don't have to be one of them. By believing in ourselves, we can rise above adversity and emerge stronger. We love you and believe in you. Stay strong, and we are here for you.

[@mistymcclanahan1138]

Happiness with yourself first is so important. ❤

[@hl1046]

When I began casually dating a year after my divorce with two young children, it was only when they were with their father. Each date began as a few lunch dates at which point I could tell if there was any interest on my part - more often than not, it did not go further. For the three men (at different times and over a three year period) that I did see frequently, I learned a lot about myself and my interests.I also kept a journal detailing each one that included their profession, personality, pros and cons, how I felt being around them and whether they were good enough to be around my children. Doing so proved I was attracted to men like my ex-husband. Only one fit during that time and we dated off and on for a year, and it was that one that I regretted having introduced my children because they were distraught when it ended. So for the next four years, I did not date at all. It was completely unexpected, four years later, when I ended up meeting the man I eventually married twenty-one years ago. Be mindful of the cycle of different emotions following divorce, and it’s most important to make your children first priority and not involve them in fleeting romances. Sounds like you’re on the right track.

[@sarahs122]

I highly recommend the book "You're not enough... And that's okay!" I think we're constantly told that we need to love ourselves better in order to be happy, but this book really examines if we are actually happier relying on ourselves to find satisfaction. It asks the question: if my inner self is the source of discontentment and insecurity, how can it also be the solution?

[@84AnnieK]

Agreed!! Love ABS.

[@ALICIAMARTINEZ-wk1oz]

On my list! I’m sick of the shallow messages about self love that don’t bring into consideration those parts of ourselves we still need to embrace because they won’t change. Thanks for suggesting it!

[@mellejean1901]

Been chronically single since 2017. I’m your age just never married/kids. Have a lot of anxiety ( Especially around sating) & never any luck on the apps. I love this idea & want to improve myself. Looking forward to this series. You’re gorgeous inside & out & wish you the best! ❤❤❤

[@sarabara29]

Me too!!! I am a shell of my former self after getting my heart broken...it's just too scary sometimes out there, yet I still crave that high! Ugh

[@sandybell3369]

I have been following you for a long time now and I always, always find useful, heartfelt info that makes a diference in my life. Thank you for being so real and nice ❤ I am also trying to get out my comfort zone 😊

[@deborahjean7576]

My first husband definitely left me with low self esteem! Although afterward I found out that I was very deceived! I wish you a wonderful life!

[@drelizabethscott]

Brittany, I love this! I love that not only are you learning about yourself (and being so open to share with us, like about your attachment style--something that can really help so many people!) but that you're calling the process something fun (I love "Project Best Self" )and love that you're inspiring us all to have our own version of this, regardless of our relationship status. I love the lemonade you're making and sharing with the group 🥰

[@anicholeRL9861]

You’re so smart and the way you describe these ideas and techniques is not only easy to grasp, but intriguing. I’m married with children and we’ve been together for 15 yrs. I never knew I was an anxious attachment style or that my husband could occasionally be an avoidant. It is all so interesting and like you said, married or dating or single, these self-loving and self-improving techniques are adaptable and fulfilling all the way around. My husband would probably love it if I had something new going on or that I was learning about. My kids would probably love to see me eating healthier and exercising in bite-sized, obtainable ways. I would love to see my own body image improvement as I display myself in the best light. This is going to be a great series and honestly- you have always put out useful, helpful and creative content. ❤

[@B.Babbel]

You go girl! 🎉

[@sharonsnider9452]

I believe Brittany that once you open yourself up to saying that you are ready to date but don’t go searching someone will present themselves in your life. You are correct in be aware of what you would like in a man and also addressing where you can make simple changes as well. Self esteem is the big one and often narcissistic men are drawn to a woman like this so be careful. When something doesn’t sit right don’t waste time on it. Loved this blog and looking forward to more. I do see such a change in you though you are glowing and so much happier. 💕

[@Karen1234-]

In my experience, after getting out of a horrible relationship it was better to stay single and learn who you are by yourself. You will most likely only attract the wrong people right now. The right person will come along when you least expect it. Enjoy your freedom and your kids while they’re young, then grow way too fast

[@AlyssaG23]

Looking forward to this series! You have great tips about the avoidant guys and over correcting. Wish I had known those a few years ago..🙃

[@vasseurbeauty]

no one talks about it and it's so prevalent in the dating world!! I will share specific ways i've learned to spot them once I start actually dating

[@stefanielafoy]

I’m loving this! You’re doing great, you always have the best ideas. When you announced your divorce it was not too long after mine, so I have been able to relate with a lot of what you’ve been saying. I am currently in a relationship now but one thing that I did before and continue to do is take myself on a solo date. It’s fun and empowering! Keep being your amazing self and thank you for all of the inspiration along the way ❤

[@MyFreckledJourney]

You loving yourself enough to know what a healthy relationship looks like and what you deserve 👏🏻 as you said the person should be an added bonus to a full life and vice versa. 💜

[@Jennyfenty-n1b]

Great video, A month ago, my five-year relationship came to an end. I really can't stop thinking about the love of my life, who made the decision to leave me. I've done everything in my power to win him back, but it's all in vain, and I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I genuinely miss him and just can't stop thinking about him, even though I've tried my hardest to stop thinking about him. I'm not sure why I'm saying this here.

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

It's hard to say goodbye to someone you love; I experienced this when my 12-year relationship ended. However, I couldn't just let him go; instead, I tried everything to win him back. Eventually, I turned to a spiritual counsellor for assistance, and he was able to help me win him back.

[@Jennyfenty-n1b]

Interesting! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor, and how can I get in touch with him most effectively?

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@Nancy2551-g6i]

he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.

[@Jennyfenty-n1b]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤

[@95ireyna]

So excited for you. I barely started dating after the end of 23 years marriage 😢. I went for it and now I found a very special person.

[@gwenfrazier7027]

Yes! I’m excited for the series. I’m happily married now, but I’ve been there! I can help you spot a waste of time. 😊 I look forward to the journey. 💕

[@lannievast5094]

I love this idea of getting to love ourselves. I’m in a relationship, but I think all of us need more self-love. Thank you for always doing such a great video.

[@mavrick6499]

You said everything when you said that you want to be happy on your own and that a relationship would be the cherry on top. That’s such important wisdom. Sooo many young women think that they are nothing without a partner and latch on to the first man who gives them a second glance. And two kids and much heartbreak later they are alone waiting for another guy to come along. I wish you well on your journey to becoming whole, with or without someone else.

[@АннаМитрофанова-э1ь]

Dear Brittany, I wish you a lot of fun on this journey!❤

[@christywilcox3928]

Love the series, can’t wait for more.

[@samantha_budhu]

Looking forward to this series! Divorced after being together almost 16 years. One year of being alone and I’m ready to start dating! ❤

[@dena5558]

I love that you mentioned attachment style. I was on a mission after starting to heal from my divorce to ensure I could identify and take responsibility for my part and I learned a lot about attachment styles at that point. I worked through some courses with The Personal Development School and it was sooo good for me. Much love girl.

[@ms.ashleylaudo8838]

Love this series! Can't wait to come on this journey with you!

[@JuniperLynn789]

“Love your neighbor as yourself” - so true that we can’t love someone else well if we don’t love ourselves well!

[@tabitharamsay149]

Love the 3 month rule!!! I lived by this all through high-school and college age. You definitely know if the person is worth it after 3 months. The only person I ever dated longer then 3 months is my husband and I've been with him for 17 years.

[@reynaduarte7077]

Love this videos Britney because I'm going through de same process. Just start to finish 20+ years marriage it's have been the struggle for me. Thank you ❤

[@mjbl4tube]

This is so you! taking challenge and growing from it! Yay Brittany! you got this

[@aurora6920]

Such helpful advice! definitely agree to find how to self love and be content by yourself, to not rely on someone for happiness. I like how you made a clear path for yourself on how to achieve this so your don't feel lost. Any guy is lucky to go have you, but you need to put yourself first ❤

[@kennedymeow]

You’re glowing, Brittany. You look gorgeous. ❤

[@jpham3]

Need a make up routine video!! Love your eyeshadow

[@jeanettefujikawa]

Love that you are doing this series!!!

[@fatimahirani5441]

Your hair looks so good on you!!

[@annakout]

This sounds like such a fun series and im so excited for your face taping video because i need all the help in that department. Lol. I can’t figure out how to tape my face properly

[@vasseurbeauty]

I've been filming the process every day for almost a month its so interesting!!! Video will be up soon

[@oliviab3807]

Wait, weren’t you dating someone?

[@sophbee90]

Absolutely love this for you! Get back out there girl! Definitely appreciate your point on being your best self first. Can't wait to see the next one! ❤

[@BeautyWithIlythia]

Thank you so much for this video, I was meant to see it. I also just realized I have an anxious attachment style and am recovering from losing a relationship of 9 years. ❤

[@swrigley9861]

Great attitude and game plan, Brittany! Best of luck to you in recognizing the amazing woman that you already are. :)

[@evalynendungi]

I'm really happy for you in this new season. Looking forward to more of these videos.

[@kimharrison8816]

I love the comment you said about less makeup. You look beautiful....as always!

[@imeldagarza5278]

Thanks for the tips. I recently divorced and have been out of the dating scene for 20 yrs!! Currently working on myself.

[@dawnbritt870]

Love your new series! It’s so much fun. You look wonderful and so happy. Thanks for doing this, can’t wait to see what happens next. 💕

[@cindyprastien6957]

You have the most beautiful ragdoll cats ever. They need to be in a dedicated video. I'm in love with them!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@CatarinaFitensityWorkouts]

I'll be 38 in a few days and just let my ex (11 years younger than me) go after 6 months because he was being disrespectful and giving me stonewalling in every argument. It hurts like hell but it makes it very scary to go out there and find the right man.

[@jeanlow129]

Get the Audible book by Kamal Ravicant, Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It. It is an amazing book. When I went through my divorce, I realized that deep down I didn’t trust my judgment anymore in regards to relationships. After much reflection and self talk, I cast off that negative self doubt.

[@jackiedinh5326]

Hey Brittany!! I've also been watching and following for quite some time, and I know everyone has their own journey, but I'm surprised you have low self-esteem! You are AMAZING, and I get it you feel differently, but considering everything you've accomplished and are doing is AMAZING! We remind you all the time, but I get it. You need to accept yourself too. I hope you get there and see yourself the way we see you!

[@LovelyRedRubyRoses]

Thank you beautiful for sharing and you are absolutely correct when you say that you have to love yourself first in order to find the right person who will truly love you unconditionally. Personally I will be remaining single by choice and I will focus solely on improving myself and taking good care of my beautiful daughter and my loved ones as well because I have watched the news and heard the horror stories, as well as endured many awful events in my life to know that I choose the bear. I respect your choices beautiful and wish you all of the best but I do not want to ever date again, especially not a man. I feel as though I am ashes and I do not want to ever go through what I have been through ever again. I am healing and I hope it all works out well for you beautiful ❤️ sending much love 🥰

[@julia9557]

Your hair and skin looks stunning here ❤️🤗 I am also an introvert and love to just chill at home and stay in my comfort zone haha. Luckily I met my boyfriend on Instagram!

[@sheilasheila2709]

You are so pretty. Will you share your makeup brands and routine. Ugh, dating in this century is tough. I never remarried after my divorce in 1993!!

[@melindasmith3713]

Sad. Why did you end it ? Was it selfish ? Asking ? I've had more than enough , but it isn't worth it . Why ?

[@blueseptember2174]

You are spamming every comment. How about if someone is mistreated and cheated on they are allowed to divorce. They dont like it. Its not preferable. But they need peace my goodness. ​@melindasmith3713

[@sheilasheila2709]

@@melindasmith3713 I didn't end it! He left me with a toddler and married someone else. Sometimes we have no control.

[@marcyb6647]

Love this series idea!! ❤

[@melbamartinez8513]

You deserve the best!!! This series is a great opportunity😮 to learn to make changes in our lives. You are real and refreshing. But he way I'm following your self care plan. Gid bless you! Go fo it!!!!

[@karireyes6710]

Enjoying all styles of your videos!

[@marciamagalhaes6134]

Good luck, Brittany. You deserve the best and to be happy. And you will!

[@heathermoon3425]

I am going to have my daughter watch this. So true and so valuable! What is the relationship book you are reading again? Thank you Brittany. 🌸

[@Amy-faith67]

Great video!!! Can I get the info for the makeup palette you're using??? I love the colors!!! Keep the faith on dating... It's a rough world, but God will put the right one in your path at the right time!!!

[@ashleygrimm6950]

Love this video. This is such helpful life advice

[@chelsey231]

You are GLOWING✨😍❤️ stunning!

[@lisacoto6968]

Girl…. You need to write a book about this! Great content!!

[@starburst8675]

PLEASE LINK TO THE SPARKLE SNOW GLOBE THINGY

[@CupcakeFairy777]

Yass it so pretty 🤩

[@decemberclouds]

I love your list! I'm also divorced, but not interested in dating right now, and starting similar habits! My attachment style is fearful. I like listening to the Personal Development School even though it's more focused on romance. By the way, historically all corrections are overcorrections!

[@carolynknierim6848]

The best lesson, hands down for women is to deal with yourself first, be happy with yourself (and particularly BY yourself) and maybe good th8ngs will come.

[@roxette24]

I haven’t seen your videos in a while-until I went LOOKING for them the other day 😕 but quickly remembered why I adore you and you’re perspective ❤ as cliché as this might also sound-the right one will come along when you least expect it and aren’t looking. I used to roll my eyes when I heard something along those lines lol but after getting out of a very similar relationship as yours to my oldests dad, I was in my “independent… definitely,110% for sure, don’t need or want a man… I just wanna do my own thing” era” 😂 when my wrecking ball of the now husband came crash landing into my life and with the utmost confidence waited, persistently but respectfully. And well… that was like 8ish years ago 😂😂 so definitely a believer now of that “cliché” saying 😅

[@tiffanymartin2873]

You are adorable! I love this new series! 😊

[@CosmicKindness]

Make sure you ask important questions first time you meet them see them and look to see if you even like them and let them know you are innocently dating atm so he knows you have options. This helps the guy shift into a warrior King mode where he wants to reach for his queen because you're living your life and honest about it. Don't say your looking for a relationship because guys naturally do the opposite of what we say so play the game and it works much better. I'm doing this now that i remember that too😅😂😂

[@sarahmanning525]

Brittany you're an amazing person with finding and implementing ways to take care of yourself in mind ,body and soul.

[@Erica-wz8yv]

Looking forward to more dating after divorce videos as I’m in the same boat.

[@TheLorikate]

I just want to say that you already are the whole package darling! Ofcourse it’s always good to have a growth mindset and to be self aware, but you are! Another way of looking at it could be to sit back and enjoy the fruits of your own labour, enjoy you! You are so worthy of healthy love, so give it to yourself. I hope you find someone one day to build a life with, if that’s what you want. Sending much love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ValerieCorey-lo9ed]

Become the person you hope to be in a relationship, and you will attract a person of that caliber. Sadly, many women think they will become that person once they meet the love of their life and although you will continue to grow with the ideal partner, the ideal partner may not be attracted to you if you are not already striving to be your best when he meets you. You are so wise. Yes, go out and experience life and you will see yourself grow in a myriad of ways. We absolutely cannot know who we truly are or how we will handle what life throws at us if we are not out there having lots of different experiences with other people. Plus you will more likely meet someone with similar interests or attitude when you are out doing things you enjoy. Nothing lonelier than to be with someone you have very little in common with or the attraction has died. So hard! And if you are a people pleaser, be careful you do not make yourself wrong if/when you realize you are not happy and you want to end the relationship; pleasers have a hard time hurting others or feeling they have disappointed someone.

[@RachelTsTime]

I discovered I am a fearful avoidant!!! Reading about attachment styles helped me to grow SO MUCH this past year. Highly HIGHLY recommend a healthy dose of self reflection ❤ I’m single very intentionally for now as I navigate this after divorce life.

[@laurieclarkson9180]

How did you find out your attachment style? I'm starting to think I'm autistic or something. haha.. One guy told me "Loving you is like loving a tree" wtf..lol..

[@RotterStudios]

Good Luck and be careful!

[@alexwright4944]

I can so relate to your overcorrecting slection segment. I noticed that in my own dating history. My husband is the polar opposite of the last guy I dated before my husband. The last guy was rigid and particular while my husband is spontaneous and fun-loving. Thank goodness he also has several great qualities also!

[@kathleenangel8196]

Best course I ever did was “Becoming the One” changed my internal life and I was so different when I re-entered the dating scene

[@amandasplit]

I love you so much you are the most authentic KZbinr and happen to be leading a parallel life as me

[@hellototheworld]

Good luck with your next chapter wishing you all the happiness in tbe world.

[@Fashionista239]

I love this series! ☺️

[@Sereneandmiraclefreespirit]

I'm am now 63 going on 64 years old. After being abducted and extremely abused by the couple who raised me at a very young age, I've never been interested in dating nor relationship with anyone. I choose to be single & I embrace my introverted single life, & would never give it up for anyone.

[@blueelf217]

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[@josie4peace]

I'm so very sorry. I pray the Lord's peace and blessings for you. God loves you 💕

[@Sereneandmiraclefreespirit]

@josie4peace Thank you Jose. I truly appreciate your kind word's. I am a Christian too. God loves you too.

[@magicalenchantedvaycays]

I just want to say, your hair looked absolutely stunning in this video 😍. Lol.

[@blueelf217]

Been single for 5 years now and staying that way. :) I'm in my 40s though. Don't want kids, but if I did, I would keep the guy away from them until I've dated for at least a year. I trust no one. Being content and happy alone, I don't even want to date. Have never used dating apps. So if I meet someone, it will happen naturally, but I will stay living alone and he can have his space. Lol

[@aKYKJIAa]

Thanks for sharing this ❤

[@alyciahall1111]

I wish you all the best. Dating in your 40s sucks especially these days. The amount of men who just sleep with you and then ghost is ridiculous. Definitely stick to the 3 month rule. So smart

[@tquirkyt7118]

❤I’m so glad you e gotten to the place of working on not needing to be with someone. When I got there, found my person …together 20 years❤

[@michelesalter9564]

Looking forward to the face taping and what you think about it!